Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Jon-Arild Johannessen Leadership and communication Concepts, Contexts, and Tools Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com We Don’t reply in this website, you need to contact by email for all chapters Instant download. Just send email and get all chapters download. Get all Chapters For E-books Instant Download by email at etutorsource@gmail.com You can also order by WhatsApp https://api.whatsapp.com/send/?phone=%2B447507735190&text&type=ph one_number&app_absent=0 Send email or WhatsApp with complete Book title, Edition Number and Author Name. Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Leadership and Communication Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Jon-Arild Johannessen Leadership and Communication Concepts, Contexts, and Tools Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Preface In this book, we use the term leadership to refer to management, control and communication in social systems. The leadership perspective is related to information processes, visions, objectives, deviations and the re-establishment of the system’s course. In this book, we define communication by means of the following statement: Who says what to whom, through which channels and with what effect? Moreover, we describe, analyse and explore in depth the place of communication in leadership. A manager uses a great deal of time on communication, was one of the findings in Henry Mintzberg’s 1973 book The Nature of Managerial Work. A follow-up study 30 years later found that aspects of Mintzberg’s findings concerning managerial work were no longer relevant, but the level of communication had not diminished to any appreciable extent. We also use Mintzberg’s term case letters to exemplify some points in a description, analysis or to bring out a practical perspective. Case letter is a term Mintzberg uses for short reports, analyses and discussion of organizations, but which cannot be considered a full-fledged case study. Case letters can be understood as a case example, where you show different sides of a problem, a problem statement or a research question. A case letter elaborates on some aspects of a problem that you want to have illuminated from a certain point of view. With regard to a leader’s communications, it seems reasonable to say that information is the ‘glue’ that holds communication together. However, if too much ‘glue’ is used, the consequence is information overload, which hampers effective communication. If there is too little glue, individuals and entire organizations may find themselves in a pathological state of disorder, with people filling the information vacuum with rumours and gossip. Leadership communication can be involving and participatory, motivating colleagues to be creative and put in as much extra effort as is necessary. Leadership communication can also be power-based and patronizing. Such a style of communication will cause tensions and conflicts within an organization. In this book, we are interested in information and communication as part of a special type of interaction, namely situations where one wants to generate trust or influence. We have developed 26 case letters (case examples) and 17 practical exercises in Part I of the book. These case letters and exercises are directly linked to the topics v Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com vi Preface in the respective chapters. Both case letters and exercises are developed so that the reader (student) can deepen their understanding of the concepts and contexts that are elaborated in the chapter. In Part II, we develop six personal communication tools, and six personal coaching tools, with assignment to each of the coaching tools. In addition, we have developed 66 exercises to the six personal communication tools. Holstebro, Denmark Jon-Arild Johannessen Kristiania University College Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Contents Part I Communication in Leadership-Processes 1 Communication and Leadership . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Everyday Leadership Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Ignorance Seems to Be Institutionalized . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Communication—Conflict and Interpretation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Being Illiterate Is Not the Same as Not Being Able to Read . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Information and Messages . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: We Change Our Opinion When We Get New Information . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Hope Is a Waking Dream . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 3 3 3 4 2 Communication and Metaphors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Metaphors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 7 7 9 10 3 Requisite Variety . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims in this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . When You Don’t Greet a Colleague, You Objectify Him or Her . . . . . . Case Letter: Guinea Fowl Logic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Waving People Away as Though They Were Flies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Difference that Makes the Difference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 11 11 12 12 14 16 16 4 Where We Draw the Boundaries of a Problem Affects Our Perception of the Problem . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Contexts Create Meaning . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Patterns . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 19 19 19 4 4 5 5 5 6 vii Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com We Don’t reply in this website, you need to contact by email for all chapters Instant download. Just send email and get all chapters download. Get all Chapters For E-books Instant Download by email at etutorsource@gmail.com You can also order by WhatsApp https://api.whatsapp.com/send/?phone=%2B447507735190&text&type=ph one_number&app_absent=0 Send email or WhatsApp with complete Book title, Edition Number and Author Name. Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com viii 5 6 Contents Relevant Relationships . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Setting Boundaries . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Setting the Boundaries of a Problem Is No Trivial Matter . . . . . . . . . . . . Boundary Problem . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: What Is Our Goal? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20 20 20 21 22 22 23 The Context Sends Messages . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Context Influences the Action . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: The Context Guides Behaviour . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Context Constitutes the Psychological Framework . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Facts have a Greater Impact than the Truth . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If the Soup You Are Served Tastes Bad, Complain to the Cookbook Publisher . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Integrative Solutions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . When the Realities Change, I Change My Opinion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Names Mean Something . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Concepts Have Consequences . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Purpose of an Action Is Not Always Apparent Before the Action . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Agree on the Objective . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Consequences of Structuring Win–Win Situations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Methods for Developing Win–Win Situations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Expectation of a Cause Comes Before the Cause . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case letter: It Is Crucial Which Reference Point We Choose . . . . . . . . . . Prospect Theory . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25 25 25 25 26 26 Part and Whole in a Communicative Process . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Systemic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: the Tight Rope Walker . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If You Want Stability, You Should Focus on Change . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Patterns and Systemic Thinking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . When the Effect Becomes the Cause . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . When You Do the Opposite of What Is Expected, the Relationship Changes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: We are in the Business of Conceptual Constructions . . . . . Actions We Take in Order to Avoid Specific Results Often Produce What We Wanted to Avoid . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Looking Towards the Future with Optimism Because It Is an Echo from the Past . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35 35 35 36 36 36 36 27 27 27 28 28 29 29 29 30 31 31 32 32 33 37 38 39 40 Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Contents ix Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 41 41 7 ‘Aspect Seeing’ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Objective Reality Is Always Subjectively Interpreted . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What We Know Depends on Whom We Got to Know It from . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 43 43 45 45 46 8 Information Processes as Part of Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Smaller the Unit of Measurement Used to Measure a Coastline, the Longer the Coastline Becomes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Interpretation Is Different from What Is Interpreted . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What Is the Similarity Between a Fish and the Word ‘Fish’? . . . . . . . . . American Presidents: Lingo, Bingo, Dingo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47 47 Information Processes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What We Seek to Achieve Is Different from Why We Seek to Achieve It . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Information and Memory . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Thoughts Are Different from What We Are Thinking About . . . . . . . . . . Writing to Find Out What One Is Thinking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 53 10 Communication Strategies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims in this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . It’s What You Are Best at That Will Be Your Downfall . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Boundary of Culture Is Consistent with the Boundary of Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Irritation Can Lead to Better Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Creativity Involves Closing the Door to Memory . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Madness Is a State of Disconnection from Everything Other Than the Rational . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Create a Boundary, Then You Will Get Walled in . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Filling a Space with Nothing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . It Is Never Too Late to Have an Unhappy Childhood . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Seven Influencing Techniques in Communication Situations . . . . . . . . . . There Can Be No Order Without Disorder . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61 61 61 9 47 48 50 50 51 52 53 55 56 58 59 60 62 64 64 65 65 66 66 68 69 70 71 Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com x Contents 11 Influencing Techniques . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Without Differences, Nothing can be Created . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Linking Information in New Ways Can Generate Creativity . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: A Letter Home . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Creating Reciprocity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Obligation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Familiarity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Obedience . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: People Value What Is Scarce or Has Limited Availability . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Creativity Is Based on the Generation of Differences . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What Is the Difference Between Information and Misinformation? . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73 73 73 74 74 75 75 76 76 12 Alternative Communication Strategies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . A Mink Does Not Gain More Freedom by Being Moved to a Bigger Cage . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . We Perceive the World Backwards . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Numbers Are Different from Words, But They Become Words When They Are Spoken . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Change of Attitude . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Information’s Cognitive Value . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . There Is a Difference Between a Description and What it Describes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 83 83 13 The Pragmatics of Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . A Person Who Describes Something, Ignores Something Else . . . . . . . . Our Description of Something Will Always Be Different from the Thing We Describe . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Our Social Reality Differs from How We Describe It . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Illiteracy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Who Constructs Social Reality? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Reference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 91 91 91 14 Communication and Trust . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Predetermined Is Not the Same Thing as Predictable . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Authentic Meeting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What We Know Is Different from What Is Facts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95 95 95 97 98 77 77 78 80 81 83 85 85 86 86 87 88 90 92 93 93 93 94 94 Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Contents xi Invention Is Not the Same as Discovery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 100 Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 101 References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 102 15 Communication and Values . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Mastery Is Not the Same as Understanding . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Being Bigger Than Is Not the Same as Being the Thing That Is Bigger . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Difference Between Order and Disorder Is the Amount of Freedom We Give Them . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Borders Are Always Where Differences Can Be Seen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Reference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 103 103 103 16 The Effect of Being Positive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Local Links Generate Collective Behaviours . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: Changing Our Reaction to the Behaviour of Others . . . . . . The Future Determines the Present . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Case Letter: The Expectation of a Price Increase Leads to a Price Increase . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . An Unfamiliar System Will Be Described as Chaotic by the Ignorant . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . When We See that Something Is Happening, Then It Has Already Happened . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107 107 107 108 108 17 Communication and Punctuation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims in This Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . A Circle Becomes a Straight Line When Viewed on a Very Small Scale . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Breaking Patterns Creates Change . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Sociological Laws Arise When We Distinguish Between Intention and Behaviour . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 113 113 104 104 104 105 106 109 109 109 110 111 113 115 116 116 118 Part II Personal Communication Tools 18 Personal Strategies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims in this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Tools for Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Self-Management . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Reference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123 123 123 125 128 Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com xii Contents 19 Communication and Personal Change Skills . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Feedback and Flexibility as a Basis for Change . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . To Give Feedback . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . To Receive Feedback . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Integrating Feedback into Behaviour . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Intention and Communication as a Basis for Change . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Behaviour Pattern as a Basis for Change . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Our Mental Models . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Our Mental State . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Our Relationships with Others . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Personal Communication Coaching Tools: Perspective Analysis . . . . . . Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Reference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 129 129 129 130 130 130 131 133 133 134 134 135 137 137 138 20 Communication and Personal Achievements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Assumptions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Development of Top Performance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Personal Communication Coaching Tools: Future Images . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 139 139 139 142 144 148 149 21 Personal Communication Benchmarking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Diffusion of Competence . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Levels of Personal Communication Benchmarking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The Phases of Personal Communication Benchmarking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Personal Communication Coaching Tools: Mirroring . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 151 151 151 152 155 157 157 158 22 Personal Motivational Strategy for Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Motivational Strategy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Our Values . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Our Action Strategies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Personal Communication Coaching Tools: Consensus . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 159 159 159 159 163 165 167 168 23 Personal Communication Mastery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Prerequisites for Personal Communication Mastery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Focus Areas for Personal Communication Mastery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Method for Personal Communication Mastery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 169 169 169 170 172 Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com We Don’t reply in this website, you need to contact by email for all chapters Instant download. Just send email and get all chapters download. Get all Chapters For E-books Instant Download by email at etutorsource@gmail.com You can also order by WhatsApp https://api.whatsapp.com/send/?phone=%2B447507735190&text&type=ph one_number&app_absent=0 Send email or WhatsApp with complete Book title, Edition Number and Author Name. Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Contents xiii Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 173 Personal Coaching Tools in Communication: Involvement-Distancing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 174 Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 175 24 Personal Communication Identity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Aims of this Chapter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . How We Present Ourselves to Others . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What You Are Trying to Show to Others . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What You Do Not Want to Show to Others . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What the Other Thinks About You . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Personal Communication Identity (PCI) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Personal Communication Coaching Tools: Creative Strategy . . . . . . . . . . Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 177 177 177 178 179 179 181 185 187 187 188 25 Explanation of Concepts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 191 References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 196 Index . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 201 Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com List of Figures Fig. 2.1 Fig. 3.1 Fig. 3.2 Fig. 4.1 Fig. 6.1 Fig. 6.2 Fig. 8.1 Fig. 8.2 Fig. 10.1 Fig. 10.2 Fig. 12.1 Fig. 14.1 Fig. 17.1 Fig. 17.2 Fig. 18.1 Fig. 19.1 Fig. 20.1 Fig. 20.2 Fig. 20.3 Fig. 20.4 Fig. 21.1 Fig. 21.2 Fig. 22.1 Fig. 22.2 Fig. 22.3 Fig. 22.4 Fig. 23.1 Fig. 23.2 Fig. 24.1 Communication . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Structuring knowledge . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Problem-structuring matrix . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Structure of group negotiations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Systemic approach . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Process and result . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . A loop model of how messages function in a communication process . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Critical information structure (info-structure) processes . . . . . . . . How, why and what we aim to achieve in a communication process . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Strategic communication behaviour . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Communication process . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Confidence and competence . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . When a circle becomes a straight line . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Successful becomes more successful . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Self-management: six elements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Maintaining our mental models . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Goal orientation and critical factors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Roles and values . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Some common features of people who perform at the top . . . . . Roles and values . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Types of personal communication benchmarking . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Benchmarking processes for conscious and unconscious skills . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Model for personal motivation strategy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Values, criteria, decision and goals . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Value matrix . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Form for action strategies in creative situations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The four prerequisites for personal mastery success . . . . . . . . . . . The five focus areas for personal communication mastery . . . . . The PCI window . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 13 14 22 37 39 49 51 63 68 85 100 114 115 125 133 140 141 143 146 152 154 160 161 163 164 171 171 178 xv Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Part I Communication in Leadership-Processes Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com 1 Communication and Leadership Aims of this Chapter Understanding the concepts: influencing, information, conflict, messages Everyday Leadership Communication Most of us experience daily situations where we communicate with other people with the aim of achieving a specific goal. Obviously, this is only one part of the communication process, but for many people it is an important part, and for most of us it can be a crucial part in certain situations (Foster et al. 2019). One example of a way of influencing other people, which is discussed in this book, is illustrated in the following case letter. Case Letter: Ignorance Seems to Be Institutionalized A student queueing to use the photocopier asks: ‘Excuse me, could I go to the front of the queue? It’s because I need to get to a lecture’. This approach achieved a positive response 94 per cent of the time in several experiments. If the ‘because’ sentence was omitted, the positive response rate fell to 60%. If a ‘because’ sentence was included, but provided only nonsensical information, then the positive response rate was 93%. For example: ‘Excuse me, could I go to the front of the queue? It’s because I need to do some copying’. At first sight this makes no sense, because it seems reasonable to assume that everyone in the queue is there because 3 , https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-031-40848-9_1 Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com 4 1 Communication and Leadership they need to do some copying. However, the explanation lies in the word because, which seems to trigger a cognitive reflex in most people.1 Communication—Conflict and Interpretation We all experience situations where another party does not understand the information we wanted to communicate in the way we would have wanted them to understand it. In such situations, conflicts can easily arise. Conflicts can also arise easily when the other party interprets something we say in a way completely different to our intended meaning. Our emotions get involved and the ensuing unavoidable conflict can easily get out of control. This happens in family situations, in organizations and in wider society. The ways in which we communicate with others and the concepts and words we use are also significant for our own sense of identity and that of the person we are communicating with. An example of this, which we discuss in this book, is how we create a social reality, as shown in the following case letter. Case Letter: Being Illiterate Is Not the Same as Not Being Able to Read The word illiteracy denotes an inability to read or write. This is the meaning we have assigned to this word. If we consider this concept at face value, it is an objective social fact that some countries have higher levels of illiteracy than others. Perhaps it is also an ordinary social phenomenon that increased industrialization reduces the level of illiteracy in a country. However, we can also incorporate a wider meaning into the concept of illiteracy: For example, if large part of a country’s population can read and write, but have difficulties comprehending the meaning and context of what they read and write, we could describe this situation by extending the concept of illiteracy to make it broader than is usually the case. We could say that some people are functionally illiterate, even though they can read and write. Information and Messages In many settings, we are interested in disseminating the information we possess to others, in such a way that it is understood and accepted. In this way, we can establish cooperation and perform certain activities more effectively. An example of this, which we discuss in this book, is shown in the following case letter. 1 https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/brain-wise/201310/the-power-the-word-because- get-people-do-stuff. Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Exercises 5 Case Letter: We Change Our Opinion When We Get New Information Two people have a disagreement about how to share an apple. They agree to divide it into two equal parts. Person A uses their half to make freshly pressed juice, throwing away the leftover pulp. Person B presses their half to get rid of the juice, using the pulp to make a cake. If A and B had clarified their objectives in advance (or during the communication process), both would have benefited from a variation on the apparently fair solution of dividing the apple equally. Hope Is a Waking Dream It can be difficult to accept the existence of certain techniques that function better than others in processes involving the communication of information, such that insight into these techniques gives one party an advantage over the other. Such techniques have been known and used since antiquity, however (Bouty & DruckerGodard 2018). This book examines some of these techniques. Insight into these techniques can help not only with the presentation of one’s own message, but also with getting an accurate understanding of the other party’s presentation. Used responsibly, we believe that insight into some of these techniques can contribute to correcting bias in any communication. Used irresponsibly, insight into some of these techniques can be exploited in power games that may ultimately escalate conflict and fail to promote genuine communication. Communication is a phenomenon that is part of our everyday lives, ranging from the personal to the local, regional and international levels. We communicate with each other in diverse contexts, such as entering into and dissolving marriages and cohabiting relationships, having conflicts over budgets, neighbour quarrels over fences, negotiations about fishing rights in international waters, conflicts between nations, and in everyday activities, such as the buying and selling of goods and services. We wish to examine and discuss the functions that are involved in any act of communication. However, our particular focus will be on the importance of information and communication for leaders in their everyday working lives. Our aim is to uncover the processes that, once linked together, form the pattern from which we can study any act of communication. Exercises Take the seven questions below as the basis for a group discussion. Discuss each question in order to arrive at some answers. Write down your answers. When you have finished reading the whole of this book, return to these questions, discuss them again and write down your answers. Now compare these answers with your original answers, and discuss the differences. Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com 6 1 Communication and Leadership 1. Why do we trust one type of information more than another? 2. Why do we have more confidence in what one person tells us than in what another person tells us? 3. How can we use information and communication to generate trust? 4. How can we use information and communication to influence other people? 5. How is communication affected by how we demarcate the boundaries of a problem? 6. What information processes operate in communication situations? 7. How does the framing of a situation affect the situation regarding communication? References Bouty, I. & Drucker-Godard, C. (2018). Managerial work and coordination: A practice-based approach on board a racing sailboat. Human Relations, 72, 3: 565–587. Foster, W.M., Hassard, J.S., Morris, J. & Wolfram, J. (2019). The changing nature of managerial work: The effects of corporate restructuring on management jobs and careers. Human Relations, 72, 3:473–504. Download Complete Ebook By email at etutorsource@gmail.com We Don’t reply in this website, you need to contact by email for all chapters Instant download. Just send email and get all chapters download. Get all Chapters For E-books Instant Download by email at etutorsource@gmail.com You can also order by WhatsApp https://api.whatsapp.com/send/?phone=%2B447507735190&text&type=ph one_number&app_absent=0 Send email or WhatsApp with complete Book title, Edition Number and Author Name.