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Copyright holders routinely invoke legal and technological measures to prevent and penalize copyright infringement. lso the sole purpose of this free ebook is to encourage and help A men to improve their overall life with the help of my tactics and knowledge , do not use any information of this book without the author's permission. TABLE OF CONTENT 1 - What is the point of texting 2 - Fundamentals 3 - What is your purpose ? 4 - Being brief and direct 5 - Detachment 6 - Make it easy for her to respond 7 - Cut through the bullshit 8 - Emojis 9 - Calibration levels 10 - Memes & Gifs 11 - Balance of effort 12 - Lead the interaction 13 - Escalation games 14 - If she does not respond 15 - Detached urgency BEFORE WE BEGIN Do you see what I see? I see people stuck to their phones. he pandemic only amplified this. During Quarantine, The T only form of communication with the outside world was via a smartphone or laptop. nless you're a G like me, who went out and met people U anyway. Fuck the rules. nyway, the reality is that women have become more A receptive to meeting new people online- be it through Instagram, via Tinder/ Bumble/ Hinge, etc. ven if you meet her in person, it's very important to be E good at texting, otherwise the attraction might just fizzle away Bottom line? ou have to be great at texting, or else you will miss out on Y a lot of experiences with beautiful women. ave a great personality in real life, and have an even H better text game that makes her wet, and gets hers anticipating your next meeting. hen you apply the techniques laid out here you will W become UNSTOPPABLE. he beauty of messaging is that you can not have the best T body, the best voice, but you can make her imagine better and wetter things just by the power of your game online. Let's begin What is the point of texting? o put it very simply- To set up a meeting between 2 or T more people. o elaborate - This "meeting" can be a date at a third T location, or her coming over to your place, or you going to her place. You also text women to BUILD UP the ANTICIPATION. Understand that texting is like foreplay. ou show her that you're a high-value man who speaks Y womanese, and you make her wet by using the power of wordplay. omen love it when guys have a better control on language W than they do. ( always tease her for her short vocabulary) ou build rapport through text so that she knows you're Y not a kidnapper or rapist who is going to harm her, but a real guy who has value, and is fun and exciting. hen you use Wordplay to show her that you're not just a T simp, but a high value guy who she can have a great time with, and who is going to make her moan in pleasure in bed. Fundamentals he first belief I want to bust is that there is no such thing T as the "perfect text" or the "perfect text game" . I t's all about optimizing it. You can become near perfect, but there will always be girls who don't like it, simply because they're either too dumb to "get it" or just disconnected from the trend. I t's OK. Don't take it personally. Bad Text games contain these major issues: long messages - random texts - too many emojis - chody language - being submissive, - without a clear purpose. You can remove all these from your game, and life. The mindset that you should have is: "How would * insert a high value guy you know * text back?" great example, and which I use, is how would Iman Gadzi A or Andrew Tate respond to these texts? -To her shit tests? -To her asking about what I'm currently doing? -To her objections? ould he send long emotional paragraphs with emojis? W Would he care about being "polite"? ou have to take time to practice this until eventually, this Y will become your default mindset. You have the power to do it. The stuff in here is so rarely talked about in the soy world. he only thing you require to do is take CONSISTENT & T MASSIVE ACTION. et's start with the principles. Remember, these are not L rules, but to be taken as guidelines. What is your Purpose? Don't just text for the sake of talking to her. ftentimes, women will make you their "texting buddies" O if you overdo it. ou NEVER want to be available for her all day. You have Y your own life, and she is not even a priority. efine the purpose of texting. In most cases, it will be to D set up a meeting. That is the primary purpose. t the same time, you text to check if the girl is weird, A boring, or interesting. You're not going to meet up with a girl who isn't worth your time. ut, to prevent flaking, just setting up the meeting is not B enough. You have to make yourself memorable. You have to stand out in her brain. You have to make her excited to meet you. Sexting is not a purpose. It is a supplement Being Brief and direct It's a sign of being of higher value. You hold your attention, yet still, get your point across. Ask yourself: ould Andrew Tate send long and personal texts to every W girl, or would he be busy hanging out with women and just being himself? et into the habit of getting the point across with fewer G words. Repetition is key. Detachment Neediness is repulsive. ou've probably heard it a million times, but hopefully, Y you've been applying it and staying detached. Never put women on a pedestal. he drops the same load every morning as a chimpanzee S does. This does not mean you put her down. reat her like you would any random stranger who you are T interested in knowing if they are worth your time. eedless to say, you are ready to walk away at any time N before, during, or after the interaction if you see that it doesn't fit in your reality and is not in alignment with your goals. Some To Do's:- Be direct - Qualify her - Be persistent, but detached. - Be bold, women forgive the bold, NEVER the weak. uys who become "attached" start behaving like a simp, G where they think 10 times before sending something, and whether it is safe or not. FUCK THAT. hen you let go, your mind paradoxically comes up with W much better responses, and your text game flows. Make it easy for her to respond ame is Sales, and the first rule of sales is to make it easy G for the customer to respond back- to take some action. imilarly, when you text her, you make it easy for her to S reply back, especially in the initial stages, where she won't invest as much into you as she would once you've built rapport. he probably gets tons of messages on her Social Media S and dating apps, so you must be easy to talk to. ee man, once you meet her in person, you can show your S A-game, and then she will be hooked. he won't be able to get enough of you, but before that, you S have to play the less-exciting game. For example, I f she says"Hey, how are you?"and you reply with"I'm good" ou've made it hard for her to reply back because you've Y effectively CLOSED the conversation loop. Instead, you can reply with- "I'm fantastic, just came back from a run" ow you've not only given her a chance to build upon the N fact that you like to go out for jogs and sprints, but you've displayed value, in the sense that you're a physically active guy who gives a fuck about his body and health. Women love that. Cut through the bullshit he problem with many guys is that they take the "friend" T route before asking a girl out or making their intentions known. This is the wrong take. I f you're on a dating app, this should be especially obvious to you, because she wants it. acilitate "it"- It is meeting up and potentially having sex F with you. Be unapologetic in your intentions. This increases your SMV (Sexual Market Value) in her eyes. You are not afraid to go for what you want. Emoji Do you think Iman Gadzi sends emojis to girls? 99% of the Emojis break the sexual tension. The same goes for "lol". hese are 2 that you should keep to a MINIMUM. and by T minimum, I mean 0 or 1 per conversation. hey are rapport seeking as well- you seem very under T confident about what you have to say, and you simply cannot handle the tension. haha" is another one that easily gives away your " validation to the woman. emove them from all your conversations for a few weeks, R and notice the difference. nother benefit of this will be that your stress tolerance A will increase because you will be forced to handle greater tension in your conversations. Calibration Levels You have to be bold but in a socially intelligent way. You don't rush the process. You play the long game. You excite her. You push her and you pull her. ou don't push too hard or pull too hard because you know Y she will sense the neediness and go away. I f she needs more rapport building, you take a step back and genuinely have a conversation where you get to know her deeply. he biggest sin is not being direct, but the next biggest T would be being too crude and uncalibrated. I f she shit tests you, you don't get nervous, but you master it, and flip it back on her. ou show that you've been through this a thousand times, Y and she can't shake you off. ou are here for the win, and you are ready to walk away Y anytime and do it all over again with the next girl. Memes & Gifs Memes are big right now. hat you can't say to a girl even after a lot of comfort is W built, you can say via a meme, INSTANTLY. ou could send the most sexual meme and she will still be Y receptive to it. f course, some form of rapport has to be built, and she O needs to see you as the "fun, sexual, cocky guy." hat's obviously no problem for you because you will take T action on the gold that is in this course. evelop a collection of memes that you can send at D different times of the day. There is literally an unlimited supply of memes right now. ou can follow nugget on Instagram. It regularly posts Y sexual memes that you can just forward to her in the DMs. I t's personal and easy. However, don't become her "meme dealer". end one every 2 days or something like that, and follow it S up with a conversation, because actual texting is always more important. Balance of effort ou ensure that you don't double text, when she is single Y texting. ou ensure that your investment levels are less than her Y investment levels. I nitially, you might have to invest more than her, but once you have hooked her in, you make HER invest in you. Don't send long messages. Keep the length less than hers. Girls subconsciously pick up on all this. I f you have to convey an important point across, then you can send a longer message, but it will be an exception. Lead the interaction ou facilitate the conversation, and more importantly, you Y lead it and escalate. ou keep it lighthearted and flirty, and then at times, you Y take it deep and full of sexual tension. ou take her on a rollercoaster ride of emotions, where she Y cannot grasp you. tay away from topics like Politics and religion- they don't S end well. I f she takes the conversation that way, give her very little attention and deviate her to your topic of choice. Escalation Games uilding upon the previous point, here's a great game that B you should be playing with girls because it breaks the ice and will help you escalate without much effort. lay the questions game (After building a good level of P rapport)- where you ask each other general questions, and then you escalate it slowly and steadily. The only rule is that you cannot ask yes/no questions. The key for you is to have a list of questions prepared. emember to keep them exciting and on the positive side, R because she will relate those feelings with you. Eg- 1st -What's your favorite place to go when you'rehappy? 2nd-When was your first kiss? 3rd-When did you lose your virginity ? 4th-What is your go-to sexual position ? 5th-What is your wildest fantasy and so on. he will escalate with you, and you both will connect with S each other on intimate topics like Sex, which is essential. ecause to fuck a girl, you have to start talking about B fucking first. lways escalate the conversation to the point that she feels A very comfortable and open to be intimate with you. If she does not respond I n most cases, you will not even bother to check because you are so busy dominating your purpose. ut in the rare cases that you do have some time on your B hands, and your text game was relatively good, where she was reciprocating until she suddenly disappeared. ere is a good way to respond. It is a little extreme, but if H you set the correct vibe, and she genuinely forgot to text back, you will get a reaction out of her- a good one. "Dear diary, the cute girl vanished. Should I call 911?" Hey, I'd like your advice. I met this interesting girl, but she " seems to be mute" "If you're this quiet during sex, I'm friendzoning you." ee what we did there? We called her out, and when this S pops up on her phone, she will open it and reply, because it's also a neg ( a kind of push) lso, learn to innovate this line. The exact words don't A matter as long as you end it with a negative line for her, which shows your detachment and nonchalance. emember, you're a cool, chill guy who is screening this R girl to see if she's worth your time. Detached Urgency emember that time when your friend asked you to go out R with him, but you said "no" because you knew he was always available? You are that friend, and that girl is you in this situation. ne of the mistakes guys make is that they show that they O are always available for the girl. he takes you for granted, and even if she is interested in S meeting you, she delays it because she knows you will "always be there for her". et her know you're leaving town or that you are going to L be busy with your business after a certain deadline, so she has to decide. Because it's now or never for her. What is scarce is respected. Become scarce. his does not mean you become needy. You assert your T deadline. You are the prize. I f she decides, good for her. If she doesn't- it's her loss. Your life remains the same- FUCKING AMAZING. FINAL THOUGHTS he goal has always been to STOP the brainwashing of Men T worldwide into becoming simps- because that is the REAL Pandemic. e sure to keep applying the techniques that you've learned B here. I recommend going over this texting bible at least 3 times, make notes, and keep beside you when you text women- at least initially so that you can quickly refer and accordingly reply (or choose to leave her on read) hen you know you are truly high value, you automatically W say the right shit. Trust me. Till then, Keep Winning, Brother - Matchmaker
