C H E A T S H E E T A C T I O N 1 S T E P S Try this out with your friends and family. you are 4 people. show a photo of a | square, and conspire with one person, so that both of you say that it has 3 sides, and both of you go first and second. watch the others agree with you in confusion, not wanting to sound like fools! What other ways can this be used? Write down 2 | Play a memory game with someone close to you. tell them 10 fruits, and they have to tell you the ones they remember. Most likely they will remember the first and last, among a few others. Sold to C H E A T S H E E T A C T I O N S T E P S always be on the lookout for 3 | how your colleagues think of you, bosses and subordinates included. Build bonds and add "us-vs-them" dynamic. Whoever is in the group will win, due to the "in-group bias". The action step here is pretty 4 | simple. Throughout the day, Include random but strong statistics in your number. These may or may not be true. remember, the opposing party is going to be so overwhelmed that they won't question your numbers. make this a habit. C H E A T S H E E T A C T I O N S T E P S 5 | Set a daily reminder on your phone to compliment people every day, and build up the social deposits, so you can withdraw it someday in the form of favors; They will want to reciprocate. Did someone do something you 6 | didn't like? Ignore them, or show visible disapproval. let them know. At the same time, reward the ones that did something you liked with a compliment, or something as simple as spending more time with them today. They will remember. And they will behave accordingly. write down your recordings. C H E A T S H E E T A C T I O N S T E P S Do this with 3 people today ( preferably 7 | girls/ business associates) Whatever you want them to think, say " Don't think of XYZ", and insert this line in the middle of a statement, such that they do not realize what just happened, but their subconscious will pick it up and draw the image mentally. 8 | Practice. practice. and practice some more. Somebody is going to succeed, why can't it be you? Do 2 things that you've been putting off because you feel "you aren't as good". C H E A T S H E E T A C T I O N S T E P S Be very objective when someone 9 | brings up a past memory of yours with them. In fact, add some things you know to be false into them, and with a little persistence, watch them believe it. 1 0 | Use 5 statements in conversations that are grand. Don't say " some" "little" "good". Use words like " All" "everybody" "greatest" "fantastic" "record" . Be polarising. C H E A T S H E E T A C T I O N S T E P S 1 1 | Catch yourself and people around you fall to the loss aversion bias. Immediately correct yourself, and go for the Win. Use the statement "I bet you're a bit like me, ..." 5 times. Use 1 2 | the pointers given and improvise. write down the responses and tweak accordingly. C H E A T S H E E T A C T I O N S T E P S Use this 3 Times today - "As I see it, you 1 3 | have 3 options". This can be with a family member, an annoying person, or just a friend whom you want to help. Remember to make the 2nd option worse, before they come with the 3rd option, that they will inevitably have to pick. 1 4 | Every day we frame many sentences incorrectly, which hurts our chances of getting the desired outcome. Deliberately use the assumptive tone and "nudge" them to lean towards the outcome you want. Use those statements 6 times. C H E A T S H E E T A C T I O N S T E P S Whenever you start making a point based on logic or selling somebody a 1 5 | product/idea based on logic, slap yourself. Proceed with using the other secrets discussed above. Use Emotion to sell. Always. BONUS | Disqualify women at least 5 times today. Use the lines " You're the mom of the group, aren't you?" and " You're such a coconut girl", and play around with this. Improvise. Don't forget to have fun