Table of Contents
Intro - Changing your Sex Life Forever..............................................................................3
The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life...............................................................4
I'm Bobby Bradshaw........................................................................................................8
And You CAN Become a Sex God................................................................................10
...Even If You're A Virgin..............................................................................................11
...Even If You Have No Clue.........................................................................................12
...Even with a Small Dick, or Small Bank Account.......................................................15
Get Women Sexually Addicted to You!........................................................................18
Learn to Avoid the Six types of "Loser Lover".................................................................23
1) Never Feel Like a "Two-Pump Chump" Again.........................................................23
2) Staying Hard is "Not Hard"!......................................................................................24
3) It Doesn't have to be "Robotic" to be Right...............................................................26
4) Being in Charge Keeps things "Super-Charged" .....................................................27
5) Get Her to Be Totally Into You...when You're "into" Her .......................................29
6) No Need to be a "Sex Guru" .....................................................................................30
The Four Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track ......................................................32
Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone...........................................................................33
Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone............................................................................35
Sign #4 - She Only Has Eyes For You...........................................................................36
Four Surprisingly Simple Secrets of the Alpha Male ......................................................38
1st Foundational Secret: Strong Emotions over Physical Sensation..............................38
2nd Foundational Secret: Relationship = Sex...............................................................39
3rd Foundational Secret: There is Nothing Wrong With Your Body............................40
4th Foundational Secret: Sexual Ability Makes the Man..............................................42
The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man Revealed
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Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ..............................................................................43
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms™..........................................44
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. ............................................45
Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man...........................................46
Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me.............................................................49
Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW...................................................................51
Limited Belief Shoot down: ..........................................................................................52
The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE REVEALED..................55
AUTHORITY.................................................................................................................55
4. Possession...................................................................................................................58
PRESENCE....................................................................................................................61
EMOTION.....................................................................................................................64
Be the Master of The Overwhelming Orgasm™ ..............................................................70
Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!...................................73
Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now!...............................................................................74
And This Story's TRUE!....................................................................................................85
No Excuses! Make Even These Problems a Thing of the Past!
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“No Trouble Getting Hard”............................................................................................94
Cumming Right Along!..................................................................................................98
"Getting It" Offline.......................................................................................................101
Size Doesn't Matter Most.............................................................................................102
Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman!....................................102
She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours!...................................................103
It May Just Be in Your Head........................................................................................104
Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! ...................................................................104
Getting Started is Easy.................................................................................................105
Avoiding Disaster ...........................................................................................................105
Watch My Girls Show you How to Put on a Condom.................................................111
Don't Wait. Implementing my system and P.A.V.E........................................................113
Deeper and Harder Bonus:...............................................................................................115
Intro - Changing your Sex Life Forever
I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn
and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life
forever, let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. The facts don’t lie! Millions of
guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually, and it’s creating horrendous
relationship problems like cheating, divorce, and it’s all because you are having terrible
sex. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid
more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to
sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman, FOR ONCE, was begging to have
sex with you??. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics
are alarming, but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an
incredible sex life. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. Let’s take a
quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages, in which the brides are 25
years or older result in a failed marriage, and that’s from the National Center for Health
Statistics. Also, 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know
of their spouse’s extramarital activity. So that means that out of the millions of people
who are having affairs, 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were
cheating. Awful!
The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life
So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty, unappreciative
people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his
girlfriend or wife, and not know where her lips have been. Women won’t tell you this,
butthe number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed.
As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you
make, what car you drive, or if you take out the trash; once you satisfy the primal urges
that women really have, she will be yours for life.
Are you like me who used to spend hours looking for the best in online porn?
Unfortunately, if you are busy watching porn, you are NOT there to satisfy her sexual
needs. Sorry to break it to you but men are more likely to be cheated on because of a lack
of attention to their body and their needs. She senses that your porn addiction means she
isn’t good enough and that you are having attraction problems with her. This makes
women insecure and when they are insecure…they go elsewhere and – YES her lips go
elsewhere.
If you are thinking that being just OK in bed is all you want, think again! Do you know
how many discreet ways that girls can cheat – not only mentally – but physically actually
meet up with someone and you NEVER know about it?? Online dating, social networks,
instant messenger, booty texting, all kinds of sites for men and women who want to have
discreet affairs. You can’t monitor everything and check up on your woman like you are
a psycho so how do you keep her only thinking about you, instead of the possibility in her
mind that there MIGHT be a guy out there who is maybe a little bit better than you in
bed? Maybe it’s her ex. He’s just one text away from a rendevous. Maybe it’s a
coworker she’s been grabbing lunch with or stuck on the road with. You never know!
So if you have a girlfriend or a wife who is in a job where she’s always with a lot of other
guys or you think there might be a guy in the office that she’s into, you’ve really got to
make sure you’re
good in bed, because the temptation will definitely be there for her to cheat — just
naturally by her being around one of these other guys, especially in a work environmen
So let’s talk about what happens when you’re married and a woman cheats. When a
woman cheats it often leads to this nasty word we call DIVORCE, and divorce leads to a
lot of awful things likeloss of money, and often, half of your income. If you have children
it leads to losing your children, because women usually win the lawsuits, and they get the
alimony, and they get the kids, and it’s this awful situation where you’re left with
nothing, despite being a good guy, and yet, she was the one who cheated. The system’s
just so stacked against you, in favor of women, that you can’t get what you deserve.
It’s humiliating to know that another man was inside your girlfriend or inside your wife,
and he wasn’t making love to her, he was fucking her. So to know that that’s what was
happening is a scary thought, and it’s something that we want to make sure that we
always avoid, because no matter how bad losing your money is, no matter how bad losing
your kids is, the real problem that is caused is EGO-HUMILIATION— being humiliated,
knowing that you’re not a real man, that you’re not a man good enough to keep your
wife, and that you’re not good in bed.
There’s no worse fear or no worse feeling than not being able to satisfy a woman
sexually. That just makes you feel like that you’re a little boy, inferior — like you’re less
than all the other guys and there’s something wrong with you.
So when she cheats it’s not that she wants to cheat, it’s that she’s driven by her emotions..
You need to understand that women are very sexual creatures, they need to have sex —
WOMEN ACTUALLY CRAVE SEX.. Women are child-bearers and the only way that
they can have children is by having sex. They have a natural instinct to have sex. And
think about what happens during sex;if it’s good sex for a woman, which might not be the
kind of sex you’ve ever given her, she’s clawing your back, she’s screaming, she’s
moaning, she’s telling you to fuck her harder. Men don’t do that, that’s not a natural
reaction for a man. Think about how important that sex must be to her if it’s making her
act in that wild manner.
PAY ATTENTION: Imagine how important sex must be to her to leave the relationship,
leave the man that pays the bills, who takes care of the children, and is a good faithful
husband. Imagine how strong that motivation really is to have good sex if she’s willing to
give all that up just to be sexually satisfied.
I'm Bobby Bradshaw
Hopefully you've never heard of me, as I’ve tried to keep my life as a clandestine sex
educator private. I'm not a celebrity, I’m not an athlete, I’m not even a millionaire. I'm a
regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. I stopped
blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. The first
time I had sex I was 22, and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. Luckily, I
did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being
able to give women orgasms. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an
orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships, no matter
how much I liked her, would come crashing to a passionless halt. My lowest point
though, was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I
confronted her visibly teary-eyed, and yelled at her how she could do something like that
to me.She was blunt, and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and
couldn’t satisfy her needs!ddI was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3
years. When I did get back in the game, I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life
straightened out. I read hundreds of books, watched all of the how-to videos (and a ton of
porn obviously!) — tried everything that I could get my hands on. Most of the stuff I read
was so ridiculous and unrealisticthough and revolved around faked interactions, and the
use of expensive pills and supplements. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob”
who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting
hard-on! But over time, what happened was that through my own experimentation, I
became able to make women cum continuously I’M TALKING CUM EVERY TIME
AND MULTIPLE TIMES. I could get hard and last 45 minutes, EVERY TIME. In the
beginning I was too timid to try some things, but as I saw how it made women literally
start shaking and moaning, I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she
was losing control while I was fucking her!). Now, I still have my day job as a business
consultant, but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. Once
you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything!
And You CAN Become a Sex God
You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you.
They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. When you are satisfied you don’t
crave more. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning
before she goes to work, filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her,
she doesn’t even have the temptation. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now,
because as a man, what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman?
After you read this book and internalize the programs from Pornstar Sex System, you
will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure
about your lover, girlfriend, or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money,
better looks, and better sexual skills than you. Most guys don’t know what I’m about to
tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women, so take a deep breath, turn off your
email and phone, and let’s get started!
I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. I haven’t always been good in bed
or good with women. In fact, I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a
relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have
sex with me. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked),
You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m
revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing.
...Even If You're A Virgin
My name’s Bobby Bradshaw and I’m from a little town in Ohio. My sexual development
with women was later than the average guy. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and I didn’t
lose my virginity until I was 22. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around
women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get
them to like me..
I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.
Please don’t laugh; I’m not proud of this. Actually, laugh all you want, it’s funny.
I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a
vacation. I was a complete loser, had never kissed a girl, and he knew this. He was like,
“Come to Brazil, anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash, flew
to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly.
Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there, the most I’d ever gone out, I met
this girl who barely spoke English. Somehow she liked me. I’m convinced the only
reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. I was really
only a poor college student, but what did she know, we couldn’t even communicate!
After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. I was rock hard just knowing that I
might finally have sex. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. In the
hotel room, I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. Please don’t.”
I’m thinking, “Calm.. calm.. Math.. Algebra,” anything to distract myself..ARGH! ..God,
her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly, I had no idea what was
happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. Once I was
naked, I put the much-too-big Brazilian condom (monsters down there) onto my cock and
nearly came right then from the excitement. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom
she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. Meanwhile, I was so
nervous that my hands were sweating. After fumbling around trying to find her vagina for
3 or 4 minutes, I finally jammed myself into her. It felt so good and wet. This was a
vagina! Haha. She was really tight, and I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times, I
came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I just kept pumping away. The more I
pumped and tried to get hard again, the tighter her wet walls clamped down on my cock
as it got softer and softer. After a few seconds of that she started laughing, said something
in Portuguese, and pushed me off of her. My last memory of her was seeing her close the
hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed, beating my
cock frantically trying to get hard again. I was shocked that everyone talked about how
great sex was. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil, and feeling like a small,
pathetic little boy.
...Even If You Have No Clue
This is NOT a sob story though; I just want you to know how bad I was. It has a happy
ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on, but I had
no idea what to do about it. And for a long time I was in denial. I’d watch online porn and
I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to suck their cock while they ate
the girl’s pussy, and then fucking her brains out, while she extended one leg up to the sky
like a gymnast. It wasn’t that their dicks were so huge, even though it definitely played a
part in my mind, but it was that they’d last forever. They could do those moves and there
was no fear of cumming. They had complete control of pleasing these women. And they
weren’t having sex slowly; they were going fast and aggressively, making the girls
scream with pleasure. I didn’t know how these guys could do it; I had absolutely no
control over when I came. I didn’t know what the problem was. The first times I’d had
sex I got really hard and couldn’t last, cumming immediately. And the second time I had
sex, I couldn’t get hard at all. So either way, I looked down at my penis and I was not
happy. I was like, “What is wrong with you, Pal?!” And it sounds comical, but I’m
guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say, “Yeah, I
remember that. That’s what happened my first time.” But for them, their first time was at
16, and I was at 23, struggling with this issue. So it’s one thing to get this part of your life
handled when your 15, 16, 17 years old like a normal guy, but when you wait longer, this
really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. So to try and turn my
sex life around, I started reading every single book that I could about sex, and I figured
I’d do trial and error until something works. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve
learned from all these books, videos, seminars, and make as many mistakes as possible
and then correct them until I got it right. It was embarrassing sitting there fingering a
rubber vagina, doing all sorts of crazy stuff. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I
had to invest in skill-training to learn this area of life. It was the same as when I was in
college learning how to do computer-programming; I had to learn how to do it. It wasn’t
one of those things you were born with.
After three years of wild experimentation, I got to the point where even though I couldn’t
last very long, instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl, I would kiss her
for a while. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. I’d do all sorts of other
stuff, but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type
of stamina.
Finally, when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the
emotional side of sex, that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I quickly started
getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. From
dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice, learning where her trigger spots were, through to
penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40, 50 minutes —
even an hour. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan, “Oh goddd.. I’m not
going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and
how the girl felt emotionally and physically, EVERY SINGLE TIME!
I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot
(I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. We did wild things in
public but then she moved away and I thought, “oh great the one girl I was getting good
with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex
with her. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though, I wanted to
have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. So I moved on
and started having sex with other girls. Most importantly though, regardless of the girl I
ended up with, I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was
in a relationship with them.
I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance,
but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I was ready to
meet the challenge. These girls started to love it. They’d literally say “I LOVE having sex
with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. They would want to have sex with
me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god.
...Even with a Small Dick, or Small Bank Account.
As you read this, you’re probably thinking “bullshit. My dick’s too small. Or this guy
probably pays these girls.” What I have to share with you will change your sex life
forever though, so suspend your negative and jaded thoughts and say to yourself “OK.
I’m listening. It can’t hurt to try. If I never succeed, I’ll ask for my money back.”. So
these hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like,
“Hey, let’s go out for a fancy dinner. Here, I bought you a necklace,” I’d try and show
them how special they were. But something started to happen. They wouldn’t be
interested in dinner. Sure, they’d take the necklace, but they didn’t seem satisfied. I’d
hear “I want to take a nap,” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your
bedroom and have sex. Or they’d be like “Oh, I need a hug,” which was always a code
word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing my dick, practically
tearing my clothes off. This could not be my life! I don’t have a huge dick and I’m not
great-looking or rich or even funny. But I now had something that most other guys don’t
have. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually
addicted to me, something that seemed to work with every girl, every time.
I immediately started having sex with a lot more girls and my skills got much better. I
was having sex whenever I wanted, getting text messages from girls I had one-night
stands with, phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. It was getting
out of hand. I had to do something with this power I had developed. So I’m in
information technology on the Internet full-time, but with the current economy doing
badly and job security non-existent, I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. I’ve
always wanted to help people get better and always had some friends that would come to
me for advice, but I never had training or anything I was exceptionally good at. Until
now. Now I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available
to guys like me, who have given up and faced rejection, humiliation, and had either been
dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. So I figured I
would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. How to give women
the best sex of their life. It changed who I am. I feel like I now have this power to give
any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or cumming too quick.
I walk around with this confidence I never had. No more depression and feeling
inadequate in bed. No more not feeling like a man. I don’t want guys feeling this pain.
Think right now of all the awful sexual experiences you’ve had. Would you admit that
stuff to your good friends? Maybe, but it does make you feel somewhat weak. You’re not
less of a man though. You are less of a man if you decide not to man-up and change.
That’s why my friends came to me for advice and that’s why you’re reading this. So
some of my friends — one guy was going through a divorce, one guy was in a rough
patch with his girl — I’d give them some pointers and I’d be like “Okay, maybe you
should do this or here’s a little exercise that’ll give you unlimited stamina. Here’s an
exercise that’ll make you really hard. Here’s an exercise that will actually give her an
orgasm through this one specific physical technique.”
The fact that my friends were getting great results boosted my confidence to help guys
out even further, which further proved I was onto something big. I really didn’t have time
with my full-time IT stuff, but I started writing everything down and as I wrote, I realized
I had practically a book’s worth! But I did tell my friends, “Look, it’s not what I do. It’s
not my full-time job, but I will do this stuff part-time.” So I wrote this book and started
coming out with some different tips and techniques, real easy ones, that guys could use to
really be able to change their life because sex is the most important thing for guys, it’s the
most important thing in the world if you think about it.
You’re here because of sex. It’s what we think about all day long. It’s what I’m thinking
about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy
novel. If she only knew! More importantly, after you mess around and get to the point
you want a more serious relationship that lasts, you’re going to have to last. It only makes
sense and if you can last longer, she will want you more and more, and you will get the
sex you’ve always wanted, more and more. And if you can’t give a woman good sex,
she’s not going to want to have children with you, she’s not going to treat you well, and
she’s going to be looking for other options. Chris Rock once joked, “A man is only as
faithful as his options.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. You
don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life?
Women say that money doesn’t really matter as long as there’s true love. Well if you’re
aren’t giving her great sex, money WILL be an issue and love might just turn into
resentment, because she’s going to make love to someone who knows what they are
doing. It’s scary, I know, but it’s a fact of life.
Get Women Sexually Addicted to You!
What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you,
just make sure it stays between us, is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman
as many orgasms as you want, to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you
chasing her for sex. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is
that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. You’re going to be able to have
unlimited stamina, last as long as you want, and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat.
None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. These problems
you’re having, problems I used to have, these are the problems of an inexperienced lover.
You don’t need to have sex with 5, 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. When you’re
actually experienced and you’ve studied my method, you’ll have this unlimited power to
sexually do whatever you want. You’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on
during sex, and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really,
really easy for you.
The reason I created 2 Girls Teach Sex is based on the results that guys were getting and
is geared so that you can avoid all the bad shit that happens when your girl isn’t being
pleased sexually. By internalizing the information inside 2 Girls Teach Sex you will
avoid:
- humiliation from your lover knowing that you are not a real man
- pain of losing your wife/girlfriend because you couldn’t satisfy her
- loss of money from losing your wife
- ego humiliation caused by her cheating
Once you put this into play, your life will look like this.
You’ll:
- get more sex
- get relief from nagging, etc.
- get relationship security
- give her orgasms
- become a sex god, with amazing confidence going into any relationship
This really IS a choice. Who do you want to be?
Once you know WHY most guys struggle in bed, it becomes easy to flip the switch and
rock her world. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types, so really
think carefully, “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself, I have been EVERY one of
these and turned it around. So can you!!!
Learn to Avoid the Six types of "Loser Lover"
1) Never Feel Like a "Two-Pump Chump" Again
The most common problem is that guys just don’t last the required time to give women
deep, full-body orgasms. Cumming too fast affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked
with, so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. You can’t turn
your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. You
have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. Women are the same way. If
you’re not lasting 25-45 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake
it. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. We will address that
later on. (also reference the DVD you have titled “seminar”.)
2) Staying Hard is "Not Hard"!
The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes, they can’t get
hard. This is frustrating because many times the guy has tried really hard (no pun
intended) to get his wife or girlfriend to HAVE SEX and then when the time is right, he
isn’t ready. This is made even worse when the guy has to go out for dinner, walk on
eggshells around his girl, had to buy a gift for her, and basically trade material things or
chores for sex. After all this, there is so much pressure to perform that often a guy can’t!
Trading or spending money to have sex is very negative for the relationship: Here is what
happens when you end up “trading” for sex.
3) It Doesn't have to be "Robotic" to be Right
The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. And women
can tell! Women thrive on emotion, in the bedroom and outside it. Many guys are like an
assembly-line robot. They are thinking of “Touch this, now touch that, keep a straight
face”…beep beep beep!
Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. If you
are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very
difficult to please her. 2 Girls Teach Sex reveals how to create the strongest of emotions
with your lover that will give her multiple orgasms that extend far beyond the bedroom
— even getting wet for no reason but for the fact that she’s thinking about you. We’ll talk
about that, but a variety of emotions needs to be provided to turn her on first. So
remember, when you are the emotionless robot you’re not going to be able to give your
woman orgasms consistently.
4) Being in Charge Keeps things "Super-Charged"
Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker, not confident and slightly
feminine. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. “Does this
feel ok?” Once or twice is good, but it kills the moment!
Women are looking to be led in bed. Show her you know what you want. Show her how
much you want her. They want you to be in charge. It doesn’t matter what they act like
outside the bedroom. When you are passive and unsure of yourself, it radiates deep in the
core of her feminity and shuts down her attraction for you. Obviously, at some times the
emotional, romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a
sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but
other than that, it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual interaction. I noticed
this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. I thought that doggy-style
might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. Then
when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was, almost
every woman said “doggy-style.” They loved it when I fucked them really hard and
spanked them and controlled them. When you are in an authoritative position with a
woman, you will often find that this is the most turned on that they ever get.
5) Get Her to Be Totally Into You...when You're "into" Her
You can’t be just a penis, lending your sexual organ to the girl and be thinking about
work or daily life. Even if it’s March Madness or the Playoffs, the sex will be terrible for
you AND for her if you’re detached. You can fool a woman maybe once or twice, but
she’ll notice and then tune out herself.
Be in the moment. Look into her eyes and make it intimate. For you to last long and not
cum soon, you have to take your time and show that you are paying attention to her and
her needs. Reach down and tease her legs, then kiss her lips gently as you slowly widen
her pussy lips. Make it special and involve her whole body. The sensory overload and
dirty-talk (which we’ll get into later) will make her cum over and over. This book will
explain this in detail under Presence.
6) No Need to be a "Sex Guru"
Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru, and the sex guru has read all these magazines
and books and they’re all based on the physical, they’re not based on feelings. So the sex
guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way, or I
flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird
hypnotic way, she’ll be sexually pleased. They’re always trying to do something weird
because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they
don’t really know anything and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What
is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard, he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts
of weird, crazy shit, and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. So
looking like a dork, is a terrible direction to take. So if you think that you’re any of these,
and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to
examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things.
To Sum Up:
Those are the six types of lovers (combos of lovers) that suck in bed. It’s not what I’m
telling you, it’s what women tell US! Women don’t want you to know this because it
hurts, but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends, this is what comes
out.
I’m not judging you because I was in the same position, so the key is to avoid the pain of
being one of those guys. So what type of lover DRIVES WOMEN ABSOLUTELY
CRAZY?
The Four Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track
When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. There is no nagging, no
complaining about you sitting on the couch too much, and there is a closeness and
appreciation that they exhibit towards you. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d
always want to see my girlfriend. But invariably she would have something else to do and
I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. Then, at the times that I did see
her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. If I had a penny
for every time I heard that she was tired, had a headache, or was stressed and not in the
mood, I’d be a very rich man today! In reality, looking back on it, what’s sad is that she
DID WANT to have sex, just not with me, because I couldn’t satisfy her. It was so painful
to admit that to myself, but I had to face the truth.
Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man.
She is sitting on his lap, or kissing him, or always trying to hold his hand. It’s because he
is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. Sexually
attraction far outweighs money, looks, charm, or even social status. Now let’s get into the
visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her.
Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone
When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Unlike
many men, most women do not have sex just to “have sex.” They have to be able to
orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. When a woman is initiating sex with you,
you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. The more that she initiates sex, the
more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Take note however, that there are some women who
for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex, so in this case, if they
ACCEPT when you initiate sex, that is the same thing. Note also that in some cultures the
women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons, so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend
that may be the case as well, so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex.
You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. Many guys will
start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this).
Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if she wants
to have sex right now or that night. When women initiate sex they usually do it very
subtly. They will say things like, “Let’s take a nap,” “I need a hug,” “I need a massage,”
or “Lets watch a movie.” If you are hearing things like this, chances are that she is
initiating sex. Just stay calm, and don’t try and skip that step. In her head she is seeing
this as the PRECURSOR to sex, and if you try and skip the nap or the hug, the sex won’t
happen. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed, so she tends to
subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before
the horse!
Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone
Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior
changes outside the bedroom. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with
their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. When I ask how she is treating him outside
the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. They complain of
things like:
1) “I’m always getting nagged to do chores.”
2) “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”
3) “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves
very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex
with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these
problems.
Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm
Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to
give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or
an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex.
Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her
strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you.
Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you
Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards YouImproved Behavior towards you so that you will
keep having sex with her
Sign #4 - She Only Has Eyes For You
The majority of cheating that women do is because they are unsatisfied sexually by their
man. Sure there is the occasional wacko (both male and female) who gets off on the thrill
they are cheating, but most times it is because of bad sex. As you have learned, women
NEED and CRAVE good sex. When they get it, they have blinders on to other men. You
are the only man to them and they want to be monogamous. When they don’t get it, they
start acting strange and the blinders will come off.
Four Surprisingly Simple Secrets of the Alpha Male
There are Four Secret Foundational Pillars of a Sexual Alpha Male at his core. Internalize
these Secret Foundational Pillars and you will be seeing a difference in your bedroom
skills immediately.
Time to unleash your inner Sexual Alpha Male!
1st Foundational Secret: Strong Emotions over Physical Sensation
Picture the Lincoln memorial. It has a strong structure and a solid foundation, with
massive white stone pillars. For you, the Sexual Alpha Male, the 1st pillar of your
foundation is strong emotions over physical touch. When women have STRONG
orgasms it is not because of a physical sensation that they are feeling. It is because of a
STRONG EMOTION that they are feeling. Even if you are fucking her really hard, it is
not the thrusting that’s making her cum, it’s the feeling of being fucked hard and being
taken. Women thrive on emotion.
There are certain positions that give her orgasms and certain hand and
oral techniques that better assist you in getting her to cum. Those are
taught further on in the chapter on orgasms) However, not that ultimate
goal is to use emotions over the core training of physical techniques.
Think of the way women masturbate. They don’t lie there slamming themselves
repeatedly with enormous dildos. That is only in porn. When a normal woman
masturbates she uses an average sized dildo or touches herself and FANTASIZES about a
man making love to her OR fucking her pussy until she’s in ecstasy. She is
MANUFACTURING strong emotions. When you’re having sex with her, you will make
her feel those strong emotions and she will come all over you!
More Proof: How Women Talk about Sex Amongst Each Other
Think about when women talk to other women about sex. According to my field research
with many women, if the sex is great, they talk about how men make them feel. Men talk
about how women look. They talk about the shape of her breasts, how her ass looks, what
she was wearing, and what kind of panties she had on. Men talk about all this stuff that is
physical, but women talk about how the man made them feel. So that’s the key takeaway.
Always think feelings over physical. The emotions you give her COMBINED with your
other bedroom tactics are what is going to create the best sexual experiences of her life!
Remember: physical stimulation is less important than strong emotions but is core
training.
2nd Foundational Secret: Relationship = Sex
The next pillar in your foundation is that great sex is the most important part of a
relationship. When you have great sex, it completely changes your relationship dynamic.
Great sex means you’re not going to be getting nagged to take out the trash, to do chores,
about how much money you have, or anything like that. When there’s great sex, that is
the ULTIMATE RELATIONSHIP HEALER. You don’t need any sex therapists, and you
don’t need any psychologists.
Takeaway: Invest in yourself and get your sexual skills handled!
3rd Foundational Secret: There is Nothing Wrong With Your Body
The 3rd foundational pillar is that most guys who have a sexual problem think that there is
something physically wrong with them. In 99% of cases, when a guy is struggling in bed
it’s because of any or all of these 3 things:
Wrong mindsets and beliefs leading to inability to get hard or last long enough.
When you don’t believe you are a sexual alpha male internally and exude that confidence
in the bedroom, it’s easy to fall into self-doubt. Doubting or worrying about lasting a long
time is the wrong mindset. Believing that she is so hot that the slightest physical touch
will make you cum mentally puts her in charge and you as the sexual beta male. Your
cock is an extension of your manhood. You have to mentally undo the lack of control you
have in your head about the power of your cock. Own the rise and fall of your cock.
Allow yourself to be turned on fully by her, but TRANSFORM the emotions of selfdoubt, and anxiety into CONFIDENCE and AUTHORITY.(we will do this together).
You will get hard naturally as soon as you destroy the anxiety mindset. You need to rewire yourself to the correct beliefs about your dominance as a sexual alpha male!
Lack of knowledge about what really turns women on
We all know knowledge is power. When you don’t know what really turns women on,
you don’t have sexual power needed to be the best lover you can be. Remember I spoke
about ‘emotions’ being so important for a woman? If she is emotional about sex with
you, the sex will mean more and each thrust inside her will feel that much deeper and
penetrate her core. Women know that they are guided by their emotions, so they try and
control them as best they can. They don’t want to be in control though. They want you to
dominate them, tease them and stimulate them, mentally and physically. You can give a
girl an orgasm, just by dirty talk. A slight hair tug from the back of her head can
sometimes instantly show her you will manhandle her. These are examples we’ll go over
in detail. You have to learn the techniques and see which works best on your girl and in
the right context.
So really, there’s nothing wrong with your body. What’s wrong is how you are using
your body based on bad mindsets and beliefs. It’s very rare to find a guy with a physical
condition that is leading to bad sex. It is often that you find a guy OUT OF SHAPE and
who is hurting his sex life (getting tired or winded) that’s leading to bad sex  but there
is nothing physically wrong with his cock!
Guys get in that habit of getting cumming too fast because of masturbation. There’s so
much stimulation in masturbation, you know how to handle your business in as fast a
time as possible. In porn the girls are all dolled-up, acting really slutty and they’re in
certain positions and there’s all this wild, crazy sex. So it’s not the fault of the guy — the
whole point of porn is to get you off, so it’s not like you’re doing something wrong by
masturbating. This is what happens to a lot of guys. They masturbate the wrong way and
get used to doing it quick so they don’t last long when it’s the real thing. So don’t worry
about it. If this happened to you and you do have problems, realize that you can fix these
things, that they’re not a big deal, and we’re going to get them handled once and for all!
Key Point: Increased Knowledge Overcomes Any Sexual Problems
4th Foundational Secret: Sexual Ability Makes the Man
There is a saying in bodybuilding that “Shoulders make the man.” There is another
saying in pop culture that “Clothes make the man.” In the eyes of a woman, sexual
ability makes the man. Key Point:
Cars don’t matter. Looks don’t matter. Money does not matter. It helps initially attracting
women, but A FERRARI OR SPORTS CAR CAN’T FUCK A GIRL.
A pretty looking dude can’t fuck a girl with his good looks. Dollar bills can’t fuck a girl.
You get the point. When push comes to shove, it’s just you naked on top of her. Creating
an amazing, mind-blowing sexual experience for a woman is all about your sexual
abilities, which are completely LEARNED. If you want to be “the man” or even a “real
man” become good in bed! It will change EVERY aspect of your life!
Those are truths about sex that will strengthen your sexual life. Unlearn the bad, learn the
good.
1. Strong emotion over physical sensation.
2. Great Sex is One of the Most Important Parts of a Relationship
3. There is Nothing Wrong With Your Body.
4. Sexual Ability Makes the Man.
Learn to control your body, her emotions, and what turns her on. This creates the man
who can have great sex and lasting relationships. It’s really important to make sure that
you know those four truths.
The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man Revealed
Guys, it’s really important to be honest with yourself, so I’m gonna lay out for you the 6
mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are six things you HAVE to
get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up
this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any
verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, read the six mindsets for your
best sex ever.
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today.
If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely
essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen
incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others.
Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some
guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be cumming in under a
minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life.
The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do
change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having
sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl
or in pornography, which is completely different, they’re naturally gifted. You have to
learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This
isn’t going to work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing,
you’re going to get the same results!
I’ve watched my friends go from struggling with women to having outrageous success,
telling me stories of how the women were cumming so much they were becoming
sexually addicted to them. And I would tell myself at first, “Yeah, it only worked on her.
That girl’s nuts. That girl’s a freak. You got lucky.” The truth is, using “Have Porn star
Sex” is incredibly effective and after having so many of my students tell me how good
things got with their girls, I had to be a believer in my own advice!
START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no
matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms™.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll
be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have
orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love
with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really
internalize this.
You will EVEN be able to give women what has been trademarked as an “Overwhelming
Orgasm™.”
So Mindset 2 is both that you can give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of
having mind-blowing “Overwhelming Orgasms.” Your girl may have struggled to have
orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how
sexual she can get. I’ve seen even the most uptight, coldest housewives act like slutty,
crazed teenage school girls after having sex with a guy who learned from 2 Girls Teach
Sex.
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexualtransformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of
myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change.
But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said,
“Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with me. They
really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s
what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the
course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.”
I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a
little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts
cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has
that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.”
“So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual
skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming
right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys
can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people
about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me
he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal
and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work,
we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting
25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms.
The takeaway from Michael:
You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you CAN
improve your sexual skills. No matter how bad you are, they WILL improve. And no
matter how good you think you are, you can still get better.
If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time, and she’s not addicted to having
sex with you — remember, women need sex — then hey, you’re not where you need to
be.
Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man
It’s ok to get help.
I used to think, “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own
then I’m a loser.” I’d think, “I’m not a cool guy because I got help.”
That’s not true. Any skill in life is learned. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a
car. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. Any skill that’s worth knowing,
learning a language, programming a computer, anything, you had to learn.
NO ONE IS A NATURAL. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get
experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural, but they are not. Here’s
why:
2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed
Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of
experiences (very few guys). That’s basically “experienced-based learning.”
Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing
unproven methods.
The guys who really “GET” female sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start
with. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that
shields them from obvious shortcomings. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn
how to be good in bed. There is a saying that I love, and that you’ll love too. It is one of
my favorites.
“The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good”
Really think about that. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. Starting out
NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve.
You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experience-based
learners.”
So it’s okay to get help. When you’ve got an issue in your life, you’ve got to embrace it,
realize you’re going to get it handled, and then boom, take care of it. Because you’re
forced to fix it, you will. Another example is a guy with a huge trust fund. Being “good”
(having enough money to live) is the enemy of being great! So many guys with trust
funds, they never do anything meaningful with their lives and they eventually have a
miserable demise. Look at the Forbes 400 on the hand, so many of the wealthiest people
in the world, and many of them came from the bottom and became the best!
Example)
Max Levchin – For those of you who don’t know about Max Levchin you need to. He
was born very poor in Eastern Europe. Barely escaped Chernobyl and came to the United
States with his poor immigrant family. Through his own hard work and passion he
founded Paypal and numerous other companies despite starting with nothing. Max is
came from the bottom and “learned” his way to a $100 million dollar fortune by age 30.
When you come from the bottom with a sense of urgency, you can be at the top. You can
be better in bed than any guy you know. It is possible. I guarantee it. Urgency is one of
your biggest assets. Start using it now! LEARN!
Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me
That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual."
She doesn’t get horny.” Or, “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic, but she doesn’t
like sex. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do
things around the house more than having sex.”
That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. Women give up if they can’t be
sexually satisfied, and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. Then eventually they
start flirting with other guys, cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation
that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her.
So, again, women need sex more than men. The sooner you realize this, the better off
you’ll be. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to, with their picture.
These are normal, real women. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex.
If you think that you need sex, “Hey, I’m a guy. I need sex.” Yeah, you do, but think of
women. Their main goal in life is to have children, to be child-bearers. If they can’t have
sex and good sex at that, the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is
letting them down at a primal, instinctual level. That’s something that’s really got to be
addressed. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men.
This is everywhere. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. Look at YM.
Look at all these women magazines, the stuff that you look at, and you’re, like, “That’s
trash.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines!
Look at all the time they spend buying shoes, buying underwear, make-up,and other
products to look good. You ever look at a man’s underwear, compared to women’s
underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. “There it is. It’s my underwear.” Women spend hours, “Is this the right
underwear? Does it look good? This shirt, these pants, do I look fat in this?” It’s because
they’re sexual creatures. They want to look desirable. They have all this sexual desire, but
society represses it, and the examples of this are everywhere.
And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex?
So now that you know women are sexual creatures, and hopefully you’ve internalized
this, let’s move on to the next mindset.
Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW
The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. The reason that you’re not good in bed
NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way, with proper education. It’s
not your fault; society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a
sensitive and personal issue. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to
par, it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.
Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls
to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job, your lover will scream
your name in thanks!
Limited Belief Shoot down:
Let’s do a quick exercise to get you going. Ask yourself “What beliefs do I currently hold
that are contrary to those in this book?”
“In what ways are my existing beliefs ridiculous based on what I’ve learned reading in
this book?” All your negative beliefs are irrational and incorrect, so poke some fun at
them! “Women don’t like sex. Women like movies.” Utterly ridiculous! They want to get
fucked. They want you to fuck them hard and at other times make love to them right so
they don’t want to go elsewhere!
List every time this belief is disproven with societal examples. Magazines – just go
through and list a few. And I want you to write down what the negative consequences
that are going to happen from not changing your beliefs and not getting good in bed and
not having your best sex ever. What will your life be like in five years? What’s your
relationship going to be like with your wife? Are you going to keep your kids? Are you
going to get married? Are you going to ever have sex with her again? Are you going to be
humiliated? What’s going to happen? So write them out on a piece of paper. Then once
you have them on there and you have all the bad things on this paper, I’m going to take it
and crumple it up and throw it out because your new beliefs are the ones that you just
read. What you just learned in this book are your new beliefs. The old ones need to be
banished, gone forever!
We’re going to recap with a list. This is you NOW.
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I will learn to give women orgasms. Being good in bed is possible no matter
where I am today.
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I can give women orgasms whenever I want.
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What I’ve been doing isn’t working.
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It’s okay to get help.
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Women need sex more than men.
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The time to act is NOW.
The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE REVEALED
Now we're gonna get into the real meat of the program: The 4 Components of my
system. These are the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. So,
what's gonna happen, is I'm gonna run through all four, then at the end of this chapter,
we're gonna talk about how to combine them to make them work even better. Because
when you combine them, they're much stronger: 2 + 2 > 4.
AUTHORITY
The first trait is AUTHORITY. Women don't want another woman. One second — take
that one in. Women don't want another woman. If they did, they would be a lesbian.
They want a man. You need to be authoritative in bed. You need to show that you're in
charge. This doesn't mean you're gonna choke her like crazy, and be physical aggressive
with omen. That's not the goal. You wanna always treat women with respect, but you
need to be authoritative. They want a man. You’ve got to be manly. You've gotta be the
alpha sexual male. Here’s how:
1. You (the Man) Are In Charge
Show her you're in charge by leading. By having that mindset of leader, you'll begin to
naturally think, "I'm in charge. I'm the boss here. I'm gonna do what I like." You wanna
show that you're in charge, and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. It's much
more attractive for women, whether it's during sex or during a date, to be led by the male.
That's how it's been since the caveman days. Evolution has shown that men have to be the
stronger, more dominant, and the woman is, going to follow the lead of the man. Being
authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. So, you've gotta show that you're in
charge.
2. Talk Dirty
The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY when you're in the
AUTHORITATIVE mindset, and we'll talk about how to combine authority and emotion
a little bit later on. When you're in the authoritative mindset, you've got to recognize that
what goes with authority is talking dirty. Try saying things like, "Baby, I love fucking
you,” or "I love fucking you right now. You're mine. You like this? I'm gonna make you
cum down your leg.” And just saying things that are dirty, like "You like it when I fuck
you.” All sorts of stuff like that. You are going to start slow with talking dirty because
when you haven’t done it and you start, it can be too much. So we’ll go over an
implementation plan for EVERYTHING at the end of the book.
Talking dirty is really an authoritative thing. Honestly, the stuff you hear in pornos is
pretty close to what you should say, but much more intense. Because in real life, women
really, really want to hear it, so you can get as crazy as you want. And you can say a lot
of crazy stuff but you have to start slowly. I like to have guys start with something like
"You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that, and then ramp it up from there.
It’s gonna be different and sound a bit awkward maybe but you just have to get
comfortable talking dirty. When I started I thought I sounded creepy and just dirty but
you can get away with a lot of stuff because it’s in the moment. You wouldn’t call her
“my little slut” in front of kids or out in public where people can hear. It’s all about
BEING IN THE MOMENT or BEING PRESENT. We’ll be talking about PRESENCE in
depth very soon
3. Physical Sensations of Pain
The third part of authority is the physical sensation of pain. And I don't mean “pain” like
tie her up in bondage and throw hot wax all over her, but by “pain” we mean some light
slapping. Like if you're having sex with her doggie-style, lightly slap her ass and see the
result. Okay. You could take her arms, and if you're in missionary position, pin her arms
behind her head. Try to get to the point where you can pin her wrists with one hand (test
the waters, but don’t ever hurt her). This all means heightened arousal towards you and
massive stimulation while she’d normally be afraid of being helpless. Authority can mean
having sex with her harder. Moving faster and thrusting in and going deeper. A great way
to show authority is ripping her clothes off to show how passionate you are. That's very
authoritative. It could be pushing her down into the bed. That's authoritative. Get it? It
could be having sex with her spontaneously. That's really authoritative and all show slight
pain and the authoritative feeling of being taken.
4. Possession
Another way of being authoritative is possession. Pretend that she belongs to you, and
specifically that PARTS OF HER BELONG TO YOU. Like “these are my breasts/tits,”
or “this is my pussy.” You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her
understand that she is yours. You want to show authority. And it doesn't mean that in the
relationship that you're treating her like garbage, and she knows that. It will probably get
to the point and she’ll want to be authoritative with you and try to rip your clothes off and
try to suck your cock off. That’s great but make sure you still dominate her and she
doesn’t feel too powerful, because whether she knows it or not, she’ll be less attracted to
you if you let her consistently lead, even though she thinks she’s just being passionate.
That’s where if she gets wild for sex with you, use VARIETY. Just a reminder—and
make sure you vary it by pushing her off you and telling her “I love when you suck my
cock. But right now I need you to bend over and take my cock inside. This is my pussy
baby. MY PUSSY. Tell me you want my cock deep inside you!” That’s POSSESSION!
Possession can be dangerous though so make sure that the possession doesn’t get crazy
outside the bedroom where she’s asking you questions about where you were all the time.
But when you fuck her so good and she feels like she owns your cock and you own her
pussy, things get VERY TERRITORIAL. It’s a great thing but make sure you make her
feel like she’s the only one constantly if she gets too territorial.
So you’re in this emotional setting while you're having sex with her, and you're being
really authoritative, and giving her an authoritative sexual experience. You have to learn
to separate the experience from real life. Also, you have to be able to — in authority, start
caressing her, and get her in the mood to have sex when she wasn't trying to have sex
with you, but get her aroused so that she does. That is authority right there.
Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. Don’t ask to do
doggystyle. Just pull her into position and get going!
PRESENCE
The component is PRESENCE. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not
worrying about anything else other than what's going on. It's not just you being in the
moment, it's HER being in the moment. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about
is….. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything, and she's not thinking about
anything. Often, you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. If her
eyes are open, and she staring at you or looking around the room like, "Oh, should that
painting be over there?" she's not in the present, and she's not in the moment at all. This is
a bad thing, because you want her not thinking anything, but feeling. Women are feelers.
No Tension
One of the signs that you're both in the present, is that there's no tension. You're not
feeling any stress in any muscles, you're not thinking about, "Did I get that report done
for work?" You're not thinking “Is she enjoying this?" That's one of the big ones, “Is she
enjoying this?” If you're thinking about that, you aren’t in the present. So, part of being
present is not really worrying about if she's enjoying it, and we'll talk about how to make
sure that she is enjoying it.
In the beginning, you're definitely going to be worrying about, "Is she enjoying this?"
But, after a short while, it will become natural, and you won't worry at all about whether
or not she's enjoying it. It'll just happen on its own. You’ll know she’s enjoying the sex.
A lot of guys are tense in bed because they are tense in their life. And if you're tense in
your life, you're gonna be tense in bed. So, the way to not be tense in your life is through
breathing. So, now we're gonna go through a breathing exercise that will help solve your
breathing problem.
10 count breathing is one of the most important things you will learn to help your sex life.
Here is how to do it:
1) Sit in a comfortable position
2) Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as
you fill it with air. This breath is 1.
3) hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in
4) breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. This
exhale is 2.
5) repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. (5 cycles of 2). Concentrate only
on thinking about the number you are on, nothing about life or any topic. Clear your mind
other than the numbers. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely
relaxed. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. After you have done this a few
times it will be 10-20 breathes. You will be able to use this technique to last as long as
you wish in bed and maintain a hard erection. Check it out in the DVD seminar to see this
demonstrated.
Not Thinking About Penis or Performance
We're gonna move into the next part of presence, which is not thinking about your penis
and your performance. Nothing about, "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I
lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions, "Am I
hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens?
You cum, or you get soft. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.
You lose every feeling of being in the moment, and you lose your presence and your
authority. It's game over, because all of a sudden, you've lost all aspect of being good in
bed, and you're no longer good at all. It's a big problem, so you got to make sure that you
aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis, or about different aspects of
your sexuality.
Using Primal Instincts and Desire
You don’t want to be thinking. You want to just be going by instinct. So, in the
beginning, while you're learning this stuff, you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of
thinking. There'll be a learning curve. Just like anything else. Like when you learned to
drive a stick shift, when you learn a language, anything, you're thinking about it at the
start. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. But, once you
get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve, you no longer want to be thinking
about what exactly you're doing, and what's going on. Always instinct. Think of a bear
that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. He's not thinking, "Maybe I'm gonna move my
head in this direction. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees, and I will grab him
here, and the wind is this variable." Think of just pure instinct, just getting in there and
grabbing that salmon.
The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. It does it out of a primal instinct. That's
how you wanna be when you're in the present. You're just primal. Just going right after it.
That is PRESENCE.
EMOTION
The third trait is EMOTION.
Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions
EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. Sometimes she wants to feel
really wanted in a caring and loving way. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of
meat. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. Emotion also explains a lot of
guys sexual problem. They’ll get married, or they'll get a girlfriend, and in the beginning
the sex is really good. And then the sex peters out. It's because in the beginning, there's so
much emotion for both of you. You're madly in love. Your bodies are new. There's a lot
of emotion in the beginning. Then that emotion dips over a time. So now, after the initial
emotions have dipped, you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you." If you're saying “I
love you,” you want to say it with passion. The stronger the emotions, the stronger the
orgasms are gonna be.
The Stronger the Emotions, the Better
Women are attracted to strong emotions. They love guys that make them feel strong
emotions. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl, he makes her feel a lot of
strong emotions, either inside the bedroom, or outside. And it's not that she loves each
emotion that she feels, it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. And you
want to do that in bed. Different emotions. Feelings of being loved. Feelings of just
being fucked. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants.
You Must Be Verbal in Bed
Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. If you're not talking in bed, there's no
way you're conveying any emotion. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves
verbal communication during sex at times. It's not that having open dialogue or a
convesation. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Emotions
are best shown through words. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong
emotions very easily
Teasing
TEASING is a great way to create emotion. If you're teasing a girl, and you're really
slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up, all that teasing
creates anticipation. Anticipation creates excitement So, teasing, anticipation,
excitement. And the way that you can do that, I just keep kissing, keep kissing until all of
the sudden she starts grabbing you, and then kind of push her away. Play hard to get. Do
what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. Just keep going with the foreplay,
and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner, until finally she can't take it
anymore, and she really wants you inside of you.
Being Emotional Yourself
It takes two people to have great sex. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. If
you can't be emotional yourself, she's not going to feel emotion. So, when you're telling
her things, make sure that you really mean it. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most
guys. So, if you're not with a girl that you like, even sexually or in any manner, you need
to be. If it's your wife, you should be pretty emotional, because you married her.
Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. So, you need to be
emotional.
Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom
Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom, and
here are some ways you can do that:
Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her
Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. Romantic talk means things
like, "I love you so much, baby." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby, you
need to start now. Kind of ease it in there, otherwise it sounds a little weird. But romantic
talk is, "Oh, I miss you so much.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is
romantic talk. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk.
VARIETY
The fourth trait is variety. There is physical variety but that’s not what I’m talking about.
Emotional variety is what is REALLY important. It's being a different type of lover who
keeps things fresh and exciting. So, sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy,
that Casanova, that comes in and sweeps her off her feet, saying "Baby, I love you so
much. I love being inside you." That's one kind of a lover.
Be Different Types of Lovers
Sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's fucking her really hard, and you're gonna
just keep fucking her really, really hard. And you're fucking her doggie-style. You're
slapping her ass. You're going crazy, right? Maybe you're fucking her in a place you
shouldn’t be, like you're at her parent's house, or in public. That's a different kind of
emotion for her.
Or you could be narrating a very emotional fantasy. Something like out of a romance
novel. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be
with her. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one…The point from
both examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly
important.
VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. It's not solely about
different positions. Different positions definitely help, because different positions give
her different emotions. If you do different positions, and you say different things, and you
have different interactions in these different positions, it's definitely gonna add variety,
because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. But, positions themselves
aren't really that different. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. You
need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the
same sexual positions. So, being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety.
The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. And I just touched upon
it, but positions aren't as important. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety
within one position. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms,
repeatedly, just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position.
In the missionary position you can make love to her. You can fuck her. You can talk
emotionally. You can talk dirty. There's so many different things that you can do just
from missionary position, that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm
she has.
Being Spontaneous
So, another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at
night, on Friday night, that's not very spontaneous. You want to be having sex at different
times. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day, if you can. Try and
rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. Try to have various times where you
have sex. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. If it's planned, it's not gonna have
that variety. It's not gonna have emotion. It's gonna seem monotonous. So, you wanna
make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. Y eah, you're gonna have
a lot of sex at night after you go to bed, and in the morning when you wake up, but as
much as possible try not stick to a schedule. Do it in the shower, or take a little trip
together and have sex when you get there. You want as much spontaneity as possible.
Using Fantasies
A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. There are lots of different
fantasies. I put in a few sample fantasies in here. There's an entire program on fantasies.
But, fantasies are a great way to add in variety, because you can make her feel a wide
range of emotions, as well as have a lot of fun yourself, and it’s a very enjoyable thing.
And again, when you make her feel a variety of emotions, you're going to give her a lot
of orgasms, and she's going to be madly in love with you. So, fantasies are one way to
add in a lot of orgasms.
The main way to have more VARIETY is to change the emotions. Change the feelings
that she has. Keep things fresh, be a different kind of lover, be spontaneous, and use
fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring.
Be the Master of The Overwhelming Orgasm™
Unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm, women are capable of many
different types. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a
sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger.
Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan
to give any women an orgasm.
Physical Stimulation orgasms- This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your
sexual skills. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a
“physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that
has strong emotions. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual
stimulation orgasm every time. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied
vaginally and move on to deeper, full body orgasms. Here is a way to give a clitoral
orgasm: go to this link to see included video it is much easier to demonstrate than to
write.
www.2girlsteachsex.com/fingeringorgasm
If you want to learn by reading. Here is how to give her a deep spot orgasm:
I want to make this really simple.
1) Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. Kiss her neck, mouth, side of back, inner
thighs.
2) While you are kissing her put your palm over her pussy and apply light pressure. Don’t
do anything else just leave it there.
3) once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside
her with your palm up
4) go as far back as you can with your finger on TOP of her pussy until you find a smooth
spot
5) press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t
be afraid to apply some pressure
6) keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts.
7) feel her cum!
Vaginal Orgasms- Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. These orgasms are
harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before
sex. The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual
penetration will be. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant
manner and having presence, authority, variety, and emotion. (using the PAVE system)
Overwhelming Orgasms- This is a term that I have coined. It is currently being
trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming
Orgasms.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”, continuous orgasmic
state, repeated cumming etc. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately
describes what is going. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will
be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of
passion in your relationship. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women
have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. It’s
overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. A woman will
often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. She will tell all
her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love
with you. I know this sounds ridiculous, I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. I
was dating this girl Renee; she was from Austria, a really sexy, smart accountant. When
we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the
techniques that I use now. Over time with her though, I started implementing real
authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the
second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl, with no
physiological hang-ups. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and
that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to
the sex that she would show up with food, gifts, and panties with my name on them. This
is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough.
Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!
I really wanted to prove that women have elaborate emotional female fantasies so I
wanted some random real life women to tell me their fantasies. Of course I couldn’t ask
women I know because they don’t want to tell the truth and look like sluts. So I posted
ads on Craigslist and had women write in with their fantasies. This stuff is so close to the
P.A.V.E system its unbelievable. Look for all the elements of P.A.VE. within these
fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. These are 100% true anonymous
fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.
Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now!
I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. As usual, I
catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. Even though you are not
physically big, you fill the room with your sexual presence. You look up at me with that
familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. Your
enormous brown eyes beg me to join you.
I set my briefcase on the counter, walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. The
pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample
bottom. I feel your hands slide up over my hips, pulling me against you. I straddle your
lap, kissing you softly, sucking on your bottom lip. Wrapping my arms around your neck,
I lean into your strength and warmth. I can feel the desire pool between my legs, as I
grind my hips against you.
“Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. You feel my lips
graze your neck and you shiver.
“Baby,” is all that you can utter. You pull my suit coat off, revealing a tight, satin
camisole. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric, and before I can stop
you, you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. I gasp as you nibble at
its stiff peak.
“Not yet, darling,” I whisper in your ear. “I want to learn every part of your body
tonight. Just lie back and let me pleasure you.” My hands trail down your abdomen,
coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. You help me remove them. I step back,
still in my 4 inch heels, and appraise your amazing body. “Here are the rules: I touch
you. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. Got it?”
You swallow hard and nod your head. I’ve never taken control like this. I straddle your
lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs.
I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I trace the lines of your
jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I run my fingers across your shoulders and
down your arms, paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. My touch is
light and tentative, and is driving you wild. I’m trying to drink you all in, I can’t get
enough of your different textures.
I grab your left hand, and plant a kiss in your palm. I run my tongue between your fingers
before taking one into my mouth and sucking, gently at first, then with a bit more
strength. You grab me around my waist, and kiss me breathless. “You’re a naughty boy,”
I manage to get out between pants. “I’ve got something that will help”.
I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. I can see the skepticism on your face.
“Don’t worry, baby. If at any point it gets to be too much, just say yellow.”
I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. The material is cool and smooth against your
skin. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. You hear it hit the floor. “Baby, where are
you?”
“I’m here. Just try to relax.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard,
it looks like it might explode. I pull the camisole off too. It’s driving you wild that you
cannot see me, nor do you know what I’m going to do next. The scent of your arousal
teases my nose. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry, but tonight is about
control, so I continue with my lesson.
I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. You
shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I continue my assault, running my
tongue along your side, down to your pelvic bone. I inhale deeply near your navel,
causing your abdomen to quiver. I pinch your nipples, they’re so different from mine, and
you moan. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to
your smooth stomach.
I begin to nibble at your thighs, breathing on your balls and shaft, but not touching them.
I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock, lapping up a drop of precum. You squirm a
little and cry out my name. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your
mouth. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. You
grab my wrist and suck harder. I cannot take another second. My aching pussy has to
have you now. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold.
I start kissing you as I grind my hips, riding you. You grab my hips and force me down
onto you harder and harder. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh, as our
movements become frantic. You slap my ass - hard, first one cheek, then the other. I cry
out, loudly. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my
nipples again.
You roll me underneath you, and slam into me. My legs are over your shoulders so you
can get as deep as possible. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. I run my
fingernails down your back, as you fuck me. The sting of your broken skin excites you. I
am yours now. I cry out your name, nearing the verge of my climax. A flush has spread
from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now, begging you to make me
cum.
You pull back and look in my eyes. “Roll over,” you say roughly. I get on all fours for
you, my pussy throbbing with excitement. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a
little. “Tell me that you want me.”
I take a sharp breath in. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air, yet I’m excited. I can feel
my juices running down my legs. “Fuck me…now.” I feel so wanton. I touch my clit as
you slam into me, bruising my tender skin. You grab my hips and pound harder. My
breasts are bouncing back and forth, causing my nipples to rub against the rough
upholstery of the sofa.
You start to orgasm, and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the
edge. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted.
Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. Your tongue slides across
my aching clit, causing me to moan, almost scream your name. I shudder my completion,
but you refuse to let me go. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. You lap at
me slowly, never changing pace or pressure. I whimper again. The orgasm is different
this time. It builds and I beg you to finish, but you keep that same pace. It is so intense
that I soak your face and the sofa.
I collapse onto our oversized sofa, trying to catch my breath. You cuddle up next to me
and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. You wrap your
arms around me, pulling me against you. You are so strong, I have never felt so safe.
“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear.
“I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day.”
“What is that?”
“You worship my body in your own way. You make me feel safe and loved and
protected. You cater to my whims. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. You
can never seem to get enough.”
I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. Your
breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. I close my eyes and drift
off too, but not before hearing you say softly, “I love you”. I smile – that’s the first time
you’ve said that.
Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now...
From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I
thought I could ever do. But when I saw the ad for fantasies, I thought, what the hell.”
This is what I fantasize about - for real!
I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. It is a winding highway someplace
rural, probably western North Carolina. There are tall pines on either side of the road and
I am going way too fast. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. This would be
a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. Really badly. Mind numbing, can’t think, I have to
pee. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods, especially dressed in a
mini-skirt and strappy sandals. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners.
At least I hope it is.
As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my over-beating
heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. I must keep driving. And oh shit, there
are the lights. He is coming after me. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. We go on like
this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank
the wheel into the gravel lot. My room, number 15, is at the end the building and the car
goes screaming into the space right in front. I think I turn off the car but who really
knows. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom.
I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my
thong and sit. Oh my word. Thank god. Such relief.
Then I hear the door slam open and “Police, come out with your hands in the air.” Oh no
I forgot about the cop in my panic.
I manage “I’m in here.”
As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring
at me. This is so weird. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I am sitting on the
toilet with my skirt hiked up, my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. And he is
pointing a gun at me.
“I had to pee. Don’t shoot me.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to
stand.
I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast
of cold AC. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. The cop can’t
help but look at me, look at my privates. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his
lips. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it.
I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. I
tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. Instead of pulling the thong up I step
out of it and walk forward without my sandals. I have a great tan and bright pink toe
nails. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a
little lower but not anywhere close to modest.
“How about you put that weapon away,” I purr reaching my hands towards one another
clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look.
He exhales again. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of
times. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. My eyes get stuck half way down
when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me,
looking at him. It is awkward in heated kind of way. He instinctually slides the gun into
the holster on his hip. Since he has seen me, he hasn’t said anything to me.
My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. Higher still, he has
a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. He is totally hot.
I try speaking, “Too fast, probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under
arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes.
This next transition is a blur. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the
bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter.
My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. He spreads my legs with his knee, grunts and
moves in quickly. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. I smell like sun and
coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the
round tightness of my bicep. Brushing his cheek against my chest, I arch my back and
press my chest against him. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a
handful of his shirt.
Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. I
have to touch him. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt.
I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I want his mouth
and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. As I suck his full lip his hips start to
press into the counter. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his
tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I love rough kissing and we explore every
inch of each other’s mouths.
I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. My round and firm
breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. He cups my whole tit in his hand
and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. I lean into him as he finds
nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He spreads his
fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. His
palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his
mouth.
He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can
see the muscles of his neck straining. He is so strong and I know he is hard. The thought
of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I arch again
slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart.
The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. He
licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I love it when he uses his teeth and while
it hurts I don’t say stop. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I love it. My
chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt.
I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling
over the edge. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am
crouching on the sink. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. He looks up with
need and reverence. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I
reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. I know I am beautiful.
My thighs are at his eye level. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until
his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I lean in
close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. With each thumb he spreads
my lips gently and looks up. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his tongue over
his lips. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I want him to take me with his mouth so
I tilt my hips closer.
He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. I feel my
knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. I grab the top
of his head and hold on for dear life. I am so wet and hot. He is lapping at my lips and
forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I know my juices are pouring into his
mouth and down his neck. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. After a minute he
reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I gasp but eagerly
meet his hand. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his
two, maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm.
My orgasm comes fast and hard. “More, more. Don’t stop,” I moan and then release. It is
so perfect. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. (This is usually
when I have my first orgasm for real.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I still want to
be fucked.
I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard
on. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. His sex was pulsing and I know he
needs to be inside of me. This gets me so excited for more.
I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass
onto the cold marble. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. He
moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. I am tight in the right
way yet so wet and willing.
“Oh Jesus in heaven,” he moans. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. I push
up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around
his back. My ass is barely on the counter. I am mostly being held in place by his strong
arms and his big dick deep inside of me. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just
for a second but it doesn’t stop him.
He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper.
Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. I want to bite him
and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. His cock is
stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. It was coming but he wants to be
in deeper still. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor.
The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. He drives hard
holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. Pumping harder and faster I
grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his
onslaught. This is when we both come together. He fills me completely.
His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. I feel triumphant. I feel like a
conqueror. I relish him being worn out, panting and trying to catch his breathe. And when
he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?”
And This Story's TRUE!
This is a story that a trainee of mine wrote in with. Totally cool stuff, looks what's
possible! Again, notice use of P.A.V.E to give her the best sex of her life and create
female sexual addiction.
A True Story: In Public! With Me!
I used to date this girl Mandy. Not gorgeous -- but decent body and definitely a girl other
guys would hit on at a bar. Now I’m not the best looking dude and don’t have tons of
money coming in but I was able to keep her around. Never once cheated on me.
Seriously. we had sex 3 times a day and she always craved more. It was the most amazing
sex I’ve ever had and by the amount of times I made her orgasm — suffice it to say she
was hooked. It was like an addiction and I had caused it. Now let’s get this straight
though — if you asked me if I had this confidence two years ago, I would’ve laughed and
been made fun of myself. I’m not a loser but I felt like I only needed more practice and
eventually I’d be good in bed. NOT TRUE. I had messed up other relationships and not
thought the girls were that into me because I didn’t have any money or that I was ugly. I
was pathetic and had given up. Then my friend turned me on to BSM. I decided to use
these techniques on Mandy thinking what the heck, but when I saw how crazy the sex
was getting and that I was lasting longer, I became a believer. Mandy didn’t know how
bad I used to be, so it was like I could start fresh.
Sounded impossible when my friend told me his gorgeous girlfriend was dripping down
her legs when he was on the phone with her. Now going from nervous and anxious about
not performing to feeling like some sort of sex god doesn’t instantly happen. I read BSM
cover to cover and really focused. I wanted to have a girl I could make scream and just
lose her mind in bed. I learned how to please Mandy and make her cum just by telling her
too. I started to try out some of the techniques when I told Mandy to meet me at a
bookstore on our third date. We had already made out a bunch but hadn’t had sex yet. I
wanted her really bad but I hadn’t proved to myself that I wasn’t a loser in bed yet. So
that night I showed up early and texted her to come downstairs for some “reading
stimulation.” (I specifically used the bookstore to throw her off that I wanted just sex
from her.) She texted me back: “Stimulation?” Interesting choice of words! Ok how will I
find you?” I texted back “Come find me. I’m very deep in a very thick book.” Would she
think I was forward or a total dork? Would I scare her off? She texted back: “Nerd.
Ok..I’m inside the store.” I slunk behind a wide stack of books casually browsing
through a paperback entitled “500 Sex Positions.” Totally inappropriate on a formal date
but it’s a bookstore which is inherently more casual and less-tension free. I saw her legs
as she walked down the stairs, peering around the stacks to gauge her approach. She
casually walked through the aisles ducking her head looking for me and gently brushing
her fingers across the books stacked tightly in a row. She seemed to sense I was close and
right around the corner. She pretended to look down and thumb through a book as if she
was waiting for me to reveal myself. I realized she was playing coy so I casually walked
past her and stopped with my back to her, book in hand. I leaned casually into the stacks
and said “You know, I have tried most of these, but this one really really looks
interesting.” I turned around and smirked at her, very casually and confidently. I reached
over and closed her book. “That looks too boring for you.” I looked right at her and
smiled slightly in a knowing way. “A bookstore? That’s such a strange place to meet. No
one’s done that before.” She looked down at my book. “What’s that you got there??” I
told her “I technically know 480 positions so aren’t you curious to see how I could’ve
missed out on the last 20??” She laughed. “480. Wow I had no idea.” I asked her “So I’m
curious. What is one of your fantasies?” She laughed nervously. “Right here? I’m
embarrassed. Um.. I don’t know. We are in public remember.” I told her to lean in and
whisper one. I was sweating a bit; I hope she didn’t notice. She was too embarrassed so I
put my hand on her neck gently with my thumb on her cheek and pulled her in. “You and
I have just gone down to New York for the weekend, went out to an amazing, delicious
dinner that pleasured all of our senses.” She looked around to see if anyone was watching
us. “Wow. There are people all around. Um..” But I continued “we get back to the hotel,
you - you have your favorite dress on and are looking beautiful as always. I look into
your eyes..and you look back..thinking I’m going to kiss you.. But I just put my finger on
your lips and my hand on your cheek. It’s a moment where we should kiss, but I wait..
and move my hand onto the back of your neck and gently massage it..and then..well you
don’t wanna hear the rest do you?” The back of her neck seemed to sweat slightly. She
was leaning into me at this point. “Um..hell yes! I mean..Um yeah..” I told her I would
continue the story later. God what was I doing? She must think I’m weird I thought.
When we got back to my apartment, I told her to sit on the bed. I remembered in the book
about being authoritative and usually I would’ve just asked her if she wanted to sit. But
this time I swore I was going to try something different and keep going. Interestingly, she
did as I asked. After I sat down next to her, I asked her if she wanted me to finish the
story. She told me she was very turned on by the bookstore meeting and needed to hear
the end of it. As I was speaking I slowly put my hand on the back of her neck again and
started with “So, have I told you how beautiful you look in that dress tonight?” She
smiled at me but acted a little shy by biting on her lip. I felt her leg move closer to mine,
nervous as I was, I put my other hand on her thigh. I tugged at her hair slightly and
brought her in for a slow passionate kiss. I was so horny — and seeing her cleavage was
getting me very hard. I wanted to just jump on her but I decided to keep it calm and
smooth no matter what, just to start out. So I took my time on her. I didn’t stick my
tongue down her mouth like I used to...I gave her slow wet kisses and teased her by
slightly pulling away. I put my hand on her chin. She had juicy lips and I tugged slightly
on her bottom one. I squeezed her leg and pushed her on the bed, all the while keeping
eye contact. I told her I felt a buzzing feeling throughout my body when I was around her.
She said she knew what I meant. I kissed her neck and told her I was going to make her
whole body ache. She said ‘Oh..my.. god. How are you going to that?’ I told her I knew
what she wanted but that I would give it to her — “but not yet..I need to know that you
are not just with me for sex.” I kept a straight face. She looked at me to see if I was
joking. And I reassured her “I want it to be special and meaningful. Because when I slip it
in for the first time, I want it to be like I’m taking your virginity. I want it to feel new for
the both of us. Like...our first time...imagine you don’t even remember what sex feels like
until I come along.” “Wow..wow..you sound..confident. I..can’t imagine..” I decided to
make my move. I deliberately moved my hand from her neck and slightly grabbed her
hair, bunched it a little in my hand. She moaned and arched her back. I told her that she
had no idea how good I was going to make her body feel. She tried putting her hands on
my crotch but I told her she was being bad and had to wait. I took control and bent her
over the bed. I ran my hands over her lower back and said “I want you to imagine feeling
the best you’ve ever felt.” I waited for a second while I was massaging her lower back. I
made sure that I kept being authoritative and in control but working her body all the
while..keeping her wanting more. “I wanna know if you can handle it.” She said “Oh
believe me, I can handle it.” I shot back “A little girl like yourself? I doubt it.” She got
bright red as she turned her head to glare at me. I knew I was challenging her but in a
teasing fashion. Then I smacked her ass firmly. She looked back at me shocked and says
“Hey!” but I massage her lower back deep with my thumbs and tell her to arch her back. I
think she wasn’t expecting it but she didn’t complain, so testing the water with her had
worked so far. She moaned slightly and I rubbed my fingers on her crotch, but only for a
second, and then moved to massage her inner thighs. I got up and told her “Come here
little girl.” She looked nervous but flushed and very excited. I told her to reach down
and feel my cock through my jeans. She was on her knees on the bed. She felt my rockhard cock (I’m not huge, but she couldn’t tell much through my jeans). I put my hand on
her hands, gripped them a bit and pushed them away. I gazed into her eyes and told her
that I had to stop because I didn’t want it to get too crazy yet. She looked very frustrated.
“Oh my god you are such a tease!” So looked at my lips then at my eyes, and she
immediately put her hand back on my cock. I told her to trace the outline and tell me
what her body felt like. She said she felt warm inside and buzzing and didn’t know where
she was. I told her to tell me how wet she was. She was honestly too busy feeling my
cock. I couldn’t believe this was happening. I told I wanted her to put my hand where the
buzzing felt strongest. She was breathing heavily and focused on getting my belt off.
“Look at me baby. Put my hand where it feels best.” She brought my hand over her tits
and told me to squeeze them. I took each out of her shirt and cupped them nicely. I began
making out with her and teased her more with my lips..Pulling away slightly, controlling
how pace of the kissing, leading her lips. I told her “Where else are you buzzing baby.” “I
want you so bad. Please stop teasing me!!” she was getting frustrated; I could feel the
sexual tension was getting very intense and she and I were about to explode. I pushed her
onto the bed and I put her hands up behind her head to dominate her a bit. I began
passionately kissing her neck. I thought maybe I should stimulate more of her body so I
had one hand hold both her wrists above her head as she lay on her back, while I started
unbuttoning her shirt. I moved my kisses down onto her chest and then onto her breasts. I
gently sucked on her nipples. I was writhing and going nuts that I was holding her hands
down. I knew she wanted to just jump on top of me at that point and it was getting so hot
in the room. I thought she might make me stop but at that point she was so turned on and
lost in the moment that I was going try and make this the tease of a lifetime. I whispered I
was going to make her cum so hard she would scream. She looked at me like a deer in
headlights and pushed my hands off — she seemed possessed. She reached down and
started grabbing my cock through my jeans again. I pressed my hands on her waists and I
slowly walked my left hand down her skirt and began to massage her clit through her
underwear, while I extended my right hand to her lips. She took my fingers in my
mouth...She began moaning some more and I whispered in her ear again that I was going
to make her cum hard tonight. I told her “Tell me how badly you want it.” She said “Oh
my god you have no idea!” She unzipped my fly and started reaching into my pants for
my cock. I moved my hand to her cheek and gently slapped it. Very gently. I didn’t wait
for a reaction. I told her “You are my little slut and you’ve been a bad girl. I don’t know
if I should give it to you yet.” This drove her crazy so she pushed my hand over her pussy
and I knew it was time to start fingering her. Her pussy was dripping wet. I kept thinking
to myself “Holy shit. I’m doing this?” But I didn’t want to think too much and mess up
what was happening. So I told her “What did I tell you? Not yet Mandy. I want you to
forget where you are and only remember this moment with me. You’re going to feel
pleasure like you’ve never felt with someone. I want you to close your eyes for a
second.” I slipped two fingers into her pussy and curved up and in, massaging her pelvic
bone. I told her she was dripping wet and I wanted to suck on her pussy lips. She said
“Oh my god. what are you doing to me!” I told her this was just the beginning. “Tell me
how much you want my cock inside your tight wet pussy Mandy?!” She was breathing
heavily and I kissed her mouth. “Tell me how much.” She couldn’t respond because I had
run my hand up her shirt and was gently pinching her nipples. The sensory overload was
not allowing her to speak clearly. “Oh..my..god..please..yes!” I pushed her on the bed and
got on top of her, pushing her wrists up and behind her head again and started to lift my
shirt up. I un-did her bra and grabbed her tits again. I made sure I was very sensuous
when I touched her. I then guided my hand up her neck. I was so hard I wanted to take
my jeans off but I waited. I was in complete control and she was wanting more. I leaned
in to passionately kiss her again. I was teasing her and starting to talk dirty and get a bit
physical but I remembered it was important to make everything still intimate and
emotional. So I slowed down the pace so that our bodies were in sync as we pressed our
naked chests up against each other. As I held her hands down again I smiled and said “If
you want my cock you’re going to have to grab it now, otherwise I’m going to start
licking your pussy.” She smiled and immediately reached for my cock. She told me she
wanted me inside her. She finally started unbuttoning my jeans. Her hands were shaking
and she couldn’t seem to get them off fast enough. I told her to take my cock out. She
took it out and was looking up at me intently. She started kissing it a bit and started to
wet it with her tongue before sucking it. I told her how good that felt and that she was
amazing. I told her I didn’t want her to finish so I could let her have a turn. She tried to
get my cock in deep but started to choke. I told her to stand up and bend over. I lovingly
but slightly aggressively guided her to bend over the bed and to spread her legs. I lifted
up her skirt and slapped her ass and told her ass was beautiful. I decided it was now or
never to start getting dirtier so I told her I wanted her to be my little slut tonight. “I’m
going to fuck your pussy so hard you’re going to explode!” “I want it now! I can’t handle
it!!” I grabbed her hair and pulled her head back as she arched her back. I smacked her
ass again. “Fuck me. Please fuck me. Fuck me now!” I put on a condom quickly and
spread her pussy lips with my fingers. I smacked her ass again, harder this time, and told
her to get on her back. It was important that I make her feel that the sex was very
intimate, so before I started to slide my cock inside, I made sure I kissed her clit, her
stomach, her tits, all the way up her neck..then began to grip her hair gently and gave it a
tug, passionately kissing her lips and sliding my tongue in, totally in sync with her
tongue. I gazed into her eyes and told her I wanted her to focus on only on my eyes while
I stuck it in and to just utterly enjoy the moment with me. I pushed inside her tight pussy..
“Your little pussy is so tight baby. Tell me to fuck you. Say my name!” “Fuck me! God
fuck me now John!” It was extremely wet so it slid right in. As I was fucking her I mixed
things up a bit. I told her to wrap her legs around my back and then I told her I was going
to fuck her brains out. She kept saying “Oh my god. oh my god. Please give it to me.
harder..harder!’ I asked her if she liked dirty talk. She said she didn’t know. So I told her
that she was little slut. My little slut who was going cum over and over and over. She was
very turned on by this because there was a possessiveness attached to the words. She felt
dirty but safe because she belonged to me. We fucked for hours. I kept thinking I was
dreaming that I was this good. I made sure that I was always in control. Always going
back to being dominant and tugging at her hair. Firmly telling her to do things. I told her I
was fucking her beautiful pussy. Slapping her ass and telling her I wanted her to cum
harder than ever before. I would tell her to beg me for more and for me to go deeper. It
was very exciting for her because it was so primal. I told her to focus on me and to
imagine that every time we have sex from now on I will go deeper and make her cum
harder and harder and harder. “I’m going to explode inside of you baby.” I slipped in
“baby” only when I pressed close to her and she was moaning and intensely breathing in
the moment. We came at the same time and it was easily the best sex I’d had with a
girlfriend. She dripped all over my cock. It was amazing! It felt more intense and
animalistic because I was telling her what to do and how to feel but always balancing it
with affection and passionate kisses and firm but tender manhandling of her body. I was
surprised when she told me that it was the most intense sex she’d ever had too. The sex
only got better because I made sure to tease her more intensely and start talking more
emotionally about how much I liked her and how amazing I felt when she was around. I
started to realize that in addition to the fact we liked each other without the sex, a strong
sexual connection had been created with this girl who would make any guy masturbate
late at night. Who am I kidding? At the office, in the morning, on lunch break. I made her
attached to me because of the complete array of sensory experiences with me, using some
pain, pleasure, fear, security, passion, primal desire, strong emotions (never go overboard
until she’s in love with you!) and making sure I was authoritative. Teasing her and
painting a mental picture that was more vivid as I described the scene drove Mandy
crazy. I became the window to her fantasies and they became all about me. Bobby’s
system gave me the tools to finally have a sex life where I was in control of the sexual
appetite of my girlfriend!
No Excuses! Make Even These Problems a Thing of the Past!
No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that
come up. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. They often include: not lasting
long enough or not being able to get hard.
“No Trouble Getting Hard”
When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem not a
physical problem. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug
but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it. If you can get hard
during masturbation or while looking at porn then but not during sex your problem is
entirely psychological. If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to
talk with a doctor because there could be a physical problem going on.
Here is how to easily and quickly train yourself to get hard instantly (if you can get hard
during porn or masturbation)
3 Step Program
1. You need to stop trying to get hard completely.
If you are trying the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or
fight response. The harder you try, the limper you will get. Here is what you are going to
do instead of trying.
2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex.
Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed.
Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10
count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of
arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection.
3. More foreplay.
Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay and you will relax and get hard. If you are
not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. More
foreplay= less tension= total arousal.
If you are not getting erect but ARE getting aroused, you can add the following elements
into your life and they will increase your levels of testosterone and of relaxation. Those 2
combined will allow you to get hard and stay hard
1) workout exercise — to start you can do any exercise. A certain specific weight training
routine that I talk about is best but you can start off by adding in walking, jogging or even
doing some pushups. If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit
and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good, then it will help your erection.
a. yoga: Yoga is great for sex. You can use yoga to increase your flexibility and presence
for sex.
b. meditation: Use the 10 count breathing a few times throughout the day. You’ll feel
more relaxed and won’t stress about getting hard.
c. weight training: This and martial arts are the best ways to get your testosterone levels
up and be ready and able to have more sex. Weight training allows you focus on big multi
joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. They include the dead lift,
squat, dumbbell press, and pull-ups. For further details, look at a program such as Body
of Life by Bill Phillips. We’ll be releasing a fitness program very soon but in the
meantime that is a good one to check out.
d. martial arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. Check into some
Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. I’ve personally done this for over 8
years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a tone of sex after training. You
don’t have to ever fight or get injured just use the activity as a relaxation and testosterone
booster.
“You Can Last Longer”
If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem. I used to be the worst premature
ejaculator of all. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because
you know that you can’t please a woman. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you
can think about is your fear of cumming! I remember I used to kid myself that all guy
lasted a short time but the women would tell me otherwise. If you can’t last, your
relationship won’t last!
If you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature
ejaculation with a little bit of work. Ejaculating too quickly is because you do no have
enough presence during sex. When you don’t have presence, tension creeps into your
body and causes you to ejaculate early. Once you learn how aroused you are you can
control your erection and last as long as you want. This seems crazy but I did this and all
the guys have helped have done it too! Follow these steps to everlasting stamina, if you
have a question or are getting discouraged, confidently call an Underground Sex Secrets
coach who will anonymously help you get this area of your sex life handled: 1(800)
297-0461.
Step 1. Don’t fight your arousal (put it at a number) Once you can put your arousal at a
number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Start off
by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. The
scale should be roughly like this:
•
not aroused at all, no erection, your mowing the lawn
•
could get aroused, thinking of maybe masturbating
•
aroused, masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come
•
highly aroused but not going to come yet
•
about to come, couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to, inevitable climax
Cumming Right Along!
You want to be able to recognize where you re on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether
you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. The goal for right now is to be able to
identify when you hit number 6.5 and when it turns into number 9. We’re going to move
when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5!
What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are
about to go from number 6.5 to number 9. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to
come with faster thrusting, harder stroking, or some kind of additional physical or visual
stimulation (aka doggy style). So for the next ten times identify during the entire number
system in each stage up to your orgasm. Then for the next 9 times or however long it
takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie..not as hard stroking) and take 2
or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number
6.5. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the
same thing during sex.
Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you
will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature
ejaculation is gone forever. Again, give us a call if you need help with this. It’s also
described in detail in Seminar DVD as Superman Stamina bonus.
Step 2. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to
last as long as you want. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal
level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. When you are increasing
your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to
her rather than what she is doing to you. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem, its
excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a
blowjob. Instead eat her out, or kiss her body, or kiss her and you will get to and maintain
an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come.
Step 3. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. In the beginning when you are
learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Doggy is the most
visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level.
Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. See
demonstration in the DVD.
Step 4. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. You have conditioned
yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get
back to a 4. Take a breath and slow down! And keep your eyes open!
Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex.
It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof
and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it.
If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training, exercise,
meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at
LEAST 50%.
“You CAN give her an orgasm”
A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. She will, you just have
to be doing the right things and following the P.A.V.E. model.
You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Follow
these steps to make her start coming and then go of the overwhelming orgasms AFTER
this.
Giving Women Orgasms Ladder:
1) longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t push the sex, let her want it from you
2) have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself come
3) have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her
4) physical stimulation orgasm
5) orgasm through sex
6) add in all elements of P.A.V.E to give her Overwhelming Orgasm
Don't Think She Wants It? Think Again!
Mindset: What you have to realize is that she does WANT to have great sex...she is just
conditioned to think the sex isn't good so she has to be reconditioned to know that you are
now a better lover
1) start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom
2) start being more flirtatious during the day (texts, kisses, etc)
3) never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom
4) never try and trade anything for sex 5) will take a bit of time but once she notices that
you are becoming a better lover you will begin having more sex
6) start giving her more orgasms and she will want sex
No Experience Necessary
mindset: realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually its whether you WANT to
be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled
1) have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot
2) all that counts is getting experience
3) a few hours after a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what
needed improvement
4) pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience..work on only one thing at a time
5) enjoy experience! you will be a sex god
"Getting It" Offline
A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. The
temptation is there. Online porn these days is cheap, the girls are beautiful, and the sites
have TONS of videos. The problem with getting addicted to online porn is that it lowers
your sex drive for REAL women and you either cum too fast or can’t get hard from so
much masturbating when you actually have sex. If you are masturbating more than twice
a day you may want to slow the pace or masturbate differently in order to keep ready for
sex. (I have a video on this you should check out)
Size Doesn't Matter Most
"My penis is too small."
This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Women don’t often
fantasize about getting railed by a huge dick. Women fantasize about elaborate sexual
fantasies that you can create with your MIND not with your cock. Unless your penis is
under 2.5 inches hard it does not matter. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or
make it thicker. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills, pumps, or exercises don’t
waste your time. Even if it does work at all, a bigger dick will not give you sexual
mastery, stamina, and maker her come. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in
the scientifically proven principles of Incredible Sex Now which are proven to make you
a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you.
Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman!
TONS of guys write to me saying that their girl is different. That this stuff works on
“slutty” girls but my lover is an older, more sophisticated classy woman. Guys, the
evidence is overwhelming, women respond incredibly to Incredible Sex Now. These are
psychological principles. You are having a belief system problem. Your lover IS sexual
you just AREN’T GOOD. Let go of your ego and improve. I understand that is
intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. That is why at the end I’ve
created the “implementing” mini course. I wanna make sure that you EXPERIENCE the
power of this stuff, not just think about theoretically. We can tone down the level of any
variable to adjust with any lover but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands
of guys with ALL TYPES of women. Here are some of the types of women that have
responded well to my program:
Cute, nerdy type women who have been waiting to have their sexual side released
Beautiful models who used to only sleep with rich and famous men
A pornstar who left her MMA fighter boyfriend for a mechanical engineer
Normal girls you see in walking around the supermarket but have never talked with
Multitudes of women who our trainees met on internet dating sites
She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours!
Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. It’s not hiding as much as you
think. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the
beliefs that your body is holding you back. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better
shape because she will be more attracted, it will raise your testosterone, and you’ll be
able to move better in bed. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about
your body, the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Don’t discuss what
you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. Just get naked, turn off the lights to
start if you are nervous and use the techniques from this book. Remember, women are
turned on by the emotional not the physical.
It May Just Be in Your Head
Look man, if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in
your head. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some
pharmaceutical help. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your
problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. Practice the breathing
exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. Or if
you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety
reasons.
Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work!
Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself
about. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect
yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed, she’s starting to
have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Once you can consistently give women
AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 50% of the
time. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex
will feel like a chore to you. Something that you have to work on. So what I want you to
do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better
sex. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the
time. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting, whether she
is coming, what position you are in. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Just FUCK her. Be a
total primal instinct driven animal. If you want to say something say it, if you want to do
something to do it, if you want to last 2 minutes, that’s fine. As long as the other half of
the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be
sexually satisfied.
Getting Started is Easy
A very common question my friend. See the chapter titled “Implementing The System.”
I don’t know how to initiate sex
For me, when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my
girlfriend. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and
the work will be done for you!
Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as
long as you are together and its not stressful).
Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her..if you are doing more
things together it won’t see incongruent.
Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts
while doing it and put her hand on your penis.
Sex will occur! Use 2 Girls Teach Sex methods to give her “overwhelming orgasms.”
(also in month 2 of the monthly DVD’s there is an AWESOME sex initiating massage)
Avoiding Disaster
About Unplanned pregnancy:
There is nothing worse than an unplanned pregnancy to throw a wrench in your newly
created sex life. This is an area where you really have to be careful because abortions are
a big deal and even if your girl will get one you want to avoid it all costs. It can be quite
traumatizing and there will be much more difficulty having Presence in your sex life
afterwards. I’ve had a few close calls in this department and have managed to avoid a real
problem. Let’s tackle the issue of pregnancy first.
Types of birth control
There are numerous types of birth control. Let’s run though some of them now:
(Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been
tested and deemed STD free.)
The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull
out” your penis before you ejaculate. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you
should ever use it. Pre-cum contains sperm. Sperm lead to children. If you are using the
“Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. If you are
having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you
are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. (The
chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened
before.)
Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. It’s
also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. (as
opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). As long
you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent
pregnancy.
The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. It works really well — as long
as she takes it. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in
today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. If she is on the pill and you completely
trust her then the pill is a great solution; if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really
wants a child with you explore the other options.
Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an
opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. However it hasn’t done as
well as many thought it would. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom
while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. You can experiment with it, but
when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Guys take
responsibility, know this exists but wear a condom yourself.
Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. Most times a woman
needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. It’s kind of a pain as they need to
get it fitted and leave it in after sex. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be
less effective than a condom or the pill. Again, unless you have a major aversion to
condoms, I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm.
Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Here is what you need to
know about spermicide. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. I would not
recommend it. There chance of pregnancy is too high. Spermicide used with a condom is
very effective at preventing pregnancy. However, some studies have shown that
spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom.
The Patch, The Ring, the Shot, and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions
available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Since these have
to be replaced infrequently, they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill.
IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties, it’s a very effective, comfortable
solution for women who have already had a child. It has to be inserted (and removed) by
a medical professional.
Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had
impregnated a girlfriend at the time. Although both operations (guys and girls) are
reversible, changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. If
you’re going to do this be sure. My friend Mike, who was really concerned about
unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. He walked out of the
hospital and was fine after a weekend.
The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form
of hormonal birth control your fine. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just
started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a
condom!
Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs, I’ve never had one, but I know people who
have had. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on.
Some STDs are very serious. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. Don’t get it. Let’s
make it simple:
HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY.
Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. It is much easier for
a woman to get HIV than a man. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED
sex with a woman who has not been tested. If a condom does break with a woman that for
some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past, then go get tested ASAP for everything
and then again for HIV in 3 months. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. It
will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and gonorrhea. You can also get
what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. Unless you
have been having unprotected anal sex with hookers, you should be fine. Just get tested to
be sure.
STDs other than HIV:
There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. Always ask a woman about her
sexual history. Despite it being a serious subject, bring it up casually but firmly. This is
important! It’s your life we’re talking about here!
Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. Obviously sex is much better with no
condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of
relationship and you know, not guess, that is completely STD free as are you yourself.
I’m not going to list every STD here; if you feel a burning when you take a piss or see
weird spots go see your doctor.
What Kind of Condoms Are Best:
The best condom is the one that you can put with ease, doesn’t grip your cock too tight,
and still always you to enjoy sex. Often guys will say something like, “I can’t get hard
with a condom on, or condoms ruin sex.” If you can get hard with no condom on while
watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. It’s all in
your head. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. While condoms definitely make
sex less enjoyable, STDs make LIFE unenjoyable.
The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. I have never found them in a
store but have bought them online. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex
Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www.condomdepot.com. Buy one of their
sampler kits and try the different condoms. For overall experience, I highly do
recommend that Durex Love. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material
condoms. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break.
(Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom, you can
add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not
affect the condom staying on. You can use Astroglide, Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any
other lube that you may want to try out.)
When The Condom Breaks:
If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Let’s review how to put
on a condom. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this
review.
Watch My Girls Show you How to Put on a Condom
Easier to watch than to read…if you need to see this go to:
www.2girlsteachsex.com/condomdemo
When An Incident Occurs:
When condoms break it can be a nerve racking situation. So let’s talk about what to do
because there are 2 issues. From a pregnancy standpoint, if you blew your load inside her
and she’s NOT on birth control you have a problem. You want her to take a Morning
after pill. This lowers the chance of pregnancy to a tiny chance. (some stats). In most
states now, guys can buy the morning after pill. Keep it at your place and don’t panic but
say that you think that she should take it. Many girls will immediately agree, others may
balk. You can’t force a girl to take it so just make sure you tell her how much you care
about her (and both of you) Be caring but concerned. If she does not take it, chances are
she will not get pregnant, but there is not much you can do about it except make sure it
doesn’t happen again.
About pills and supplements and penis pumps:
I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than some natural herbs that I found and my
own testosterone boosting workouts. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out
there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Let’s do a quick run
through.
Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard
and stay hard it’s a mental thing. But if you feel that you really need it then use it. Use the
lowest possible does that gives you a benefit. (Often the benefit is more psychological
than anything else). Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Remember
though, pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. It’s all about using the 4
variables of this system and everything you learn in the DVD’s. Viagra is best taken if
you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost.
If you really need a boost for a long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works
better.
Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long
weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a
good option for you. Again once you master the techniques you will have the strategies
you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up
more. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t give you the
rock hard erections that Viagra does. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard
over and over even if you’ve just had sex.
Penis pumps
I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. It hurt, I nearly popped some blood
vessels and I’m never using it again. If you’re thinking of getting one, don’t. It’s a waste
of your time and money. Dick size is NOT the problem. The solution is learning how to
be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion.
Don't Wait. Implementing my system and P.A.V.E
What good is this system if you never implement it?
Don’t be worried about implementing EVERY aspect of this book. Let’s go through and
talk about where to start.
Be able to last at least 10 minutes….if you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to
give her orgasms during penetration. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using
the numbered arousal system until you can. (again call us with any problems 1 800 297
0461…tons of guys do and its completely anonymous)
Be able to give her an orgasm. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be
you next goal. You don’t have to go crazy. Remember that first you will give her a
clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Then move on until you can give her an
orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority.
Focus on foreplay. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual
skills. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Focus on getting your girl to
so horny during foreplay that she jams your cock inside of her. Try and spend just as
much time on foreplay as the actual sex. Trust me you will driver her crazy.
Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. As your sexual skills start rocking the
bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. You should
notice an increase in how often you are having sex!
Once you are working on these 4 steps start incorporating some more advanced
strategies. Check out the new information and start incorporating some crazy fantasies,
giving her overwhelming orgasms, and making her come repeatedly by on command.
After-thoughts:
I’m pumped you have chosen to rock the bedroom. Its not just about giving a woman
orgasms, it’s so much more than that. It’s being a real man, living life on your own terms,
and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Sexual skills
really do make the man and people can tell. You now have an advantage few guys
actually have the balls to learn. Congratulate yourself, great job man, and check out my
other stuff to take it to the next level and GET WILD!
Your friend and incredible sex coach,
Bobby Bradshaw
(800) 297 0461
Deeper and Harder Bonus:
Looking back now I can laugh at how bad my first few sexual experiences were. But at
the time, being terrible in bed caused a TON of humiliation, embarrassment, and
frustration. I even lost several awesome girls because I wasn't able to satisfy them
sexually. When you are bad in bed, you are telling a girl that you aren't the kind of guy
who other women want to be with... and there is no quicker way to lose attraction.
Hopefully as you read this you have already survived your first sexual experiences. But
even if you have never had sex, or if you are still having awkward "beginner" sex where
you can't last more than a couple minutes and have trouble getting hard, I want you to
know there IS a solution.
So if you are still working on the basics (and it's OK, I was there myself) I have put
together a special DVD series JUST for you that I call "Natural Alpha Male Sex.” Inside,
I teach you:
How to avoid losing your girl, or having her cheat on you because you can't satisfy her
sexually
How to avoid having her tell all of her friends AND all of your friends just how terrible
you were in bed
The secret tip that makes sure you get hard every time — believe me, not getting it up is
the MOST mortifying experience you can have
5 secrets to basic foreplay that GUARANTEE that she will have an amazing experience
The 8 mistakes all guys make when first having sex and how to avoid them
And lots, lots more.
Below I'm going to give you one of my favorite parts of the program. Make sure you read
and apply them!
The 3 keys to "Get Started As A Stud"
When you are first getting started having sex it can seem like there is an overwhelming
amount of things to think about. How do I take her clothes off, how do I touch her, what
do I say, should I make noises, the list goes on and on. For most people, all of this is
going on at the same time that their mind is racing with fears, insecurities, and
inhibitions. It can seem impossible to do everything right the first few times you are with
a girl! This is where I come in. I have put together a list of 3 keys that will take care of
90% of your sexual experience, allowing you to focus on your and her enjoyment.
1) Relax.
95% of performance problems — cumming too quickly or not being able to get it up —
stem from the same problem, nervousness. Your subconscious is trying to avoid the
sexual experience either by ending it quickly or not letting it get started. But consciously
thinking about relaxing doesn't help at all, it can even make you more nervous because
you are now focused on it. So you need some simple tricks to help calm you down in the
moment.
1) Avoid positions that involve straining your muscles, particularly the upper body
muscles.
The worst positions are where you are supporting your or her weight on your arms. The
best positions for relaxation are her on top, and doggy style.
2) Focus on your breathing
If you are having sex, stop thrusting. If she is using her hands or mouth on you, let her
continue. Take 3 deep breaths. Make sure that every muscle in your body in relaxed, then
resume whatever you were doing in a different way. If you were fucking her, start
fucking her again but slower or in a different position. If she was blowing you, push her
head back and go down on her.
3) Alcohol
Normally I wouldn't recommend using alcohol, but if you are going to drink, make sure
you don't have too much or too little. The perfect amount to drink for relaxation is 2
beers. A lot of guys will have more than this because it feels like you are more relaxed,
but it will actually ruin your performance.
4) Have a few go-to moves.
Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you
"don't know what to do." To avoid this, make sure you have a few go-to moves for
different situations. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl," so
again stick to the basics.
You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and
silent. Sticking with the classics like, "baby that feels so good," and "you like when I am
inside you?" should cover you in most situations. Try being a little more creative if you
are comfortable, but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. If you are
having relatively tame sex, in 2 or 3 basic positions, in the bedroom (all of which is fine
for your first sexual experiences!), you don't want to be talking about more advanced and
wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent and disrupt the experience.
You should also have a few go-to foreplay techniques. I give you all of them in the full
system. You can call about it and to hear a few of them for free.
5) Spend extra time on foreplay.
Make sure to spend extra time on the foreplay. This will help you to get comfortable with
being sexually intimate with your partner. It will also increase her total pleasure and
make the experience longer, which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might
have. Focus on these three keys and you will take care of 90% of the problems beginners
face. This will really allow you to focus on your enjoyment and soon you will be ready to
work on more advanced techniques. If you are still a beginner you definitely will want to
get the full program.
To hear free sex tips from the coaches and learn more about any of these programs call us
anytime at 1 800 297 0461.
Bobby B.