@ How long have you been in the site ?
@ have you found anyone yet ? I have talk to few but no one corresponding
@ few contacted me but you the only one am corresponding with @ what inspired you to join the site ?
@ i was inspired to join the site by my boss who got married from the site two years ago so decided to join if i could find my missing rib.
@ have you been to other dating site ? @ how long have you been single ?
@ I have been widowed for 8 years now since i lost my wife
@ have been widowed for 8 years and since then i have never been in any relationship, i dont go to bar nor hang on the street till i was introduced to the dating site by my boss who got married from the site two years ago
@ how many relationships have you been into ?
@ I have never been to any relationship since i lost my wife @ do you know what went wrong in your previous relationship ?
@ what went wrong is losing my wife to leukemia @ do you know what you want in your new partner ? same here @ i am a one woman man, i want a loving, caring, understanding, family oriented, honest and a God loving woman to spend the rest of my life with, want to hold the hands of my partner to pray to God at night before we go to bed and hold her hands to pray in the morning before we start our day
@ where are you originally from ? (MUNICH CAPITAL OF BAVARIA) BERLIN
Am originally from Germany but was born in the States though i grew up in Germany, i returned back to the States 17 years now
@ do you believe in God ? same here
@ absolutely, He has protected me all these years. I have gone through some terrible things but He has brought me out, and I can still Praise Him. I owe my life to Him without Him I can do nothing. The good God have done a lot in my life, just as the words of the song " without Him I would be nothing, without Him I'd surely fail, without Him I would be drifting like a ship without a sail" @ when did you accept Christ as your Lord and personal savior ? i accepted Christ as my Lord and personal savior when i was 16 years. Been a Catholic, its my entire life. I was born into a Catholic family and I have lived a Catholic and everyday is a new experience with the Lord Jesus Christ.
@ what is the miraculous thing that God hath done in your life ? @ there is too many things to count, but the most important is saving me from the bondage of sin and helping me raised my daughter up when i lost her mother with the help of her grand ma. His wonders never cease to amaze me @ what do you do for a living ?
@ Am a Geologist, i work with a German oil company in an oil rig
we are into search, exploration, drilling and refining of crude oil in the mid-sea
my job is an offshore job, i spend few weeks on the oil rig and 3 months back in the States during my vacation
i work in Mont-rose Field North-Sea, Aberdeen, Scotland
it takes chopper 4 hours to fly from Aberdeen land down the oil rig
@ PHOTO1 B4 Mesag=== this is the rig i work, its so large like a small community, we are over 7000 workers on the oil rig
@ PHOTO2== this is the chopper that fly us down the rig, it takes 4 hours to fly from Aberdeen down the oil rig
@ PHOTO3== these are drilling crew
@ PHOTO4== this is my cabin
@ PHOTO5== this is my bathroom
@ am the Assistant Manager on drilling matter, i have 27 staffs working under me
have been working with my company for 29 years how long have you been working on your job ?
@ have you found anyone in the oil business before now ?
@ do you like your job ?
@ like my job cos it can put food on my table, we are into search, exploration, drilling and refining of crud oil in the mid-sea.....it is call an oil rig @ what are your daily schedule like ? i work 10hrs daily @ do you work overtime ? yes sometimes @ do you have any kids ? I have just a daughter her name is Michelle Grade 9 school @ do you live alone ?
@ i live with my daughter when am back from work but when am off to work she lives with her grand ma @ how big is your family ? am the only child of my family, i lost both parents years ago. @ do you have any tattoo or body piercing on your body ?
@ are you right handed or left handed ? am right handed @ do you do drugs, smoke or alcohol ? i don't do drugs and don't smoke but drink red wine or white wine occasionally @ what do you do for fun ?
@ i like going to the gym, i like biking, hiking, horseback riding, camping, gardening, bird watching, swimming, i like to drive down town, sightseeing, photography, i like traveling, cooking @ what are your favorite movies ? Particular movie like @ Cartoon,comedy, documentary, drama, musical, mystery, romance, science fiction
@ what are your favorite music ?
my favorite music, Blues, Classical, Gospel, Inspirational, Praise and Worship, Religious Music, Rock & Roll
@ Particular music like ....
Amazing grace, John Newton ..... On eagles wings, Michael Joncas ..... Be not afraid, John Michael Talbot .... How great thou art, Stuart K Hine @ what are your favorite foods ? @ American, Barbecue, Chinese, Fast food, German, Mexican, Seafood, Vegetarian/Vegan @ When are you most your self ? am always myself @ what are your likes and dislikes ?
@ i love honesty, caring, helping people, been truthful, straightforwardness and i hate lies, cheating, dishonesty @ what are your favorite color ? Blue, purple, pink, and green @ tell me three words your friends would use to describe you.
@ loving, caring, fun to be with @ whats your idea of a first date? @ My idea of a first date would be the same as for any date with the person I was in love with. It would be to meet in a quiet place and talk have a picnic, walk on the beach, or a nice quiet dinner maybe with some dancing. It has been years..since I danced. I would like it to be romantic but not overly so..A chance to get to understand what we know about each other and see if the chemistry is really there
@ I think meeting at a coffee shop and sharing a cup of coffee and maybe a muffin or pastry together is good. If you hit it off and want to, you can have a meal together. I think having dinner together is intimate, and don't want to go there until I'm sure there's chemistry @ What do you want or looking for in your new relationship ?
@ i want a loving, caring, understanding, family oriented, honest and a God fearing and loving woman to spend the rest of my life with, want to hold the hands of my partner to pray to God at night before we go to bed and hold her hands to pray in the morning before we start our day
1. when it comes to life in general, what do you feel is the most important thing of all ? @ a strong Relationship with God 2. how would you describe “happiness”?
@ happiness to me is...loving yourself, so that you can share your best with others, being content and at peace
@ what are your dreams and goals ? 3. When you visualize the “good” relationship, what is it that you see ?
@ True Love, Compatibility, Trust, Honesty, Happiness, Openness. A sense of Awe when you walk into the room 4. what do you consider the most important values in a man ?
@ being a good leader, who walk side by side with his partner...good values. trust worthyness, strong enough to be soft. good sence of humor.
5. what fear would you like to be free of ?
@ i would like to be free of dying alone
@ what were your life changing Moments ?
@ exposure to other cultures, death of my grandmother, my moms recovery from colon cancer
@ as you look back on Life ..when was the moment you were most yourself ?
@ i am always myself 6. in reviewing your life, what would you say your biggest mistake was ?
@ some business decisions
7.@@@ do you have any specific plans for the future when it comes to your permanent relationship ?
@ I know that I need a woman who is steadfast in the Lord. One that will pray with me and for me. One that will study God's Word with me. making my dreams come true ..setting up my own private company 8. how would you describe love ?
@ Scripture tells us that God is love. His love is perfect. He loved us so much He sent His son to die for us, We all humans can only strive to love as God loves us
9. throughout your life, what experiences do you feel contributed most to the person that you have become today ?
@ Christ has seen me all through these years ...he is my rock of Ages
10. life is marked by a handful of experiences that change the direction we take. What would you say is one experience that changed the course of your life in general? Death
@ What is an example of one major decision that you have made, and how did you handle the situation?
@ Have you had an experience that you consider to be the most embarrassing? Why was it embarrassing?
@ We are all “diamonds in the rough”. In order for me to get past that stage, what would you say u need to focus on most?
@ When there is nothing to do, what types of things do you entertain yourself with?
@ Do you believe that love involves following your heart, or your head?
@ Do you still have feelings for someone that you once shared a relationship with?
@ Do you have any specific plans for the future when it comes to your permanent relationship?
@ How would you describe the most romantic night of your life?
@ Throughout your life, what experiences do you feel contributed most to the person that you have become today?
50. Life is marked by a handful of experiences that change the direction we take. What would you say is one experience that changed the course of your life in general?
51. What is an example of one major decision that you have made, and how did you handle the situation?
52. We are all “diamonds in the rough”. In order for me to get past that stage, what would you say I need to focus on most?
53. Have you had an experience that you consider to be the most embarrassing? Why was it embarrassing?
54. What type of pet do you enjoy the most, and why do you like that particular type?
55. What is your opinion when it comes to marriage?
1. what do you have for lunch ? I had applesauce and a bagel with cream cheese
2. What's your favorite time of the year? Why?
@ I would have to say autumn. The weather is cool and the leaves and scenary are beautiful
3.What is your favorite holiday? that's harder to say, probably Halloween. I love coming up with costumes for the kids 4.What's your favorite color? Blue is my favorite color
5 .What is your least favorite color? brown, too dull and boring
6 your favorite holiday? thanksgiving....The holiday is designed to give thanks and spend time with those you love
7.If you could go anywhere on a vacation, where would you go? I'm not sure, probably somewhere in Europe. I do want to take an Alaskan cruise some day
8.Have you been fantasizing about getting away on a dream vacation? sometimes, but then reality hits
9.How is your physical shape? What do you do to keep in shape?
9. If you were asked to give yourself a nickname, what would it be? ifine I thought about getting personalized license plates with that on it
10. If you were asked to give me a nickname, what would it be? I'm not sure I know you well enough yet for a nickname and no,
I told you I was unique
11.Would you mind if your partner making more money than you? how much money someone makes is irrelevant. Partners work together and share responsibilities
12.If your partner could make more money, would you stay home with the kids? If that worked best for our family, but wouldn't feel I had to.
13. If you were stranded on an island and allowed one luxury item, what would it be? a lifetime supply of pre-pasted toothbrushes. lol
14.What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships? loss of communication and trust
15 .What are the qualities of your ideal relationship ? Respect, trust, honesty, communication, loyalty, love and understanding
16.Have you ever had your heart broken? YES!
17.What scares you the most about opening your heart to your partner? The fear is not to open my heart to my partner, because they wouldn't be my partner if my heart was closed, but the fear is to do what I am doing now and open my heart to a stranger and trust he is being honest and trustworthy
18.Has any book or movie made an impact on you? yes, Max Lucado's book How to Forgive Even When You Don't Want To.
19.What is the most annoying thing that someone could do to you? make promises and not keep them
20.If you could have any job in the world, what would it be? Wal-Mart Greeter at awesome pay
21.What is the biggest mistake that people make on a first date?
22. Define a truly successful relationship ? time shouldn't be the important thing, getting to know each other should
23.What were your life-changing moments? my kids, my arm accident, failed relationships, schooling, but mostly God
24.What is the weirdest thing about you? weirdest thiong about me: you have no idea! my personality "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
25.What was your most embarrassing moment? when I was a teenager and had a friend over for the night. My mom came up the stairs on her hands and knees meowing like a cat and ate my friends ice cream bar while she was holding it
26.Which is the one book that has really impressed you? not sure on the book, I could be smart and say the bible bible is the greatest book on earth a perfect work of objectivity
27. Tell me about your best friend ?. , we went to vacation Bible School together, her twin brothers were my age, we were better than sisters. we still stay in touch Now would be Wendy, she wants to see a picture of you to make sure you are good enough for me. We work together, we go shopping together, share our hopes and dreams for each other's future. She is awesome and a real true friend
28.if your whole life had been designed in advance so that you would learn something from it, what would be the lesson you were supposed to have learned? Life is unpredictable and God has given me a great gift to share with others to make this world a better place. Live life to the fullest and spread God's love along the way.
29. If your whole life had been designed in advance so that you would learn something from it, what would be the lesson you were supposed to have learned?
30. As you look back on your life, what were the moments when you were most yourself?
31. What is a goal you would like to accomplish in one month? In six months?
32. What is a fear you’d like to be free of?
33. How do you find courage?
34. What challenge do you have before you right now?
35. If you were asked by a child you love to tell the most important thing you have learned in life, what would it be?
36. What is something you’d like to celebrate?
37. What is a dream you’d like to have come true someday?
38. What is life asking of you at this time, even in all your suffering?
39. When do you feel most renewed?
40.if you had a billion $ what would you do with it ?
41.what and how do you see yourself after 5...10...20 years?
42.how do you describe yourself in one word?
43.do you feel at ease in crowds and communicate easily with others?
44.do you get bored reading theoretical books?
45.do you plan or improvise?
46.Are your actions affected by your emotions? what about your decisions ?
47. What kind of life do you want to live?
48.What would your dream honeymoon destination be? (ask this only if you can pull it off!)
50. What would you prefer? An urban apartment, a countryside cottage, a beach-side villa or a house in the hills?
51.How romantic are you?
52 .What is your idea of a nice date?
53.What do you look for in a guy?
54.Would you like your guy to be spontaneous or stable?
55. What is your definition of love?
56. What was your first impression of me?
57. What kind of movies do you like?
58. Who is your favorite actor?
59. What is your favorite TV show?
60.What kind of music do you like?
61. Who is your favorite singer?
62.If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it?
I am from USA . i am a geologist by professsion ,i love my job at least it can put food on the table and take care of my need. i am a widowed, i have one son . His name is Harry 14yrs , because of my job i could not look after him it involves alot of traveling and been Offshore , so my mother in law takes care of him. i joined this site 3 days ago , there is no luck yet .. what i desire in a new partner is a woman of substance and integrity, who is genuine, open, and honest. she is intelligent, confident and accomplished, yet tempered by love and a kind heart. she is adventurous, keeps me laughing and intellectually challenged. If she has children, she is a devoted mom. He communicates his thoughts and feelings with ease. He is passionate, loving,compassionate, a great kisser and my best friend. His smile makes me melt. He carries no baggage (just wisdom) from the past.
Been a Catholic, its my entire life. I was born into a Catholic family and I have lived a Catholic and everyday is a new experience with the Lord Jesus Christ.
Am down to earth, have a good humor because I love to laugh, enjoy each day as it comes and live it to its fullest. Am easy going and I love to try new things and most especially, spend time with my partner if I have one to love and to cherish.
Am looking for someone that has something in common with me, who is ready to let go of the past and live life to its fullest..
Candle light dinner...