Business Studies Department, BUKC 1 Be able to understand the Inside - Out approach i.e. to start with oneself is required for personal and interpersonal effectiveness Differentiate between: ◦ Personality Ethics & Character Ethics ◦ Primary & secondary greatness What is the power of paradigm & paradigm shift, principle-centred paradigm, principles of growth & change? Describe a new level of thinking 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Character Ethic Personality Ethic 9 Character is like a tree & reputation like a shadow. The shadow is what we think of it, the tree is the real thing. Abraham Lincoln 10 a) CHARACTER ETHIC :- Things like integrity, humility, temperance, fidelity, justice, compassion, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, contribution, responsibility, courage, the Golden Rule through which the people can only experience true & enduring success. These attributes are the foundation stone of success. The character ethic teaches us that there are basic principles of effective living and that people can only experience true success and enduring happiness as they learn and integrate these principles into their basic character. 11 b) PERSONALITY ETHIC:- more importance is given to the personality of a person rather than the character, for achieving success. This emphasises more on quick-fix influence techniques, communication skills & positive MENTAL attitude. 12 13 The real source of lasting effectiveness lies in a strong Character - the roots, the foundation 14 Before we focus on techniques or how to be more effective with others, Give our first energies to our own . 15 People worry about their and their family’s image in other’s eyes Our motives and perceptions influence our views more than the character ethic. People should develop valuebased motives and perceptions. “Search your own heart with all diligence, for out of it flow the issues of life.” (Bible) 16 (SOCIAL RECOGNITION FOR THEIR TALENTS) You may be able to get by in short-term by charm, skill and pretension. Pick up easy and quick techniques from Personality ethic Challenges of life will force true motives to surface and human relationships will fail. 17 Many people having good image lack primary greatness or goodness in character Secondary greatness without primary greatness is A mere facade 18 Integrity and goodness of character bring primary greatness. Character communicates most eloquently. When people have primary greatness but lack skills of secondary greatness, it does affect their life but these effects are still secondary. 19 20 21 22 23 24 There is a consensus that constantly surrounds them – They all share the same fundamental VALUE SYSTEMS 25 26 These are universal. These are principles. Every one of the 7 Habits represents a principle. Are our HABITS & VALUES aligned with principles and the Natural Laws? 27 The Power of Paradigm Means a model, theory, perception, assumption or frame of reference Both Character Ethic and Personality Ethic are examples of social paradigms 28 The Power of Paradigm It is the way we “see”, “understand” and “interpret” the world - our mental “MAPS“ 29 Two main categories of our mental maps Maps of the way things are, “Realities” and maps of the way things should be “Values” We interpret everything we experience through these mental maps, which we hardly question. 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 The more aware we are of our basic paradigms or assumptions And the extent of influence of our experience; We can take more responsibility for our paradigms, examine them, test them against reality and other’s views Thus, gaining a more objective view. 37 (Shift FROM ONE WAY OF SEEING THE WORLD TO ANOTHER) “If you want ... Minor changes in your life, work on your behaviour. But If you want to make significant, quantum breakthroughs, work on your paradigms.” (Stephen r. covey) 38 We can’t very much change our SEEING without simultaneously changing our BEING & vice versa. Our change of vision is a result of – and limited by – our basic character. Paradigms are powerful because they create the lens through which we see the world. 39 The Character Ethic is based on the idea that that there are principles that govern human effectiveness Such principles are fairness, integrity, human dignity, service, excellence, etc. When our paradigms are aligned with these principles, they become accurate and functional. 40 In life, development and growth takes place in a natural order. It applies to individuals, families, relationships and organisations. There is no shortcut in this natural process 41 The Personality Ethic conveys that we can take some dramatic action, shake things up, motivate, or do a better job through new people. The paradigms of Personality Ethic may be affecting the way we see our problems. Let us get away from the temporary solutions of BandAids and aspirin. 42 A new level of thinking It is principle centred, characterbased, inside-out approach to personal and interpersonal effectiveness. Inside-out means to start first with self, even more fundamentally, to start with the most inside part of self- with your paradigms, your character, and your motive. 43 43 A New Level of Thinking The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. Albert Einstein 44 We need a new level of thinking — a paradigm based on the principles that accurately describe the territory of effective human being and interacting — to solve these deep concerns. 45 Inside – Out approach says that we have to change ourselves, the way we see things, achieve a personal and PRIVATE VICTORY before PUBLIC VICTORY to impact others. Don’t put personality ahead of character, to try to improve relationships before improving ourselves. It is a continuous process of renewal based on laws that govern human growth & 46 1)Principles::- These are guidelines for human conduct that are proven to have enduring, permanent value. 2)Ethics :- Ethics are that dimension of human thought & behaviour that is guided by standards & principles of appropriate conduct. It involves a commitment to do the right thing. 3)Values :- Values are one's judgments about what is important in life. Values tell people what is good, bad, right, wrong, beneficial, important, useful, beautiful, desirable, appropriate. 4)Paradigm :- It is our perception about the world. It is the way we see the world-not in terms of visual sense of sight, but in terms of perceiving , understanding & interpreting the world. 5)Habits :- An acquired pattern of behaviour that 47 often occurs automatically. Any Questions? Business Studies Department, BUKC 48 Thank You Business Studies Department, BUKC 49