Johnathan Green's
Skip the Date,
Score the Girl
Here is what you need to know
to Skip the Date, Score the Girl.
It shows you:
 How to become preselected so
that women are chasing after
you.
 The exact places to find wildly
hot women looking for older
and more mature men.
 The types of women you're
going to meet and how to
prequalify them.
 How to dramatically outshine
all the other men competing
for the attention of these
gorgeous women.
 How to go from being strangers
to being in the bedroom with 3
emails.
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Table of Contents
The Basics to Scoring With Young Women ................... 7
Average Joe................................................................ 7
Younger Women Want Older Men ...................................... 8
Challenged Myself ........................................................ 9
Become Preselected for College Aged Girls .......................... 9
James Bond ............................................................... 10
You Have to Have Your Act Together ................................. 12
Where to Find These Amazing Women ..................... 15
Types of Sites to Choose From ......................................... 15
Practical Goals ........................................................... 16
SeekingArrangement .................................................... 19
SeekingMillionaire ....................................................... 21
Miss Travel ................................................................ 22
MillionaireMatch ......................................................... 24
SugarDaddy.com ......................................................... 24
SponsorForMe.com....................................................... 25
Established Men .......................................................... 26
Meet Successful Men .................................................... 26
Sugar Daddy For Me ..................................................... 26
Moving Forward .......................................................... 27
Determining What You Are Really Seeking ................ 30
Got it Together Types of Guys ......................................... 31
The Looks Guys ........................................................... 32
What You're Looking For ................................................ 32
This Is A Game............................................................ 34
Goals and Personalities of the Women You're About to
Meet ............................................................... 37
Prostitutes ................................................................ 37
Gold Diggers .............................................................. 38
College Girls .............................................................. 38
Women Who Have No Preconceptions ................................ 39
Sugar Babies .............................................................. 40
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Women That Have Dated Too Many Losers........................... 40
Dynamic Duo .............................................................. 41
Party Girls................................................................. 42
The Wanderer ............................................................ 42
The Job Seeker ........................................................... 42
Other Types of Women You'll Come Across .......................... 43
Putting Yourself in the Best Possible Light ................ 46
Pick Your Photos with Care............................................. 46
It All Begins with Your Headline ....................................... 47
Getting Your Photo Noticed ............................................ 49
MY Best Face ............................................................. 51
Profiles That Score the Girl................................... 53
Body of Your Profile ..................................................... 53
Sales Copy ................................................................ 55
See Yourself Differently ................................................ 57
Create a Fantasy for Her and You ..................................... 58
List Your Best Attributes ................................................ 60
Analyzing My Profile ..................................................... 61
The Abundance Formula ...................................... 70
How to Describe Your Perfect Women ................................ 70
Selecting Who You Want to Be With .................................. 71
The Bonding Formula Basics ............................................ 71
Create a Funnel of Girls ................................................ 73
Practice Makes Perfect ................................................. 74
Traditional Dating Isn't for Everyone ....................... 76
Date the Exceptional .................................................... 76
Avoid the Bad Dates ..................................................... 77
Bonding is Having Fun on the First Date.............................. 78
Stop the Game Playing .................................................. 78
The Young Don't Date ................................................... 80
What Happens When You Follow Traditional Online Dating Rules?
............................................................................. 80
Finding Perfect Women ....................................... 84
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Finding Your Perfect 10 ................................................. 85
Avoiding the Traps Some Women Set Online ........................ 85
Why Guys Fall for These Tricks ........................................ 87
Why Women Do This ..................................................... 88
Your Tricks for Not Falling for These Traps .......................... 89
Avoid the Crazy Women ....................................... 92
What is a Neurotic Woman? ............................................ 92
Neuroticism Can Be a Trait or Habit .................................. 94
Habits Are Easier to Change ............................................ 95
Bad Traits Are a Big Deal ............................................... 96
Her Stories and Other People in Her Life ............................ 99
Being Manipulative is a Form of Neuroticism ........................ 99
Relationship Attachment Styles ..................................... 100
Go From Being a Stranger to the Bedroom in Three
Emails ........................................................... 104
The Ping Email ......................................................... 104
The Escalate Email .................................................... 104
The Close Email ........................................................ 105
Convert Her in Three Emails ......................................... 105
First, It's All About Your Profile...................................... 105
Writing the Ping Email ................................................ 107
Writing the Escalation Email ......................................... 109
Writing the Close Email ............................................... 113
Move with Speed ....................................................... 115
It's About Always Being Comfortable About Who You Are
................................................................... 118
Stay in Control ......................................................... 118
Stay Away From Room Mates ......................................... 119
You Don't Know What Could Go Wrong ............................. 119
Stay in the Driver's Seat .............................................. 120
Never Take a Woman Somewhere New ............................. 121
You're Controlling Your Surroundings ............................... 121
Back at Home........................................................... 122
Stock Your Bar .......................................................... 123
Give Her a Reason to Come Back to Your Place ................... 124
Plan for Success ........................................................ 125
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You're Doing the Driving, Maintain Your Car ....................... 126
This is a Battle ......................................................... 127
Always Be In Control .................................................. 130
Rejection is a Thing of the Past ........................... 131
Why Other Women Want You ........................................ 131
Men Want Their Girlfriend to be Their Mistress Too.............. 132
When You're Getting Started ......................................... 132
Be Good to Her ......................................................... 134
How Would You Act When Dating Five Women? ................... 135
Instant Confidence .................................................... 135
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The Basics to Scoring With Young Women
Let's start with me telling you a little about myself. By looking at
me, you wouldn't think that I would be able to score with
You
have
entered
the
system
that
brings
you
sexual
pleasure
anytime
you
want
beautiful young women with awesome personalities any time I
want to. Yet I do. I've created a system that attracts women like
no other system I've ever seen. It's not about a bunch of pick up
lines or anything of the sort.
It's simply about knowing the
right dating sites to use and
knowing how to present
yourself and knowing exactly
how to write a short series of
email notes that get her to
view and read your profile
and for her to say YES, when
you ask to meet her in person.
Average Joe
I'm just an average guy in my
middle thirties, with a little
extra weight packed on, and I'm starting to turn a little gray. You
wouldn't think these girls would give me a second look. But, by
studying and making myself an expert on both the men and
women's sides of the dating equation, I've been able to sleep
with dozens and dozens of beautiful and intelligent women all
around the world.
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What does make me exceptional is I have plenty of life
experiences and I'm able to package these and other aspects of
my life in a manner that women find irresistible.
I've been doing this training for more than five years and I've now
put together a comprehensive course to help every man wanting
in on this amazing method that can have you sleeping with
different model quality women every night if you want to.
There's no smoke and mirrors here. All of this comes from my
real life experiences. It's based on my experiences, studies, and
training. One of my basic views on life is that I can turn difficult
situations into simple solutions by putting an easy to follow
method in place. That's what I've been doing for years when it
comes to meeting beautiful women.
Younger Women Want Older Men
Today's
dating
game
has
changed.
Young
women
want
older
more
mature
men
One secret that most older guys don't understand is that today's
younger women are eager to meet older men that have their
lives together. That have careers, that have done some traveling,
that have learned to navigate most of the difficult realities of
life.
Today's generation of young men are taking longer to the
transition from boys into truly self-reliant men. Today's young
men are still living with their parent into their late 20s and
frequently into their 30s. They don't have a reliable car, if they
do have a job it's a low paying job that barely allows them to get
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by. These men are far from being able to treat beautiful young
woman the way they deserve to be treated.
Challenged Myself
You can
do the
same
A big part of how I got started on this project is that I challenged
my self to sleep with 30 gorgeous women, all under the age of 30,
in 30 days. And to do it without any money and without being
dishonest in any way. I did accomplish my goal and I did it in the
month of February,
probably the most difficult
month of the year when it
comes to meeting women.
You can use what I have
learned any way that you
want. You can use it to
get yourself into a longterm relationship or you
can use it to live the life
of a rock star going out
with a different woman
every night. Or you can
refer back to it when a relationship you thought would be longterm falls apart after a few months. You never need to go
without having beautiful woman in your life again.
Become Preselected for College Aged Girls
Have you ever seen an average looking guy walking arm-in-arm
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with a gorgeous younger woman? You probably thought that he
was very successful for her to want to be with him. Women think
the same thing. He becomes more attractive to them just
because has a good-looking woman already interested in him.
This is a form of pre-selection.
There are certain websites out there that you're going to learn
These
are very
powerful
tools
that
deliver
amazing
results
about that create that impression about you. When beautiful
women see your profile on certain sites, they assume you've
earned the right to be there. Your odds of becoming involved
with these women immediately go from about 5% all the way up
to 80%. And then when you use the methods, I'm going to show
you, the odds go up even higher. You're not going to have any
problem at all getting these women in bed with you.
On the other hand, if you stay with the traditional websites the
odds are greatly against you. Most of the women on EHarmony,
Match.com, Plenty of Fish, and similar websites have a couple of
kids and a divorce behind them. What they are really looking for
is another man to take care of them. If that's what you want - go
for it. But, I know you can do much better.
James Bond
You want the type of image that James Bond has. Age and looks
aren't important here. It's the image you put out there that
counts. When you portray the image of Joe Average, you'll get
the results that Joe Average gets. When you have a Bond image,
you'll get Bond results.
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When you have a Bond profile on the websites I'm going to show
you, you'll have stunningly beautiful women chasing after you.
I'm going to show you how to email them a couple of times to
peak their interest but don't be surprised when many of them
email you first. It feels wonderful to be the chased instead the
chaser once in awhile.
Women don't join the Bond
style websites because they
want a father for their kids.
They join these sites because
they want to be part of a
lifestyle that is exciting and
always bringing new
experiences. These are
women that can get almost
any guy, but want only the
Are you
the kind
of man
they are
looking
for?
best. These women are
looking for older, wiser, and
more stable men. Many
women state right in their
profiles that money and looks
don't matter. What they are looking for are older men that can
show them new things and help guide them through life.
Just like some men, some of these women are looking for a man
to marry. But because these are incredible young women, many
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are just living life to its fullest. Many of these are women that
make a living from their looks. Models, actresses, strippers, bar
tenders, and others.
I'm going to be honest with you. There are a few gold diggers on
these sites. However, this system shows you how to set up your
profile and use emails to expose most of the gold diggers. Can a
few get through to meet you one time? Probably but you'll catch
on to most of them before that happens by following this method.
In the end, you end up with a win-win situation.
Because most of these women aren't looking to get married, both
of you can be completely honest with each other. Both
emotionally and where you want the relationship to go. She's
NOT trying to find a way to financially and emotionally put you in
her prison so that you have to take care of her and her kids
forever. You can tell her that you want a short-term relationship
and she'll be fine with it. You can tell her that you live a busy
life and can only see her occasionally and she'll be fine with it.
Of course, you have to give her the same level of freedom to be
fair. None of this is about being manipulative or dishonest. If
anything, this method and these relationships are more open
than anything you've experienced before.
You Have to Have Your Act Together
One thing you do need to realize is that you do need to have your
act together. You don't have to be rich and own yachts or
anything, but she's not going to pick up the bill when you go out.
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She not going to hang around while you spend an evening arguing
with your ex-wife over the telephone. She'll tolerate a little
drama from your grown children but she's not going to like it if
you have to get out of bed at midnight to go bail them out. You
do need to have your life in order. That's one of the main things
she's looking for in an older man.
This is
what it's
about
for most
of
today's
beautiful
young
women
Not all women are trying to get to the top of the social ladder.
For many it's plenty to be able to hang out with a man that has
his own home without
roommates. A man that
drives a decent car and
can afford to repair it
when it needs it. You don't
need to have a private jet.
You just need to have your
act together.
What you're going to come
away with is:
 A method that removes all competition. Few other men use
this method and you will blow them away.
 A way to spend time with 9s and 10s whenever you want.
 A method that gives you a much higher response rate than
the traditional dating sites.
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 An understanding that you don't need to be rich to live a
Bond lifestyle.
There are three steps to the James Bond method, you send a few
messages, you meet, and you have sex. Skip the Date, Score the
Girl.
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Where to Find These Amazing Women
Here I introduce you to the secret websites that will make all the
difference in your soon to greatly improve sex life. There are 10
websites. You don't need to join them all. I'll explain each one to
you so you can decide which
ones are the best fit for what
you are looking for.
Types of Sites to Choose
From
One thing you need to start
thinking about right now to
help you decide which sites to
join is what type of women
are you interested in
meeting? Some sites are
geared more towards having
wild and fun times with
several different girls each
week. Other sites are geared slightly towards prostitution. The
girls are expecting to be compensated for having sex with you.
And there are sites that tend to cater to gold diggers. These
women will have long-term relationships with you as long as you
spoil them rotten, buy them lots of gifts, and take them on
The
expensive shopping sprees, etc. But there are also sites catering
sweetheart
sites are
to women in the middle. Sweethearts looking for a man that
the ones I
recommend knows how to be a man. These are the majority of the sites.
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Practical Goals
When you bring these stunning and intelligent women into your
life, it's easy to become overwhelmed by their charm and love of
This is
about
having
fun
life. Something that's important is for you is to keep balance in
your life. A main reason these young women are interested in
you is because you can keep perspective of what is going on in
your life. Don't let that change.
Don't get married. It's easy to fall in love with the first or second
women that you meet on one of these websites. Resist the
temptation to get married and become financially responsible for
her for the rest of her life. Even if you are looking for a wife,
give yourself three to six months of just having a wild and great
time to learn what this lifestyle is about before making a
exclusive commitment. Even if it becomes monogamous, don't
take the legal step any time soon. While these women are
intelligent and mature, they still have more maturing to do. Take
time to make sure they are mentally and emotionally at the
same level you are. Your heart and brain need time to transition
from the less than average women to these high quality women.
You need to better understand what your options are before
going off the deep end.
This isn't about love. Love may happen but neither of you is
going into this looking for love. This is about financial and sexual
practicalities. You can and will have deep meaningful
relationships with these women but think long and hard before
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making a full commitment to a single woman and have a long
serious conversation about how committed she is to the
relationship. These women are experienced at moving from one
man to another any time
they want. They are still
very young and may not
be ready to settle down
even if you are. They are
experienced at becoming
involved with older men
and at any time may
decide it's time to move on.
You can Monogamy isn't for everyone. Obviously, people have different
have
much goals in life. Take the time to think about this for an hour or two.
more
Do you really want only one woman in your life? I don't know your
relationship history. Have you been married and divorced? What
was the reason you got divorced? Have you never been in a longterm relationship? Why not? Give these types of questions serious
thought before seeking a monogamous relationship. It may very
well not be the life style you want. At the very least, date
multiple women for at least 30 days before even contemplating a
long-term relationship to at least see what's out there. Try the
life of abundance before limiting your options.
Control your emotions. The last thing you want to do is become
clingy and controlling with these women. They don't like it and
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they won't tolerate it. Something you should enjoy is open
communication. When there is no life long commitment to a
relationship, the communication is much better because neither
of you has an obligation to the other. She's in this relationship
style because it affords her opportunities that she would
otherwise not have. What you offer her right now is what she
wants right now. But she is young and seeking as many life
experiences as she can have. Tomorrow she might want
something that you don't offer. If you become clingy and
controlling, she will likely decide it's time to move on.
It only
becomes
about
money if
you
make it
about
money
It's not about money. This is about emotional and mental
stability and having control over your life. Don't' try to impress
these women with money. If you do, you'll likely become deeply
involved with one that is all about the money. She'll drain your
bank account and move on to another older man willing to spend
all of his money on her. It's great going out to have a wonderful
time with these women. But, have a budget and stick to it. Make
it clear to her that you have money but it's limited and you live
the lifestyle you do because you live within a budget. If she says
that's not for her, let her go. She would have left anyway once
the money was spent.
Live your dreams. The reasons you're taking this course is
because you have romantic and sexual dreams that you want to
make come true. Always keep these at the forefront of your
mind. Don't switch your dreams for her dreams in an attempt to
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keep her in your life. Once you give up your dreams, your life,
emotions, and happiness will only spiral downwards. Hold out for
the perfect woman.
You've been warned about
these dangerous
distractions. Please heed
my advice. Now, let's
move on to the websites
you want to consider
joining....
SeekingArrangement
This is
the first,
and
maybe
only,
website
you
need to
join
I'm going to start out with what I consider the best.
www.seekingarrangement.com is my personal favorite. It might
not be for you and I'll show you several others that I've tried and
trust. But first, a word of caution....
There are unethical sites out there that put up a bunch of fake
profiles of women that don't exist. These illegitimate sites want
to collect your high monthly subscription fee although they can't
deliver on their promises. I strongly recommend that you only
use the sites that I recommend here. I don't benefit financially
from any of these sites by recommending them. These are simply
the sites that I have found trustworthy to deliver on their
promises.
The reason I prefer SeekingArrangment is because it has a ratio
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of young women to men of about 8 to 1. And there are hundreds
The
numbers
work in if not thousands of new women joining every day. You always
your
have a wide variety of women to choose from. It's a true
favor
smorgasbord of sexy and intelligent women.
I only seek out the tier 1, top of the line women on this website.
I don't even look at the profiles of those that self-categorize
them self as normal or average. This website is about both
quantity and quality.
This site isn't about monogamous relationships. Those sites tend
to have lower membership volumes. Even if you're looking for
long-term, I suggest you start with SeekingArrangement to get a
feel of what's available out there... the three to six month trial
period before you make any life changing decisions.
This site is one of the easier to join. Some sites make you jump
through hoops to qualify to join. This site takes your word for
who you are without all of the BS that other sites require.
SeekArrengements has it all. Some of it you'll probably find a
little crazy. Like dating two sisters or even twins at the same
time, having threesomes, dating bi-sexual women, and other less
than typical scenarios. At the same time, this is a site where
you'll find actresses, playboy bunnies, playmates, models, and
others that make their money from their looks. Some of these
women have serious money but many don't. You know the stories
about the starving actresses. You'll find many of them here.
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SeekingMillionaire
I'm not positive but I suspect there is a business relationship
between SeekingArangement and SeekingMillionaire
(www.seekingmillionaire.com). But there is a difference in the
type of women that are active on the two different site. The
young women on
SeekingMillionaire are
more geared towards
monogamous, long-term
relationships, and even
getting married.
There are some outright
gold diggers on this site.
They try to screen them out but you need to do the final
screening to make sure a woman you meet here isn't only about
your money. There are also plenty of women here that intend to
remain single. There is cross over between this site and
SeekingArrangement.
The site's definition of a millionaire doesn't involve a million
dollars. The threshold is that you earn $150,000 or more per year.
You'll need to look at the current requirement but this really
doesn't have anything to do with being a millionaire. The last
The entry
level isn't
unreasonable
time I looked closely, they categorize men based on earnings.
The $150,000 level is the top level but I think you can get in at
the $80,000 level.
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Most of the women on this site are primarily looking to move up
the social dating ladder. For many, spending time with a man
that has his own apartment or home, without a room mate, is a
big move up from what she can otherwise find with men her own
age. Gorgeous models that don't have steady employment often
not only have roommates but they share a bedroom with another
girl. Having a space to spend time at that isn't cramped by too
many people and their friends is a huge benefit to them.
Here's a My recommendation is that you start on SeekingArrangement for
plan you
should a few months to see how wild and crazy these women can be.
consider When and if you decide that lifestyle is a little too much for you
long term, you move over to SeekingMillionaire where things are
still very lively but tamer than the other site.
Miss Travel
If you're strictly or mostly about girl's looks, this might not be the
site for you. In my opinion, the girls with the hottest looks are on
SeekingArrangement. Did I mention that is my favorite site? That
doesn't mean there aren't hot women on this site, I've definitely
seen women here that I'd rate an 11.
If you're already a world traveler or are thinking that's what you
want to do at this point in your life, Miss Travel
(www.misstravel.com) is probably the site you want to join. I am
a world traveler. One of the best benefits of being a writer is
that I can work from anywhere in the world. I know from
experience that in certain parts of the world you can live like a
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king on $3,000 a month. Maybe not in Europe or Tokyo but
certainly in places like Thailand, the Philippines, and South
America. That's the lifestyle I'm currently living.
There are different types of women on Miss Travel. Some just
want to take a long weekend or full week trip to Disneyland or
something similar. Others want to be your travel companion on
longer international trips.
And still others will join you
for a few days in their home
city that you are visiting.
Something like showing you
around Paris from her
perspective as a native of the
city.
Having a
different
woman
in every
city isn't
a bad
way to
see the
world
What it comes down to is this
is a good site if you travel for
work and you want a
different woman in every city
you visit or if you want a
travel companion that joins
you wherever you are in the world or wherever you are going.
Helping her travel doesn't have to be expensive (although it can
be). I've helped women travel from Thailand to Malaysia on a 13hour bus ride for $8. The hotel room costs the same whether
there are one or two people using it. Of course, you're going to
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have to pick up the tab for her food and sightseeing. This site is
definitely about travel so don't join if that's not what you're
looking for. But, by far this is the best travel companion site out
there and I've tried plenty of others.
MillionaireMatch
This is the first high profile site that I ever dabbled with. I even
ended up in a long-term relationship with a woman I met on this
site. The best way to get to know girls on MillionaireMatch
(www.millionairematch.com) is by getting involved talking to
girls in the chat room.
This site has quite a bit in common with SeekingMillionaire.
These women aren't gold diggers. They're just seeking to move
up in life by finding a stable and responsible man that they are
This can
be a
good site
to join if
you
want to
get
married
compatible with. What sets this site apart and makes it different
is there is a high concentration of women looking to get married
on this site. So if you are looking to sow some wild oats and then
settle down, you probably want to start on another site and
eventually join this one. You'll need to look up the current
financial requirement to join this site. I think it's in the
neighborhood of $250,000 a year.
SugarDaddy.com
This is one of my less preferred sites. Not because of dishonesty
or low quality women. I'm simply not impressed with the search
function on the site. I like to do complex searches that dig deep
into the requirements I'm looking for. That functionality isn't as
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good on SugarDaddy.com (www.sugardaddymeet.com) as it is on
other sites that I use more often. The one thing this site does
have going for it is there are a lot of members. There are more
than four million total members and the women far out number
the men.
SponsorForMe.com
SponsorForMe.com (http://www.sponsorforme.com) has
Looking
for wild? somewhat of a reputation as a destination for men wanting to
Here it
is
make adult movies. From that, it's fair to deduce that the women
on this site are pretty wild. This site is growing but currently is
like a light version of SeekingArrangement. They are working at
growing by paying girls $10 join, which helps create more
profiles that are real and fewer fake ones.
If you're looking for wild and crazy girls this is a site you need to
check out. I know some
girls on this site will come
over and have sex before
going out for drinks or
dinner. You're going to get
a mix of girls here, some
that are prostitutes and
gold diggers but it's less
than 10%. Still be careful to screen these women carefully. Later
in the course, I'll show you some proven techniques for screening
out girls that you don't want to be involved with.
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Established Men
This site isn't about having a bunch of money. They don't have
those pseudo millionaire requirements. On Established Men
(establishedmen.com), the women are looking for men with a
decent job and maybe an established career. All you need to
succeed here is to be stable and responsible. To be able to get
up and go to work every day. Of course, she expects you to have
your own place and have a reliable car.
Just like the other sites, you're going to find a cross section of
women. A few are in it for the money but most are looking for a
Using more
than one
site
increases
the
number of
local
women
you can
meet
mature relationship or to at least spend time with mature men. I
think a good use for this website is to expand your opportunities
if a site like SeekingArrangement does have enough women in
your geographical location. It can help you if you're in a smaller
city or town. But, if you're somewhere like L.A. or NYC, you don't
need to bother joining multiple sites.
Meet Successful Men
Meet Successful Men (www.meetsuccessfulmen.com) is similar to
Established Men. You'll meet incredible young women on this site.
It makes a good fall back site if you meet all of the women in a
smaller community and want to meet more.
Sugar Daddy For Me
Sugar Daddy For Me (www.sugardaddyforme.com) is another one
of the smaller sites. My recommendation is the same as it was for
the past two sites. It makes a good filler if you're in a smaller
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city or location but you want to start with the first five sites that
you've been introduced to. Take a look to see if they have a large
variety of girls from your town. If they do, it's probably worth
maintaining a membership. If not, just let your membership
lapse.
Moving Forward
Now that you understand the basics of Skip the Date, Score the
Girl and the many reliable sites where you'll find them, let's take
a little closer look at how the entire process comes together.
How many steps there are to the method is defined by what you
see as your end goal. If you're
just going to date endless
beautiful young women, there
are going to be fewer steps
than if you're going to do
some dating but eventually
settle down with one woman.
Step 1. The first step is for
you to design your ideal first
scenario. I can't do this for
you. Your desired situation
might be to have two women
living with you that you help
with their modeling careers
and once their careers are
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established, you move in two new young women. Or you might
just want to see multiple women before settling down. Or maybe
you want a different travel companion as you travel around the
world. You decide.
Step 2. After you finish this course and step up your profile(s),
you send out a few emails that I'll show you how to write.
Step 3. Meet and seduce three or four different woman each
week for as long as you want. It'll take a few weeks for you to
become used to this new lifestyle so give yourself time to make
the adjustment before making any final scenario plans.
Step 4. Start thinking about what you want for a long-term sex
life or love life. But only after going out with multiple hotties so
that you really know what's available to you.
Step 5. After trying out the different websites, decide which one
has the most women of the type you're looking for - something a
little more long-term (or whatever scenario you decided on).
Then find the woman of your dreams to have move in or as a
travel companion.
Step 6. Stay in control of your density and finances. Whatever
you decide on, I highly encourage you to protect yourself
financially. If you do enter into marriage, make sure you put a
prenuptial agreement in place. In my opinion, no young woman
should be able to take half of what you have put together over
your lifetime. Have an exit strategy if things go wrong. But, you'll
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now be confident that you can go out and find another hot young
woman any time you want. Regardless where you're at in a
relationship with these women, make sure you set the tone of
the relationship. Let her know up front if you are just sleeping
around for a while or if you're looking to take it to a more serious
relationship. You both need to be in agreement from the
beginning.
Let's get on to creating your new lifestyle....
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Determining What You Are Really Seeking
Not all men are created the same. Different men need different
tactics to get the women. The different tactics are based on a
combination of the type of women you want and your personality.
When you get this combination right, beautiful women will come
to you from everywhere.
If you
have
both,
you
really
have it
made
My experience is that there are two types of guys that succeed
here. Those that really
have their acts together
and those that succeed
based on their looks. It
doesn't matter which you
are, everyone can and will
succeed.
What you need to do is
decide the type of man
that you want to
represent and build a
persona around it. As we
already know, the James Bond mysterious and intriguing persona
is the most effective. There are women on these sites that only
want men that are 65 or older and those that only want to be
with men that are less than 45 and those that want men inbetween and still others that are into the full range of men.
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Most women can be drawn to any man as long as your profile is
well developed to show who you are in the best possible light.
Got it Together Types of Guys
There are many many ways that different guys get their acts
together. Here are a few examples to stimulate your imagination
about how you can describe how you have your act together.
 Richard Gere in Pretty Woman
 Wisdom, experience, stability, and sanity
 An older man that can save her in a time of need
 Father figure
 Enable her to travel (maybe first class)
These are guys that are in charge. They are senior managers in
Fortune 500 companies or own their own company. These are
alpha men that aren't controlled by anything other than their
own wants and desires. They see what they want and go out and
get it.
These guys can show a younger woman how to successfully
navigate the early years of her life. How to transition from
college life to the beginning of a successful career. They can
make doors open for her that not even her looks would otherwise
open. All of this can be very sexy to women trying to find their
way in a young life and tough world.
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The Looks Guys
Here is what women see in men that have the right looks.
 Powerful sexual energy
 Young successful exceptions to other men
 Clear vision of where he wants to go in life
 Speed, energy, dynamic
 Backpacker, adventurer
These men tend to be younger and less affluent but on their way
up in the world. Their idea of travel doesn't include four star
resorts and first class airplane tickets. But, they are out there
seeing the world with a
backpack and staying in
hostels. They venture to cities
and parts of cities that few
women would go to alone.
They go on adventures that
most of the young men these
beautiful women know would
never consider. In fact, most
of the young men these
women know have no dreams
or sense of adventure at all.
What You're Looking For
Besides you're own persona,
you need to be thinking about what you want in a beautiful and
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sexy woman or women. For most men, it will be one of these
You
need to
decide
this
before
you
create
your
profile
four sexual lifestyles. You’re going to put this information
directly into your profile so that you only attract the kinds of
women that will make you happy. That's the way this is done. No
hidden agendas, full honest communication, and no gaming
playing.
Long-term. A young hot girlfriend that is on your arm around
town. She either lives with you or has her own place locally but
she is always available to you for company and sex. She gains
your wisdom and moves up the social ladder in exchange for
pampering you sexually and mentally.
Multiple girlfriends. This is a less intense relationship style that
can be done a couple of ways. You can have this type of
relationship one girlfriend at a time but there is a string of girls.
Maybe a new one every month. Or you have three to five at a
time. You date one or two every weekend and rotate them to
keep spice and variety in your social and sex life. Or you can
have a different girl on each day of the week but hang out with
buddies on the weekend. You can have it any way that you want
it.
Sexcapades. This is for the man that wants as many women as
possible and wants extreme variety in his sex life. This can
involve threesomes, foursomes, and fetishes. Often, this is for
the man that missed out sexually in his younger years. Maybe he
dedicated all of his time to his career at the expense of having a
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sex life. Or maybe he married his high school sweetheart and has
only had sex with one partner. Now, he wants to find out what
he has been missing out on.
Travel buddy. This can be one gorgeous woman to travel the
world with you or it can be multiple beauties in every port.
It can be anyone of these lifestyles or maybe you have something
a little more unique in
mind. The point is that
you need to figure out
what you want so that you
can clearly explain it in
your profile. You'll get the
most happiness and the
exact women that you
want when you are clear about it. This course is designed to help
you build out that identity but you need to have a good idea of
what you want.
This Is A Game
I know there are negative connotations when it comes to
characterizing relationships and sex as a game but it really is one.
The exception here is if you choose to have a monogamous
relationship. That's not a good time to be playing games with a
woman's affections but otherwise it really is a game.
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If you're looking to have hundreds of women in your life, there's
no time to become emotionally involved with each one. The two
of you get what you want out of the situation and move on. I'm
not talking about taking advantage of these women. When you
clearly communicate what you want from her and what you are
offering her, you need to deliver what you promise but then you
are free to move to the next hot girl.
Enjoy the journey. However, I do want to give you a word of
Don't get warning before you get started. This is going to be so new to you
fooled and can be overwhelming to the point that you become
emotionally involved with a profile before you even meet the
woman. Highly guard against this because there is deception and
fake profiles out there. Don't get caught up in one woman's
profile because there are so many others available and hundreds
of new girls are joining every day.
If you send a message to a particular girl and she doesn't reply,
don't let it bother you. Just move on to the next one. This course
will show you how to build a killer profile and how to write
emails that will have your inbox exploding with replies from
hundreds and thousands of the hottest women available. The
mental attitude you need to have is one where you are in
complete charge. That these women are chasing you rather than
you chasing them. That you have been selected by all of these
women as the man they want to bring into their lives.
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This may not happen immediately. Your first profile might not
lead to over night success. You may need to tweak it a little to
improve the number of replies you get to your emails. That's
okay as long as you don't get emotionally attached to a woman's
profile that is not responding to you. Just make a few well
thought out changes to your profile and move on to another
woman. You will figure out what works best for you and you will
have massive success with as many women as you want.
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Goals and Personalities of the Women You're
About to Meet
This part builds on the previous chapter that looked at your own
identity. Here you will learn about the types of women you will
soon be meeting and have involved in your life. Although young,
most of these women are full of confidence because things just
come easier to beautiful young women in our society.
Most men on these websites struggle to get these girls in their
lives because they don't
have a tried and proven
method to attract them.
That's not the case for you
because you're well on
your way to knowing how
to build a method that
works every time.
Prostitutes
Yes,
there
are
women
seeking
to trade
sex for
money
There are prostitutes on all dating sites, not just the sugar daddy
types of sites. Although there may be more but I don't know
because I never studied the issue. What I do know is that they
are easy to spot and you won't have any trouble avoiding all but
the most scheming ones. They probably don't mention money in
their profiles but it will come up in the first email they send to
you. They often phrase it something like "pay to meet".
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I estimate that less than 5% of the women on the sites I
recommend are prostitutes. Unfortunately, if you're in the Las
Vegas area, the number is much higher so take extra precautions.
These women don't know how to make these websites work for
them. And men that don't know how to make these websites
work will fall for these women. Those are the men these women
are targeting.
Gold Diggers
This is another category of women you're going to come across
that you want to avoid. Some of these women come after you
aggressively because they are interested in marrying you and
latching onto half of your assets. The good thing is most of these
women are honest about what they want.
They'll tell you about the lavish lifestyle they expect to have
after they get married. So either avoid them all together or at
least get a prenuptial agreement in place before marrying one of
them. Something to watch out for with these girls is if they ask
too many questions about money. It's like you're being
interviewed to learn what you own in assets. They don't directly
ask for money up front the way the prostitutes do but they ask a
lot of questions about your personal finances.
College Girls
These This is where we start getting into some of the most desirable
are the girls. These are girls looking for an older more stable and
ones you
want to dependable man because they aren't interested in dating college
meet
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men that are mostly into ‘keggers’ and pranks. Unless she is
privileged to attend an ivory league college, most of the guys she
knows can barely afford to take her on low-end dates.
These women want a real
man that makes them feel
like a real woman.
They're not interested in
men that are somewhere
between childhood and
becoming a man and are
out of their parents house
for the first time.
She will look up to you
and more importantly,
she will show you respect.
Women Who Have No
Preconceptions
These
women
are a
blank
slate
These are women that
just recently discovered
these websites. Maybe they saw it on the news, in a
Cosmopolitan article, or a friend told her about it. She joined
with no expectation of making money and does not yet have any
practical experience with older men.
All she knows and expects is that it's a site where she can meet
and spend time with successful men. She's a clean slate. She's
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excited to meet a mature man that doesn't have any weird
expectations and isn't expecting her to pick up the tab more
times than not. These are the most common women on the site.
You can seek these women out by emailing to those that only
recently joined the site. In fact, I rarely email a woman that has
been on the site for more than three months.
Sugar Babies
These are the hot women that have been on these sites for a
while. They have a pretty good understanding of what to expect.
Still, some of them have found a few suckers that they took
advantage of. They know there aren't many suckers on the site
but when she can, she'll play him for what ever she can get.
These women do expect a lot of financial support. If you won't
Some provide it, she'll probably move on. These women can be a good
men do
want match for men that want a hot woman in their life without a lot
these of emotional attachment. But keep in mind that now that you've
women
found these sites and have a successful method for attracting
women, you don't have to pay them $5,000 a month or some
ridiculous amount to be your girlfriend. There are plenty that
will do it just to be in your company.
Women That Have Dated Too Many Losers
These are women that have dated men that don't have a clue
how to get a head in life. They're 24 years old and still flipping
burgers at the place they got their first high school job. They live
in their parent's basement and borrow money from the women
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they are seeing. They never take her out for a decent meal or
good entertainment.
These men are probably
going to be in the same
place in life in another
five years.
She has no other means of
meeting successful men
and that is the reason she
turned to these websites.
Before this, she's never
dated a man that treats
her with kindness and
These
respect. She loves it and
are a
good
match it won't take long before she is giving you everything your heart
for most desires.
men
Dynamic Duo
These are two hot young women that joined the site together.
They may be friends, sisters, or a bi-sexual lesbian couple
looking for a threesome. These women are always up for a good
time. If you're looking for some new sexual experiences and
variations, these are the women you want to get to know.
There's nothing better than heading out to a club with a women
on each arm that are both sharing all of their affections with you.
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Party Girls
These girls are all about having fun. They love getting dolled up
Can you
keep up and heading to the clubs on the weekends and often weeknights.
with
These women are total hedonists. It's all about pleasure and selfher?
gratification. These might not make good wives but they do make
great girlfriends. Many of them are trying to get away from the
one-night stands and want a steady and reliable man for a longterm relationship.
You find these girls everywhere but the highest concentrations
congregate in big cities like L.A., NYC, and London. If you've
never gone out partying with a really hot young woman, you
need to experience this a few times before settling down into an
exclusive arrangement.
The Wanderer
These are girls that are really into traveling and seeing the world
but can't afford to do it on their own right now. They also realize
that if they wait until they can afford it, they'll be too old to
enjoy these experiences to the fullest.
They come with a spectrum of travel desires that range from
plush five-star resorts to backpacking around the countryside and
in the cities. You'll find one with the same dream that you have.
In parts of the world, you can rent plush villas for a thousand
dollars a month and have a servant or two.
The Job Seeker
This is a girl that is looking for a real job. She sees working as a
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successful man's personal assistant as a way to jump-start her
career. She wants more then a mentorship, she wants to be put
on salary and to have health benefits.
This kind of girl can be great because if nothing else, she'll
introduce you to her hot
friends.
However, you want to be
careful here. I'm a big
believer in keeping my
professional life separate
Tread
lightly
here
from my social life. If you get
into both a physical and
professional, relationship
with one of these women it
will be difficult replacing her
as your assistant if her work
isn't up to par. Or it will be
difficult working with her if the physical relationship sours.
Other Types of Women You'll Come Across
You'll find many other types of women on these sites. These are
in smaller percentages than what has been highlighted in more
detail. I'm sure I've missed a few because the landscape is always
changing.
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Foreign babe. These are women from foreign countries that are
often looking for a successful man as a way to start a new life in
the U.S. You'll find girls on these sites from all corners of the
world. All looking for a way to make their American dreams come
true. What many of these women have to offer is the mindset
that women are responsible for taking care of the man. If you
take care of her, she'll pamper you like you've never been
pampered before. Just make sure you perform your due diligence
to avoid getting caught in a foreign bride scam.
Another reason to search out these women is finding a local girl
for companionship when you're traveling in a foreign country.
Looking for a mentor. These women are career minded. They
are looking for business knowledge and contacts. As a successful
businessman, she sees you as being able to offer what she is
looking for.
Wanna be model. You'll find established and successful models
on these sites but you'll also find 18, 19, and 20 year olds that
are trying to get a modeling career started. Starting a modeling
career can be a very unstable and unsure time in a girl's life.
She's likely looking for a mature and responsible man to guide
her through these rough times.
Girls that will become rich. These are girls that grew up rich
and come from rich families. But, right at the moment, they
don't have access to the family fortune. Her parents may want
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her to spend a few years on the other side of society or she may
have money in a trust that she can't access until she's more
mature at the age of 30.
She's just looking for a way
to be independent from
her family but still live the
lifestyle she's accustomed
to.
My recommendation is you
get on these sites to see
what is available. There is
a small percentage of
women on there for
deceptive reasons and you
need to keep your guard
up for these problem
women. However, the vast majority are there to have a good
time and meet more mature men.
Now let's jump into creating your profile that will attract topnotch women and blow away the other men on these sites....
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Putting Yourself in the Best Possible Light
I like to call this WYSIWYG or What You See is What You Get.
This is the
part you
need to
especially
get right
Bonding and Skip the Date, Score the Girl is all about presenting
yourself the right way. It's not about changing who you are or
trying to act like someone
that you're not. It's about
taking who you are and
presenting it in the best
possible way.
Pick Your Photos with
Care
We'll get into this more but
pick your photo carefully. Of
course, you want to be as
good looking in each one as
possible but what's more important is that you show different
aspects of your personality and the life you live in each photo.
You want to be photographed doing interesting things and in
interesting places. You need to have at least one current picture
but not all of them have to be current. If you traveled to
Thailand five years ago and have a picture of you riding an
elephant, you can use that picture. If you're a hang gliding
enthusiast during the summer and you're working on your profile
during the winter, it's perfectly fine to put up a hang gliding
photo of you from last summer or even the summer before.
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The
photos
aren't
about
your
looks;
they're
about
your life
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Your headline and photos are the first thing women are going to
notice about you. As soon as they see these, you want them to
be excited to learn more about you. What you want are action
shots of you doing different things. It makes your life look
exciting instead of being just another couch potato like so many
guys are.
But, you do want to be honest. Don't show yourself on the ground
strapped into a hang glider when you never gone for a flight.
It All Begins with Your Headline
Just like you have thousands and thousands of women to select
from online, so do the women. There are so many profiles out
there that it's not possible for women to read them all, half of
them, or even a quarter of them. It's typical for women to glance
at the headline, glance at the photo and make a decision to read
the profile or to move. You MUST grab her attention during those
short two or three seconds.
Sit down and make a list of words that best describe who you are.
Once you have a list of at least 10 words, begin narrowing the
list down to the best 2 or 3 words that can be combined into an
attention-grabbing headline for your profile.
Don't use numbers in your headline and don't use words that have
a sexual connotation. Numbers don't convey anything meaningful
about you and sexual references are turn offs to women that
don't yet know you. That means NOT using something like
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"SilverFox1954" or "YourNextLover". A number at the end of a
name says that you're not unique. That you took a name someone
else came up with and copied it.
Anything that references size, muscles, or bad behavior is a turn
off to classy women. Instead, think about mystery, intrigue, and
passion. Here are a few examples to get you thinking:
 LivetoHunt (conveys a passion for your sport)
 PerfectlyImperfect (intrigue)
 WantToFrolic (says
you like fun)
 SmartLikeEinstein
(intelligence)
 LifeExperiences (life
experiences)
 BikeFanatic (passionate about biking)
 SeriousFootball (passion for football)
 BurningMan (mysterious)
 LawGuy (lawyer)
 SacraficeNothing (intrigue)
 Shenanigans (fun loving)
You want to think about your James Bond style identity. Spend
time doing this. It makes a huge difference in how many women
respond to your emails or contact you directly.
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Getting Your Photo Noticed
Let's begin with one hard and fast rule. Do NOT post selfies on
your profile. No standing in front of a bathroom mirror taking a
bad photo of yourself. There are a lot of reasons you don't want
to do this. One of the most obvious is that it screams that you
don't have any friends to take a photo of you. Another is it's just
plain boring when it doesn't show you involved with an activity.
Instead of listing all the reasons not to do this, just accept it and
move on to taking the photos that will make women want to
meet you.
Critical to You want to use a high definition camera. If you don't have one,
grabbing
find a friend that does or hire a professional photographer. What
her
attention I specifically recommend is using a digital single-reflex (DSLR)
fast
camera. If you decide to hire a photographer, the most
inexpensive way to do it is post an advert on craigslist. You
should be able to find one for between $20 and $100.
Don't use photos that were taken for some other reason. Not your
canned photo that you have posted on facebook or other social
media. Only use group photos if you are the center of the
activity and the group is focused on you. You have too stand out.
Your number one photo should be exclusively of you. A good
reason not to use group photos is because you run the risk of
others in the photo looking better than you. You're better off
only using photos of yourself.
When you're going for high end girls you need to use photos that
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are specifically aimed at attracting them. These are action
photos showing you involved in an outdoor activitiy.
Outdoor activities are far supperior to indoor shots. To start with,
the lighting is much better. If you do take indoor photos, you're
going to need to use
professional quality
lighting. Although, I have
seen a few indoor photos
turn out fairly well when
taken next to a window on
a day when the sun is out.
I highly recommend that
you stay away from photos of you in a costume. It's too easy for
girls to misinterpret these and think you have some strange
fetish or something. They'll move on. However, it's something
else to use a photo of you in a sports uniform or something
similar. As long as it can't be misunderstood, you'll be fine.
Timing your outdoor photos is important also. You want to take
them on a sunny day during the first or last two hours of sun light.
The best pictures are taken when the sun is low in the sky. But,
don't take the photo with the sun directly behind you. Take it
with the sun off to the side or in front of you.
Something else you want to try is using Photoshop or Instagram
to tweak the photo into being as good as you can make it. You
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don't need to be an expert with the software to make
improvements to already high quality pictures.
Spend the time creating a great profile once and you won't need
to change it for years to come.
MY Best Face
Something you want to do is have some highly qualified people
look over you photos to let you know which ones are the best.
The place to have this done is at www.okcupid.com/mybestface.
You'll need to create an account at OKCupid. It's not a site that I
recommend but you need to have an account to upload your
photos.
Then you can upload ten of your photos and ask them to tell you
which ones are the most appealing. Then you have to go and rate
100 women's photos. So that's the great thing about this site. You
have women telling you which of your photos they find the most
appealing.
When you get your results back, you'll get several opinions. Some
of them will conflict with each other or not make any sense.
However, you should be able to find trends that help you decide
which pictures to use. They also break the results into age
demographics. Something like "women age 40 or less preferred
this picture" or "women age 40 and up preferred this picture".
OKCupid makes you provide a lot of information about yourself
before you can use their website. What this means is they have a
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lot of information about the people rating your pictures. They
share that demographic information with you so that you know
the type of women that are rating your pictures the highest. Use
this information to decide which pictures you post. It may not be
the highest rated picture. The demographics may say that the
highest rated picture is from women that want long-term
relationships, while another photo is well rated by women
looking for casual relationships. Go with the one well rated by
those looking for casual relationships.
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The words men use to describe themselves in their online
profiles have a huge impact on attracting attention from the
opposite sex. This comes from a scientific study of more than
12,000 online profiles. That means you need to pay attention
here.
Body of Your Profile
My favorite website is www.seekingarrangement.com. Below is
the beginning of my profile from that site:
It
doesn't
need to
appeal
to you;
it needs
to
appeal
to her
As you can see, I use the headline "TheLastAuthor" and the
subheader is "Do you want to be spoiled?" The subheader might
not be the best but it works. You do want to make the subheader
a question because that instantly gives women a subject to email
you about even if they don't read your entire profile.
The other information at the bottom is system generated. It says
that I joined in 2013 but I've been using this site a lot longer than
that. I was seriously dating a woman for a while when I took my
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old site down and when I rejoined it the system generated the
current date.
Below are the three other pictures I've been using for awhile.
As you can clearly see, there isn't anything outstanding about me.
However, I did have these pictures rated and they do get results.
The picture in the middle I'm not even particularly fond of but
that's my highest rated photo.
On the right are my
demographics and a little about
my lifestyle. These are questions
everyone has to answer but the
real power is in the part of your
profile where you write your
own description about yourself
and the type of women that you
want to meet. This section is
really boring. I think women
skim it but don't pay much
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attention to it. It's never a good idea to lie because you'll
eventually be found out and that applies to this section, also.
Sales Copy
The site is going to call this your description. But, let's be real.
This is really where you want to sell yourself. After your photos,
header and subheader, this is the most important part. Just
because this is listed fourth in importance doesn't mean you
should gloss over it. Glossing over it, not giving it much thought
is what the vast majority of men do. By carefully crafting this
section is how you go to the front of the line.
You may find this amazing or demeaning but when I started
creating my sales copy, I first looked at escort websites. I used
some of the copy and changed the gender. The reason this works
so well is that you want to leave the women visiting your profile
with the same impressions that escorts create. It's about making
Her
fantasies
are your her fantasies come true. Giving her experiences that no other
goal
man has even tried to create for her.
I'm not talking about some trashy escort website that is really a
front for prostitution. I'm talking about a genuine high-class
escort service. Remember, the image of yourself that you are
trying to create is one that resembles a James Bond image. A
world where fantasies come true. You want to find an escort
website that is an independent - not a multiple girl service. An
independent has gone out on her own because she has broken
the code and knows how to market herself better than anyone
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else can. She'll write in great detail about what she can do for
clients. She has almost certainly done plenty of research and
tried different approaches to come up with her marketing copy.
It only takes a few moments to find these escort websites. What
will make you the best of the
best is researching three or
four of these sites and taking
the best from each. You
shouldn't have to do much
other than simply reverse the
gender. Here are some brief
examples of what you are
looking for:
"Allow me to introduce
Mild
suggestive
sex appeal myself. My name is Phil
sells best and I am a nice, sensual,
and enthusiastic man with
a great outlook on life.
Passionate, kind, and open-minded, I aim to provide the
highest level of companionship, instinctively giving you
everything you need, and things you never expected. My
attention to detail, giving nature, and desire to please will
surely make our time spent together one that is relaxing and
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"Welcome to my world of sinful pleasures, a wonderful place
where your every fantasy becomes our reality. It is our little
secret. ;) I am very passionate in everything I do and I like to
please. When we meet, you will feel instantly relaxed and at
ease in my company, and you will also find me to be a
entertaining, intelligent, fun loving, and a very friendly
companion."
-or"What will be the first thing you notice about me when we
meet? Will it be my exotic combination of Italian and French
appearance? Or maybe you've seen me before at the MET
intermission with a glass of champagne in my hand. You
noticed the gentle sway of my head to the ebb and flow of
the music. You wanted to approach me but the time wasn't
right. Now, you're at the right place. Life has been good to
me. I'm a trained classical musician with a proper east coast
education enabling me to live the good life that I want to
share with you. I stay closely in touch with all of the arts,
which can be deeply romantic at times. I'm here to enjoy
myself as much as you are. Let's start this slow over a
delicious romantic dinner and see where it takes us."
See Yourself Differently
As you learn more from this course, begin imagining how I would
I can
help
write the body of your profile. That is a service I offer. I will
make you sound like an amazing and very unique man. A man
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that does whatever he wants in the world. A caring man but not
one that allows others to interfere in his life. A man that goes
out and gets what he wants. Having me write it for you might be
a good option. I know that I have a difficult time writing about
myself. I'm not egotistical enough to find the most flattering
words to describe me.
Create a Fantasy for Her and You
Think about what women are attracted to. Here are a few things
that women fantasize about in men (in no particular order).
 Men who are funny and
make them laugh.
 A boyish look that
reminds her of her first
crush.
 Equal part guy next
door and the man of
her dreams.
 The undiscovered
James Bond.
 Distinguished men that
have made a mark on
the world.
 The sports hero.
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 The mysterious man that she can never guess where he'll
take her next.
 The powerful man that can get others to do what he wants.
 A foreigner that comes from another culture.
 The unattainable man that she'll never make only hers.
There
are many
resources
to help
you get
this just
right
Put the fantasies in the context of romance. Think about all of the
romance novels that women read and the chick flicks they like to
watch. Men are much more physical when it comes to sex. On the
other hand, women want romance before hopping into bed. Get
some ideas by reading the back covers of the most popular romance
novels. On average, about 45 of the top 100 best selling fiction
books tend to be romance novels. Women devour romance novels in
the same way that men go after porn.
To really get the edge over other guys, search for romance novels
that focus on a subject you are passionate about. There are
hundreds of thousands of romance novels on Amazon.com covering
every subject under the sun. For instance, there are 76 romance
novels covering the subject of scuba diving. By including a subject
you are passionate about or your career, you'll find it very easy to
write yourself into the back cover description of romance novels.
Here is an example of a rewrite of a back cover of the romance
novel Some Day:
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"What I say about my life is "maybe some day". It's more than
only my life because so many other people are intertwined
within it. It's an entire experience. One that I'd be grateful
and excited to share with the right woman.
As a music agent, I've had the great pleasure to collaborate
with many of the great contemporary musicians. I recently
compiled an original sound track representing the most
exciting life moments that define me so far. I'd love having a
woman become the next part of my original sound track.
I am now at a point in my life where I can take more time for
myself. I want a partner
in crime to explore what a
life of leisure has to offer
the mature and already
experienced man. This
could include anything
from parasailing to an
African adventure. If
you're that kind of woman,
let's see where this leads
us????"
List Your Best Attributes
You're going to weave your best
skills, accomplishments, and
features into your profile. The
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way to go about this is to make a list of each. Then using what you
This is
the
learn from escort sites, romance novels, and women's fantasies, you
magic
formula weave in the words describing yourself, where you've been, where
you are today, and where you plan to go tomorrow. By "where
you've been" and "where you're going”, I don't mean only
geographically. As an older more experienced man, it's important
that you highlight what you've accomplished in life. Maybe you
started out as a lowly sales associate for a large insurance office
and today own an office of your own. Now, you're planning a life of
leisure to travel the world. Or maybe your drag racing passion first
manifested in helping other drivers in the pits on weekends and
today you own two dragsters and race one yourself.
Your goal here is to use words to create a fantasy that women will
find irresistible. One that compels women to reach out to you so
she can experience a small part of your world even if only briefly.
Analyzing My Profile
Let's go through my profile one phrase at a time to explain why
each phrase has been included and worded the way it is.
I start out saying “I'm sensual” because it has sexual connotations
without the harshness of saying I want sex. I use "sweet and
generous" because they are broad terms that she can interpret
however she wants to conjure up her own fantasy. The rest of this
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paragraph paints a picture of me and the type of man that most
women want to be around. I don't describe myself as good looking
or my physical traits because there are pictures for her to get that
part from.
The first paragraph here lets her know that I'll take the time to get
to know her by taking her somewhere we can talk in a relaxed
atmosphere. Although I altered this, it originates from a few escort
websites that I found worded very well to communicate a message
Every
word
and
every
sentence
needs to
be well
thought
out
of intimacy. The second paragraph here continues building her
fantasy. We know that women go for men that are passionate about
life. And building on the James Bond appeal is where the finest
things in life comes in.
This paragraph drips with intrigue and mystic. Young women haven't
had the opportunity to travel the world and this is just a glimpse
inside the adventures I've experienced as an older man - with more
to come in my future....
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Again all of this works on the principle of the James Bond mystic by
inviting her to travel the world with me and be there to rescue her
whether it's from her daily routine or the bad guys in some foreign
land. The last paragraph here begins describing the woman I am
looking for because I do want to weed out the less desirable women.
Hooks she
will find
intriguing
and want
to know
more
about
Take notice throughout the entire profile how many hooks are be
included. Hooks are what give women something to email you about.
There are multiple countries and subjects included. Any one of
them is enough for her to build a short email around and then meet
me to learn more about the man in this amazing profile.
This profile has real grit. Most men's profiles are almost meaningless.
They say things like walking on the beach, looking up at the stars at
night, dancing in the rain. Every one of them sounds exactly the
same without giving women any opportunity to start and email
conversation that has real teeth to it. That goes for both men and
women.
Without a doubt, the absolutely worst profiles are the one-liners
saying, "If you want to know something about me, just ask." What
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are you going to say to a
woman that only puts that on
her profile? Maybe ask her
how she likes the nightlife in
Tokyo? I don't think so.
Take the time to make a list
of the most awesome things
you've done in your life and
you'll find that writing your
profile becomes a trip down memory lane that almost writes itself.
You don't have to be a high adventure guy. But certainly, you've had
experiences and accomplishments in life that women will find
appealing and enticing. That's what it takes to get her to email you
after reading your profile.
The excerpt above is about experiences I've had and experiences I
plan to have. Women respond really well to these powerful hooks.
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Younger women can't find younger men that have been to the
places I've been and done the things that I've done. Worst yet, most
young men don't have dreams or goals to gain these experiences.
Including your goals and ambitions in your profile is critical to
attracting stunningly beautiful women with dynamic personalities
whose company and sex will bring joy and excitement into your life.
The last sentence of the first paragraph about needing to want to
travel is another screening tactic. I am passionate about traveling
and want to directly learn about other cultures. That requires an
open mind. That's the type of woman I'm looking for. Although sex is
always great, travel is my second love and she's going to need to be
into this as much as I am or at least close to it.
Just
don't do
it in a
way that
is
offensive
So think about gates that you can create in your profile to screen
out women not passionate about the things you're passionate about.
Another way I do this around travel is by asking her in an email how
many custom stamps she has in her passport. Even if she says she
loves to travel, if she replies that she doesn't have a passport, I
quickly learn she hasn't done any traveling outside the country.
Women with travel experience and wanting to travel more, jump all
over my comments about my travels. This screening tool has been a
huge help finding me the types of women I want in my life.
The second paragraph is sensual without being creepy sexy towards
women that I haven't yet met. I want her to clearly understand that
I'm expecting an active sex life but you have to tread lightly here by
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There's using the right words or you'll creep her out because for her there
a lot
involved
in
putting
the
perfect
profile
together
has to be some kind of emotional connection first. The good thing is
that a well-written profile immediately begins building that
emotional connection and
there is often enough in
place when you first meet
that she's ready to slip
between the sheets.
The paragraph about artistic
tastes in a little subtle but it
does infer that I'm a rather
sophisticated guy and I have
preferences that I bring into
my life. Although I prefer younger women, I'm not looking for those
that still play with color crayons. There is also the sentence about
perceptions being more important than reality. This infers that
looks aren't as important as personality and lifestyle. This is
something that is important for women and they like hearing it from
a man. There is also a subtle reference to life experience, which is
one of the biggest attractions older men offer young women. Finally,
there is reference to enjoying an evening dancing at a Jazz club.
This is a combined reference to my sophistication and also enjoying
having a good time with a romantic touch without directly bringing
up sex. She'll fill in the blank when it comes to sex. Wouldn't she
want to be part of that?
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This part of my profile is a reminder that I'm looking for a woman
of substance and one that wants to have a good time along with
There's
a fine
line
between
sensual
and
sexual
many laughs. It also gets a little more sexual. I figure by the time
she gets this far into my profile she's very interested and it's a
good time to ramp up the sexuality a little without going too far.
The reference to being a woman of substance is another gate. I
only want women that understand life and work on themselves to
be part of everything life has to offer them. Women that go to
work and come home just to watch daytime soap operas they
recorded don't interest me even a little - there's no substance
living through other people's TV drama.
The last sentence about me not being for everyone and neither
should she is the hardest gate I've used yet to screen out women.
I'm letting her know that even if she emails me, if she doesn't
meet my standards, I'm not going to get involved with her. My
standards are high but I have a lot to offer the right women.
The next section of my profile really starts building me up based
on the previous part. This is the part a lot of men have trouble
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writing. They just don't like to brag about themselves. There is a
fine line between arrogance and confidence. That's what you
need to watch out for here. You need to be able to backup
anything you include in your profile but you need to make
yourself sound remarkable at the same time.
This part also paints a picture of what she can expect when she
spends time with me. She's
going to get a special man
that that treats her
special. This is what every
woman wants in a man. Of
course, I have put up gates
that will keep a few
women out but most on
the site that I use can
clearly picture themselves in the experiences I've describe in this
part of my profile.
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Remember, your portraying yourself as the James Bond type. I'm
sure Bond wouldn't have any trouble using the words I used here
to describe himself.
Above is how I close my profile. It mostly lets her know that she'll
After all, have the most say in what we do together. She can choose how
it's her
fantasy to have the experience of her life. The experiences that I've
included are way up the romantic spectrum of what she's likely
experienced with younger less sophisticated men. Of, course the
last sentence of the profile is a call to action telling her if she's
the woman I'm looking for to say hello.
In the end, the goal of your profile is to both make you sound
like an awesome man that every girl would want to spend time
with and it also describes the type of woman you want in your
life. If she can meet your high standards, you're going to spoil her
like she's never been spoiled before.
That's how you attract thousands of stunning, high quality
women!
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The Abundance Formula
This is about creating options in your romance life. It's about not
having to endlessly email women on dating sites and have
unending telephone calls before she agrees to go out with you.
It's about getting the women you want to go out with to say yes
fast. Not having to settle for women that are damaged goods,
don't take care of themselves, or you just think are substandard.
How to Describe Your Perfect Women
Of course, this is going to be your personal choice but to set the
stage think of these women as:
How do
you
describe
your
perfect
girl?
She's in her early 20s and
is everything you've ever
wanted in a woman. She
has hair that is a rich
shade of mahogany. It
flows is in long waves to
adorn her porcelain like
skin. Her glowing eyes are
framed by long lashes from which her shining eyes brighten the
world that sees them. She has a small straight nose and full
succulent lips, complimented by high cheekbones. When she
smiles at you, it makes you sigh with contentment.
She has a perfect hourglass body that begins with a slender neck
of velvety smooth skin. She has ample breasts that exemplifies a
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shaped legs go on forever although she is not an overly tall
woman.
If this comes close to describing the type of women you want to
spend time with and have sex with, you have arrived at the right
place. Read on....
Selecting Who You Want to Be With
Don't limit yourself to only the women you encounter casually
during your routine day. There are great relationship websites
out there that greatly improve your opportunities. Opportunities
to both meet beautiful women and to get them into bed without
spending an unreasonable amount of time and money on them.
Then you can decide if you want a long-term relationship with
her or if you want to move on to your next sexy and gorgeous
woman. If you want, you can be seeing several of these
incredible women at the same time. By doing things right, you
can even be seeing a few of them each day.
What you don't want to do is wait for a woman to choose you.
You need to take control of your sex and relationship life. It's a
mind set and when you accomplish it, all of the women in your
life will become massively attracted to you.
The Bonding Formula Basics
You look for your ideal woman on a website. When you find her
profile, you read it carefully. Besides being beautiful, you want a
woman that is adventurous and opened minded. When you find
her, these are the basic steps you go through:
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Step 1. Send her an email commenting on something you learned
about by reading her profile. Keep the note short - between 50
and 100 words. Invite her to read your profile and reply to your
note.
Step 2. After she reads your profile and replies, you're more than
half way there.
Step 3. Move off line. Ask
for her telephone number.
Get her on the telephone.
Have a short conversation
that ends with you asking
to personally meet her. If
you stay online messaging
back and forth for days or have a bunch of telephone calls that
don't get to the point that your clearly interested in a romantic
relationship, she is going to put you on her friend list instead of
romance list.
Step 4. Meet her in real life. It doesn't need to be expensive.
Start with a few drinks. If it is going well, you can move on to an
inexpensive meal. Don't try to impress her with an expensive
meal and an expensive bottle of wine. Women think that is
foolish of men when you are first meeting and sizing each other
up.
Step 5. Have sex with her. Yes, women will have sex on a first
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date. You just need to know how to get her to say yes and that's
what you are about to learn.
Step 6. Repeat as needed.
Create a Funnel of Girls
The secret to having as many women in your life as you want is
nothing more complicated than sending out more email messages
to the women you want to meet. There are literally thousands
upon thousands of women out there looking to meet men just as
you're looking to meet them.
What you want to do is create a funnel or pipeline of women
coming into your life. What you don't want to do is email one
woman back and forth for two weeks before meeting her only to
find out she's not what you want and then move on to another
woman to do the same thing. You want to be engaged with
several women at the same time.
If you meet a woman that you choose to be exclusive with for a
while, you can always call or email the others in the funnel to let
Strange them know you're off the market for a while. Women actually
but true
find you more desirable when they know that other women find
you attractive. Hang on to the contact information of these other
women so that you can get back in touch with them when you
want to. It's your electronic version of the old fashion little black
book.
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Practice Makes Perfect
Hundreds of new women join these websites every day. You're
never going to run out of new women to meet and have sex with.
Still, you might want to start with a city other than your own
until you perfect your technique. That way, you won't alienate a
hot woman in your vicinity while you're practicing your technique.
If you're having trouble finding the women you want or you just
want to expand your
options, join more
Make your
message
meet her
expectations
for joining
that website
websites. You'll want to
tweak your profile and
the messages that you
send out from each site.
Each site tries to be a
little unique - tries to find a niche to attract both men and
women. For that reason, you need to understand the niche the
site is working in and tweak your profile and messages to match.
Control your funnel. If you stop sending out messages, your
funnel of hot attractive women will dry up. If you send out
hundreds of messages each week, you'll probably become
overwhelmed and not be able to keep track of all the women
replying. It'll take a little practice but you'll find a happy medium
where you have the right number of women in your funnel most
of the time.
If you're having trouble finding enough highly attractive women,
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expand your search radius. Somewhere on the search panel is a
button that sets the size of the geographical search area. All you
need to do is expand it from 25 miles to 50 miles or even 100
miles. This may be necessary if you're in a rural area or small
town.
Controlling your funnel is this five-step process:
Step 1. Check back regularly because thousands of new women
join weekly.
Step 2. Use practice cities until you perfect your profile and
messages.
Step 3. Join more sites.
Step 4. Find the optimal number of emails to send out each
week to keep the number of women in your funnel that you want.
Step 5. Expand your search region radius if you're not finding
enough of the women that you want to meet.
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Traditional Dating Isn't for Everyone
When it comes to dating, you don't need to play by other people's
rules. Just because you have a bit of a stomach paunch and are
pushing 40 years old doesn't mean that you can only date woman
that are a little overweight and close to 40 years old.
Many women that age are raising children and have already been
through a divorce. If
you've chosen not to go
down that path, why
should her past affect
your dating relationship?
I certainly wouldn't be
embarrassed to be seen
on the street with a knock
out beauty that is 15
years younger than I am.
The reality is that it
happens all of the time.
Date the Exceptional
You should be dating women that you find highly attractive, that
you feel a real chemistry with. Those that have a personality
that you can only say yes to. These women may or may not be
age appropriate or slightly worn from previous relationships. Or
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they might be the best your town has offer. They might want to
be with a more experienced man. I've certainly heard enough of
them say the men their age are immature little boys still acting
like they are in school. These men don't seem to know what they
want out of life and are anything except a leader when it comes
to taking charge of a relationship or even just a few dates.
Find happiness instead of following the stereo types of society
Take
charge of
and what you see in the movies.
your
dating life
Avoid the Bad Dates
How many first dates have you gone on just to repeat the
previous first date that you had? Five, nine, more? Both of you
are on your best behavior. You have no idea if she's going to kiss
you or if she'll have sex with you. You talk about the same things
on first dates over and over again. You probably have a script for
the conversation. I'm sure you get tired of repeating that same
script over and over again.
In this day and age, can't we get more out of the first date than
talking about our families and work? We're just getting to know
each other so those subjects can't be that important when a
relationship doesn't exist. Why can't we talk about the things
that are important to us? Yes, work is probably important but it's
probably the weekend after a 50 or 60-hour workweek. Do you
really want to be talking about work as this time?
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Bonding is Having Fun on the First Date
Getting laid in the dating world is much more about luck than it
is about both of you knowing what you want. Some women will
have sex after three dates and others want to wait three months.
In the mean time, you're spending big bucks not knowing when
you're going to have sex and if the two of you are going to be
sexually compatible when it finally does happen.
What you want to do is establish yourself as the prize before you
even go on a first date.
Before you spend a dime
on her. You want her to
be chasing you from the
beginning instead of her
making you chase her.
When you do this, you no
longer have to hide your
physical and emotional
desires. And she can express hers as well.
The women that are into this are super hot and they are also
looking for men that are successful and stable. That doesn't
mean being a George Clooney look alike and having his fat wallet
to go along with it.
Stop the Game Playing
You don't have to play dating games any more and you don't want
to go out with women that want to play games. Not the middle
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age women that are looking for a replacement dad for their
deadbeat exs.
You want to date women that are comfortable with their
They
have
new
rules
and so
should
you
sexuality. If you are over 30, keep in mind that there is a
generation of women younger than yours. They have different
rules when it comes to relationships and sex. Mostly, you need to
be up front and honest with them about what you want. Not just
out of a relationship but from life in general. Let them know that
you're tired of the dating scene. Not just the club and bar scene
but the entire dating scene that involves mind game, always
being on your best behavior until the sex starts, and forking out a
lot of money without knowing if a relationship is even in the
cards.
Yes, you'll find women closer to your own age that will have sex
shortly after meeting you but more hot 20 something’s are into
this than once married 30 and 40 year olds. And definitely more
than 50 or 60 years olds. If you want to be in the company of
gorgeous young women, then those are the ones that you should
be pursuing.
These beautiful young women might insist you first meet in a
public place if you meet them online. However, shortly after two
or three drinks you can ask them home if you've been upfront
about not being into the dating scene in your original emails or
phone calls. Yes, it does happen more than you probably think. A
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survey revealed that at least 30% of women say they have had
sex with a man they met online the first time they got together.
The Young Don't Date
As I mentioned, the rules for young adults have changed. It might
be you that is stuck in the past. Today's young women are into
"hanging out" rather than
dating. What they are doing is
spending time together without
the structure of a formal date.
It's still a test drive to see if
there is enough mutual
attraction to move onto sex but
the dating rules go out the
window.
Honestly, I met one young
woman and by the time we got
to the third drink she looked
me straight in the eye and said
it was time for sex. I guess
there was enough attraction to
this older, stable guy, with his act together that she was ready to
go.
What Happens When You Follow Traditional Online
Dating Rules?
First of all, dating sites like Match.com cost hundreds of dollars
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before you even get a date, if you ever get a date. Statistics
show that only about 5% of emails that men send out on these
sites are ever answered. And the answers that do come in are
from the old worn out women that are looking to upgrade from a
bad ex. Or worn out party girls that can't get a decent man any
more.
If you do get a date, it's going to cost you lots of money long
before you get to the sex. And these women are conditioned to
use sex as a weapon. She'll cut you off until you give her what
she wants or if she gets mad because you spent some time with
the guys watching sports. It's all crazy. That's what you get after
spending hours setting up profiles on dating sites, spending
money on dates, and hoping to get "lucky". Is that what you
really want from a woman whose two kids you're going to have to
raise if you do stay in the relationship?
You have to play by her rules. Who said women are the only ones
that can define a relationship? Older women are going to insist
that it be a monogamous relationship the second the sex does
start. And next weekend she's going to want you to meet her
parents. And the next weekend, she's going to get mad at you
and punish you by withholding sex but not tell you what she's
angry about. You have to guess and guess and try all kinds of
things to make it right again. She has you wrapped around her
little finger and is pulling the strings.
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And women over 30 or 40 almost always come with all kinds of
baggage and drama. Drama from exs, drama from not having
enough money to raise kids, drama at work. Drama, drama,
drama.
All of that for a woman that other men don't even want.
You've
worked
hard all
of your
life, now
it's time
for you
to
reward
yourself
Wouldn't you rather be with a younger woman that is carefree
and not dragging all that
baggage around with her? One
that wants to have fun and
laugh. To get out in the world
and enjoy life? I know that's
what I want and it's the
reason I put this course
together.
Actually, if your under 40, it
could be a hindrance to you
with the women I want you to
meet. Even though these
women are in their 20s,
they've figured out what older
men have to offer them. The
same way you don't want to be dragged down by women with
baggage, these women don't want to deal with the foolishness
that younger men bring to the table. You can work around it by
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demonstrating that you know how to handle things in the
boardroom and the bedroom but you have to be convincing with
these women.
These women see you as the man in the relationship. Instead of
trying to control you, they look up to you to set the tone of the
relationship. They show admiration rather than anger. It's a
relationship based on honesty. She will tell you what she wants
instead of becoming angry when you can't guess what she wants.
This is just the beginning. Forget about traditional dating and get
into what I call Bonding. You'll be happy for the rest of your life.
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Finding Perfect Women
There are deceptive women (and men) on these dating sites. For
women, the biggest fear is meeting men that are vicious.
Fortunately, it doesn't happen very often but there have been
incidents of women being sexually abused and even murdered by
men they meet online. Certainly,
I'm not advocating anything of
the sort. You should always
treat women with the utmost
respect. I'm just using that
horrible fact to lead into what
men fear the most about
meeting women online.
What men fear most is that
when they move from online to
meeting in person, that the
woman will not be anything like
she presented herself as online.
That her photos are 10 years old
and that she has put on 40 or 50
pounds. That she
misrepresented her personality
and instead of being
sophisticated and well
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mannered, she doesn't have any table manners and tucks the
cloth napkins into the top of her shirt.
Finding Your Perfect 10
Yes, those types of women are out there and they are more
plentiful than the sex abusing men that women most dread.
Tips to
avoiding
meeting
the
wrong
women
Fortunately, you can take steps to minimize meeting these
women and instead know with a certain degree of certainty that
the woman you are about to meet is one that fully meets your
expectations.
The first thing you need to do is set your standards in stone. If
you don't, you'll accept something less when you don't need to.
You need to define what a Perfect 10 is too you. It's not about
what I prefer. It's only about what you like.
That's all there is to finding your Perfect 10. You need to
determine the standards the women you want to meet must be
up to and then you go looking for them online.
But wait, what you really need to do is avoid the sneaky tricks
that some women play online....
Avoiding the Traps Some Women Set Online
Although the internet is great for finding thousands of women to
meet, the one down fall is that what you see isn't always what
you get. The tricks substandard women pull:
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 Fake pictures. I have no idea what they think is going to
happen. They know you'll catch on as soon as you meet
them. I guess these women are hoping to overwhelm you
with their
personality or that
in the end you're
going to settle for
something less than
what you really want.
Sometimes they post
a picture of a
celebrity and you can spot it. You can also read her
physical description like, eye color, body type to see if it
matches the photo.
 Fat girl angle. When she's trying to deceive you, she'll
always post pictures from her boobs up. You won't see any
full-length shots. Also, she'll keep other body parts like her
hands and her legs out of the photo. These are easier to
spot than the fake pictures.
 Old Pictures. On average, the online pictures are two years
old. This bad practice is epidemic. About the only thing you
can do is take notice of her age in the profile and see if the
picture seems too good to be true.
 Facing away. This is another trick. She has a nice body but
a not so pretty face. She posts pictures that feature her
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body but she's not facing the camera.
 The headless body. This is very similar to the facing away
photos. In the headless photos, you often see the front of
her body but not her head. She's either hiding from
someone, well known, or has a horse face. Probably best to
pass.
 Group shot. If the only pictures she puts up are of her with
a few friends, assume she is the least attractive. She trying
to confuse you into thinking she looks like her best-looking
friend.
 The Hair trick. This is when she uses long hair to cover up
some flaw. It might be a massive scar on her face or it
might be something else.
 Instagrammed photo. This is where she uses a filter to
transform how the photos look and feel. It's not a true
representation of what she looks like.
Why Guys Fall for These Tricks
Our brains filter things differently when photos (and real life) are
presented in certain ways. There's a very good reason why clubs
are dark. Women look better when the lights are turned down.
Hence the reason for candlelit dinners. Our brains fill in
incomplete information with what we want to see. Our desires.
Missing pieces and parts of her that we can't see are assumed to
be as good as or better than what we can see. We assume it was
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just a poorly taken photo. But really, don't you think that
everyone puts their best pictures up on these sites? That's why
you should assume that's her best picture and what you can't see
isn't nearly as good as what she is showing you.
Of course, we are also mostly
hopeful men. We hope that what
we can't see is the good stuff.
She's relying on you being
hopeful to get you to take her
out and then she's hoping that
you settle for second or third
best. I say there are enough hot
women online that you can stick
to your own high standards.
Why Women Do This
Women know that men are more
visually aroused than women are.
She is hoping to get you visibly aroused so that when you meet
her and she not as hot as you thought, that you'll go along with
what you are getting.
I saw one women's online profile that stated that if you don't look
as good as your photo when I meet you, you're buying me drinks
until you do. Women know what they are doing with these photos.
She's also trying to sway your opinion of her with her personality.
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Don't fall You can see this coming when she wants to go on and on emailing
for this,
or talking on the phone for days and weeks. She's trying to work
just
move on
her personality on you before you meet the real deal.
They know how dishonest all of this is. But, they trust that to
avoid public embarrassment that you're not going to make a big
scene when you meet. They want you sitting at a public table
when you first see them so that you won't call them out on their
dishonesty. That you'll go along with what you've been presented
with. If nothing more, she is going to get a few drinks or dinner
at your expense.
Finally, if she wants to get laid, she's hoping to get you in bed
because it's been a while since you had sex. And if she can get
you laid, she might be able to convert the whole dishonest
scenario into a long-term relationship. Don't fall for any of it.
Your Tricks for Not Falling for These Traps
This one works even when you've had too much to drink and
you're thinking about taking a woman home from the bar or if
Also look
for
double
chins in
head
shot
only
photos
you can get a good view of it in an online photo. Look at her
upper arms. If they are large than she is definitely overweight.
The head shot photos that emphasis her boobs will often give this
away because the photo will be a close up and you'll have a good
view of her upper arms.
Online look at her worst picture. If she's trying to be a little
honest she may have three old pictures posted that show her
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when she was thin and fine. But only one picture showing her all
plumped up. The fat picture is her most recent picture. That's
what you're going to get if you meet her.
This
works
great
Something I strongly
recommend to counter
deceptive pictures of all
types is that a day before
meeting her, you request a
current picture so that you'll
be able to recognize her in a
crowded bar or restaurant.
Tell her that you want a
picture taken today. Ask her
to take an unusual and
specific pose. Maybe touching
her ear or pointing at herself.
Anything so that you know
the picture was taken today. I've gotten back photos of women
holding up a hand written sign saying "skip the date" when they
realize I'm on to their photo game playing.
A classic way of getting a current photo is calling her a half hour
before the date and ask her to send a photo of what she is
wearing to the date. You can explain that your bad at picking
faces out of a crowd and you're nervous that you won't be able to
recognize her if you don't know what she is wearing.
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If she refuses to send a current photo, you should strongly
consider not meeting up with her. She almost certainly doesn't
look like the photos she has shared with you. Save your money
and time by connecting with the next women in your funnel
instead.
So the bottom line is use these methods to get around women
that aren't playing fairly. The three most powerful methods are
looking at the upper arms in head shot photos, assuming she's the
worse looking one in group photos, and asking for a "today" photo
just before the date.
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Avoid the Crazy Women
You can call it drama, neurotic, crazy, or some other related
term but some women have more than their fair share. I don't
know any men that want to invest their emotions, time, and
money only to learn two months into a new relationship that a
crazy woman has latched onto them. A relationship should
improve your life, not make it a horror show.
What is a Neurotic Woman?
Crazy women come in many forms. Some will have issues with
ex-lovers and always be talking about them and even stalking
them to some extent.
Others will have serious
self-esteem issues and the
list goes on. Here are
some of the neurotic
behaviors to watch for:
There is
no
complete
list of the
crazy
things
women
can do
 Difficulty
functioning with
every day life
 Anxiety problems
 Depression
 Negative views of life
 Unrealistic fears
 Dependant and needy
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 Insecure
 Alcoholic (yes, alcoholism is a form of neuroticism)
 Over controlling
 Clingy
 Anger management issues
 Desires to be liked by everyone
 And many other inappropriate behaviors
From my personal experience, I once had a woman in bed that
was so drunk that she was sick all over the bedding. This was on
our second date. She told me that she didn't have a drinking
problem that she probably got sick because she doesn't drink
Ask a
friend,
there
are
some
real
horror
stories
to be
told
very often. The next morning she had a beer for breakfast. She
was also difficult to get rid of. When I drove her home, she
refused to get out of the car. She was screaming that if I left her,
I'd have to kill her to get her out of the car.
None of us wants that kind of behavior in a relationship so I
developed a system to minimize and even prevent it from
happening. When you're seeing a lot of women, you're going to
come across a few that behave badly. You need to be able to
spot it quickly so that you can cut bait before you develop an
emotional attachment that holds a bad relationship together
while you try to "fix her".
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Neuroticism Can Be a Trait or Habit
Traits are much more difficult to change than habits are. Many
psychology experts consider traits to be a combination of many
habits. Habits are small reflexes that we perform every day. It's a
habit to get up for work when your alarm clock goes off in the
morning. This habit makes up the more complex trait of always
being on time when you have made a commitment.
Not to stereo type but one trait often found in women is always
being late. Some men can
deal with this trait and
others don't. I'm not fond
of it because it shows that
she prioritizes herself over
the relationship on a
regular basis.
You can
subtly
test for
this one
when
you first
meet
her
Another important trait to fully consider in a relationship is how
she responds to stress. We all have stress in our lives but we
certainly don't all respond the same way. Some women become
unacceptably angry when something stressful happens while
others handle it in a more mature manner. Getting an
unexpected telephone call from your boss telling you to come to
work and then hanging up and throwing the phone on the ground
is an unacceptable way of responding to stress.
She probably gets angry at a lot of different things that you
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would just let roll off your shoulder. She might control her anger
the first few times you see her but it won't be long before she
starts showing anger towards you. You need to get out of that
relationship unless you want to spend most of your time in the
doghouse.
Habits Are Easier to Change
Because traits are a combination of many habits, traits are much
more difficult to change than habits. She would have to change
all of the habits associated with that trait. It often requires
professional counseling. Some professionals even think traits are
hard wired in our brains. There are nerve circuits that certain
triggers cause to repeat themselves every time we experience
something. For instance, if you have a beer every time you come
home from your workday, opening your front door triggers a
nerve circuit in your brain that tells you to reach in the fridge for
a beer. You don't have to consciously think about if you want a
beer, it happens automatically.
But, that's a single habit that isn't too difficult to change. A good
technique for changing a habit is by replacing it with another
habit. Instead of going home and having a beer every day, you
could replace it by going to the gym or taking a walk. But if your
drinking is a trait and you sit in front of the TV drinking beer all
evening, just changing the habit of having a beer when you get
home isn't going to change the trait. You'll have to change every
habit associated with having a drink. No more beers while
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watching TV. No drinks or wine when you go out for a nice dinner.
No drinks at the office Christmas party. No drinks celebrating
your buddy's work promotion. That's the whole premise behind
AA, it's all or nothing.
Bad Traits Are a Big Deal
You want to quickly evaluate how a woman new in your life
reacts to stress. You can watch different scenarios to determine
if one reaction is just a
habit or if it is a trait for
reacting to all types of
stress. The first place to
look is how she reacts to
car traffic. Does she get
angry whenever someone
does something wrong like
make a lane change
without signaling? And what is her level of anger? Does she just
throw out a few curse words and go on about her business? Or
does she slam her hand on the dashboard and cuss about it for a
couple of minutes? Or worse yet, does she try to catch up with
the other driver to flip him the bird?
How does she react to changes in plans? I think most of us have a
change in plans almost daily. How she reacts to this is going to
have a big impact on your relationship. Does she roll with the
punches or does she take it out on you? Does it matter if it's a big
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change or does she come off the hook over small changes in
plans? What would she do if you where going to take her out for
her birthday dinner but got a call from the hospital that your
brother was in the emergency room? He's not hurt badly but he
needs you to come there to take care of some paperwork and
give him a ride home. Does she completely come off the hook
because you need to help your brother although you offered to
take her out tomorrow night instead?
Some What about when a plan is completely cancelled? Maybe you had
men
tolerate plans to take her to a concert by her favorite band but something
this, I comes up and you have to cancel and there's no way of directly
don't
making it up to her. Does she keep an even keel or is it no sex for
you for a month?
Can she deal with negative remarks about her or a negative look
at her? If she's really hot and flaunts it, other women might want
to bring her down a notch. They may give her a look like "Why
are you dressed like a stripper?" Does she deal with that or does
she want to start a cat fight?"
Then there is always the issue of financial stress. It can be every
day financial stress or a one-time event. Does she get cranky and
hard to get along with for a few days after paying her monthly
bills? Maybe she deservedly gets a speeding ticket and has to
tighten her budget for a month or so to pay it. Does that put her
in a deep funk depression? Or does she just shrug her shoulders
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and accept it as part of life?
Here's
what
you can
do when
you first
meet
her
You can put her into one or two of these situations on a first date
to see how she reacts. You can intentionally get into some traffic
to see how she behaves. You can tell her they lost your
reservations to the restaurant you were going to take her to and
see what behavior she
displays. You can pile it
on a little thick by
intentionally getting
caught in traffic and then
saying it made you too
late to keep the
restaurant reservation.
How she reacts to the small things will blow up into something
you don't want to be around when something big happens. And
remember, she's on her best behavior the first few times you see
her. Whatever small bad traits you uncover now will only get
worse over time as she becomes more comfortable around you.
Now don't go thinking that I'm warning you that all women have
problems with stress or other bad traits. Most women are fine.
They handle themselves without throwing tantrums or going off
in public. It's just the few that do have personality problems that
you want to pick up on before you become emotionally involved regardless of how sexy she is.
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Her Stories and Other People in Her Life
This is
the way
to learn
how she
views
life and
people
in
general
Give her plenty of room to talk when you first talk on the
telephone and when you meet in person. Encourage her to tell
you stories or talk about others in her life. You will quickly get
her perspective on life when you do.
Does she mostly talk about the negative things in life or is she
mostly up beat. Is she the victim of everyone else in her life? If
she doesn't offer it, ask her about her boss and coworkers. If she
perceives that everyone is conspiring to hold her back or
undermine her, ask about her previous job. If it's the same story,
you'll quickly see a pattern forming. Ask her if it's so bad why she
doesn't find another job? This will tell you if she thinks she's in
control of her own life or if others are controlling her.
The same thing with her family and ex-boyfriends. Does she talk
well of her ex-boyfriends by understanding he must be a decent
guy because she was once enthralled with him? Or because it's
now over, is everything that ever went bad all his fault?
Don't make these types of questions seem like she's being
interviewed. Just mix them in with the general conversation that
is occurring and she'll never realize that your probing a little
deeper to learn if she is mentally stable or half crazy.
Being Manipulative is a Form of Neuroticism
This is one that doesn't always show up early in a relationship.
Most neurotic women realize they need to have you roped in
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This is a
good
reason
she
should
know
you can
always
find
another
woman
before they can start manipulating you. But, manipulation is one
of the most common neurotic traits in women. Often it involves
withholding sex. Some women use sex as a tool to get what they
want. It might be a lavish shopping spree or it might be having
you fix her car or something else.
The bottom line is that you shouldn't be expected to bend over
backwards trying to make
her happy every minute
of every day. Always
remember you're only a
few emails away from
finding another woman
and soon you'll again be
having all of the sex you
want. When she understands that, you take her biggest
manipulative weapon away.
Relationship Attachment Styles
It's generally accepted that there are three broad attachment
styles in relationships.
 Secure
 Avoidant
 Anxious
These are personality traits that tend to develop in your
childhood and are heavily influenced by the type of upraising you
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had.
Secure attachment style. This attachment style is the most well
adapted and leads to the most satisfying relationships. About 60%
of people have this style. Children raised to develop a secure
attachment style saw their parents as a secure base to venture
out from to discover the world. They had a nurturing, loving, and
secure base to retreat to whenever they felt distressed in the big
world.
In adult relationships, their partner becomes their secure base.
He or she is free to be an individual in the world but always has a
partner that provides comfort when needed. These relationships
are honest, open, and equal, with both people feeling
independent, yet loving toward each other.
Avoidant attachment style. This style makes up about 20% of
the population. It develops in children that have absentee
parents. There are two types of avoidant attachment style,
dismissive and fearful. These people have a "who cares" attitude
towards relationships. One moment they are completely
committed and the next they close down to the relationship.
The dismissive style is one where the person turns mostly inward
to take care of himself or herself. They often seek out creature
comforts for themselves with little or no regard for the needs of
their partner. They deny the importance of loved ones and easily
walk away from relationships.
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Those with a fearful attachment style live an indecisive life style.
These people are both afraid to be close to other people and
afraid to be too be far away from loved ones at the same time.
This conflict often results in emotional storms that they are not
able to control. Their moods
can be very unpredictable.
Their relationship model is
one that seeks out others to
get their needs met but fears
if they get too close they will
be emotionally hurt.
Anxious attachment style.
About 20% of people have an
anxious attachment style.
These people are often clingy,
demanding, or possessive
toward their partner.
Although these people want
their partner to be their safety net, they take actions that drive
them away. A classic example is if the partner has outside social
interactions, the partner with an anxious attachment style will
accuse the loved one of no longer loving him or her. They need
constant reassurance of your love for them.
You can learn about a woman's attachment style by getting her
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to tell you stories about her experiences growing up. Ask about
her relationships with her parents. Learn if she felt happy, safe,
and secure in her childhood. Or does she feel her parents weren't
always there to give her love and security. Ask her how she feel
about her parents today. You'll quickly be able to figure out
which of these three attachment styles her relationships fall into.
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Go From Being a Stranger to the Bedroom in
Three Emails
Besides having a strong profile, the emails you send out must
grab her attention and let her know that you're the one she
wants to meet. There are three distinct emails that you will be
sending. Each has a
specific objective. The
three emails are:
1. Ping - to get her
attention.
2. Escalate - build her
attraction to you.
3. Close - get her off
the website.
The Ping Email
The entire point of the ping email is to get her to look at your
profile. You've spent a lot of time putting your profile together
and you're confident it will pull women in. But first, you have to
get her to read it. And before she reads your ping email, you
have to get her to open it. That means it all begins with the
subject line.
The Escalate Email
After she replies to your ping email, the next step is making you
a real man. With this email you go from being just a profile to a
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man she's excited to meet. You want her to become even more
attracted to you than when she read your profile.
The Close Email
You want to get her off the website. Your first choice is getting
her telephone number but you can accept a personal email
address. The point is that you've now established a personal
connection with her that is more than just another guy emailing
her from the website.
Convert Her in Three Emails
If she won't give a phone number or personal email in three
emails, it's time for you to move on. Or you'll probably spend the
next two weeks sending her emails from the dating site and still
not convert her into a woman that wants to meet you face-toface. You should just send her a short last note saying something
like "thanks for taking the time to respond to my previous notes;
I'm here to meet a woman. Please don't be offended but I'm
moving on to women wanting to meet me. Best of luck."
First, It's All About Your Profile
When you send out that first email, she is going to learn who you
are by looking at your profile. Make sure you have set that part
up before you begin sending out emails. Do not take short cuts
with your profile. It's critically important that you demonstrate
that you are living an awesome life that she has to be part of.
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Don't go too fast. I've seen this classic mistake made by many
guys that are in a hurry to get a girl. As soon as they get part way
through this course, they rewrite or write their profile and
upload some photos. Then
they immediately start
sending out a slew of
emails to a bunch of girls.
Don't What they forget about is
make
that each website has to
this
mistake approve your photos
before any of the women
can see them. If you don't
wait for them to be approved, the women are looking at your
profile without any pictures. No photos = married or hiding from
someone. Your email will be deleted.
As a quick refresher of what drives your profile, you want to
show woman that:
 You have a mystic about you
 You lead an awesome life
 Intrigue
 Sexuality
 Sensuality
 Confidence
 Comfortable with who you are
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 Have learned from life's experiences
 You have a life
 You have a career
Writing the Ping Email
Don't spend too much time trying to craft a long email. A short
Here's
where to one works just fine although it does need to say more than just
get
started "Hey There!" What you really want is to get her to look at the
profile that you spend a lot of time putting together.
Subject line: I really like...
Message Body: your style... If you like mine too, message me
back and let's talk about an arrangement;)
X
It' that simple. I've used this simple email over and over and over
again and get great results. Every time I've tried to tweak it, my
results go down instead of up.
The subject line is not completed on purpose. Learning more
about what you like requires her to open the email to get to the
body of the note. Of course, that's exactly what you want. So,
the full sentence reads, "I really like your style." That lets her
know that you read her profile without going into a bunch of
detail. You don't need detail here because she knows what's in
her profile. The second part invites her to read your profile to
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learn more about you. Looking at your profile is the only way she
can decide if she likes your style. If you've done an awesome job
putting your profile together, that will do all the work for you.
The final statement inviting her to email you back to make
Make
sure all
of your
emails
have a
call to
action
arrangements lets her know that you mean business. Be specific
about asking her to message you back. Tell her exactly what you
want her to do. It's a "call to action". The part about "making
arrangements" says you're not going to get into several weeks of
back and forth emails. That you want to meet in a day or two.
The signature "X" at the end is something I like to do but you can
put in your first name if you want.
Also, the opening statement
that goes from the subject
line to the body of the note
can be varied. I used style in
this version in the context of
liking her profile. The word
"profile" will work just as well.
You can also use the word
"energy", lifestyle, or
something specific from her
profile.
What you don't want to
mention is something physical
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about her. Don't call her sexy, or call her a babe, or refer to any
of her body parts. While women do like this from a man she is in
a relationship with, at this point it's too early. Women want to be
acknowledged first for who they are as person and for their
sexuality once a relationship is established.
That's it for the first Ping message. Use a creative, mysterious,
and intriguing subject line that rolls over into the body of the
message. Give her a reason to look at your profile, give her a call
to action to message you back, and let her know that you want
to meet sooner rather than later. But, don't do any of this until
you've put up your profile showing you're an awesome and
amazing man.
Writing the Escalation Email
The main point of the second email is getting her ready to meet
you. To escalate her attention from being interested in you via
your profile to beginning to think that she really does want to get
to know you. Here is the basic email note that works more than
90% of the time:
Subject line: Hi Cutie
Body: I'm looking for something like... when we are together, we
are together. We have an amazing time and spoil each other.
When we are apart, we do our own thing, lead our own lives. No
jealousy. No stress. Just casual and pleasant.
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How does that sound?
X
The main objective here is making it clear that you're fine letting
her do her own thing when you aren't together. That you're not
desperate and that you're not going to stalk her. That's what the
"no jealousy" part is about.
However, there is a second
important objective here
that probably isn't as
Here you
are
already
testing
her a
little
apparent. The use of the
word "spoil" is a good way of
revealing women with
personality problems.
Uncovering the neurotics.
Women that want a man to
take care of them. Those
that are always wanting you
to buy them something, take
them to expensive
restaurants, and give them
money.
When they email you back asking what you mean by "spoiling",
you know you have a low quality girl. It attracts girls that will
prostitute themselves for money and material things. The gold
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diggers. The low quality girls that other men have sent to the
curb.
You want the women that reply with a focus on the other
positive words and phrases in the email. Those that focus on
"amazing time" and "no stress" and "casual and pleasant". These
are the girls that you want to spend time with. You'll probably
spoil them a little but it'll be for the right reasons and you won't
be seeing a girl with a personality disorder.
You're sending two different messages. One with this email and
another from your profile. The email message is about a pleasant
and casual, no jealousy, and no stress relationship. Your profile
should be about a lot of romance and showing them a good time
often. That's good. What you are going to get is a split between
two types of women. About half will go for the big romance
message on your profile and the other half will go for the casual
relationship.
Of course, if you are looking for a serious and long-term
relationship, you can tweak this message a little bit. I'd still keep
the part about spoiling each other in there to weed out the nut
cases. But, you'd probably want to replace the part about being
apart with a phrase talking about spending a lot of time together
and maybe even growing old together. You'll want to take out
the phrase about jealousy and replace it with something about
taking care of each other and being there for each other.
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In the second message, I've added a P.S. asking her to send her
telephone number. I get plenty, so if you're not looking for more
than a few women, you might
want to do that. Although
asking for her phone number
in the second message works,
asking for her telephone
number in a third message
does work better.
There are variations to this
second note based on what
you want in a woman. Part of
this note structure is
designed to screen out the
neurotics. If you're looking
for something casual and she
comes back with something
negative about the no jealousy part, she's not a woman you want
to be involved with. So use this format and tweak it slightly to
hone in on the type of woman that you are looking for.
Always
respond
to
questions
she asks
you
Also, make sure you carefully read the email she sends to you. If
she asks any questions, you need to give some thought to it and
you need to answer her questions. Otherwise, she'll think you
don't pay much attention to women, most women believe that
many men don't hear what their woman is saying to them.
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Another reason you put so many hooks in your profile and in your
emails is to give her something to write back about. If she can't
think of anything to say to you, she's not going to write back.
That's why women send notes from guys that just say "hi there"
right to the delete file. She envisions going out with you for
drinks and neither of you have a thing to say to each other. Give
her something to talk about.
The sole purpose of your profile and the three emails is to get
her to give you a phone number or a personal email account. The
purpose of getting the phone number is so that you can
personally ask her to meet you. Whatever you do, keep those
objectives in mind.
Writing the Close Email
If you asked for her phone number in the second email but she
didn't give it to you, you can still send her another email to close
the deal. However, if you don't get her phone number by the
third email, you should move on to another woman. Now that
she's shown a definite interest in you, here is what the close
email should look like:
Subject line: Re: Hi Cutie
Body: Perfect! Email me your telephone number or personal
email account and let's talk details.
TheLastAuthor@hotmail.com
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Jonathan
XX
As you can see, I included my personal email account here. That
tells her that I'm ready to get personal. One thing I will tell you is
that I set up that email account specifically for meeting women.
It's not the one I use for
business and other online
activities. This one is specific
to meeting women. Any time
I receive mail there, I know
it's a hot woman trying to get
in touch with me.
I do usually include my
telephone number. I didn't
here because it's the phone I
use for work and everything
else. But, when I'm ready to
meet a girl, I'll typically
include my phone number
and a short note for her to
text me so we can work out the details.
If you can, it helps having a phone number just for dating.
Especially if you're going to be dating a lot of girls. It helps
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organize things and makes it easier to keep track of a lot of
women.
It really doesn't matter what her email said before you send the
close email. As long as it was upbeat and positive, your opening
in the body just says "perfect". You definitely want to stay
positive and regardless of what she has said, you want her to
think you're excited to meet her.
That's all there is to the emailing. Three short emails, the ping,
the escalate, and the close. Cut and paste to as many women as
you want. There's no need to spend endless hours writing long
emails that will likely end up in her delete files. I've used these
same three emails for a long time. I have no idea how many
emails I've received back from women but it's easily in the
thousands if not the tens of thousands.
Move with Speed
This is
important
as soon as
you have
her
attention
As soon as you have her off the site and talking directly through a
personal account, you need to move fast to meet her. You've
now separated her from the masses and have her full attention.
She'll be thinking only about you and what meeting you might
lead to. If you don't meet her quickly, her attention will wander
and she'll be back on the website looking for another man.
It's critical that you meet her within 72 hours. If you can't make
that happen, don't bother starting the conversation with her.
Young women have short attention spans. They get into a
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conversation with you and gave you their phone number because
they want to meet. If it's going to take you two weeks to make
this happen, she's going to be back on the internet looking for
another man.
If you miss that 72-hour window, you move out of the "Skip the
Date" mode and back into the dating mode. Within those 72
hours, she's hot for you. She'll do just about anything you want to
do including going to bed with
you. Once that 72 hour
window passes, you're back to
dating her. Back to taking the
time and spending money on
her to convince her to like
you. Not making it happen in
a timely manner brings back
all of the awkwardness that
goes with first dates. Do you
dare touch her on the first
date or kiss her? Are you
taking her to a fancy enough
restaurant? Did you buy an
expensive enough bottle of
wine? Skip all of that, meet
her at a neighborhood bar close to where you live and have a
reason to bring her back to your place.
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Better than 72 hours is making this all happen in one day. If you
catch her while she is online, you can go through all three of the
emails in one day and have her in your bed that night. I've done
this when I was traveling and wanted the company of a beautiful
woman for the night. Within a half hour, I was meeting her and
45 minutes later, she was in my hotel room.
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It's About Always Being Comfortable
About Who You Are
You often hear that what women are totally looking for in a man
is confidence. What nobody ever tells you is how to display
confidence. What it comes down to is being super comfortable
with yourself so that you are always as cool as a cucumber. Then
you will automatically display
the confidence that women
swoon over.
Stay in Control
If you want to always be
comfortable in every situation,
you need to be in control. Not
the type of guy that is known
as a control freak. But, you
don't want women making you
do things that you don't want
to do.
You'll be That starts by not going to
more
comfortable her house until you've been
at your own
seeing each other for a while.
house
You'll feel much more comfortable and in control when you have
her over to your house instead of the other way around. You
want most of your get togethers to start and end at your place.
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Unless there is a darn good reason, you shouldn't even be picking
her up at her place for an outing. You want her to come to you.
Stay Away From Room Mates
This can't be emphasized enough when you're looking to have sex
with a hot young woman. If she has a roommate, that is all the
more reason to stay away from her house. Otherwise, you're
likely to walk in on the roommate in her pj’s on the couch eating
an entire quart of ice cream and sobbing because her boyfriend
stood her up or broke up with her. You know your hot woman is
going to forget all about the sex so that she can spend the rest of
the night comforting her roommate.
You Don't Know What Could Go Wrong
When you're at your house, you know where everything is at and
can keep the atmosphere controlled. You don't have to worry
about her dog slipping out the door and having to spend the next
hour helping her track it down. You don't have to ask where the
drink glasses are at so that you can make drinks for the two of
you. You don't have to worry about getting up extra early to
swing by your place for clean work clothes in the morning.
You don't know what could go wrong, but when you're at her
place, you don't automatically have a solution. You have to ask
her for help. That not the kind of man hotties want. So don't put
yourself in the position of appearing needy or anything other
than in complete control.
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Stay in the Driver's Seat
Another way to stay in control is by doing all of the driving. Let
her do all the drinking and you be the designated driver. Be
responsible by not drinking and driving. Let her be the carefree
woman that you are looking for. Let her get a little wild if she
wants to. She won't feel the need to limit her drinking because
she has to drive you home or because she has to drive herself
home.
That's the type of man these women are looking for. One that
takes the man's
responsibilities seriously and
these women still see driving
as a man's responsibility.
If you let her drive, she'll
start taking on other
responsibilities and take
other control away from you.
She'll decide when it's time to
go somewhere and when it's
time to go back home. She'll
decide what restaurant or
movie you're going to because
she'll be in the driver's seat.
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Never Take a Woman Somewhere New
You'll be
tempted to
do this if
she asks to
go
somewhere
else but
don't do it
Because you want to stay as cool as a cucumber and always in
control, never take a woman somewhere you've never been. This
goes for restaurants, bars, clubs, wherever you go. You want to
be able to show her the ropes. I've taken women to bars that I
frequent and have a casual friendship with the bar tender. When
I excuse myself to use the restroom, he usually throws in a good
and flattering comment about me to the woman I'm with.
Eventually, the two of you are going to want to do some
exploring of other places that you haven't been to. Don't let this
happen until you've been in a serious relationship for at least
three months if you're seeing each other once a week. It can be a
little shorter period of time if the two of you are seeing each
other more frequently. But, you should have at least 12 get
togethers before venturing out into unknown territory. If you
have a real reason to do this sooner, make the effort to go there
alone to learn the landscape and what to expect before taking
her there.
I'm serious about you remaining cool as a cucumber and in
control at all times.
You're Controlling Your Surroundings
It's not about controlling the women you are with. It's about
controlling your surroundings and the situations that you are in.
When you do this, you're always showing her a good time. You're
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not taking her somewhere where either one of you has a bad
time because you didn't know what to expect.
What if someone at work tells you about a new trendy bar and
you take her there only to learn that it's a gay bar. Nothing
against gays, but I don't think you should take a hot woman you
are having regular sex
with to a gay bar. She'll
probably start questioning
your sexual orientation.
Same thing if you take
her to a bad movie. She'll
be bored by the end of
and sleepy and want to go
home to sleep.
Back at Home
By always going to your house, you have the upper hand to
create a welcoming and seductive environment. You want to
demonstrate that you're a man that has it all together and
nothing says that more than the home you live in. It should be
spotlessly clean. Hire a professional crew to do it if you have to
but don't come off looking like a slob. Those are the types of
men that she's avoiding.
Your home is where you are the most in control. You want to
show her that it's your castle. That you take care of your things
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and that you surround yourself with things that you're passionate
about. It should be a solid representation of who you are as a
man.
Clean your toilet. Of course, clean your entire bathroom but
she's going to be extra sensitive to how clean your toilet is. If she
isn't comfortable sitting on your toilet, she isn't going to want
you penetrating her knowing that you sit on that filthy toilet seat.
Oh, and check your medicine cabinet to be sure there isn't
anything offensive in it. You can be sure she'll take a peak in
there to see what kind of meds you might be on.
Stock Your Bar
Your bar should have a nice selection of wines, champagne, and
liquors. However, you don't need to stock the best of the best.
Women haven't got a clue how much champagnes and fine wines
cost. She'll be duly impressed if you have a nice selection for her
to choose from. And yes, it needs to be more than a six pack of
cheap beer you keep around for when the guys come over.
You should have a couple of bottles of $15 champagne and a few
bottles of wine, and a couple of bottles of liquor, just enough to
show that you keep a reasonably stocked bar at home. When you
do this, she will see you as a real man that plans in advance and
knows how to treat her as the woman she deserves to be treated
as.
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Give Her a Reason to Come Back to Your Place
If all you can say is come back to my place and we can chill, she's
going to know that all you're interested in is sex. If you've
already shown her a good time, she may well do exactly that.
However, when you give her a reason to come back your chances
of her coming along increases dramatically. Tell her you need to
go let your dog out and then the two of you can go for a nightcap
at a neighborhood bar around the corner. That one is almost fool
proof.
If you've been talking about a hobby, you can ask her if she wants
to come over to see your collection of medieval combat armor.
Or even your photos of
your travels from around
the world. What you want
to do is give her a good
reason to come to your
place. That way when one
thing leads to another and
she spends the night, she
can convince herself and
her friends that it wasn't
planned. That it just
happened that she had
spontaneous sex with you on the first date.
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Plan for Success
Assume she's going to spend the night. Have some simple
toiletries that she will need. A new toothbrush. Some contact
solution and a clean contact case. Even some makeup remover.
She knows she's not the first woman you have had back to your
house. After all, she was chasing you when it got to this point.
Certainly, other women have found you attractive. And you're
not a 40-year-old virgin or you wouldn't be on top of your game.
Make your house woman friendly. I don't mean buy silk curtains
and make it look feminine. What I mean is to put your XXX DVD
collection in a back bedroom closet. And don't have a pinup
photo on your computer as a screen saver. And don't have a
childhood collection of little plastic green army men staged for
combat on a side table. Its fine being a manly man but look
around your place to see what she might find offensive or what
might make her question your maturity. You've done great
getting her this far, don't blow it as soon as she walks in the
bedroom and finds a teddy bear collection on your not so manly
bed.
You also need to have a decent supply of condoms. Not one that
you've been carrying around in your wallet for three or four
months. You need a supply in expectation that things are going
to get hot and heavy and go well into the night. You also need to
have something for her to sleep in. Most women feel
uncomfortable sleeping in the nude after having sex. You're in
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control and being able to offer her an oversized T-shirt or
something comfortable for her to sleep in shows her you're da
man. I've also given some
thought to having a fresh
set of clothes for her to
put on in the morning. But,
that's going too far and
presents complications.
You probably can't
anticipate what size she
wears and if you have a
variety of outfits for her to select from, she's going to think you
have sex with way too many women to have a serious
relationship with you.
You'll feel very comfortable out with a woman when you know
you have your house ready when she says yes to coming home
with you.
You're Doing the Driving, Maintain Your Car
Keep both the inside and outside of your car clean. Women are
going to see your car before they see your house. If your car is
disgusting or even a little dirty, she is going to assume your home
is in the same condition. Wash it at least weekly. I think you
should wash it yourself. It gives you a sense of pride.
We all know guys that treat the inside of their car like a garbage
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can. Empty food containers on the floor, piles of CDs stacked on
the passenger seat, dirty laundry in the back seat, etc. Obviously,
this is going to be a turn off to the type of women that you want
to attract. If she's going to have to wait for you to move your
junk around so that she can get in, she's going to see you as an
immature boy that can't clean up after himself. She's not going to
want to have sex with a slob.
You don't have to drive a top end sports car to attract hot
women. But, you do need to take pride in your car and
everything that you do. Don't talk about how old your car is or
that you wish you could get another one. If you do talk about
your car, talk about how you put in the effort to keep it up
because you depend on it and you like your stuff to be reliable
and well maintained. Many women think you'll treat them very
much the way you treat your car. Show her that you treat
everything in your life well and with respect.
This is a Battle
It's not a battle with her. It's a battle not letting other guys take
the hottest women away from you. They will try but when you
follow what you learn in this course, you'll have no trouble
coming out the victor.
Remember, never take her to a place you don't know. Never
order food you've never tried. Be in control. Know what to
expect. What can be impressive to her is taking her somewhere
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that you're known at. You can become a local at a bar with only
five visits. Order the same drink every time and talk to all the
staff. They will quickly
start treating you like a
regular because repeat
business is their bread
and butter. Then when
you bring in a woman,
she'll be treated as an
extension of you. She'll
have a great time and
she'll quickly be convinced that you have your act together.
Stay local. Don't take her anywhere that is more than 30 minutes
from your house and 20 minutes is better. You don't want to have
to drive for an hour once she's in the mood to head back to your
home.
One thing, that is important, is that you have a rapport with the
staff. Go into the place five days in a row and order the same
drink every time. Go in during the slow part of the day. When
the bar tender and staff are standing around bored. They'll
welcome your conversation. What's important is you do this when
the bar is slow. That helps them remember you. Then when you
start showing up with beautiful women, you'll become even more
memorable to them. Everyone loves beautiful women and bars
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do especially because it attracts more money paying male
clientele.
The conversation with the staff doesn't need to exciting. You're
there to establish yourself as a regular. One way of doing this is
by talking about the drink that you order. Let them know that's
what you regularly drink. That way, when you bring your lady
friend with you, the bar tender will ask you if you want your
regular drink. This sits well with women because it establishes
that you have a life outside of work and home. You can make this
happen by walking in and telling the bar tender that you'll have
the usual and the lady will have...
Make your "usual" something unique but not too difficult to
remember. If you just order a Miller beer, it's not going to be
very memorable because so many others drink the same thing. A
few ideas might be:
 A Long Island Ice Tea
 A specialty martini
 A Manhattan
 Vodka soda with lime juice
 A Margarita
 Whiskey Sour
 Gin and Tonic
Also being a good tipper makes you more memorable, good tips
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will get you faster and better service and the staff will be eager
to please both you and your woman.
Taking these easy steps will show that you know what's going on
when you show up with a gorgeous woman by your side. And she
will think your competence at being social is sexy. You'll also feel
more comfortable knowing
what is going on, which bar
tender pours the best drinks,
and you are recognized as
being a regular.
Always Be In Control
When you are in full control
of your house, car, and the
places you take women, it
makes staying in control of
everything else much much
easier. The only other thing
you really need to work at is
not letting other people
derail your interaction with
the women. Position yourself
to be taken care of by a respectable waiter/waitress and keep
roommates out of the picture. Keep your time with your
beautiful woman to yourself.
Wherever you take her, she should feel like you're at your home
away from home.
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You are going to become the man that women are chasing after.
When this happens, you'll no longer feel rejected. One of the big
secrets about women is that when you have one or two hot
women dating you, every other hot women wants you. And they
want to get in bed with you so that they can try to snag you into
an exclusive relationship.
Why Other Women Want You
For whatever reason, women find men that are seeing other
women as more desirable. They find it a challenge to entice a
man to walk away from
one women to take up
with her. They find there's
a thrill in the chase. They
want you to find them
more desirable than the
woman your now with. It's
a huge stroke to their ego.
Having so many women
chase you also strokes
both your ego and confidence. It becomes a circle of
relationships that you will probably find very enjoyable.
When women are chasing you, they try to make themselves into
whatever it is you want. They try to find out what you think is
missing in your current relationship and then provide that to you.
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The Journal of Experimental Social Psychology said single women
in a study were significantly more interested in a man when he is
attached. This may be because an attached man has
demonstrated his ability to commit and in some ways, his
qualities have already been 'prescreened' by another woman.
Men Want Their Girlfriend to be Their Mistress Too
If you want to keep your current relationship hot and spicy,
occasionally let her know that other woman want you also. That
they sometimes come on to you. Don't do it often and don't do it
in a way that makes her angry. Just throw out an occasional
comment like "Erika, at work asked me today if you and I are still
seeing each other, what do you think that was about?"
This can prevent your relationship from falling into a routine
where she starts nagging at you and forgets to show her
gratification and appreciation for you.
On the other hand, mistresses are always fun and exciting to be
around. Let her know that you want to keep the relationship at
the mistress level. That you want to try new experiences on a
regular basis. She'll get it; she knows that other women have
their eyes on you.
When You're Getting Started
I strongly suggest that you date multiple girls before getting into
a committed relationship. Try the James Bond lifestyle before
getting into a routine. It'll be huge confidence builder. Take on
that attitude from the very beginning. The more women you date
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the more you'll attract. Your goal is to have them chasing you
rather than you chasing them.
There is an abundance of women out there, not a shortage. You
need to have the mind set
that you can have any
woman that you want.
The techniques you've
learned here show you
how to get a hundred or
more telephone numbers
of women each month.
When you internalize that there is an ocean of women out there
and you know how to attract them to you, you begin radiating
this to attract even more women.
It is a form of confidence. Be careful not to portray it as
arrogance. The secret of self-confidence is to actually not
demonstrate it because it then comes off as arrogance. Being
confident is really about Not Showing a lack of confidence. A
classical example of lack of confidence is first meeting a girl and
behaving as if you have to have her. That comes off as desperate.
You need to come off as knowing that if she's not interested in
you that you can have another woman tomorrow. Women find
this intriguing and confident.
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Be Good to Her
In addition to not acting arrogant, don't act aloof either.
Although you can have another woman tomorrow be kind, gentle,
and sweet to the one you're with at the moment. She'll see you
as her hero for treating her with respect and better than most
men.
You're older than she is and she wants to look up to you for that.
You have more life experience that she does. Act as if you're a
competent man. A man that knows how to go about life to get
what he wants. You need to have hobbies and interests that you
are passionate about. After confidence, what most women say
they look for in a man is that he has goals, which he is passionate
about.
You may need to alter your personality a bit. She sees you as
being above her. That's because you have so many more
experiences that you know more than she does and know better
how to act in more situations that are complex. She values your
words. Be careful not to say things that will hurt her feelings.
She gets enough of that from younger men closer to her age.
You also need to be comfortable and competent in the bedroom.
She expects you to know what you're doing. My recommendation
is that you slow down. Take the time to romance her in the
bedroom. Women don't particularly want to get right down to the
deed. For them it's much more emotional than physical. When
you pay attention to them all over their bodies and talk gently to
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them, they'll find you to be an amazing lover. Much better than
the younger men, that are always in a hurry to penetrate and be
done with it.
How Would You Act When Dating Five Women?
Even if you're not, think in terms of dating five women at once.
It will move you into the mind set you need. That means not
texting or telephoning her six times a day. It means that when
you first contact her, you don't email her multiple times during
the week before asking her to meet you. Just tell her that you
have a few free hours this
Friday night and you'd like
to meet her.
When you do meet her for
the first time, it's about
being comfortable with
who you are. Follow the
techniques in the chapter
about being comfortable about who you are to set the stage for
success. You do the driving, you take her to places that you're
familiar with and where the staff knows you, and you take her to
your clean home instead of going to her place.
Instant Confidence
You really don't need any confidence until you meet her face to
face. It's about you realizing that you are the selector. It's up to
you whether you go to bed with her and it's up to you if you will
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see her again. That's where so many men go wrong. They work so
hard at trying to get her to accept them that they end up looking
pathetic. As if this is their last opportunity to be with a woman.
It's not. If for some reason, she decides to pass on you, there is
an ocean of other women out there. This shouldn't be difficult.
She has already shown she has an interest in you by meeting you
in the first place.
When she knows that you aren't going to chase her, she starts
chasing you. She wants to prove to you that she's worth having.
That she has what it takes to hold your attention.
You may get it wrong the first couple of times you try this new
mindset but don't give up. It's a new skill that you're learning and
it does take practice. If it doesn't work with the first woman, go
back and find another to practice with some more. This one
doesn't really know you. She doesn't know you're trying to
improve yourself and that you'll get better with time. Just move
on to the next one. How bad can it be to go out with seven or
eight beautiful women to practice to become perfect?
This one change in thought will make the stress of meeting a new
woman completely go away.
That's it, you are now fully prepared to Skip the Date, Score the
Girl. No procrastinating...
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