My Homeroom Guidance Worksheet NAME GRADE & SECTION HGP TIME/SCHEDULE Homeroom Guidance Program QUARTER 1 – MODULE 3 – Thinking Aloud My Decisions JULIANA MARIE M. TAY-IS ABM 12 FRIEDMAN A 1:00-3:00 Note: Save in PDF FORMAT (LASTNAME-SECTION-HGP MODULE 1) To be submitted on Friday November 6, 2020 Let’s Try This Suggested Time Allotment: 20 minutes Read the story of Anton, a Senior High School graduate, then answer the processing questions. Anton’s Indecisiveness Anton who took up the General Academic Strand in Senior High School has a hard time deciding what course to enroll in college. He graduated with honors and has received special citations. He is great in Science and Math but he is also into arts and graphic designing. He was told by his parents to decide for his course since colleges are already closing admission and the school opening is approaching fast. He is spending night analyzing his options. Sometimes he barely sleeps, over-analyzing all considerations. There are also pressures from his friends for him to join them in the university where there are wide variety of Science course he can choose from. He also considers the suggestions of his teachers who see his potential in graphic designing and multimedia arts. Anton really wants to enroll in the most prestigious school to study the course that perfectly fits him. After thorough self-deliberation, he comes down to two schools and four courses. But this does not end his considerations; he still has more factors to visit. His family and friends are starting to worry if he could ever make a final decision. It has finally come one day when everything was in place. Anton finally decides to enroll! He hurries to the school of his choice, but he’s an hour late! The enrollment has just closed for his first choice. To add in more to his regrets, his second chosen program has also reached the maximum number of students and it was closed days ago. Sad and full of regrets, Anton goes home thinking of the lost time overthinking his options. And that is because he can just not make up his mind. Processing Questions: 1. Did you experience spending more time to make a decision that greatly affects you or your future just like Anton? Share your experience. Yes, I experienced spending more time to make a decision that affects me when my classmates and friend said that I should join badminton competition in school because they said that I am good in playing badminton but I said to them that I will think about it. But, when I decided to join already, the teacher said that the players are already complete. 2. If you are in his situation, what would be your next move? I will think again of things where I am good apart from my 1st and 2nd choice course and I will enroll immediately so that I will not regret it again. 3. What should you do so you won’t face the same problem as that of Anton? i Now I will think about where I am good and where I am weak and I will self-deliberate on what course I want. Let’s Explore This Suggested Time Allotment: 15 minutes Agree or Disagree? Write AGREE or DISAGREE on the given situations. Read each statement carefully to make sure that it best matches your opinion. 1. I cannot tell my best friend’s parents about his smoking and drinking tendencies because I will betray his trust. DISAGREE 2. I should consider the advice of my parents when it comes to choosing my course in college. AGREE 3. It is OK to take credit for other people’s work as long as it serves a good purpose. AGREE 4. Choosing a career that will employ easily is more practical than pursuing a passion that will take years before getting a good earning. DISAGREE 5. The curriculum exit that you should choose after senior high school should best match the track and strand you are taking. AGREE Processing Questions: 1. What are the factors that you considered in answering? The factors that I consider in answering is based on my opinion and what I am experiencing right now. 2. Do your experiences at this time of pandemic change the way you decide on things? In what way? Yes, the way I made my decision changed because of the pandemic. In everything, I have been thinking carefully about whether that decision is for my own good or maybe it will be bad. I noticed that I became more mature in decision making. You Can Do It Suggested Time Allotment: 25 minutes DIRECTION: List your alternative course of action on the following situations Looking Into my Decisions What are the factors that led you to this Situation What is your decision? decision? Because I am an introvert person and I am 1. A group of I will not join learners invited you not really good in making friends. to join a virtual organization and encouraged you to meet new friends. To become a member, you need to follow certain rules. 2. Your parents told you that they may not be able to support your schooling this year because of financial matters. They asked if you can stop attending school. No, I will not stop studying. Because as an 18 years old, I can think about my future and I will not stop studying because I can work even while studying and I can support myself as well as my family. 3. Your cousin asks you to tell a lie to her parents that they will have a school event to sneak going with her boyfriend for a date. I will not ride on her lies. Because what if something bad happens to her, I will feel guilty about it. And I will tell her that she must let her mother know if she wants to go out with her boyfriend for a date and if she is not allowed, she will not disobey because that is for her good. 4. Your family is experiencing financial crisis and lost a sustainable livelihood; and there’s an invitation from a friend to try online selling. 5. It’s your birthday and your friends would like you to throw a party despite the strict quarantine protocol in your community. Yes, I will try selling online. Because I can't afford to see that my family has nothing to eat or no money. I will not throw a party for my birthday. Because there is a quarantine protocol and I cannot violate it. They may think that I'm selfish but all I am thinking is them and my family because what if one of us has covid19 so we get infected so it will be my fault. What I have Learned Suggested Time Allotment: 15 minutes Dear Anton Go back to the story of Anton in Let’s Try This. If you have the power to travel back in time and help him out in choosing for the best school and course to take in college, what advise will you give him. Answer: I will tell him that he really needs to think carefully about what he really wants in the course because it is for his future but he should not take too long because the enrollment will close and he will regret it cruelly for the rest of his life References: 1. Corey, Gerald. Theory and Practice of Counseling and Psychotherapy, Seventh Edition. California: Brooks/Cole, 2005 2. Feist, Jess and Feist, Gregory J. Theories of Personality. Fifth Edition. New York: McGraw-Hill Higher Education. 2003 3. Heine, Steven J. Cultural Psychology. Second Edition. New York: W.W. Norton and Company. Inc. 2012 Lundin, Robert. Theori