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The Girlfriend Activation System
-REVIEW AND MAIN IDEAS- BY REDCACTUSSome of the things you need to know:
No System in the world will allow you to get any girl you put eyes on
You are going to be rejected- so just maximize the risk
What you will get in a relationship is what you make yourself look like
She is going to test you
What you need to do to increase your chances with the girl you like:
When she tests you - she is quite insecure – don’t see it as a challenge, it’s a chance for
you to prove your feelings(reaffirm them)
ACCEPT any of the challenges – it’s because she like you that she puts these obstacles
in front of you – they are where she saw huge potential in you and you aren’t
exploiting it fully
Wish to change to be a better man for her everyday
Have your own challenges to help you grow
Be TROUTHFUL – don’t hide stuff or it will haunt you
HAVE YOUR SHIT TOGETHER – Be balanced and don’t overdo either work or
relationship
You have to have mutual values and visions
VALUE= HOW MUCH YOU ARE INVESTED IN SOMETHING
Also- physical, talking good and non verbal behavior are important
Follow your happiness but be FLEXIBLE- don’t fool yourself
VALUE:
I.
What is your core- what drives and motivates you
II.
Have passive value – it’s the things that you create – the world that you create –the
stuff that you invest in and are quite interesting to her:
IF you are popular- the value you have precedes you
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III.
Personality GAME
IV.
YOU HAVE TO:
a. Be a relationship-ready-guy=> ACTIONS CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS
b. Be the balance between FUN and RESPONSIBLE
c. Create more than the Spending- be it MONEY, EMOTIONS, etc
d. WORK on every aspect of your life
e. Be the LEADER in your own life
f. Stop trying to prove anything to anybody
g. Stop being the BETA male
h. Try and make people respect you => Invest in people and they will talk fondly of you
so that your passive value increases considerably
What kind of guy are you:
A. Good guy(almost extinct because they are pushed out by Bad guys )
a. Speak your mind
b. Use your abilities to do what is good for the world
c. Funny
d. STAND on your boundary
B. Nice guy- DON’T
a. Doesn’t have his own value and tries to please everybody
b. THEY ARE BETA- when they get the chance to get dominant they will abuse it
c. They look gay
C. Bad guy
a. Selfish S.O.B
b. Chooses the short way
c. Wants to get laid but that is it
d. Pushes really hard
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e. Exaggerates everything
AS A GOOD GUY:
I.
Be a gentleman if you are taking care of a lady
II.
She has seen it all – don’t brag
III.
Be persistent- know what you want- try it from as many angles as possible:
a. Intrigue
b. Give her space
c. Be creative- read a book she likes- post a quote on her wall
IV.
SEX- it’s best when she wants it most – MAXIMUM investment
V.
Have a wingman
VI.
Have cool guys to surround you with to do something else apart from girls- sports,
hobby, etc.
VII.
Be guided by: “I am king of my world” and “Stronger through challenges every day”
WHAT CAN YOU GIVE A GIRL TO WANT TO BE WITH YOU?:
1. GROWTH- Help her with what she wants
2. VISION- I see potential in her that she doesn’t see
3. THRILL –Excitement : “Give her the gift of missing you”
-Surprise her
4. BETTER- Wiser, Smarter, Healthier
5. PLEASURE- she feels good near you
6. SET AN EXAMPLE- the next boyfriend will be shity
7. YOU ARE WHAT IS BEST FOR HER
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Authority and the time you meet her:
A. You are preapproved if you have some passive value- She hears great stuff about you
before she meets you
B. Make people act as connectors that invite her to meet you
C. Have fun while chasing the girl of your dreams
D. Be somewhat arrogant but don’t overdo it
E. Ignore her- you are a busy man not her puppy
Pretend you forgot her name or smth to tell her that you kind of don’t care about her
and also you exercise your authority
F. Flirt with her after you make her do smth
G. Organize something and be responsible for it ex. PARTY
H. Depending on the environment, match her vibe- if she is low energy start like that and
then bring it up and try to reach a balanced level
I. Look her in the eye => examine her as if YOU ARE WAITING FOR HER TO PROVE
HERSELF TO YOU
J. THE KING GAME:
a. You in full control – ex. Host of the party
b. Have lots of connectors to talk fondly of you and to transfer their value to you
c. Have people interested in what you do and say- their value transfers too
d. You do/create/be the leader of something really cool
DON’T FUCK OVER YOUR FRIENDS!!!!!!!
e. Have cool guys compliment you
f. Give a task/approval/advice to guys- they become BETA - your value goes up
g. Be balanced with it- or else it’s going to lose it’s force- your opinion is waited
upon by others – also don’t exaggerate when approving
h. Speak for others BOOM- I’d like to find him a girl- you are responsible for him
CAREFUL WITH FRIENDS-BECAUSE HE WON’T HOOK UP TONIGHT-
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THE CHARACTERS YOU CAN MAKE SURE WORK
TO SUSTAIN THE IDEEA OF YOU BEING ALPHA:
A. GENIUS ACOLITE: someone that you advised /taught something life
changing: “He was so @#$%^& but now after I TALKED to him he is
^^^^^^ WOOOW”- If you were not alpha he would
B. BOSO STRAWMAN: you disapprove STRONGLY about someone that
has opposite values – DON’T BITCH- BOSO is just a fly that you will
crush with your superiority- have jokes that prove your superiority
KEEP IN MIND:
1. KNOW YOUR VALUE AT ANY TIME
2. CULTIVATE EXCELENCY IN YOUR LIFE
3. WANT WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOUR PEOPLE
Let’s meet her, the first things:
Have Selective attention:
-engaged when looking at her and a small tilt of the head to the left
-super focused on the conversation
-half the time you are looking down and to the right to make her curious if
you are actual listening
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THE GIRLFRIEND ACTIVATION SYSTEM:
1. MEET HER
2. GET THE DIGITS
3. SEX
4. RELATIONSHIP
1. IMPRESSION: you are different , make her curious you are hiding something better&
***BONUS*** if you are sexy
2. INSPECTION: you are making all the right moves
3. SEX- or maybe not according to her beliefs or something
4. INTIMACY:
Open up but not too much
She believes she has to win you over
Invite her to do something with you , then flirt
-MATTABOUT MEETING HER:
I.
Smile
II.
Chill
III.
You are not important- be modest
IV.
Don’t let her eyes get astray
V.
Act like you expect to be respected
VI.
Make her feel awesome about the fact that she is telling you her life
VII.
Teach her how to have a conversation:
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o You are the one with the initiative
o Let the subject drain out
o Then pause and buffer
o Wait for her to start something new
o She doesn’t – you start a different subject but you look to her like
she made that awkward pause
o Try again- if she doesn’t respond – try again and then if she still
doesn’t- just drop it
VIII.
The P.P.- Pregnant Pause: she is so nice, funny, she has similar vision on
the world – STOP 5 sec. put on a face like:”WHO ARE YOU AND WHERE
HAVE YOU BEEN?”- And say ”I would like to see you again”
IX.
USE: “Is that right?” but show her that you like her
DATING TO SEX:
The Steps:
I.
NEUTRAL
II.
INTRIGUED
III.
ENGAGED
IV.
COM-INVESTED
V.
CHASING YOU
VI.
ENCHANTED
VII.
GIRLFRIEND
TRY and be balanced as the investment progresses
Think of the future: what is something fun you can do?
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Make her Investment in you show: make it worth it- Renew her
investment everyday: uncertain/laugh/thrill!!
Text her- build up a history with her : make date 1 be like 2/3 – make it
special- REMEMBER- TEXTING is part of an ongoing conversation- DON’T
BE FORMAL
DATE- link it to the history you have/ to the last time you had fun
She has to find out your values:
1. BUILD A VISION
2. PERSONALIZE ON HER UNIQUES
3. LIVE IN THE MOMENT & FLIRT WITH THE FUTURE
4. DROP HOOKS ABOUT THE FUTURE
FIRST TEXTS:
You have something planned
Put some work into your investment
Flirt and tease
Establish a frame
Build a connection- find things you like
Push through to a date
LOW HANGING FRUIT PRINCIPLE:
FOR finding out if she wants sex or not
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Works best when you had sexually charged interaction or she would like
to explore
Text her to meet up near your house:
A- She is OK- Invested in you
B- Meet elsewhere
At your place => have a drink in your hand and be really close to ready to
go- but you have to finish something: if she says that you should go=> ok
if she is in- shoes off and offer a drink
THE PERFECT DATE:
Plan it when she is very free – you are a busy guy too
Don’t be CHEAP- try and impress: DINNER> Drinks
You pay-your privilege to spend time with her
KEEP IT SHORT: 2h
No further plans- you will have to prove yourself to her friends
BE A GENTELMAN-door-chair-stand up when she leaves
You order on her behalf
Be cool with the waiter- what’s up man? :))
Be thoughtful: What about some appetizers? Is there something you
don’t eat?
Feed her :))
Get her in the taxi first and kiss her on the cheek – leave her wondering
MAYBE will hang out again…….
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TENSIONS:
o POSITIVE: she is there and it is odd – maybe a kiss??
- Eat and smile at her
- Bump into each other when you walk- maybe she wants to
escalate
o NEGATIVE: clash of vision, personality, values, push too hard
=>APOLOGISE YOU DICK
TALK ON THE FIRST DATE:
o You will discover the real you and her
o Have 2-3 personality traits that you emphasize with a story
EX: Spontaneity and Adventure : Stupid but awesome
o Comment on that: it’s the most…..I’ve done!
o Ask her about what she has done- elaborate on what she felt then
o Future project your stories combined in a funny romantic way
o Share that with friends later
o Discover her visions, values , deep desires , what shaped her into
who she is now
o Childhood
o Compliment: values/vision/efforts/dreams and look(less)
o Compliment on something unique that she has : a match, an
accessory –nobody notices- you wanted all the guys to be jealous of
me so that I may know how lucky I am
o USE: “I like that about you” and “If we were a couple”
o USE: questions provided by Christian in the next pdf
o Gently bring up a social event that you are going to
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o Ask about her future week
o DON’T ask her out yet
o HAVE SOME PARTY TRICKS- maybe something Cheesy
o IF you do go for drinks- she brings a friend you bring one too else
switch to public places
o Don’t talk: Exes- if you do talk fondly of them – You want what is
good for her- “IT WAS NOT MEANT”
-SEX
-POLITICS & RELIGION- only if it is important to you
- Nasty stuff you have in your life- just say that you are going to
change that with your values
o YOU HAD FUN- but don’t rush the second date, wait 2-5 days
o After the date: send her cool stuff you do /tell her about cool
stuff/be excited about what you do-BRING HER INTO YOUR WORLD
DATE 2…..
Fun and drinks
Dance (jazz maybe)- go somewhere cool
Fun: maybe game( something with contrast)
EX. Plaza for drinks with classy suit and then air hokey
EYE CONTATCT + COMPLIMENT HER ALL THE WAY
Talk about projects you are in and BE OPENED
It’s going to be lot’s of movement—find a moment and KISS- in a fun waysneak it in –SPONTANEOS – very short-leave her wondering
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DATE 2.5……
Social=> RISKY!
Make sure everything is going to work in your favour
Make sure she is suppose to enjoy it:
A) Your girl is with cool people+ she has drinks
B) Talk to her friends –see connections between her friends
and you friends
C )Make her do smth with and for you
D) Affirm that she is you girl- hand on her back or smile
DATE 3…….
Week night dinner=> lighting is important
Kiss her properly
Select music together
Get her involved in the food making
Choose some movie light: PIXAR, DISNEY
Always have wine, champagne
Have albums
Have a cozy home- make her wish It was hers
Have everything she needs- shampoo, soap, towels
Get rid of clocks
SEXY TIME:
o Ramp up the tension=> then go for it
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o Kiss her with build up
o It’s actually a dance between tender and tough SEX
o After you finish- give her water- try to cool her down with your
forehead
THE MORNING:
o she has to leave- lead her to taxi
o she stays-make breakfast- end it before noon or else it becomes
boring
she is not yet your girl—short phone to make sure she got home ok
AFTER DATE 3……
1. Go some place romantic but casual – rooftop-pizza-beer
2. Wait 2-6 weeks (NO LABELS)- increase hanging out
3. Involve her in one of your important project
4. Help he with HER vision
5. Presents- Thoughtful but not expensive
6. Bring flowers after you had sex for like 4 time
7. Get her a book on mediation or something that has helped you in tha
past-“Hope it brings you joy like it did to me”
8. If you leave town- get her something
9. Have simple notes-compliments
10.MMS her in a creative way
BECOME OFFICIAL:
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I.
You have already shared stuff on FB
II.
Family conversation
III.
Talking to your DAD and MUM on the phone
IV.
THE TALK- I like you-I would like to become exclusive- we are heading to
be a couple you in?
FINAL NOTE:
MAN=DOG---- DON’T :
1. Lapdog- lowers his values , jumps in the lap, too polite,begs
2. Puppy –too playful, overdo it , push it to sex too much
3. Hornydog- SEXXXXXX
4. Sleepydog-miss dates, head in the clouds
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