Squirting Triggers
The Secret Triggers Revealed That Will Make
Any Girl Squirt For The First Time
Axel Manson
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Contents
Introduction
Choosing a Girl
Female Psychology
Preparation
Squirting Triggers
Multiple Orgasms
Stacked Orgasms
Making Her Squirt During Cunninglingus
Making Her Squirt During Sex
How to Turn Her On
Squirting FAQs
Rotations and Multiple Girlfriends
Long-Term Lovers
Making Her Pussy Smell and Taste Awesome
Making Her Squirt Without Touching Her Pussy
Making Her Want to Learn How to Squirt
Better Squirting
Conclusion
Introduction
Less than 0.001% of men are privy to the information you are about
to be imparted with. Use this information wisely, to enhance your
own life and also that of which ever beautiful woman you are with at
the time.
Making girls squirt is a skill, and just like any other skill it can be
practiced and improved. The consistency with which I can make girls
squirt is slowly but steadily increasing and it will for you to, if you
implement what you’re about to learn.
If you have a long term relationship then this is how you’ll turn your
girl into a crazy squirter, you’ll unlock a side to her that society had
forced her to bury, and she will love and appreciate you for it.
One particular point I want to make you aware of at the beginning of
this book is that you may have a preconception about what it takes
to make women squirt, and usually this will be a physical technique.
The physical techniques are thoroughly covered here, more so than
in any other book or website you will find, however (and you may not
want to hear this) what will really make a difference to how
successful you are is the psychological methods you use to make
her squirt.
These involve setting the frame, being non-judgmental, free from
outcome, spontaneous and helping the woman get out of the trap
that is her logical frame of mind, and in to her feminine, emotional
frame of mind. This is where you will really be able to blow her mind.
With that in mind, let’s jump straight in and find out what it takes to
turn your girl into a crazy squirter.
Choosing a Girl
If you already have a woman in mind then feel free to skip this
chapter, this is more for the men who want to find the right ‘partner in
crime’ and someone you can grow together with.
In which case you’ll want to keep an eye out for squirter dimples:
Squirter dimples also known as the ‘dimples of Venus‘(Venus was
the Roman God of beauty) are one of the ‘tell-tale’ signs that you
could have an easily orgasmic woman on your hands and it should
be easy to learn how to make her squirt. It is suggested that the
dimples occur naturally on many women who have healthy body
mass indices and muscle tone as well as strong sexual energy.
Tension, stress, shame and fear will all reduce the visibility of the
dimples and are all emotions that will likely inhibit her squirting
potential.
That isn’t to say that women who don’t have the dimples can’t squirt,
it’s just they probably won’t be able to squirt as easily, or they will
need more OP massage, or to find a way to reduce the stress in their
lives and eat more healthily before they unlock their full squirting
orgasmic potential.
It’s totally possible for a lady to acquire squirter dimples in most
cases. This may involve reducing her body fat percentage, removing
toxins from her body during a detox regime, or taking up regular
flowing exercise. Yoga and Pilates are perfect, a much higher
percentage of women who practice yoga and Pilates have squirter
dimples than the general population.
Female Psychology
It is easy to focus too much on the physical technique when learning
how to make a girl squirt, even more so where your aim is to turn
your girl into a crazy squirter. In fact, what you do before you reach
the bedroom can be even more important.
For women, squirting can be a very emotionally charged moment.
She will have little control over her own body and emotions as she
reaches the climax of sexual arousal.
As such, she will be in a vulnerable position. If she feels that you are
not the right man to protect her during this vulnerable moment, or
that you will take advantage of her vulnerability, she will resist
reaching it in the first place.
This emotional resistance to squirting can take place either
consciously, or out of her awareness, and will make it much harder, if
not impossible for you to bring her to a squirting orgasm even if your
technique is spot on.
The more she trusts that you are a mature, caring man who
genuinely wants to help her feel incredible pleasure without judging
her in any way, the more likely she will open up to you and relax her
body and mind. Relaxation and feeling comfortable is the real key to
getting a woman to squirt.
No amount of 'wickedy wackedy' finger technique will work if she is
not relaxed and feeling comfortable. If she feels you are the sort of
person to make fun of her vulnerability, gossip to other people or run
away if something unexpected happens then you really will have a
hard time.
Of course different women are more or less sexually trusting and
open, and therefore easier or harder to make squirt. Your job is to
show them you are trustworthy, mature, caring and honest.
Free from outcome
Another major roadblock to squirting success is if the woman feels
you will be disappointed if she doesn't squirt. If she feels you are so
dependent on the outcome to be happy she will be trying too hard to
squirt, this will essentially 'put her in her head' thinking logically
instead of 'in her body' where she will be much more likely to squirt.
Goal orientation is the polar opposite of sexual arousal. Logic kills
arousal. Do you think it would be easy to make her squirt while
getting her to answer the question "What do you think of the new
highway proposal?" It would be almost impossible. You want to do
the opposite of this. You may have your own way to get your woman
out of a logical frame of mind and into an emotional 'body centred'
way of thinking.
Some of the good ones that could be used are:
• Music
• Massage
• Playful wrestling
• Getting drunk
• Meditation
• Exciting locations
Combinations of these also work well. My favourite is playful
wrestling that leads into foreplay and I won't go back into logical,
linear conversation at any point after this.
You also have to choice of whether to tell her the plan that you intend
to make her squirt. Never say, 'I intend to make you squirt,' or
anything this goal orientated. Sometimes you don't even need to tell
her. However, sometimes with a new partner it can be useful to
subtly let her know that you understand woman squirt and have
made them squirt before.
A good way to do this is to say when she is already very aroused,
'have you ever squirted before?' If she says yes then you know you
have a good chance of being successful. If she says no then you
may have to guide her a little bit, tell her what you are doing, and
remind her it's ok if she pees a little bit, and help her feel relaxed.
Hold Space for her
To hold space for someone means to provide grounding, nonjudgemental and secure energy for them, where they can process
their own emotions and feelings without fear. You are not telling them
what to do, or processing their emotions for them, you are simply
providing the secure support that might facilitate them to do it for
themselves.
If a woman has a powerful squirting orgasm you may need to hold
space for her afterwards while she processes her own emotions.
This can be an incredibly powerful healing and bonding experience
for her.
If you have already proved to her that you can 'hold space' at the
right moment she will be much more likely to feel relaxed enough, let
go, and be able to squirt.
The best times to prove you can 'hold space' for her are in situations
where most people would become emotionally flustered and lose
their cool. You can remain emotionally unaffected by the situation.
This doesn't mean you shut the world out, you need to be very
present to the moment to hold space, but you are so grounded in the
present moment that you are affected by the situation. If you master
the art of holding space, and being a grounded, present energy for
her, it will be much easier to make her squirt and she will ‘let go’ and
be more likely to become a ‘crazy squirter.’
Openness
I have a friend who has an amazing ability to precondition the
women he is with, with his attitude towards sex and how he loved
fun, kinky sex. He openly talks to women, within ten minutes of
meeting them about how great sex is and how he loves anything on
the wild side. He displays to them a completely un-judgmental and
free attitude towards sex.
You’ll never ever hear him talk about women who slept with him
quickly as sluts or anything like that. He’ll openly praise and admire
those women who slept with him quickly and got feisty in bed. And
most of the time he would end up getting naughty with one of the
women who he talked to about it that night.
The key to getting girls squirting consistently is almost purely
psychological because the physical technique is fairly
straightforward. You need to have her relaxed, confident, ‘out of her
head’ and into her body. You also need her to trust that you would
never judge her, even if things got messy.
My friend was displaying all these trustworthy, non-judgmental and
kinky attitudes when he talked to the girls about his past
experiences. He was preconditioning in their mind that loving sex,
and all the different tangents of sex, was an awesome quality.
This is something sales-people often do. They will precondition a
price for a product in the sales pitch without revealing it. Then when
they reveal the actual price, it will be slightly below their
preconditioned price, making it seem more favourable in
comparison. It’s like planting a seed in their mind.
Now I am not saying to be like a greasy sales-person, with your own
secret agenda at all. I do sales and I know that the best way to sell is
consultatively and with your client’s best intentions always at the
forefront of any interactions, so I am not slamming on sales-people
at all.
The idea is all about planting the seed of thought, so when it comes
to the actual moment they have a better idea of what to expect and
what to compare it with.
Of course, the thing is that women love sex, they love orgasming,
and they love squirting. (95% of women do anyway, there is always a
small fraction who for some reason or another don’t enjoy these
things.) When we display the quality that we understand this and we
don’t judge it, it opens the women up because she no longer feels
judged.
So how can we use this to make different girls squirt more easily and
on a more consistent basis? (This really only applies to short term
sexual partners) The key is to plant the idea of squirting in
her mind, long before you get into the position, (isolation, location,
she is horny...etc.) where you would begin to make her squirt. This
can be tricky depending on the girl and the circumstances, but you’ll
be surprised with what you can get away with.
I’ve found recently that even the mention of female squirting during
conversation can significantly help later on because it shows her that
you know what women are capable of, it doesn’t come as a surprise
to you or her if she squirted, or you wanted to make her squirt.
So, to quickly summarise, you will massively increase your chances
of getting her to squirt by doing some of these things:
• Talking openly about sex
• Never ever say anything judgmental, especially concerning
women and sex
• Admiring qualities like risk taking, sexual openness, kinkiness,
sexual freedom, independent women, sexual intelligence…etc.
• Teasing and roleplaying sexual games in conversation
• Talking about female orgasms
Do you get the idea? Don’t do these things if you are socially inept.
You need to calibrate to the kind of girl and social environment you
are in. On the other hand, there is only one way to find where the
line is. If you are comfortable talking to her about female orgasms, a
lot of the time you will be comfortable giving her an orgasm.
If you can comfortably joke about making her squirt, (in fun roleplays for example) this is an excellent indicator that she could be up
for giving it a try. Conversely, if you joke about it (and the situation is
right) and she doesn’t play along then you have a lot more trust and
comfort building to do.
I add preconditioning phrases to most of the conversations I have
with women whom I want to have sex with and teach how to squirt.
However, one of the main reasons I do this is because I enjoy it and
it makes to conversation more exciting for me.
If I didn’t enjoy talking about, or adding funny, quirky phrases about
squirting to the conversation I wouldn’t to it as much. Make sure you
don’t come off as insensitive and immature when you do it though.
Don’t lie about making women squirt if you haven’t ever done it
before. You must be genuine in your love of teaching women to
squirt, who doesn’t love it though? If you show awkwardness around
these types of conversation imagine how awkward it could be if you
suddenly try and make her squirt.
Relax, enjoy and realize that women love sex and love squirting, just
as much if not more than men do.
Preparation
Quick anatomy lesson
All the techniques we talk about here rely on a good understanding
of the female anatomy. You don't want to be fumbling around down
there poking the wrong spot. If you feel confident applying any of the
techniques because you know exactly where and how to do them,
she will also feel confident and relaxed. This is our concise guide to
the female anatomy.
Clitoris
The clitoris holds the same amount of nerve endings as the entire
male penis, even though it is only a fraction of the size.
Consequently it can be a source of great pleasure for the woman if
stimulated in the right way. The clit can be really sensitive for some
women, especially when un-aroused so it's a good idea to build up
from indirect stimulation towards direct stimulation over time.
The clit can actually become engorged with blood as her arousal
levels rise, and will be easier to find under the clitoral hood as she
becomes more and more turned on. Make sure you use plenty of
lube or saliva to stimulate the clit and reduce friction.
Women can have separate clitoral and g-spot orgasms (or both
together.) Many women like the feel of a vibrator on the clit or a light
quick action with a finger or tongue. Some women go crazy when
you suck on their clit.
Clitoral Hood
The clitoral hood folds over the clit to protect it. Some women are so
sensitive that they prefer their clit to be stimulated through the clitoral
hood, while other women like direct clit stimulation. To expose the clit
from under the hood, lightly push upwards on the skin just above the
vagina.
Outer Labia & Inner Labia
The inner labia love to be sucked, stoked, rubbed, flicked and
massaged and are found leading down from the clit close to the
inside of the vagina, with the outer labia usually being slightly larger
and forming the pussy lips. The outer and inner labia are what cause
what's known as the female 'camel toe.'
The G-spot
The G-spot is perhaps the most important part of the female
anatomy when it comes to giving squirting orgasms, so it's essential
that you know exactly where it is and how it works. The g-spot is
found 1-3 inches inside the vaginal wall, on the front side (so
towards her belly button)
The Urethra
The female urethra is a 2 inches long tube that connects to the
urinary bladder for the removal of urine. It exits the body above the
vaginal opening, but below the clitoris.
The PC Muscles
The PC muscles are what actually project the female ejaculate out of
the vagina. As these muscles become stronger the woman will be
able to shoot her ejaculate further, she will be able to squirt multiple
times and have more powerful orgasms.
If she has strong PC muscles she will also be able to 'grip' your
penis during intercourse increasing the pleasure for both of you.
Kegel exercises are the primary method for strengthening the PC
muscle and is covered in the ‘Better Squirting’ chapter.
Skene's Gland
The Skene's gland is an important area of the female anatomy when
it comes to squirting because it produces the female ejaculate.
During regular everyday life the Skene's gland is empty, but during
sexual arousal is begins to fill up with the liquid that will (hopefully)
later be squirted out.
This is why foreplay, and getting the woman highly aroused before
you attempt to make her squirt is so important. The Skene's gland is
now also referred to as the 'female prostrate.' The Skene's gland is
found close to the g-spot area along the walls of the urethra.
Lubes
So what’s the best lube for all the advanced squirting techniques that
you’re about to learn about in this book. Well there are obviously
quite a few to choose from. Often guys will just go for spit because
they didn’t plan in advance what to use, but spit dries up quickly and
you will run out of it eventually so we don't recommend it unless it's
your only option. The other options are water based, silicon based
and oil based lubricants.
Water based lubes are smooth, slick and aren't sticky like some oil
based lubes. They are also completely condom compatible, unlike oil
based lubes that can destroy condoms over time. Water based lubes
also absorb easily into the skin.
So they’ll leave your skin nice and smooth, but then you will have to
reapply now and again to keep it friction free exactly because they
do absorb into the skin. Some water based lubes contain glycerine
which can promote infections, so it’s best to make sure your girl
always cleans up after. Astroglide is an all-time favourite water
based lube.
Silicon based lubes are similar to their watery cousins, but they last
much longer, although they feel more sticky. Some couples find them
too greasy, whilst others appreciate that you almost never have to
reapply because they simply don't dry out. Wet Platinum is the most
well-known silicon based lube.
Oil based lubes such as Vaseline and baby oil last much longer but
are not recommended because they corrode condoms and are also
conducive to vaginal infections when they aren't washed away
properly. We recommend that you avoid them for squirting
techniques and also intercourse, and use them only for non vaginal
massage.
My personal favourite lube making a girl squirt is grape seed oil. It’s
completely natural, long lasting, and healthy for the woman and it’s
also cheap and easily available. It does need to be reapplied fairly
often though. Grape seed oil is ideal for the orgasmic potential
massage and the squirting techniques, but isn't recommended for
intercourse.
Squirting Triggers
The Warm Up
Most men underestimate the importance of warming up both for
having great sex and helping a woman squirt. Men can get horny
and turned on much quicker than women. We might see a flash of
boobies for 3 seconds and start getting an erection.
Women however are like water, it can take much longer to warm
them up, but they stay warm for longer. There are both emotional
and physiological reasons why it's so important to take warm her up
properly before attempting to make her squirt.
The emotional aspect of this is that the woman must feel
comfortable, relaxed and totally at ease with you and with herself in
a sexual situation before she will be open to letting go and squirting
in front of you. For a partner you have not had sex with before the
emotional side of squirting will be your biggest challenge, simply
because most women are shy about squirting in front of a new man.
The warm-up and preparation are all about showing her that she can
trust you and you won't freak out if she pees on the bed or
something unexpected happens. Once she feels she can trust you
emotionally then you can move on to warming her up physically.
For men with regular partners the emotional aspect of the warm-up
will be less important because she already trusts you and is familiar
with you.
Women must be turned on to be able to squirt. The Skene's gland is
where the female ejaculate comes from when she squirts. Under
normal everyday conditions the gland is empty, and un-inflated.
When the woman becomes aroused the gland actually begins to
balloon and fill with the fluid she will hopefully squirt out later on.
The gland fills slowly over time as she gets more and more turned
on. Often when women are really turned on they will complain they
need to pee, in fact they are mistaking the pressure in the Skene's
gland for that in the bladder.
Over time they will come to perceive a difference between the two.
It's a good idea to remind her to go to the toilet before you get her
turned on so she will be more relaxed and more confident that the
feeling isn't a full bladder. Understanding how the Skene's gland fills
up over time will show you clearly how important turning her on and
getting her horny is to having success later on. This all about
working hard now so when it comes to the moment she is ready to
blow.
So how do you get her turned on?
Foreplay and turning a woman on comes down to 3 things: touching,
teasing and escalation. Touch her lightly and softly, avoid the
erogenous zones to start with and then move on to them when she
becomes more turned on.
Tease her by making your touch unpredictable and vary between soft
and hard touches. Use pauses and expectation to build tension and
anticipation. Your aim with teasing it to get her consciousness
focused on her body and the touch and sensation coming from her
body, instead of up in her head where she will be thinking logically.
The combination of teasing and escalation is award winning. You
can't just touch and tease, that would get boring and frustrating after
a while. You have to start by avoiding the erogenous zones and
slowly build up to include them.
Turning a woman on is like the economy, the overall trend is always
going up (escalation) but there are highs and lows along the way
(teasing). So, to turn a woman on, touch, tease and escalate.
So how can you tell if a woman is turned on enough and ready to
squirt? Of course there are physical indicators such as a wet pussy,
warm body and flushed face these are all excellent indicators that
she is ready to go.
There are even more subtle yet accurate indicators however that
show she is ready. If you look at her eyes you will be able to tell
(after some practice) if she is 'in the moment' or in the thinking,
logical part of her brain.
If she looks like she is thinking and stuck in her head, instead of her
body, then you may have more work to do. Ideally she will be fully
immersed in the sensory experience of her body, she will be in the
moment without and 'little voices' talking in her head.
If she looks like that then good job: you're ready to go. A good ball
park figure for a new partner who hasn't squirted before would be a
30 minute warm up until she is ready for you to apply the squirting
method.
The Method
Throughout the squirting technique it is useful to establish a
relationship where she feels open to giving you feedback, and isn't
afraid to say 'harder' or 'softer.' Women are very individual about
what turns them on and makes them squirt that using the feedback
she gives is the only way to 'guarantee' she squirts every time.
After some practice you will become good at reading nonverbal
feedback, even with different women, as a result she will wonder
how you know exactly what to do and when and your 'squirt rate' will
increase.
Sometimes it can be a good idea to tell her what you're about to do
to her. If you're about to slide a finger into her vagina then you can
let her know, this can help reduce her nervous anticipation.
However, I would only use this technique with girls that you think
might be slightly uncomfortable. With women who you have already
established a sexual relationship with or are clearly relaxed and
enjoying the process, it can be a good idea to build anticipation and
surprise.
Throughout the entire process use plenty of lube, and remember to
replace it throughout the session. You should never feel dry skin
rubbing on dry skin. Make sure the lube is at body temperature
before it comes in contact with her erogenous zones.
Stimulate her clit
The first thing you’ll want to do after the warm up is to stimulate her
clit. The clit is delicate. Especially to start with you don’t want to
apply much pressure. Lightly stroke it with your pointer finger or suck
on it.
You can build speed and pressure as she gets more aroused. Light
rhythmic and quick strokes are best for the clit, but build up the
speed gradually. Be responsive to her feedback at this point, if she
looks in any discomfort, decrease the pressure and speed, and then
build from there.
Stimulate her g- spot
At first you may want to use just one finger slowly inserted inside her
with your palm facing the roof. Make sure the finger is well lubed and
the lube is body temperature. A cold hand will sharply reduce her
arousal, and you will have to build her arousal back up again.
There are 3 basic motions that can be used to stimulate her g-spot
with your finger(s). The 1st motion (and most important one) is the
come hither motion. The fingers are curled upwards and moved in
and out towards your palm.
The 2nd motion is the windscreen wiper motion. The curled fingers
are moved from side to side across the g-spot, essentially wiping her
g-spot. The tips of your fingers will be pointing towards her left hip
then her right hip.
The 3rd motion the barrel roll inside her. Use the tips of your fingers
to make a circular motion inside the vagina. Use the 3 motions with
either one or two fingers to stimulate her g-spot.
Double stimulation
Double stimulation means stimulating the clitoris with one hand and
the g-spot with the other hand. This can bring about more powerful
and pleasurable orgasms, and help her reach orgasm more quickly.
Many women who have had the double stimulation orgasm purport
that is their favourite kind of orgasm.
When you have a rhythm that she enjoys, keep with that rhythm.
Speed-up as she gets more turned on, when you feel her g spot start
swelling up it will put more pressure on your fingers, this is the sign
she is really turned on and almost ready to start squirting, maintain
the rhythm or increase the speed and pressure slightly, with the
come hither motion hooking round the g-spot.
You can also use a vibrator on her clit if you find it hard to make
different motions with both hands. It's often faster to learn the
subtleties of this technique through videos like the orgasm training
course my mentor has put together.
It’s very important at this point to remember no to be goal oriented. If
she feels in the slightest that you will be disappointed with yourself or
with her if she doesn't squirt it will make it much harder for her to do
it.
Sometimes you can even tell her ‘don’t squirt now,’ with a smile. This
completely removes any psychological pressure to squirt but also
has the hidden command of ‘squirt now,’ however you must have the
relationship where she knows you’re just being cheeky and not
serious.
As you continue with the g-spot stimulation you will want to transition
into a stronger up and down motion, with your fingers curled
upwards (palm towards the roof.) As she gets ready to squirt the
pressure on your fingers inside her vagina will increase as the
Skene's gland fills and the PC muscles contract.
The pressure is an indicator that she is about to squirt and if you
remove your fingers now she may do so. Remove your fingers
quickly when you feel the pressure and continue to rub her clit with
the other hand. At this point she should be squirting. If she doesn't
squirt, that's ok, just go back to the g-spot stimulation techniques and
build from there. Some men remove their fingers too early so not
enough pressure has built up.
The longer you hold them in the longer and harder she will squirt. If
she still doesn't squirt after a few tries then don't be disappointed
and put pressure on her, this won't help. You can transition into
intercourse and come back to the squirting technique later, or wait
until next time.
Multiple Orgasms
There is plenty of confusion surrounding multiple squirting orgasms
mainly because most people think that if their lady comes multiple
times during a session this counts as ‘multiple orgasms.’
Well that makes sense, but a true multiple orgasm doesn’t happen
like that. As my mentor described it “Instead of looking like:
Orgasms, Orgasm, Orgasm. A multiple orgasm will look like:
Orgasmorgasorgasmmmorgassmm.”
When your lady reaches such a state of ‘super arousal’ then the
orgasms start to cycle through, changing from discreet events into
prolonged waves of orgasm. This is something completely different
and uniquely more intense than the typical single orgasm taking
place many times during the night.
I also need to make another distinction. Since this book is about
squirting specifically this section will be about multiple squirting
orgasms. There isn't much difference in the technique, or your part, it
is more about teaching the woman how to squirt beforehand using
the normal squirting technique.
When she is comfortable letting go and squirting with ease during
those sessions, it will be more a decision than a mystery for her to
squirt during these advanced techniques.
Building Trust & Intimacy
The building of trust and intimacy into your relationship is at the heart
of unlocking your woman’s potential for multiple squirting orgasms.
With this technique you will take her to a place where, in her intense
pleasure, she becomes vulnerable, and she will resist going there
(either consciously or unconsciously) if she doesn’t trust you and
have intimacy with you.
You could be doing all the physical aspects of the technique exactly
right, but if she doesn’t feel intimate with you and trust you it will go
nowhere.
Timing It Right
Timing is absolutely crucial for setting off your woman’s multiple
orgasm and as you become more experienced and able to read
subtle signals from the woman, and as you become more familiar
with her, your timing will get better. Even with different partners with
more experience, your timing will get better.
As you begin to understand the mechanics and timings of the female
orgasm you will be able to accurately predict when she is about to
come. Becoming tuned into your lady in this way is exactly what
builds intimacy and trust, and is also pleasurable for the guy who is
able to fully experience her feminine sexual energy.
At this point you could be using your penis, tongue, fingers or even a
toy to stimulate her. If you feel tentative about giving her oral sex
then check out the guide to making your girlfriend's pussy smell and
taste like roses.
Normally to bring her to orgasm you would maintain a constant
rhythm and intensity, but this time, as she climbs towards orgasm
increase your intensity. Just as she is about to orgasm, you slightly
reduce the intensity back down to a constant rhythm.
You don’t want to completely remove any stimulation and interrupt
her orgasm, but you want just enough for her to ‘reach’ for the
orgasm. You maintain the reduced intensity for as long as the initial
orgasm lasts.
An then, as her first orgasm fades away and her muscles relax she
drops back down into a state of arousal similar to just before she
started to orgasm, all the while you are continuing to stimulate her on
the reduced intensity. At the point, just before she would breathe a
sigh of relaxation you bring back up the frequency and intensity of
your stimulation.
With the correct timing, instead of falling back into a low arousal
state, you’ll trigger her body to quickly go back into orgasm mode.
Like before, as she reaches her climax and her muscles start to
tense up, reduce your intensity and allow her to reach for the
orgasm.
Maintain the reduced intensity throughout the orgasm until she
comes back down and then repeat like before, just a touch before
her breathe of relaxation.
If your woman is highly orgasmic, and in healthy shape with plenty of
energy reserves, each time she cycles through an orgasm they will
get longer and more intense. The only thing that stops her orgasms
continuing indefinitely is muscle fatigue and dehydration (from
squirting.)
Overcoming Resistance
The most common problem that is encountered with unlocking
multiple orgasms is that the woman often resists going back into
orgasm because of the intensity of the experience. She may feel ‘out
of control’ or that she will ‘get lost in the pleasure’, sometimes she
might not be sure her body can handle it. Some women will resist a
second of third orgasm because they feel selfish.
Most of the resistance comes from her contorting her body, allowing
you less access to her. If this is during intercourse she might push
her hips up and clamp down her thighs. If you are having sex from
behind, she might arch her back upwards. If you’re using your
fingers she might squeeze her legs together and push away your
hands.
At this point, of course it’s crucial to make sure you’ve built enough
trust and intimacy to confidently and lovingly continue. She will feel
your loving intention to help her orgasm and hopefully she will
surrender to you. If she continues to resist or verbally tells you to
stop then you must stop and then start from the beginning after
building more trust and intimacy.
Don’t get defensive or annoyed that you haven’t given her multiple
orgasms, be mature and go back to foreplay, enjoy the moment and
continue to build intimacy and trust. After giving her an orgasm is the
perfect time to do this. Only a tiny fraction of men have knowledge
and desire to give a woman true multiple orgasms and it is a skill that
is the worth the time to master.
In the next chapter you’ll learn about stacked orgasms which can be
even more powerful than multiple orgasms, this is the Jedi level stuff
that almost nobody is doing for their women and will probably result
in some of the craziest things you’ve ever seen for you and your
partner.
Stacked Orgasms
Things will never be the same again after learning how to stack
female orgasms. They are the next level iteration from multiple
squirting orgasms and it’s recommended to check out how to give a
woman multiple squirting orgasms first.
Stacked squirting orgasms is no walk in the park, they require an
intimate connection and high level of trust built before you attempt
them, so all I can say is good luck to those trying this with a new
sexual partner or one night stand. It’s not impossible but it’s harder
than with a long term sexual partner.
Stacked orgasms are similar to multiple orgasms in that you are
constantly fine tuning your approach to your woman’s level of
arousal and timing is very important, however the actual timing
pattern used is slightly different.
Stacking orgasms not only requires more patience and control from
both of you, but the right timing is more delicate, subtle and critical.
A prerequisite for mastering stacked squirting orgasms is that you
have already learnt how to make her squirt normally, and she can
now do it with ease. When she is comfortable with that it will be up to
her whether she wants to squirt during her stacked orgasm.
The Build-up
The build-up phase takes place before her first orgasm has occurred
and is analogous to packing a space shuttle full of jet fuel so that it
has enough momentum to reach escape velocity.
You will cultivate her stores of sexual energy by holding her in a preclimatic state of arousal for as long as possible, keeping her as close
to orgasm as possible without tipping over the edge.
To be able to do this you need to be able to read the arousal levels
of your woman like a master. The balance is delicate, and it takes
both practice and patience on yours and hers part.
To facilitate ‘the build-up’ an extensive period of foreplay is
recommended followed by direct clitoral or g-spot stimulation with
either your penis, tongue, fingers or toy (the same as in multiple
orgasms.) However unlike the multiple orgasms technique you bring
your woman up to climax with the frequency and intensity of your
technique but you bring her back down before she goes over the
edge. You need to be able to read when she is about to come; the
closer you can get to that point without going over it the more
effective the technique.
As a side note, taking your time to make your lady more highly
orgasmic with the orgasmic potential massage, is well worth it
because the sexual energy will circulate throughout her body much
more easily instead of stagnating in her genital area. Add to this
strong diaphragmatic breathing from the woman that helps to
circulate the sexual energy throughout the meridians in her body.
This transforms the simple vaginal stacked orgasm into a full body,
stacked orgasm. Add to this, the ability to squirt, (that you should
have taught her already) and you have the holy grail of female
orgasm, the full body, stacked squirting orgasm.
So, going back to ‘the build-up’ you increase your intensity up to the
point before she goes into orgasm and then reduce it down, almost
teasing her, into a lower plateau. Hold it there and then go back up to
the edge and then back down.
This is the equivalent of pumping sexual jet fuel into the space
shuttle. With every peak of stimulation without climax her sexual
reserves are filled up ready to explode.
The Timing
The build-up is part of the preparation, it doesn’t necessarily have to
be done to create stacked orgasms, but it does make them more
powerful. Now let’s talk about the timing for releasing the stacked
orgasm. The final approach to orgasm of ‘the build-up’ is the same
as the multiple orgasm, the difference takes place as she comes
back down from orgasm.
With multiple orgasms you wait for a breathe of relaxation before
triggering the orgasmic cycle again. With stacking orgasms the trick
is to trigger another orgasm whilst a little earlier, whilst she has just
gotten over the peak of climax, a few seconds before the ‘breathe of
relaxation.’ This allows her to orgasm off of the first orgasm creating
a higher state of pleasure then she could ever reach normally.
You can potentially stack again off of the second or third orgasm, (if
your timing is bang on) until her body gives out from fatigue. (Learn
how to give her better orgasms by improving her stamina) If you try
to stimulate her too early during her climax it can knock her ‘out of
state’ cutting off the orgasm in full swing. This does take practice but
it is worth it.
It’s hard to stress enough how important it is that your woman is
healthy, physically and emotionally to get the most out of stacked
orgasms.
Once your technique is good and you have a strong connection with
her, the heights of her pleasure are limited by her emotional and
physical fitness and her ability to circulate the energy throughout her
body.
Post Orgasm
After the woman has experienced the intensity of stacked orgasms
she will be very vulnerable and this is a point where you can build
even more trust and intimacy, allowing you to take her to even higher
sexual heights next time around.
Sometimes the woman will cry, this doesn’t mean she is sad, it is just
her experiencing and purging her emotions. A great orgasm can be
much more effective and cheaper than counselling, lol. Allow her to
purge her emotions, be there for her and hold space for her.
Making Her Squirt During Cunninglingus
Damn, don’t you just love that word, ‘cunninglingus,’ it just sounds so
sophisticated and proper, and like such an art form. Well that’s
exactly right because going down on a girl, munching out her vagina,
is an art form and it is something that we should all learn to Master,
for the sake of all the women out there.
In keeping with the theme of School Of Squirt, this will be about
making your lady squirt during oral sex, not just the simple female
orgasm (although that happens as well.) You might want to consider
learning how to make your lady squirt during sex as well which
comes next.
A quick note: If you're not a fan on going down on your lady then you
might want to learn how to make her pussy smell and taste like roses
before going ahead with the rest of this.
The first point to note is that you will have to use your fingers as well
whilst you go down on her. The tongue simply can’t apply enough
pressure (initially) to make her squirt. Although, as you will read later
on, once she is aroused enough and if she is easily orgasmic then a
flick of the tongue may be enough to trigger her to squirt again.
I often use cunninglingus as an aid when I want to make her squirt
with my fingers because for a woman it can be intensely pleasurable
and build arousal faster than with just fingers. For the first round
however, the fingers need to be used since they apply pressure to
the g-spot and Skene’s gland that result in her squirting and where
the tongue cannot reach.
1. Get Comfortable
You will need to have both your hand and mouth down by her vagina
so it helps be able to position both her and yourself in a way that
makes this comfortable.
Especially when we are talking about periods of time longer than 15
minutes it really pays off to get comfortable first. Maybe you will want
her lying on the bed, with her butt at the edge, so you can kneel on
the carpet and get good access to her 'jade gate' as the Taoists call
it.
2. Build Arousal Using Your Tongue, Trigger & Release Using
Fingers
The tongue is the perfect wet and sloppy mechanism to build
arousal, stimulate her clitoris and get her to the ‘point of no return’
but it is not necessarily right for ‘triggering’ the squirting (unless she
is very orgasmic/sensitive)
Because we can flick our tongue’s quickly and gently across the clit,
as well as motor- boating this makes it perfect for stimulating the clit
and advantageous over a heavy finger. Our mouths are already
nicely lubricated with spit so oral sex can be perfect for warming her
up until she is nice and wet
3. Make Her Squirt Again With Your Tongue
It’s easier to make her squirt again in one session than to cause her
to squirt initially, so once you do all the hard work to get her to that
point, don’t just make her squirt once.
Unlike most men, women can orgasm / squirt almost indefinitely
(with the right training.) When she has just squirted will be the
perfect time to see if you can make her squirt again using just a flick
of your tongue applied to her clit.
4. Create a Vacuum on Her G-Spot
This is an absolute beauty of a technique and if you do it right, it will
blow her mind. It’s almost the opposite of applying pressure to her gspot, instead you will create a vacuum causing her g-spot to pulse. It
will probably be quite a new sensation for her and extremely
arousing.
Wrap your mouth around her vagina making it as air tight as
possible, but keep your two fingers deeply inside her. Press your
fingers softly into her g-spot (you should know how to find it by now)
and then flick away from it. This is a great tip that I learnt from my
mentor so you may want to check out how he does it in the videos.
The flicking sensation combined with the vacuum teases out and
engorges her g-spot causing it to swell with blood, and engorges her
Skene’s gland with the liquid she will eventually ‘squirt out.’ If you do
this during the arousal period it will increase the likelihood of her
squirting as well as the quantity of liquid.
Making Her Squirt During Sex
Making your partner squirt through intercourse (using your dick) is
considered much harder than making her squirt using your fingers,
so the first step is to make sure you can do it with your fingers first
and that you’re comfortable with your partner before you go on to
squirting via intercourse.
If you have a long term partner that that want to make squirt through
intercourse I would recommend reading up about the ‘orgasmic
potential massage’ because you will want to stack the odds in your
favour. The orgasmic potential massage will help your partner
become more easily orgasmic and squirt more quickly, with larger
volumes, more often.
We men have much less control using our penises rather than our
fingers to make a woman squirt. If you have problems with ‘getting it
up,’ ‘keeping it up’ or premature ejaculation then take it one step at a
time and fix those problems first.
Foreplay and Psychology
I can’t overemphasize how important the psychological/ emotional
realm is when helping a woman squirt. As men we always like to
simplify things down to the physical technique and this is usually why
most guys who have a made a girl squirt can only do so
inconsistently.
Real mastery in learning how to make a girl squirt comes from how
well you can build trust, be non-judgmental, hold space and be her
guiding masculine energy without being pushy. Just let me reiterate
not to underestimate how important it can be, and this is equally so
for squirting during intercourse.
Positions
Choose your position carefully if you want to make your woman
squirt during intercourse because the only way you will be able to do
it is if your dick is stimulating her g-spot (i.e. the glans of your penis
rubs past her g-spot as you thrust.)
Length of the penis is considered unimportant in this respect
because the g-spot is only a few inches inside the vagina. However
penis girth can be important because it helps maintain good contact
with the g-spot, and also helps to ‘seal’ the vagina creating
alternating pressure and vacuum that’s helps turn the woman on and
bring her to orgasm.
Stimulating the Clit
It’s important to choose a position where you can stimulate her clit
whilst you thrust, if not you will have to get her to do it, or hold a
vibrator against it during intercourse.
Using a vibrator against the clit will probably give you the highest
success rate. If you don’t have a vibrator use a wet thumb or finger
and ping it back and forth lightly across the clit, building up to
maximum speed as she reaches her climax. You will want to
continue the clit stimulation even/especially when you pull out.
Pull Out At the Right Time
It’s funny when men complain to me that they can’t make their
girlfriends squirt during intercourse and I find out that they had their
dicks inside the vagina the whole time. Of course, just like the finger
squirting technique, you will need to remove your penis as the
pressure grows and she is about to squirt.
Timing is everything at this point, you can read more about squirting
timing here. The feeling of release and the vacuum that creates is
what usually triggers the rhythmic squirting to take place, especially
when used alongside vigorous clitoral stimulation.
As you pull your penis out of her vagina try rubbing it quickly across
her vaginal opening (with vibrator still placed in her clit) and watch
those lovely female juices come squirting out.
We want to make girls squirt, especially with women we've just met it
can be an exhilarating and noble challenge. However there is a
problem. Often times articulating that this is your aim can be offputting for the woman, it can make her tense-up and become
outcome dependent, thereby reducing the likelihood of such an
event happening.
This isn't always the case because some women already know how
to squirt and just need a bit of communication from you so there is
some mutual understanding that you know what's going on. With
longer term partners making your mission clear won't be such a
problem. However a lot of the time it's better to leave some things
unarticulated whilst promoting an unspoken feeling of understanding.
In light of this many men have found it particularly effective to make
women squirt during sex without that being their spoken intention.
The woman may feel more comfortable and actually less able to
control herself from holding back, which is a common problem when
using the fingering technique if you don't put her in a logical frame of
mind.
This is one of the downsides of the finger technique because if
you're working hard with your fingers that can sometimes leave her
isolated which will reduce her horniness and engage her logical (the
opposite of emotional/sexual) frame of mind reducing the chances of
her squirting.
What I am saying in simple terms is that an effective way to make a
new or short-term partner squirt is to do so during sex. This has
proved especially effective with Tinder dates for some reason. So
how in the world do we go about making this happen? It's a good
question especially because in general making girls squirt during sex
is considerably harder than using the finger technique.
The first point is that you'll need her to be highly aroused. This is
essential because it will fill her Skene's gland with the liquid that will
become the female ejaculate. To make this technique consistent you
will need at least 30-60 minutes of foreplay, or more if you have the
time, up to the point where she is becoming highly frustrated that
you're not entering into intercourse with her.
When she is finally aching to be filled up with your penis then you will
want to continue to build arousal during intercourse.
What are the best positions to make her squirt during sex?
This is a common question and rightly so because it is very
important and can make a difference between normal sex and
squirting sex. There are two main reasons for this. The first is that
the angle of the penis must be right in order to stimulate the g- spot.
This is why the finger technique is so useful because it allows us
precision in the pressure, angle, position and rhythm that we use to
stimulate her g-spot - which then leads to the female ejaculation.
The second point is that in most cases you will need an extra hand
to be rubbing her clit whilst you have sex. This adds a second
degree of stimulation that is essential for squirting. Of course if your
partner is willing you can have her stimulate her own clit, either with
a finger or a vibrator with plenty of lube, but this is unlikely to happen
with a short-term partner and we are therefore limited in the positions
that can be used.
1. The best position by far is doggy-style. Although the angle of the
penis in this case is not ideal, because it's easy to reach over and
stimulate her clit with one hand whilst thrusting this has proved the
most effective position.
In some cases, for those of us who aren't highly dexterous it can be
enough just to apply a light pressure to the clit without rubbing it
whilst thrusting. However when you remove your penis - which we'll
get to in a bit then it will require something more vigorous.
2. The second best position is almost the opposite of doggy-style, in
that the angle of the penis is much better because it will be hitting
the g-spot but it's a harder angle to rub her clit from.
This also has the added advantage in that you will be able to read
her facial expressions and body language much more clearly and
therefore make your 'pull out' timing much more in sync.
Pulling out
Pulling out is crucial and although it's so obvious (your penis is
stopping her squirt) it is often missed out or miss- timed. Timing is
absolutely critical and you get better at timing it right with experience.
Although that's not to say she won't squirt on the first time.
One of the keys is to build up a steady rhythm, if it looks like she is
enjoying it and it's building to a climax try to simply maintain this
pace. Sometimes disrupting the pattern can make her fall out-ofstate so it's better to keep it steady then try to increase it too fast and
then lose control by coming too soon or become fatigued.
Maintain a steadily growing pace and let the climax build over time.
When you feel she is coming close to orgasm then increase the rate
at which you rub her clit. Don't peak too early with the clit rubbing
otherwise it may become desensitized just as you need it most.
The stimulation of her clitoris is like the final rockets getting her into
outer space once your foreplay and penis have done the hard work
of lift off. If you time the clit stimulation right she will be ready to blow.
All you need to do now is rapidly remove your penis. Often it will
work best if she doesn't know you're going to do this. That means
she won't have time to contract her PC muscles and stop her
Skene's gland from squirting her lovely female ejaculate. Because
many women find it embarrassing to squirt on the first time you are
more likely to make it work if it's done involuntarily.
As you pull out continue rubbing her clit, either with your finger or
dick. Do this all quickly and without her realising what is happening.
Please be emotionally sensitive when you do this. After all this is
about giving her intense pleasure in a way that she may not have felt
before.
She may be emotionally vulnerable if she squirts everywhere without
knowing what has really happened or that it was even possible. She
may be embarrassed so this is a good point to build a strong
emotional connection and help her become more of a sexually
confident and self-expressive woman.
How to Turn Her On
Here’s 9 tricks you can use to turn on any woman and make her
horny.
1: Use your finger tips... A LOT!
When you are ready to get her ready, lightly, no, barely touch her
anywhere on her body with your finger tips. When the chills start to
appear, you are on the right path. Listen up women absolutely love
this type of touch. It is extremely erotic and hits all of the pleasure
signals in the brain. In fact, you could take it a step further. Touch her
like that while just watching TV on the couch, but DO NOT make any
advance.
Do that for a couple of days and she will want you so bad that she
won't be able to wait for you to make the first move. That's
guaranteed pussy...guaranteed!!!
2: "Inappropriate touching" in public.
Touch her ass, walk in front of her and rub your hand against her
pussy or tits. Do it a lot. She can't really do anything about it because
you are around people. She'll think you're being silly, but her panties
will be wet by the time you are home alone. Even if she says stop,
keep doing it. (unless your woman is a real prude)
Routine is the enemy of arousal in women - To make her horny, keep
her guessing. She will totally get a kick out of it, and regardless of
what she's saying, she loves that you seem like you can't keep your
hands off of her.
3: Kill the routine & keep her guessing.
Sometimes, when our men want sex, we give it to them even though
we aren't horny. We, of course are very dry then. How do you get
your girl horny even when she's obviously not?
Listen up! If after the making out she is still dry, you need to do
something more creative, something that speaks to her sexuality.
Trick her mind.
This works every damn time! Undress her, kiss her slowly, lick down
her body, push her hands above her head, and then stand up. Tell
her how much she turns you on and how much you love her body.
Tell her how good her pussy feels, oh, and the most important part,
say it all while you're jacking off. She will love the compliments, but
she'll love how hard SHE makes your cock.
4: Dirty dirty talk and tease!
While you and your girl are hanging out doing whatever (let's just say
you're watching TV), don't even look at her, simply say,
"Baby, (she'll respond), I wanna eat your pussy".
Still don't look at her. As long as she enjoys a good pussy licking,
you're golden! She'll be ready instantly and it'll take all of thirty
seconds worth of work before she's ready to be fucked hard core!!
5: Be forceful!
When your woman is playing on Facebook instead of paying much
needed attention to your cock, grab her by the hair. Tell her, "that
pussy belongs to me and I want it, now." Women, regardless of how
much of a feminist, typically like a man who takes control! So take
control.
Show her why you are the man. Throw her beautiful ass on the bed
and pull her clothes off. Remind her how much she loves feeling you
inside of her. Of course, there are some crazy women out there who
absolutely do not like that kind of thing and would be mad/upset if
their man did this. If you know your woman doesn't like this kind of
thing, don't do it. We women are way too emotional and she will
surely feel hurt.
6: Be dominant & decisive
Most women love to be told what to do in bed. The more control, the
better.
Tell her, "I need you to come sit on my cock, right now."
Every woman loves thinking that she so turns her man on that he
looks at her and gets a hard on. Fake it if you must. Jack off for a
minute and then walk up to her, or call her into the bedroom. As long
as she doesn't know you jacked off first, she will totally love it.
7: Dry humping.
Yep, I went teeny bopper on you! I'm telling you, women love dry
humping. Make out with her like you used to. Clothes on, you on top,
on the couch, on the bed, whatever.
Just make sure that you are grinding and kissing passionately on the
lips and the neck.... and then whisper in her ear! If that doesn't make
your girl wet, and I mean soaking wet, you've got some deeper
problems in your relationship! The feel of your breath on her neck
and ear while you are grinding and intermittently kissing her will
surely push her completely over the edge.
8: Porn. Yep, porn.
Now, I know that a lot of women supposedly don't like porn, but if you
go about it the right way, you should be able to get her to watch it
with you. If she does, science takes care of the rest. Our bodies
automatically react to naked people, so regardless of what she says,
porn will turn her on.
Suggestions: "Not The Wizard of Oz", "Squirting Porn", and "Lesbian
Porn". The first one is a porn spoof, and happens to be hysterical as
well as hot. The other two are two types of porn that typical make
women horny.
Women don't usually like to stare at cock, so lesbian porn is a good
way to go. Squirting porn is just fucking hot, and if she's never seen
it, it's a great way to get her to watch it with you. You can then match
it up with, I want to try to make you squirt. Which brings me to...
9: Finger her...the right way!
Women LOVE to be fingered and it will definitely make her horny.
When you finger her, don't go slow, go fast, bang hard, and use your
other hand to play with her clit. If you want to try to make her squirt,
which can be done, simply use two fingers, cupped and turned up.
Rub with pressure back and forth (preferably quickly) the g-spot (it
feels like an inflated balloon), rub her clit at the same time.
So many sites will tell you that she needs to trust you and blah blah
blah. I call BULL SHIT! She doesn't need to trust you, she simply
needs to be using her muscles as she cums.
Women often prevent themselves from female ejaculation, aka
squirting, because it feels like they're getting ready to pee. If they
allow the feeling to continue and progress, and then, instead of just
letting it "cum" out, push at the same time, she'll spray a clear
liquid....female ejaculation at its finest. If you can make your girl
squirt, she'll be horny all the time!
So, in conclusion, women really just want to feel like you're trying.
They want to feel special. If you can make your woman feel these
things in your sexual advances, you are sure to make your girl horny
every damn time! Nine easy tricks, try them all, and let me know how
they work!
Squirting FAQs
What is female ejaculate, where does it come from & what is it
made from?
The liquid that she squirts out is not pee. One woman tested this out
by eating lots of asparagus one evening. Later that night she
squirted and smelled the fluid, knowing that if it was connected or
made from pee it would smell strongly of asparagus, and it didn’t.
She later went to the toilet and found her pee smelling strongly of
asparagus.
Instead it comes from the Skene’s gland also known as the female
prostate. The Skene’s gland is located close to the G-spot and
surrounded by the urethra. During sexual stimulation the glands fill
up with fluid and are released when she squirts.
Female ejaculate (aka squirt juice) is made from prostatic fluid and
also contains water, glucose, creatine and very small amounts of
urea. It could be described as very watered down male ejaculate
without the sperm in it.
Why does she think she has to pee?
Often novice squirters will confuse the urge to squirt with the urge to
pee. They think they need to pee but really they are just ready to
squirt. Luckily it is very hard for a woman to pee when she is highly
aroused, however she will be trying so hard not to pee that it will be
preventing her from squirting.
If your girl says she needs to pee it means that she doesn’t feel
comfortable enough to let go. At this point you need to comfort her
and tell her if she pees then it’s alright but that it’s just her body
getting ready to squirt.
Until the woman has more practice with squirting she won’t be able
to distinguish the difference between the pressure on her bladder
(needing to pee) and pressure from her Skene’s gland (wanting to
ejaculate) and will perceive them as the same thing.
The only way for her to tell the difference is to let go and try it for
herself. Eventually she will be able to tell the difference between
needing a pee and needing to squirt.
How many times can she squirt?
Women can squirt multiple times in one session depending on a few
different factors. Firstly and most importantly is how strong her
vaginal muscles are. If she has squirted before and does Kegal
exercises then this will greatly increase the number of time she can
squirt before she gets tired. Sometimes yoga girls, or girls who ride
horses are more likely to be able to have multiple squirts because
they naturally exercise those muscles anyway.
Secondly, she should be fully hydrated to be able to squirt multiple
times. The female ejaculate can discard large amounts of fluid from
the body and she can get dehydrated quickly. Make sure she drinks
plenty of water with added hydrating ions before a long session. With
practice, Kegel exercises, adequate hydration and a man equipped
with a good understanding of her body it wouldn’t be uncommon for
her to squirt more than 5 times.
Can she get better with practice?
Definitely. The quantity (of liquid), intensity, frequency and ease of
her squirts can all hugely increase with practice. Her sexual stamina,
as well as your intimacy and knowledge of her body and how she
responds to you stimulating her will all help.
Can all women squirt?
All women have the capacity to squirt because they all have the
anatomy that allows squirting. The only difference between woman
who can and can’t is the strength of the muscles in that area of the
body and the psychological aspects of female ejaculation. The main
reason most women don’t squirt is that they think they need to pee
so they hold it back and refrain from squirting.
With a little coaching from a well-informed man and the vast majority
of woman will squirt after a few sessions. Sometimes women are
already squirting but they just think they are getting really wet. With
practice they can increase the volume and power of their squirts.
Women who can squirt easily often have squirter dimples on their
lower backs.
Can I make different girls squirt harder, faster and more easily
with practice?
Yes you can, however there is only so far that technique can take
you, when it concerns different girls. Once you understand the
fundamentals of how women are turned on physically and you have
mastered the right techniques then it essentially comes down to how
you can make her feel emotionally.
Being able to read the subtle feedback that she gives you (non
verbally) will be the main difference that increases your ‘success
rate’ as well as how hard and fast she comes. If she perceives you
as non-judgmental, free from outcome and enjoying the experience
with her whatever happens it will be much easier to make her squirt.
Does squirting mean orgasm?
Generally when a woman squirts she is having an orgasm at the
same time, although or rare occasions and a small minority of
women they can squirt without orgasming. This usually comes down
to an emotional block that is stopping it from happening and can be
worked out over time if you are emotionally available for her.
Can we have intercourse after?
After she has squirted is a great time to have intercourse. She will be
fully aroused and more likely to orgasm during intercourse, or squirt
during intercourse than if she hadn’t already squirted.
Are squirting orgasms a good idea for loving relationships?
Squirting used to have negative connotations in terms of loving
relationships. They somehow seemed unnatural or like something
you would see in a movie. Squirting use to seem un-lady like or
unromantic and therefore some people had reservations about trying
it in a loving relationship.
Luckily the taboo is slowly being lifted as couples come to realize
that a healthy, interesting sex life is so important for a great
relationship. Of course there is nothing unnatural or wrong about
female ejaculation and squirting orgasms can and should be used to
build a solid loving relationship. It also helps the man tune into the
subtle variations of feminine energy which can help grow the
relationship.
What is squirt stacking?
Squirt stacking has been described on the home page and is an
advanced technique. Essentially the man helps the woman ‘stand
close to the edge of arousal’ without going off it. He brings her up to
the point where she might squirt, then reduces his stimulation back
down, almost teasing her. He can do this many times, bringing her
up to the edge and then back down.
When he finally brings her up again and ‘over the edge’ into the
squirting orgasm it can be many times more powerful than the simple
normal squirt and potentially the most pleasurable thing she has ever
felt. The woman can then potentially have multiple stacked squirting
orgasms.
Is squirting healthy?
Squirting done in the right situation between a caring couple can be
both physically and emotionally healthy for both people. Physically
the orgasm reduces stress and increases secretion of vital
hormones. Some woman have said, ‘an orgasm a day keeps the
doctor away,’ since squirting orgasms can boost immune function.
Emotionally, squirting can help bond the couple and create intimacy.
Occasionally squirting can bring up emotional challenges that have
been repressed from childhood so it can present an opportunity to
work through them and overcome them. For men this means she
won’t be emotionally open to squirting unless she feels she can trust
you can handle and stick with her if any emotional scars come up.
If she feels you will run away or be scared off then she will be less
likely to let go. It is very easy for a woman to consciously decide not
to squirt if she thinks you will judge her, by simple holding back like
she is holding back a pee.
So although it may appear to you like she wants to this may not be
the case and either consciously or unconsciously one of the reasons
she might not squirt.
What is OP massage?
OP massage stands for 'orgasmic potential massage.' It is a very
advanced technique that uses specialist massage techniques to
release the full potential of the woman to have multiple, full body,
squirting orgasms quickly and easily.
What are squirter dimples?
Squirter dimples are dimples found on the lower back of some
women. They indicate a higher likelihood of being able to quickly and
easily squirt.
Rotations and Multiple Girlfriends
Why do we put so much time and effort into giving the women we’re
with such incredible and pleasurable experiences? One of the main
reasons is because that being able to do all this crazy stuff will keep
the girl coming back to you time and again (if you have a
monogamous long term partner then skip to the next chapter) If you
are the only one who can give her a squirting orgasm then of course
she will be more inclined to have sex with you again, even if it’s clear
to her that you don’t want an exclusive relationship with her.
Setting the frame
It’s important to set the right frame when you first meet her. Setting
the frame means that you provide a framework of reality that both of
you unspokenly agree to and work within. For example most
relationships are built around the framework or scarcity for the man
and monogamy.
Most relationships start in the workplace or through social circles and
this is fine, however it isn’t conducive to having multiple sexual
partners at the same time, and therefore it is highly recommended
that you learn how to meet women outside of these settings.
Most relationships that do start in these conditions have the
unspoken rules of exclusivity, it also makes it logistically hard to date
multiple women if your only source is from the work place. The
women will talk and find out that you are having sex with both of
them.
However if you learn to meet women in the supermarket, at yoga
class, on the train to work, for example there is almost no chance of
them knowing each other. That doesn’t mean to be deceptive about
dating other women though, if you have set the right framework she
will be okay with you seeing other girls.
The ideal framework to set (it must be set at the start of your first
interaction with her) is that you are someone who enjoys different
women’s company, you don’t need and aren’t looking for a
relationship but you are willing to give her a chance and see where
things lead.
If this framework is established and you go onto having sex with her
then you will be in an excellent position to keep her on and add her
to your rotation.
This has nothing to do with disrespecting women. You should still
love, cherish, respect and admire all the women you have sex with,
make squirt and turn into full time crazy squirters. At this point you
should also be okay with her sleeping with other guys, although she
may not necessarily want to. Thinking that you can sleep with other
women but she can’t do so with other men is naïve.
However, less than 0.01% of men are actually willing to learn about
squirting and giving women amazing orgasms and since you’re
reading this book it’s obvious you’re willing to take action that means
you’re very rare in a woman’s eyes and she will appreciate you for
this.
The simple key to dating multiple women at the same time is to firstly
set the right relationship frame from the start (you probably won’t be
able to do this by meeting her through your work or social circle.)
And secondly providing so much value to her during the times that
you are together (ie giving her mind-bending squirting orgasms and
unleashing her crazy squirter side) that she is happy to continue to
see you even though you don’t want any commitment from her.
That’s enough about having multiple sexual relations at the same
time, in the next chapter you’ll learn more about unleashing her inner
squirter for long term relationships.
Long-Term Lovers
Orgasmic potential massage
You might not have expected massage to be an advanced
technique, or even a technique at all, but it is one of the most
important of the things you can do to get a girl squirting consistently
and easily and becoming a crazy squirter.
Now obviously this technique doesn't apply to a woman who you
won't be a regular sexual partner with because the massage
sessions need to be carried out regularly over a period of 2-3 months
to be fully effective.
OP stands for 'orgasmic potential,' and the massage is designed to
release her full orgasmic potential. This will allow her to squirt very
quickly and very easily. It will most importantly induce the flow of
sexual energy all throughout her body giving her truly 'full body
orgasms.'
Having mastered this technique your girl will now be able to have
multiple, full body, squirting orgasms much more readily. Don't
underestimate just how effective the OP massage is, and how much
pleasure it will bring to your woman in the long term.
This massage is designed to remove the tension spots that inhibit
the flow of sexual energy throughout the woman's body and reduce
her orgasmic potential. Many, if not most woman have drastically
reduced orgasmic potential because of the unnatural stress and
tension of modern life, poor dietary habits and sedentary lifestyles.
Massage is the fastest way to remove the tension spots and restore
the flow of sexual energy. Women who regularly overeat, lack
exercise, lead stressful lifestyles and are out of touch with their body
will need more sessions than women who lead more healthy lives.
A quick way to find out if a woman is more likely to be able to squirt
quickly and easily is to look for the squirter dimples. Many healthy
women have them. If they don't this will be a sign that potentially a
lot of work is needed to make her fully orgasmic, including change of
diet and regular extended massage sessions.
Given this, let's now progress into exactly what is the OP massage
and how to do it.
On her front
• Shoulders and neck
• Under the shoulder blade (as she exhales deeply) • Down the
back
• On the top of the buttocks (an important spot, she will give you
feedback about the exact location on her buttocks) On her back
• Just below the collar bone (as she exhales) • At the top of the
breast
• On the bottom of the breast
• Under the bottom of the rib cage
• The V at the top of the pubic bone
• Along the inside of the upper thigh in line with the vagina
The blue patches of the body indicate the most important areas that
need to be massaged. These are the usual tension spots for women
and they must be unblocked to release her full orgasmic potential.
Depending on the factors we discussed beforehand she might need
10 - 15 2 hour massage sessions, over a period of 2 - 3 months.
Some woman who do yoga, for example, eat healthy, regularly detox
physically and emotionally will need much less sessions to reach
their full orgasmic potential. On the other end of the spectrum
women who have 'let themselves go' will need more.
Regular massage oil works well, but grape seed oil is probably the
best option, being easily available, cheap, and good for the skin, an
excellent lubricant, and both good for massage and the squirting
method.
Making Her Pussy Smell and Taste Awesome
Hearing feedback from friends and viewers I feel like one of the big
reasons more men aren’t making their partners squirt is that they are
afraid / turned off by the smell and/or taste of their lady’s pussy.
Of course this makes sense because firstly the girl will be super shy
about letting you go down there with your fingers and especially with
your tongue if she feels like it will be smelly for you. That will get her
in a logical and tense frame of mind (which is not conducive to
squirting.) Secondly it just makes it far less likely that you will even
bother to do it, and much less likely you will put the time in to master
squirting, and practice the orgasmic potential massage with her and
learning the advanced squirting techniques if you're not enjoying it
because of the bad smell.
Her having a pussy that smells and tastes awesome is far more
conducive to having a good sex life and making her squirt often that
if it smells and tastes bad. The smell and taste of her pussy, in the
long term is primarily a result of her health and diet. I will quickly
explain the right foods for her to eat to avoid a smelly pussy and
getting smelling like roses and tasting sweet.
Firstly she needs to avoid yeasty food: things like beer, wine and
bread. Food and drinks that are made using yeast all contribute to
fungal overgrowth which doesn’t smell nice. Another thing to avoid is
pasteurized dairy products (almost all dairy is pasteurized these
days unless you’re lucky enough to source it locally.) Unfortunately
although pasteurization extends the shelf life of the product is also
kills the naturally occurring enzyme in the milk that allows us humans
to readily digest it. Without the enzyme the dairy product putrefies in
the stomach and becomes a breeding ground for harmful bacteria,
bacteria that go on to cause smelly pussys.
Sugary products also promote bacterial overgrowth and poor
digestive function leading to bad smells. The ideal diet to avoid any
bad smells is based on natural foods like fruits, veg, seeds, nuts and
animal proteins.
Things like dairy, grains, artificial sugars, alcohol and breads all tip
the body into an ‘acidic’ state. This means that when the foods are
metabolized the metabolic ash that is left is acidic, instead of slightly
alkaline like natural, healthy foods are. This acidic state promotes
bacterial growth and inhibits the removal of toxins which both cause
bad smells.
So, to summarize: avoid yeasty foods, sugary unnatural products
and dairy. Drink plenty of water to flush out toxins and ideally drink
vegetable juices and fruit smoothies. If your partner is very
committed to having a sweet smelling pussy then consider trying a
full body detox along with colonic irrigations.
Unfortunately it’s not quite as easy as knowing what to do, you have
to make sure your girlfriend actually goes ahead and changes her
diet. Sometimes it can take a long time before you see any changes
to the smell but it will be worth it if you’re considering making her
squirt every day.
Making Her Squirt Without Touching Her Pussy
If you still don’t know how to make her squirt using your fingers then
I recommend learning about and practising that first. This is the
advanced course, and requires a big time investment from both you
and your long term partner. No messing around or trying this stuff out
with girls you just met. Sorry.
Just to state that again, you will need a long-term sexual partner who
is open to experimentation, practice and commitment from both you
and her to mastering this squirting technique.
The key is that we want to condition her brain to associate a certain
trigger with the muscles in her vagina causing her to squirt. This is
classic old Pavlovian conditioning.
For those who haven’t heard about Pavlovian conditioning it goes
like this; Pavlov had a dog and he fed that dog meat, whenever he
fed the dog meat he would ring a bell just before he gave it to the
dog. In this case the meat is what’s called the unconditioned
stimulus, and the bell is the conditioned stimulus.
Whenever the dog knew that it was about to be fed it started
salivating. After a certain period of conditioning (ringing the bell and
feeding the dog) Pavlov could simply ring the bell (without any food
involved) and the dog would start to salivate. Fairly simple right?
This is known as classical conditioning and we are much more
susceptible to it than we think. Images in advertising are a good
example of this. Fortunately, classical conditioning can be used for
good as well as for manipulative things.
Our aim is to, with the willingness of your sexual partner, create a
conditioned stimulus that is associated with squirting. Let’s use the
example of sucking on her big toe when she squirts. This will act as
a strong and definitive conditioned stimulus that you can re-trigger
(fairly) easily when you need to.
You can use whatever conditioned stimulus that you and her come
up with though it should fulfil these criteria.
• You can do it while you use your hand(s) to stimulate her
• It gives her a well-defined and articulated feeling
• It ideally uses lots of her senses
• It is unusual and not easily / commonly triggered in every- day
life
As a side note you will want to cultivate you lady’s orgasmic potential
through the orgasmic potential massage. This will help her become
more easily orgasmic, but it will also give you plenty of opportunities
to condition her.
Let’s say that twice per week, after every massage session you
make your girl squirt using the squirting techniques you’ve read
about in this book. Just before and during the initial squirting
contractions you should suck on your sexual partner’s big toe. Carry
this out for 3 months consistently. This should be enough to create
the association between squirting and toe sucking.
This is a lot of work, I know, but you will get to a point where the toe
sucking stimulus is mutually reinforcing. This means that once she
has squirted a few times from toe sucking (or whatever stimulus you
decide upon) it will reinforce this as a conditioned response.
This isn't a magic trick, your partner will need to be turned on before
you try and make her squirt. If you try it when she is sexually
unreceptive then it will loosen the conditioned connection and you
will have to spend more time in the bedroom.
You can gradually lower how aroused she has to be for it to work.
Start off by only sucking her toes when she is on the edge of
squirting orgasm already. As the stimulus becomes more engrained
it will work more effectively.
Conditioning has a more powerful effect on our lives than most of us
realize and it can be helpful to be aware of these so we can uncondition ourselves from the negative ones and reinforce the positive
one.
When you've mastered making your partner squirt consistently and
easily give this a go, work hard and the rewards will be big. I
absolutely love being able to give women these crazy experiences
that they've never had before, find out how I learnt to do this and
how you can too with these squirting videos my mentor put together.
Making Her Want to Learn How to Squirt
This is still a work in progress for me, there are still plenty of girls
who I meet who aren't sexually confident enough to want to learn
how to squirt. And just to clarify, I don’t want to imply anything
manipulative in the title, but let’s be honest teaching a girl how to
squirt is an awesome thing to do.
If you've ever tried to make a girl squirt before than you’ll probably
realize that having her complete cooperation in the learning process
is hugely helpful. The question is, how can you persuade her that
squirting is awesome and that she should want to learn how to do it?
Once she wants to learn how to squirt you’re about three quarters of
the way there.
Sexual confidence
Sexual confidence is one of the keys to teaching women how to
squirt because if you’re timid or shy in any way she will feel the same
way and that is in no way conducive squirting. Sexual confidence is
displayed through your body language and eye contact, it isn’t
something that is verbally articulated effectively. The best way to be
sexually confident, funnily enough is to know that you can satisfy
women easily.
Be non-judgemental, don’t gossip
No girl will want to learn how to squirt if she feels in any way judged
by you. Because squirting is perceived as somewhat weird or
unnatural by the mainstream if she thinks that you will somehow
judge her for it, or gossip about it then she is much less likely to want
to do it.
In all of your interactions you should come across as a completely
un-judgemental even nonchalant kind of guy. Never say anything
judgemental especially about other women or ex-girlfriends.
Go one step further and precondition your attitude by making
statements that clearly show you aren't judgemental, you don’t care
what other people think of you and you respect and admire people
who aren't sexually repressed. For example if you see a hippy
walking down the street when you’re getting a coffee with your girl
you could say “I think it’s cool how they do want they want and don’t
care about the mainstream.”
You can make this even more powerful by affirming personality traits
in your girl that you want her to cultivate (whether or not she already
has them.)
For example you could say “You strike me as someone who doesn't
care what other people think if you, you just kind of do what you
want.” Even if this is or isn't true, because you are admitting you
admire these traits in her she will start to show them more and more
when she is around you. It’s like when you say to someone “How are
you are so energetic?” They will feel more energetic, unless you are
clearly being sarcastic!
Don’t be a lad
The ‘laddish’ attitude that a lot of guys display is completely counterproductive for getting her to squirt in almost all cases and is
something you want to avoid. You should try to display the ‘good’
traits of ‘the lad’ such as being outgoing, confident and having fun,
but remove the un-useful traits like being mean, vulgar and uncaring.
Build trust
Trust is crucial for teaching her how to squirt. She will be putting
herself in an emotionally and physically vulnerable position and she
won’t go there if she doesn't trust you. For squirting even more trust
is needed than in intercourse, because in intercourse you are both
equally vulnerable. Whilst making her squirt means she is much
more vulnerable than you. Trust gets built over time which is why it’s
usually harder to make a one night stand squirt than a regular
partner, though not always. There are ways to build trust very quickly
which I hope to talk about in my squirt diary.
Lead her
I’ve never had and I’ve never heard about a girl saying “please can
you make me squirt.” If you’re expecting her to lead and suggest
squirting then you will be waiting a long time. You are the one that
will have to lead the process.
Freedom from outcome
Putting too much pressure on her to squirt and being dependent on
the outcome is a great way to stop her squirting. For women, sex
isn’t about the destination it’s about the journey, and if you’re
frantically wanting to get to the end, she won’t be relaxed and she
won’t be in the moment, enjoying it.
Imply spontaneity
It’s probably not the best idea to say that you've spent hours reading
on-line about how to make women squirt and now you want to try it
out on her. She isn’t a mannequin that you can practice on. Rather,
imply spontaneity and adventure, like you are going on a journey
together.
Don’t pretend you’re in an adult movie
If your lovely lady feels like you’re trying to make her squirt to fulfil
some alternative agenda it will be a huge turn off. The only reason
that should be wanting to make her squirt should be because it feels
amazing for her. If she thinks that you want to fulfil some fantasy
about women squirting because you saw an adult movie star doing it
then you will very rarely be successful.
The frame of mind you should be coming from should be ‘this is me
and you exploring each other’s bodies and enjoying sex together.’
Position squirting
This doesn't have anything to do with positions like the Karmasutra
rather it is a marketing term coined by Al Reis and Jack Trout. For
example when you position 'inheritance tax' as a 'death tax' then
more people are inclined to vote to lower it, even though it's exactly
the same thing. This is an idea I'm still working on when it comes to
making women squirt but I have a few ideas that have worked well.
You might have to change the way she perceives squirting. She may
think that it is something dirty, or slutty. Your task is to 're-position'
the idea of squirting in her mind so that she perceives it as fun,
sexually explorative, and pleasurable for both of you.
Better Squirting
The Kegel
If you know about the Kegel exercise but don't practice it then you
underestimate its importance. The Kegel will not only help you
maintain a strong erection but give you more control over your
ejaculations.
For women the Kegel exercise is equally important because it is the
engine that drives powerful orgasms and also exercises the muscles
in the vagina making them tight. Dr Kegel himself noted that women
who regularly practised the Kegel exercise orgasmed more easily,
with more intensity and frequency.
In this sense it may be worthwhile suggesting to your woman that
she take up Kegel exercises, of course this only really applies to long
term partners but may be well worth it for both of you in the long run.
How exactly you suggest this without seeming rude I am not sure. It
depends on the kind of relationship you have with your partner.
Kegel exercises for women improve the strength, endurance and
flexibility of the pubococcygeus muscles that are located in the pelvic
floor. The combination of regular Kegel exercise and OP massage
will truly release the full squirting orgasmic potential of your woman.
Many women who practise yoga or Pilates report a better sex life
because these forms of exercise naturally exercise the pelvic floor
muscle. Women who are in good shape and can have squirting
orgasms quickly and easily often have squirter dimples as an
indicator of this, on their lower back.
Giving Birth to the Orgasm
Most women hold their orgasm in. Energetically this forces the
orgasm to travel inward and upward and although this is perfectly
good way to orgasm it can restrict the energetic outflow of intensely
pleasurable orgasmic energy.
This kind of 'held in' orgasm also reduces the likelihood of squirting.
As her partner it is your responsibility to encourage her to 'give birth
to her orgasm,' which will help her squirt and increase the intensity of
her orgasms.
For many women this can be a whole different experience to an
inward orgasm, but it may not come naturally since most women
have believed that the inward orgasm is the only option. As she feels
on the edge of orgasming and squirting she needs to use her PC
and vaginal muscles to push outwards and create a flow of energy
down from her naval out of her vagina.
Kegel exercises are important here because they strengthen the
muscles that allow this to happen. In most cases without a proper
understanding of how to squirt (which you can educate her on) she
will use those same muscles to restrict her orgasm and prevent
herself from squirting.
When should you encourage her to 'give birth to her orgasm?'
As she approaches the peak of arousal and you are using your
fingers to stimulate her g-spot there may be a sloshing sound which
indicates her Skene's gland is full of the female ejaculate. She will
feel the pressure build up as she approaches and reaches orgasm,
at this point she should use her PC muscles to push outwards and
'give birth to the orgasm.'
If you are attempting multiple orgasms then after the sensation has
subsided she can contract back in and relax the muscles in
preparation for another go.
Breathing
Breathing is important for both men's and women's orgasms
because it facilitates the flow of energy throughout the body. For
women this means turning an isolated vaginal orgasm into a full
body, shaking, pulsating orgasm from the tips of her toes to the top
of her head.
It also means that her pussy won't get tired so quickly because the
all the muscles in her body will be 'spasming' instead of just her PC
muscles, so she can squirt and orgasm more times per session.
Breathing also helps increase the therapeutic value of the orgasm by
reducing the stress hormone cortisol and causing the secretion of
vital hormones.
Microcosmic Orbit
In this section you will learn the basics of the microcosmic orbit. This
is a technique that allows you to maintain very high levels of sexual
stamina as well as high levels of appreciation and attraction for your
long term partner. The microcosmic orbit is a Taoist technique in
which sexual energy is circulated around the body, providing the
body with youthful vim, vigour and longevity.
Sexual energy tends to stagnate in the genitals where it is wasted
via ejaculation because semen is literally a man's life force and takes
large amounts of energy to create. Just like when a plant goes to
seed it withers and dies, in a similar way a man can lose his energy
via over-frequent ejaculation. Ejaculating too often with the same
woman can lead you to unconsciously resent her for the wasted
semen.
Taoists use deep breathing and visualization to stop the energy
stagnating and circulate is throughout the body. We will not go into
too much depth about this practice here because it relates to the
man, but if you want to cultivate a high sex drive and appreciation for
your woman whilst promoting your own health and longevity then
consider looking into the microcosmic orbit more.
The woman can also practice the female version of the microcosmic
orbit to enhance her own feminine energy and promote health and
longevity. When you have both attained a good understanding of
how it works you can practice together during sex in what is known
as dual cultivation.
Conclusion
If you’ve read this far you will have realised that making a woman
squirt is about much more than the physical technique you use,
(although you must get this right.) It really comes down to the
psychological and emotional realm for women.
If she feels judged or doesn’t trust you in any way then the chances
of her squirting greatly diminishes. As the guy you will need to lead
her and set the frame of the sexual interaction. Most importantly
having fun, being caring, leading, building her arousal are what you
need to do first, the finger technique is what pulls the trigger, so to
speak, but everything else loads the gun.
Good luck in your squirting adventures, please email either myself or
my partner Laura at axel@schoolofsquirt.com, and
laura@schoolofsquirt.com if you have any questions.