Review 1. How will you define strengths and weaknesses? Review OBJECTIVES 1. Identify the physiological, cognitive psycho-social, societal and spiritual aspects of development in the life of teenager. 2. Give ways on how to develop each selfaspect. LESSON 2 : Activity: You & Me! Directions: 1. Each student will be given 2 small sheets of colored bond. 2. Answer the 2 questions that will be given. 3. Write down your answers on the given paper. 4. Paste it on your journal Activity: You & Me! Question No. 1: What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you think about being a teenager? Question No. 2: What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you think about other teenagers? Activity: You & Me! Me as a Teenager (Answer in No. 1) Other Teenagers (Answer in No. 2) Activity: 1. If you could change anything about the way you look or the way you were raised, what would it be and why? 2. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? Activity: 3. For what in your life do you feel most grateful? Why? Activity 4: Change is coming! Activity : Change is coming! What has your teenage life been so far? Go through the following list and see if the things you read are familiar. List the ones that are experiencing or have experienced in the past year. Activity : Change is coming! Under each aspect, list down the changes that have happened to you or the developmental milestone that you have achieved. Activity : Change is coming! Activity: Change is coming! Rapid shift emotion intense high and low emotions rapid increase height development of reproductive organs enlarge breast/hips(in girls) Pubic and underarm hair body odor nocturnal emission/ejaculations (in boys) menstruation(in girls) pimples Activity: Change is coming! Change in voice eating problems self-conciousness awkwardness concern over physical appearance good body image Weight issues questioning values of parents/other adults Desire to have one's own set of values Criticism of adults and/or society self-criticism Activity: Change is coming! Ability to take more responsibilities desire for independence desire for adventure desire to experiment with different ideas feeling of not being understood by adults confusion over one's identity feeling of depression evaluation options for possible careers and occupations Activity: Change is coming! belonging to a peer capacity to reason group logically peer pressure worry about what other romantic attraction to people think someone pondering about curiousity over human nature good and sexual topics evil, or truth and justice Activity: Change is coming! tendency to argue for desire for approval and the feeling of being the sake of arguing accepted increased awareness of religious/spiritual own needs and feelings questioning increased awareness faith as a factor in of world concerns choices and decision Activity : Change is coming! • Describe yourself • Include your descriptions of your height, weight, facial, quality of your skin, hair and description of body areas such as neck, chest, waist, legs. Activity : Change is coming! • How well you reason and solve problems, your capacity to learn and create, your general amount of knowledge, specific area of knowledge, wisdom you have acquired and insights you have. Activity : Change is coming! • Write as many words or phrase about typical feelings you have, feeling you have seldom have, feeling you especially enjoy, feelings from your present and past and feelings which are associated with each other. Activity : Change is coming! • Describe what kind of daughter, brother or sisters you are. • Description of your strength and weaknesses in intimate relationships to friends, family, costudents, strangers in social settings and your friend and family have noticed. Activity : Change is coming! • This could include your feelings about yourself and organized religion, reactions about spiritual connections to others, feeling about your spiritual development. • Think about your inner peace and joy. • Think about your spiritual regimen or routine. Questions 1. Based on the previous activity, how would you describe your life as a teenager? 2. Do you consider yourself a normal teenager? explain your answer. 3. Are you comportable with your body image? Explain your answer. Questions 4.How do you compare your development with other teenagers? 5. How would you describe your relationships with youra. family? b. Friends? c. special person, if applicable? • Holistic development or developing the whole of a person -is a process of selfactualization and learning that combines an individual’s mental, physical, social, emotional and spiritual growth. • This can be a complex process, which does not occur in one area but in the different construct of the whole self. Is a time when everything seems to changebody, emotions, relationships with others, way of thinking, and all other aspects of one's life. all of this changes are interconnected and contributory to a person's development. It is normal to go through many changes during the teenagers years, and the most of the changes that they are going through as teenagers fall under one of the five categories that you are going to learn more about. Aspects of Development 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Physical/Physiological Development Emotional Development Mental Development Social Development Moral and Spiritual Development Example: A girl may already have the body of woman, thus attracting the attention of older boys. But she may still be in the process of developing emotionally and may not yet be prepared to deal with older boys. ( physically mature, emotionally immature). Example: A boy may already look every inch a man but may not be ready to try alcohol or either things his peers are into, nor capable of handling situations with girls. Physical Development Posture, body build and size, complexion and facial expressions, as well as the appropriateness and condition of clothes, comprise the physical appearance of a person and its capacity to do things tells the physical condition of a person. Physical Development Physical/Physiological Development that occur in both males and females from the period of puberty up to adolescence • • • • • Rapid increase in height Development of reproductive organs Enlarged breast and hips (girls) Change in voice Pubic and underarm hair Physical Development • Body odor • Nocturnal emissions/ejaculation (boys) • Menstruation (girls) • Pimples Social Development • This is seen in how well a person deals with other people and how well one observes the rules and etiquette that governs the society. • How well one carries oneself in front of different, people and projects one social behavior. Social Development Social Development Social Development that happens during teenage years • Questioning/development of a sense of identity • Changes in self-esteem • Feeling awkwardness about themselves/their bodies • increase focus on self Social Development Social Development that happens during teenage years • Realization that parents/other adults are not perfect • Increase conflict with parents(desire for independence vs parental control) • Increase influential of peers • peer pressure Mental Development MENTAL ASPECT • Mental aspect refers to the intellectual capacity, which is shown in the way one talks, shares range of ideas one expresses that includes the things one talks about, as well as the values and the mental alertness in understanding things. Mental Development Brain Development and the Cognitive Changes that happens during teenage years • more intellectual interests • increase ability to work(physical, mental, emotional) • Increased capacity for reasoning and abstract thinking Mental Development Brain Development and the Cognitive Changes that happens during teenage years • Emergence of risk-taking behaviors • Increased desire to experiment with different ideas • Focus of interests shift from present to near-future • Goals/ambitions/role in life gain importnce • Debates and develops intolerance of opposing views Mental Development Brain Development and the Cognitive Changes that happens during teenage years • More defined work habits • Increases capacity to plan • Begins to focus thinking on making career decisions Emotional Development • EMOTIONAL ASPECT- How well one responds when things become difficult, and how quickly one gave to anger, or whether one can take a job or not, defines the emotional well- being. Emotional Development Emotional-social Development that happens during teenage years • Blog-writing, journal or diary writing • Increased ability for delayed gratification and compromise • expansion of social networks; formation of new friends • increased concern for others Emotional Development Emotional-social Development that happens during teenage years • • • • Rapid shift in emotions Intense high and low emotions Development of romantic interest Increased ability to express feelings Moral and Spiritual Development -This aspect of personality has something to do with a person’s awareness of the difference between what is right or wrong. It is referred to as the Moral Aspect. The Spiritual Aspect is the consciousness of the higher spiritual values in life. Moral and Spiritual Development Moral and Spiritual Development that happens during teenage years • Increase in the testing of rules and limits • Evidence of conscience • Development of ideas; choosing of role models • Increased questioning of moral rights and privileges Moral and Spiritual Development Moral and Spiritual Development that happens during teenage years • increase questioning of the existence of god, one's purpose • increased interest in moral reasoning • increased interest in social, cultural and family tradition Moral and Spiritual Development Moral and Spiritual Development that happens during teenage years • Increased emphasis on personal dignity and selfesteem • increased questioning of family values, own values Generalization Enumerate the different aspect of development in a teenager. Cite examples of changes that occur in every aspect of development. Application ACTIVITY: I have the will! I have the Power! Directions: In your journal, and following the format below, write a special letter for yourself that would contain the following details: 1. The action steps you are going to do in developing each of your self-aspects. Application I believe that I can develop my self aspect through the following steps that I am going to do: a. Physical aspect- I will….. b. Emotional aspect- I will….. c. Social aspect- I will….. d. Mental aspect- I will….. e. Moral & Spiritual aspect- I will….. Application This is a promise that I will continue to keep as I grow mature as a person Lovingly yours, Identification. ______1. It pertains to posture, body build and size, complexion and facial expressions, as well as the appropriateness and condition of clothes, comprise the physical appearance of a person and its capacity to do things tells the physical condition of a person. ______2. It pertains to how well one responds when things become difficult, and how quickly one gave to anger, or whether one can take a job or not. Identification. • ______3. refers to the intellectual capacity, which is shown in the way one talks, shares range of ideas one expresses that includes the things one talks about, as well as the values and the mental alertness in understanding things. • ______4. It means how well one carries oneself in front of different, people and projects one Identification. •_____5. This aspect of personality has to do with a person’s awareness of the difference between what is right or wrong and consciousness of the higher spiritual values in life. 6-10. What aspects are being developed here? 6. 7. 6-10. What aspects are being developed here? 8. 9. 6-10. What aspects are being developed here? 10. 11-20. What aspects are being developed here? Identification: Examine the word/s or concept/s below. Write Physical if the concept given is about Physical Development Write Mental if the concept given is about Mental Development Write Social if the concept given is about social Development. Write Emotional if the concept given is about Emotional Development. Write Spiritual if the concept given is about Spiritual Development. 11-20. What aspects are being developed here? Identification: Examine the word/s or concept/s below. Write Physical if the concept given is about Physical Development Write Mental if the concept given is about Mental Development Write Social if the concept given is about social Development. Write Emotional if the concept given is about Emotional Development. Write Spiritual if the concept given is about Spiritual Development. 11. Romantic interest 12. Questioning of the existence of god, one's purpose 13. Seeking Independence 14. Future Planning 15. Acne 16. Friends-Seeking 17. “Growth Spurt” 18. Intimate Relationship 19. Systematic Thinking 20. God-fearing Remember! You have only ONE life. Live it well now; live it meaningfully Thank you for listening!