Golden Rules of FRIENDSHIP -if you want people to like you, you make them feel good Mistake 1: Have a pit face look, always smile so you look positive and dont have a glaze on your eyes which shows that you're not interested Mistake 2: not being a good listener, let the speaker finish first. Don't make everything about yourself, the majority of people likes to talk about themselves. Mistake 3: Talking too much negativity Things to do: -when you meet someone meet them with a big expression and a open body even tho if they aren't meeting you the same way, after couple of days they will start doing it -call people name when you meet them, people like to hear their own name -have a open body language -cuss less or don't cuss -don't talk about sensitive topics How to increase your worth: -be friends with those whose value is higher and ignore the low value people, if you look fat/sick/tired your value is lower because you will like someone that will drag down the group -Physical appearance, hygiene and are you well groomed? -social proof: if someone walks into the room and they all are smiling you will wonder wow who's this guy?? being social proof can make you like a celebrity and it doesn't really matters what you look like and etc -demanor, how they act and its equally important as your social proof. People look at body language wether its open or close, if your chest is open, good posture and uncrossed arm are the indicators that you're relaxed. -voice, if you have a high pitch voice it means you're not relaxed so have a low pitch voice -frame, how easily can you be affected by the outside condition. If someone makes fun of you are you a type of person who will get easily offended or just laugh because you dont care or just ignore Body Language: -smile, its the most powerful friend signal -raise your eyebrows up and down fast with a smile because its a kinda of a way of saying hello. If you use it with a completely stranger and or a friend you barely know it will make you look a lot friendly. -tilt your head because you're showing the most vulnerable parts of the body ( arteies ) and you will look extremely comfortable, relax and ease -your legs should be wide ( not too much ) and your toes should be point outwards it shows that you're an open person, if its inwards then you will be known as a fear, lack of confidence person. -dont cross your arms, don't put your hands in your pocket, don't have a drink in your hand closing youe chest and dont put one hand on the another arm. Have your arms relaxed at your side and use hand gestures when talking -chest, be straight, shoulders back and have a good posture -head, your head should straight, looking forward, not up or down -the slower you move the more confidence you seem and talk slow not too slow nor fast nor too fast -space, the more space you occupy the more confident you seem but don't be that guy who takes 3 people seat with his legs and belongings. Spread your legs, drape your arms ( apne ap arms ko wide rakho ) when sitting -