Gerald Lex A. Cultura
XI – Fibonacci
Ms. Mariell Eunice A. Conde
03/07/2023
“The End”
By definiton, Ghosting, simmering and icing are colloquial terms which
describe the practice of ending all communication and contact with another
person without any apparent warning or justification and ignoring any
subsequent attempts to communicate, or to be exact ending a relationship
with someone without any explanation. A lot of people have experiences
when it comes to this kind of phenomena, specially on teenagers and myself is
not an exception.
I have also ghosted someone through out my whole life. It was benificial
for me, because I did cut ties with someone. It was done for a reason and well
for my experience, they made me feel uncomfortable enough to make me
don’t want to be with them any further. I felt guilt after doing such thing but
honestly for some time it also made me feel relieved because I lost something
that I usually do but also losing it was good, because it wasn’t good for me. So,
the guilt the I felt somewhat vanished, that itself made me realized that it was
something that I should’ve done long ago. But, honestly after being ghosted
myself I somewhat felt the guilt once again, because it also made me realize
that ghosting someone is indeed a painful thing to do to someone. It is like a
story that ends in a cling hanger, where you would like to know the end of the
story, but you can’t do anything about it that just making assumptions on what
reasons they did it. It is going to make feel like you don’t deserve anything,
because you overthing that you’re the problem.
So because of such event, you should also be reminded that they
probably left because you did something that made them feel bad or maybe
it’s them that has a problem. So instead of making assumptions, be a better
person that you are before, to make yourself know your worth and you need
someone who knows your worth. Again, it is indeed painful but just think of it as
a lesson, a moral of story, an experience. Ghosting does happen to everyone,
not just teenagers.