Self Acceptance SELF ESTEEM Presented By: Reche Mae S. Exclamador 1 SELF ACCEPTANCE Self-acceptance is defined as “an individual’s acceptance of all of his/her attributes, positive or negative.” It includes body acceptance, self- protection from negative criticism, and believing in one’s capacities. Practicing SelfACCEPTANCE Practicing self - acceptance will help you to realise your qualities, both bad and good, and eases feelings of guilt and unhappiness. When we begin to accept who we are, we set ourselves up for improvement. While practicing self-acceptance, you will uncover hidden gifts and talents that you didn't know about yourself. 12 Ways to practice Self Acceptance: 1. Become self-aware and set an intention. 2. Celebrate your strengths. 3. Consider the people around you. 4. Create a support system. 5. Forgive yourself. 6. Realize that acceptance is not resignation. 7. Quiet your inner critic. 8. Grieve the loss of unrealised dreams. 9. Perform charitable acts 10. Speak to your highest self. 11. Be kind to yourself. 12. Keep believing in yourself. 2 SELF ESTEEM Self-esteem refers to a person’s overall sense of his or her value or worth. It can be considered a sort of measure approves of, of how much appreciates, a prizes, herself” (Adler & Stewart, 2004). person or likes “values, him or Various Factors that influence our self esteem: 1. Genetics 2. Personality 3. Life experiences 4. Age 5. Health 6. Thoughts 7. Social circumstances 8. The reactions of others 9. Comparing the self to others SIGNS OF LOW SELF ESTEEM, CAUSES OF LOW SELF ESTEEM : Difficult or stressful life experiences can often be a factor, such as: being bullied or abused experiencing prejudice, discrimination or stigma, including racism losing your job or difficulty finding employment problems at work or while studying ongoing stress physical health problems mental health problems relationship problems, separation or divorce worries about your appearance and body image problems with mon,ey or housing. Signs of High Self esteem Appreciate themselves and other people. Enjoy growing as a person and finding fulfillment and meaning in their lives. Are able to dig deep within themselves and be creative. Make their own decisions and conform to what others tell them to be and do only when they agree. See the word in realistic terms, accepting other people the way they are while pushing them toward greater confidence and a more positive direction. Can easily concentrate on solving problems in their lives. Have loving and respectful relationships. Know what their values are and live their lives accordingly. Speak up and tell others their opinions, calmly and kindly, and share their wants and needs with others. Endeavor to make a constructive difference in other people’s lives (Smith & Harte, n.d.). 3 SELF SERVING BIAS Self-serving bias is how social psychologists describe humans’ tendency to blame external forces when bad things happen and to give ourselves credit when good things happen. Although it can mean evading personal responsibility for your actions, self-serving bias defense mechanism that protects your self-esteem. is a TIPS FOR IMPROVING SELF SET GOALS RIGHT ENVIRONMENT AND PEOPLE TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH AND WELL BEING Love, accept, and have compassion for yourself Thank You! Do you have any questions for me before we go?