Vocabulary Words Associated with Standard Three (Module 3) Word/Term Stereotype E X A M P L E Word/Term Gender Identity Bullets above: Stereotype: Thinking all people who belong to a certain group are the same and labelling them… https://www.guidantglobal.com/news/diversity-and-inclusion-terminologya-guide-to-inclusive-language As a 7th teacher in a small community public school, I often hear teachers talk in the breakroom about certain students who are just like their older brother or sister. Often the comments are negative comments about the siblings, like, “The older brother was a discipline problem, too.” Comments like this stereotype students in the minds of others before I can remember anticipating this behavior, which was an inappropriate thing for me to do. I learned quickly that the younger sibling was eager to learn, asked questions, worked well with a buddy in math, and responded well to feedback that supported his learning. As a school administrator, I will have to be thoughtful about setting an expectation that the teacher breakroom is not the place to stereotype students, but a place to have conversations about how to help students. I will have to discourage such stereotyping among teachers. One way of discouraging this behavior would be to share an activity in a faculty meeting that would allow them to understand the consequences of stereotyping. Bullets above: Gender Identity - One's innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. https://www.hrc.org/resources/sexual-orientation-and-gender-identityterminology-and-definitions Because our school is in the middle of a residential area, many students come back to visit after graduation. One student, formerly known as Lindsey, came back to visit and explain that she had changed her name to Sirus and now preferred the pronouns he/him. Although, this is something we have discussed in theoretical terms, most of the teachers did not have direct experience with someone who chose to identify in terms other than their birth gender. I was pleasantly surprised at the warm reception he received from teachers and staff he encountered. Since, then Sirus has come back on many occasions and expresses gratitude for the acceptance he feels from his former teachers. As an administrator, I would ensure teachers understand the importance of supporting students regardless of their gender identity or that of their family members, through continuing education with a live speaker. I would like to see teachers relate to real people through their personal stories. Regardless of personal feelings on the subject, I would ask teachers to withhold judgement in order to provide a safe and loving learning environment. This means students should be allowed to address the issue on their own terms, in their own time and be permitted to use whichever pronouns they feel are appropriate. In addition, I would like to see the school building reflect this by having a gender-neutral restroom. Word/Term Poverty and/or Socioeconomic Class Racial Identity Bullets above: Poverty – not having enough money to meet basic needs including food, clothing and shelter https://www2.gnb.ca/content/gnb/en/departments/esic/overview/content/ what_is_poverty.html Many children in our district come from low-income families. They often begin school well behind their same age peers and struggle throughout their careers to make up the difference. In addition, they must deal with the effects of poverty such as hunger, unstable homes, fewer resources to complete assignments, and limited exposure to experiences outside their neighborhoods. As Maslow’s hierarchy of needs explains, poor nutrition and an insecure home life can affect their ability to concentrate on school. To help alleviate some of their issues our district provides free breakfast, lunch, fresh fruit and vegetables twice weekly, and ready to eat foods are sent home on weekends. Backpacks and school supplies are made available at the beginning of the year and are available to be replenished at any time. Socks, hats, gloves, and coats are provided in our clothes pantry with no cost to any student. We launder clothes if needed and have, on occasion, run to Walmart to purchase swimsuits for swimming lessons. Our goal is to ease the burden our students carry so that they may succeed. As an administrator, I would continue to support the many programs we have in place to assist struggling students such as free clothing, school supplies, food, etc. I would also like to add a pre-K program to ensure they are afforded an equal opportunity at an early education. Additionally, I would like to see an after-school program in place that would give students a safe and uncluttered space to work without distractions, such as housework or taking care of siblings. Finally, I would continue to maintain high academic expectations for students and discourage teachers from using poverty as an excuse for low performance. Racial identity - the significance and meaning of race in one’s life. http://psychology.iresearchnet.com/counseling-psychology/identitydevelopment/racial-identity/ Many students within my school have a multi-cultural background. Two siblings in particular stand out as examples of unique racial identity. Their mother is white, and their father is black. The sister considers herself “mixed-race” and indicates as much on any forms requesting that information. Her brother identifies as black on the same forms. Despite having the same parents and living in the same household, they are choosing to identify themselves differently based on their personal experiences. After reading What I Wish You Knew, I wonder what types of issues they have struggled with internally that they haven’t voiced. As an administrator, I would conduct professional development that examines the role of racial identity in students’ lives by having teachers read personal accounts of people like Darian Stevenson and watch videos such as Uncomfortable Conversations with a Black Man. I would ask them to do self-work around their own racial identity and examine how it influences daily decisions. Further, I would ask teachers to examine the books they Word/Term Religious Diversity Sexual Orientation Bullets above: choose, artwork in classrooms and quotes on the walls to see if they are supporting students who experience racial barriers. Religious Diversity - the fact that there are significant differences in religious belief and practice https://iep.utm.edu/reli-div/#:~:text=Religious%20diver When teaching a kindergarten student the alphabet, I was prompting him to identify the letter ‘t’. He struggled to remember the name of the letter but came up with this, “I don’t know but Jesus was on it.” It took me a moment to register that he was referring to Jesus being on the cross that looks like a lowercase letter ‘t’. He was using his background knowledge of his religion to relate to the alphabet! At first glance, it would seem that little religious diversity exists in my current school. Most children attend one of the two Baptist churches within a few blocks of the school. A church bus picks up a large group of students each Wednesday to go to an after-school program. However, there are also families of Lutheran, Catholic, Apostolic, and Jewish faiths. Not all students attend church and the belief and practices among the students vary significantly. As an administrator, I would continue to encourage positive, meaningful relationships with students and families from all religious backgrounds. I would like to see a school culture that promotes knowledge and respect for all traditions not just the majority. During holidays especially, I would remind teachers to be careful not to impose a certain faith but to support respectful curiosity among students. Sexual orientation – who you’re attracted to and who you feel drawn to romantically, emotionally, and sexually https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sexual-orientation/sexualorientation In the last few minutes of class at the end of the day my second-grade students were discussing who was picking them up. One girl asked a boy if his dad was coming to get him. He replied that he had two moms but yes, his Dom was getting him today. He nonchalantly explained that his Dom was a girl, but she acted like a boy and that was kind of like a having a dad. The class acknowledged his response with nods of agreement and that was the last time it was brought up. He felt safe explaining his situation and the other children accepted it without question. Knowing this, I was more intentional when discussing parental roles. When it came time to make crafts for Mother’s Day, the student opted to make one for his mom and one for his Dom. As an administrator, I would encourage teachers to allow this type of student led dialogue and demonstrate an attitude of acceptance. There is much controversary around the topic and discussing sexuality with young children. However, the reality is that they are living in these situations and should feel comfortable enough to share about it in the context of their personal family situations. Teachers will need continuing professional development to be reminded of the need to ensure inclusion and equity.