SEX KN QWLE D GE FO R WO M EN WH AT A N D G I R LS WO M A N SH OU LD KN OW EV ER Y AN D GI R L BY ' WILLIA M J R O B INSO N M D . . , D at G t — ay a a ol y o o t l o al olo y T o a al al Wo a oo ao Wo m " o o o ol G l Wo o ay ol al Ma a lo Yo a y M a M a l o Am o at o a al ao Yo M l o ty a o al ll a l a G o a o a A m at o a . e p r me t of en i o Urin r Dise ses an d Derm t og . Br n x H i a of the sp n he C ri ti c an d of Ur de ; Editor of the Ameri can J u rn g an d Ser ology ; Editor of men ; Au th r of Tre tmen t of Sexu Impote n ce an d Other Sexu Di sordersgn M en an d men ; Li mi t ti n of 080 m by the Preven Tre tmen t of G n rrhea m M en an d ti n of C n cepti n ; Sex Kn w edge for i r s an d men ; Sexu a Problems of Fel w of the rri ge , etc T d ; Never-T d T es ; Eu gen ics an d E A k eri c n edi c d i t rs New c dem of edi ci n e, of the r rk State Ass ci i n , Ameri c n M edic Associ ti n , New edi ca S cie ti n e Gese sch ft for Sexu a . 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IQEW V YI EUK a is con t in ed may n ot kn ow more th thor h as been receivin g r e qu e st s t o wri te an el emen tary sex book pre sen tin g th e vari ou s sex proble ms whi ch ar e of im port an ce to m an an d boy, an d t o woman an d gi rl from hi s po in t “ Y ou ar e co n de mn i n g the e xi sti n g sex of vie w book s How wou ld you i mpart sex kn owledge to th e Thi s w as th e su b st an ce ave rage ma le an d fe male 1 of man y qu e sti on s I have given my an swe r in S ex Kn owle dge for M en pu bli she d sever al mon th s Thi s con tain s th e ag o an d in th e pr e sen t volu me mi n i mu m of Wh at eve ry woman an d gi rl sh ou l d ’ — kn ow reg ardin g thei r sex Tho se women an d — m en who wan t mor e kn owle dge on th e su bj e ct o f sex m ay con su l t th e au thor s Woman : Her S ex an d Fox m an y year s the au , , . . . , , . . ’ ‘ W J . Febr u ary 1 , 1 91 7, 1 2 M ou n t M orris Park West , . B . C O N T E NTS I . TH E P AR AI I OU N T N EED WOM EN OE S Ex K N OWLEDGE GIR LS AN D TH E FEM ALE S EX OR GAN S : ' TH E P HYS I OLOGY or TH E THEIR A NATOMY FEI I ALE SEx OR GAN S TH E S Ex I N STIN GI ‘ MEN S IR U ATI ON ' AB NOR M ALI TIE S TH E H YGIEN E FEGUN DATI ON OE ME NS TR U ATI ON M ENSTR U ATI ON OE OE FER TILI"ATI ON TH E DI SOR DER S or PR E GNAN C Y WHEN TO ENGAGE TH E S I"E or TH E Am AB ORTI ON A TH E PH YSI CIAN FET U S mTH ( P LACEN T A ) LAcrATI ON OR N UR S I NG M I SGARR I AGE AN D PEEN ATAD C AR E XV I I I . S TERILI TY TH E MEN OP AU S E TH E HAB IT OE FOR OR C HAN GE or 1m MA STUR B ATI ON C O N TE NT S vi cm P AGE THE V EN m EAL DI SE ASES TH E ExTEN T or V EN E RE AL DISE ASE GON OR R HE A V G ULV OV A IN ITI S IN LITT LE GI R LS S Y P HILI S TH E C UR AB ILIT Y or V V EN m EAL ADV DI S EAS E P RO P H Y LAxI s B IR TH C ON TR OL SPR I EN E REAL OR TH E LI M ITATION or NG I CE TO 10 BE TH E MARR IED AN D THOSE AB OUT SEX K N O W LE D G E FO R WO M E N A N D G IR LS C H AP TER ON E THE P AR A M OU NT NEE D O F S E X KN OWL E DGE F O R GIRL S AN D WO ME N reason why sex in str u cti on i s even more importan t for girl s than i t i s for boys i s becau se a mi sst ep in a girl h as mu ch mor e di sastrou s con se T n h e t r o i u e i n u s r e n t i s boy d s a s h a a h a c e s t q su l ts O f a mi sstep i n a boy ar e o n ly physica l in char acte r ; th e re su l ts o f th e s am e mi sst ep i n a gi rl m y be physi cal , m oral so ci al an d e co n omi c To spe ak m or e pl ai n l y If a boy th rou gh ign oran ce rashl y in du l ge s in ill ici t sexu al r e lat i on s th e wor st cou se qu en co to him m ay b e in fect i on wi th a ven e re al d i s B u t h e i s n ot con si de r e d immoral , h e i s n ot e ase despised h e is n ot o str aci ze d h e doe s n ot lo se h is s ocial stan din g in th e sl ight e st de gr ee an d when h e i s cu re d Of hi s ven e re al dis e ase h e h as n o d ifi cu l ty in ge tti n g mar ri ed He do e s n ot e ven have t o con ceal hi s pas t se xu al hi s tory from hi s w i fe B u t if a TH E fir st . . , . , , , . , , , . ‘ . 9 10 SEX KN OWLE DGE F O R WO M E N i r l g make s a mi sste p th e con se qu en ce s to h e r ar e te rrible in dee d ; i t m ay n ot o n ly co st h e r h e r health an d so ci al stan di n g sh e m ay have to pay wi th h e r ve ry lif e S h e r u n s th e ri sk O f ve n e re al i n fe cti on th e sam e as th e boy do e s bu t in addi ti o n sh e ru n s th e ri sk O f becomi n g pre gn an t whi ch in ou r pre sen t so To save he r se l f ci al sy stem i s a cata strophe i n d ee d from th e di sgrace Of an i lle git imate chil d sh e m ay have an aborti on produ ce d ; th e aborti on m ay have n o bad r e su l t s, b u t i t m ay, if pe rform e d b u n gli n gly l eave h e r an in val i d for li fe or i t m ay ki ll h e r ou t ri ght If she is so u n fortu n ate as to b e u n able t o i i i e s u n n ybody t o prod n bort o s g v b rt h t c h e e e a a a g t o an il l e gitimate child, whi ch she i s force d in mo st case s t o pu t away in an i n sti tu ti on of some sort — an d in w he re sh e h ope s an d pr ays i t m ay d i e soo n h h e r i do s I f i do n t di e s e a s for t t e s o e n e l a g , th e re st O f h er li fe a D am o cle s sword han gin g ove r he r he ad an d sh e i s in con st an t te rror l e st he r sin be fou n d ou t Sh e do e s n ot p e rmi t h e r self to look for a m at e bu t if sh e d o e s ge t marri e d, th e sp e cte r Of he r an tem atri m on i al e xpe rien ce i s con stan tly before he r e yes A fte r ye ar s an d ye ar s O f ma rri e d li fe th e hu sb an d may divo rce h e r if h e fin ds ou t that sh e had ” “ be fore Sh e kn ew him An d u n le ss th e sin n e d hu sban d i s a broad m in ded m an an d loves he r tru l y an d u n l e ss sh e made a cl e an breas t Of eve rythin g to , . , , . , , ‘ . , , , . , . , , . . - THE P AR AM OU NT NEE D 11 him be fore m arriage , h e r lif e i s con tin u ou s tortu re B u t eve n if th e girl e scape d pr e gn an cy th e me re fin din g ou t that S h e h ad an i ll i ci t e xp e ri e n ce d eprive s h e r Of soci al stan din g or make s h e r a social ou tcas t an d e n ti r e ly d estroys or gr e atly mi n imi z e s h er chan ces O f e ve r marryi n g an d e stabli shi n g a home of he r ow n Sh e mu st re mai n a lon e ly wan de re r to the en d Of h e r day s Th e en ormou s difi e r en oe in th e r e su l t s Of a m i s ste p in a b oy an d a girl i s clearly se e n an d f or thi s r eason al on e , if for n o o the r sex in str u cti on i s Of m ore importan ce t o th e girl than i t is to th e boy B u t the re ar e oth e r import an t r e ason s an d on e Of them i s be au ti fu lly an d tru thfu l ly e xp re sse d by B yron in his tw o we ll kn own lin e s . , , . . , , . , - . Man " Bis ’ s w l ove i s o f man s li fe a ’ om an s whol e e xi ste n ce Y es, l ove i s ’ thin g apart, . woman s whol e li fe S ome m od e rn women mi ght Objact t o thi s The y mi ght say tha t th is w as tru e o f the woman Of th e pas t, w h o w as e xclu de d from al l othe r ave n u e s of hu m an activi ty Th e wom an o f th e pre sen t d ay has othe r in te re st s be si d e s tho se of L ove B u t I cl aim that thi s i s tr u e Of on l y a small p e rce n t age of w omen ; an d in e v en thi s small m in ori ty o f wome n , a ’ . . . . SE X KN OWLE DGE F O R WO M E N 12 tific an d arti stic activi ti e s can n ot take th e p lace Of love ; n o ma tte r h ow b u sy an d su cce ssfu l these women m ay b e th ey will tell you if you en joy thei r co n fiden ce that they ar e u n happy if the ir love li fe i s u n sati sfactory Nothin g n othin g can fill th e voi d m ade by th e lack Of love Th e vari ou s activi tie s m ay h elp t o cove r u p the voi d to prot ect i t from For e ssen tiall y stran ge e ye s, the y can n ot fil l i t Not e xclu si ve ly bu t e ssen w oman i s m ad e for love tin l l y an d a wom an who has h ad n o love in h e r li fe has bee n a fail u r e Th e f ew e xce pti on s that m ay be men ti on e d on l y emphas iz e th e ru l e B u t n ot on l y p sychi cally i s a wom an s love an d sex li fe m ore i mport an t th an a man s physi cally sh e i s al so mu ch mor e cogn i zan t Of h er sex an d mu ch m ore hammre d by th e man i f e st ati on of h e r se x TO tak e bu t on e fu n cti on n at u re than m an i s m en str u ati on From the age 1 3 or 1 4 t o th e age of forty five or fifty i t i s a mon thly re min de r t o woman that sh e i s a woman that sh e i s a cre atu r e O f se x ; an d while to man y women thi s pe ri odi cal ly re cu rri n g fu n cti on i s on ly a sou rce Of some an n oyan ce or di scomf ort to a gr e at n u mbe r it i s a cau se of p ai n he adache sn fi e r in g or com pl e te di sabili ty M an h as n o su ch phe n omen on to an n oy him prac ti cally hi s whole lif e B u t m or e importan t ar e th e r e su l t s Of love u n i on , soci al , scien , , . , . , . . , , . . ’ ’ , , . . - , , , , , , . . - PAR AM OU NT NEED THE 13 rel ati on s A m an aft e r a sexu al re l ati on i s ju st as fre e as h e w as b e for e A woman , if th e re la ti on has re su l te d i n a pre gn an cy whi ch is ge n e rally th e case u n l e ss spe ci al pai n s ar e tak en i t shou l d n ot so r e su l t h as n in e trou bl es ome mo n th s b e for e h e r mon ths of di scomfort i f n ot o f actu al sn fi er in g ; sh e then h as an e xtr emely tryin g an d p ain fu l orde al that O f chil dbi rth, an d the n the r e i s an othe r t ryin g p e r i od , th e p e ri od o f l actati on or of n u r sin g an d O f b ri n gi n g u p th e baby Th e pen al ty se ems almo st too gre at An d whe n th e woman i s on th e poin t of ce asin g to men stru ate sh e do e s n ot do so smoothly an d com f ortabl y S h e ha s t o go throu gh a pe ri od call e d th e men opau se whi ch m ay l ast on e or tw o ye ar s an d whi ch m ay brin g di scomf ort s an d dan ge r s of i ts ow n M an do e s n ot have to go throu gh su ch a di s tin ct pe ri od of de marcati on sep aratin g hi s sexu al from his n on sexu al li fe Al toge the r it can n ot be de n i e d that woman i s mu ch mor e a slave Of h e r sex n at u re th an man i s O f hi s Y e s Natu r e h a s han di capp e d woman mu ch more he avi ly than sh e h a s m an I n short both in vi ew O f th e fact that se xu al i g n or an ce wi th its p o ssible mi sst e p s h as mu ch more disastrou s con sequ en ce s f or th e girl than it has f or th e boy an d in vi ew O f th e fact that th e se x in stin ct an d i ts physi cal an d p sychi c man i fe stati on s o ccu py O f se x . . , , , , , . . . , . - . . , . , , 14 SEX KN OWLE DGE FOR WO M E N mu ch mor e import an t part in woman s li fe than they do in th e life Of m an w e con sid e r th e n ece ssi ty O f sex i n str u cti o n mu ch gr e at e r i n th e ca se O f wom an than i n th e case O f m an I d o n ot wi sh to be m i s u n de r stood a s u n d e r e stim at i n g th e n e e d O f se x i n — on l y I con side r th e n e ed stru cti on f or th e mal e e ven gre at e r in th e case O f th e fe mal e ’ a , . . C HAP TER Tw THE FE MAL E S E X o O RGA NS : THEI R organ s whi ch p rimar il y di stin gu i sh on e sex from th e othe r ar e th e sex organ s It i s by th e ai d Of the sex organ s that childr en ar e b e gotten an d brou ght in to th e world that th e race i s r epr odu ced I t i s f or thi s reason that th e se x an d p e rpe tu at e d organ s ar e al so calle d th e R e produ cti ve O rgan s The fir st thin g w e mu st do i s to b e come fam il i ar with th e str u ctu r e an d l ocati on Of th e sex org an s ; i n othe r word s w e mu st get a fai r i d ea of thei r TH E . , . . , A n atomy . Th e femal e se x organ s al so call e d the r epr odu c tive or gen e rati ve organ s are di vid ed in to in tern al Th e in t e rn al ar e th e mo st impor tan t an d e xt e rn al an d con si st o f : th e ovari e s Fallopi an tu b e s u t e ru s or womb an d vagin a Th e exte rn al sex organ s of th e fe mal e ar e : the vu l va, hymen , an d clitoris A mo n g th e e xt e rn al organ s ar e al so gen er al l y in clu de d th e mo n s Ven e r i s an d th e br east s or mam mary glan d s , , . , , , . . . S EX KN OWLE DGE FOR WO M E N 16 THE I NTER N AL S E X O R GAN S ovar ies ar e th e essen ti al organ s O f r eprodu cti on For i t i s th ey that gen e r at e th e e ggs or ova or 001116 3 whi ch aft e r b e comi n g fer ti l iz ed or femm d ated by th e sp e rm atozo a of th e male Th e Ovari es Th e . . , , , , , d evelop in to chil dr e n Wi thou t th e ovari e s Of th e female th e same as wi thou t th e t e sticle s of th e mal e n n i e n o c il wh h th y c orr s po d h dr e c o ld t c e u b e o ) ( be gotten an d th e en ti re hu man race wou ld qu ickly di sapp e ar from ou r plan e t Th e ovari e s ar e two in n u mb e r ; the y ar e e mb e dd e d i n th e br oa d l ig am en ts whi ch su pport th e womb in th e pe lvi s on e on e ach T hey ar e O f a grayi sh or whiti sh si d e Of th e womb pin k color an d ar e abou t an i n ch an d a hal f l on g — thre e qu art e r s Of an in ch wid e an d on e thi rd Of an They wei gh from on e e ighth to on e in ch thi ck qu arte r o f an Ou n ce The ir su rface i s eithe r smooth or rou gh an d pu cke r e d Thi n k Of a large blan che d . , , , . , . , , - , - . . . THE FE MAL E S Ex o al m n d an d o u y will have 17 OR GANS pre tty fai r ide a of the a Fallopi an t u b e s ( so call e d from F allopiu s a gre at an atomi st who d i s cove r e d them ; al so calle d ovidu ct s : e gg co n du ct or s becau se they con du ct th e e ggs from th e ovary in to the u t e ru s ) ar e tw o v e ry thi n tu b e s, e xt en din g on e from e ach u pp e r an gle O f th e womb to th e ovarie s ; b u t at th ei r ovari an e n d th e y e xp an d i n to a frin ge d Th e frin ge s ar e r e an d tr u m mt sh ap e d e xtr e mi ty fe rred to as fim bria The y ar e abou t five in che s lon g an d o n ly abou t on e si xt e e n th O f an in ch in di ame t e r ; th e fu n cti on O f th e tu be s i s to catch th e ov a as they bu r st forth from th e ovari e s an d to con vey them to the u t e ru s T akin g in to co n si de r ati on th e ve ry n ar or cal i be r o f th e F allopi an tu be s it i s r ow lxw men e asy to u n de r st an d why e ve n a ve ry sli ght in flam mati on i s apt to clog th e m u p to seal the i r mou th s or O pen i n g s thu s r e n d e ri n g th e woman s ter i l e or i n ca n h i l F i n e r l O f h v g dr F llop h e a c o i f h a t e i a an p , “ tu be s are clogged u p th e e ggs, or ov a have n o w ay Of r e achin g th e u t e ru s Th e Gr e ek n ame f or th e Fall opi on tu b e i s salp in x i n x k l s e e a i n e n e p Gr m t b fl t o a u s A n i n m a m n a i ( ) Of th e Fall op i an t u b e i s the re for e call e d salpin gi ti s The Uteru s Th e u ter u s or womb is th e organ in w hi ch th e fe rtil i ze d ovu m or e gg, grows an d de ve l Th e Th e Fall opi an Tu bes . , , , - . . - . , , , , , , . ” , , . . . . , S E X KN OWLE DGE FOR WO M E N hild It i s a hollow mu scu l ar organ abo u t th e si z e of a pe ar wi th thi ck wall s cap able u n d e r th e in flu en ce of pr e gn an cy O f gr e at e xp an si on Th e bro ad p art O f th e p e ar i s ca lle d an d growth th e bod y O f th e u t e ru s ; th e lowe r n arrow p art i s The u te ru s cal le d th e n e ck O f th e u t eru s or cer vix in th e adu lt girl or woman i s abou t thr e e i n che s lon g, two i n ch e s bro ad in its u pp e r p art an d n e arly an I t we i gh s from an Ou n ce to an ou n ce in ch thi ck Wh en th e u t e ru s i s in a pregn an t con an d a h alf di ti on i t i n cr ease s en ormou sly both in siz e an d in weight as w e w i ll see in a fu t u r e chap te r Th e cavi ty O f th e u t e ru s i s somewhat tri an gu l ar in sh ape ; at e ach u p pe r an gl e i s th e small op en i n g commu n i cati n g wi th th e F allop i an tu b e ; th e u p pe r porti on of the u te ru s i s call e d th e fu n du s ; th e e xte rn al op en in g o f th e womb si tu a te d in th e cen te r of th e ce rvix , i s calle d th e mou th o f th e womb or th e 03 or ex te r ops i n to a c . , , , . , . . . , , . , , , n al O S , . te ru s i s situ ate d in the cen te r Of th e p elvi s, be twe en th e bladde r an d th e r ectu m It i s su pporte d by certai n li gam en t s th e chi e f Of whi ch ar e th e broad ligamen t s ; bu t on ac cou n t Of gen e ral weak too ha rd physical labor or li ftin g heavy n e ss w e ight s th e li gam en t s m ay str e t ch , an d th e u t e ru s may sin k down low in th e vag in a, an d w e then have Or th e con di ti on kn ow n as prol ap se of th e w omb Th e u . ” ‘ , , , , , . THE Th e V agin a F E M ALE S E X O RGA NS i a v [ gn in Latin — a 21 h th ] The vagin a i s th e tu b e or can al which se rve s as a pas w h u e e e n e n sa a t w e e t u h b t r o t d s d t i a e f u s e O h e t y g body It exten d s from th e ext e rn al gen i tals or vu lva to th e n e ck of th e womb embracin g th e latte r for It i s a stron g fib r om u scu l ar can al, some di st an ce li n e d wi th mu co u s membr an e I t i s n ot smooth in si d e bu t arr an ge d i n fold s or r u g cc so th at when n e ce ssary as du r in g chi ldb i rth i t can stre tch en or m ou sl y an d pe rmi t th e passag e of a chi ld s head Th e len gth of th e vagin al can al i s b e twe e n thre e an d fiv e i n che s bu t i t i s in ge n e r al mu ch mor e cap aci ou s in women that hav e born e on e or mor e chil dr en than in thos e who h ave n ot born e an y Ne ar th e vagin al en tran ce ar e situ ate d tw o smal l i h e o f e n e n r l d th y e bo u t t s z e t e s a a a d s e cr a a e a p ; g mu cu s Th ey ar e call e d B artholin s glan d s ; occa si on all y th e y b e come i n flam e d an d gi ve a good d e al Of tro u ble — Th e Hym an [ hym en in Gre ek a membran e ] Th e e xt e rn al ope n in g O f th e v agin a i n vi rgin s that i s i n gi rls or wome n w h o have n ot had se xu al in te r cou r se i s al mo st e n ti r e ly clo se d by a membr an e calle d th e “ Th e vu lg ar n ame for hym e n i s hymen mai d en h ead Th e hym e n m ay be of vari ou s shape s, an d Of difl ere n t co n si ste n cy I n some girl s i t i s a v e ry thi n m embr an e , whi ch tear s ve ry r e adily ; in othe rs i t i s a s ea . - . , , . . , , , , , ’ . , . , ’ . . . , , , , . . . KN O WL E DGE SEX F OR WO M E N qu i te tou gh On the u pp e r margin or in th e cen te r of the hymen the re i s an op en in g whi ch pe rmi t s an y secr e ti on from th e vag in a an d th e blood from th e I n r ar e ca se s the r e i s n o u t er u s to come thro u gh op en i n g in th e hymen that i s th e vagin a i s e n tir ely Su ch a hym en i s cal led i m p crfor ate ( n ot clo se d p e rforat e d ) Whe n th e gi rl b e gin s to men stru at e , th e blood can n o t com e ou t an d i t accu mu late s i n th e vagin a I n su ch ca se s th e hymen mu st be Open e d I n some ca se s th e hymen i s con or sli t by a do ctor n h i n i ll e i i t a b s e t th t i s t g rl bor n w tho t e a a s n u a ; y g y hymen Whi le th e hymen i s u su all y ru ptu re d d u r in g th e fir st in te r cou r se , it in some cas e s b ein g elasti c an d str e tch abl e p e r si st s u n torn aft e r se xu al It wil l the re for e b e see n that j u st as in t ercou r se the pr e sen ce of th e hymen i s n o ab solu te p roo f o f vi rgin i ty , so i s th e ab sen ce of th e hymen n o ab solu t e p roof that th e gi rl h as h ad se x u al relati on s S h e might have b een born wi thou t an y hymen or it might hav e b e en r u ptu re d by vagin al examin ati on by a vagin al dou che by scr atchi n g t o r elieve itchi n g or by some acciden t . . , , . . . . , . , , , . . , , , , . THE EX TER N AL GEN ITALS Vu l va call e d th e Th e ar e . Th e vu l va e . xtern al gen i tals of th e female The vu l va con si st s of th e lab i a THE FE MAL E S E X 23 O RGA NS majora ( me an in g th e l arge r lip s ) whi ch ar e on th e ou tsi de an d whi ch in th e grown u p girl are cover ed w i th hai r an d th e l ab i a mi n or a ( th e smal le r lip s ) , whi ch ar e on th e i n si d e an d whi ch ar e u su al ly on ly se e n wh e n th e lab i a m ajor a ar e t aken ap art Th e M on s Ven eri s Th e e l evati on ab ove th e vu l v a whi ch du rin g pu b e rty be come s cove re d w i th hai r i s calle d by th e f an cif u l n am e m on s V en e r i s or V e n u s mou n tain It i s u su ally well p adde d with fatty ti s , - , . , . , ’ , , . me . Th e Cl i toris mal l body abou t an in ch i n l en gth situ at e d b e n e ath th e mon s Ven e ri s an d partly or e n ti r e ly cov e r ed by th e u pp e r bord e r s of th e labi a min or a Th e U reth ra B e tw ee n th e cl itori s abov e an d th e open in g O f th e vagin a b e low i s situ at e d th e op en in g of th e u r e th r a or th e u ri n ary me atu s throu gh whi ch th e u rin e passe s M an y w om e n ar e so i gn or an t or l e t u s say in n o cen t th at th e y thin k th e u ri n e p a sse s ou t throu gh th e vagin a Thi s i s n ot so Th e vagin a h as n othi n g to d o with th e pro ce ss o f u rin ati on A gai n en u m e r atin g th e femal e se x organ s bu t i n th e r eve r se ord e r from be for e b ackward or from Th e mo n s V e n e ri s an d th e ou t in ward, w e h av e : l abi a majora or th e e xt e rn al l ip s o f th e vu l va ; th e se ar e th e plai n ly vi sibl e p art s of th e femal e ge n it al organ s When th e l abi a majora ar e taken apart w e Th e cl i tori s i s . a s , . . , , . , , . . . , , , . , , S EX 24 KN OWLE DGE F O R WO M E N labia min ora ; whe n th e labia major a an d min ora ar e taken apart w e can se e or fee l th e cli tori s or th e r emain s of th e hyme n We an d th e hym en then have th e vagin a a large st retchable m u scu l o me mbr an o u s can al in th e u ppe r porti on of whi ch th e n e ck o f th e womb or th e ce rvix can be se e n n e i e e fi wh p c u l m s u s d or f lt by h r e e a s u t e n ) ( g On ly th e ce rvix or n eck o f th e womb can b e se en bu t th e r e st of th e womb th e broad e r porti on can b e e asi ly felt an d e xam in ed by on e han d in th e va gin a an d th e othe r han d ove r th e abdome n C on ti n u ou s wi th th e u te ru s are th e F allop ian t u b e s an d be low th e tru m p e t shap e d en ds o f th e F allopi an tu be s ar e th e ovari es e mb edde d in th e bro ad liga men t s on e on each sid e Th e B reasts Th e b re as t s also call e d m am mar y gl an d s or m ammze [mamm a in Latin breast ] m ay b e co n side r e d a s acce ssory organ s O f r eprodu cti on T hey ar e o f n o import an ce i n th e male in whom they ar e u su ally ru dimen t ary bu t the y ar e of great import an ce i n th e fem ale They man u factu r e milk whi ch is n e ce ssary f or th e prope r n u tri ti on o f th e in fan t an d th e y ad d a gre at de al to th e b e au ty an d T hey ar e thu s a help attracti v en e ss O f th e woman to the woman in ge ttin g a mat e or a hu sb an d Th e proj ectin g e l evati on o f th e br e ast which th e chil d take s in hi s mou th when n u r sin g i s calle d th e n i pple ; se e th e . , , , , , , , . , , , , , . , - , , . . , , , , . , , . , , . . , , THE 25 F E MAL E S EX O R GA NS darke r colore d cal l ed th e ar e ola the r a e a su rrou n di n g th e n ippl e i s . l se x organ s ar e situ ate d in th e lowe r p art of the abdomin al cavi ty th e p art that i s call e d Th e me an in g of th e th e p el vis or p e lvi c cavi ty word pelvi s in Latin i s b asin Th e p elvi s al so r e fe rred to as th e p elvic girdle or p elvic arch form s an d i s comp ose d of three powe rfu l a b o n y b asin bon e s : th e sacru m con si stin g of fiv e ve rtebrae fu se d t oge the r an d co n sti tu tin g th e sol id p art o f th e spin e or ve rt ebral colu mn in th e back an d th e two hip bon e s on e on e ach S i de Th e tw o hipbon e s mee t in fron t, formi n g th e pu bic ar ch Th e hi pbon e s are calle d in Lat in th e o ssa in n om i n ata ( n ame le ss bon e s ) an d e ach hi pbon e i s com h i u n e i e h o d f thr bo e h e ili u m sc h m a d e e n t t O e s : t s p Th e thi gh s ar e attached to th e hi pbon e s O S p u bi s an d to th e hi pbon e s ar e also attach ed th e l a rg e gl u “ teal mu scl e s w hi ch form th e bu tto cks , or th e se at Th e p elvi s Of th e female d i fi e r s con sid e rably from the p e lvi s of th e mal e Th e female p elvi s i s shal lowe r an d wi de r l e ss massive th e m argin s Of th e bon e s ar e m or e widely sep arat e d thu s givin g gr e at e r p romin en ce to th e hi p s ; th e sacr u m i s s e an d " hort r Th e in te rn a , . , , . , , , , , , . , . , , . , ” , . . , , , C HAPTER THREE THE PHYSI OLO GY O F THE FE MAL E S EX ORGA NS TH E importan o f an organ dep en d s u p on its n o i n u n i n c t n a u po wh t t do e n m h po u s d o t O c u S a f what i t i s I t is importan t to kn ow th e siz e str u c tu re an d locati on Of an organ bu t i t i s still mor e im port an t t o kn ow its fu n ct i on ; in othe r word s for ou r pu rpo se i t i s mor e import an t to kn ow th e physi ol ogy than the an atomy of the sex organ s ce , , . , , , . FUN C TI ON OF THE O V AR IES Like th e te sticle s in m an S O th e ovarie s i n woman They are th e fu n da ar e th e e sse n ti al se xu al organ s me n tal organ s wi thou t whi ch th e othe r sexu al or gan s ar e u sele ss A l so like th e t e sti cl e s in m an th e ovari e s hav e tw o di stin ct fu n cti on s man u factu rin g On e fu n cti on i s to man u tw o di stin ct su b st an ce s factu re e ggs ; thi s calle d th e OOge n e ti c or e gg pro d u cin g fu n cti o n i s its r acial fu n cti on ; wi tho u t i t th e r ace cou 1d n ot p e rp e tu at e i t se l f B u t th e ovary B e si de s th e ova h as al so an in d i vid u al fu n cti on , . , . , , . - , , . . 28 , res w hat w e cal l an in te rn al secr e ti o n w hi ch i s ab s orb ed b y th e bl ood an d w hi ch is of th e g r ea te st importan ce to th e w oman h e r Wh il e th e man u f actu re Of ova be gi n s on ly se l f at pu be r ty w i th m en stru ati o n an d cl o se s at th e men opau se th e m an u factu re Of th e in te rn al secre ti on last s thr ou g ho u t th e woman s e n ti re life This whi ch con s i sts of va ri ou s chem ical su b secr e ti on stan ce s h as a tre me n dou s in flu e n ce n ot on l y on th e de ve lopm en t of th e woman S body bu t al so on h e r fee lin gs Fir st of all it i s n ece ssa ry for th e devel opmen t O f th e wom an s sp eci al ch a racte r i sti cs or s e con dary s em al cha r ac te r s Withou t that in te rn al secre ti on o f th e ovari e s a woman wou ld look more or l e ss like a m an ; Sh e wou ld n ot d eve lop h e r be au ti fu l rou n d ed form h e r pre tty lon g hair h er bre ast s h e r broad pe lvi s h e r femin i n e voi ce etc S econ d th e se cre ti o n i s n e ce ssary to th e prop e r d ev elopme n t o f he r othe r sexu al organ s ; i f th e ovari e s ar e cu t ou t th en th e u t e ru s an d th e vag in a an d ev en th e vu lva shr ive l u p Thi r d it i s that in t e rn al secr eti o n that e xcite s in wom an sexu al de sire an d mak e s her en j oy r e l ati o n s wi th th e mal e sex If th e ovarie s ar e cu t away p articu larly i f i t i s don e early in li fe th e woman h as n o sexu al d e sir e an d n o on joymou t F ou r th it con tribu te s t o th e gen e ral th e ova r y m an u f actu , . , , , ’ . , , ’ , . ’ , . , , , . , , , . , . , , . , , , 30 S EX KN OWLE DGE F O R W O M E N he al th , wellbein g e n e rgy an d men tal al e rtn e ss of th e woman Y ou see th e import an ce of th e in te rn al ovari an wi ll r e ad ily u n de r st an d why, an d you se cr e ti o n when th e ovari es ar e remove d by op e rati on th e woman , p articu larly if sh e i s you n g u n de rgo e s su ch marke d chan ge s It i s b e cau se w e r e cogn i z e n ow th e gr e at import an ce o f th e ovari e s that w e al ways whe n op e ratin g ou di se ase d ovari e s le ave at l east a sm all pi e ce Of ovary i f at all po ssible N u mber of Ova Wh en th e female in fan t i s b orn h e r ovari e s co n t ai n a s man y ova or e gg s as th ey I n fac t th ey con t ain mor e than e ve r wi ll con t ai n th ey wi ll at pu b e rty For it i s e stimat e d that at ov a ; th e bi rth e ach ovary con tain s abou t majority O f the se h oweve r di sapp ear S O that at th e ag e o f pu b e rty e ach ovary con t ai n s on ly abo u t 30 000ov a A s on ly on e ovu m rip e n s e ach mon th from th e time of pu b e rty to th e time o f th e me n op au se i n 4 0 h s u 0 v a a o t o t e u t mo t d r g i u 3 0 o t 0 b e a t ( a l i fe ti m e ) an d as on ly a doz en or two ov a wou ld b e n e ce ssary for th e p rop agati on of th e race it u n n e ces sary an se ems a su p e r ab u n dan ce o f ov a l avi shn e ss B u t n atu r e is lavi sh whe r e th e pr opa n ed A i n n f e f i o p i e o r port o t i n h c o O e s c s s c a t e g an ovary or of both ovari e s might b e come di se ase d an d thou san ds Of ova might b e come u n fit for f e r , , . , , , . , . , , . , . . , , , . . . , , , , . . , P HYSIOLO GY OF THE S E X O RGA NS 31 t re the re fore pu ts in an ext ra rese rve We see a still more strikin g e xample Of su pply th i s e xtreme extr avagan t lavi shn e ss in m an ; on ly on e spe rm atoz oOn i s n e ce ssary to i mpre gn at e the ovu m an d on ly on e spe rm atozoOn can p en etr ate the ovu m ; n eve r thel e ss each n ormal e j acu lati on of se m en con t ain s b e t w e en a qu ar te r an d h alf a mi lli on S p e rm atoz o a Th e Graafian Fol li cl es E ach pr imi tive or pr imor di al ovu m i s imb e dde d in a li ttle vesicl e or f ol licl e whi ch i s gen e rally kn own as Gr aafian foll i cl e an d th e r e ar e as m an y Gr aafian folli cle s as the re fi fi d n e T h G r l i e f o l c l w r r t e e e s a s a ar e ova a ( — — in 1 6 72 by a De lf t scrib e d abou t 250 y ear s ago physi ci an n ame d De Gr aaf hen ce th e n am e ) U n til pu b e rty that i s th e comm e n cemen t of men stru ati on th e Gr aafian folli cle s wi th th e O Ocyt e s or primi tiv e Bu t ova ar e i n a mor e or l e ss dorman t con di ti on with th e on set Of pu b erty th e r e comm en ce s a p e ri od Thi s p e ri od of O f i n t en se ac tiv ity i n th e ovari e s an d activi ty i s r ep e at e d r e gu l arly o n ce a mo n th i t con sti tu te s th e pro ce ss of ovu la ti on an d m en Th e tw o pro ce sse s ar e clo sely th ou gh s tr u ati on n ot cau sally co n n e ct e d Ovu lati on con si st s in the mon thl y matu rati on an d e xtru si on Of a rip e ovu m ; men stru ati o n whi ch will b e fu rthe r di scu ssed in a se p ar at e ch apt e r co n si st s i n th e mon thl y di scharge tili zati on ; n a u . , . . , , ‘ . , . , , . . , . . , , ° SEX 32 KN OWL E DGE F O R W O M E N o f blood mi xe d wi th mu cu s from th e in si de lin i n g of th e u te ru s E ve ry twen ty e ight d ays from th e time of pu be rty to th e time O f th e men op au se a Gr aafian folli cl e bu r st s an d an ovu m i s extru d e d from th e ovary B e for e th e folli cle bu r st s it swell s an d e n l arge s an d r e ach e s th e su rfac e of th e ovary ; th e whole folli cl e i s con ge st e d wi th blood bu t at on e poi n t n e ar th e su r face of th e ova ry i t i s p al e an d h e r e th e ru ptu r e tak e s place an d thi n , - . , , . , , , . FUN C TI ON OF THE O THE R GEN I TAL OR GAN S Fu n cti on of th e Fal lopi an Tu b es fu n cti on Of th e F allop i an tu b es or ovi du ct s as the y ar e some tim es called i s to catch th e ovu m as it bu r st s throu gh th e ovary an d to co n du ct i t from th e ovary in to th e It i s while th e ovu m i s in th e n arrow lu men u t e ru s O f th e tu b e th at th e sp e rm at ozoon whi ch h as trav ell e d u p from th e u t e ru s u su ally fin d s it an d i t i s in th e tu b e n ear its e n tran ce to th e womb that A ft e r th e ovu m impr e gn ati o n u su ally t ak e s place i s impr egn at e d or fe cu n d at e d i t slowly move s down t o th e u te ru s where i t attache s i t self an d r emain s u n til i t i s r e ad y to an d grow s f or n i n e mo n ths come ou t an d start an in d e p e n d en t li fe Th e u t e ru s or womb i s th e ho u se o f th e embryo alm o st from th e mom e n t o f co n ce pti o n to th e mo . Th e f . , , , . , , , . P HYS I OL O GY OF THE S E X O RGA N S 33 birth Wi thi n th e thi ck warm shel te r ed wall s Of th e u te ru s th e chi ld grows develop s e at s an d br e ath e s u n til all i ts organ s an d fu n cti o n s hav e r eached su ch a stage o f p er fecti o n that i t can live by i t se lf an d f or i tself An d thi s m ay be sai d to b e th e sole fu n cti on of the u t e ru s or at l east its sole F or the othe r fu n cti on of the u se fu l fu n cti on u te ru s men str u ati on , can n ot b e sai d to b e a n e ce s It i s a n ormal fu n cti on sary or a u se fu l fu n cti on becau se i t o ccu r s re gu l arly i n eve ry he althy woman du rin g h e r chil d b earin g p e ri od bu t n ot e ve ry n or m al fu n cti on i s a n ece s sary or u se fu l fu n cti on No t eve rythin g th at i s i s ri ght or u se fu l Fu n cti on of th e V agin a Th e vag in a i s th e can al in whi ch sexu al i n t e rcou r se t ake s place It r ece ives th e mal e organ ( p en i s ) du rin g th e sexu al act an d se rve s as a t empor ary r epo si tory f or th e mal e s e A ft e r th e spe rmatozo a h av e r e ache d th e me n u t e ru s th e vagin a h as n o fu rth e r fu n ct i o n t o pe r for m men t Of . , , , . , . , . - , . . . . , . , . THE S E C ONDAR Y S E X CHAR A C TER S organ s con stitu te th e prim ary sex char ac te rs It i s they that di sti n gu i sh primari ly on e sex from an othe r B u t the r e ar e n u merou s othe r sex char act e r s or sex di ffe r en ce s whi ch whi le n ot so im Th e sex . . 34 KN OWLE DGE F O R W O M E N SEX p ortan t se r ve to d ifi e r en ti ate th e se xe s at the same ti me formin g poin t s O f attr acti o n b e t w een on e sex For in stan ce th e b e ard an d mu stache an d an oth e r ar e a di stin ct ma l e char ac t e ri sti c an d co n sti t u t e on e o f th e se con dary male sex charac t e r s Th e sec on d ar y se x ch ar ac t e r s are v e ry n u me rou s ; on e might say that e ach on e of th e b i lli o n s o f ce ll s in th e body b e ar s th e impr e ss of th e sex to whi ch it b e lon gs Th e e n ti re female Ske le t on Fi r st th e skel e to n di ff e r s from th e male skel eto n ; all th e bon e s ar e sm all e r an d mor e gr acil e ; th e p e lvi s as w e have Then th e m u s see n b e for e i s sh all ow e r an d wi d e r Th e e n tir e cl e s ar e small e r an d mor e rou n ded co n tou r o f th e body i s rou n d e d r ath e r than an gu lar Th e S kin i s fin e r so fte r more d elicate as in m an Th e hai r on th e h e ad is lo n ge r an d O f a fin e r te xtu r e whil e ove r th e body th e hai r i s also fin e r an d le ss Th e voi ce i s fin e r more ple asan t an d O f abu n dan t Th e br e ast s ar e well a hi gh e r p i tch ( sopr an o ) develope d an d se rve an importan t pu rpo se whi le in m en th ey ar e ru dimen tary Th e br e athin g i s al s o di fi e r en t ; woman b r e ath e s prin cip all y wi th th e u p m n e r a e e i p rt O f c h t w th low r t h s a h e t T h e e p brai n i s small e r an d i ts con volu ti on s somewhat le ss comple x in woman Woman difi er s con si der ably from m an n ot on ly i w e n n s b h y lly h v l o m t lly ca as e e e d u a s t s en a a a p , , . . . . , , . , . , . , . , . , , . , , . , . . , , ' C HAP TER TH E S E X TH E in stin ct, FO U R INSTI NC T whi ch throu gh n atu re f r om th e l owes t an imal to th e hi gh e st i s th e in bo rn i mpu l se cr avi n g or d e si re whi ch on e sex has f or th e o the r : th e male for the female an d th e fe ma le f or th e mal e Thi s in s tin ct thi s de si r e for th e opp o si te sex, whi ch i s born wi th u s an d which ma n i f e st s i tse l f at a ve ry e arly age i s n ot an ythin g to be The re i s n othin g di sgracefu l n othin g ashamed O f It i s a n o rmal n atu r al healthy in stin ct sin fu l in i t im plan te d in u s by n a tu re f or vari ou s re as on s an d ab solu te ly in di sp en sable for th e p e rp et u ati o n o f th e If th e re we re an ythin g to b e ashame d of i t r ace w ou l d be th e l ack O f thi s sex in stin ct for wi tho u t i t the r ace w ou l d qu ickl y di e ou t N ot R espon sibl e f or Thou ghts an d Feeli n gs It i s n ece ssary to impr e ss thi s poin t b e cau se man y i n d s h ave b e en p e rv e rt e d e n wom w h o m n s e l i r a d s g by a vi ci ou s so calle d moral i ty worry them selve s to ill n ess, broo d an d be come hypo ch on dri ac b e cau se they thin k they have commi tt e d a gri evou s sin i n se x r u n s all , , , . , , . . , , , , . , , . . , , - , so TH E S E X INS TIN C T 37 xpe rien cin g a de si re for sexu al r elati on s or for th e Al toge the r i t i s n ece s e mbr ace o f a ce rtai n m an sary to impr e s s u pon th e growi n g gi rl when th e occasi on pre sen t s it self that a thou ght or a fe elin g An acti o n m ay b e bu t a tho u ght can n e ve r b e S i n fu l or a fe elin g can n ot Why " B ecau se w e ar e n ot r e spon sible f or ou r thou ght s an d fee lin gs ; they ar e n ot u n de r ou r co n trol Thou gh i t do es n ot me an that when they d o ar i se w e ar e to giv e them fu ll sway We shou ld attempt to comb at them an d drive them away bu t th e re i s n othin g to b e ash ame d of, b ecau se f or th ei r origin w e ar e n ot re spon sible R espon si bl e f or A cti on s Ou r acti on s ar e u n der ou r con trol to a ce rt ain e x ten t at l e ast an d if w e d o a b ad or i n j u r i ou s ac t w e have commi tted a sin Th e d esi r e for th e sex an d ar e mor ally re spon sible u al act i s n o mor e sin fu l than th e de si r e f or food i s whe n on e i s hu n gry B u t th e pe r forman ce of the act m ay u n d e r ce rt ai n ci r cu m stan ce s b e as si n fu l as th e e atin g of food whi ch th e hu n gr y m an Obt ain e d by robb in g an othe r fellow bein g j u st as p oor as e . , , , . . . . , . . , , , . . , , - , pre achi n g to you B u t I am n ot an ex I am advocatin g n ei the r tr emi st n or a hypo cri te On e i s as b ad , or asce ti ci sm n or l i cen ti ou sn e ss al mo st as b ad , as th e othe r Wh at I am t ryin g to do i s to in cu l cate in you r I am n ot . . . . 38 SEX KN OWL E DGE F O R W O M E N ds, if p o ssible, a san e well balan ce d vi ew of al l thi n gs sexu al For I b eli eve that wron g p e r ve rte d vi ews Of th e physi ology an d hygi en e of th e sex ac t an d of sex mor ali ty th at i s th e prop e r r elati on shi p Of th e se xe s, ar e r e spo n sibl e for u n told mi se ry f or meal Both sexe s su fi e r bu t th e fe male cu l abl e su fi e ri n g Th e woman alw ays p ays more sex su fi e r s mor e Thi s i s du e to h er n atu ral di sabi li ti e s ( men stru a ti on p regn an cy l ac tati on ) to h er age lon g r epros si on , t o th e fact that S h e mu st b e sou ght bu t n eve r seek, an d t o h e r e con omi c de p en den ce For th e above re aso n s sex in stru cti on i s a m at — thi s fact h as te r Of dou ble impor tan ce to woman be en e mp has i ze d in th e first chap te r B u t woman s di sabili ti e s i mpo se u pon u s an othe r du ty : becau s e sh e car ri e s th e he avi e st bu rden becau s e sh e always n n e h i m a y s mor e d a rly th a e b m i n u m a e c t c o t e s p ben t u po n m an t o tre at h e r wi th sp ecial con si dera ti on , wi th ge n u in e ki n dn ess an d chi valry mi n - , . , , , , . , . . , - , , . , ’ . , , . C HAP TER FI vl PU B E RTY PU B ERTY i s th e mo st won de rfu l the mo st sign ifi Importan t as i t i s in can t p e r i od in a gi rl s li f e a boy s li fe an d d evelopmen t i t i s sti ll mor e so in A t thi s p e ri od the r e ar e O fte n laid the a gi rl s ’ fou n dati o n s whi ch eithe r mak e or ma r th e girl s , ’ . ’ , ’ . mean in g of th e word pu be rty is matu rity It i s th e p e ri od at whi ch th e gi rl an d th e boy re ach sexu al matu r i ty ; in oth e r word s th e p e ri od at whi ch th e sex glan d s O f th e boy b e gin to gen e rat e sp erm a tozoa an d th e sex glan d s Of th e girl be gin to m a tu re an d e xp el e ggs or ov a ; with th e gi rl pu be rty i s m arke d by an additi on al phe n ome n on whi ch h as n o an alogu e i n th e b oy n am ely m en stru ati on Physi cal C han ges Th e word pu b e rty i s derived from th e word pu ber whi ch in L atin mean s ma tu r e rip e B u t th e word pu b er i s i t sel f de riv e d from th e word pu bes which in Latin me an s fin e hai r or down F or at thi s p e ri od Of matu rity al l mam mal s ( that i s an imal s which have br e asts an d n u r se th ei r you n g ) b egin to d evelop a grow t h of hai r Y ou Th e . , , , , . , . , , . , . . 39 40 S EX KN OWLE DGE F O R W O M E N ow that ou r e n ti re body with th e e xcepti o n of th e p alms of th e h an d s an d th e sol e s of th e fe e t i s cove r e d wi th in n u me r able hai r follicl e s an d from ou r b i rth ou r e n ti re body wi th th e e xcepti on n ame d i s cove re d wi th fin e hai r Th e h ai r m ay b e too d eli bu t it i s the re an d w ith a magn i cate to b e se e n fyi n g glass you can se e i t withou t an y trou bl e B u t at pu b e rty th e hai r i n cr e ase s i n thi ckn e ss an d in qu an ti ty, an d b ecome s abu n dan t in place s wh er e i t — w as hardly n oti ce able b e for e th e u pp e r lip an d face in boys, an d th e armpi t s an d l owe r p art o f th e abdome n in both boy s an d girl s An d so th e fir st app ar e n t phy si cal S i gn of pu b e rty in a gir l i s th e g radu al app earan ce of hai r i n th e armpi ts on th e mon s V en e ri s an d th e l abi a major a B u t all th e gen i tal organ s ar e u n de rgoin g rapi d devel opme n t ; th e vu lva th e vagi n a th e u te ru s an d th e ov ari es an d th e ovari e s b ecome la rg e r whi ch u p to that time we r e e lab oratin g an in te rn al se cr e ti on o n l y, n ow al so b e gin to man u f actu r e ov a ; in othe r word s th e mo n thly pro ce ss of ovu l ati o n i s be gu n S yn chron ou sly wi th th e pro ce ss o f ovu l a ti on the re commen ce s th e mo n thly fu n cti on of m en The br e ast s als o i n cr ease in siz e assu me stru ati on th e charac te ri stic con tou r deve lop thei r glan du l ar su b st an ce an d b e come cap abl e of se cre tin g mi lk for th e u se Of an y p o ssible O fi spri n g D u rin g thi s p e ri od kn , , , , , . , , . . , . , , , , . , . , , , . PUB E RTY 41 deve lopme n t they are Oft en ve ry sen siti ve t o the tou ch or fe el p ai n fu l wi th ou t b ein g tou che d Bu t n ot on l y th e gen i tal organ s u n d e rgo grow t h — th e e n ti r e body p arti ci p ate s in an d d e v elopm e n t th e pro ce ss Th e growth i n height i s th e mo st r apid at thi s p e r i od ; th e gr e ate st growth tak e s place i n — Th e p e lvi s be come s th e li mb s l egs an d arm s bro ade r an d th e che st or thorax al so b ecome s b ro ade r an d large r Th e mu scl e s b ecome larger an d rou n de r an d fin ally give the gi rl the b e au tif u l woman ly form Psychi c Chan ges B u t th e chan ges are n ot on l y ’ physi cal ; th e chan ge s that tak e place in th e gi rl s p sychi c sph e r e du rin g th e pu b e rtal year s ar e also hi ghly importan t That i s th e p e ri o d of th e d e vel opm e n t Of th e e moti on s ; sh e i s ove rflowin g wi th e moti on ; sh e b e comes se n si tive ; i n h e r r el ati on s wi th boys an d m en sh e b ecome s self con sci ou s Di stin ct se xu al d e si r e fortu n ate ly do e s n ot mak e i ts app e ar an ce in th e girl at thi s p e ri od as i t do es in th e boy bu t sh e b ecome s fille d wi th vagu e u n d efin e d an d “ ” It i s the p e ri od of cru shes u n d e fin abl e lon gin gs whe n th e girl i s apt to be stow h er ove rflowin g em o ti on on a gi rl fri en d The re i s n othi n g r epr eh en si — bl e in th e se cru she s the y act as a safe ty valve an d o n ly i n r ar e ca se s ar e th e y apt t o l ead t o ab n o r mal d ev elopmen t Thi s i s al so th e pe ri od of of . . . , . . . . - . , . . . , SEX 42 KN OWLE DGE F O R W O M E N day dre ami n g o f roman cin g ; th e gi rl like s to r ead love storie s an d n ove l s i n which S h e i den tifie s he rsel f with th e he roin e A n d it mak e s qu ite some di ff e ren ce as to what th e gi rl r e ad s du rin g thi s p eri od for li te ratu r e h as a stron g in flu e n ce on th e you n g in th e mo st pla stic p e ri od of thei r lives ; an d i t i s import an t that Olde r p e r son s see to i t th at tho se in the i r car e spe n d th ei r time on book s of n oble ide al s an d hi gh arti sti c valu e “ Girl s of a highly sen si tive or so cal l ed n e rvou s temp e r amen t e sp eci ally i f the re i s n e rvou sn e ss in th e famil y mu st b e p arti cu larly look e d aft e r For i t i s du rin g th e ye ar s of p u be rty an d ad o l e scen ce th at an y n eu roti c trait s ar e apt to deve lop It i s also th e p e ri od when an d become emphasi z e d b ad sexu al habi t s ( mastu rb ati on ) ar e apt to d e vel op, an d th e ca r e fu l moth e r wi ll d evot e sp eci al atten ti o n to h e r gi rl s i n the i r ye ar s o f p u be rty an d i i e a i n a rd th e m m u c h s po bl g s t p h y s l u s a a a ss ca g an d e moti on al S h o cks Th e age o f pu b e rty in girl s i s by man y writ e r s co n si de r e d a s syn on ymou s or syn chro n ou s wi th th e on se t Of m en stru ati on whi ch in thi s cou n try in th e majori ty of case s o ccu r s b e twe e n th e age s of thi r Th e ye ar Of gr adu al d eve lop teen an d fou rt e e n men t befor e th e on se t O f men stru ati on is by some re fe rre d t o as th e pr o pu be rt al ye ar ; an d th e fir st an d - - . , ' . - ‘ , . , . , . , . - C HAP TE R S IX ME NS T RU A T I O N fu n cti on wi th whi ch th e gi rl will b e con fron t e d whi ch will impr e ss u pon h e r that Sh e i s a cre atu r e of se x th at S h e i s d eci d e dly di ff e r e n t from An d thi s fu n cti on w e will th e b oy i s m en str u ati on n ow pro ce e d to stu dy What i s men stru ati on " M en stru ati on i s a mon thl y di scharge of blood Th e word i s d e riv ed from th e L ati n word m en si s whi ch m e an s a mon th ; an d m en str u ati on i s al so f re qu en tly Spok en Of as th e m en It i s also calle d th e cat ame n i a or ca t am en ial s es — — flow ( Greek kata by m en a mon th ) Othe r terms ar e : th e p e ri od s cou r se s mon thli e s t u rn s mon thly ch an ge s mon thly si ckn e ss S i ckn e ss flowe r s to b e “ N ot to se e an ythin g i s a u n w e ll to b e r e gu l ar Thi s comm on t e rm f or h avin g mi sse d th e me n se s fl ow of blood r ecu r s i n mo st ca se s wi th r em arkabl e r e gu larity on ce a mon th ; n ot a cal en dar mon th bu t on ce a lu n ar mon th i e on ce eve ry t w en ty e ight days An d as the r e ar e thi rt e e n lu n ar mon th s a ye ar a woman men stru ate s n ot twelve bu t thi rteen time s a ye ar TH E fir st , , , . . . , . , , , , , , , , , , , . . , , . , . . . , - ME N S TR U A TI ON 45 Whe r e do e s th e men stru al blood come from " Th e men stru al blood come s fr om th e i n si d e of th e womb E ve ry mon th f or a f ew d ays pri or to men st ru a ti on th e in si de li n in g of th e w om b ( what w e call th e mu cou s me mbran e or e n d om e triu m ) b e come s co n ge st e d an d i ts b l ood v e s se l s b e come di st e n d e d wi th blood If th e woman h as sexu al i n t e rcou r se an d pr eg n an cy h app e n s to t ak e pl ace th en thi s e xtr a blood i s u se d to n ou r i sh an d d ev e lop th e n e w chi ld ; b u t if n o pr e gn an cy t ak e s pl a ce th at e xt r a blood exu de s from th e bl oodv e ssel s ( som e Of th e bl ood v e sse l s ru ptu r e ) an d i s di sch ar ge d from th e u t e ru s in t o th e vagin a an d from th e r e to th e ou t whe r e i t i s cau ght on cott on san itary n ap si de kin s or some oth e r pad At w h at age d oes m en stru ati on b egi n " Th e u su al ag e at whi ch me n stru ati o n b e gi n s i n thi s co u n try i s thi rt e e n or fou rteen ; in some it m ay o ccu r as e arly si xt e en or a s tw e lve in o the r s a s l at e as fift e e n For men stru ati on to b e gin e ar li er e v en s e v en t e en th an twelve or lat e r than seven t e en i s in thi s cou n try a r are exce pti on B u t i n cold n orth e rn climat e s th e ag e of e ight e e n i s n ot rar e an d i n th e ho t sou th e r n cli m at e s men stru ati on O ft e n st ar t s at th e ag e s O f ten or e le ven Ch an ge of climate or of cou n t ry will Often hav e an in flu en ce on th e men se s In th e e arly ye ar s o f hi s m e di cal pr acti ce th e au thor h ad . , , . , , , , , . , , . . , . . , 46 S EX KN OWLE DGE FOR WO ME N man y Fi n n i sh girl s as p ati en t s It w as a ve ry common o ccu rr e n ce for th em to stop m e n stru ati n g for th e fir st f ew mon th s or e ven for th e fir st ye ar of th eir r e side n ce in thi s cou n try At w hat age does m en stru ati on cease " Th e age at whi ch men stru ati on ce a se s i s call e d th e m en o k e u u a a e i l s s a c h e or i It lly t pl a m t r t t a c e c c a u s e p I n som e case s i t d oe s age of f orty e i ght or fif ty n ot t ak e pl ace u n t il t h e ag e of fif ty tw o i n oth e r s i t take s pl ace as e ar ly as f o r ty five or forty fou r I n ge n e ral i t m ay b e sai d that th e woman s m en str u ati n g p e ri od du r i n g wh i ch S h e i s abl e to h ave last s abou t thi rty five ye ar s A n d if n o chi ldr e n r e strai n t be taken an d if n o pre cau ti on s b e t aken a woman cou ld h av e twe n ty or ag ai n st co n ce pti on thi rty chil dr en du rin g h e r chi ldb e ari n g p e ri od How man y days does a w oman men stru ate " Th e u su al n u mb e r of d ay s i s f rom thr e e to fiv e ; i n s ome case s m en stru ati on la st s o n ly tw o d ay s in oth e r s A s a ru l e th e gr e at e st am o u n t as lo n g as se ve n of blood p asse d i s d u r in g th e fir st tw o d ays Th e amou n t of blood It i s h ard to e stimate th e e xact am ou n t o f blood p as se d by a woman du r in g h e r men se s bu t i t r e ache s abou t an ou n ce an d a half to thr ee ou n ce s I n some wom en th e am ou n t m ay r e ach as mu ch a s fou r or fiv e ou n ce s an d in Whe r e ex ce pti on al ca se s as mu ch a s e ight ou n ce s . . . - . - , - - . ’ , ’ , - , . , , . , . , . O . , . . ME N S TR U A TI ON 47 xce ed s thi s m ou n t it i s an abn ormal con di ti on , r equ i r i n g tre atm en t Th e u su al stat emen t that a n ormally me n stru ati n g woman sh o u ld n ot h ave to thr e e n apkin s du rin g th e u se mor e th an fou r hou r s i s correct it e , . . C HAP TE R A BNO RMAL I T IE S SEV EN O F M E NS T RU A TIO N man y gi rl s an d women men stru ati on i s a per fe ctl y n ormal phy si ologi cal pro ce ss They su fi er n o di scomf ort wh at ev e r from it They su ff e r n o p ain s n o he adach e n o i rri tability the y have n o ad mon i ti on of its on set u n ti l th ey fee l th e blood oozin g B u t u n fortu n at ely thi s i s tru e or tri ckli n g ou t o n ly Of a small p e rcen t age Th e majori ty of women h ave some u n ple asan t symptoms Some have a he adache for a d ay or two some complai n of a dr ag gin g down sen sati on some ar e i rri table fe el d e pr e sse d or qu arr el some ; some have n o app e tite n o n o d e si r e for work or comp an y while ambi ti on some gi rl s have su ch seve r e p ain s an d cr amp s th at they ar e obli ge d to go to bed for a d ay or tw o an d cal l i n m e di cal ai d When th e m en stru ati on i s ve ry profu se re sem blin g mor e a h emorrhag e than n ormal me n stru ati on , it i s cal le d m en or r ha gia ; if th e hemorrhage from th e u t e ru s o ccu r s ou t Of th e r egu l ar me n stru al p e ri od s, i t i s call ed m etr or r hagia When the m en se s ar e ski ppe d or wh e n the y ar e so scan ty that IN . , . , , , , . , , . . , , , , , , . , . , 48 A BN O RMALI T I E S OF M E N S TR U A TI ON otice t er m y I n a f ew r ar e ca se s th e men stru ati on am en or r h ea i n st ead of comin g n ormally fr om th e u t e ru s come s from som e oth e r p art O f th e body f or in stan ce th e Som e women have a hemorrhage from th e n o se I n some a bloody di scharge m ay n o se e v e ry mon th T o su ch a su b stitu te m en com e from th e br e ast s str u ati on w e apply th e t e rm vicar i ou s m en s tr u ati on S u ch case s howeve r ar e rar e an d ar e me r e cu ri u o y hardly can n blood 49 an w e u se , th e . , , , . . . . osi ti e s , , , . Dysmen orrhea I men ti on e d b efore th at in some n se s ar e accomp an i e d by n e h e i rl n wom m t a d s e g p ain s an d cr amp s Thi s affli cti on whi ch i s th e lot of mi lli on s of women an d fr om whi ch m en ar e Dysm en or en tire ly fr e e i s call e d dysm en or r h ea A rhe a me an s p ai n fu l an d d ifli cu l t me n stru ati on or at l ea st a fe elin g of di scomfort i s sli ght p ain pre sen t in mo st ca se s Of men stru ati on B u t in man y ca se s th e p ai n i s so se ve r e so ex cr u ci a ti n g th at th e gi rl or woman i s i n cap acit ate d f or an y su fl er e r In w ork, an d mu st g o to b e d for a d ay or tw o s ome case s th e p ai n i s so se ve r e a s to n e ce ssi t at e th e u se o f morphin e an d a s i t i s a v e ry bad thi n g t o have to gi ve morphin e eve ry thr e e or fou r wee ks e ve ry en de avor sho u ld b e m ad e to fin d ou t th e cau se of th e trou ble an d to r emove it It i s a mi st ak e howe ve r t o thi n k that all or even mo st ca se s of . , . , . , . . , , , , . , , . , , 50 SEX KN OWLE DGE F OR W O M E N dysm en orrhea ar e d u e to some local t rou ble that i s, to an in flammati on of th e ovarie s or a di splace men t of th e w on fb Man y cas e s of dysmen orrhea ar e of n e r vou s or i gi n ; th e cau se r e si d e s i n th e cen tral n e rvou s sy st em an d n ot in th e gen ital organ s themselve s It i s the r e fore , n ot advi sabl e to u n d er take an y lo cal tr e atm e n t , u n le ss a comp e t e n t physi cian h as mad e a thorou gh e xamin ati on an d h as deci ded that l ocal tre atm e n t i s advi sable , , . , . , . S E X KN O WLE DGE F O R W O M E N 52 otice d at some di st an ce an d to which some m en The r e ar e some an d women ar e v e ry su sce ptible wom en who n eve r t ak e a vagin al dou che Some con si d e r i t a u sel e ss an d u n n e ce ssary l u x u ry ; whil e s ome orthodox p u ri t an i cal wom e n con si d e r i t an u n godl y proce du re ( forge ttin g th at cl ean lin e ss i s n e xt to g odlin e ss ) fit on ly f or wome n of gay an d qu e s If th e se orthodox women kn ew ti on abl e char act e r — what w as good f or th em an d for th ei r heal th they wou ld take a dou ch e at l e a st du rin g men stru a ti on i f at n o oth e r tim e Wh en th e gi rl r e ach es th e age of C lean li n ess twelve or thi rt ee n th e mothe r S hou ld e xplain to h e r th e phen omen on of m en st r u ati on an d th e like lih ood of i ts mak in g its app e aran ce i n a Short tim e O f co u r se sh e shou ld b e told that th e r e i s n othin g sham e fu l in it th at wh e n i t m ak e s i ts app e ar an ce sh e sh o u l d at on ce t e ll h er mothe r w h o wi l l i n stru ct h e r what to d o Sh e sh ou ld b e shown th e u se of R ags u n l e ss r ecen tly washe d an d san i t ar y n apki n s kep t wr app e d u p an d prot e ct e d from du st shou ld n ot b e u se d U n cle an r ags m ay l e ad to i n fecti on I have n o dou bt that man y case s of l eu corrh e a date b ack thei r ori gin to u n washe d r ags E ve ry morn in g an d e v e ry ev en in g th e gi rl S ho u ld wa sh th e or plai n soap e xte rn al gen i t al s wi th warm wat e r Marri e d women sh ou ld al so t ake a an d wat e r n . . . , . . . , , . . , , . . . , . THE HYGIE N E O F ME NSTRUA TI O N 53 — d ay th e dou che on ce a dou che m ay con si st of tw o qu art s Of wat er in whi ch h as b e en di ssol ve d a tea spoon fu l Of comm o n t able sal t or a t abl e spoon fu l of bor ax or bori c aci d S u ch thi n gs like al u m p ot as siu m p e rman gan at e carb oli c aci d l acti c acid or tin ctu r e o f i odi n e shou ld on ly b e u se d when the re i s leu corrhe a pr e se n t an d ge n e rally o n ly u n de r a phy si ci an s dir ecti on s B athi n g i s p e rmi ssibl e bu t i t i s safe t o u se on ly a lu k ewarm b ath C old t u b bath s cold showe r b ath s as well as o ce an an d rive r bathin g ar e b e st avoide d du rin g th e p e ri od ; at l east du ri n g th e fir st t w o days I d o n ot give thi s as an ab solu t e ru l e ; I kn ow wome n w h o b ath e an d swim in th e o ce an du ri n g th e i r me n stru al p e ri od s wi th o u t an y i n j u ry to them se lve s b u t th e y a r e e xce p ti o n al ly robu st women ; advi ce i n book s i s f or th e ave r age pe r son an d i t i s al ways b e st to b e on th e safe si de R est R e st is j u st as importan t du ri n g men str u a ti on as clean lin e ss if n ot mor e so Some women a s me n ti on e d b e for e fe e l du r in g th e i r m en se s j u st as we l l a s the y do at othe r tim e s an d d o n ot n ee d B u t the se ar e in th e mi n ori ty an y sp e ci al hygi en e Mo st girls an d women do feel somewhat b elow par du ri n g that p e ri od, an d it i s very importan t that they t ake it e asy particu larly du rin g th e fir st tw o d ays It i s an ou tr age th at man y d e licate weak o r ll e e e i a d a rl wom n m t t y n th r f t an d e i s s u s a o y g , , . , , , ’ , . . , , . , . , . . , , . . , . , S EX 54 KN OWLE DGE FOR WO M E N machi n e when they sh ou l d be at home in bed or lyin g down on a cou ch Th e w omb i s con ge st e d du ri n g the p e ri o d i s l arge r an d he avi er than n ormal an d it I s then that the re i s often lai d th e fo u n dati on for some fu tu re “ womb trou bl e th e we ll kn own u t e ri n e di se ase “ or fem al e di sease It i s n ot n ecessary that work be given u p altogethe r bu t the r e ce rt ain ly shou l d b e le ss of i t an d the r e shou ld b e as mu ch r est as n i l e i n e i e s s e i i i e a d i bl For d l t t v g r ca l o s t ss s a p w ays b e st to st ay away from sch ool du ri n g th e fi r st Sp eak in g again of th e ave rage an d se con d d ays an d n ot th e e xce p ti on i t i s b e st that d an cin g, bi cycl e ri din g hor seb ack ri din g rowin g an d othe r athl e tic e xe rci se s b e given u p al toge th e r du rin g th e m e n Au t omobil e ridin g an d rai lro ad an d car ri age se s tr avel lin g prove in j u ri ou s in some in stan ce s gre atl y in cre as in g th e flow of bl ood B u t the se ar e the ex cepti on s at the o the r ext re me w ork ' on a . , , ” - , , ” . , . . , , , , . , . . FE CU ND A T I O N O R F E R TI LI"A TI O N or fe rtiliz ati on i s th e pro cess of u n i on of th e femal e g e rm ce ll wi th th e mal e ge rm cell ; sp e aki n g of an im al s i t i s th e pro ce ss of u n i on of th e e gg or ov u m of th e femal e wi th th e sp e rma Wh e n a su cce ssfu l u n i on of toz oOn Of th e mal e th e se tw o ce ll s t ak e s pl ace a n ew b ei n g i s st art e d The pro ce s s of fe r t ili z ati on or f e cu n dati on i s al s o We say to kn own a s impr e gn ati o n an d con ce pti on fe rt ili ze ( chi efly howeve r wh e n sp e akin g Of plan t s ) or to fe cu n dat e an ovu m or to impr e gn at e a f e mal e Or woman an d to con ceive a child We say th e woman h as b ecom e impr e gn at e d or h as con Fecu n d ati on , . . . , , , , . , ce iv e d . pro ce ss of fecu n dati on i s b r i e fly as follows A n ovu m b ecome s matu r e br e aks throu gh i ts Gr aafian foll i cl e in th e ovary an d i s set fr e e It i s cau ght by th e fimb r i ate d or tru mpe t S h ap e d e xtr emi ty O f th e F all op i an tu b e an d move d by th e w ave lik e mo tion of th e cili a Of th e lin in g of th e tu be i t b e gin s i ts tr avel toward s th e u t e ru s If Th e P r oce ss Th e . . , . , - , . S E X K N O WLE DGE 56 F O R W O ME N xu al in te rcou r se h a s t aken place n othin g h ap “ p en s Th e ovu m dri e s u p or di e s, an d e i th er r emain s somewh e r e in th e tu b e or womb or i s r e move d from th e latt e r wi th th e men stru ati on or mu co u s di scharge B u t if in t e rcou r se h as t aken place thou san d s an d thou san d s of th e m al e g erm ce ll s or sp e rmatozo a e n t e r th e u t e ru s th rou gh i ts op en i n g or ext e rn al os an d b e gin to trave l u pward in se ar ch of th e ovu m Th e sp e rmatozo a ar e cap a bl e of in de p en den t moti on an d th ey t ravel p re tty fast It i s cl ai me d that they can tr ave l an in ch i n se ven min u te s whi ch i s pre tty fast when you take in to con si der ati on that a sperm atozoiin i s on ly of an in ch lon g Man y of th e sp e rmatozoa, we ake r than th e othe r s p e ri sh on th e w ay an d on ly a f ew con tin u e th e jou rn e y u p th rou gh th e When n e ar th e little ov u m, u t e ru s to th e tu b e whi ch remain s passive th ei r movemen t s become more an d more r ap i d they seem to be attract ed to i t as i f by a magn e t an d fin ally on e spe rm atozoiin —j u st on e— th e on e that h app en s to b e th e stron e st g or th e n e ar e st make s a m ad ru sh at i t wi th i ts he ad pe rforat e s i t an d i s comple t ely swal lowe d u p by i t A s soon as th e spe rm atoz oiin h as b e en ab sorb e d by th e ovu m, th e op e n i n g throu gh whi ch it got in — become s tightly seal e d u p a coag u l ati on take s place — n ear i t so that n o othe r sp ermato zo a can e n te r n o se ” , . , . , , . , . , . , , . , , , , , . , F E C U NDA TI ON O R FE RTI LI"A TI O N For if two or mor e sp e rmatozo a got i n to th e same ovu m a mon st ro si ty wou l d be apt to b e the re su l t What be come s Of all th e o the r sp e rm atozo a " Th e y p e ri sh On ly on e i s n e e d B u t in th e ovu m th at ed h as be e n impregn ate d an d whi ch i s n ow calle d an em br yo a feve r i sh activi ty F i rst of al l i t com m en ce s m e looks for a fixe d pl ace of S r m m r ozoon P m If the ovu m h ap abod e p en e d to be in th e u t e ru s wh en th e spe rmatozoon m e t an d e n te r ed i t i t r emain s the r e It b ecome s attache d t o s ome spot i n th e li n in g of th e womb an d the re i t grows an d d eve lops u n til at th e en d of n i n e mon th s i t has reache d i ts fu l l growth, an d th e wo mb op en s an d i t come s ou t in to th e ou t si de world If the ovu m i s in th e F allopi an tu b e wh en th e spe r m atozoOn me ets i t a s i s u su al ly th e case i t tr ave l s down to th e u t er u s an d fixe s i t se lf the re Extra U terin e P r egn an cy Th e tu b e i s a b ad pl ace for the ovu m to grow an d de velop, becau se th e tu be can n o t str e tch t o su ch an e xte n t as th e u teru s can , n or can it fu rn i sh th e e mbry o su ch g ood n ou ri sh the ovu m 57 . . . . , , . . , . , . , , , - . . KN OWLE DGE FOR WOMEN S EX men t as the u te ru s can Occasi on all y, . devel op s there ; how eve r, it then ha ve a case of w hat w e call ex tr a u teri n e ( ou t si de of the u te ru s ) E xtr a u te rin e pre gn an cy i s or tu b al pregn an cy al so call ed ectopic p r egn an cy, or e ct op i c gesta ti on U n l ess diagn o sed e ar l y an d ope rate d u pon , the w oman m ay b e in gr e at dan ge r for afte r a f ew w eeks or mon ths th e t u b e gen e rall y r u pt u r e s From the m omen t th e spe rm atozoOn has en tere d the ovu m, a proce ss of d ivisi on or s egmen tati on Th e ovu m, w hi ch con si sts of on e cell , comme n ce s divi de s in to tw o the t w o in t o fou r the fou r in to e ight, th e e ig ht in to si xt een the se in to thir ty tw o these in t o Sixy fou r 128 256 51 2 u n til the y Thi s mu lbe rry mass of can n o l o n ge r b e cou n ted cell s arr an ge s i t sel f i n to tw o l aye r s wi th a cavi ty An d from the se laye r s of cell s the r e in be tw ee n deve l op gradu al l y al l organ s an d ti ssu e s u n til a fu ll y formed an d p e rfect chi ld i s the re su l t If tw o ova are impre gn ate d at the same time by tw o spermatozoa, th e r e su l t i s tw i n s th e t u be an d w e - - - - . . , . . , , - , - , , , , . , . , . . , S EX KN OWLE DGE F OR WO M E N Septembe r 3oth ; ad d seven days an d you 6 h h c b e e e e t t t O o r prob bl d t of d l v y T t i e a a e r e h e g pre sen ce Of a short mon th like F ebr u ary m ay be di sre garde d as the cal cu l ati on i s n ot ab solu tely, bu t on l y approxi m ate ly corre ct The pe r i od at whi ch th e ch ild s movemen t s be gin t o be fe lt by th e mothe r i s t e rmed Qu i cken i n g It u su all y o ccu r s at th e mi ddle of th e pr e gn an cy b e twe en th e l 6th an d 1 8th we ek Pr egn an cy i s a n ormal physi ological proce ss ; bu t eve ry acti ve phy si olo gi cal pro ce ss i s apt to b e a o comp an i e d by di stu rban ce s an d th e r e i s ce rt ain l y n o pro ce ss i n th e an imal body in whi ch gr e at e r ao tivity gre ate r chan ge s go on than du rin g th e pro ce ss of pr egn an cy Ju st se e what o ccu r s i n n in e mOn th s Th e u te r u s at fir st th e si ze Of a smal l p ea r , re ach e s a si z e large r than that O f th e he ad O f a big m an ; i t do e s n ot me re ly stre tch as some thi n k bu t i t actu ally grows e n ormou sly i n S i ze th e mu scu l ar wall s of a pre gn an t u te ru s bei n g man y time s thicke r than tho se O f a n on pr e gn an t on e They have t o be or they wo u ld n ot h av e th e str en gth to expel th e It i s to be born e ch il d whe n th e prop e r t im e com e s in min d th at th e child do e s n ot S lip ou t by i t sel f ; i t i s th e powe r fu l mu scu lar con tracti o n s of th e If th e u t e ru s shou l d re fu se u te ru s th at pu sh i t ou t to work if its wall s we re too thin or too we ak th e give s o u y , . , . ’ . , . , , , . . , , , , - . . , . , , 61 P R E GNAN CY hil d cou ld n ot com e ou t bu t wou ld have to be taken S till gr e ate r ch an ge s than in th e ou t wi th for ce p s A t th e mo u te ru s t ake pl ace in th e chi ld i t se lf men t Of co n ce pti on it i s th e si ze of th e h ead of a pi n ; at th e mome n t Of bi rth i t we i gh s from se ve n to te n p ou n ds ; at th e mome n t Of con cepti on i t i s a min u te , u n d i fi e r e n ti ate d ma s s Of protopl a sm j u st a si n gl e fe rtiliz e d cell ; at th e momen t Of b irth i t con si st s of mi l l i on s an d mi lli o n s Of ce ll s whi ch h ave b ecome d i fl e r e n ti ate d in to n u me rou s h armon i ou sly workin g organ s an d di ff e r e n t ti ssu e s su ch a s br ain an d n e rv e t i ssu e mu scu lar ti ssu e con n e ctive ti ssu e , bon e cartilage e tc e tc A tr u ly won d erfu l pro A n d in th e m e an time thi s child whi ch i s b i o cess logical l y a p arasit e ( thou gh it i s n ot a n i ce n ame to call i t by ) draws i ts su st en an ce from th e moth er s blood an d th e mothe r h as to provid e n ou ri shmen t for tw o An d b e si de s provi din g n ou r i shme n t , h e r e xcr e ti n g organ s h e r ki dn e ys mu st work for two becau se h e r syst em h as also to get r id Of th e child s N O won d e r that th e pr e gn an t woman e xcre ti on s parti cu l arly u n d e r an artifici al u n he althy mo de of livin g, i s su bj ect t o man y trou ble s an d di stu rb an ce s c , . . , , ’ , , , , , , , . . , ’ , , . , , , ’ . , . C HAP TER E LE V E N TH E WE DIS O RD E RS O F P R E GNA N C Y that in some wome n men stru ati on ru n s a pe rfectly smooth co u r se fr e e from an y di sagre e Th e same i s t ru e of pre gn an cy I t abl e sym ptoms i s r ema rkabl e how smooth an d easy th e e n ti re cou r se i s w i th s ome women M an y women kn ow that they ar e p re gn an t o n ly b e cau se O f th e n on appe aran ce of the mo n thl y pe ri od s ; an d eve n in th e l ate r mon ths the y fe e l n o di scomf ort att en di n g to al l thei r work an d pl e asu r e s a s u su al ; an d e v e n chi ldb i rth i s a triflin g matte r wi th them U n fortu n at ely th e n u m be r of su ch women i s n ot ve ry l arge an d b ecau se often e xhau stin g w ay Of ou r co n fin e d u n n atu r al of livin g i s be comin g smal l er an d smalle r The re i s n o qu e sti on that th e civilize d re fin e d woman h as a h ard e r ord e al i n pr e gn an cy an d chil dbi rth than ha s h er p ri mi ti ve S i st e r We con fid en tly hop e that thi s w ill n ot b e so i n th e fu tu re ; w e exp ect th e time to come when t r u e hygi en e wi ll b e an in t egr al p art Of th e edu cati on an d th e li fe of e ve ry girl an d the n pre gn an cy an d partu riti on m ay b e come e ven eas ie r p roce sse s than the y ar e i n th e primi tive races B u t saw , . . . - , . , , , , , . , . , . as THE DIS OR DE R S OF th e time i s P R E GNA N C Y 63 mean time ou r you n g w omen h ave a g ood de al to go throu gh Morn i n g S i ckn ess On e Of th e comm on est ai sor de r s of pre gn an cy i s th e S O cal l e d m or n i n g sickn e ss Thi s con si st s i n a fee lin g Of n au se a an d vomi tin g Th e mo rn i n g w hi ch come s on soon afte r ge ttin g u p th e thi rd sickn e s s make s i ts firs t app e ar an ce i n fou r th or fifth we ek Of pre gn an cy an d lasts u su all y I n some u n til th e en d of th e thi rd or fou rth mon th women h owe ve r th e mo rn in g si ckn e ss come s on i n a f ew d ay s aft e r i mpr e gn ati on h as t ak en pl ac e an d th o se women diagn o se th ei r con di ti on u n mi stakably by th e fee lin g of sli ght n au sea which they expe ri en ce on gettin g u p M e di cin e s ar e as a r u l e of littl e “ Th e u se in tr e at in g morn in g S ickn e ss di sease ‘ Th e p ati en t sh ou l d can be r eli eve d bu t n ot cu r e d stay in be d lat e r than u su al sh o u ld have h e r bre ak fast in bed an d then n ot get u p for abou t hal f an hou r aft e rward If th e pati e n t is an emi c, a good ir on p r ep ar ati on m ay prove u se fu l n ot n e a t y ; d in the . . ' - . , . , . , , , . ” . . , , . . ometim e s b ecome s so seve re an d u n con t rollabl e that Th e pa it has be en give n th e n ame p e rn i ci ou s ti en t is u n abl e t o re tain an y kin d Of food n ot even l i qu i ds, vomi ts alm o st in cessan tly, an d may b ecome The vomited ve ry mu ch r u n d ow n an d e xhau st ed matte r may con tain bl ood For thi s con di tion a s . , . . SEX 64 KN OWLE DGE FOR WO M E N mp e ten t phy si cian mu st b e co n su l ted for in some case s th e p ati en t s life m ay b e i n dan ge r an d an abor ti on h as t o be p e rf orme d C apri ci ou s Appeti te A capr i ci ou s app etit e i s very Th e capri ci ou sn e ss m ay e x comm o n in pr e gn an cy pre ss i t se lf in fou r di ff e ren t di recti on s : 1 ) Th e pa ti en t m ay lo se h er app eti t e almo st altoge the r par t ak i n g o n ly of ve ry li ttle food an d that wi th e f Thi s con di ti on Of lo ss o f app etit e i s cal le d f ort n T i m 2 h e e e p a t t a d e v lop n or n e a an or e xi a ( ) y — — mou s appe ti t e what w e call bu limia e atin g sev 3 e r al t ime s as mu ch as sh e do e s ordi n a ri ly ( ) S h e m ay develop an ave r si on toward s ce rtain ar Thu s man y women develop an ave r ticl e s O f foo d si on towa rd s m e at th e me re si gh t O f or talk abo u t me at cau sin g in the m a sen sati on Of n au se a ( 4) S h e m ay Sh ow a cravi n g f or th e mo st p e cu l iar ar ti cl e s O f food an d f or arti cle s whi ch ar e n ot food at Th e cravin g f or sou r p i ckl es or s ou r cabbage al l i s we ll kn own ; bu t some women w il l e at chal k, san d, an d e ve n more p ecu li ar thi n gs ( for th e chal k th e re may b e a reason : th e syste m n ee d s an extra am ou n t of lime an d chal k i s carbon at e of l ime ) C on sti p ati on i s v e ry common C on stipati on am on g women in the n on pr e gn an t co n di ti o n ; bu t in th e p r egn an t i t i s mu ch more comm on an d mu ch m or e aggravat e d C on stip ati on mu st be gu ar de d co , ’ . . . , , , . . . . , . . - . . - . THE a ain s P R E GNAN C Y DIS O RD E RS OF 65 g t bu t th e m e asu re s mu st b e of a m il d n atu r e If w e can re li eve th e con sti p ati o n by di e tar y me as Th e di e tar y me as u re s alon e s o mu ch th e b e tte r — pru n e s u re s shou ld con si st i n e ati n g pl e n ty O f fru i t an d co ar s e bre ad an d br an appl e s fig s d at e s e tc C on stip atin g arti cle s su ch a s ch e e se or cofi e e Whe r e di e t ary measu re s Sho u ld b e e limi n at e d th e p ati en t shou ld t ak e an alo n e ar e i n su ffici e n t — — twi ce or thr e e tim e s a e n e ma a r e ct al i n j ecti o n we e k Th e e n ema shou ld con si st O f abou t 8 ou n ces u k n f r e i o o h l f p t o ld l w a rm w a t e r o n t n g n c c a a i i a ) ( a p in ch of salt an d shou ld b e r e t ai n e d abou t ten m i n u t e s In st e ad of wat e r We m ay advi se an oc casi on al e n ema O f tw o to f o u r dr ams of glyce ri n O r in ste ad of a glyce ri n e n ema a glyce rin su ppo si t ory m ay be u sed I f in te rn al laxative s ar e to b e on l y th e milde st an d n on gripin g pr ep ara u se d ti on s S hou ld b e e mploye d Th e b e st ar e : a good — min e ral oil on e or tw o t able spoon fu ls on goin g to b ed or flu i d extr act O f cascar a sagr ada on e half t o on e te a spoon fu l on goi n g to b ed It i s ve ry im p ort an t wh at ev e r w e u se n ot to u se th e same thi n g I f th e sam e dr u g or m easu r e i s f or a lon g time u se d wi tho u t an y ch an ge th e bowe l s g e t u se d to i t an d ce ase to re spon d an d w e h ave to u se l arge r an d large r do se s I n fighti n g con stip ati on w e mu st the refor e con stan tly chan ge ou r we ap on s : on e n i ght , . , . , , , , . , . , , . , . , , . . , . - , . , , . , , . , . - S E X KN OWL E DGE F OR WO ME N w e u se m in th e thi r d n e al oil , the i gh t en em a, r an n ex t n i ght th e f ou . r casca a sag rad a, rth n i ght gly a j ecti on or su ppo si tor y th e fif th n i gh t pe r haps n othin g at al l th e si xth n i gh t a blu e mass pil l th e se ve n th mo rn i n g a S e i dli tz powd e r the n a r e st for a d ay or t w o th e n a re pe ti ti on O f th e sam e me as B u t always r emembe r : fir st tr y to ge t alon g u res M an y ca se s can g et r e w i thou t an y d r u gs at al l li ev e d of th e i r con stipati o n by a p rope r chan ge in di et al on e A n d whe r e thi s i s i mpo ssi ble th en u s e m ild l axa ti ve s an d u se the m in te rchan ge ably Toothach e is n ot u n common i n pre gn an cy an d a n h e r fi r n t wom n ho ld h v t ee t h r e s u a e u i n t a t s a p g p cl as s con di ti o n P re gn an t w omen often Difl cu l ty i n Urin ati on sn fi e r wi th fr e qu e n cy an d u rge n cy Of u ri n ati o n S ome have to u ri n at e whi le they ar e on the i r fee t, min u te s Thi s i s d u e to the fact that ev e r y f ew du rin g th e fir st t w o or thre e mon th s O f p re gn an cy th e u te ru s i s n ot on l y e n la rged bu t i s al so an te ver te d that i s tu rn e d for w ar d an d p r e ss e s d ow n Whe n th e woman is lyin g dow n u p on th e bladd e r th e p re ssu r e on th e bladde r i s r e li e ve d an d sh e Thi s pre s d oes n ot have to u rin at e fr e qu en tly su re l a st s on l y th e fir st tw o O r thr e e mo n th s be cau se af te r that th e growi n g womb li ft s i t se lf ou t of th e pelvi s ri sin g i n to th e abdomin al cavi ty ; i t cer in in , , , , , . . , . . , . . . , . , . , . , , 68 S EX KN O WLE DG E F O R WO M E N p il e s ( th e hemorrhoi d s ) ar e to b e we ll clean sed w ith h ot wate r an d thi s O in tme n t i s t o b e we ll sme ar ed ove r ; a li ttle i s pu sh e d i n t o th e rectu m an d a p i e ce of co tton i s pu t ove r th e an u s T hi s prot ect s th e cl oth e s from soilin g an d keep s th e m e di cin e in place f or I n st e ad of Oin tmen t a co co a bu tte r a lo n ge r t ime A su ppo si t ory of th e f ol su ppo si tory m ay b e u se d lowin g compo si ti on i s good : p owde r ed n u tgalls 3 gr ai n s ; Oil of cade 3 drop s ; r e sor ci n 1 gr ain ; bi s mu th su bn i trat e 5 gr ain s ; co co a bu tte r 20 gr ai n s O n e su ch su ppo si tory to b e in se rt e d thr ee time s a d ay Th e O in tm en t an d th e su ppo sitor y given above i f u se d in con j u n cti on wi th th e prop e r r e gu lati on of th e bowe l s will n ot on l y r e li ev e bu t wi ll cu r e mo st n an cy ca se s Of h e morrh oi d s cau s e d by pr eg It chin g I tchin g of th e V u l va P ru ri tu s V u l va of th e e xt e r n al ge n i t al s du r in g pr e gn an cy i s n ot u n Thi s m ay b e d u e to th e fact that th e vu l va commo n i s gen e r ally co n ge st e d an d sw olle n du ri n g pre gn an cy or i t m ay b e cau se d by an in cr e a se d l eu corrhe a] di scharge Th e i tchi n g i s sometim e s ve ry seve re, an d i f th e p at i e n t scr at ch e s wi th h e r n ail s an d pro du ce s ble e din g sh e m ay cau se an in fecti on Of th e p art s Th e p ati e n t shou ld b e cau ti on ed agai n st scr at chi n g ; sh e shou ld try S impl e me asu r e s to r e li e ve th e itchin g A small towel or gau ze comp re ss wru n g ou t of boil in g wat er an d appli e d to th e vu lv a , , . . . , , , , . , , . , . . . . , . . . THE DIS O RD E RS OF P R E GNA N C Y 69 r l tim e s a d ay followed by a fr ee appli cati on of If i t i s ste ar ate of zin c powd e r i s Oft e n e fi ci en t n ot th e fol lowin g salve m ay b e tri ed : carbolic aci d, 1 0 gr ain s ; men thol 5 gr ai n s ; r e sorcin 1 5 grain s ; zin c oxi d e 1 dr am ; an d w hi te vas el in e on e ou n ce I n ve ry seve r e case s th e v u lva shou l d b e p ain t e d w i th a s olu ti o n of sil ve r n i tr at e 25 gr ain s to 1 ou n ce of di sti lle d wat e r Vari cose V ein s I n most women du rin g pregn an cy th e vein s in th e l e gs be come s omewhat e n large d Thi s i s d u e to th e pre ssu re o f th e womb whi ch in If th e vein s be come ter f e r e s with th e cir cu lati o n ve ry p romi n en t swollen an d tortu ou s they ar e Thi s con di ti on sh ou ld b e pr e call e d var i co se ven t e d b ecau se it Oft en an d to some degre e always i n e e e n e h e r t p r n t ly v ft p r g n n y e a r e e s s s m a t a c i s p ove r Th e b e st pr ecau ti on ary measu re i s for th e woman to we ar a well fittin g abdomin al b elt or m a te r n i ty cor se t whi ch su pport s th e womb an d do e s n ot p e rmi t i t t o sin k too l ow in t o th e p elvi s If vari co se vei n s have b e en p e rmi tt ed t o d evel op th e woman sh ou l d we ar wel l fittin g r u bb e r st o ckin gs or at l e ast h ave the l e gs ban dage d wi th woven e lasti c ban dage s Th e b an dage mu st be appli e d by a com n e e e n s n an n t t p r o formly too t g h t y u i i o l d t C on p stipati on h as al so a b ad c fi e ct in makin g v ari co se v ein s wor se ; the bow el s sh ou ld the r e fore al so b e se ve a , . , , , . , , , . . . , . , , . , . - , . , - , . , . 70 KN OWLE DGE F O R WO ME N SEX l ooke d af te r In ve re case s all measu re s ar e of little val u e u n le ss th e p ati e n t at the sam e tim e stays in b e d or on a co u ch f or a f ew d ays wi th th e le gs e l evat e d Swellin g of th e fee t shou ld b e at on ce atten de d to It m ay be a trifl in g matte r d u e on l y to pre ssu re of th e womb ; then again it m ay be du e to some Th e physi ci an w il l det e rmi n e th e ki dn e y trou ble t ru e cau se an d pr e scribe th e appropriate treatmen t Liver Spots Chl oasma In some cases ir r e gu l ar brown i sh p atche s or splotche s develop on th e skin aro u n d th e br e ast s on th e si d e s or on th e face The se patches ar e k n own popu larly as li ve r sp ot s or Nothin g can be in me di cal lan gu age as chl oas ma don e f or them bu t th ey gen e rally di sapp e ar afte r A f ew patche s he re an d th e p r e gn an cy i s ove r the re m ay rem ain pe rman e n tly . s ome se , . . . . . . , , . , . . . WHE N T O E NGA GE A P HYSI C IAN di sorde r s an d di stu rban ce s de scrib e d above n i ci ou s vomi ti n g Of a ar e wi th th e e xcepti o n O f p e r min or n atu r e Th ey ar e an n oyi n g may cau se con sid e r abl e di scomf ort an d sn fi e r i n g bu t th e y do n ot Cc en d an ge r th e l i fe of th e woman or Of th e chil d th e casi on all y howev e r fortu n at ely n ot v e ry Oft e n ki dn e ys b e come aff e ct e d an d f or thi s con di ti on tre atm en t by a physici an i s ab solu tely n ece ssary I n fact th e corre ct an d safe thi n g f or a woman to d o i s to con su lt a physi ci an a s soon as sh e kn ow s S h e i s pr egn an t an d h ave h im t ak e car e Of h e r d u r i n g th e e n ti r e pr egn an cy Some women e n gage a physi cian du ri n g th e e ighth or n i n th mon th an d thi s i s d e ci de dly wr on g b ecau se i t m ay th en b e too lat e to corr e ct ce rtain trou ble s which if t aken at th e ou t set cou ld h ave be e n e asily cu re d ; while man y trou ble s in th e han d s of a comp et en t physi ci an can b e pr even t e d altoge th e r I mu st th e r e for e r ei t e r at e : e ve r y woman sho u ld e n gage a p hysi ci an from th e be gin n in g of h er pr e gn an cy, or at le ast du ri n g the TH E , , , . , . , , , ‘ , . , , . , . 71 SE X 72 KN OWL E DGE FOR WO M E N thi rd or fou rth an d ce rtain ly n ot lat e r than th e fifth mon th He will examin e the u rin e eve r y mon th an d make su r e that th e ki dn eys ar e i n orde r h e will make su re that th e chi ld i s in a n ormal po si ti o n an d w ill pr eve n t a ho st Of oth e r i ll s Thi s i s n ot a sp eci al tre ati se on th e man ag e me n t of pre gn an cy an d the r efore mi n u t e detail s ar e ou t of place B e sid e s to th e de tai l s th e physici an wi ll att en d B u t some hin ts n n e n e i e n e i d e e i a r a a l r g d g d t g r h yg n m n m po o o, cm m i ll prove u se fu l w fi og I f e ve rythi n g i s sati sfact o r y i f th e re i s n o seve re v omi tin g ki dn ey t rou ble etc th e Th e on ly ch an ge s I u su al mi xe d di e t m ay con tin u e wou ld mak e ar e th e fol lowin g : Drin k plen ty of hot wat e r du rin g en ti r e cou r se of pr e gn an cy : a glass or tw o in th e morn i n g two or thr ee glas se s i n th e aft e r n oon th e sam e at n i ght From six to t w elve gla sse s m ay b e con su me d Al so plen ty of mi lk, bu tt e rmilk Pl en ty of fru it an d ve getabl e s an d fe rme n t e d mi lk M e at on ly on ce a d ay F or th e te n den cy to con sti i n e e e e e w h ol wh t br d r br d br d b k d o a a a t e ea a a p y of bran or bran wi th cre am A s to exe rci se ei th e r e xtr eme mu s t be avoi ded S ome w omen thin k that as soon as the y become . , , . , , . . . , , , , . , . , . . . . , , , . , . WHE N TO E NGA G E A P HYSIC IAN 73 pre gn an t th ey mu st n ot move a mu scle ; they are t o b e pu t in a gl ass case an d kept th e r e to th e d ay of de live r y O th e r women on th e oth e r han d Of th e u ltr amod e r n typ e i n du lg e i n str e n u ou s e xe rci se an d l n k n i u n i h o lo g f a t g w o e l t o u t o a s u t t a s d a p g g y E i th e r e xtr eme i s in j u ri ou s Th e right w ay is mode rate e xe rci se an d short n on fatigu in g wal k s B athin g m ay b e kept u p to th e d ay of delivery B u t warm b ath s p arti cu l arly du rin g th e l ast tw o or thr e e mon th s, ar e pr e fe r abl e to cold baths , , , . , , . . , , - . . , . C HAP TE R THE ME N T HI R TEE N SI"E O F THE FE TU S women ar e alway s I n t e re ste d to kn ow how la rge th e fe tu s i s an d h ow far i t i s develop e d du rin g th e vari ou s mon th s of pre gn an cy Ab solu tely bu t th e fol e xact me asu r emen t s can n ot b e giv e n l owi n g approximat e m e asu r em en t s ar e corr ect A t th e e n d of th e fi r st mon th ( lu n ar ) i t i s abou t We igh s abou t 1 5 grain s th e si z e o f a haz e ln u t A t th e e n d of th e secon d mon th i t i s th e si z e o f a Th e in t e rn al organ s ar e p arti ally sm all h en s e gg form ed it b e gin s to a ssu m e a hu man shap e bu t th e U p to th e fifth or sex can n o t ye t b e di ff e ren ti at e d app e aran ce sixth w e ek i t do es n ot difi e r mu ch in from th e emb r yo s of o the r an im al s A t th e e n d of th e thi rd mo n th i t i s th e si z e of a l arge goo se e gg ; i t i s abou t tw o to thr e e an d a hal f in che s lon g We igh s abou t on e ou n ce A t th e e n d of th e f ou rth mon th th e fe tu s i s b e twee n six an d seven in ches lo n g an d we igh s abou t five ou n ce s At th e e n d of th e fifth mon th th e fe tu s i s be twe en d an . , . . ’ . , , . . . . ‘ . 74 C HAP TE R TH E A F T E RBIRTH FOU R TEE N P D E A C LA C NT AN O RD ( ) WHATE V ER p ar t of the womb th e ovu m attache s i t se lf to i s stimu l at e d to i n t e n se ac tivi ty in growth Nu me rou s b l ood ve ssel s b egin to grow an d that p art O f th e lin in g membr an e wi th i ts n u me rou s blood v e ssel s con sti tu t e th e placen t a or as it is common l y call e d afte r bi r th b ecau se i t come s ou t afte r th e bi r th o f th e chi ld From th e pl acen ta the re i s al so r e fle cte d a membr an e ove r th e ovu m so as to give i t That m embr an e form s a addi ti on al prot e cti on compl e t e b ag ove r th e fe t u s ; thi s b ag b e come s fil l e d wi th li qu i d so that th e fe tu s flo at s fr eel y in a bag Of wat e r s ; thi s b ag bu r st s on ly du rin g chi ldbi rth Th e f e t u s i s n ot attache d clo se to th e placen ta , bu t i s so to say su spe n de d from i t by a cor d whi ch i s cal l e d th e u m bil ical cor d Wh en th e child i s born th e u mb ili cal cord i s cu t an d th e sca r or d epr e s si o n in th e abdome n wh e r e th e u mb ili cal cord w as attach e d con sti t u t e s th e n ave l or u mb ili cu s ( in sl an g — lan gu age bu tton or be lly bu tton ) Th e u mbili cal cord con si st s Of two art e rie s an d on e ve in e mb e dd e d . , , . , . , . , , , . , , . 76 THE A FTE RBIRTH A N D C O RD 77 velope d by a me m br an e an d i t i s th rou gh th e u mbilical cord that th e blood from th e pl acen ta i s brou ght to an d carried from th e fe tu s Th e blood of th e fetu s an d th e blood of th e mothe r do n ot m i x ; th e b l ood ve s s e l s ar e se p ar ated by thi n wall s an d i t i s throu gh th e se thin wall s that th e fe tal blood r e ce ive s th e in gre di en t s i t n ee d s from th e moth e r s blood I n oth e r word s i t r e ce ive s i ts n ou ri shmen t from th e moth e r by Th e blood from the pl a or osm osi s a bs or p ti on cen t a al s o fu rn i sh e s th e fe t al bl ood wi th oxyge n so that th e fetu s br e athe s by th e ai d o f th e place n ta a n d n ot thro u gh i ts ow n lu n gs It i s we ll to r ememb e r that th e re i s ab solu t ely n o n e rv ou s con n e cti on b e twe e n moth e r an d ch i ld Th e r e ar e n o n e rve s whate ve r in th e u mbi lical cord s o th at th e n e rvou s syst e m s of th e fe tu s an d O f th e mothe r ar e e n ti r ely di stin ct an d sep arate A n d thi s w i ll e xpl ai n why ce rt ai n n e rvo u s impr e ssi o n s an d S ho ck s r e ce ive d by th e moth e r ar e n ot r e adily t r an s It i s on l y thr ou gh chan ge s in m i tt e d to th e chil d th e moth er s blood that th e fe tu s can b e in flu e n ce d A s w i ll b e se e n i n a lat e r ch apt er w e ar e S ke pti cal “ ” mate rn al i mpr e ssi on s abou t in a l ti n lik e a e g su b st an ce an d en , . , . ’ . , . , , . . , . . ’ . . C HAP TER LA C TA TI O N EV -E FIE T E N O R NUR SING — if chil d mothe r shou l d n u r se h e r sh e can The r e i s n o p e rfect su b sti t u t e for mothe r s mi lk The r e i s on ly on e excu se f or a mothe r n ot n u r sin g that i s when she h as n o mi lk or wh en th e qu ali ty of th e milk i s so poor tha t th e chi ld do e s n ot thr ive i s threat on i t, or w h en th e moth e r i s ru n dow n e n e d wi th or i s su ffe r in g wi th tu b e r cu lo sis, e tc In su ch ca se s th e n u r sin g wo u ld p rove in j u ri ou s t o both moth e r an d chil d Whe n th e moth e r can n ot n u r se th e child i t shou l d be brou ght u p artifici ally on modi fie d cow s milk F ormu las f or modifie d mi lk have b een worke d ou t for e ve ry mon th Of th e child s li fe an d if th e f orm u l as are car e fu lly foll owe d an d th e bottl e an d n ip pl e s ar e p rop erly ste rili ze d th e chi ld shou ld have n o tro u ble bu t shou ld th r iv e an d grow lik e on good moth e r s milk I f th e chi ld i s si ckly or d e li cate an d do e s n ot thrive on modifie d cow s mi lk or on o the r a rti fici al food s th en a w e t n u rse m ay b ecome n e c B u t b e for e e n gagi n g a w et n u r se gr e at care e ssary shou l d b e t ake n t o mak e su r e that sh e i s h ealthy, ER Y . ’ . , , . . , ’ . ’ , , , , ’ . ’ , . 78 LA C TA TI O N 79 O R N URSING ld i s ap proxim at ely th e same as th e age of th e child whi ch Sh e i s ab ou t to n u r se an d p art i cu larly th at S h e i s fr e e from an y syphil i ti c tain t On e tw o or mor e Wasse rm an n t e st s shou l d b e m ad e to se ttl e th e qu e sti on de fin i te ly Moth e r s Sh ou ld b ear in mi n d tha t su cklin g th e chi ld i s good n ot o n ly f or th e child b u t f or th e mothe r as we ll Lactati on help s th e in volu ti on of th e u t e ru s : th e u t e ru s of a n u r sin g mothe r re tu rn s mor e qu i ckly an d mor e p e r fectly to its n ormal an t e p r e gn an t con di ti on than th e u te ru s of th e mothe r w h o can n ot or wi ll n ot n u r se h e r chi ld That th e moth e r w h o n u r se s h e r child shou l d p artake of su fli ci en t n ou ri shme n t goe s wi thou t say in g B u t th e advi ce O ft en given to n u r sin g mothe r s t o part ake O f b e e r al e or wi n e i s a bad on e It i s a qu e sti on i f a moth er p art aki n g of co n si d e rable qu an titi es of alcoh oli c b eve rage s m ay n ot tran smit No alcoholi cs th e t aste f or al cohol to h e r chi ldr e n b u t milk eggs me at fru i t sh ou l d b e l e ft alo n e an d ve ge t able s sh ou l d b e p art ak e n o f i n abu n dan ce Preparin g th e N ippl es For th e in fan t to b e ab l e t o n u r se prop e rly th e n ipple s of th e br e ast mu st If th e n ippl e s ar e su n ken , be in good co n di ti on dep r e sse d, i t i s tortu re f or th e chil d to n u rse It u se s u p a lot of e n e rgy u se l e ssly b e come s e xh au ste d an d g et s v e ry li ttl e milk ; whil e if th e n ip p le s be th at th e age of her chi , . , . , . . . , . , . , , , , . . . . , , 80 SEX KN OWL E DGE F OR W O ME N ten de r or cracked th e process of n u rsin g is a tor tu r e for th e moth er It is the re for e n ece ssary to atten d t o th e n ippl es — in d u e time to b e g in at th e fifth or S i xth mon th i s If th e n i pple s ar e su flici en tl y promi n ot too e arly n e n t li ttl e n e e d b e do n e for them e xcep t to was h them wi th a li ttl e bori c acid solu ti on ( on e te aspoon fu l o f bori c aci d to a gl ass O f wat e r ) occa si on ally, an d n ow an d the n to r u b in a li t tl e p e trol atu m, p lain or bor at e d B u t if th e n i pple s ar e su n ken so that th e y are b elow th e su r face of th e breast or if they ar e o n ly sli ghtly abov e th e su r face o f th e br e ast th e y mu st b e tr e at ed Ge n tle tracti on mu st b e mad e on them wi th th e fin ge r s thr e e or fou r tim e s a d ay The re ar e on ly a f e w ca se s wh e re p e r si st e n t m an ipu l at i on will n ot d evel op th e n ipple an d make i t stan d ou t promi n en tly If th e n i pple i s t en de r it sh ou ld b e washe d two or thr ee time s a d ay wi th a mixtu r e of al cohol an d wat e r ; on e p art of al cohol to thr e e p art s o f wate r i s su fli ci en t I n washi n g th e n ippl e wi th thi s di l u t e d al coh ol i t shou ld b e dri e d an d a li ttl e p e trolatu m Thi s don e tw o or thr ee time s or vase li n e ru bb e d in a d ay du ri n g th e l ast mon th or t w o of th e pr e gn an cy w ill gen e r ally produ ce a good h e althy n ippl e Th e Treatmen t of C rack e d N ippl es If th e care of th e n ipple h as be en n e gl e ct ed an d i t d eve lo p s cr acks . . , . , , . . . . . . . , LAC TA TIO N fissu r e s O R N URSIN G 81 tha t th e n u r sin g of th e chi ld cau se s th e moth e r se ve re p ai n th e n u r sin g Shou l d be d on e th rou gh a n ipple Shi e ld an d in th e mean time b e twe en th e n u r sin gs th e n ipple shou ld b e ru bb e d with th e followin g pr e p ar ati on whi ch i s e xcell e n t an d which I can fu lly r e comme n d : thymol i odi de d ram ; Olive oil , ou n ce Thi s shou l d b e appli e d e v e ry hou r to th e n ippl e an d cove r e d wi th a l i ttl e cotton ; b e fore e ach n u r si n g howev e r i t mu st b e we ll washe d O ff wi th warm wat e r or warm bori c acid When th e n ippl e s ar e cracke d th e in solu ti on fau t s l ip s shou ld al so be fore n u r sin g be car e fu lly wi p e d ou t wi th boric aci d solu ti o n For th e baby s mou th con tain s b acte ri a whi ch whi le harmle ss in themselve s m ay if the y get in to th e cr acks of th e “ m as n ippl e se t u p an i n flam m ati on O f th e br e a st or titi s an d cau se an ab sce ss If th e cracks ar e ex it i s as th ey s ome time s ar e cr u ci atin gl y pai n fu l n e ce ssary to give th e on e b re ast a re st f or twen ty fou r hou r s an d h ave th e child n u r se at th e other u n ti l th e cr ack s have p art i all y h e al e d When I t Is N ecessary to Dry Up th e Breasts I n case o f th e de ath O f th e chi ld or if the moth e r for s om e o the r re as o n fin d s he r se l f u n abl e to n u r se su ch as in case s w he r e the r e i s ab sol u t e ly n o n i pp le , in ste ad of th e p romin en ce of th e n ipple the re b ein g a dee p d e pre ssi o n , i t b e come s n e ce ssary t o st op th e or so , , , , . , , . , ’ ’ . ” . , , . . , . S EX KN OWLE DGE FOR WOMEN 82 of se cr e ti on the m i lk, or it is as said comm on in I n f ormer d ays, pa rlan ce to d r y u p th e bre asts n ot so ve r y lon g ago an d th e practice is still com m on e n ou gh to ca ll att e n ti on to i t an d to con d em n i t th e bre as t s u se d to b e ti ghtly ba n dage d or th ey hou rs Th e fir st u se d to b e p u mpe d ev e r y f e w ca u se s u n n ece s s a r y p ai n an d trou bl e w hi l e th e sec on d pr oced u r e th e p u mp in g do e s e xactl y th e re ve rse to w ha t it is in te n de d to do In s tead of d ry The in g u p th e bre ast s i t k ee p s u p th e se cr e ti on be st thin g to do in a case lik e tha t is to le av e the breasts al on e n ot to p u m p them b u t j u s t gen tl y su pport th em w i th a b an dage an d the n i n th ree or fou r days th e secre ti on O f th e mi lk will g radu al l y disapp ea r Th e re i s some di scomf o r t the fir st t w en ty fou r or forty e ight hou r s bu t if le ft al on e th e di scomfort is les s th an i f th e br e ast s ar e man ipu lated b an dag ed or pu mpe d Men str u ati on or Pr egn an cy Wh il e N u rsin g Man y w omen d o n ot m en s tru at e an d do n ot b e come pre g n an t whil e th e y ar e n u r sin g Some women wi ll n ot con ce ive n o ma tt e r h ow lon g th e y m ay n u r se th e — An d s ome wome n chil d a year or t w o or l o n ge r take ad van tage of thi s fact an d in orde r to avoid an othe r chil d th ey will ke e p u p th e n u r si n g as l on g I n E gyp t an d oth e r O ri e n t al cou n tr i e s as p o ssible whe re ou r me an s f or th e pr even ti on Of con cepti on “ ” . , , , , . , , , . . , , . - - , . , . . , . , . C HAP TER S IxTEE N A B O RTI O N A N D TH E MIS C A RR IA GE word aborti on u se d somewhat loo sel y sig n i fie s th e pr em atu r e exp u l si o n of th e fe tu s ; th e e x pu l si on of th e fe tu s from th e womb b e fore it i s vi a bl e , i e b e for e it i s cap abl e of livin g i n de p en de n tl y U se d in a stricte r se n se th e word aborti on i s ap pli ed to th e e xpu l si on O f th e fe tu s u p to th e e n d Of th e l 6th wee k ; to th e e xp u lsi on of th e fetu s be twe en th e l 6th an d th e 28th we ek th e t erm m i s carr i age i s appli e d ; an d wh en th e exp u l si on of th e fe tu s take s place aft e r th e 28th we ek, bu t before fu l l t e rm w e u se th e t erm p re matu re labor Th e laity do e s n ot like th e t e rm aborti on as i t i s u n de r th e impr e ssi o n th at th e t e rm alway s sig n ifi e s cri mi n al aborti o n ; i t th e r e for e pr e f e r s to u se th e te rm mi sca rri age re gardl e ss of th e ti me at whi ch th e e xpu l si on of th e fe tu s t ake s place When an abortion ( or mi scarri age ) take s place by i t se lf wi thou t an y ou t si d e ai d w e call i t sp on tan e ou s a bor ti on Wh en i t i s brou ght on by arti fici al m ean s whe th e r by th e w oman he r sel f or by s om ebody e l se w e call i t i n du ce d aborti o n Whe n . , , . . , , , . , . , , . , , . 84 AB O R TIO N AN D MI S CARRIA GE 85 ' borti on i s in du ce d f or th e pu rpo se of savin g th e woman s li fe w e call i t th e rap eu ti c abor ti on ; thi s i s con sid e r e d p er fe ctly l e gal an d prop e r B u t whe r e an aborti on i s in du ce d me re ly to save an n u marri e d mothe r s r epu t ati on or b e cau se th e marri ed moth e r i s too poor or too we ak to h ave an y more or i s r e lu ct an t to h av e an y ( or an y mor e ) childr e n for an y oth e r r e ason i t i s calle d cr im in al or i l l egal aborti on an d if di scov e r e d su bj ect s th e moth e r a n d th e p e r so n w h o pr odu ce d th e ab orti on to se ve r e pu n i shm en t When th e fe tu s f or som e re ason di es in i ts mothe r s womb it i s gen e r ally e xp elle d wi thi n a f ew hou r s or d ay s Som etime s t hi s i s n ot th e case , an d th e d e ad fe tu s i s r e t ai n e d f or se ve r al week s or mon th s or e ven ye ar s ; to su ch a phen ome n on w e Some women su f apply th e t e rm m i ss e d aborti o n f e r from wh at m I gh t b e cal le d th e ab orti o n hab it ; the y can h ardly eve r carry a chi ld to fu ll te rm bu t l o se it in th e same mon th or eve n in th e same we ek of ge stati on du rin g e ach pre gn an cy ; w e call thi s h a An d thi s hab i tu al aborti on m ay bi t u al aborti o n be in d ep e n de n t o f di sease su ch for in stan ce as The te rm s th r e aten e d imm in en t an d i h syp hil i s evi ta bl e aborti o n r equ i re n o fu rthe r expl an ati o n Th e C au ses of A borti on Ou t si d e of th e ab ort ion habit, whi ch m ay b e du e p artly to he redity or b e an a ’ , . ’ , , , , , , . ’ , . , . , . , . , , , . . 86 S E X KN OWLE DGE FOR WO ME N d by a di se ase d con di ti on of th e lin i n g m em bran e of th e u te ru s th e prin cip al cau se of ab orti on An d when a w oman ha s an d mi scarri age i s syp hili s h ad tw o or thre e or fou r or mor e mi scarri ag es in w e gen e r ally assu m e th e cau se to be su cce ssi on syphil is an d i n mo st cas e s th e assu mpti on w ill be corr e ct cau se , . , . C HAP TER SEV E NTEE N PRE NA TAL C AR E p re n atal car e w e u n der stan d th e care take n du rin g pregn an cy be for e th e child i s born U se d in a wi de r se n se th e t e rm i n clu d e s th e ca r e whi ch both p ar en t s S hou ld t ake of themse lve s e ven be fore th e chil d i s con ce i ve d O f cou rse th e fathe r an d th e mothe r sh ou ld be in th e b e st p o ssible phy si cal an d me n t al con di ti on d u r in g th e ti me of con cepti on an d ev en be for e con cep ti on an d the mothe r S hou ld t ak e th e ve r y b e st car e — of he r se l f sh e S hou l d b e in good he alth an d as calm a sp i ri t as po ssi ble du rin g th e e n ti r e pe r i od of g e s For th e gen e ral he alth an d con di ti on of th e tati on mothe r do e s in flu en ce th e child I have se en so mu ch mi se ry cau se d by wron g pr e n at al car e te achi n g an d by th e fooli sh e xagge rate d i deas on th e su bj e ct, that I con side r i t my du ty to say some thi n g i n ord e r to co u n t e r act tho se e rr o n e ou s n oti o n s I con side r i t my spe ci al mi ssi on to de stroy e rr or mystici sm an d su p e r stiti on A n d th e pren atal care t e achin g as imparte d by some u n f or tu n ately par tak e s o f al l thr ee of th e above BY . . , . . , . . , . 871 S E X KN O WLE DGE FOR WO M E N 88 Of cou r se I r ep eat th e moth e r Shou ld try to be in th e b e st po ssible con di ti on whi l e sh e i s carryi n g Neverth el e ss it i s fool i sh to imagin e if th e chi ld th e mothe r i s n ot qu i t e well or i s worri e d abou t som ethi n g or h as a fit of an ge r th at it i s in var i ably goin g to b e r eflect e d on th e child Th e child as w e kn ow ha s n o n e rvou s con n ecti on what ev e r wi th th e mo th e r an d i t i s on l y ve ry vi olen t or prolon ge d sho cks that ar e apt to have an in j u r i ou s i n flu e n ce I kn ow of chi ldr en that we r e carri e d by the i r mothe rs in an ge r an d in an gu i sh from th e d ay of An d stil l the y con ce pti o n to th e d ay of d e li ve ry we r e born p e rfe ctly n ormal I kn ow of a chi ld who se mothe r w as su ffe rin g th e mo st he llish t ortu r e s of j e al ou sy du rin g th e e n ti re p eri od of pr egn an cy an d sti ll th e chi ld w a s bor n p e r fe ctly h e althy p e rfectly n ormal an d i s n ow a spl e n di d sp ecim e n of man h ood I kn ow ch ildr en w ho se mothe r s wen t throu gh seve re att ack s o f p n e u mon i a typhoi d feve r e tc an d sti ll they we re born p er fectly healthy an d p e rfe ctly n or I kn ow chi ldr en who se moth e r s we re u sin g m al e ve ry me an s to abort th em took al l ki n d s o f i n t e r n al m e di ci n e s u n ti l th e y we r e d e athly S i ck an d sti l l the y we re born p e rfe ctly he althy an d n ormal I kn ow chi ldre n who se moth e r s tri e d to abo r t the m by mechan i cal m e an s who we n t to aborti on i st s w h o made on e or mor e att empt s to in du ce th e aborti on , , . , , , , . , , , . . . , , . , , , , . , , . , P R E NA TAL C A R E 89 I kn ow e ven case s whe re th e mothe r s ble d as a resu lt — of su ch att empt s an d n eve rthe le ss th e childre n we re bo rn p e rfe ctly he althy de velope d n ormall y physically an d m en t ally O f cou r se the se a r e n ot thin gs that I wou ld advi se w ome n to d o or to u n d e rg o I wou ld n ot advi se pr e gn an t wome n to wor r y to b e si ck to t ak e po ison ou s me di cin e s or to mak e att e mpt s at ab ort i on bu t I me r ely br in g u p th e se p oin t s to e mphasi z e to my r e ade r s n ot to t ak e th e n ece ssity of pr en at al care in too ab solu t e a se n se an d n ot to worry th emselve s u n n e ce ssaril y i f th e con di t i on s du rin g th e i r p r e g n an cy ar e n ot al l th at cou ld b e de si re d Th e chil d i s n ot n ece ssari ly go in g to b e affe cte d Th e con di ti on O f th e ge rm plasms i e the con di ti on of th e ovu m an d th e sp e rm atozo a at th e time Of con cep ti on i s more impo r tan t than al l su b se qu en t car e d u r in g ge stati on A s the re ar e fooli sh p e opl e who po sse ss a pecu l i ar kn ack Of mi sin te rpre tin g an d mi su n d e r st an din g eve ryt hin g I wi sh to emph asiz e th at hygi e n e du rin g p r e gn an cy shou ld n ot be n eglect e d E ve rythin g pos sibl e sho u ld be don e t o pu t th e moth e r in th e be st i n i i A n o i b l e h y s d m e t a l o n d t o n ll I w t ca l a c n s s a p p to say i s tha t it i s bad to b e in san e on th e su bj ect that i t i s b ad t o t ak e thi n g s in an ab solu t e sen se , an d that it i s bad to e xagge rate , , . . , , , , . . - , . . , . , . . , . C HAP TER E I GHTEEN ST E RILITY S TER ILI TY or b arren n e ss i s a con di ti on of in abili ty to have chil dren I n forme r ye ar s th e opin i on pr e vai le d gen e rally when eve r a cou pl e w as childl e ss that th e fau lt w as exclu sively th e woman s It w asn t e ven thou ght that th e m an co u l d b e to bl ame We n ow kn ow that in at le ast fifty pe r cen t Of case s of ste ri lity or childle ss marr iages th e fau lt i s n ot th e woman s bu t th e m an s It i s th e re fore ve r y n u w i se in con di ti on s Of ste rili ty to su bj ect th e w if e t o tre atmen t wi thou t fir st e xami n i n g th e hu sban d Neve rthele ss thi s i s still Often th e case particu l arly amon g th e lowe r cl a sse s or amo n g th e i gn oran t The re ar e ca se s whe re th e woman goe s from on e do ctor to an oth e r f or year s an d i s su bj ecte d to all kin d s Of tr e atmen t whe n a simple exam in ati on O f th e hu sb an d wou ld show that th e fau lt li e s wi th him Some wom en have on e child an d ar e u n abl e afte r ward s to gi ve bi rth to an y more Su ch a con diti on i s call e d on e chi ld st e rili ty It i s gen e ral l y d u e t o an in fl am mati on Of th e F allop i an tu b e s whi ch cl o se s . , , ’ . ’ . . , , ’ ’ . . , , . , . . - - . 90 SEX 92 th e KN OWL E DGE F O R WO M E N s er ma o z a An o the r cau se i s a se ve re ben d t o in g or tu r n in g Of the u t e ru s e i the r forw ards or b ackw ard s Th e Open in g Of th e n eck Of th e womb th e os may al so be cl ose d or practi call y so f rom u l ce ra ti on from str on g appli cati on s e tc I n some ca se s ste r ili ty may be du e t o se ve r e co n stitu ti on al di se ase when th e pe rson i s ve r y mu ch r u n down an d s o an emi c that m en st r u a ti on st op s U n fortu n ate ly thi s i s n ot al ways th e case for women e ven in th e las t stage s Of con su mpti on may an d Often do be come pre gn an t Syphil i s u n fortu n atel y doe s n ot cau se ste rili ty ; i t o n l y cau se s mi scarri age s u n til con troll e d by tre atmen t Th e tr e atmen t Of ste r ili ty can b e su cce ssfu lly car r i e d ou t on l y by a comp e te n t physi ci an p arti cu l arl y by on e w h o i s devotin g hims el f sp e ci al l y t o thi s kin d B u t I wan t on ce more to imme ss u p on O f w o rk e ve r y woman w h o i s ste ril e an d w h o w an ts to h ave a chil d, n ot to have h e r se lf treate d or e ven e xami n e d u n ti l h er hu sban d has been su bj cote d t o an exam in a to p . . , , , , , , . , . , , , . . , . , C HAP TER THE NI N E TEE N ME NOP A U SE O R C HAN GE O F LIF E h p te r on men stru ati on I r efe r red b ri efly to th e men opau se I will con side r it he re some what more in d e tail Th e me n op au se al so call ed th e cli macte ric, an d “ i s th e p e ri od i n common lan gu age chan ge of li fe Th e aver age at whi ch woman ce ase s to me n stru ate Bu t ag e at whi ch thi s o ccu r s i s abou t forty e ight whil e some w omen con tin u e to men stru at e u p to th e age O f fifty fif ty two an d e ven fifty five othe rs ce ase to me n stru ate at th e ag e O f forty five or e ve n forty tw o Be twee n for ty fou r an d fifty tw o are th e A n ythi n g b efor e or be yon d that i s n o rmal limi t s excep ti on al Ju st as th e be gin n i n g of men stru ati on may set in w i thou t an y t ro u bl e Of an y kin d an d j u st as some w omen have n ot th e slighte st u n pl e asan t symptoms du r in g th e e n ti r e pe ri od o f the i r men stru al lif e so th e men opau se o ccu rs in som e women withou t an y trou ble physi cal or p sychi c The p e ri ods be tween the m en se s be com e pe rhap s a li ttle lon ge r, or a little I N th e c a . . , ” , . - , - - , . , - - - - . . . , , , 98 KN OWLE DGE S EX 94 WO M E N FOR i r reg u la r , th e men st ru al flow becom e s more an d m o re scan ty, the n on e or se ve r al pe r i od s m ay be skippe d al toge the r an d th e m e n opau se i s pe m Man y women , howev e r th e ma u e n tly e stab l i shed r i n s i an o p ro bly fl e o d e r l y d r i h e tr b a r c a b u n t su t j y g Symptoms si ti on al ye ar or year s of th e men op au se ar e bo th of a physi cal an d O f a p sychi c cha racte r , bu t th e psychi c sym ptoms pre domin ate The re ma y be he ad ache , capr ici ou s app e ti te or comple te loss of appe tite , co n s i de rable l o ss of fle sh or on th e con tr ar y very su dden an d r api d pu ttin g on of fat great ir ri tabili ty, in somn i a, profu se pe r spi rati on ; hot fla shes throu ghou t th e bod y an d p ar ti cu larl y in th e “ face, whi ch make th e face blu shi n g an d con ge ste d ar e p articu l arly frequ en t The n th e woman s char acte r m ay be co m pl e tely chan ge d From gen tle , . , , . . , , , , ” ’ , . . qu ar r els ome y wi thou t an y grou n ds for it may be on e of th e di sagree able sym ptoms makin g bo th th e wi fe an d the hu sban d ve r y u n happy I n some except i on al cases a g en u in e n eu ro sis or psy ch osi s m ay d eve lo p C au se of Su fferi n g Dmi n g M en opau se It is my con vi cti o n an d I have ha d thi s con vi cti o n for man y years that man y if n ot mo st of th e di stre ssin g sym ptoms of th e me n op au se ar e d u e n ot to th e m en op au se i tse lf bu t to the wron g i de as abou t thi s . Je alou s , . . . , , , , , , THE ME N OP AU S E 95 ri od that have p r evail e d for so man y cen tu rie s We kn ow th e in flu en ce of th e mi n d over the body an d th e pe rn ici ou s cfi e ct whi ch wron g i de as may Th e gen e ral l y pre valen t e xe rci se ove r ou r fe elin gs opin i on am on g wome n , an d m en for that matte r, an d n ot on l y O f th e l aity bu t u n fort u n ate ly o f th e me di cal profe ssi on as well i s that the men opau se ’ i s th e en d of w oman s sex u al l if e E ve r y wom an i s laborin g u n de r th e e rron e ou s impr e ssi on that wi th th e e stabli shmen t o f th e me n op au se w i th th e ce s an d sati on of th e m en se s sh e ce as es t o b e a woman sh e be come s some as sh e do e s n ot b e com e a m an thin g Of a n eu t er b ein g n eithe r woman n or m an An d sh e ha s th e i de a th at aft e r the men op au se sh e can have n o fu r the r attracti o n f or h e r hu sb an d or f or o the r m en Natu r all y su ch an i dea h as a ve r y de pre ssin g e fi ect on an y hu man bein g A n y hu m an be in g fights to th e l ast to re tain all its hu m an fu n c ti on s e speci ally th e fu n cti on whi ch i s con sidere d as im po r tan t as i s th e se xu al fu n cti on e p . , . , . , , , , . , . . , . R eprodu ctive Fu n cti on an d S exu al Fu n cti on N ot on ymou s Of cou rse wi th th e p erm an en t ces sa ti on of the men se s th e woman s r epr odu cti ve fu n c ti on i s at an e n d B u t th e reprodu ctive fu n cti on i s I mu s t n ot syn on ymou s wi th th e se x u al fu n ction in si st agai n an d again an d n atu r al ly u n ti l thi s e r r o n e ou s i de a i s di spel l ed mu ch u n n e ce ssa ry mi se r y w ill Syn . ’ . , , 96 S EX KN OWL E DGE F OR WOME N women in gen e ral wil l l earn that w i th th e establishm e n t o f th e men op au se the y do n ot ce ase to be women if they w i ll learn tha t the se xu a l de si r e in wom en lasts lon g beyon d th e ces sati on of th e men opau se man y wome n be in g a s p as si on a te at six ty as at thi rty if the y w i ll l e arn that thei r att racti ve n e ss or n on attractiven e ss to th e mal e se x do e s n ot de pe n d u pon th e me n opau se bu t u pon the i r gen e ral con di ti on if the y will learn that man y women at fifty an d sixty ar e mu ch m ore a tt r acti ve than s ome wome n at hal f that age the y w i ll n ot t ake th e on se t o f th e me n op au se so tr agi cally an d th e y will the re by avo i d th e gre at e r p ar t O f th e i r me n tal an d e moti o n al su fl e r i n g Th e actu al atrophy of th e ovarie s u te ru s e xt e r n al ge n i tal s an d th e bre as t s can of cou r se n ot be preve n te d bu t tha t atrophy i s a slow an d gradu al p roce ss an d is n ot in i tself th e cau se o f the var iou s di stre ssin g symptom s th at w e have e n u me r ate d The tre atmen t of th e me n opau se if th e symptoms ar e at al l di sagr ee able or di str e ssin g shou l d b e in th e han ds O f a compe te n t physician A li ttl e whol e some advi ce m ay be more e ffici en t than gall on s of me di cin e an d bu shel s of p il l s In gen e ral th e w oman shou l d tr y t o lead as cal m an d p e acefu l a li fe as pos sibl e Warm b ath s dail y ar e be n eficial con stipati on sh ou l d b e g u ar de d ag ai n st h ot vagin al dou ch e s ar e be th e l ot of ou r w ome n If . , , , - , , , . , , , , , , . , , , . . . , , THE M E N OPA US E 97 often e flicien t ag ain st th e di sagree abl e flu she s an d las t, bu t n ot le ast, the hu sban d shou l d du rin g thi s cr i ti cal pe r i od be dou bly kin d an d dou bly con si de r It i s du rin g th e ye ar s be twee n forty ate O f hi s w if e fiv e an d fif ty five th at th e wi fe i s mo st in n ee d of h er hu sban d s symp athy an d su ppo r t , . - ’ . C HAP TER Tw THE EN TY HABIT O F MA S TURBA TI O N MAS TU R B ATI O N or self abu se i s a te r m applied to a b ad hab i t whi ch con s i st s in han dlin g an d r u bbin g th e gen i tal s It i s a bad habi t becau se i t i s apt to in j u r e th e he alth an d fu tu r e developmen t o f th e i i en i h rl Th mor e fr q tly s pr t d mor i ce e u t ac e e t e g in j u ri ou s i t i s It i s mor e in j u ri ou s than whe n pr ac tice d by boys becau s e the e fi ects ar e u su ally more p e rman e n t Gi rls wh o in du l ge i n th e habi t of m as tu rb ati on t o ex ce s s n ot o n ly weaken thems el v e s b e come an emi c an d ge t a di n gy p imply comple xi on bu t they lo se the i r de si r e for n orma l se xu al rel a ti on s when they grow u p an d ar e u n able to de rive they get an y ple asu re from th e se xu al act whe n marri ed I n fact man y gi rls who mastu rb ate d ex ce ssiv el y g et a stron g ave r si on to th e n ormal se xu al Their act an d th e i r mar rie d lif e i s an u n h appy on e hu sban ds Often have t o ask for a divorce Fortu n atel y th e h ab it i s mu ch le ss wi de spr e ad amon g girls than it i s amon g boys Whil e abou t n i n ety — — n i n o u ll e f n O t of b oy v ry r e a s t e e n m e c t e as p tu rbate more or le ss on ly abou t ten or at mo st - . . , . , . , , , , . , , . . , . . , 98 1 00 S EX KN OWL E DGE F O R WO M E N ome thin g te rrible that i t h as di sgraced th em an d i t se lf ; an d they try to pe r su ad e it that u n l e ss i t stop s imme d i ate ly th e mo st di r e fu l con se qu e n ce s Th e r esu lt s of thi s mode of pro ar e awai tin g i t — mu ch more S O than i s th e ced u r e ar e di sastro u s mastu rbati on i t se lf Ofte n th e scoldin g an d th e e xpo su r e of th e child Thi s implan ts ar e don e i n th e pre sen ce of othe r s i n th e poor gi rl a su l len r e se n tmen t that o n ly m ak e s Wh en i t mor e di flicu l t for i t to b re ak th e habi t th e chi ld i s brou ght to th e physi ci an you can se e by its behavi or by i ts down cast looks by its su l ki n e ss by i ts attemp t t o re fr ain from t e ar s an d oth e r sign s that i t r e gard s th e physi ci an in e xactly th e sam e light as a yo u thf u l crimin al r e gard s th e j u dge be fore whom h e h as b een brou ght f or trial It i s time hi gh time th at thi s sil ly an d in j u r i ou s at ti tu d e toward a pr acti ce whi ch i s ve ry com mo n It i s time that p aren t s an d be r adi cally chan ged physici an s le arn that th e in j u ri ou sn e ss O f th e h ab i t It i s time h as b ee n gr e atly gro s sly e xagge rat e d that the y kn ow th at th e vast maj ority o f boys an d h i i l e e t a i r s ov r e h b t w tho t b e g m t u i n u c h o r g g Th e kn owl ed ge Of thi s fact an y th e wor se for i t w il l n ot o n l y save them an d th e chi ldr e n mu ch n e e d l ess an g u i sh an d sn fi er in g bu t w ill make i t mu ch s , , , . . . . , ‘ , , , , , . , , , , . , . ‘ , ‘ , . , ' THE e asie 1 01 HA BIT O F MA S T U RBA TIO N de al wi th th e l atte r make i t mu ch e asie r t o g e t them divorce d from the habit If w e look at th e matte r in a sen sible commo n sen se w ay an d d o n ot te ll th e child cau ght i n th e pr act ice that it h as don e somethin g di sgrace fu l l y vi ci o u s an d crimin al b u t sp e ak to it kin dly an d t ell it that it i s do in g s ome thin g that m ay in j u r e i t m i n i u i r tly t h a t a t e rf e r e w th f u t r m t l e e a t s e n a y g an d physi cal he alth an d dev elopme n t the n w e sh all have f ar gre at e r su cce ss in ou r e n de avor s to bre ak As th e boy or th e gi rl of th e hab i t of ma stu rbati on I have said in an othe r place “ I n my opin i on st i gmati zin g e ve n th e mo st mo d cr at e in du lge n ce i n mastu rb ati on as a vi ce h as a de le te ri ou s e ffect u pon th e pe ople who so in du l ge an d mak e s i t harde r for th em to br eak of th e h abi t E ve ry thi n kin g physi ci an an d sexologi st can tell you that p ictu rin g th e mast u rb atory habi t in too lu ri d co l or s an d sti gmati z in g i t wi th too stron g e p ith et s has as a r u le th e con trary e fi ect to th e on e ex T f h i n i e i i s e h e v t m h b t c o d r t h e t d c O e m e c s t a p Th ey lo se thei r se l ve s de gr ad ed i rre tri ev ably lo st sel f re spe ct an d it i s on accou n t of th at hard e r f or th em to br eak themselve s of th e h abit I am n ot t ryin g t o mi n im i ze th e dan ge r of mas t u rb ati on for if in du l ge d in from an early age an d to gre at e xce ss th e re su l t s m ay be di sast ro u s r to , . , , , , , . , . , , . . , - , , , ” . , , , . 1 02 SEX KN OWL E DGE F O R WO M E N ven if I we r e to mi n imi z e th e evil con se i n a s th t wo ld b e l e s o f t h an to ex s u a u e a e n c s g q n i een m an s e s o t th m b do for y h h a e e w a t t e r a e y g ye ar s by so man y pe opl e in th e profe ssi on an d ou t of it Th e evil re su lt s o f e xagge ratin g th e in flu e n ce o f m ast u rb at i o n have b e e n s o g r e at in th e p ast that if n ow th e p en du l u m we re to swin g to th e othe r e xtre me I am su r e i t wou ld n ot b e a b ad thin g B u t, e . , , . , , at all . bj e ct of th e tr eatm en t Of mas tu rbation b elon gs t o a me di cal tre ati se B u t a f e w remarks on how t o pre ven t chi ldr en from acqu i r in g th e habi t of mastu r b ati on wi ll n ot b e ou t of pl ace Preven ti on of the Habit of Mastu rbati on Th e keyn ote of pr eve n tin g th e h abi t i s car e fu ll y to watch th e chi ld from i ts e arlie st in f an cy We kn ow that n ot in fre qu en tly s tu p i d or vi ci ou s n u r se mai ds w e t n u r se s an d e ve n govern e sse s i gn oran tly or d e lib e r at e ly in du ce th e habi t in chi ldr e n u n de r the i r ch arge Thi s Of cou r se mu st b e pr even t ed E ven children of th e age of n in e ten e l eve n ye ar s shou l d n ot be l e ft alon e, bu t always b e u n de r su p e rvi si on TOO cl o se fri e n dship b e tw e e n boys or gi rl s p a rt i cu l arly of di fi e r en t age s shou l d be looked u pon w i th su spi ci o n To deal w i th the su . , . , . , , . , , . , , . , , . 1 04 KN OWLE DGE F OR W O M E N S EX de ve lop e d as ar e oth e r s Of thi rt een ) w e mu st t ell th em that it i s b ad an d in j u ri ou s to h an dl e on e s ge n i tal s an d w e mu st warn th em to S hu n an y com p an ion s who wi sh to in itiate them in to an y m an ipu l ati on s Of the se p arts or who show an in clin ati on to t al k abou t th e sexu al organ s an d sex matte rs Hot b ath s are ve ry in j u ri ou s f or you n g chi ldre n Th e r e i s n o qu e s in the i r i n flu e n ce in thi s di recti on tI on th at a hot b ath h as a v e ry d e ci de d stimu l ati n g c fi e ct u pon the se xu al d e si r e of adu lt s as we ll as o f chi ldr en both mal e an d femal e ; in fact I h av e h ad seve ral p ati e n t s O f e ith e r se x t e ll m e th at th e i r fir st mastu rb atory act w as commi tt e d whil e th ey we r e i n Of cou r se the sen sati on h avin g be en a h ot b ath pl e asu rable th ey kept on re pe at in g th e e xp e ri en ce E ve ry factor li able to giv e r i se to th e h ab i t shou ld b e re move d T hu s f or in st an ce e cz ema abou t th e n n h m n n i i i e c u e e t l tro gly d r twor e s a s a s d t a s a g Th at an yth in g l ike Sh ou ld b e tr e at e d u n til cu r e d havin g a t en den cy prem atu rely to awak en th e sexu al in stin ct shou ld be ri gorou sly avo id ed go e s w i tho u t ar e as , ’ , . . , , , . , . , , , , , . , , M en tal or Psychi c M astu rbati on S ome gi rl s . an d wome n will ab st ain from han dlin g th emselve s w ith thei r han d s ( man u al m astu rbati on ) bu t will pr ac ti ce wh at w e call me n t al mastu rb ati on T hat i s th ey w il l co n cen tr at e th e i r mi n d s on th e oppo si t e s ex , . , , THE HAB IT OF MA STU RBA TIO N 1 05 p ictu r e to th emselv e s vari ou s l ascivi ou s scen es, Thi s me th od i s e x u n til th ey fe el sati sfie d tr eme ly in j u ri ou s an d exh au stin g an d i s v e ry lik ely to le ad to n eu r asthe n i a an d a n e rvou s br e akdown Y ou shou ld br eak you r sel f of i t by all me an s i f you F or it i s even more in j u ri ou s th an th e re gu lar can habit w ill . . , . . , C HA P TE R T WE N TY - — LE U C O RRHE A THE ON E WHIT E S LE U C OR R HEA me an s li t e r al ly a whi t e ru n n i n g an d i s appli e d by th e l ai ty t o an y wh it i sh di sch arge Thi s i s wron g b e cau se comin g from th e v agin a som e whi t e d i scha rge s m ay b e O f li ttl e i mport an ce ; othe r s m ay b e of a se ri ou s ch ar act e r an d n ot b e leu corrhe a at al l Le u corrh e a i s on e O f th e b on e s O f the mod e rn gi rl I t i s ve ry fr e qu e n t P rob ably at le ast an d woman i fi f twen ty five pe r ce n t ( some say ty or sev en ty fiv e f f i e r i n e r n f l e t t l wom w i th gr t r o en s u a a o e r ce a ) p l e sse r d e gr ee I n some ca se s i t i s on ly an an n oy an ce n ece ssi t ati n g th e fr e qu en t ch an gin g O f n ap ki n s bu t in oth e r s i t cau se s a g r e at d e al of we akn e ss b ackache e ro si on s i tchi n g an d bu rn in g I t i s ve ry r e si stan t to tr e atm en t p articu larly in girl s Th e r e ason i t i s so r e si st an t to tr eatmen t i s b e cau se th e di scharge whil e com i n g from th e v ag i n a d oe s n ot u s u al l y or i g in a te i n th e v agin a ; i t or i gi n at e s i n th e n e ck O f th e womb an d th e hu n dr e d s an d hu n dr e d s of in j e cti o n s th at w o m en t ak e f or th e i r l e u corrhe a on l y re ach th e vagi n a ; t h e y can n ot p en e tr ate in to , , . , . . . - r . . . , , , , , . . , , , , 106 108 S EX KN OWLE DGE F O R WO M E N r e su l tan t leu corr hea A gen e r al ru n down con di ti on worry ove rwork too h ard stu dy lack of fre sh ai r an d a ge n e r al scro fu lou s co n di ti on al so favor the deve lopmen t of catarrh of th e womb an d leu corrhea It wi ll the r e fore b e seen that the tr e atmen t O f l eu cor r h e a to be su cce ssfu l mu st b e ge n e r al an d local Th e gen e ral tr e atmen t con Gen eral Treatmen t si sts i n ge n e r al hygi e n i c me asu r e s an d i n common Th e p ati e n t shou ld n ot b e on h e r fee t mor e sen se than sh e can help an d sh e shou l d n ot walk u n til ex It i s b e tt e r to t ak e seve ral h au sted or fatig u e d Th e cor se t S h e we ar s short walk s th an on e lon g on e i f sh e wear s an y at all sho u ld b e of th e mode rn ki n d : n ot on e th at pr e sse s th e womb an d th e othe r bu t on e that su pport s th e abdomi n al organ s down abdomi n al wall s an d r ath e r r ai se s th e abdomi n al organ s u p Th e lacin g or bu tton in g mu st b e from b elow u p an d n ot from abov e down That it sh ou ld n ot in an y w ay i n t e r fe r e wi th th e fr e e dom O f r e sp i r ati on go e s wi thou t sayi n g C on stip ati on if an y to b e tr e ate d mu st b e tr e at e d i n te lli gen tly by mi ld me asu r e s ( see C on stip ati on in th e chapt e r on P re g n an cy ) an d car e mu st b e t aken th at th e bowe l s move Wh e re th e leu corrhe a i s d u e to or at r e gu l ar h ou r s i s aggravate d by an emi a an d ge n e ral we akn e ss a i i n n n fi ood ro pr e p a r a t o u c h o e Bl u d e s as a s v g n i i n i f n a e e d a r i i r p ll thr t m to ro e a c o u i a s o q y, g a . , , , , , . . . . , . . , , , , . , . . , , , , , , . , ’ , , — LE U C O RRH E A THE 10 9 WHITE S trychn i n e will d o good A daily cold b ath or cold spon ge followed by a bri sk dry r u b n g wi th a ro u gh t owe l i s al so u se fu l Local Treatmen t L o cal m e asu r e s con sis t of p ain t in g or swabbin g th e vagin a an d ce r v ix with vari ou s su ppo sitori e s an d dou ch e s sol u ti o n s of tampon s Lo ca l appli cati on to th e vagin a an d u t e ru s can be don e sati sfactorily by th e physi ci an or n u r se on l y Th e in se rti on o f a su ppo si tory or dou chi n g can b e e asi ly don e by th e p at i en t h e r se lf While it is alway s b e st an d safe st to con su lt a physi ci an an d while self me di cati on i s gen e rally i n advi sable th e re ar e o cca si on s wh e n a phy si ci an i s n ot availab l e ; i n som e small pl ace s a woman m ay, n e o n e i n i o a s c n h a v tro g obj t o to gy a r e o v a u re s s r s f an d tre atmen t ; an d s ome ool ogi cal exami n ati on I n su ch w om e n m ay b e t oo poor to pay th e do ctor ci r cu m st an ce s se lf tr e atmen t i s j u stifie d an d the re can b e n o Obj e cti on to i t if th e r eme di e s ar e harm l e ss an d ar e su r e to do some good ; that i s to im prov e th e con diti on whe re the y d o n ot e fi ect a com e e e l t c r u p On e of th e simpl e st thi n gs i s an al u m tampon Y ou t ake a pie ce of ab sorb e n t cotton abou t the si z e of a fist spr ead i t ou t pu t abou t a t abl e spoon fu l Of powde r ed al u m on it fold i t u p tie a stri n g arou n d th e ce n t e r in se rt i t i n th e vagin a as f ar as i t w i ll go , n in e an d s . , , . , . , , . . . , - , , , . - , . . , , , , , , 110 S EX KN OWLE DGE F O R W O M E N le ave it in f or twe n ty fou r hou r s Th en pu l l i t gen tly by th e stri n g an d syrin ge you r se lf wi th a qu art or tw o qu art s O f warm wat e r Su ch a t am pon m ay b e in se rt e d ev e ry othe r d ay or e ve ry thi rd d ay an d I h ave kn own m an y cas e s wh e r e thi s S impl e tr e atm e n t alon e produ ce d a cu r e I n some case s howev e r dou che s work b ett e r an d th e tw o b e st thin g s for dou chi n g ar e : tin ctu r e O f i odi n e an d l actic acid B u y say fo u r ou n ce s O f ti n ctu r e of i odin e an d u se two t e aspoon fu l s in tw o qu art s of h ot wate r i n a dou che b ag Thi s in j e cti on shou ld b e u sed twi ce a d ay morn in g an d n ight Of th e lacti c aci d you bu y say a p in t an d u se two t abl e spoo n fu l s to two qu art s O f wat e r Th e lacti c aci d h a s th e advan tage ove r th e tin ctu r e of i odin e th at i t i s colorl e ss whi le th e i odin e i s dark an d st ai n s what eve r i t come s in con t act wi th Some time s I ord e r th e u se of th e tin ctu r e o f i odin e an d th e l act i c aci d al t e rn at e ly : f or on e dou ch e th e tin ctu r e O f i odin e for th e n e xt th e l acti c aci d an d Wh en th e con dit i on im prov e s i t i s su ffici en t so on to u se on e t e aspoon fu l o f th e tin ctu r e O f i odin e an d on e t able spoon fu l O f th e l acti c aci d to two qu art s O f wat e r The se i n j e cti on s ar e qu i t e e ffici en t an d have th e advan tage of b ein g p e r fe ctly harml e ss On e po in t abou t th e in j e cti on s : th ey shou ld b e t ak e n n ot in th e stan di n g or squ attin g po si ti o n i n wh i h c ( p o siti on th e flu id come s right ou t ) bu t while lyin g an d - . . , , . , . , , , . , . , , , . , . , , . , . . , THE V E NE R E A L TH E DISE AS E S word ven e r e al me an s p e rt ain i n g to sex u al — i n t e r cou r se : ven e r e al e xce ss e xce s s in sexu al i n — te r cou r se ; ve n e r e al di se ase a di se ase acqu i re d from Th e in f ect e d p e r so n s e xu al in t e r cou r se wi th an — word i s de rive d from V e n u s ( gen itive v en e ri s ) th e Roman godd e s s O f sprin g flowe r s an d Love Th e re ar e thre e ven e r e al di se ase s : gon orrh ea Of th e se gon orrh e a i s th e syphi li s an d ch an cro i d mo st wi de spr e ad syphi li s th e mo st se ri ou s Ch an cr oi d i s of co m p ar ative ly l i ttl e import an ce Whil e by f ar th e gr e at e st amou n t Of ven e r eal di s — — n e as e s prob ably n i e ty pe r cen t o f th e total i s i n te r co u r se it i s we ll to co n tr act e d from i lli ci t b e ar in min d that som e of it i s con tr acte d i n n ocen tly e i th e r from a ki s s or from u sin g a spon ge or a towe l whi ch h as b e en u se d by an in f ect ed p e r son etc Whi l e th e gon orrheal ge rm i s ge n e rally tran smitte d di re ctly th e syphi li tic poi son m ay b e t ran smi tted throu gh vari ou s obj e ct s Syphi li s con tr acted n ot du rin g in t e rcou r se bu t i n an in n o cen t man n e r, from ” . , , . , , . , . . . , , , , , . , I l l ici t—il l egal , n on l m b e r i i e s s , p - 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THE V E N E R EAL 113 toothbru sh a r azor etc i s call e d In syp hi li s of th e i n n o ce n t or syphil i s in son tiu m forme r ye ar s do ctor s wou ld n ot ve ry r arely co n trac t syphil i s from e x am in i n g syphi l i t i c wom e n wi th the i r b ar e fin ge r s Now S in ce glove s have come in to u se f or examin in g pu rpo se s th e n u m be r o f i n fe cti on s h as co n si d e r ably dim in i sh e d A n d n o dou bt that as th e p e opl e b e come mor e famili ar with th e dan ge r of ven e r e al in fecti on from n on v en e re al sou rce s th e n u mb e r O f in n o ce n t in fect i on s will g r e atly di mi n i sh Th e d an ge rou s roll e r towel an d th e n o le s s d an ge r ou s co mmo n dri n ki n g cu p ar e b e in g gr adu ally e li mi n at e d as factor s of n on ven e r e al i n f ect i o n ; an d w e m ay co n fid e n tly e xp e ct that in a de cad e or two th e amou n t of ven e r e al di se ase from v e n e r e al in fe cti o n wi l l b e gr e atly le ssen e d in all civi liz e d cou n tri e s Th e g e n e ral in cr e ase in cl e an lin e ss i n al l str at a of so ci e ty an d th e u n iv e r sal u se O f an ti s eptics af te r su sp i ci ou s s e xu al r e l ati on s wi ll co n sti tu t e th e chie f f actor s in thi s di mi n u ti on of ven e re al di se ase a ki ss, a. towel DIS EA S E S , a , , , , . . , . - , . - . . C HAP TER THE E XTE NT Former Sil en ce T WE N TY THR EE - OF DIS E AS E V E NE RE AL On l y a very few years ago re sp ectab l e wom en by whi ch I m e an al l wom e n ou t si d e O f th e women calle d fallen di d n ot kn ow O f th e It w a s co n side r ed a e xi st en ce of v e n e r eal di s e as e prohibi te d di sgrace fu l su bj e ct n ot to b e men ti on e d or e v e n hi n t e d at in co n ve r s at i on i n book s or m aga zi n e s in l e ctu r e s or on th e st age Wh en I say tha t they di d n ot kn ow of th e ex i s ten ce of su ch a thin g as ven e r e al di sease th at th e ve ry word s gon orrhea an d syp hi li s w e r e u n kn own to th em I u se th e se e xpre s si on s n ot as figu r e s O f sp ee ch bu t in th e i r l it e r al me an i n g A ll aven u e s of acqu i rin g su ch kn owle dge — be in g clo se d to th e m l ay p e ople don t u su ally n ow pu rch as e an d r e ad an d th ey su r ely d i dn t th e n — whe re cou ld the y Obtai n stri ctly medi cal work s th e i n form at i o n " Th e r e su lt w as th at wh en a woman w as so u n for tu n at e as to con tract a ven e r e al di se a se from h e r hu sb an d sh e d id n ot u n de r st an d i ts ch aract e r an d d i d n ot su sp e ct i ts sou rce Which — w a s a r ath e r good thi n g f or th e hu sb an d F amily e ce w mor r a e ec u e a s s p . , ’ ‘ , . , , , , , . , , , . ’ ’ , . . . SE X 1 16 KN OWLE DGE F O R WO M E N man y r efo rme rs h e p er mi tt e d hi s z e al t o r u n a w ay wi th hi m o ccas i o n ally an d h e m ad e st ate me n t s which cau se d an d ar e still cau sin g th e j u di ci ou s t o gr i eve Th e stat emen t for in stan ce that the re i s mo r e ven e r eal di se ase amon g in n o cen t vi rtu ou s w i ve s than am o n g pro st itu t e s i s on e to cau se th e r e al hon e st in ve sti gator to we ep ( ove r th e hu m an ten den ey to exagge rati on ) or to bu rst ou t in u pro ar i ou s l au ghte r Th e r i di cu lou sn e ss O f thi s stat emen t b e comes e sp e ci ally e vi d en t wh en w e r ecoll ect th at th e same ge n tl em an mad e th e stat eme n t that e ve ry pro s titu te w i thou t exce pti on w as di se ase d at on e ti me or I f v en e r e al di se ase exi st s amo n g pro sti an othe r tu te s to th e e xt en t of 1 00pe r cen t the n how can i t ex i st to a gr e ate r e xt e n t amon g i n n ocen t vi r tu o u s w i ve s " A n d to sti ll fu rth e r e mphasi z e th e ab su rdi ty of th e above st at emen t I will t ell you that th e ex t en t Of ven e r e al di sease am on g ma r r i ed women i s b el i eve d by care fu l n on sen sati on al ven e re ologist s n ot to e xce e d five pe r ce n t " Y e s th e S il en ce O f forme r y e ar s h as give n place to th e lu ri d exagge rati on of th e pr e se n t d ay Whi le on th e whole th e f orme r w as wor se than th e l att e r th e latt e r i s b ad e n o u gh b e cau se i t mak e s man y gi rl s u n h appy sowi n g in th em th e se e d s O f su spi ci o n an d cyn i ci sm t en d s to m ake th em an t agon i sti c to th e e n ti r e male sex an d in o cu late s them wi th a sen seless ” , , , , . , , . , , . . , , , - , . , , , , , O F VE NE R E AL DISE A S E E XT E NT 1 17 fear of marri age A stu dy made by Mi riam C Gou ld of th e d ep artmen t of p sych ology an d philo s th e U n ive r sity of P i tt sbu rg ( S ocial Hy Oph y i n A e r e k n i n i pr i l orrobor t u r m r c a s a s o a e e g st r ik i n g man n e r S h e h as h ad con fid en ti al chat s wi th 50you n g girl s, wi th whom sh e h as h ad som e acqu ai n t an ce ; of the se 50 25 we r e colle ge stu d en t s an d 25 we r e n ot She a ske d th em a n u mb e r o f qu e st i on s th e pu rpo se of whi ch w as to fin d ou t what p sychologic e fi ect if an y th e i r kn owl edge of pro stitu t i on an d of ven er e al di s S h e st at e s in h e r co n clu si on s e ase h as h ad on th em “ that th e hi stor ie s r eve al a large p e rcen tage of harmfu l r e su lt s su ch as con diti on s borde rin g u pon n e u r a sth en i a m e lan choli a p e s simi sm an d s e x c u tag on i sm ( i t alics min e ) di rectly tr aceabl e to thi s E l ev en of th e gi rl s in t e rv i ewe d d eve l kn owl e dge op e d a pro n ou n ce d r ep u l si o n for m en althou gh pri or to thei r kn owle dge th ey h ad e n joy e d m en s com p an y The y n ow avoi d asso ci ati on w i th the m an d six h av e d e cl ar e d th at th ey h av e tot ally lo st fai th E ight h av e alr e ady in th e moral cl e an n e ss O f m en r e fu se d to marry or in ten d to d o so b ecau se of their b eli e f that th e ri sk of in fecti on w as too g r e at If i t we r e n ot f or th e e xi st en ce of the se di sease s they say th ey wou ld b e glad to marry A l l of the se say the i r ” deci si on h as ren de r e d them more or l ess u n happy . . , , , . , . , , , . , , , , . , ’ ’ ‘ . , . , , . , . . 11 8 SEX KN OWLE DGE F O R WO ME N l au dable d e sir e to ke e p ou r you n g wome n pu r e an d to prot e ct th em from in fecti on in th e e n d e avor to make the m d em an d on e mor al s tan da rd for both se xe s ou r e xagge ratin g r e fo r me rs ar e con d e mn i n g th e m to li fe lon g ce lib acy whi ch in th e ca se o f wome n O fte n me an s li felon g n eu rasthen ia an d hypoch on dri a Th e Tr u th of th e M atter Her e i s th e Tr u th abou t — ven e re al di se ase th e t ru th as I kn ow it wi thou t co n ce al men t on th e on e h an d an d wi thou t e x agge r a ti on on th e othe r E xact figu re s ar e of cou r se n u obtain able an ywhe r e ; bu t r e su lt s Obtai n e d from u n bia sed i n ve stigati on s Of diff e r en t clas se s of soci e ty from ho spi tal r e port s from qu e sti on n ai re s amon g tell u s th at prob ably abou t twen ty stu de n t s e tc n i a r n a e u a e t o f d lt m l pop l t o h v t m er t h e a u e i i ce t c s p O f gon orrh e a at on e tim e or an othe r ; tha t prob ably e ight or te n p er ce n t ar e n ot e n ti r e ly cu r e d whe n the y e n t e r matrimon y ; an d fou r or five pe r ce n t n o er f w i ce o om wo d t w v b om e u l sa t e e s i n s c e ( p y ) T hi s I say i s te rrible f e cted wi th gon orrhe a e n ou gh an d mak e s th e grea t e st car e an d cau t i o n i m n if e e i i f r o u ho ld b o O f e v c t m O f s h u i r e o t s e a t v ; y p th e two or five pe r cen t i t wou ld b e l i ttle con s ola ti on to you that th e othe r n i n e ty e ight or n in ety five e n i e e ca r t o f w v e s h a v s p d e ce p Of cou r se th e p e rcen t ag e of ve n e re al di se ase I n th e , , , . . , , . , , , , , . . . . , . , , , , - . . - 1 20 S EX KN OWLE DG E FOR WO M E N pe rce n tage d i fi e r s con side rabl e from th e 75 50or 25 n i n x e r ce e e t v u by s om e l r e r b h s s ec t u s t w hi u c g p i s te rr ibl e en ou gh as it i s wi th ou t an y exaggera , . , , C HAP TER T WE NTY FO U R - G O N ORRHE A bj ect of gon orrh ea an d syphi li s i s tr e ate d pr e tty fu lly from a layman s poin t o f vi ew in th e I do n ot in t en d au thor s S ea: K n ow l e dg e for M en to d evot e mu ch space to a di scu ssi on o f th e det ail s of th e se tw o di s e ase s h e r e b e cau se th e su bj e ct i s n ot of su ch di r e ct i n te r e st to wome n Re spe ctable gi rl s an d wom en do n ot in du lge in illici t re l ati on s th e sam e a s r e sp e ct abl e m en an d boys do an d th e i r dan ge r o f con tractin g a ven e r e al di se ase i s in sign ifi I wil l the re can t as comp ar e d wi th m e n s l iabi li ty fore tou ch u pon on ly a f ew poin t s p articu larly in s o far as th e di s e ase s d i fi e r in th e i r cou r s e from th e cou r se p u r su ed in m en Gon orrhea i s an in fl ammati on cau se d by a ge rm call e d th e go n o co ccu s di scove r e d by Dr A Ne i sse r , Ge rman y in 1 879 A n y mu cou s m em of Br e sl au bran e m ay b e th e se at of gon orrhea bu t it attacks by pr efere n ce th e mu cou s m embran e of th e gen it al — organ s, an d of on e oth e r organ th e eye I ts prin cipal sympt om s ar e : in flam mati o n , p ain , bu rn in g TH E su ’ , , ’ . , . , ’ . , , , . , , . . . , , . 121 122 SEX KN O WL E DGE F OR W O M E N d di scharge I n m en it . , ttacks th e r ethra ; i n — wom en it attack s th e ce rvix th e n e ck of th e womb Th e vagin a i s seldom th e u r e th r a an d th e vu lva be cau se th e mu cou s m em att ack ed i n adu lt wom e n bran e of th e adu lt vagin a i s r ath e r tou gh an d doe s n ot o ff e r a good so il f or th e d ev e lopm en t o f th e gon ococcu s germ Th e di scharge th at a woman h as when sh e h as gon orrhe a com e s prin cip ally or e x cl u si v e l y fro m th e n e ck of th e womb I n littl e girls howeve r i n whom th e lin in g o f the v a i e n n e n s t d r go orrh e o f i a a g th e vagin a an d th e vu lva i s V u l S e h pt r comm on e a e c ( i n Little Gi rl s ) v ov agin i ti s Gon on n n m n Gm s Gon orrhe a i s a local di se as e While in som e ca se s aft e r th e di se ase h a s la ste d for p oi son i s gen e rate d by th e som e tim e a ce rtai n ge rm s whi ch ci rcu l at e s i n th e bl ood an d whi le th e ge rm s m ay occasi on ally wan de r in to di stan t organ s sti ll i n 9 8 pe r cen t of al l ca se s gon orrh e a i s a lo cal di se ase an d i f take n in tim e i s cu re d wi thou t l e av i n g an y tr ace s on th e ge n e r al or gan i sm Th e n gon orrhea i s Gon orrhea N ot Heredi tary Nob ody e ve r i n h e ri ts gon n ot a h e re di t ary d i s ea se A chi ld m ay b e b orn wi th a gon orrh e al in or r h e a flamm ati on of th e e ye s ( ophthalmi a n e on ator u m h an a u . , , . , . , , . . . . , , , , . , . . . . , . S EX 1 24 KN OWLE DGE F OR WOME N fu l di se ase in woman an d thi s i s a b ad thi n g b e cau se sh e thu s n egle ct s tr e atme n t an d lo se s valu E ven abl e tim e p e rm i ttin g th e di s e a s e to d e v elop when th e u r ethra i s aff e ct e d in wome n it do e s n ot give as seve re symptom s a s in flammat i on of th e u r e I f th e woman do e s h av e p ain s sh e th ra in m en o ft en p ays n o att en ti on to th e m b ecau se woman i s u se d to p ain s ; as w e h ave se e n b e for e fifty pe r ce n t o f al l wom en su ff e r more or le ss wi th dy smen orrhe a M an y of them h ave a le u corrhe a] di scharge of gr eate r or l e sse r d egr e e an d the r e fore i f th e re i s an in cr ea se i n th e p ai n s or an in cr e ase i n th e di s ch arge lit tl e att e n t i on i s p ai d to th e matt e r In fact a wom an m ay h ave a chron ic gon orrhe a for mon ths or ye ar s wi thou t b ei n g awar e th at th e r e i s I t i s import an t to an ythin g th e matt e r wi th h e r t e ach women to se ek m edi cal ai d as s oon as th ey n oti ce an y i n cr e ase i n th e amou n t of th e di sch arge , or ch an ge in color p articu l arly if i t b e com e s gr e en i sh or i f th e odor b e come s o ff en sive or if the re i s ch afin g bu rn in g or i rri t ati o n aro u n d th e ge n i t al s an d p arti cu l arly if th e r e i s an in cr e a se in th e f r e qu en oy or u rgen cy of u rin ati on or if the r e i s a bu m in g scaldin g or cu tti n g sen sati on du r in g th e act o f A l so wh en ev e r th e sexu al act b ecome s u ri n ati o n p ain f u l If wome n co n su lt e d a phy si ci an as soon as th e y n oti ce d an y o f th e sym ptom s r e f e rr e d to i n a p , , . , , . , . , . , , , . , . , , , , , , , , , . . G O N O RRHE A 1 25 bove they wou l d save mon th s an d ye ar s of sn fi e r in g an d exp e n se b e cau se th e di sease wou ld o ften b e t ake n i n han d whi le sti ll limit e d to th e ce rvi x an d n ot a s i s n ow oft e n th e case aft e r th e in fl am mati on ha s e xte n de d in t o th e u t eru s an d F al l op i an tu be s S elf treatmen t I d o n ot b el i ev e in se lf tr e atmen t b e cau se i t i s gen e r ally u n sati sfactory an d m ay often e ve n b e com e d an ge r o u s an d I d e ci d e dly advi se e ve ry woman w h o su sp e ct s that sh e h as con tract e d g on or rhe a to apply at on ce to a comp eten t phy si ci an B u t it h app e n s n ot in fr e qu en tly th at a woman i s so situ A n d in at e d th at sh e can n ot con su lt a phy si ci an the m e an tim e th e r e i s dan ge r of th e gon orrh e a I n su ch ca se s it i s spr e adi n g fu rth e r an d fu rth e r advi sable f or th e wo m an to u se an i n j ecti on u n ti l Th e su ch tim e wh e n sh e can co n su lt a phy si ci an in j e cti o n I am goin g to advi se m ay in i t sel f produ ce a cu r e ; an d if it d oe s n ot produ ce a co m ple t e cu r e i t at an y r at e impr ove s th e con di ti on pr eve n t s th e e xt e n si on of th e di s e a se m ak e s su b se qu en t t re at m en t e asi e r an d b e si de s i s pe rfe ctly harmle ss The b e st i n j e cti on f or se lf u se in gon orrhea i s tin ctu r e of i odin e ; th e proporti on i s two te a spoo n fu l s to a qu art or two q u art s of wat e r If th e case i s v e ry b ad su ch an i n j e cti on m ay b e t ak e n twi ce a d ay If th e case i s n ot v e ry b ad o n ce a d ay i s su ffici en t A ft e r u sin g th e tin ct u r e of i odin e f or fiv e days to a week, it i s a , , , , , . - - . , . . . . , , , , , . . , . , . S E X KN O WLE DGE F OR W O M E N 1 26 fi B o i u i n n ac i ac ood t o h a e l t d p t or o t c a c s o y g g of l actic aci d in a dru g stor e an d u se on e table spoon fu l t o a qu art o f wat e r It i s pr e fe r abl e to have th e wate r h ot abou t 1 00 d og bu t whe re thi s i s i n con Th e lac tic aci d v en i e n t i t m ay b e u se d lu ke warm in j e cti o n i s u se d for thr e e day s, then th e i odin e in n i i i h e n e n r m e d th e n a g a l a t i c i d o u c t s e s t c ac a d j , I kn ow of man y case s th at we r e cu r e d by thi s so on tr eatmen t alon e An d I mi ght men ti on th at the se i n j e cti on s ar e ge n e r ally al so ve r y e fli ci en t i n l eu cor rhe a, as state d in th e chapt e r on L eu corrhe a . , . , , . , . . . S E X KN O WLE DGE FOR W O M E N 1 28 prin cip al sym ptom in li ttle gi rl s thu s afllicte d th e di sch arge T hi s di sch arge m ay b e ve ry pr o fu se cove rin g th e vu l va vagi n a an d ce rvix I n se ve r e case s the r e i s al so an in fecti on of th e u r e thr a an d th e child m ay compla in of b u rn i n g at i t chin g an d p ai n aro u n d th e vu l va an d u rin at i on an u s, an d sli ght p ain in th e abdome n The r e m ay b e a mode rat e ri se in t emp e r atu r e u p to 1 01 d eg F , an d in s om e in st an ce s th e att ack i s su fli ci e n tl y acu te A mi ld in flam ma to give r i se to a chi ll an d fe ve r ti on o f th e join t s m ay se t in wi thin th e fir st weeks of th e in fecti on al tho u gh as a u su al thin g i t come s l at e r on While as Evi l S equ elae of V u l vovagin itis stat e d vu lvovagi n i ti s i s a co m p ar ati vely mil d in fec ti on as f ar as i ts sym ptom s ar e con ce rn e d i t n e ve r th el e ss h a s a v e ry b ad e fi ect on th e chil d who i s n u fortu n ate en ou gh to b e com e a vi ctim of th e di se ase Fi r st o f al l it i s an extr emely lon g drawn p e r si ste n t di se ase It u su ally t ake s m on th s an d th e se mon th s m ay r u n in to y e ar s b e for e a compl e te cu r e i s e f Thi rd f e cte d S e con d r e lap se s ar e qu i t e common th e tr e atm en t i s a di sagr ee abl e on e for th e child an d i s o cca si on ally p ai n fu l F ou rth i t h as a di sastro u s e ff e ct on th e chi ld s m or al e ; mo st p ar en t s thou gh they m ay lov e the chi ld mo st aff ecti on at ely, l ook som ewhat a skan ce at i t ; an d con tin u o u s v agin al i s the . , , , . , , , . . , . . , . . , , , . , , . , , . . , , , . , ’ , V U LV OV A GINI T I S IN LI T T LE GIRL S 129 t r eatmen t som ehow or othe r h as a hu mili atin g cfi e ct on th e chi ld whi ch b e gi n s to con si d e r i t sel f a s an ou tcast as some thin g ap ar t from othe r childre n F ifth th e child s e du cati on i s v e ry fre qu en tly seri ou sl y an d p e rman en tly i n te rf e r e d wi th b e cau s e i t mu st o ft e n b e t ak en ou t of school whethe r pu bli c or privat e an d privat e tu torin g i s o f cou r se fe asible on ly f or th e f ew S ixth an d thi s i s a poin t n ot su f fici en tl y appr eci ate d by th e pr of e ssi on an d th e lai ty bu t i t i san im p ort an t po in t n e ve rth e le ss : v u l vovag in i ti s in children h a s u n fortu n at ely a di sastrou s ef , . , ’ , , , , , . , , f e ct in h as ten in g th e s exu al m atu ri ty of th e chi l d Whe the r thi s i s d u e to th e con ge sti on of th e organ s . produ ce d by th e i n flammati on or to th e sp e cu lu m e xami n ati on s p ain ti n g s d ou ch e s applicat i on s, tam pon s , su ppo sitori e s e tc th e fact remain s that girl s who su ff e r from vu lvovagin i ti s in childh ood b ecome se xu ally m atu r e co n si d e rably e arlie r than n ormal gi rls of th e sam e class st ratu m an d climate , an d th ei r deman d for sexu al sati sfacti on i s mu ch mor e i n si st en t S eve n th a mi ld vu l vovag in i ti s m ay be th e cau se of p e rman en t s te r i l i ty It will the re for e b e se en that vu l vovagin i ti s i s a cal ami ty an d e v e rythin g po ssibl e sh o u ld b e do n e to gu ard female childr en from con tractin g it A l l chil dr en sho u ld alw ays sl eep al on e U n de r n o ci rcu m stan ce s sho u ld a chi ld sl e e p wi th an ybody e l se , b e i t , , , , . , , , . , . , . . 1 30 S EX KN OWLE DGE F O R WO ME N mothe r a f ri e n d a gove rn e ss or a se r van t gi rl P e ople shou l d be ve ry car e fu l in sen d in g the i r children to sp en d a n i ght or two wi th some fri en ds Th e fr i en d s m ay b e all r ight bu t still a fri e n d of th e fri e n d s or a r ela ti ve o f th e fri e n ds m ay n ot b e I have kn own se ve ral case s whe re th e o rigin o f th e vu lvovagin i ti s co u ld b e tr ace d t o li ttle gi rls spen d in g a we ek at th e hou se of some fr ie n d s whe re a bo arde r or r e lative w as in fecte d wi th gon orrhe a That children sh ou ld b e kept away from associati n g or playin g wi th adu lt s or o the r chil dr en who ar e kn ow n to h ave gon orrh e al in fecti on go e s wi th ou t Th e child s gen i t al s shou ld b e fr equ en tly sayi n g i n sp e ct ed by th e moth e r an d scr u pu lou s cle an li n e ss by fre qu en t bathin g spon gin g wi th war m solu ti on s an d powde ri n g shou ld b e m ain tain ed Th e to il e t se at s in school shou ld r ece ive sp e cial att en ti on Th e wooden se at i s a m en ace b e cau se i t o ften h ar bor s gon orrh e al pu s from e ithe r th e female or mal e gen i t al s whil e th e on ly prop e r se at i s on e of th e so call ed U shap e d styl e that i s on e i n whi ch th e fron t i s e n ti re ly op en , lik e the le tt e r U t r a si s e a , , , , . . , . . ’ . , , , . . , - - , , . SEX 1 32 KN OWLE DGE F O R W O M E N develop s a sore ( at th e spot whe r e th e ge rm s go t in ) Thi s sore i s calle d chan cr e or p r i m a ry l esi on B u t wh en thi s sore make s i ts app ea ran ce th e sp i ro che ta an d th e poi so n whi ch th e y e labor at e ar e alr eady ci r Th e di s cu l atin g i n th e blood al l ove r th e sy st em ease i s alr e ady sy st e m i c or co n sti tu ti o n al an d th e ch an cr e i s th e lo cal e xpr e s si on of a co n sti tu ti on al di se ase C u ttin g ou t th e chan cre will n ot cu r e th e di se ase b ecau se as st at e d th e ge rm s ar e alr e ady in th e sy st em Th e t ime b e twe e n th e con tr acti o n of th e di se ase ( th e in fe cti ou s in t e r cou r se ) an d th e app e ar an ce o f th e ch an cr e i s ca ll e d th e I n cu ba ti on P e ri od Th e tim e b etwe en th e app e ar an ce o f th e chan cr e an d th e app e ar an ce of th e r ash on th e body ( th e r ash look s like a me a sl es rash an d i s call e d ro se ol a whi ch me an s a ro se col or e d r ash ) i s calle d th e P r i ma ry S tage It l ast s abou t six week s Wi th th e app e ar an ce of th e r ash co mm e n ce s th e S e con d ar y S tag e T hi s stage i s char acte riz e d by al l sort s of er u p ti on s mi ld an d seve re by whi t e little p atch e s ( cal le d m u co u s p at ch e s ) in th e thro at mo u th to n si l s vag in a by fallin g ou t o f th e h ai r e tc Th e le n gth of thi s se con d ary st ag e d ep en d s a good d e al u pon th e s ort Im prop e rly tr e ate d, of tr e atme n t th e p ati e n t ge t s or n ot tr e at e d at al l i t m ay l ast tw o or thr e e ye ar s or mor e P rop e rly tr e at e d i t m ay b e cu t short at on ce, in a f ew days, so that th e p ati en t m ay n eve r . . . , , , . , , , . . , - . . . , , , , . , . , . , , , 133 SY P HIL IS The thi rd h er life ge t an e ru pti on or Te r tiary S tag e i s charact e ri z ed by u l ce ration s in vari ou s p art s of th e body an d by sw el li n gs or tu agai n in hi s or . mor s Th e n ame of a syp hi li ti c swelli n g or tu mor i s gu mm a ( plu ral gu mmata ) Th e t ertiary st age is th e mo st t e rribl e st age an d i t u sed to b e th e t e rror of syphili ti c p atien ts B u t at th e pr e sen t tim e u n d e r ou r mod e rn me thod s of tr e atmen t p ati en t s if prope rly t reate d n eve r have a ter tiary s tag e We have se en man y p atien t s who con si de re d syphili s a triflin g di se ase b ecau se al l the y kn ew o f thei r d is i e th e e ase w as th e ch an cr e an d th e fi r st e ru p ti on ro se ola, an d p erhap s a slight fallin g ou t of th e hai r Th ey then pu t themselve s u n d e r e n e rgetic tre atme n t, th e acti vi ty of th e di se ase w a s ch ecked an d they n e ve r h ad an oth e r symptom afte rward s thou gh a Was se rman n te st sh owe d that th e di sease w as n ot e n ti re ly e r ad i cat e d It w as me rely held in check which i s th e secon d b e st thi n g A s stat e d b efor e syphili s i s the mo st h e re ditary of all d i se ase s Fortu n ately if th e di se ase i s st ill ve ry act ive i n th e p aren t s particu l arly in th e moth e r th e chil d i s gen e ral ly aborte d Some syphi l i ti c mothe r s wi ll have hal f a doze n or mor e m i scar r i age s in su cce ssi on When th e di sease h a s become ei th e r by t r e atmen t or by i t sel f atte n u at e d, — i l man y di se ases l o se their v ru en ce in time th e child . . , . , , , , . , , . . , . , , . . , . , , . , . KN OWLE DGE FOR WO ME N SEX 1 34 rrie d to t e rm It then may be born dead or i t m ay b e born stron gly syphili ti c an d di e i n a f ew days or we ek s or it m ay b e born w i thou t an y si gn s o f syp hil i s an d b e app ar e n tly h e althy an d th e n deve lop th e di sease at th e age of ten twelve fou r t e en or lat e r, or it m ay be b orn h ealthy an d r emai n he althy B u t n o w oman who h ad syphili s, or who se hu sb an d h ad syphil i s shou ld d ar e to con ce ive or t o give b irth to a chi ld u n le ss sh e h as b e en give n pe r mi ssi on by a comp eten t physician I me an j u st what I say It i s n ot a pe r son al matt e r A woman has a r i ght to marry a syp hi li ti c hu sb an d if sh e wan t s t o an d ru n th e ri sk o f con tractin g syp hil i s He r body i s h er ow n an d if sh e do e s it wi th h er eye s open it i s h e r afi ai r B u t a woman h as n o right to brin g i n to th e world syphil i ti c or syphi liti call y tai n t ed chil dr en H ere so ciety has a right t o i n te rfe re Syphi li s ru n s a mil de r cou r se in women than i t doe s i n m en B u t thi s mi lde r cou r se is n ot an u n mixe d bl e ssin g ; it m ay be con si de red a mi sfortu n e b ecau se the same as gon o r rhea in women syphili s i s o fte n pr e se n t for mo n th s an d ye ar s u n ti l i t h as made su ch in ro ad s that it i s bu t little amen able to treatme n t I n man y women th e di se ase r u n s su ch a mil d cou r se , as f ar a s de fin i te symp t oms ar e con ce rn ed , that the y ar e su r e the y n e ve r had an ythi n g the matte r with th em, an d the y ar e p e rfe ctly sin ce re m ay be ca . , , , , , , . , . . . . , . . . . , , , . , CH AP TE R THE C U RAB I LI TY T W N TY E OF - S EV E N DI S E A S E V E NE RE AL l st at eme n t s in re gard to th e e x te n t of ven e re al dise ase have b e en fou n d u n tru e or gre atly e xagge r ate d so d o th e stat emen t s r egardin g th e cu r ab i li ty or r ath e r in cu r ab ili ty of v en e r e al d i s Th e p i ctu r e u su ally e ase n ee d ca r e fu l r evi si o n pai n t e d of th e hop ele ssn e ss of gon orrh e a an d syphi li s i s too sombr e too black an d con tr ar y to th e as se r ti on s m ad e by l aym en an d l ayw om en an d phy si ci an s who d o n ot sp e ci ali z e i n th e tr e atme n t of ven e r e al di se ase , I wi sh to mak e th e st at emen t th at withou t an y e x cep e ve ry case o f gon orrh e a i n m an ti on if prope rly tre ate d can b e p e rfe ctly cu re d as n i n l o r r e o e r a d r r t c u s s a e c c d I d t h e ac a e a as p p p f last phrase b ecau se th e cu r e m ay n ot b e p e rfect in th e sci e n tific se n se of the word ; th at i s th e m an m ay n ot b e bro u ght b ack in to th e con di ti on i n whi ch h e B u t f or all pr acti cal w as be for e h e got th e di s ea se pu rpo se s as f ar as h e hi mse lf i s con ce rn ed as f ar as hi s wi fe i s con ce rn e d an d as f ar a s th e fu tu re chi ldre n ar e con ce rn e d, e ve ry case m ay b e cu re d An d I say thi s, basi n g myself w i th ou t an y dou bt Ju sr a s th e u su a , . , , , , , , , . , . , , , , , . 136 C URA B I LITY OF DI S E A S E V E NE R E AL 1 37 varie d pr ofe ssi on al exp e ri en ce exten din g n e arly a qu art e r o f a cen tu ry A s to go n orrh ea in w om en that de p en d s to a great th e vi ru l e n ce o f th e d i se ase an d th e e xt e n t u p on promptn e ss wi th wh ich tre atme n t i s in stitu te d If th e go n orrh e a i s l imi t e d on ly to th e ce rvix th e v u l va an d th e u r e thr a the n prompt tr e atm e n t w ill u su al ly brin g ab ou t a cu r e in a comp ar atively short tim e B u t if th e gon orrh eal in flamm ati on h as e xt en d ed to th e body o f th e u t e ru s or st ill wor se t o th e tu be s the n th e tr e atm en t m ay b ecome a v e ry t edi ou s on e an d s ome ca se s m ay n ot b e cu r abl e wi thou t an op e r a ti on Wi th syp hi li s th e matt e r i s di fl e r en t S in ce th e i n t rodu cti o n by E hrli ch o f th e vari ou s a r se n i c pr ep ar ati on s w e h ave mu ch b e tt e r su cce s s i n th e tre at men t of syphili s an d w e can po si tively r en de r eve ry B u t as to gu ar case n on i n fe cti ou s to th e pa rtn e r an te e i n g a po sit iv e cu r e that i s g u ar an t e e in g that th e pat ien t will n eve r h ave an ou tbr e ak or re l ap se of hi s di se ase in th e fu tu re an d th at th e chil dre n wi ll b e p e rfectly fr e e from an y t ai n t, thi s w e can do n o m or e n ow th an w e co u ld b e for e th e mode rn t r eat men t of syphili s w as in trodu ced Th e de cisi on , the r e for e a s to whe th e r w e m ay or m ay n ot p e rmi t a o n ce syphi li t i c p at i e n t to m arry w ill dep en d a gr e at de al u pon whe ther or n o th e hu sb an d or the wi fe or pon ove r u a . , . , , . , , , , . ' . , , - . , , , , . , 138 SEX KN OWLE DGE FOR WO ME N both de si r e t o have chi ldre n If thi s i s th e case, w e mu st often wi thhold ou r p e rmi ssi on ; bu t if th e m an an d wom an agre e t o ge t m arri e d an d to get al o n g wi th ou t childr en , w e will gran t p e rmi ssi on t o th e marri age in th e vast majority of ca se s The su bj e ct of ven e re al disease an d marriage w ill be fu rther di scu sse d in separ ate chapte rs V en e r e al di seas e I h ave to r epe at , i s t e rri ble e n o u gh i n i t self wi th ou t an y e xagge r ati on , wi thou t pict u rin g it in too black colors An d i t i s n ece ssary that p e ople shou ld n ot have too bl ack an i dea of i t It i s n ece ssary that th e y kn ow that the re ar e thou san ds an d ten s of thou san d s of p ati en ts wh o su fi e r ed wi th go n orrhe a or syphi li s an d w h o we r e p e rfe ctly cu r e d, who m arri e d an d who se wi ve s r emai n e d e r p f ectl y w el l an d who gave bi rth to pe r fe ctly healthy, u n tai n te d chil dre n . . . , , . . , , . 1 40 KN OWL E DGE F O R W O M E N S EX In ste ad of th e dou che an an ti septic j elly i n a col l ap sibl e ti n tu b e with a lo n g n ozzl e m ay be u se d B u t b e si d e s th e ve n e r e al sou r ce s of i n fecti o n th e w oman mu st gu ard again st th e n on ve n e r e al s ou r ce s Do n ot eve r if you can avoi d it u se a pu bli c toil et If you ar e force d to u se i t prot e ct you r se lf by pu t tin g s ome p ape r ove r th e se at Do n ot u se a pu bli c drin ki n g cu p If you have to On e u se on e ke e p you r lip s away fr om th e r im can l e arn t o dri n k wi thou t tou chi n g th e r im o f th e h i i e l or cu w t h t l p s s a s p g Do n ot u n de r an y ci rcu m stan ce s u se a pu bli c t owel Th e roll e r towel i s a m en ace to he alth an d sh o u l d b e forb i dden in e v e ry p art o f th e cou n try If you have t o sl ee p in a hote l or in a st ran ge b ed make su r e that th e lin en i s cle an an d fre sh Neve r sl e e p on b e d lin en whi ch h as b e en u se d by 9 atm . - . , , . , . . . , . . . , . . r e g . Ne ve r u se a pu blic bru sh or comb B e su r e that you r d e n ti st i s a car e fu l u p t o dat e m an an d st e rili z e s hi s in st r u men t s ca r e fu lly Man y a case of syp hi li s h as b ee n tran smi t t e d by a d en ti st s A syphi li ti c who go e s to a den ti st t o in st r u men t be t r e at e d ge n e ral ly con ce al s h i s di se ase an d if th e den ti st i s n ot in th e h abi t of ste rili zi n g hi s in stru men t s aft e r e ach p ati en t di sast e r m ay r e su lt B e su r e th at you r m an i cu ri st i s n ot syphi liti c, or . , , - - . ’ . , , . V E NE R E A L P R OP H YLA XI S 1 41 least that h er han ds ar e he althy cl ean an d free from an y e ru pti on A n d last bu t n ot le ast do n ot i n du lge in promi s Thi s i s a p arti cu larly importan t in cu cu s ki ssi n g j u n cti o n for you n g gi rl s Thi s i s a r e al p e ril an d the re ar e thou san ds of case s of syphilis th at are kn own to hav e b een co n t r acte d di r ectly from ki ssin g P e opl e su ff e ri n g wi th syphi li s oft en h ave li ttle whi te sor e s ( mu co u s p at ch e s ) on the i r lip s ton gu e an d r e v e ry i n fe cti o u s in si d e of ch eek s Th ese sores a an d by ki s si n g th e di se ase i s r e adil y t r an smi tt ed Ki ssin g game s hav e b e en re spon sible in mor e than on e cas e for th e spr e ad of syphili s to man y p e r son s I have n ow u n de r treatm en t a gi rl of n in ete en wh o from co n tr act e d syphili s on h e r su mm e r vacati on havin g ki sse d a m an on ce A voi d promi scu ou s ki ss i n g " It i s a bad pr acti ce for more than on e r e as on at , . , , . . . , , . . . . . C HAP TER T WE NTY NI NE - O R TH E L IMITA TI O N OF O FFS P RING B IR TH C O N T R OL No girl an d n o m an for that matte r , shou ld en ter th e bon d s of mat rimon y wi thou t l earn in g th e l at est me an s of p re ven tin g con ce pti on of re gu latin g th e n u m be r of o ffsprin g Wi th p e opl e wh o con si de r an y attemp t at re gu l atin g th e n u mb e r o f child r en a sin , w e h ave n o thin g to argu e , thou gh w e b el i e ve th at th e r e are ve r y f ew pe ople exce p t amon g th e lowe st dre gs of soci e ty wh o d o n ot u se some measu res of O the r w i se w e wou l d se e mo st fami l ie s re gu l ati on with ten to twen ty chi ldr en in stead of tw o or three Nor do I in te n d to devo te thi s chapt e r to a de tail e d pr e sen tati on of th e a rgu m e n t s in favor of th e r a ti on al re g u l ati on of ofi sprin g It w ou l d have to be me rely a re pe titi on of th e argu men t s that I have pr e “ B u t a few poin ts may well be se n t e d e l se wh e r e t ou che d u pon he re I n sp ite of the fact that th e su bj e ct of bi rth con trol i s mu ch be tte r kn ow n n ow than i t w as w hen w e fir st starte d to p r op agat e i t still i t can n o t b e m en ti on e d too often for th e mi sapprehen si on s con , , . . . . . . , , The Li mi tati on of Ofl sprin g b y th e P r even ti on of Con IQ ception . SE X 144 bo th KN OWLE DGE F OR W O M E N r tly di smi ssed It i s n ot tru e o f B u t e ven if i t an y of th e mode rn co n tr ace pt iv e s we re tr u e th e amou n t of in j u r y that can b e don e by con t r ace pt ive s wou ld b e lik e a drop of wat e r in com p ari so n wi th th e in j u r i e s re su ltin g from e xce ssive pre gn an ci e s an d chi ldbi rth s Some of th e con tra ceptiv e m e asu r e s r e qu i r e s ome tro u ble t o u se s ome ar e u n e sth eti c bu t th e s e ar e tr ifl e s an d con sti tu t e a small pri ce t o pay f or th e pri vi le ge of b e in g abl e t o r egu late th e n u mb e r o f on e s ofi sprin g accordin g to on e s in te lli gen t de sire s Th e com mo n e st argu m en t n ow made again st con tr aceptives i s that the y ar e n ot ab solu t ely saf e that i s ab solu t ely to b e r eli e d u po n th at th ey will n ot pre ven t in ab solu tely eve ry case Thi s i s t r u e ; bu t th e re ar e thre e an swe r s whi ch ren de r thi s obj ecti on in vali d F i r st m an y of th e ca se s o f failu re ar e to be ascrib e d n ot t o th e co n trace ptives themse lve s bu t t o th e i r imprope r car ele ss an d u n i n t elli ge n t u se Th e b e st m ethod s in th e world wi ll fai l if u se d im p rop e rly S e con d i f th e me asu re s ar e eflici en t in 98 or 99 pe r cen t an d f ail in on e or tw o pe r ce n t then they ar e a ble ssin g Some women wou l d b e th e happ ie st women i n th e world i f they cou l d ren de r 98 pe r cen t o f the i r co n j u gal r el ati on s u n fr u i tfu l Thi rd th e impe rfe cti on s of ou r con traceptive me as u r e s are d u e to th e se cre cy w i th whi ch th e en ti re m ay b e , cu . . , . , , ’ ’ . , , , . . , , . , , . . . , . . , . BIRTH C O NTR OL 1 45 bj e ct mu st n e ce ssarily b e su rrou n de d If the su b s b m e d s e u i s e i n of b i h o trol o u l d f lly d d r n c c u c t t c e j i cal books the r e i s n o dou bt th at in a short time w e w ou l d have me asu r e s that wou ld b e ab solu te ly ce r tain an d wou l d l e ave n othin g to b e de sir e d B u t e ve n su ch a s they ar e th e m easu r e s ar e b ette r th an n o n e an d a s sai d in th e b e gin n in g of thi s ch apte r i t i s th e du ty of eve ry you n g w om an t o acqu i re a s on e o f th e i t ems of h e r s ex e du cati on th e kn owl e dge of how to avoi d too fr equ en t pre gn an ci e s I n fact I con si de r this the mo st import an t i tem in a woman s an d if sh e h as le arn e d n o thin g e l se sex e du cati on thi s For thi s in fo rma ti on i s sh e sho u ld le arn a bs ol u te ly n e ce ssary t o h er fu tu re heal th an d happi su . . , , , . , ’ , . n e ss . my t w en ty years work for th e cau se of rati on al bir th con trol I have come in con tact w ith thou san ds an d tho u san d s of ca se s whi ch de mon st rat e in th e mo st con vin cin g man n e r po ssible th e tragic resu l ts o f f o rce d or u n de si re d moth e rhood, an d of th e fear of forced or u n de si re d mothe rhood Some of the case s w e re in my ow n practice some we re r elated t o m e by brothe r physician s, some we r e de scribed to m e by th e vi ctims li vin g in all p art s of In . , SEX 146 KN OWLE DGE WO M E N FOR thi s vast cou n try We re I to coll e ct an d rep o rt all th e case s that came to my n oti ce du rin g tho se tw en ty ye ar s, they wou ld wi thou t exagge rati on mak e a volu me th e si ze of th e l ate st e diti on of th e S tan da rd Dicti on a ry prin t e d in th e same smal l typ e Some of them ar e po sitively h eartbre aki n g Th ey mak e i u f n h k i e di o t h e a c a h s t p ty h u m r ace o u s t t t t a e y B u t I do stu p i di ty an d bru t ali ty o f th e l awgive r s n ot w i sh t o app e al to you r e moti on s I do n ot wi sh to take ext reme an d u n i qu e cases I w ill th e refor e briefly relat e a f ew eve r yday ca se s whi ch will d em on str ate to you th e b en e ficen ce o f con tr acept ive kn owle dge an d th e trage dy an d mi se ry cau se d by th e lack o f su ch kn owl e dge C as e 1 Thi s cla ss of case i s so common that I al mo st fe e l lik e apologiz in g for refe rrin g to i t S he , whom I will call by th e forb e ari n g n ame of M r s Smi th h ad b e en mar ri e d a li ttle ove r n in e year s S h e w as an ex an d h ad gi v en b i rth to fiv e childr en c l l en t moth e r n u r se d th e m h e r self too k good care e o f them, an d all th e five we r e livi n g an d healthy B u t in cari n g f or them an d f or th e hou seh old all al on e f or the y co u l d n ot aff ord a se rv an t or a n u r se gi rl all h er vi tal i ty had b e en sapp e d al l h e r orig in all y su p e rb e n e rgy h ad dwin dl e d down t o n othin g ; h e r n e rv e s we r e worn t o a frazzl e an d sh e b e came bu t a shadow of h er forme r self An d th e fear of . , . . , . . . , . . . . , , . , , . , , , . SEX 1 48 KN OWLE DGE F OR W O M E N ome te r ribly in su lte d when a poor woman who can on l y pay ten or fifte en dollar s asks to b e reli eve d of t th e th e f ru i t of h e r womb will u su all y di scove r tha woman wh o can aff ord to pay on e hu n dre d dolla rs i s b adl y in n ee d o f a cu r e tt eme n t Oh n o He doe s H e m e rely cu r ets th e n ot p e rform an abort i on u te r u s B u t to come b ack to M r s Smi th S h e w en t away from th e in di gn an t adaman t do ctor B u t sh e w as d e te rmi n e d n ot t o give bi rth to an oth e r chil d S h e con fide d h e r trou bl e to a n e i ghbor w h o sen t h e r to Th e mi dwi fe w a s n ei the r ve ry e xp e rt a mi dwi fe n or ve r y cl e an M r s Smi th h ad to go to h e r tw o or thre e time s A ft e r bl e e din g for abou t ten days sh e d ev elop e d bl ood po i so n in g fr om whi ch sh e di e d days late r at th e e arly age of twen ty n i n e a fe w le avin g a di scon sol ate fath e r wh o in time to come w ill prob ably fin d con s olati on wi th an othe r woman , an d fiv e mothe rl e s s ch il d r e n who will n eve r fin d con On e m ay fin d a su b sti tu t e for a w i fe th e r e s ol ati o n i s n o su b sti tu te f or a mothe r A n d su ch trage di es ar e of dai ly o ccu rren ce M ay th e L ord have me r cy on th e so u l s of th o se wh o ar e re spon sible f or them B efor e I pro cee d fu rth e r I wi sh t o say that it i s th e t e rribl e pr eval e n ce of th e aborti on evil wi th i ts ill h e alth chron i c in co n comi tan t e vi l s of i n fe cti on c , . , . . . . . . . , . . . . , - , , , , . . . . , , , , B I RTH C O NTR OL val i d i sm an 1 49 d e ath that mo r e than an y othe r sin gle facto r u rge s u s in ou r bi rth con t r ol prop agan da n t to f orb i d th e di sse min ati o n o f A n d tho se w h o wa an y in f o r mati o n abou t th e pr e ven ti o n o f con ce pti o n ar e pl ayin g d i r e ctly i n to th e h an d s of th e pr of es T he y cou ld n ot act an y more si on al abort i o n i st s z ealou sly i f the y we re in le agu e wi th the latt e r an d we re p ai d by th em A n d havi n g men ti on e d th e su b i n f i n f i o bort o I w h t o u t t e r a n ot o w a r n g ec t a s e j I n ou r b i rth con trol p r op agan da w e mu st b e ve r y of th e preve n ti on of car e fu l to k ee p th e qu e sti on Th e co n ce pti o n an d of aborti on se p arat e an d ap art stu pi d l aw p u t s th e tw o in th e sam e p ar agr aph s ome i gn or an t l ayme n an d e qu ally i gn oran t physi ci an s tr eat th e tw o as if they we r e th e same thin g bu t w e in ou r sp e eche s an d ou r wr i tin gs mu st keep th e tw o sep ar ate w e mu st show th e p e opl e th e e ssen ti al dif fe re n ce b e twe en p r even ti on an d aborti on b etween re frain i n g f rom cr eatin g li fe an d de stroyin g l ife al r e ady cre ated ; w e mu st show th e vi ci ou sn e ss of me t in g ou t th e sam e pu n i shmen t f or tw o thin gs which ar e fu n dam en t ally d i fi e r en t di fi e r en t n ot on l y in d e — gre e bu t in kin d an d it i s o n ly by thu s ke ep in g th e tw o thi n gs ap art by showi n g that w e stan d for on e — — — thi n g pr even ti on an d n ot for th e othe r aborti on t hat w e can e ve r gain th e gen e r al symp athy of the pu bli c an d th e cc op e rati on of th e l e gislators I d o d , . . . . , , . , , , , , , , , , - . 1 50 S EX KN OWLE D GE FOR WO ME N tha t the re are n ot man y case s in w hi ch th e in du cti on o f aborti on i s n ot on l y j u stifiable bu t im u v b i s fi e r n es i d i n r a e th a t a e t q t i o n d e h t u t a e t ; p two i ssu e s mu st n ot b e con f u sed A n d w e w ou l d an d sho u ld resen t an y att emp t on th e p ar t of e ithe r en emy or fri en d to so con fu se th em C as e 2 Mr A an d Mi ss B ar e in love w i th e ach B u t the y can n o t get mar r i e d for hi s sal ar y oth e r They mi ght ri sk gettin g marrie d if i s too sm al l th e specte r of an in defin i t e n u mb e r of chil dren d i d S he come s n ot stre tch ou t i ts re strain i n g han d from a good fami ly sh e w a s brou ght u p if n ot in th e l ap of lu x u r y in th e l ap of comfo r t an d co zin ess an d i t i s th e am b iti on of eve r y good Am e r i can to fu rn i sh hi s wi fe at l east as good a home as he r fath e r gave he r He r fathe r by th e w ay, died pre matu re ly from ove r w ork in tr yin g to gi ve all pos sible comfo r ts an d advan ta ge s to a bevy of six n u marri e d an d marri ageabl e dau ghte r s A s I sai d th e fe ar of chil dr en ke p t them back E ach ye ar the hope revive d that in an other yea r thei r u n i on in matrimon y wou l d be con su mm ate d B u t th e ye a rs p asse d Mr A s hai r b e came thin an d grayi sh Mi ss B b egan to l ook haggard an d pin che d —an d still th e marri age cou l d n ot take pl ace Mi ss B w as ve ry reli gi ou s an d ve r y prope r, an d w ou l d n ot d o an ythin g tha t w as imp ro pe r A w as n ot n ot say , , . . . . . . , . . , . , , , , , . . . , . ’ . . . , . . S EX KN O WLE DGE F O R WO M E N 1 52 pe ri odi c fits of in san i ty E very year or tw o h e wou ld b e tak en to th e lu n ati c a sylu m f or a f e w we ek s or mon ths an d the n di sch arge d An d eve r y time on hi s di scharge h e wou l d ce l ebrate hi s lib e rty by im h h S e i m n r i n hi w i f e h t d lo th d n t e a s a a d e e a g p g “ bu t co u l d n ot prote ct he r se lf again st hi s em br ace s A n d sh e h ad to se e he r self givin g b i r th to on e abn o rm al chi ld aft e r an oth e r S he b e gge d h e r do ctor to give h e r som e me an s of preven ti on bu t th at boob cl aime d i gn or an ce an d th e il l e gali ty o f Th e woman fin ally commi tte d su i ci de th e thin g bu t n ot b e for e sh e h ad gi ve n bi rth t o six abn o rm al who will prob ably grow u p dru n kar ds chil dr e n cr imin al s or in san e A n d b ecau se w e obj e ct to su ch kin d o f br e e di n g w e ar e accu se d of b e i n g e n e mi e s of th e hu m an r ace o f advo catin g r ace su i ci d e of vi ol atin g th e laws o f Oh f or a mi gh ty S ampson to str ike God an d m an th e imb e ci le s wi th th e jaw of an ass f or a men tal He rcu l e s to loo sen th e fon tan ell e s o f thei r petrifie d sk u ll s an d pu t som e s en se in to th em " C as e 4 Thi s ob se r vati on con ce r n s a cou pl e bo th of whom h ad a ve ry b ad he re dity Th e blood of e ach Th e do ctor who h ad tre at e d th e w as b adly t ain t e d hu sb an d cau ti on e d them an d told them that th ey h ad B u t he r e th e tabl e s we re n o ri ght to h av e childr e n tu rn ed The do ctor wan t e d to give the m th e mean s . . , . , ” . . , , , . , , . , , , . , , . . . . . B I RTH C O N T R OL 1 53 preven ti on bu t th e hu sb an d an d wi fe p i ou s R oman C atholi cs wo u ld n ot go again st th e i r r e li n f n i o d i G a e f o w t d world f a n G as o d a d u ll i m o ( g b ecil e s ) an d r e fu se d to e mploy an y pr ecau ti on s They hav e h ad fou r chil dr en so f ar On e of the m se em s fai rly n ormal e x cept th at h e i s sill y in whi ch r e sp ect h e i s m e re ly like h i s p aren ts ; tw o ar e deaf an d bli n d in on e e ye ; th e f ou rth i s a cr e tin , pr ac tical ly an i di ot Thi s case b rin gs u s face to face wi th an other phase of th e p r obl em What shou ld w e do when th e p ar en ts stu p i d an d i gn oran t refu se to stop br e e d in g wo rthl e ss mat e r i al " E u gen i o agi tati on e du ca ti on wi ll b r in g abou t su ch a stron g pu bl i c Opin i on that n on e bu t i di ot s w h o will b e vase ctomiz e d or se gr e gat e d w i ll d ar e to br in g in to th e world chil dr en that ar e phy sical ly an d men tally han di capp e d C as e 5 Thi s co u pl e h ad b e en mar r i e d ei ght year s, A n d th e wife sai d sh e co u l d an d h ad fiv e chi ld r e n — A n oth e r chi ld n o sh e pre n ot stan d i t an y mor e fe rr e d death They p r actice d coi tu s in t e rru p tu s for a whi l e wi th mu tu al di sg u st b u t wh en th e wi fe w as “ sh e sai d : N o more " An d sh e cau ght again wou ld n ot l e t h e r hu sb an d come n e ar h e r He cou l d — do what h e ple ase d sh e d i d n ot ca r e Af te r a f ew — mon th s h e b egan to go el sewh e r e co n tr act e d syph ili s h ad to give u p hi s po si ti on th e home w a s broken f or , , , , . . , , . . , , , , , , . . . . , . , , ” , . . , , SEX 1 54 KN OWLE DGE F O R WO ME N hil dren ar e sen t e ar e t old i s th e fou n dati on of ou r soci e ty i s broken u p an d the r e i s — mi se r y an d wre t ch e dn e ss all arou n d an d all f or th e l ack of a little timely in fo rm ati on M r A an d Mi ss B tw en ty ei gh t an d C as e 6 twen ty fiv e years old re sp e ctiv ely have kn own on e an oth e r f or s ev e r al y ear s an d in spi t e o f the ir oc cu pati on whi ch i s su ppo se d to make p e ople bl as" — an d cyn i cal h e b e in g a r e port e r an d sh e a spe ci al — sto r y w r i t e r ar e qu i te in love wi th e ach othe r B u t th e i r o ccu p ati o n an d i n come ar e su ch that the y can n ot po s sibly aff ord to hav e an d to brin g u p an y chi ldr en T hey wou ld love to ge t marri e d bu t th e — — sp e ct e r of a chi ld o r rathe r of chi ldr en fri ghten s them ; an d th ey rem ain sin gl e to th e gre at physi cal A cciden tally they le arn an d m en ta l i n j u r y of both of appropr i at e m e an s of re gu l atin g co n ce pti on , ge t — marr i e d an d live h appily eve r afte r tha t i s, u n til th ey fin d themselve s in a po siti on to have chil dr en an d to brin g th em u p prop e r ly I n what w ay w a s so ci e ty in j u re d by thi s you n g cou ple acqu i r i n g co n trace ptiv e i n f o rm ation " C as e 7 Mr C an d M i ss D ar e in love wi th e ach o the r U n fortu n ately the re i s a stron g he re ditar y t ain t o f in san i ty on both sid e s T hey ar e too high min de d to thin k of givin g bi rth to chil dre n The y h k n t e o u e w f w t t o wor e i e t h t , p, — te r ed in short, a home , whi ch w u c , , . - . , . - , , , . ' . , , . , . . . . . . SEX 1 56 KN OWL E DGE F O R W O M E N ci de to sep arate an d a trage dy i s in sight For tu n ately the y le arn that con cepti on can b e p r eve n t e d an d th e y co n tin u e to li v e toge th e r wi th b e n efit to th em selve s an d harm to n on e I n wh at w ay h a s so ci e ty b e e n in j u r ed by those p e opl e acqu i rin g con trace ptive in fo rmati on " M r an d M r s F h ave b e e n m arr i e d six C as e 9 ye ars an d i n the se six ye ar s th ey have b e en bl e sse d wi th fou r chi ldren Wh en h e m a rri e d h e w a s get tin g tw en ty tw o d oll ar s a week an d that i s e xactly what h e i s ge ttin g n ow I n th e me an tim e th e co st o f livin g h as gon e u p tw en ty fiv e pe r cen t an d the re ar e f ou r e xtra mou th s to fe e d an d fo u r e xtr a bodi e s to clothe What d ifi e r en ce thi s has ma de in that li ttle hou sehold can be tte r b e imagin ed than state d Th e li ttle mothe r h as age d sixtee n ye ar s in tho se si x ye ar s an d th e re i s n ot a t race l e ft of h e r g ir li sh n es s an d you thfu ln e s s S h e love s h e r chi ldr en an d do e s n ot wan t to g e t r i d of the m S he wo u ld n ot t ake a mi lli on dollar s f or on e of th em bu t sh e wou ld n ot give five ce n ts f or an oth e r B u t thi s i s j u st what te r r ifie s th em ; th e po ssibili ty of an oth e r A n d that po ssibili ty mak e s h e r i r r i tabl e, mak e s h e r rep el h e r hu sban d s slighte st advan ce s mak e s h e r move hi s b e d to an othe r room S h e even tell s hi m to sati sfy hi s sex u al de si r e s el sew h e r e an d at th e same tim e sh e i s in f ea r an d tr e mblin g that h e mi ght f ollow , . , . . . . , _ . - , . - . , . . “ , . , . , . . ’ , . b BI RTH C O NTR OL 1 57 dvi ce I n short a n i ce you n g h ome i s abou t Fortu n ately h e re ads somewhe re to b e di sru pt e d an a rt i cle on th e su bj e ct of volu n t ary limi ta tion o f ofi spr in g h e b e gin s to in v esti gat e ; hi s physi ci an ple ad s i gn oran ce bu t h e i s pe r si st en t, th e physi cian in vest i gates an d obtai n s th e de si re d in formati on whi ch h e shar e s with th e p ati en t H ar mon y i s re stor e d an d a h appy home i s r e e st ab l i sh e d Wh o w as in j u re d by th e cou pl e obtain in g thi s in fo rm ati o n " A n d if n obo d y w as in ju r e d an d eve r y body con cern e d w as b en efit e d then why shou ld th e i mp art in g o f su ch i n f ormati on b e con si d e r e d a f el on y pu n i shable lik e th e mo st atro ci o u s o f cri me s " C as e 1 0 Mr an d M r s G h ave b een m ar ri e d fif te en ye ar s T hey we re th e p aren ts of seven chil dr en a la rge en ou gh n u mb e r f or an y fam ily Tho se we re bo rn du rin g th e fir st e leven s eve n chil dr e n ye ar s of the i r mar r i e d li fe Du r in g th e p ast fiv e year s afraid of havi n g an y more they fir st ah adopte d a m e thod whi ch e ve ry st ai n e d an d the n mod e rn sexologi st kn ow s i s i n j u r i ou s to th e n er vou s Th e m an sy st e m of bo th th e m an an d th e wom an b e came a wr eck ; fir st n eu rasthen i c then impoten t cran ky an d grou ch y u n abl e to ge t alon g in th e of fice con stan tly squ abblin g wi th hi s w ife , who b e Thei r econ omi c con diti on came j u st as b ad a wre ck plu s too man y small chi ldre n preven te d th e p aren ts h er a . , . , , , . - . , , , . . . . . , . , , . , , , . , SE X 1 58 KN O WLE DGE F O R WO M E N parati on Th ey r ema in e d l ivin g togethe r, bu t they live d like a cat an d a d og ti e d in a bag E ach sil en tly p raye d t o b e r i d o f th e oth e r B u t a con ve r sati on ove rheard at a Tu rki sh b aths establi sh men t pu t him on th e ri ght trail an d on e year l ate r w e fin d th e cou ple recon ci l e d, bo th i n good he alth an d livin g a p eace fu l an d fai rly harmon i ou s lif e An d tho se wh o have b en efite d mo st by th e chan ge ar e th e In what w ay w as so ci e ty in j u r e d " An d chi ldr en stil l i f th e do ct or w h o gave Mr G th e in formati on sh ou l d have b e en cau ght an d con vi cte d h e wo u l d have be en sen t to p ri son for a y e ar or tw o or five W ou l d h e have de se rve d i t " H e re w e have several pl ai n sim pl e u n varn i she d an d u n emb elli she d case s whi ch are typical of milli on s o f simil ar case s an d w hi ch prove co n clu sively that th e l aw again st im p artin g i n fo rmati on abou t preven tin g con cepti on is bru tal , vici ou s an ti so ci al Shou l d n ot su ch a l aw be re p e aled, wipe d ofi th e statu t e books " O f cou r se , i t sh ou l d se . . . , . . . , . , , . , . 1 60 S EX KN OWLE DGE F OR l o w in g WO M E N page s I w ill e n de avor as stated be fore to poin t ou t some o f the r ock s an d sh o als on which th e matrimon ia l bark i s so o ften sha tt e r e d an d to ofi e r th e w ive s some su gge stion s whi ch w i ll he lp the m to re tai n the i r hu sban ds afi ecti on s an d pe rh ap s e v e n al s o the i r fide li ty Whi le th e advice i s in ten de d prima r ily for w iv e s the re w ill be fou n d he re an d the re a salu tar y pi ece o f advice for hu sban ds Some o f th e advi ce i s ap pli cable to both p ar tn e rs an d as to those su gge s — ti on s whi ch con ce rn th e hu sban d on l y i t wil l be a n i l h e a s hi n ood g f or w i v e s to l th r h b d t e u s t ca g atte n ti on to them Th e first f e w we e ks or the fir st f ew mon ths ar e th e mo st importan t in th e li fe o f a ma rri e d cou ple The st abili ty o f th e ma rri age th e fu t u r e happin e ss o ften de pen d u pon th e thi n gs whi ch are don e or le ft A u n d on e du r in g th e in i ti al we e ks o f marri e d lif e ce rtain u n de r sta n di n g mu st b e r e ach e d fr om th e ve ry be gin n in g If you r hu sb an d doe s ce rtain thi n gs w hi ch di sple ase you an d whi ch you kn ow shou ld n ot be don e i t i s b e s t to say s o at th e v e r y sta rt It is e as i e r to pre ven t th e e stablishmen t of a ha bi t than to bre ak a habi t afte r i t has be en , , , . , . , ’ . . , , . . , . R etai n Y ou r I n di vi d u al ity vi ce I have to give u o y is : . Th e firs t p i ece o f ad R e ta in you r i n d i vidu a l A DV I C E To TH E MA RRI E D 1 61 It i s a trite bu t p e rf e ctly tru e ob se rvati on that altoge th e r too man y m en w h o du rin g cou rt shi p we r e chi valry p e rso n ifie d a ssu m e a d i ct atori al ton e as s oon as th e kn ot h a s b e e n ti e d They thi n k that th e wi fe h as actu ally ce ase d to e xi st as a sep ar ate hu man b e in g that sh e h as b ee n ab sorb e d an d wi th th e lo ss of h e r n am e sh e h as l ost all ri ght to hav e h e r ow n op in i o n s h e r ow n t aste s an d o f co u rse h er ow n fri en d s Frie n d s w h o ar e obn oxi ou s to on e of th e mari tal partn e rs on e mu st give u p sometime s ; bu t do n ot p e rmi t you r en ti re p er son ali ty to b e ob scu re d E xpl ain to yo u r hu sb an d th at you ar e still an in d e p en den t livin g hu man be in g I d o n ot say you Nothin g i s mor e o ff en sho u ld at o n ce sta rt a fight th e m ili tan t p u gn ac i ou s woman sive to m e th an w h o we ar s a chi p on th e shou ld e r an d i s con ti n u ally “ B u t with gen tle r e ady t o i n si st on h e r rights An d n e ss an d firmn e ss mu ch can b e accompl i sh e d n e n e b e n h o u w t to r m m r th t m y h u s b a d s t a a a a c e t y w ay th e y do n ot b e cau se th e y ar e vi ci o u s bu t be Some tim e s it i s cau se th ey ar e stu p i d or ch il di sh me re thou g htl essn e ss They have b een b r ou ght u p w ron gly an d some of th em sin ce r e ly imagin e th at by re pre ssin g th e wife s pe r son ality by blottin g i t ou t they ar e actin g in h e r in t e r e st It i s for h er A se ri ou s t al k with a hu sb an d will ow n good I t m ay som e some time s h ave a w o n d e r fu l e ff e ct i ty . . , , , , , , . . . , . , , ” . . , , . . , ’ , . , ” . , . 16 2 SEX KN O WLE DGE F O R W O ME N ti mes chan ge e n ti r e ly th e cu rren t of hi s thou ghts O f cou r se if th e hu sban d i s a cad a con ce i te d fool , or a br u te you can do n o thin g with hi m ; bu t f ortu n ataly n ot all hu sban ds b e l on g to tho se cate gori e s Wif e s Behavi or Tow ard Sex u al R el ati on s I am n ow B u t d eli cate comi n g t o a d e l icate su bj ect th ou gh i t i s i t mu st be de al t w ith u n fli n chin gl y becau se i t i s prob ably re spon sible for mo re male in fid eli ty than al l othe r cau se s comb in e d I sp e ak of th e r elati on of th e wi fe to h e r mar ital du ti e s in othe r words to sexu al re lati on s T oo man y women re gard the se xu al act as a n u i san ce as an ordeal, a s some thin g di sagr e e abl e to g e t throu gh wi th as qu ickly as po ssible ; th ey regar d th e hu sban d s d e man ds in thi s lin e a s an impo siti on as u n fai r or e ve n a s br u tal ; an d the i r be h avi or pr eli min ary to an d du rin g th e act i s su ch as to cool th e ardor of Th e r e ason s f or thi s an y re fin e d an d sen si tive m an be havi or on th e p art of man y wive s ar e man i fold ; I thi s i s n ot th e pl ace to con sid e r th em in d e t ail will all u de to the m briefly On e gr e at cau se i s con gen i t al fri gidity Th e woman i s cold frigi d h as n o de si re for sex relati on s an d e xp e ri en ce s n o pl e asu re S u ch women ar e n ot to n o se n sati o n from th em blame ; they ar e to b e pitie d B u t even th ey can behave so as n ot to repe l thei r hu sb an d s . , , . ’ . , . , , . , , . , ’ , . . . , , . , . . . SEX 1 64 KN OWLE DG E F O R WO ME N me dy i s simple : give h e r fu ll i n stru cti on in th e O the r cau se s are : u se of con tr acepti ve me a su r e s vagin i smu s l ocal ma lf or e xce ssive mas tu rb ati o n mati on in flammati on e tc B u t wha teve r th e cau se s “ of th e wif e s b ad be ha vi or m ay b e the y ar e all Some n e e d me di cal tr e at am en able to tre atm en t men t some p sychi c tr eatmen t an d some n othi n g bu t j u st a common se n se he art to he ar t talk An d I wou ld emphas iz e : Do n ot r ep e l you r hu s — b an ds when they ask for se xu al favor s at le ast do Hou se holds in whi ch r e n ot r e p el them too ofte n l n ti cu a ar e h ad r athe r fr equ en tly an d in whi ch th e w i ve s l en d thei r fu l l an d e age r parti ci p ati on ar e happ ie r hou seholds than tho se in whi ch th e sexu al act i s in du l ge d i n r are l y an d wi th gru m blin g an d si de r e marks on th e p art of th e wi fe B u t of cou r se you shou ld n ot go to th e othe r e x tr eme e ithe r Y ou shou l d n ot mak e too fre qu en t deman ds u pon you r hu sban d With a m an th e act me an s a good deal mor e than i t do e s wi th a woman ; i t e n t ail s a gre at de al mor e of phy sical an d men tal an d a wi fe who i s u n r e a so n abl e in thi s e xhau sti o n r e spe ct i s sowin g th e se e d s o f di scord an d u n happi n e ss S h e i s sacrificin g th e fu tu r e to th e pre sen t The hu sban d i s apt to b ecome affli cte d w i th sati ety — or impoten ce an d th e wife m ay have to l ead a l i fe of con tin en ce for mu ch lon ger than sh e wou l d have re . , , , . , ’ ” , . , , - - - , . . , - . . . , . . A DV IC E T O THE MA RRIE D h ad 1 65 to i f sh e h ad b e en mode rat e I n n o de p ar tmen t o f li fe i s moder ati on so impo r tan t as in sex life Nou u se in su fficien t u se an d e xcessive u se ar e al l b ad A mu tu al ly joyfu l e age r an d mode rat e ly f r e qu e n t partici pati on in th e sex u al act wi ll con tribu te mo st to a happy an d lon g lif e Dain ty U n d er w ear Thi s m ay b e con si d ere d too deli ca t e or t oo trifli n g a su bj ect to di scu ss in an importan t sex book B u t n othi n g i s too d eli ca te or too trifli n g that con ce rn s hu man happin e ss an d you wi ll b eli e ve m e if I te ll you that n ice u n de rw e ar or dai n ty lin ge rie plays a ve r y im por tan t r ole in mari tal li fe An d e ve ry m arrie d woman shou l d have as fin e an d as dai n ty u n de rw e ar as sh e can po ssibly A fin e or e l abor at e n i ghtgown m ay b e more afi or d i mportan t th an an e xp en sive ski rt or h at U n f or tu E xte rn ally n ate l y too man y women i gn ore thi s fact th ey wil l b e well dr e ssed whil e thei r p ettico at s drawe r s an d u n de r shi rt s wil l b e of th e com mon est qu ali ty an d of qu e sti on abl e fr e shn e ss an d imm ac u lat en e ss A n d i f an ythi n g in a woman s toil e t shou l d b e imm acu lat e ly fr e sh an d cl ean i t i s, I emph asiz e h e r u n de rwear Do N ot Ofl en d Again st Esth etics Some women thi n k that be cau se th ey ar e mar ri ed to th ei r hu s ban ds they ow e the l att er n o e sthetic con si de rati on Thin gs that they w ou l d be horrifie d t o l et a stran ger . . - , , . . . . , . . . . , , ’ . , . ' . . 1 66 S EX KN O WL E DGE FOR WO ME N they do be for e thei r hu sban d s e ye s w ithou t he sit ati on For in stan ce n ot to be at ab ou t th e bu sh, thou gh th e su bj e ct i s n ot a ple asan t on e the y w i l l u rin a te in th e i r hu sb an ds pr e sen ce or the y w i ll l e t him se e the i r soil e d me n s tru al n apkin s e tc Some hu sb an ds m ay n ot min d i t ; bu t some m en ar e ve ry — m e n on th e whole ar e mor e e sthe ti c than se n si t ive — wome n an d an in d i fi e r en ce towards th e wife may h ave i ts origin in some vu lgar or u n e sthe ti c pro Th e se xu al act as m en ce d u r e on th e wi fe s p art ti on ed be for e i s a ve ry d e lica t e me ch an i sm, an d i t i s ve r y e asy to di sarran ge i t Th e act o f mi ctu r i ti on be for e th e m an i s kn own in man y in stan ce s to have in stan tly aboli she d th e m an s se xu al de si re whi ch A n d a man tol d m e that be w as pr e se n t b e f or e cau se h e n oti ce d in a clo se t a l ot of r ags s oi le d w i th m en st ru al blood h e w as u n able to e n joy re lati on s wi th hi s wi fe for se ve ral mon ths Y ou m ay thin k that the se ar e all smal l thin gs bu t lif e i s made u p of li ttle thin gs an d ma n y a marr i ed li fe w en t smas h on acco u n t of di sr e gardi n g th e li ttl e thin gs I kn ow of n o other B ad Od or fr om th e M on th phy si cal ai l men t which i s so dan ge rou s so fatal to th e pre gn an cy of th e l ove r el ati on as i s a stron g, A s a n oxi ou s gas ofi e n siv e odor from th e mou th bli ghts a deli cate plan t so w ill a stron g b ad odo r bli ght th e deli cate pl an t of l ove Y e s a stron g mal ’ s ee . , , ’ , . , ’ . , , . ’ . . , , . . , . , . , S EX 1 68 we ll th e e flici en F OR KN OWLE DG E followi n g powde r . It is WO ME N si mp e , c e a l h p an d t: dram on e o u n ce two ou n ce s fou r ou n ce s on e aci Bori c Dri e d A li ttle d alu m powder shou l d b e shaken in to th e sto ckin gs e ve r y morn i n g an d th e sto ckin gs shou ld b e chan ge d ve ry fr e qu e n tly o n ce or twi ce a day Thi s powde r i s also eflici en t agai n st p e r spi r ati on an d b ad odor from th e armp i t s I am n ot givin g an y treatmen t for b ad odor from th e mou th for thi s co n di ti on m ay b e d u e to a gr e at vari e ty o f cau se s Th e cau se m ay r e si de in th e n o se ; i t m ay r e si de in th e mou th d e cayin g t ee th thro at ton si ls I t m ay b e d u e to a b ad st omach to Some time s it i s d u e s ome di se ase of th e lu n g s e tc to ove re ati n g Wh at wo u ld b e o f valu e in on e con di ti on mi ght b e u se le ss in an oth e r Th e r ight thin g the r e for e i s to go to a compe t en t physi ci an have hi m fin d th e cau se of yo u r trou ble an d ou tlin e th e pr op e r tre atmen t Leu corrh ea Some m en fin d th emselve s en ti r el y u n a bl e t o have se xu al r el ati on s wi th a woman whom they kn ow i s su ff e rin g wi th l eu corrhe a Th e m e re of th e , . , . , . , , , . , , . . , . , , . . . ADVI C E TO THE MAR RIE D 1 69 owl edge of th e fact t ak e s away thei r abi li ty t o p e rform th e act It r en de r s them impoten t It di s gu st s th em an d di sgu st i s fatal to se xu al powe r O n ly to d ay I saw in my office a woman w h o au x S h e h ad i ou sl y be gge d for advi ce an d treatmen t b ee n marri e d five ye ar s S h e h as al way s h ad l eu corr h e a from h er fift e en th y e ar as f ar a s sh e re memb e r s O the rwi se sh e di d n ot su ff er For the fir st th r e e year s or so h e r marri e d li fe h as b e en a happy on e Th en in an u n f ortu n ate momen t she told h e r hu sban d abou t h e r profu se l eu corrhea an d i n stan tly sh e n oti ce d a chan ge in hi m He cou l d n ot fu l ly hi de th e expre ssi on on hi s face A n d sin ce then h e cease d to have in te rcou r se wi th h e r He made a few att empt s bu t they tu rn e d ou t u n sati s facto r y to both, an d sh e n otice d that h e w as f orcin g hi m se lf doin g i t agai n st hi s wi ll Sh e took some p aten t medi cin e s an d we n t to on e doctor bu t with Now u n l e ss sh e cou l d be cu re d ou t an y r e su lt s sh e fe ar e d h e r hu sb an d wou ld de man d a se p ar ati o n If you have leu corrhe a tr e at it An d or a di vor ce re memb e r you n e e d n ot i n i ti ate you r hu sban d in all yo u r u n e sthe ti c ailm en t s Do n ot fli rt M en ar e apt to m i su n d er Fli rtin g an d you ar e apt to ge t th e r ep u tati o n of stan d you a l oo se woman wi tho u t in an y w ay h avin g de se rve d i t I do n ot say that you shou ld al way s we ar a for kn . . . , - . . , . . . , . . . , . , , . , , . . . . , . . 1 70 KN O WLE DGE FOR WOME N S EX xpressi on , an d shou l d scowl at pe ople w ho dare to smi le at you or othe r w i se pay homage to e B e n c i n fl e e r e m i n u e d i r r m o f h t h r e i u c a s t a s y betw een a frien dl y ex p re ssi on an d fli rtin g How eve r whe n you r hu sb an d begi n s to n e gl ect you , then It will al w ays a mil d fli r ta ti o n may be j u s tifiabl e d o you r h u sban d goo d t o kn ow that the re ar e othe r al e s i n the wo rl d b e sid e s hi m an d that some of m these mal e s fin d in tere st in th e femal e wh om h e con si de r s hi s pe rman e n t an d exclu si ve prop e rty S l oven l y Hus ban d s D on t l et you r hu sb an d be That i s j u st what I me an It i s n o come a sl ob Some hu sban ds n eve r acqu ir e u se mi n ci n g wor ds — th e habi t or if the y have ac qu i re d it they qu i ckl y — S he l ose i t of regar din g thei r wi ve s as l ad i e s i s n ot a l ad y, she is on l y my w ife i s a w el l kn ow n joke bu t some me n take i t n ot as a j e st S ome m e n thi n k that before th eir w ives they can be Give you r as sl ov en ly an d u n cl e an as they p l e ase hu sban d to u n de rstan d that cl ean l in e ss an d fre sh “ e i e x i d r s n an i m t t b t e j t o l i t u u s a a e s t s d a s s a n hu sban d wan ts hi s wif e to be cl e an an d dai n ty an d w ell groome d, so a w i fe m ay en j oy th e sam e qu ali ti e s in he r hu sb an d S ome wome n ar e ver y fas ti di ou s an d whil e the y may say n othi n g to thei r hu s ban ds for fear of i rri tatin g them, they may thin k a l e ood d a g bi ddin g e . . , . , . ’ . . . . . ” , . , . ” - , - . , .