Theory of the self
Every person have different perceptions about their self,behavior,abilities and unique characteristic. It is
essentially the mental picture of who you are as a person. I am a friendly person, I am a person that
wants to have that can help me and accept me for who I am and what I am. I am a kind of person that if
you smile at me even though we don't know each other, I smile back at you because giving smile to
other give me a great day and I feel happy because I can share my smile to others. I am a friend that if
you need me, I'm always here to help you overcome it and becoming strong to face it, but if I am the
one who has a problem, I didn't call anybody to ask for their help, I didn't open to them my problems
because I don't want them to disturb and be affected of what I've suffered. I talk to God, and pray that I
will easily overcome those problems and challenges that I am facing, but I know that God doesn't give
those challenges in life if I can't overcome it.
I am a strong and a happiest person outside, but inside I am weak specially when it comes to family.
Since I was 1 year old my father left us, and that's the loneliest and heartbreaking part of our life when I
think today. It is hard that you cannot your both parents as you grew up, because my mother also went
to other country to give me a better life, and I was grew up with my grandmother. The love and care
that I am longing for from my parents is already filled with my grandmother and other relatives that
always support to me, they always make me feel that I am complete even though I am not but still as I
saw my mother and my father has their own families, I felt jealous because they are blessed that they
are with them, that they are complete, they take care their families and siblings as they grew up while
me is not. But then I always tell to myself that everything happens for a reason, you are in this world for
a purpose. As a daughter I always study hard to make them proud and happy. I don't let my problem
affect myself. Sometimes I think to myself that I am a trash, that I am worthless because if I fail their
expectations and other people to me, I feel that they have no trust to me anymore and also I don't have
trust to myself that I can, that I can be more but one friend tell me that life must go on because "even a
trash can".