Motivational Stories of Determination, Perseverance and Success By Kevin Johnson Copyright © 2016 Copyright © 2016 Kevin Johnson All rights reserved. This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a book review. Disclaimer This book is designed to provide condensed information. It is not intended to reprint all the information that is otherwise available, but instead to complement, amplify and supplement other texts. You are urged to read all the available material, learn as much as possible and tailor the information to your individual needs. Every effort has been made to make this book as complete and as accurate as possible. However, there may be mistakes, both typographical and in content. Therefore, this text should be used only as a general guide and not as the ultimate source of information. The purpose of this book is to educate. The author or the publisher shall have neither liability nor responsibility to any person or entity regarding any loss or damage caused, or alleged to have been caused, directly or indirectly, by the information contained in this book. Table of Contents Introduction Sylvester Stallone Soichiro Honda Joanne "J.K." Rowling Michael Jordan Oprah Winfrey Marshall "Eminem" Mathers Arnold Schwarzenegger Phil Ivey Anthony Robbins Abraham Lincoln Conclusion Introduction I want to thank you and congratulate you for downloading the book, ‘Motivational Stories Inspirational stories of determination, perseverance and success’. Everyone, at some point in their lives, will feel overwhelmed by the challenges and obstacles that have to face daily. In times of difficulty and depression, we often look around to find a source of inspiration and to give us a ray of hope. This book contains the stories of 10 famous people whose lives were tried and challenged. Like most, they felt unbearable pressure and difficulties. They, however, devised ways to make it out of their hellhole and succeed in their own fields. Each person can find an account that he or she can relate to in this collection of motivational stories. Oprah Winfrey’s rags to riches story, Eminem’s abuse of drugs and alcohol and Abraham Lincoln’s dream for his country are only a few of society’s successes we recognize. Each individual featured in this book encountered a difficult passage but, nonetheless, made it through. These stories are bound to be examples and serve as sources of motivation for those who are in need. We must learn to see that life’s trials are nothing but passing circumstances and that something can be done to overcome them. Thanks again for downloading this book; I hope you enjoy it! Sylvester Stallone Michael Sylvester Gardenzio Stallone was born on July 6, 1946 in New York City. His father was a hairdresser and his mother was a former dancer. His mother, Jackie, had such difficulty in childbirth that forceps had to be used to assist in Sylvester’s delivery. His signature sneer and his unidentifiable accent, which is actually slurred speech, were the result of the nerve damage caused by the incident. Sly, along with his younger brother Frank, was raised in a hostile environment. His parents fought a lot and later divorced. He was not shown much affection in his home, either. He recalled his mother telling him that he didn’t have a body he could work with and, on a separate occasion, his father even told him that he didn’t have a brain. Stallone was emotionally deprived of parents, and he did not do well in school. As a matter of fact, he was expelled from school thrice. To make matters worse, after his parents got a divorce, he was sent to several foster homes. He eventually found his way back to live with his mother and attend a special school for troubled children. His childhood was clearly trying for the young Sylvester, but, coming from such a difficult point in his life, he wanted to inspire people who were going through the same pains as he was. This was when he decided that he was going to be an actor. He went to Miami State University to study drama, but his desire was so overwhelming that he decided to leave school and head straight to New York. Stallone auditioned tirelessly for castings in the city. He was determined that this is what he wanted to do. Even when agents denied him—telling him that the business had no place for someone with an injured face—and even when his own wife told him to get a ‘real job’, he never gave up. He had made up his mind that acting was the only thing he was meant to do. This caused Stallone to live in a small apartment without air conditioning, with a wife whom he fought with unendingly. The situation, though, did not kill his hunger for his real dream. He would go to castings and liberally work tirelessly to any role he could manage to get. He played small roles in a number of films and even got a starring role in a pornographic production. This he accepted, believing that it might lead him to a bigger role, and partly just to make ends meet. This venture did not go on any further, however it was difficult to get such small roles for Stallone, let alone get a starring role in any film. His apartment and his wife were cold and served him no comfort. He took comfort in the warmth of the city library, where he discovered his love for writing. Stallone did have a flair for storytelling, he discovered. He would stay at the library or stay at his home, making up stories and scribbling certain scenarios. He was especially keen on inspirational stories where one overcomes an unbelievable situation, like his own. For a time, he made a living selling these stories, but they were no bestsellers, and times were so difficult that Stallone even had to sell his dog just to get by. He was at his lowest point, but, as they say, the night is darkest before the dawn. The story of Rocky Balboa was formed in Stallone’s mind when he watched a boxing match featuring the great Muhammad Ali. The underdog opponent, Chuck Whepner, managed to knock Ali out. Stallone was astounded and formed the idea of creating an underdog character who would overcome his troubles and rise to the occasion. He went home and wrote the manuscript for Rocky. In three days, he had a screenplay and he had the vision of playing the starring role himself. He went to actor castings still hoping to land a role in a major film, but also having the freshly written screenplay in his back pocket. Stallone went to a casting being conducted by Robert Chartoff and Irwin Winkler. When he didn’t get the role he was aiming for, he offered his manuscript. Fortunately, the team considered reviewing the script and was quite impressed by what Stallone had written. They offered Stallone a large amount of money to buy the material. They weren’t too happy, though, with the idea of him playing the lead role. Stallone insisted that he play Rocky and wouldn’t sell his script even when the offer was increased to ridiculously large amounts. His script was so great that, finally, after heaps of negotiations, everyone agreed to let Stallone play the starring role. His difficulties, however, did not end there. The movie was given a $1 million budget, barely enough to have a quality product. Stallone enlisted his family and close friends to play small roles in the movie and in the production. His wife was the set photographer, while his brother was an extra. The movie also took its toll on Stallone’s body as he was not used to the kind of activity Rocky was doing. During shooting, he would feel his body almost giving up and falling to the ground. Still, he pushed and convinced himself that the outcome would be tremendous, if he could hold on just a bit longer. It was in 1976 when Rocky was released to the public and Stallone cashed in on his hard labor. Although he ended up spending days in bed, nursing his sore body, the low budget film sold and inspired millions around the world. It also opened an avenue for Sylvester Stallone’s acting, writing and directing career. Stallone went on to star in over 40 films and is still active today at 67. His writing skills are unmatched as he continues to come up with action-packed screenplays. He is also directing and producing high-quality material. Being stubborn often has a negative connotation, but Sylvester Stallone’s life struggles and his means of getting out of the rut somehow debunked this idea. He was merely being stubborn, insisting on what he wanted, and taking nothing else, yet he achieved his dream and immense success followed thereafter. He has, since then, been an icon in the entertainment industry. He epitomized the age-old proverb, “Try and try until you succeed.” He has proven there is nothing impossible when hard work and determination take action. And as for his dream, he has surely inspired—and continues to inspire— the whole world. Soichiro Honda In a word, Soichiro Honda’s endeavor to create the now world-renowned Honda Motors Company was achieved through patience. Born to a blacksmith and a weaver, Soichiro had an innate passion for machinery. The story of him chasing a car that passed by their town when he was very little has been a topic in many of his interviews. He said that the smell of oil was one he could not forget, the thrill unimaginable. As he was growing up, his father’s bicycle repair shop enriched Soichiro’s interest in the craft and enhanced his tinkering capabilities. His devotion to technology was only empowered by the country’s sudden shift from agriculture to that of manufacturing during this time. Soichiro Honda grew up puzzled by the world’s development and found his own way to understanding it. At 16, his knowledge of machines and his dexterity in handling them were beyond his years. School no longer appealed to him; he wanted practical education. He opted to halt formal training and rather apply as an apprentice in one of Tokyo’s automobile servicing companies. Soichiro worked as a mechanic apprentice for Art Shokai in Tokyo. The company serviced cars needing repair and maintenance. It was a difficult time for Soichiro, however, as apprentices were not paid wages. They were merely given a bed to sleep in and food to eat—nothing more. This did not deter his yearning to learn, though. He closely studied each vehicle rendered to his care. He was very competent in maintenance and repair. He was able to devise ways to simplify elaborate repair procedures and shared this with his co-workers, making their jobs easier. Later, he developed a flair for invention. He used automotive tools and parts in an uncanny manner. He was as creative as he was analytical. He was also just a young boy. He spent his spare time reading motorcycling magazines and committing to memory each detailed description he read. He also closely followed international motorcycle racing. Not long after beginning the apprenticeship, he actually seemed educated in the field. His efforts were rewarded as Art Shokai’s management took notice of his capabilities. The owner then took it upon himself to teach Soichiro everything else he knew about the trade—not only about machinery, but mostly about the business. He was also a very valuable asset as the company used his abilities when they ventured into manufacturing cars. Soichiro was able to produce quality spare parts from unconventional sources and through unorthodox means. Soon thereafter, Soichiro’s rise through the ranks was unstoppable. As Art Shokai ventured into racing, he was named accompanying engineer and, later, he was given full independence to manage Art Shokai’s branch near his home. He was only 22 at the time and became very successful. He became the most sought after mechanic in the region. Soichiro Honda’s involvement with Art Shokai ended when he intended to expand the company’s undertakings into manufacturing. He wanted to manufacture piston rings, but the management saw no benefits in the venture and shot his idea down. To pursue his dream, he left Art Shokai and started his own business in manufacturing piston rings. Due to the complexity of the material, Soichiro had to go back to school to have in depth knowledge of the metals. After long days of making piston rings and long nights of studying, and a lot of adjustments in between, Soichiro seemed to have achieved his dream. He was finally able to make quality piston rings and supply Japan’s automotive giants, including Toyota. He was on a roll with his manufacturing business until the war broke out. The company was taken over and his position as president was reduced to that of an operations manager. Most of the male employees were drafted into the military which left Soichiro with women in his rank and file. He made certain adjustments in the manufacturing process, making it easier for the women to comprehend and perform the tasks. The company functioned smoothly, nonetheless, until his building, containing the piston rings and all his machinery, was destroyed during a bombing raid by American warplanes. Soichiro lost most of his investments. The few he salvaged after the war he sold to Japan’s big companies to be able to get back on his feet. The broken country did not break Soichiro’s love of the automotive industry, however, nor did it break his spirit. From the rubble created by the war and the country’s need for practical motor vehicles rose the Honda Motor Company. Soichiro pursued his dreams of manufacturing motorcycles. The first Honda motorcycle, literally an engine connected to a bicycle, was made in 1948. Further developments created useful and efficient machinery that catered to the people’s needs. Within a decade, Americans had embraced the idea of Honda motorcycles and, shortly after, Soichiro’s creations were winning international motorcycle races. Honda’s automotive line was not as widely accepted as his motorcycles were. The Department of Trade at the time discouraged Soichiro from getting into car manufacturing as many had done so and they were already quite successful at it. There was no place for another start-up company crowding the markets. Still, he continued working on his prototype and created a small yet efficient and sturdy model fit for the times. He was given permission to proceed and build a competitive empire; he did. Soichiro Honda said “Success can only be achieved through repeated failure and introspection.” His journey was long and difficult, his life full of trials and challenges. Several times he was shot down and several times he stood up to continue what he loved doing. At no point did failure prevent him from pursuing his dream; failure only urged him to find a way to do so and heightened his need for learning. He used his love for automotives, his knowledge and skills to pursue his dreams, and, despite the obstacles, he fought within reason to achieve his dreams. Today, Honda Motor Company manufactures motorcycles, cars and even marine and aerospace parts and equipment. Soichiro’s innate characteristics were embedded in his company. Being creative and giving the consumers what they need sets the company apart. Also, creating a machine and studying it to find ways to make it better was a virtue he passed on, and, most importantly, having the patience to see each task through was necessary. Honda is now one of the leading automotive manufacturers, and the company’s motorcycles are still winning races around the world. Soichiro Honda enjoyed the benefits of his hard work and diligence until his death at age 84 in August 1991. Joanne "J.K." Rowling Joanne “J. K.” Rowling is the first billionaire whose main source of income is writing. She authored the multiawarded Harry Potter book series, selling millions per installment. She is certainly a world renowned author today and she is said to have a net worth more than that of the Queen. Her life, though, is like a wheel; it has had its ups and downs. Born to Peter James Rowling, an engineer for RollsRoyce, and Anne Rowling, J.K. grew up comfortably. She attended primary school in St. Michael’s in Winterbourne, secondary school in Wyedean School, and college in Exeter University, where she studied French and Classic Literature. J. K. Rowling’s downward spiral began in her teens, when her mother became ill with multiple sclerosis. Family issues caused a rift between her and her father which remains until today. Her dreadful teenage years marked the beginning of her life’s struggles. In 1990, her mother died of the terminal illness. They were incredibly close and Rowling took the death hard. It led her to seek out new opportunities elsewhere. She ended up in Portugal. There, she taught English as a second language to locals. She also met Jorge Arantes, a television journalist who later became her husband. The relationship, however, was shortlived. Soon after the birth of Jessica Isabel, their daughter, and three years into the marriage, their union ended in divorce. Rowling spiraled further down. She decided to go back to Edinburgh to live near her sister. She didn’t have any income as jobs were singular. She relied mainly on government assistance, which afforded her a small flat and barely enough money to get by. The responsibility of raising her daughter alone certainly didn’t help the situation, either. She was depressed, having come from a relationship of abuse and now raising a little girl on her own with only welfare money in her pocket. She contemplated suicide more than once during this time, but she overcame it. Through the years, only one thing was constant in J. K. Rowling’s life—her love for English and literature. She began writing as early as age 6 and has never stopped. She particularly enjoyed writing children’s fantasy stories and most of her works are of this nature. The idea of Harry Potter came to her while she was on a train from Manchester to London. She was consumed with the idea of a train taking a little boy to a land of fantasy where he had powers and where adventure awaited him. This is how Harry Potter was born, as were the multitude of characters, events and places in the famous books. J.K. Rowling wrote the first book in the Harry Potter series over a span of 6 years. She began shortly before her mother’s passing, through her adventures in Portugal, through her divorce and her return to Britain. Now that she was deprived, with another mouth to feed, she was all the more determined to finish it. Taking a stroll around the neighborhood put young Jessica to sleep most often, and Rowling would take this time to write in coffee shops in the area. Most of her personal experiences became sources of ideas for the books. Some characters she picked out of her roster of family, friends and acquaintances who were given life in the magical world. After six years, the first installment of the bestselling series was ready to be released to the public —unfortunately, all the publishers she sent the manuscript to turned her down. The wheel that is J.K. Rowling’s life began to turn after this because, a year later, her book was published. However, her hope was neutralized by publishers telling her that children’s fantasy books were not her strength and that she should consider getting a real job. How they were proven wrong! In half a year, the Scottish Arts Council awarded Rowling a grant to continue writing the Harry Potter series because they were so impressed with her work. Things got even better from there. Her fantasy stories of Harry Potter, Ron Weasley and Hermione Granger’s adventures in Hogwarts received a multitude of awards from credible accrediting bodies. The books were named best-selling stories in various literature charts and publishers all over the world fought for a chance to materialize Rowling’s stories. J. K. Rowling’s life is a testament to how tolerance works wonders. At times, life will give you one failure after another, one disappointment more than you can take, or a challenge that is too much to bear. When you are feeling the pressure of such failure, remember the penniless lady and her daughter who lived on government assistance alone. Remember that all she did was to do what she does best and believe that one day the odds would turn in her favor. Be it by divine intervention or a twist of fate, patience has rewarded her with much more than she could have asked for. Today, all seven of the Harry Potter books have been placed number one on the New York Times’ Bestseller List. J. K. Rowling has been awarded numerous recognitions and is now rubbing elbows with the richest and most influential people on the planet. She speaks scarcely of her past and does not dwell on what has happened but focuses mostly on what is happening. She married again and had two more children with Neil Michael Murray; the family resides in Scotland. Rowling is now venturing into other genres in her writing. Michael Jordan Ask any NBA fan, or any person for that matter, who the greatest basketball player of all time is and one name will come to mind. Michael Jordan is recognized by the association, by the fans, and even by his colleagues as a basketball icon. After being drafted as the number 3 pick in the National Basketball Association’s 1984 season, he immediately started making a name for himself. He bagged the Rookie of the Year recognition and started pulling the Chicago Bulls’ weight into the play-offs. In 1990, after five seasons of professionally playing the game he loved, he led the Chicago Bulls to a three-year winning streak. The team captured another three championship trophies later, all six credits given to the basketball superstar. MJ had great scoring capabilities. He averaged 33 points per game in the regular season and 30 points per game in the playoffs. He was a constant pick in the NBA All-Star Games and brought pride to the United States in the Olympics. He was recognized as the Best Defensive Player in the 1988 season, was honored with the Most Valuable Player award numerous times, and was decked into the Basketball Hall of Fame. His achievements in the court were insurmountable, making him the top contender for the Best Basketball Player of All Time title. His knowledge and skill were great, although these alone did not give him the nicknames “Air Jordan” and “His Airness.” Michael played with a touch of finesse and sophistication. His 6’6” stature allowed him to dunk all the way from the free-throw line. His precision moves were a target of many slow-motion camera tricks and photo opportunities. His grace under pressure was a reliable ally. In the basketball court, “He was God disguised as Michael Jordan,” according to Larry Bird, another basketball great. This amount of knowledge, skill and precision comes only from practice, diligence, and love for the game—all of which Michael Jordan worked hard for. Michael Jeffrey Jordan was born in Brooklyn, New York, in 1963. He was the fourth out of five children brought into this world by James Jordan, Sr., an equipment supervisor, and Anne Jordan, a bank teller. Due to the dangers of living in Brooklyn, the family opted to move to the more peaceful suburbs of North Carolina. As a child, Michael had a very close relationship with his father, this streaming mostly from their mutual love for sports. Baseball was their sport of choice and they bonded greatly over such games. Michael, however, chose to play basketball to follow in the footsteps of his older brother, Larry, whom he looked up to. People who saw Michael grow up claim that he was competitive in almost everything. He liked winning and was, in fact, a sore loser. Consequently, he took it hard when he did not make it to his high school’s varsity team. In his sophomore year at Emsley A. Laney High School, Michael tried out for an open position in the basketball varsity team. He hadn’t grown to his full height yet, nor did he have the skill he clearly showed the world in the years to come. He was not chosen for the position. Instead, the team opted for someone taller and bigger and—he believed —a less competent player than he was. This started Michael’s drive to excel in the sport he wanted to be associated with. Rejected from the basketball team, he was determined to make it through at the next try-outs, and practice was his plan of action. Michael went to school early every day, arriving before everybody else did. He spent the morning practicing shooting hoops in the gym. He was unstoppable in his desire to be the best in basketball, so much so that the physical education teachers had to drag him out of the gym when the first period bell rang. When another spot opened for the basketball varsity team, Michael again tried his luck and was accepted as a team member. He was disappointed, however, as he was barely allowed to play in the interschool games. He was mostly on the bench, handing out water and towels to the tired players. This disregard did not cause him to falter. He did not quit the team; rather, he trained even more to perfect himself in the field. Doing so earned him a valuable place in the junior basketball varsity team and eligibility for a college basketball scholarship. The University of North Carolina, along with many others, offered Michael Jordan a basketball scholarship grant. He accepted this and established his position as a skilled basketball player while studying cultural geography. He didn’t even finish college before heading for the big dome. He opted to join the NBA in his junior year, but returned later to finish his course. Michael Jordan’s perseverance to achieve what he wanted is an exemplary story we all must learn from. He was not accepted by his high school varsity team initially, but he did not give up altogether. He was accepted but still not allowed to play the game he knew he could play well, but he did not lose hope. Instead, he channeled these challenges into motivation to propel himself to stardom. In the road to greatness, practice is always essential. Michael Jordan demonstrated how practice does make one perfect, or near perfect at least. He showed us how his determination brought him to heights no one thought he could reach. His willpower established that nothing is impossible. With perseverance and unparalleled willpower, Michael Jeffrey Jordan made a name for himself. New records were set during his years playing in the NBA. His games were exhilarating and were closely watched by his fans all around the world. Even now that he isn’t playing professional basketball anymore, his name is never forgotten when people talk about this beloved sport. People now and forever will always remember his legacy—the same legacy that began when he was denied a spot in his sophomore basketball varsity team. Oprah Winfrey Oprah Winfrey is a well-known talk show personality, entertainment mogul and advocate for the abused. She is a prominent alpha female in every right. She is intelligent and articulate and she is always well-groomed, with her well-kept hair and pearly whites. Who would have thought that she came from rags (literally)? Oprah’s mother was a housekeeper. In her teens, she got pregnant and brought Orpah (Oprah’s real name, according to her birth certificate) alone into this world. However, due to the necessity of working, she left the baby girl with her mother. The trying life of Oprah Winfrey began here. Oprah spent the first six years of her life with her grandmother. They went to church regularly. Her grandmother taught her to read and asked her to recite Bible verses, which she did, so articulately that she was nicknamed “Ms. Preacher.” Oprah says that this is where she gained her self-confidence and learned her talent in the field of communication. Oprah believes that her grandmother influenced most of who she is today, although their time together did not go as smoothly as any young girl would have wanted it to. They were very poor. Oprah wore potato sacks cut into dresses because they didn’t have any money with which to buy clothes. Her grandmother was strict and supportive despite the circumstances. She was also abusive. When she was dissatisfied in any way, Oprah would receive a beating from her. At six, Oprah went to live with her mother, Vernita Lee, whose presence was barely felt. She was always so busy with long hours of working that, during the few hours that mother and daughter were together, she was either too tired to care about her or was furious with her. Oprah’s experience of sexual abuse is not a secreted fact. She came out in her talk shows with the revelation of being molested, and abuse was one of the more frequent topics of discussion. She had mentioned being sexually assaulted by a cousin, an uncle, and a family friend on different occasions. Her family was not too happy when she informed them later on and they insisted the allegations were false. At 14, Oprah brought a child into the world. Her son, however, died shortly after birth. She went to a local high school where, again, poverty got in the way. She was bullied and psychologically abused even more. The difficult times led her to steal from her mother. They would get into constant bickering and quarrels and, as a result, Oprah turned to men as an outlet. She dated older men who were also abusive in one way or another. The exploitation was too much for young Oprah and too much trouble for her mother. Thus, she was sent away to live with the man whom they believed was her father, Vernon Winfrey. Her mother was not sure, but he took Oprah in and gave her a new life—one that had a future. Vernon embedded in Oprah the importance of fundamental education. He got her into a decent school where she began to blossom. She started receiving academic awards and began befriending the popular kids in school. Her career started here when she got a part-time job at the local radio news station. She had the job until she went to college, and things further flourished thereafter. She was given longer hours on the radio and was later hired to anchor local television news. Her exemplary performance raised the audience ratings in each show she participated in and, eventually, she was hired to co-host a talk show and, eventually, to present her own show. The Oprah Winfrey Show, based in Chicago, changed the image of daily talk shows. Oprah directed the show towards more relevant topics within the community. Celebrity gossip was no longer the main focus of the show; current news and issues, diseases and their implications, and human rights stories were the most common topics. The show also prided itself in humanizing politicians, actors and actresses, musicians, sports superstars and other celebrities. There were moments of concern, heaps of laughter, and sometimes tears. There were even big confessions made on the show. The show was such a success that in all of America—and even around the world—Oprah Winfrey became a household name. Her show lasted more than two decades earning millions of dollars for the star. She branched out into production and created her own production studio and ventured into other media-related acquisitions. Today, she is said to be worth close to $3 billion, a current contender in any accrediting body’s Most Influential People list, an advocate for human rights and a fighter against human poverty. Oprah Winfrey’s life was defined by the choices she made. This is evidenced by comparing the life she has had to that of her siblings. Vernita’s second daughter, Oprah’s halfsister, Patricia, died in 2003 as a result of cocaine addiction. Vernita’s youngest child, a boy named Jeffrey, died in 1989 because of complications from AIDS. All were born underprivileged in mostly the same circumstances, but only Oprah was able to choose the right path. Oprah channeled her life’s challenges into a positive perspective. For example, she has stated that her grandmother gave her the self-confidence and belief she had in herself, although, at the same time, her grandmother was abusive. She chose to focus on the good. The trials life threw at her were channeled into positive energy too and not towards further promiscuity. For every fastball thrown at her, Oprah chose to fight for herself rather than fall victim to circumstances. Furthermore, she has used her difficult upbringing as a means to understand the abuse going on around the world and even find ways to help those who are mistreated. As Oprah reached the peak of her career, she advocated respect for women, the LGBT community, and especially children’s causes. She created a committee under her supervision to be able to give help, be it monetary or in kind, to those who need it most. She has given hundreds of scholarships and she has even built schools for the less fortunate in Africa. Admittedly, Oprah did fall into some abusive relationships, took prohibited drugs and had her time with promiscuity. These were mistakes she made but, eventually, she got out of all of them. She did not dwell on these circumstances, nor did she let these challenges dictate the direction of her life. Oprah Winfrey chose to be who she is now and her personal choice to get out of the rut rewarded her immensely. Marshall "Eminem" Mathers Eminem, the well-known rapper, songwriter and entertainment entrepreneur, was born Marshall Bruce Mathers III. Both his parents, Marshall Mathers, Jr. and Deborah Mathers, were members of a band. His mother got pregnant in her teens and brought Marshall III into this world in 1972 in Missouri. His father left them when the young Marshall was only 3 months old. From here on out, Deborah had to raise Marshall on her own. She worked odd jobs without regularity. Because of this, Marshall and his mother moved to and from Missouri and Detroit, living with relatives or at government housing projects. At times, they relied mainly on government welfare to provide for their daily needs. Mother and son moved from one city to another, every three or four months, making it difficult for Marshall to establish a home. He was also having difficulty in school, failing in his subjects and not making any friends. He was often bullied and taunted by his classmates. They moved from Savannah to Kansas to St. Joseph until, finally, when Marshall was 12, they settled in Detroit. The neighborhood population was mostly of African-American descent and Marshall was a sole white face in the crowd. The bullying continued. He was beat up by the black kids regularly and he struggled with his grades too. His mother’s paranoid personality disorder did not help young Marshall through these difficult times, either. Marshall tried to contact his father numerous times but was rejected, his calls unreturned and his letters sent back. Thanks to his uncle, Ronnie Mathers, Marshal had someone to look up to as a father figure. As a child, the only thing Marshall loved was the English language. On occasion, he would find himself reading the English dictionary, wanting to know all the meanings of the words. He spent his time reading comic books, too, and aspired to write some himself. That is until his Uncle Ronnie introduced him to “Reckless,” Ice-T’s 1981 hit, when Marshall fell in love with rap music. This fueled Marshall’s love for the English language. Eventually, he started rhyming until he started writing verses and stanzas altogether. When his mother left the house, he would often turn on some rap music loudly and start scribbling rhymes on paper. This occupied most of his time and his grades in school suffered even more. After spending three years in the ninth grade, Marshall left school altogether. The desire to make a living out of rap consumed Marshall. Since the age of 14, he has been competently rapping. He found some more friends who were interested in the craft and, together, they would express the concerns of their young lives through the language. He ultimately found himself joining open mic nights in the underground Detroit rap scene. In this arena, two rappers go head-to-head spitting impromptu raps. In the crowd of black rappers, Eminem was born and was recognized as the one to beat. Eminem worked odd jobs during this time, helping his mother provide for the needs of the household. Aside from supporting his mother, Eminem soon had another responsibility. His on-and-off girlfriend gave birth to a baby girl in 1995. Mostly working in the restaurant scene to support his new family, Eminem started chasing his dreams of releasing a hip-hop album. With the help of GBT Productions, his first album was released. This album, though, was not widely accepted by society. He was compared, unfavorably, to other well-known rappers. Critics demeaned his lyrics and his abilities to rap. Local radio stations literally ignored the record and sales were low. Rain again poured down on Eminem’s life as he was fired from his restaurant job. With his music career failing to materialize, Eminem turned to alcohol and drug abuse. Family conflict was also a constant event through these difficult times. His despair was so tangible that he even attempted to harm himself, but failed. It was the lowest point in Eminem’s life. His dreams were shattered, he was knee-deep in vices, and his family needed support. This fueled Eminem’s determination to pursue the one thing he could do best—rap. His violent alter ego, Slim Shady, was born. He channeled his anger into rap lyrics, using his difficult life as the script. This gave rise to the angry and violent real-life stories told in his songs. This is the characteristic that would set him apart from the generic songs about immense wealth, sexy women and cool cars that other rappers rave about. In 1997, his second album under Web Entertainment, Slim Shady EP, was released. His content was mostly about the violent life in the Detroit area where sex, murder, alcohol and drug abuse were everyday occurrences. His emotions raw and his versatile verbal prowess impeccable, this tape demo was sent to Interscope Records. Immediately, famed rapper and record producer Dr. Dre recognized Marshall’s potential and signed him up for a record deal shortly after their first meeting. Since then, Eminem’s career has not been as smooth as he would have liked. His musical products have been widely criticized and many still condemn his violent and hurtful lyrics. He has developed enemies and has been taken to court by several lawsuits. Even his personal life is a common point of interest for the tabloids and for the crowds. His marriage to his childhood girlfriend Kimberly Scott and their eventual divorce and his life with daughter Hailie have been constantly monitored; so, too, has his relationship with his mother. His straightforward lyrics that deal with societal issues have graced Eminem with a total of thirteen Grammy Awards, named him “Best Rapper” on more than one occasion, and led to thirteen rap albums. He is no longer relying on a restaurant job or the Rap Olympics to pay the bills. As a matter of fact, he has established his own recording label and radio station. He has a comfortable home, three children—two of whom are adopted—to come home to, and a fan base enthralled by his talent. Marshall Bruce Mathers III has not stopped writing about his life, the challenges he has overcome, and the mindset he has developed in order to achieve his dreams. Challenges did not stop even after his success and neither did he. Today, he is still soldiering through each curve ball life throws at him. He writes them into a Billboard No. 1 single, too. Eminem has written songs that each person can relate to in one way or another. He is as human as any recording artist could be. His instruments are those handed to him by life— his talent and his struggles. Arnold Schwarzenegger Arnold Schwarzenegger is known today as a politician and a movie star. Many would know that he started his professional career as a bodybuilder. As a matter of fact, the increase in the sport’s fan base of muscle mass was mostly attributed to his multiple consecutive years of reign. The journey towards Mr. Universe and Mr. Olympia, though, was not easy for Arnold. Arnold Alois Schwarzenegger was born to a traditional Austrian family. They were quite poor and Arnold remembers buying a refrigerator as being a highlight of their lives. His father was a policeman and was said to have been involved in the Nazi regime in the years that it was in power in Austria. Arnold had a strict upbringing. He was subjected to join several sporting events and was required to excel at them. He played soccer due to his father’s influence. Arnold was said to be a jolly, exuberant personality. In school, he was average. At home, though, he suffered from unequal treatment from his father. Gustav Schwarzenegger did not believe that Arnold was his biological son and so, instead, he favored Arnold’s older brother, Meihnard. Arnold was said to have been physically abused by Gustav in his youth, as every other child in Austria was at the time. He said that the incident was common and may have been considered a norm. Arnold turned to his mother during such difficult circumstances. He took it very hard when she passed away many years later. Arnold then made up his mind that he was to leave behind the abusive life he was living. He learned how to when at soccer practice—his coach took the team to the gym to work out. He held the weights in his hand and he knew that this was his ticket out of there. Arnold’s determination to leave Austria and go to America, to be somebody and to amass a heap of wealth, was enough to bring him to the gym every day to work out. His inborn heart condition did not stop him, either. Arnold had a condition called bicuspid aortic valve. His heart only had two valves instead of the normal three. Although no manifestations were observed by Arnold, the dangers of poor circulation and increased strain on the heart were always present. Arnold spent hours training daily and would even sneak into the gym during the weekends when it was closed. Even though his father urged him to be a policeman like himself, Arnold set his heart on bodybuilding. He was so determined to pursue this career that, at the age of 18, when all Austrian males were required to attend a basic training course and a compulsory year of military service, Arnold opted to leave and join his first ever bodybuilding competition. Winning Mr. Junior Europe was his gateway to the sport he adored. He had to go to military prison for a week though, because of his refusal to attend compulsory military service. However, soon after that, he competed in his first ever Mr. Universe competition. At this time, Arnold was gaining popularity and had impressed a trainer in London. He moved there to work full-time on his bodybuilding career. Having no money to get his own flat, Arnold lived with his trainer’s family. He also had the chance to study English, which led him to dream of being an actor. By 1968, with the money earned from his competitions, he got on a plane and flew to America. His dream was realized, but his career was far from over. He trained further and harder and, due to his increasing popularity, he had been cast to play roles in low-budget films, most of which did not turn out the way the producers expected them to. Arnold balanced his career between bodybuilding and acting at this time. Upon his retirement from bodybuilding, his records included 5 Mr. Universe championship titles and 7 Mr. Olympia titles—a record that fueled almost every man’s drive to go to the gym and achieve that Austrian Oak body. After his winning streak, he was sought out by bodybuilding organizers to give commentaries on his younger predecessors. He also wrote a book on the process of bulking up, as well as regular magazine articles about the sport. It was after his retirement, and partly due to the masses’ increased interest in action movies in the 1980s, that Arnold finally got the big break he had always wanted from the time he decided to become an actor. The movie Conan the Barbarian finally allowed Arnold to showcase his acting talent. He was cast in lead roles in more films in the years that followed. The Terminator movies, Predator, True Lies, and The Expendables (1 and 2) are just some of the many popular movies that starred Arnold. Arnold’s story reminds us of the importance and effectiveness of setting goals. These goals pave the way for purposeful action in our everyday lives. He set a goal when he wanted to get out of the abusive environment in which he lived. He wanted to be a Hollywood actor and, despite the many obstacles he faced early on, he still achieved that goal. To this day, Arnold still sets goals and does it by writing them on an index card, including his plans to reach his objective. He did this when he bought his first car. Furthermore, Arnold’s story reiterates the value of focus. Like Arnold, one must learn to work towards one goal at a time and focus all energy into that objective. And, of course, goals are nothing but words without action. Reaching most goals is difficult; that is what makes them fulfilling when finally achieved. Arnold Schwarzenegger is a self-made man. He was able to direct the difficult circumstances in his life towards a career of recognition and greatness. Despite the controversies regarding his family life, he will always be an icon of strength. Later in his career, Arnold ventured into politics. He was elected to two terms as the Governor of California under the Republican Party. His motivation was to be able to give people the safe and harmonious environment he dreamed of. There exist various rumors about him thinking about running for President (This possibility was even explored, albeit in animated form, in 2007’s The Simpsons Movie.), but he has not confirmed such a desire. Phil Ivey Basketball has Michael Jordan and golf has Tiger Woods. In poker, the prominent name is Phil Ivey. He is known today as poker’s greatest player and is increasing his net worth by thousands, if not millions, of dollars daily. Ivey has won over 20 poker tournaments in his lifetime and is looking to add more. He is known not only for his large earnings but for showing no fear when he sits at the poker table. He says that his disregard for money makes him effective at the table. Born on February 1, 1976, in California, Ivey grew up in Roselle, Jew Jersey. He belonged to a working class family. His father worked in the construction business while his mother worked at an insurance firm. The family was comfortable but, at an early age, it was difficult for Ivey to appreciate the circumstances. Ivey never wanted the life his mother and father lived, being tied to a job that paid for a home and meals but nothing more. He called this life mediocre; early on, he was determined to make more out of his. He wanted to be rich and he wanted to do it fast. As the hunger for money and comfort consumed Ivey, he found ways to satisfy this craving. While still in high school, he worked at a fast food joint flipping burgers, but he wasn’t satisfied with the small income. Right out of high school, he sought a telemarketing job that did not satisfy him either. It appears that the road to his dreams began with a two-hour bus ride to Atlantic City. Phil Ivey’s grandfather taught him the ropes of gambling. Initially, Ivey would go to his apartment for the air conditioning as an escape from their warm home. While he was there, his grandfather would teach him the game of poker, betting with pennies. He found himself coming back regularly to play with him. Later, young Ivey continually sought out this thrill. At the age of 17, he managed to get a fake ID and would take regular trips to Atlantic City and frequent the casinos there. His mother strongly disapproved, saying that casinos were a hotbed of sin, but this did not stop him. He found his way to fast and easy cash. As Ivey clocked out of his telemarketing job, his regular destination would be the casinos in Atlantic City. On days when Ivey had no work, he would spend 16 to 18 hours there at a time. He practiced his craft playing not only poker but various casino games. At times, he would win, but many times, he would go home without the money he had worked for. He had days when he didn’t even possess the fare to go back home and would just sleep in the streets for the night. It was here, too, that he learned about the game that made him a success—an unconventional success. He learned that poker was mainly a psychological game. He studied each opponent he had—their reactions when their cards were dealt, their facial expressions and the body language they deliberately want you to see and those they try to hide. He says a huge part of his success is reading his opponents’ minds through their actions. At a certain point in the gambler’s life, he was dealt cards that brought him only defeat. Contemplating quitting the scene and shifting to another career, Ivey set out for Los Angeles’ Hustler Casino where he gave himself an ultimatum. He had $50,000 and he was willing to play everything, but, if he lost this, he would stop gambling altogether. He won and started making a name for himself. Eventually, Phil moved to Las Vegas where he regularly visits the casinos doing all sorts of straight-up gambling. In less than an hour, Ivey can easily come out of the building close to a million dollars richer. He travels for gambling, too, and visits the casinos he passes on the way. An image of immense wealth, years of practice, and his desperate need to be the best at what he does defines the unconventional success of Phil Ivey. He considers poker and gambling not as a vice but as a job. He once said, “When I put in the time, at the end of the year, I end up winning.” Phil Ivey currently has a home in Las Vegas and owns a McLaren. He frequently travels around the world to join various poker tournaments. He has a private jet to take him to his “job,” and he lounges comfortably as he is joined by his personal trainer and golf coach on board. His family has also benefited from his winnings. He had funded his sister’s degree in Law and had given his mother a gift in the form of a condominium in New York City. Part of his earnings is dedicated to a foundation he himself founded and he organizes poker charity events where the proceeds go to the needy children of Las Vegas. Phil Ivey’s career of choice does seem unconventional. It may even appear sinful to the more pious among us. However, there was not a single conventional thing in how he worked hard at his craft. Easy as it may seem, he has perfected gambling by studying it meticulously instead of relying on sheer dumb luck. Anthony Robbins Anthony Robbins once said, “The past does not equal the future.” The life coach’s being is a living testament of his own statement. Although there were challenges in the earlier part of his journey, it is a small part of the Anthony Robbins story. His mother was known to have multiple romantic partners when Anthony was young. He had a different father figure at any given time, but none of them were able to provide a comfortable life for the family. They were mostly poor, with little to get by on, and they relied on the charity that kind souls handed to them. The success in Anthony Robbins’ life came as early as his teens when he worked with John Grinder. He was originally tasked to help promote Grinder’s work on Neuro Linguistic Programming by encouraging people to attend his seminars and read his output. He later convinced Grinder to teach him the fundamentals of the field. They reached success together and, at his young age, Robbins was making his own money, and in heaps. As he reached his 20s, Anthony enjoyed the triumphs his young, powerful mind had achieved. He, however, struggled with an uneventful life after this. He was bummed at home, watching television shows, and, because of this, he gained an enormous amount of weight. A friend’s small push to get up and change his life catapulted his already materialized career. Anthony used the knowledge he had gained while working with Grinder to get back on his feet. After this, he no longer dwelt on what had happened in the past. Today, Anthony is a respectable life coach. He has written self-help books on unleashing one’s potentials and living up to them. He wrote the books ‘The Unlimited Power’, ‘Awaking the Giant Within’, ‘Notes From a Friend’ and ‘Giant Steps’. He has a stable fan base and has ventured into conducting self-improvement seminars on living a healthy lifestyle, gaining and managing wealth, and leadership essentials. His Mastery University, an educational facility of the self-help nature, has accommodated thousands of participants. He uses his experience in dealing with various types of personalities and incorporates them with the theoretical aspect of his subjects. By doing this, he learns more about people, their motivation and characteristics, and the approaches needed to help them in the necessary areas. He also incorporates a lot of entertainment media in his classes to be able to relate more to the audience and to maintain their interest and enthusiasm. He has spoken for the House of Commons and House of the Lords and he has met and worked with noted personalities. Mother Teresa, Princess Diana, Michael Douglas and Andre Agassi are just a few of the celebrities he has dialogued with. This knowledge, experience and credibility only boosted Anthony’s success. Anthony Robbins’ life story is only as important as the lessons he imparts in each of his books, infomercials and seminars. Each person must learn and recognize these things before actual changes occur in one’s life. These are the foundations of motivation. Anthony Robbins said that, to be motivated to create changes in your life, you must realize and believe that your old habits and patterns are detrimental. It is necessary to understand that a particular act or a circumstance seems pleasurable but is actually not beneficial and to make the firm decision to ensure changes fall under the first step in making changes. The perfect example is for an overweight person to realize that overeating leads to an increase in size, a disturbed self-image and certain health risks. The next step is to correlate the old destructive behavior to something painful while you correlate the new practice to something pleasurable. For example, eating an extra doughnut or finishing a bag of chips will cost you an extra 30-minute run on the treadmill while eating a balanced prescribed diet for a whole week earns you a cup of ice cream. Anthony emphasizes the benefit brought about by recognizing the old patterns when they appear and immediately doing something so that you don’t get sucked right in. All you have to do is recognize the temptation and interrupt it with an activity. When you are offered a golden, crispy, deep-fried chicken nugget by your friend, go do 30 jumping jacks or play a game you enjoy on your iPad. The distraction should help you suppress the urge to take a bite or even totally forget about it. Creating a plan to totally eliminate the old habit also works. To avoid unhealthy eating, plan your weekly menu with healthy, balanced, nutritious food. Do not fill your pantry with chips, chocolate and muffins any longer. Reinforce this pattern until you get used to it, until such a time as this seems to be the norm and the old habit or pattern no longer serves as a temptation. Regularly testing yourself is also needed to see whether or not you have fully grown accustomed to change. Realizing that you have not yet done so may cause you to seek out more ways to totally eradicate the bad habit. This mechanism, as taught by the brilliant mind of Anthony Robbins, is applicable not only in weight loss but in most undesirable circumstances in one’s life. This pattern may be used to get out of abusive relationships, to eliminate alcohol and drug abuse or to deal with your fears and phobias. Anthony Robbins himself has used this mechanism as he faced the trials thrown at him by life, and so did many of his celebrity clients. All you have to do is recognize the problem, make a firm decision to change, and believe that it is possible. As he has said, “Using the power of decision gives you the capacity to get past any excuses to change any and every part of your life in an instant.” With the determination and willingness to change that Anthony Robbins had, any person should be able to overcome their own evils, as he did, and live to enjoy the fruitful life such changes may bring. Abraham Lincoln Abraham Lincoln, the 16th President of the United States, encountered numerous obstacles on his way to his eventual presidency. His childhood wasn’t exactly a happy one and his education was less than what was expected of an American president, yet his days as the President remain as historic and significant as his life. Abraham Lincoln was born in 1809 in a small log cabin in Kentucky. His parents were Thomas and Nancy Lincoln. At the time of his birth, Abraham’s father owned extensive farm land and Abraham was able to attend basic education courses. When Abraham was seven, the family moved to Indiana, where the family had a much better life. The prevalence of the milk sickness in the area, however, was the beginning of Lincoln’s difficult life. His family was greatly affected by the illness as it took several family members to the grave, including his mother. The household chores were distributed between Abraham and Sarah, his sister. Some people said that Abraham seemed lazy at this time, refusing to participate in household chores but, later, he learned and contributed greatly to the work around the house and to the family’s earnings. Because of this circumstance, Abraham had to stay home to help rather than attend school. He had attended only a year’s worth of lessons and his yearning to learn was fresh and alive. He had no choice but to remain at home, though, so he started to study on his own. He was basically selftaught the rest of his life. Even his law degree was a result of intensive self-study. Abraham’s father remarried a widow with three children. Missing his relationship with his real mother, Abraham instantly bonded with his stepmother and would later even refer to her as “mother.” They moved several more times until Abraham was old enough to go about his own life. He opted to leave his family and travel to New Salem, Illinois. New Salem played a part in the development of his skills in speaking and persuasion. He worked at a store there and, thus, came into contact with different personalities every day. He was motivated to learn everything he could about the practice of law. He borrowed books from people he knew as he could not afford to buy his own, but he studied rigorously and later used this knowledge as an avenue to public office. Abraham Lincoln’s path to the Presidency was tedious. He served as a captain of a troop of the Illinois Militia during the Black Hawk War. Soon after this, he started to venture into public office. Although his first try as a candidate of the Illinois Legislature failed, he was re-elected thereafter and served four full terms in office. During this time, he perfected his law studies. Attempting to advance his own position failed, however, as he was unsuccessful in his bid for the Congress. He resorted to building a strong foundation for his law practice. He spent more or less fifteen years in the business representing everyone who needed a lawyer. The cases he handled ranged from transportation issues to monetary disputes and even murder charges. The challenges in Lincoln’s life were not exclusive to his political career alone. His romantic and family life proved to be a trying department, too. Abraham was engaged to be married to Ann Rutledge in 1835 when she died of Typhoid fever. He ended up marrying Mary Todd who was from a prominent family in Lexington, Kentucky. Their first scheduled wedding was broken off by the couple after having decided they actually didn’t want to get into the marriage, but two years later, they ended up marrying each other after all. Abraham Lincoln had four sons and he managed to outlive three of them. The first-born, Edward, died of tuberculosis at age 3, while the second child, William, died when he was only 11. The fourth son, Thomas, died when he was 18 due to heart failure. Only the third son, Robert Todd, lived to see adulthood and ultimately died at 82. The times proved difficult for the couple. Mary struggled emotionally and psychologically and was admitted to a mental institution later in her life. Abraham also suffered from depression, so severe that he spent six months confined at home. The reactivated issues on slavery in the United States had encouraged Lincoln to try to capture another position in public office. His popularity grew as he openly expressed his disagreement with the acquisition and trading of slaves in the country. The birth of the Republican Party further strengthened Lincoln’s chances in making it to the Senate. He envisioned a world wherein everyone was equal and in which the government favored no specific race. Lincoln’s aspirations captured the hearts of the people and, although he was not elected to become a senator, he was as popular as ever and his name was brought up whenever there was talk about the Presidency. As Lincoln assumed his duties as the 16th President of the United States, many opposed his liberal idea of abolishing slavery. His thoughts seemed so radical that seven states immediately ceded and decided to produce their own country, the Confederate States of America. His term was defined by the advent of the Civil War. At the peak of the war, a total of seven states united against his leadership and its ideals. The circumstances in Abraham Lincoln’s life led to great leadership during the Civil War. As he had always done, he studied military tactics and operations independently to better lead his army. Furthermore, he still insisted on the concept of equality among all men and, later during his term, he finalized the decree that all slaves be freed. With his skill in military operations and his knowledge in political manipulation, the United States won over the Confederate States. His successfully bringing an end to the Civil War earned Abraham Lincoln a second term as President. He addressed his fellow Americans and said that it was time to build up the nation, as one of freedom. He, however, did not live to see the day. Shortly after the end of the war, Lincoln was assassinated while watching a stage play with his wife. Despite the premature end of the political leader’s life, the results of his battles are evidently well lived today. America is now the land of the free where gender and race are no longer measures of social status. Most importantly, and as Abraham Lincoln wished, the United States built a government of the people, by the people, and for the people. Conclusion Thank you again for downloading this book! I hope this book was able to help you in your search for inspiration and motivation. If you are going through a rough patch in your life, may you be able to find a way out of it partly through what you have learned from the life stories of these successful individuals. The next step is to apply what you have learned to your own life. Who knows? Your example may someday be featured in a compilation of inspirational stories such as this one! Finally, if you enjoyed this book, please take the time to share your thoughts and post a review on Amazon. It would be greatly appreciated! Thank you and good luck!