How did you hear about us? * Searching youtube for dating advice What’s the #1 problem you’ve been having regarding relationships? * Can't find someone who is established, mature, has his own car, job, money, etc... Tired of the hookups and want something serious...don't know how to find them....very frustrated. How long have you been single? * 8 years How long was your longest COMMITTED relationship?...Note: For on and off situations, count the length of the "ON" portion. * Longer than 5 yrs Describe your ideal partner. * Attractive, well groomed, honest, loving, caring, faithful, intelligent, mature, romantic, affectionate, great communicator, willing to build something long-lasting with me, good sense of humor, likes adventure, cuddling, quite times at home, good cook, a person who will look at me as his priority, his center. What does commitment mean to you? * Everything. Ready for a committed long term relationship. Someone I can grow old with and make memories with. On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the strongest, how much do you desire to be in a committed relationship? * 10 How soon would you like to be in a committed relationship? * Within 6 months What methods have you used to find love? * Mainly dating apps.....complete failure. Don't go out too much, not into club scene or bars. So I am very frustrated as to where all the attractive, mature, self-sufficient, black gay men are. Need help in finding my ideal partner. What habits or beliefs do you have that you think prevent you from keeping love? * I can be skeptical, due to many past hurts, as to motives of a potential partner. I have a hard time trusting what someone says without the appropriate action to reinforce the words. Just don't want to be used and thrown away. Picture yourself a year from now in a happy relationship, what else would be different about your life? * I would be much more optimistic about my future, I would be soooo happy to have true love in my life with someone who respects and appreciates me. I would be looking forward to each day with my partner by my side. I would be AWESOME!! Which of the following dating issues have been challenges for you? (Select all that apply) * I know my preferences but I'm not totally sure what my relationship needs are I don't know how to tell if it's a match / I can't find people who meet my needs I find it hard to trust people I don't know how to get over my ex(es) I attract people who are inconsistent and/or emotionally unavailable I attract people who live too far away/long distance I attract people who take advantage of me I struggle to manage my emotions / I get anxious / nervous I often move too fast / too slow I don't know how to communicate my expectations and boundaries effectively I don't know how to handle conflict effectively I don't believe I'm good enough / attractive enough I don't know how to improve my dating confidence My health status (mental/physical/sexual) makes dating hard I don't know how to date effectively I don't know how to reach commitment with a dating partner I don't know how to keep the flame alive in a relationship Why is NOW the time for you to invest in your relationship skills and commit to working through any challenges that prevent you from having the love you desire? * Because I am not getting any younger and I don't want to wake up one day in my 70's and be by myself. I really want to settle down NOW with that special someone who I can grow with and begin to build a wonderful future with while I have time before I age out of the dating scene and find myself no longer able to attract the ideal man that I so desperately want and need. Why do you want to work with a relationship coach to help you prepare for the love you desire? * To help me overcome any obstacles that I may have that is hindering me from meeting my ideal partner. So that I can avoid all of the wasted time and drama that I am currently experiencing trying to find my ideal partner. Just want a clean slate and find the skills that will help me attract and find my Mr. Right! not Mr. Right Now!! Amari is only able to accept 4 clients each month. Why should you be one of those 4 people? * Because I completely believe Amari has the experience and expertise to really help me find my love and I am sooo ready to experience love. I am someone who is able to learn from others skills and experiences like Amari and am willing to apply them readily so that I can get on with my life and not remain in the rut that I am just spinning my wheels.
