Name: Aullya Mayandzru Class: 6BD Nim: 061930901809 UTS Cross Culture Topic 1 (Introduction) Cross cultural understanding simply refers to the basic ability of people to recognize, interpret and correctly react to people, incidences or situations that are open to misunderstanding due to cultural differences. Culture is more than just manners. It is also the way we speak. In some cultures, people may speak in a way that North Americans think is too loud. They may also be very emotional in the way they speak, or they may stand very close together to talk. It is perfectly normal for the people of that culture, but we might think they are yelling at us or crowding us. They, on the other hand, may think we are not very interested in talking to them. Unfortunately, people often think their own way is the right way. Thinking that someone else is wrong or disrespectful because they do not follow our customs and beliefs leads to cross-cultural misunderstanding. Cross-cultural understanding is more than realizing another culture is different from ours. The way to cross-cultural understanding is to learn to recognize individual differences and gain an appreciation, respect and knowledge of other cultures that are different from our own. If you put on a pair of sunglasses with pink lenses, everything will take on a rosecoloured tint. If the lenses are green, then the world will take on a green tint. Our culture acts as a lens through which we look at the world. We have a “tinted” view of the world so it looks more like what we already know. This acts as a filter, straining out the other’s point of view and enhancing our own. Cultural filters can get in the way of understanding people from other cultures because they appear different. We cannot get rid of our cultural filters but we can be openminded about cultural differences. We can set aside our biases. This is more than just realizing that another culture is different from ours. Cross-cultural understanding means learning to value other cultures and respect their views. This comes when people move from thinking that “different” means “wrong,” to thinking that there might be another way, to being tolerant and accepting. Source: https://tc2.ca/uploads/backgroundbriefs/BBCrossCulturalUnderstanding.pdf http://tugasanakkampus000.blogspot.com/2016/12/cross-cultural-understanding.html https://isi-dps.ac.id/artikel/cross-cultural-understanding-in-languagelearning/#:~:text=language%20is%20from.,Cross%20cultural%20understanding%20simply%20refers%20to%20the%20basic%20ability %20of,misunderstanding%20due%20to%20cultural%20differences. Topic 2 (Verbal Pattern) Verbal communication is communication that uses words, both spoken and written. Some important elements in verbal communication, namely language and words. According to Bennett (2015), Americans are very direct communicators. They tend to convey their entire message verbally, paying little attention to body language. People are expected to ‘get to the point’. This doesn’t mean that politeness is ignored in communication, but sometimes Americans become deprived of some nuances of communication (such as disparaging) in conversation or certain types of humour (for example, subtle sarcasm or ironic remarks). Verbal communication involves preferred language and dialects, contextual use of the language, preferred greetings, voice volume and tone, health literacy, and the need for interpretation and translation. Source: https://www.atlantis-press.com/article/125963431.pdf https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-319-69332-3_14 Topic 3 (Nonverbal Communication) Nonverbal communication is communication in which the message is packaged in nonverbal form, without words, more of an expression (Kusumawati, 2016). Mulyana (2006) also stated that every country and nation will have different communication patterns, both verbal and non-verbal. This happens because of cultural differences between each other. Besides Communication and Language, aspects of cultural differences that enter into nonverbal communication according to Mulyana (2016) include Clothing and Appearance, Food and Eating Habits, Time and Time Awareness and Values and Norms. According to Lewis (2016), there are several nonverbal patterns that stick to American culture. Source: https://www.atlantis-press.com/article/125963431.pdf https://repository.uhn.ac.id/bitstream/handle/123456789/5566/ISI%20BUKU%20%20CCU.pdf?sequence=1&isAllowed=y Topic 4 (Personal Relationship) Personal relationship means an ongoing romantic or intimate personal relationship that can include, but is not limited to, dating, living together or being a partner or significant other. This definition applies regardless of gender, gender identification, or sexual orientation of the individuals in the relationship. 1. circles of friends The people in your social circle are the friends with whom you socialize – you know, hang out and do fun things. ... They may include your family members, friends and professional colleagues – those who you trust most. Now, talking in circles does not mean you are talking with people in your circles 2. mobility and friendship Kinship relationships thus are in fact an important source of support for the mobile. Nevertheless, this is not to say that social mobility has no influence on kinship relationships at all. Their data showed that as upward mobility is usually accompanied by geographic mobility, the mobile tend to have less interaction with kin due to physical separation. In addition, as a consequence of choice as well as constraint, they have “the least contact with kin in their leisure activities,” whether their kin live nearby or far away 3. instant friendships instant friendship” is also likely to reflect a physiological predilection for certain people. There are even more extreme examples of biology directing our bonding behaviors: In a crisis or other stressful situation, for example, friendships and social bonds are especially quick to form, whether because we've opened up to other passengers in a stalled elevator or surveyed the damage of a devastating storm together. People instinctively let down their guard and seek out support when facing unexpected and life-threatening challenges. 4. In friendship, we love to spend time with one another and share everything we can. ... We develop intriguing feelings amongst ourselves which we love to cherish and do not let it go down. A friend finds an aide and confidant in a person whom he calls his best buddy. 5. Intercultural communication offers the ability to deal across cultures, which is increasingly important, as the world gets smaller. ... Being able to deal with this cultural difference peacefully, never mind creatively and innovatively, is becoming a survival issue to thrive in a global world as a global leader. Source: https://www.lawinsider.com/dictionary/personal-relationship Topic 5 (Family Values) Family values are thing that are many times passed down from generation to generation, and they play a monumental role in how your child learns and grows. Defining this time will help you to understand what is important and what it means when you are talking about issues such as family time, play time, and other larger issues such as spiritually and the beliefs that you wish your child to grow up with. The dictionary defines a value as "a principle, standard or quality considered worth while or desirable." The definition of family is "two or more people who share goals and values, have long-term commitments to one another and usually reside in the same dwelling. "The difference in family structures can result in a difference in family values. For example, a cohabitant couple with no children may have a different value structure than a husband and wife with three children. Values change as the structure of a family changes, and ideals also change with the times and with geography; a family that moves to another state often sees some shift in their ideals. In family values are rules or ideals that, as a family, we agree to live by and stay true to. The list of essential family values would be a mile long no doubt and the top 10 lists for each family would be as unique as the one that came up with it. Having strong well defined family values helps solidify the foundation for a strong, tightknit family. When cultivated long enough this closeness provides a soft place to fall when life doesn’t go according to plan. Strong and consistent family values are important in building trust and confidence in each family member. Source: https://www.academia.edu/5252702/Cross_Culture_Understanding_FAMILY_VALUES Topic 6 (Educational Attitudes) Education attitude (affective) is closely related to one's own values. The attitude is a reflection of a shared value. Therefore, educational attitude is basically educational value. Value is a concept that is in the human mind that is hidden, is not in the empirical world. Values associated with one's view of good and bad, beautiful and not beautiful, worthy and unworthy, unfair and unjust, and so forth. One's views about all it does is intangible, we just might be able to tell from the behavior in question. Therefore the value is essentially the standards of conduct, measure or criterion that determines a person of good and bad, beautiful and not beautiful, worthy and unworthy, and so forth, so that the standards which will color the person's behavior. Thus, the value of education is basically the process of planting a value to the learner is expected therefore that students can behave in accordance with the views he thinks is right and does not conflict with the norms in force. a. b. c. d. Gulo (2005) concluded on the following values: Values can not be taught but it is known from her appearance. Affective domain development in value can not be separated from the cognitive and psychomotor aspects. Problem the value is emotional problems and therefore subject to change, evolve, so it could be developed. The development of values or moral did not happen at once, but through certain stages. Source: https://handiqa97.blogspot.com/2016/10/education-ettitude-cross-cultural.html?m=1 Topic 7 (Work Values) Work values, in particular, are an important part of cross-cultural understanding in that they are themselves measures of cultural dimensions, and also have strong implications for many areas of management, from employee motivation to organizational communication. Work values can be defined as those qualities that people desire from their work (Ben-Shem & Avi-Itzhak, 1991) which reflect a correspondence between a need and satisfaction (Abboushi, 1990). Super (1973) defines work values as goals that one seeks to attain to satisfy a need. Dose (1997) defines work values as “evaluative standards relating to work or the work environment by which individuals discuss what is ‘right’ or assess the importance of preferences” (p. 228). She further divides work values between two dimensions: (1) those that have a moral element and (2) the degree of consensus regarding the importance and desirability of particular values. The study of work values was first undertaken in order to explain differences in employee performance and motivation (Hoppe, 1990). Much early research into work values was incorporated into early needs theories of motivation such as Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and Herzberg’s distinction between intrinsic and extrinsic needs (Hofstede, 1980; Hoppe, 1990). These theories hold as their basic premise the idea that individuals are motivated to resolve unmet needs (Levy, 2003). Early cross-cultural studies of work values tended to focus on replicating the needs theories of Maslow, Herzberg, and McClelland in countries outside of the United States (Hofstede, 1980; Hoppe, 1990). The limitations of applying these American theories in other cultures soon became clear (Hofstede, 1980; Hoppe, 1990; Ronen & Shenkar, 1985). Hofstede (1980) clearly showed that variances in work values influenced the applicability of American motivational, leadership, and organizational theories elsewhere. Additionally, in reviewing existing literature, Ronen & Shenkar (1985) found that needs, values, and work goals varied significantly and consistently between cultures, despite the use of different instruments, methods, and samples. Thus, it became clear that a local culture’s specific needs, values, and work goals should be taken into account before applying any particular management theory (Hoppe, 1990). In the last few decades, several new models for testing differences in work values have emerged. Although the subject of some criticism, Hostede’s model of intercultural research has become the most commonly used and replicated. 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