3/7/2019 LIVE TO FLOURISH: THE SCIENCE AND PRACTICE OF POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY Ms Debbie Pong / Ms Anita Lee UGED 1553B/C 2019 INTENTIONAL BEHAVIORS Elements in Daily Life Under your personal control Essential for keeping up positive emotions • Character Strength • Daily Practice (Body Wellness) • Behavioral Practice • Cognitive Practice 1 3/7/2019 OPTIMISM Expectancies are pivotal in the theories of optimism Expectancy-value model of motivation Behavior is organized around the pursuit of goals (Value) The greater the confidence, the more they will move into action and continue their efforts. (Expectancy) Focusing on expectation for the future Optimistic person adapt more effective coping as they are have more confidence about the future and thus more willing to try, even when it is hard. C.R. Snyder, Shane J. Lopez (2005) Handbook of positive psychology, Oxford ; New York : Oxford University Press 2 3/7/2019 LEARNED OPTIMISM Becoming an optimist consists not of learning to be more selfish and self- assertive, and to present yourself to others in overbearing ways, but simply of learning a set of skills about how to talk to yourself when you suffer a personal defeat. The Goal is flexible optimism , which aims at increasing one’s control over the way they think about adversity. The fundamental guideline for not deploying optimism is to ask what the cost of failure is in a particular situation (e.g. substance abuse and risky sex ) FUNCTION OF EMOTIONS 3 3/7/2019 THE FOUR BASIC EMOTIONS 驚(Fear) 怒 (Mad) 樂(Glad) 哀(Sad) FUNCTION OF DIFFERENT EMOTIONS Feeling Thinking Fear (驚) Danger! Mad (怒) Being Trespassed! Sad (哀) Hopeless! Glad (樂) Hopeful! Behavior Fight/Flight Avoid Danger Survival Fight Withdraw Broaden and Build IncreaseApproach resources 4 3/7/2019 STEP ONE OF COGNITIVE PRACTICE: UNDERSTANDING YOUR OWN EMOTIONS 5 3/7/2019 THE CYCLE OF EMOTION Trigger Physiological Reaction Emotion Behaviors INTERPLAY AMONG FEELING, THINKING AND BEHAVIOR Trigger Thought Physiological Reaction Emotion Behaviors 6 3/7/2019 Exercise A You have a quarrel with your good friend B C You think You feel(do) “I did nothing right!” “He/she is in a bad mood!” “I can often resolve our conflict!” Trigger My supervisor send me an email asking me to revise the thesis proposal. Thoughts I am useless! I can’t do it right! I have no chance to further my graduate studies Physiological Reaction Not sleeping well, lack of appetite, poor concentration THE DEPRESSIVE CYCLE Emotion Sad Behavior Withdrawal 7 3/7/2019 Trigger My supervisor send me an email asking me to revise the thesis proposal. Thoughts • Oh my god!I don’t know how to do the revision! • My supervisor will find me troublesome if I seek further advice from him! • I would definitely fail the course! Physiological Reaction Muscle tension, accelerated heartbeat, sweating, increased blood pressure THE ANXIETY CYCLE Trigger My supervisor send me an email asking me to revise the thesis proposal. Behavior Restlessness, avoidance Thoughts • Why it happened to me! What an unjust world! • He is picking on me! • He should have guide me at the very first beginning! Physiological Reaction Muscle tension, accelerated heartbeat, sweating, increased blood pressure THE ANGER CYCLE Emotion Nervous, worried, embarrassed Emotion Angry, Irritated, agitated Behavior Aggressive behaviors, e.g. temper tantrum, scolding or attacking 8 3/7/2019 Exercise A B C You think You feel(do) Your team failed in the interuniversity competition! You feel unhappy You feel anxious and worried You feel angry and blame your team members You are not particularly upset and get the motivation to work hard on the next round FUNCTION OF DIFFERENT EMOTIONS Feeling Thinking Fear (驚) Danger! Mad (怒) Being Trespassed! Behavior Fight/Flight Fight Sad (哀) Hopeless! Withdraw Glad (樂) Hopeful! Approach 9 3/7/2019 UNDERSTANDING YOUR OWN THOUGHTS EMOTION RECORD Antecedent Belief 結果Consequences 「Something happened。」 有些事情發生了 「My interpretation of the incident」 我對事情的理解 情緒 行為 Emotion Behaviour 「I felt and did…」 我的反應(情緒和行為) A teammate put off a task that I instructed him! He looked down on me, I am nobody in the team! Unhappy and a bit angry 我叫個莊員做野,佢遲遲都唔做! 佢睇唔起我! 我總係被人當透明! 唔開心,又有啲嬲 事件 想法 Losing temper 發脾氣 10 3/7/2019 EMOTION RECORD Antecedent Belief 結果Consequences 「Something happened。」 有些事情發生了 「My interpretation of the incident」 我對事情的理解 情緒 行為 Emotion Behaviour 「I felt and did…」 我的反應(情緒和行為) I got rejected for an internship. I am useless! 我的暑期實習申請落選了 我真係無用 事件 想法 There’s no chance for me to get the internship. 我都係無機會申請到咖喇! Sad and disappointed Decreased motivation 失望沮喪 無心機 My classmate will tease me for the failure. 實俾人笑到面黃喇! Don’t want to file another application 唔想再申請暑期實習! UNDERSTANDING OUR REACTIONS WITH THE BRAIN IN MIND 11 3/7/2019 DUAL‐PROCESS OF EMOTION REGULATION IN HUMAN BRAIN (LEDOUX,1996) 丘腦 杏仁核 下丘腦 內分泌系統 (長期抗爭) 自主神經系統 (緊急應變) 1. Sensory stimulation lead to immediate subcortical activation of emotions (fear or anger) and actions (automatic or impulsive responses) 2. Sensory stimulation triggers cortical modulation of emotions, thus affecting actions 3. Cortical activation (e.g, anxiety‐provoking thoughts) lead to both subcortical activation and cortical modulation, determining our actions 12