Documents to bring to the ministry of interior To arrange the legal status of a non-Israeli partner 1. Identity card of the Israeli citizen, plus photocopy. 2. Original passport of the non-Israeli partner, valid for5 years, plus photocopy of the passport. If currently not in Israel – only a photocopy. 3. Three passport photos of both partners. Documents the non-Israeli must bring from his/hers country: 4. Birth certificate. 5. Certificate of Singleness (single, divorced, widowed). If partners are married – certificate of family status prior to current marriage. 6. Police Clearance – certificate demonstrating no police record, including all previous names (a document certifying that the person has no police record from the past and no criminal proceeding are presently in operation against him/her in his/her country of origin). 7. Marriage certificate (if the couple is married). 8. In order to allow future invitation of children from previous relationships, there is needed a legal document from the country of origin, such as a court decision giving an exclusive guardianship of the children, or an notarized affidavit from the father/mother saying that he/she allows the children to stay permanently with the other parent etc. ** All documents must be original and certified with an Apostil stamp (if this stamp is not used in the country of origin, they must be certified by the Ministry of Justice, the Ministry of Foreign Affairs or the Israeli Embassy in the country of origin (or in a near country, if there is no Israeli Embassy in the country of origin).They must be translated into Hebrew and notarized (preferably in Israel), Documents for both partners – proving sincerity of relationship: 9. Pre-nuptual Agreement / Couple Agreement / any other legal document, which demonstrates that the partners are a couple (if partners are not married). 10. 5-6 photos in which both partners appear together + from the wedding. 11. Letters from each partner, declaring their sincere intentions to live together, with details about how and when they met, how their relationship grew and regarding their marriage, done or planned (Where, When, How ?). 12. Letters from family members and friends, describing the couple and the sincerity of their relationship. 13. Any other document that can support the existence of the relationship – letters send to each other, print-out showing each other’s telephone numbers called, e-mails, money, transfers, shared rental agreement, etc. 14. Certificates and salary slips from the Israeli partner’s workplace and if applicable the foreign partner as well. 15. Bills from the apartment, in the name of the Israeli partner or apartment owner – electricity, water, telephone, television fee, taxes, etc. * These are documents that should be submitted to the Ministry of Interior, although the Ministry may demand additional documents. Preparation for the hearing: In order to prepare for a hearing at the Ministry of Interior before you a few recommendations that you should memorize before your meeting, you may even want to write things down and sketch them in the tables. 1. The hearing procedure must be taken seriously – the fact that you are an honest couple who runs a household does not guarantee a safe passage of the hearing. 2. It is important to prepare for the hearing in the best possible way, as it is the central and crucial tool for examining the nature of your relationship. 3. Contradictions, discrepancies between your answers, may raise concerns that you are having a fictitious relationship. Two contradictions or inconsistencies in your answers are enough to undermine your status as a spouse, to the clerk. 4. Understanding the nature of the hearing – The purpose of the hearing is to verify the nature of the relationship between the couple and the existence of a joint household between the two. Therefore, in order to prepare in the best possible way, it is important to remember. Key events and dates in the couple’s life, for example The first date The marriage proposal Shared trips Meetings with the family and so on It’s also important to know important details about your spouse For example: Details of family members (their names and age) Birthday Hobbies Friends (details, who and how you know them) Favorite foods Work place Wages The agenda for a regular week The order of your shares household. It is important to know the precise details about your common place of residence Number of rooms What furniture you have in the house Electrical devices The paint/color of the walls Photos Pets It is important for the couple to be able to provide matching information about the various home payments and living expenses Who pays the rent? How much is the rent? Water bills? Electrical power? Property tax? Gas? Internet? Cellular? Household payments? 5. Think before you answer – Throughout the hearing, remember to answer the questions carefully. Listen to the question to the end. If you do not understand the question, please ask for clarification or other wording, but under NO circumstances ‘overlap’ and provide partial answers. Conduct that is interpreted by the clerk as contempt at best, at worst – failure to provide accurate and substantive information, which may lead to the invalidation of the procedure. Be sure to answer the matter and what is asked, do not over- elaborate and unnecessarily. Sometimes the answer is too detailed to a question, the clerk’s expectation for the same answer will be raised by the spouse and sometimes it may overburden non – essential content to examine the nature of the relationship. For example, If you have been asked about a joint pastime with friends, make sure you specify the date, location, member’s name and their proximity, and avoid giving out minor details. 6. Pay attention to the clerk – It is very important to treat the clerk politely and courteously. Keep in mind that the clerk conducting the hearing is the main factor that impresses the couple directly and indirectly, so it is worthwhile to maintain a relaxed, pleasant and calm atmosphere, leaving a good first impression on the clerk who conducted the hearing. It is not advisable to be drawn into conflicts with the clerk, if he/she ultimately has much power to influence a decision in your case. 7. Intimate questions – Because the hearing instrument is designed to examine the nature of your relationship, you may be asked during the relationship to answer questions about the relationship that will show you have some intimacy or privacy. If there is a question not to your liking, you can say pleasantly to the official you prefer not to answer. Keep in mind that the more in-depth questions you have about your relationship, the easier you can prove the honesty of your relationship, so try to answer all the questions and only in those special cases where you feel the boundary has been crossed, ask pleasantly to move on to the next question. 8. Guessing of an answer is forbidden under no circumstances – The stressful status of a hearing sometimes causes confusion and even forgetfulness, in such situations, it is very important not to guess. But to say ‘I don’t remember’ and ask to return to this question later. Guessing will, in most cases, lead to a mismatch with the partners answer, he knew to answer correctly and it is a shame. If you are not sure of your answer use the words ‘I think’ …. ‘I am not sure, but I think that’… ‘If I am not mistaken, then…’It was about an hour’…’It happened around the time’….’I didn’t remember exactly, but think it was between the next dates/hours’… 9. Answering questions concerning hours and dates – For questions of this kind, we recommend avoiding the provision of clear and conclusive information. Your memory may have betrayed you and it’s a shame, it is best to give an answer that leaves the other partner open and the opportunity to answer the question without being considered a contradiction or discrepancy. It is important to emphasize that this rule does NOT apply to important dates such as anniversary, birthday and so on. 10. Avoid using emphatic words – Try to avoid using emphatic words like ‘never’, ‘always’, and so on. The use of emphatic words, naturally, indicates a great deal of determination and confidence in giving the answer and this may work to your detriment in the situation where your memory ‘betrayed’ you. For example: If you are asked which shop you use for shopping? Suppose you and your partner are most of the time at the shop next to your house, but once in a while you go shopping at another supermarket next to your house. In this situation, one partner can answer ‘we always shop at …’ while the other partner can accurately describe all possible places you shop, even if the visit is rarely made. In this case, the use of the word ‘always’ can lead to discrepancy, even if it was only one case throughout the year, 11. Expressing common emotions and intentions – As stated above, the hearing process is conducted in the manner of asking questions by the clerk (in his sole discretion) and answering them by the couple. Apparently, the couple does not seem to have a real ability to influence the content of the matter, as they cannot ask the questions instead of the clerk conducting the hearing. Nevertheless, partners are advised to submit their own substantive content to the answers, even if it is not explicitly asked. That is, not to settle for answering the question, but to express feelings, intentions and feelings that will deepen the relationship. It is important to remember that it is customary, and the end of the hearing to ask the couple whether they have anything to add beyond the questions they were asked. Unfortunately, most couples choose not to add anything and afterwards they are sorry about that. It is strongly recommended that you take this opportunity to express your sincere love for each other and your strong desire for the state to allow the two of you to be a couple. In addition, it is possible to express or declare common intentions of the couple in the sphere of marriage, such as a marriage proposal to well-known public spouses, family, expansion, joint trip planning and so on. 12. Reading the hearing protocol at the end of the hearing – At the end of the hearing, you will be required to sign the protocol of the hearing held by the clerk. It is advisable to read the protocol carefully before signing, to check that the written words fully reflect the answers you have provided and for unclear or inconsistent statements – you will request that they be corrected accordingly. Please note that by signing the protocol you are expressing your consent to the content of the answers provided by you to the official who conducted the hearing. After you sign, you will NOT be able to dispute the content of what you have submitted, on the grounds that you have provided a different answer and the protocol will serve as evidence of the content written therein. 13. MOST importantly – Request a copy of the hearing protocol once it is finished, you deserve to receive a copy of it!! Preparation questions for the hearing Below is a list of preparation questions for your upcoming hearing at the Ministry of Interior. Please read carefully each question and write down the answers on the table below, then make sure to memorize the answers and study them orally. Preparing this is the key to your success!!!! SUBJECT Names QUESTION Names of each of us The names of parents of each of us The names of each of our children The names of the friends of each of us The names of the employers of each of us If we had or have/had a divorced spouse from us/are still married or ANSWER COMMENTS has passed away what is your former spouse’s name Places Birth place of each of us (city/state) Mutual address Children’s address Sibling’s address Parents address Where do your best friends live Places we traveled together Important dates When did we meet Date of birth for each of us Our kids date of birth Our parents date of birth If there is a birthday celebration you mentioned you will need to know the specific date Date of marriage proposal Date of issue f domestic union cards (New Family) When did we last travel together Since when have each of us been in the country Hangouts Where do we like to hang out, detailing the type of it, (restaurant, café, friends and names) Who do we like to spend time with – mention names of friends/family Frequency of entertainment (how many times a week/month go out) Hobbies of each of us (read, watch TV, friends) What kind of hanging out they really dislike Home Description On what floor do you live Is there an elevator in the building Number of rooms in the apartment The color of the walls Are there pictures hanging on the wall? (What photos do you like) Is there a safe zone room (Mamad) How many bathrooms are there in the house Who are your neighbors? (If there are any and especially neighbors who you talk to) Do you have a balcony/roof/garden Do you have a washing machine? Dryer? Dishwasher What furniture is there? (colored sofa/special cabinets) Where do we eat together, is there a sitting area in the kitchen? Is there a dining area Do you host at home? Where do you sit with the guests Household Description Do you live in a rental apartment or is it an apartment owned by you Do we have a landline phone (Bezeq / Hot ) at home What is your home phone number If you rent your apartment, who is your home owner How much do you pay for rent? Who pays it What is your monthly electricity bill How do you heat your home? Gas? Airconditioner Which one of you does the grocery shopping Where do you do your grocery shopping? Mall? Supermarket? How much do you usually spend on grocery shopping What groceries do you buy most Do you own a pet Do you have a garden at home? Who takes care of it What is the name f your pet Who takes care of the pet Personal Details What is the phone number of each of you What kind of mobile phone does each of you have (IPhone/Samsung/Other) What hobbies do each of you have What languages do you each speak What language do we speak among us What is the favorite dish for each of us Who cooks at home What style of clothing each of has? (Drop, Elegant, Sporty, Custom made) What is the latest gift you gave one another On which side of the bed does each of you sleep on Do any of your or your partners children live with you If so, where di the children sleep Where do the children sleep if they come for a visit Are ether of you still married to another spouse Why doesn’t he/she divorce him/her What is the color of each child’s hair What is your partners eye color Does your partner have a distinctive mark on his body (birthmark/tattoo) that only you know Does your partner wear glasses Work Do you work? What kind of work? * If one of you works in an illegal job/ does not receive a pay slip then avoid giving details) How much does each of you earn What way do you receive your salary? (check, bank transfer) What are the names of your employers It is important to remember that it is customary at the end of te hearing to ask the couple whether they have anything to add beyond what they already said. Try to add one or two things you haven’t been asked, on order to reinforce the request. At the end of the hearing, you will need to sign the protocol, ask to go through it and read your answers carefully and if needed, demand to correct it. Sign the protocol only after you have read it.4 GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!