Text © 2013 by Kia Scherr All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized, in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, without prior permission in writing from the publisher. Published in 2013 by One Life Alliance PO Box 134 Nellysford, VA 22958 ISBN-13: 978-1461157038 ISBN-10: 146115703 Cover and Book Design by Michael Donegan Pocketbook of Peace A 30 Day Companion Kia Scherr Introduction The peaceful life I was living ended on November 26, 2008 when my husband, Alan and 13 year old daughter, Naomi, were shot and killed by terrorists at the Oberoi Hotel in Mumbai, India along with 158 other people. is now known in India as 26/11. When peace is to restore balance. Love was brutally lacking in the terrorist attack and so for me, the way to restore balance is to deepen my commitment to love unconditionally. What does that mean in everyday life? That is what this little book is about – to put 30 positive behaviors into practice that will lay a pathway to peace and open the doors of the heart by increasing trust through living with integrity, day by day, step by step, we can each make a difference. How can a person be capable of the coldblooded killing of innocent people? There may deep down, there must be a huge disconnect to self and the rest of humanity. When we feel connected to other human beings, we would way to work things out because we are all a connected whole. It has been said that there are no half-hearted terrorists and so we must be wholehearted in bringing more focus to respecting the dignity of life in ourselves and in everyone we meet. When we take a pledge, we set the stage for that intention to come to life. By taking a pledge to bring peace into the world, and then putting it into practice every day in 30 different ways, we become the peace we wish to experience and naturally bring this peace into every interaction. I invite you to join me in this grand opportunity to raise your personal peace quotient and likewise the peace quotient in your daily life. In this process, may you deepen your connection to the core of life within yourself and connect more fully with others as you experience greater peace, compassion and love in your everyday life. Kia Scherr July, 2013 How to use this book focus for 30 consecutive days by which positive behaviors are interwoven into everyday encounters. Each day has a quote to inspire and guide your focus. Once you are clear on the focus, “statements of intention” are provided to clarify and ground your experience. You can read these statements aloud or quietly to yourself or write them out to post by your computer or put on your refrigerator. The next section provides questions for Each day’s focus is a building block that leads to living with peace, compassion and love in simple harmonious ways that integrate into your daily life with ease. You can also sift through the pages and randomly pick a focus to assist you with a particular challenge you are currently having in your life. Every time you repeat these practices you will enrich your experience in ways that will surprise you with greater insight and revelation. Today and every day, I will bring peace to this world by respecting the dignity of life in myself and in everyone I meet. Day 1 ~ Slow Down “Slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you.” ~John De Paola ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am willing to relax and let go. I am enjoying a slower pace in my thoughts, words and actions. Everything is unfolding perfectly in its own time. As I slow down, I am respecting the dignity of life in myself and in everyone I meet. As I slow down, I notice the interconnectedness of life. I am so grateful for the experience of slowing down that is happening in this moment. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Increase respect by slowing down. How can we respect the dignity of anything unless we slow down and pay attention? Slowing down and taking the time to pay attention is respecting the life we all share. With respect comes the possibility of peace. Reminders – How many times can you slow down today? What are all the ways you can remind yourself? Challenges – What are your challenges in regard to slowing down? Insights – What did you learn about yourself by slowing down? Day 2 ~ Smile “Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day.” ~Quoted in P.S. I Love You, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr. ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am smiling just to smile and to smile at everyone I meet. I am smiling with understanding, love and compassion. I am smiling with appreciation and gratitude. I am open to the smiles of everyone in my world today. I enjoy smiling for no reason. Smiling opens my heart to the experience of joy in each moment. Smile... smile... smile. I am respecting the dignity of life in myself and others with each smile. I am so grateful for the smile I am experiencing in this moment. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others today by smiling more often, especially for no reason. Smile with compassion, with understanding, with appreciation, gratitude and love. In this way, you will contribute peace. Reminders – What are all the ways to remind yourself to smile? Challenges – What were your challenges in regard to smiling more often? Insights – What did you learn about yourself by smiling more often? Day 3 ~ Breathe Deeply “Sometimes the most important thing in a whole day is the rest we take between two deep breaths.” ~Etty Hillesum ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am breathing deeply, taking a long deep breath every hour of the day and letting go of all discord. This very breath is life. I am so grateful and respectful of the breath that sustains my life. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. of every human being. By breathing deeply, we deepen appreciation for the breath of life in ourselves and others. Breathing deeply increases the power of peace within. Reminders – What are all the ways you can remind yourself to breathe deeply today? Challenges – What were your challenges in regard to breathing deeply? Insights – What did you learn about yourself by breathing more deeply? Day 4 ~ Acceptance “Accept your humanness as well as your divinity, totally and without reserve.” ~Bernard Avishai ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am focused on being more accepting. I accept myself as I am. I accept everyone I meet as they are. I accept myself as a worthy human being. I accept my humanity with all its imperfections. I respect the dignity of life by accepting what is, both in myself and in everyone I meet. I am so grateful for accepting the experience of life that is happening in this moment. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life by accepting yourself as you are and accepting all others as they are. In this way remain connected to yourself as a worthy human being. Accepting others as they are opens the door to harmony and peace, rather than and requirements. Accepting life as it shows up in each moment brings the power of peace. Reminders – How will you remind yourself to be accepting of life as it shows up in your world? Challenges – What did you not want to accept and why? Insights – Did being more accepting change anything in your experience today? Share an example. Day 5 ~ Listening “So when you are listening to somebody, completely, attentively, then you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it.” ~Jiddu Krishnamurti ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am focused on listening more deeply in every encounter. I am listening to the quiet pulsation of life within myself. I am willing to listen with respect to everyone I meet. I honor the dignity of life by listening fully and completely with acceptance and gratitude. I am grateful for the experience of listening that is happening in this moment. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by listening - beginning with yourself. Continue to slow down, breathe deeply as you listen to your body, mind, emotions and spirit. If you can take the time to listen to yourself, you can listen to others more fully. One of the greatest gifts you can give to another is to listen fully and completely. Peace will then be possible in any moment. Reminders – How will you honor your commitment to listen? Challenges – When did you Insights – Did listening bring any new understanding today? Give an example. Day 6 ~ Speaking the truth “Truth is such a rare thing, it is delightful to tell it.” ~Emily Dickinson ~Statements of Intention~ Today I will bring focus to speaking the truth in every conversation. Truth is integrity. I use my words to express the truth of who I am and what life is. As I am truthful I am respecting myself. As I speak the truth I respect those in my world. I speak the truth with love and compassion. I am so grateful for the experience of speaking the truth. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by speaking the truth. This is living with integrity, appropriate. We are most truthful when we speak from the heart. When we speak from the heart we bring the power of peace to our world. Reminders – How will you remind yourself to speak the truth? Challenges – Were you able to speak truthfully with respect and consideration of others? Insights – Were you able to speak from the depths of your heart and what was the response? Day 7 ~ Understanding “Understanding can overcome any situation, however mysterious or insurmountable it may appear to be.” ~Norman Vincent Peale ~Statements of Intention~ Today I will increase my experience of understanding. I am willing to understand more often in all situations. As I become more understanding, I increase respect for myself and others. As I become more understanding, I increase forgiveness, compassion and peace. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life by being more understanding of yourself and those in your world. Understanding leads to acceptance and peace. Understanding softens the heart and opens the understand. What we understand, we can respect. Reminders – Approach each encounter today with a willingness to understand. Ask more questions and listen fully to each response. What are some other ways you can increase your understanding? Challenges – Were you willing to respect a person’s dignity as a human being even when you did not understand their actions or beliefs? Insights – Did you increase your understanding of yourself and others? How and what was the result? Day 8 ~ Forgiveness “Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.” ~ Mark Twain ~Statements of Intention~ Today I will focus on being more forgiving of myself and others. In this way, I will give forth of myself with more love and compassion with no conditions. I am willing to forgive all that I have experienced as hurtful. I am willing to let go of the past so that I can create a fresh start. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Can you consider opening to the possibility of bringing peace to yourself and others by being forgiving? As you forgive, you open the doors to healing and peace. Forgiveness allows the heart remain contracted. We can choose to be loving and, therefore, contribute love to our world. Forgiveness liberates us from holding on to the past and allows us to respect the human being underneath the hurtful behavior. Reminders – Whom do you most need to forgive? Can you include yourself ? Is there anyone to whom you need to apologize and ask forgiveness? Challenges – Who or what is most challenging to forgive? Can you do it anyway? Insights – How did you feel at the end of this day of forgiving yourself and others? Day 9 ~ Patience “The keys to patience are acceptance and faith. Accept things as they are, and look realistically at the world around you. Have faith in yourself and in the direction you have chosen.” ~Ralph Marston ~Statements of Intention~ Today I will focus on becoming more patient. I respect the dignity of life in myself and others by being patient. I am willing to accept things as they are with patience and understanding. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life by being patient with yourself and others. When we are impatient, we are not at peace. We are grateful when others are patient with us, so take a deep breath and be patient as much as you can. Being patient is being peace. Reminders – How will you remind yourself to be patient today? Challenges – When were you the most impatient? Insights – How did you do? Any breakthroughs? Give some examples of patience you experienced or observed. Day 10 ~ Simplify “Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” ~Confucius ~Statements of Intention~ Today I will simplify my life in every way possible. I create balance as I simplify. I am willing to let go of criticisms and judgments that clutter up my thinking and emotions. In this way I respect the dignity of life in myself and others. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. We bring peace to our lives by simplifying. It is often said that “less is more” – less talking, less running around, less clutter (both inner and outer). When life is less complicated, we are more balanced and peaceful. Reminders – There are so many ways to simplify – where will you begin? Name 3 ways to simplify. Challenges – Where is your life most complicated? Where do you need to simplify the most? Insights – What worked and how did this change your experience? Day 11 ~ Have Fun “The more fun you have, the greater your value to yourself and to your society. The more fun you share with others, the more fun you have. ~the Oaqui ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am open to the possibility of having fun all day long. I will keep smiling, enjoying all the moments of this day. Every moment can be more alive with fun. I am open to having fun in unexpected ways, no matter what is happening. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Take a break and respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by having fun. Let’s take life less seriously today and be open to having fun all day long. When we are having fun, we are smiling, laughing and feeling more alive. This is the power of peace. Reminders – What are some ways you can create the experience of having fun in your normal routine? Challenges – When did you take yourself too seriously? Insights – By opening to having fun all through the day, did you experience more fun? Give some examples. Day 12 ~ Honoring Agreements “Your life works to the degree you keep your agreements.” ~Werner Erhard ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am honoring my agreements. As I honor my agreements, I create balance within myself. As I honor my agreements, I am living in harmony with my world. As I honor my agreements, I live with integrity and truth. I am being truthful to myself and others. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by honoring all agreements. It is disrespectful of both yourself and others when you don’t honor an agreement, whether large or small. If we do what we have agreed to do, we are living with integrity, honesty and authenticity. By honoring agreements we stay balanced and create balance in our world, and thus, peace prevails. Reminders – What are some of the agreements you have made with family, friends and work? Challenges – What are you up against in regard to agreements? Do you need to re– negotiate or do you need to follow–through? Insights – Did you discover any unconscious agreements or any agreements that you need to change? Day 13 ~ Sharing “Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” ~Buddha ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am open to the experience of sharing. I am sharing who I am from the heart. I share with love, kindness and compassion. I am respecting the dignity of life by sharing the truth of who I am. I joyfully share my experience of life with everyone I meet. I am so grateful for the opportunity to share in each new moment. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. What are some new ways to share? Respect the dignity of life by sharing, both with yourself and with others. There is much to share in both the inner and outer aspects of life and many ways in which to share. We can share what we have, what we know, but most of all we can share from the heart. Sharing in this way brings peace to our world. Reminders – Whenever you can remember, share whatever is most appropriate at the time, whether alone or with others. New ways to share: Challenges – Was there anything you did not want to share? Were you a miser in any way? Insights – What sharing happened that was Day 14 ~ Receiving “For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it.” ~Ivan Panin ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am willing to become open to new ways of receiving. I am open to receiving from the heart all that life has to offer. Life is what I value above all else. I respect the dignity of life in myself and others by receiving the experience of life that is happening moment by moment. I gratefully receive the experience of life through all my senses. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in youself and others by receiving. We honor this in ourselves by being open to receiving and in others by receiving what itself through all our senses – sight, sound, touch, taste and smell. Give thanks for all of these ways to simply be alive. It is a gift of peace we receive moment to moment. Reminders – What are all the ways you can your life? Challenges – Is there anything you had trouble allowing yourself to receive? Why do you think that is? Insights – What was something unexpected that you received today? Day 15 ~ Gratitude “As each day comes to us refreshed and anew, so does my gratitude renew itself daily. The breaking of the sun over the horizon is my grateful heart dawning upon a blessed world.” ~Terri Guillemets ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am willing to increase my experience of gratitude. I am grateful for the connection of life in myself and in everyone I meet. I am grateful to be alive in this moment and in all my moments. I am grateful for each breath I take. I am grateful for each beat of my heart. I express my gratitude as much as possible. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by being grateful – grateful for the peace you gratitude whenever possible. Reminders – What are three things in my life for which you are most grateful? Challenges grateful for in a person or situation that you don’t like? How can you express gratitude today? Insights – Describe anything ordinary or out of the ordinary for which you felt grateful today. Day 16 ~ Celebration “Think of the magic of that foot, comparatively small, upon which your whole weight rests. It’s a miracle, and the dance...is a celebration of that miracle.” ~Martha Washington ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am open to celebrating life in ordinary moments throughout the day. I celebrate the vibrant life that is happening all around me. I celebrate the beauty that surrounds me and the joy of this life we all share. I am so grateful for the experience of celebration that is happening today. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Today is an opportunity to respect the dignity of life through celebration. We don’t have to wait for a birthday or a holiday to celebrate. How about celebrating this very moment? No matter what presents itself, just choose to celebrate it and see what happens. Celebration increases peace by sharing the joy of life. Reminders – Can you open to celebrating your life just as it is right now? How many ways can you celebrate today? Challenges in any way regarding celebration? Insights – What did you experience as you opened to the celebration of everyday life? Day 17 ~ Inclusion “He drew a circle that shut me out -- heretic, rebel, We drew a circle that took him in.” ~Edwin Markham ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am open to becoming more inclusive. I am willing to include whatever is happening in the moment. It is as it is. I am as I am. I allow my life experience to unfold however it does. I accept and include all and everything. I include all the people in my world as appropriate. I include all and everything with love and compassion. I am so grateful for the experience of inclusion that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others inclusive opens the door to connecting with our world rather than being separate. Make a focused people in your world as appropriate. Inclusion brings the power of peace. Reminders – How will you remind yourself to simply accept and include throughout the whole day? Challenges – What was most challenging to include? Were you able to turn exclusion into inclusion? How does it feel not to be included? Insights – What was the result of being inclusive? Day 18 ~ Flow “Flow with whatever may happen and let your mind be free. Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the ultimate.” ~ Zhuangzi ~Statements of Intention~ Today I let go of all resistance, all judgment and unfolds moment to moment.” heart. experience the interconnectedness of life. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others Reminders – What are three ways to Challenges – Where did the most resistance show up? Insights – What did you learn by allowing Day 19 ~Kindness “You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am willing to be more kind in new ways. In being kind, I am kind to myself and kind to others. I am open to unexpected acts of kindness throughout this day. I respect the dignity of life in myself and others by being kind in every moment. I am kindness, love and compassion. I am so grateful for the experience of kindness that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by being kind. By putting more attention on being kind, we contribute peace for ourselves and our world. Reminders – Name three ways to be kind and include one random act of kindness. Challenges – Were there any times when you did not feel like being kind? Were you able to be kind anyway? Insights – Did being kind shift your experience today? Day 20 ~ Collaboration “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” ~Helen Keller ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am collaborating whenever possible. I am collaborating in some way with everyone I meet. I create connections by collaboration. I enrich my experience of life by collaborating with life itself. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others today by being open to collaboration. Collaboration creates connection and strengthens shared objectives. Collaboration brings the power of peace.” Reminders – What are three possibilities for collaboration? Challenges – Were there any roadblocks? collaboration? Insights collaborating? Day 21 ~ Inspiration “For my part I know nothing with any certainty, but the sight of the stars makes me dream.” ~Vincent Van Gogh ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am inspired by the experience of life that is happening moment to moment. I am inspired by life itself. I inspire myself and and others with love and respect. I am open to new inspiration in the ordinary moments of my day. Inspiration can take many forms and I embrace them all with enthusiasm. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life by noticing what inspires you and how you can inspire others. To inspire is to uplift and to feel uplifted. It is a gift that is the juice of life. When inspired, we are grateful to be alive. When inspired, we bring the power of peace to our world. Reminders- How will you remind yourself to focus on inspiration? Challenges – Did anything get in the way of receiving or sharing inspiration? Insights – What inspired you the most today and why? Day 22 ~ Completion “Love is the outreach of self toward completion.” ~Ralph Sockman ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am completing what I have begun. In my completions, I create balance, harmony I respect the dignity of my life and others by completing responsibly–with love and compassion. As I complete with the past, I open myself to new opportunities and new possibilities for success. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by completing harmoniously - whether a responsibility, an agreement or anything left incomplete. By not completing we block the This is how completion brings the power of peace. Reminders have left hanging? Challenges – What is the most challenging incompletion and how will you shift it? Insights – What did it feel like to complete something today? Day 23 ~ Connections “Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect.” ~ Chief Seattle ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am willing to make new connections. I am willing to connect to new people with honesty and respect. I respect the dignity of all connections in myself whole. I am so grateful for the experience of connection that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life by connecting more deeply with yourself and others. Connect with yourself by closing your eyes and take a deep breath to connect your mind and body. We can connect with others by looking into the eyes of everyone we meet. We are all interconnected in both obvious and not so obvious ways. When we bring awareness to all the connections in our world, we cannot help but feel gratitude and appreciation for the life we all share. This is how connecting brings the power of peace. Reminders – Connect with both strangers and loved ones. What new connections can you make? Challenges – How and where are you feeling disconnected? Insights – What did you notice about connecting in a more conscious way? Day 24 ~ Creating Balance “Life at its best is a creative synthesis of opposites in fruitful harmony.” ~Martin Luther King, Jr. ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am creating the experience of balance, I am balancing in all aspects of my life–mental, emotional and physical. As I am balanced, my capacity to enjoy life expands–I am becoming more wakeful. I am creating balance within myself and in my relations with others. The more balanced I become, the more joy I experience in every moment. I respect the dignity of life within myself and others by being balanced in every way possible. I am so grateful for the experience of balance that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity in yourself and others by creating balance. Beginning with yourself, focus on balancing your mind, body and emotions with positive thoughts, feelings and healthy movement, therefore Reminders – What changes do you need to make in your life that will create health and well-being? Challenges – Where are you most imbalanced? What tools can you use to shift your experience? Insights – What did it feel like to bring more balance into your life? Day 25 ~ Silence silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence...we need silence to be able to touch souls.” ~Mother Teresa ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am open to increasing my experience of silence. I am allowing more silent spaces throughout my day. I experience the stillness within the silence. I respect the silent dignity of life within myself and in everyone I meet. I am so grateful for the experience of silence that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others with silence. Allow silent spaces throughout the day. Notice the silence between your thoughts and words. Can you be more silent, both alone and with others? Within silence is the power of peace. Reminders – How many ways can you be silent today? Challenges – What were the biggest challenges to being silent? Insights – What did you discover in the silence today? “That service is noblest when rendered for its own sake.” ~Mohandas Gandhi ~Statements of Intention~ service. I am willing to serve with respect as I open my heart to the love that is present moment by moment. I serve myself when I serve others. I open to I am serving in as many ways as possible–with love, compassion and gratitude. I am so grateful for the experience of unconditional love that is happening in this moment. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life with some form of and opens our hearts to receive the love that is already there. In this way, we bring the power of peace to ourselves and others. Reminders – What are some ways you can Challenges – How are you challenged by Insights – What was your experience as you Day 27 ~ Trust Self– ~ ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am open to becoming more trusting and trustworthy. I am willing to let go and trust. I trust in myself with love and compassion. As I increase my trust, my heart opens to the experience of life. I trust and watch as each moment unfolds perfectly. I am so grateful for the experience of trust that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life by trusting life itself, beginning with yourself. This must begin in the heart because the mind will always question and be full of doubt. The heart can always be trusted to show us the way and thus, we must focus on the heart. Trusting from the heart will bring the power of peace. Reminders – How many ways can you let go and trust? Challenges – Where did your resistance show up in regard to trust? Insights – Regarding your experience with trust: Day 28 ~ Peace “There is no way to peace, peace is the way.” ~A.J. Muste ~Statements of Intention~ Today I open to increasing my experience of peace. I am creating peace in each moment in my thoughts, words and actions. Peace is the outcome of balanced being. Peace is living in harmony with myself and all in my world. I am living peace in each moment. Peace is my state of being. I am so grateful for the experience of peace that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life by being at peace with yourself and sharing peace with others. We cannot be peaceful with others until we are at peace within ourselves. Come back to forgiveness, inclusion, allowing, accepting, completions and anything else that inspires you to let go and simply be at peace. Reminders – List 3 ways to experience peace today: Challenges – Is there anything you are withholding that is blocking the experience of peace? Insights – How does it feel to be a bringer of peace? Day 29 ~ Compassion “When your fear touches someone’s pain it becomes pity – when love touches someone’s pain it becomes compassion.” ~Steven Levine ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am open to increasing my experience of compassion. First and foremost, I am compassionate with myself. I love and accept myself as I am. I am compassionate with everyone I meet. I accept, include, and forgive myself and others with compassion. I am so grateful for the experience of compassion that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by living with compassion. Compassion is the result of responding with love – unconditional love. Compassion is a loving choice when love is lacking. Compassion increases the power of peace. Reminders – How can you bring focus to being more compassionate? Challenges – What blocked your response of compassion today? Insights – How does it feel to be more compassionate? Day 30 ~ Love “There are four questions of value in life... What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love.” ~Don Juan deMarco (1995) ~Statements of Intention~ Today I am open to increasing my experience of love. I am love–I am loving–I love myself as I am as each moment unfolds. Love is my true nature. I will respect the dignity of life by being more loving with myself and others. I am so grateful for the experience of love that is happening here and now. I will carry this focus with me throughout the day with love and gratitude. Respect the dignity of life in yourself and others by being more loving in every moment. Love is our If we are loving we are bringing the power of peace to our world. Reminders – List at least 3 ways to be more loving. Challenges – When faced with that which is unloving, could you choose to be loving? Insights – How did you increase your experience of love today? Continuation..... Keep this book as a reminder to you so when you see it, you can pick it up again and renew your pledge. Or Give it to someone else to share the peace you now or a feather, something that symbolizes peace for you. Each time you see it in your home or out in the world it will remind you to renew your commitment to peace within yourself and in our world. Thank you for taking the time to make this valuable and necessary contribution to world peace. We invite you to visit our website at onelifealliance.org love with our world family.