"Failure is to "lose" your self"
Sometimes our problems make us feel miserable, we think we can't do anything.Situations are temporary they come to teach us something accordig to need of the time.But most of the time due to temporary situations we permanently lose ourselves. We try to recover and find difficulty..
Make your situation your power, as to make your weakness your strength.
Sometimes Bad situation is just like a beautiful precious gift in rough packing.By seeing the packing u feel bad you think the gift will be same but you become happy to see beautiful gift.Then u think about your negativities.
Similarly you cry over your situation this situation disappears after sometime by giving you great lesson or something good, but you forget to laugh by heart.you feel you have lost something and it was your happiness, definitely due to temprary problems. "It is useless to cry over split milk"
You need to take action on right time. When you feel misery. you need to take long breath.
To lose everything is better than to lose yourself.if u are alive you can make it happen again. If you people think to just get happiness you are living a tasteless life.Good and bad both make your life spicy.
Failure at one point is not your whole life's fate.
If you get any challange by God so he wants to prepare you for sometjing wonderful and amazing.Different people facing same situation give different reaction.it's upto you that how you deal with your situation. Problems irritate you more when they see you get irritated.
If you can't change situation in lieu of your efforts then definitely there is plan by God. You get affraid by problems, when you show fear. you run away, they will run after you. Face them by looking into their eyes unless you understand the reason behind it coming into your life.
Every day is challenging. A day brings blessings for us, problems as well.Your fear weakens you as termites do with healthy tree.
In that way you are killing yourself slowly. God wants to see you happy on his blessings. "change is life, static is dead"
If you are not learning through problems you are not making yourself.