Name: Mc Chielo B. Reambonanza BSIT-1B
Assignment 3: What you See might not always what you Get
Complete the table below by writing at least two (2) traits or characteristics that you
think they judge about you based on how they see you. (15 minutes)
People/Groups/Society
Traits/Characteristics
Family (parents, siblings)
Helpful, Honest, Dishonest, Lazy, Caring,
Brave and Humble.
Close Friends (BFFs)
Friendly, Respectful, Fun-loving, Patient,
Brave and Unselfish.
Classmates/Schoolmates
Brave, Loyal, Reliable, Respectful, Kind,
Brave, Sincere and Honest.
Relatives (Cousins, Uncle, Aunties,
Grandparents)
Rude, Selfish, Mean, Insincere, Friendly, and
Caring.
Neighbors
Courteous, Helpful, Kind, Brave, Timid and
Stubborn.
Social Media Friends (FB, IG, Twitter, Etc)
Lonely, Dishonest, Pretentious, Shy, Pitiful,
and Uptight.
Processing: Based from what you have written in the table, answer the following questions:
1.Are there negative traits in your list? Why do you think they judge you that way?
2.Which of those characteristics listed are true to you? Why do you think they are right about
what they think of you?
3.Do you feel bad about the negative traits they thought of you (which you think is not true)?
What do you think you can do to change the way they judge you?
Yes , there are a lot of negative traits in my list and most of them are in my Relatives (My
aunties and uncles) at that time when I started to enroll at Northeastern Mindanao Colleges. That
day they asked me what course I took and I said Bachelor of Science in Information Technology
( BSIT). From then on, they immediately judged the course I took because they told me that it
had no good destination in my life and they said why this is the school I chose when there are
many other best schools out there. I told them that it was okay, this is the course and school I
took because this is what I want for myself and this is the greatest thing that happened in my
life.
My Family’s, close friends and classmates told me that I am a helpful, respectful, brave, loyal,
caring person but most of them say that I am a brave person and I’m sure on what they think on
me is right because they already know me, you know they’re the ones I spend time with every
day. They are the ones I run to whenever I have nothing. So some of them say that I am a brave
person because if there is a test that comes in my life, if I can face it, I will really face it but if I
can’t, they are the only ones I have who can help me, they are the only ones I can approach.
No, I didn’t feel any bad about the negative traits, the way they treated me. There is a lot of
untrue there especially being rude. My relatives just told me rudely the day they judged the
course I took because I was answering everything they told me and I knew that it was not right.
The truth is that I have respect especially for my family members but I really can’t stand when
they judge me. I know it hurts but I just let them do what they do because it’s part of our lives
and it’s a lesson to us. To change the way they treat me, maybe next time I won’t answer them
and I will listen to what they say because it’s all for the betterment of our lives and instead of
instilling hatred in them, let’s just make it an inspiration.