Running head: MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT Signature Assignment Rafael Sauer Edith Neumann School of School of Health and Human Services MFT 627: Studies in Human Communication Dr. Jennifer Hayes Summer Semester I 2021 1 MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 2 Thesis Statement This paper will discuss the case of David, Kathleen, and Michelle and their communication. First this writer will explain the process of communication which is being used and how it creates miscommunication between family members. This writer will focus on the development of the family communication style and their present emotional communication style. Reflective listening and how it can improve communication and relationships will be explored. This writer will then discuss how to build trust within the family system. The nonverbal communication of this family will be examined and how it may have affected the communication. This writer will conclude with ways to enhance the communication of the family and improve their relationships. Introduction Kathleen, who is married to David, made an appointment with Dr. McGoldrick to discuss Michelle’s (David’s daughter) behavior. Michelle had been acting out in school and is constantly upset (McGoldrick, 1996). During the first session, David tells Dr. McGoldrick that he feels Michelle is angry and hostile. Kathleen agrees, as she feels there is a lot of tension in the house. Michelle does not think that she is causing trouble in school but does express that she is angry about the lack of attention she is getting from her family (McGoldrick, 1996). Process of Communication Petrie (2011) writes “as human beings we are sophisticated in our communications, using our faces, bodies and voices for sending messages to other people” (p. 18). Individuals are constantly trying to send messages, letting others know their needs and wants. When a message is sent and received, communication has occurred (Petrie, 2011). Pavord and Donnelly (2015) MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 3 explain that communication does not just take place when we are face to face with other people, rather “they take place on many different levels, and we use a variety of different methods and many modes of delivery in getting our message across” (p. 4). Pavord and Donnelly (2015) quote from Wood (2004) that communication is “a process in which individuals interact with and through symbols to create and interpret meaning” (p. 4). Fujishin (2016) explains that the process of communication has many components. There is the source of the message and the actual message that is being sent. The transmitter encodes the message into verbal and nonverbal cues that will enhance the meaning of the message. For communication to occur, there must be a receiver who decodes the message to give it meaning. The receiver now becomes the source and encodes a return message (Fujishin, 2016). Pavord and Donnelly (2015) write that noise that occurs during the communication process will thwart the correct meaning of the sent message. Pavord and Donnelly (2015) explain that communication takes place as a two-way process, as messages are being sent back and forth. This transactional model of communication theorizes that when individuals communicate, they are continuously sending and receiving messages (Fujishin, 2016). The communication is happening systemically and the meaning to the shared messages is influenced by the context, setting, and participants (Fujishin, 2016) In the transactional model, multiple channels are being used when communicating. David, Kathleen, and Michelle are using multiple channels to communicate with each other. From verbal to nonverbal cues, the messages that are being sent back and forth are attempting to communicate that the family members are in pain. Although David is not yet aware of his feelings of loss and grief, the message he is sending to the other family members is that he fears emotions and is attempting to run away from them. Kathleen is communicating MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 4 exasperation and frustration with Michelle through facial expressions and tone of voice. She is encoding her message through multiple channels to send this message to Michelle. Crandall et al. (2020) write that “Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs uses an ecological approach to examining the needs of individuals” (p. 274). The basic needs of an individual must be met before the individual is able to attain self-actualization and transcendence. When individuals are not able to communicate their needs and have their needs met, it can be a predictor of depression (Crandall et al., 2020). Michelle is communicating sadness and grief through acting remote and upset. This is the message that she is attempting to send to her family. She encoded the message in acting upset. Her need of love/belonging are not being met since the death of her mother. David and Kathleen are decoding Michelle’s message as an attempt to disrupt the current family system, as the noise of Michelle’s behavior is not allowing the correct meaning of the message to get through. Miscommunication David, Kathleen, and Michelle are not connecting with each other when communicating. They are communicating in a monological dialogue. Seikkula et al. (2012) explains that communicating through monologue will not help the individual understand the other person’s point of view. Olson et al. (2012) write that when individuals engage in monological dialogue the communication is usually “static, hierarchical, and closed” (p. 423) creating a lack of new meaning and connection. Seikkula and Trimble (2005) posit that when monologue is used, one individual dominates the conversation and does not allow the viewpoint of another to be heard. David and Kathleen are effectively shutting down Michelle’s voice, as they are not engaging in dialogue. When individuals engage in monological dialogue it can lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation in relationships (Kleiner-Paz, 2015). MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 5 Dialogue is when every individual is engaged with the other and responds based on the previous utterances and allows others to build upon what was said (Seikkula et al., 2012). Dialogue helps every individual understand each other and will facilitate support and understanding (Kleiner-Paz, 2015). Olson et al. (2012) explain that when one embraces dialogue there is a polyphony as it gives room for many voices to be heard. Michelle is attempting to be heard and understood, while David and Kathleen are not allowing the polyphony of voices to be heard. Seikkula and Trimble (2005) write that when one engages in dialogue, new and shared meaning is created. Feelings of connection and understanding are created. David, Kathleen, and Michelle’s inability to use dialogue is a primary reason for the miscommunication that is happening between them. Development of Communication Style The development of communication begins in infancy, as the infant attempts to communicate through reflexive responses (Buckler & Buckler, 2003). Almost from birth, the infant engages in dyadic exchanges, as the mother and child will “exchange facial, postural, and vocal expressions in the face-to-face context” (Aureli et al., 2017, p. 2). Responding to the infant reinforces in the infant that communication is an effective way of getting their needs met. This helps the development of communication in the child, as the child is motivated to communicate (Buckler & Buckler, 2003). Barish (2018) explains that when parents communicate to their children that their emotions are recognized and validated, the child begins to “feel known and understood” (p. 236). This helps the child value communication and strive to become an effective communicator. Aydin (2016) in her study showed that children with normal development have enhanced communication skills. When parents recognize deficiencies in the MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 6 child’s communication development at a young age, intervene, and teach the child better communication skills, it can facilitate normal development. Petrie (2011) writes that from childhood, parents can show their children that communication is a two-way process, as each individual in the communication process is a sender and receiver of the messages. When parents do not listen to their children, it inhibits the development of dialogical and healthy communication in the child. Michelle does not feel heard, and the family is communicating in a monological way. It is possible that David did not build a rapport that enables Michelle to effectively communicate with him. Kathleen is uncomfortable discussing her family of origin. Kathleen is not in contact with her half-brother Matthew (McGoldrick, 1996). It is possible to speculate that Kathleen did not learn effective and healthy communication skills within her family system. When families do not employ healthy communication, it may hinder the child’s development and ability to successfully communicate. Emotional Communication Style “Emotions are signals that are meant to be perceived” (Barish, 2009, p. 12) and communicate “to others and to ourselves that something is right or that something is wrong” (Barish, 2009, p. 12). Through emotions, an individual can communicate their inner feelings. Michelle is communicating sadness. Barish (2009) explains that sadness is an emotion that is activated when the individual goes through the loss of somebody or something. The adaptive function of sadness helps the individual maintain the values of those close to them. Michelle is attempting to communicate through sadness the immense loss that she suffered and the desire to keep the memories of her mother alive. MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 7 David is communicating in an incongruent way. Satir explains that individuals will often communicate like computers as they are attempting to mask their inner feelings and hiding their vulnerabilities (Bloch, 2006). David is attempting to hide his emotions when communicating with the therapist as his affect is flat, and the message he is sending does not represent what he is feeling. Lee (2002) posits that one that communicates congruently enables the receiver of the message to accept the message without contradictions. When incongruent communication is sent, the receiver generally accepts the nonverbal communication as the bona fide message (Pipas & Jaradat, 2010). Bartsch and Hubner (2005) explain that “emotional communication is conceptualized as a process of mutual influence between the emotions of communication partners” (p. 2). Kathleen, David, and Michelle are embracing emotional communication as a way of influencing each other. Goldberg (2000) writes that “Basic Emotional Communication” (BEC) is a dialogue that is created within relationships that enable the many individuals to connect to each other and enhance their relational communication. BEC helps “create a climate in which the needs and desires of each partner are both heard and responded to” (Goldberg, 2000, p. 63). David and Kathleen are communicating to each other support and compassion, but towards Michelle the emotional communication is of not fitting into the system. Kathleen was communicating irritation and frustration with Michelle, but when talking about her new baby, she and David express feelings of warmth and contentment. Listening When an individual embraces active listening they can connect and fully comprehend the message that is being sent from the transmitter (Motschnig & Nykl, 2014). Active listening enables the transmitter to be open, honest, and communicate congruently (Motschnig & Nykl, MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 8 2014). David and Kathleen are not listening to Michelle. David is constantly attempting to direct the conversation towards the assumed presenting issue, even though Michelle is attempting to communicate that she does not feel the assumed presenting issue is a problem. Motschnig and Nykl (2014) posit that only when an individual is accessing their inner self will it be possible to become immersed in the world of the transmitter. The listener will be able to fully comprehend the message and not listen through their own filter and lens. Jones (2011) explains that when one is attempting to show support through listening, the listener must validate and acknowledge the speaker. The listener must focus on the feelings and emotions of the speaker and encourage the speaker to expound on their distressing feelings. Nonverbal cues can also relay to the speaker support and express care (Jones, 2011). McGuire (2001) writes that making eye contact, smiling, and nodding, communicates to the speaker that the listener is engaged and interested. David, Kathleen, and Michelle are having a hard time listening and supporting each other as they are not connecting to each other’s emotions. When individuals are not trusting of others and the relationship is undefined, it is a barrier to active listening (Motschnig & Nykl, 2014). During confrontation, the ability to be an active and supportive listener is greatly diminished (Motschnig & Nykl, 2014). The family in the video does not trust each other and the family system is still vague. Michelle did not yet mourn the loss of her mother and is not willing to accept Kathleen as a stepmother. David did not yet mourn the loss of his wife and jumped into a new marriage, attempting to put the loss in the past. These current dynamics are barriers to active listening and validating the speaker. When individuals become preoccupied with their own worries and thoughts, it creates an impediment to active listening (McGuire, 2001). Kathleen has many worries about joining the family and fitting MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 9 in. Her own preoccupation with her individual worries is creating barriers for her to be an active listener. McNaughton and Vostal (2010) write that employing “the LAFF don’t CRY” (p. 252) strategy helps individuals successfully use their active listening skills. The individual must Listen and empathize, Ask questions, Focus on the key issues, and “Find a first step” (p. 252). The listener should not Criticize, React without thinking, and “Yakety-yak-yak” (p. 252). If David and Kathleen would employ effective listening skills, Michelle would have felt understood and heard. Trust Michelle does not trust that David and Kathleen are looking out for her, and David and Kathleen have no trust in Michelle’s decisions and group of friends. Presently, their trust level with each other is extremely low. On a scale of 1-10, their level of trust is around 3. Before beginning to create a greater sense of trust within the family system, the therapist must establish a strong therapeutic alliance with the family. Only when the family trusts and feels connected to the therapist will they be open to suggestions of change and growth (Glick et al., 2015). Norcross (2011) explains that when the therapist repairs ruptures with the client it can facilitate trust between the therapist and client. David interrupted Dr. McGoldrick asking if it is necessary to find out so much information about the family history. He felt that time was being wasted. Dr. McGoldrick very calmy explained why she felt it was necessary to get so specific about the history of the family. This was a conflict resolution that began to build trust between the family and the therapist. Norcross (2011) discusses the importance of instilling hope as this will lead to the building of the therapeutic alliance. Once the alliance is strong, the therapist will be able to promote trust within the family relationship. MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 10 Glisson (2019) posits that trust-building within a system can be accomplished through dialogue and listening to each other. This will help the many individuals understand each other and recognize the struggles that every individual in the system is experiencing. Nicholson et al. (2001) explain that trust is built upon the “expression of confidence” (p. 4) that every individual in the system has for one another. Also needed for the construction of trust is the belief that each member will not “exploit the other’s vulnerability” (p. 4) and the willingness to rely on one another. When the various members of the system have a liking for one another, it is a major component that helps create trust (Nicholson et al., 2001). Helping Michelle feel connected to the family system will facilitate the building of trust between Michelle and David and Kathleen. Communication and honest dialogue will assist with trust building between the family members. Nonverbal Communication Hall and Knapp (2013) posit that nonverbal communication includes all “informative behaviors that are not purely linguistic in content” (p. 6). Nonverbal communication can include visible cues such as “facial expressions, head movements, posture, body and hand movements, self and other-touching, leg positions and movements, interpersonal gaze, directness of interpersonal orientation, interpersonal distance, and synchrony or mimicry between people” (Hall & Knapp, 2013, p. 6). Nonverbal communication communicates the inner feelings and the attitude of the individual (Grzybowski et al., 1992). At the start of the session, Michelle is twiddling her fingers, communicating that she does not want to be there. When David begins talking, Michelle smirks and keeps on shaking her head. She has her eyes closed, and her posture is slouched. She is attempting to convey to the others in the room that she is not agreeing with what her father is saying. MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 11 When Michelle talks, she constantly looks down and shrugs her shoulders. Guerrero and Floyd (2006) write that some nonverbal cues attempt to communicate withdrawal/lack of involvement. Nonverbal cues can reveal the individual’s relational and emotional involvement (Jones, 2011). When the individual attempts to communicate involvement, it can be expressed through “expressivity, altercentrism, conversation management, composure, and positive affect” (Jones, 2011, p. 88). Michelle was using nonverbal cues to communicate withdrawal/lack of involvement. Nonverbal communication may also include auditory cues such as sighs and pitch of voice (Hall & Knapp, 2013). When David was describing the presenting issue, he spoke without any emotions. When describing his family of origin, David talked about his family rather flatly. McGoldrick (1996) in her commentary felt the family’s presentation was flat. This was nonverbally communicated as the family was speaking without emotion. Kathleen, when asked why she thinks Michelle is angry, answers “well, I don’t know” with a tone of voice that is expressing exasperation. She is attempting to nonverbally communicate her frustration with Michelle. David and Kathleen are nonverbally communicating support for each other. David holds Kathleen’s hand when they are talking about their baby. They are constantly looking at each other as a way of offering support. Patterson (2013) writes that Argyle and Dean (1965) “proposed that the overall level of intimacy or involvement between partners was reflected in a small set of behaviors, including distance, gaze, smiling, and verbal intimacy (self-disclosure)” (p. 516). This is called the equilibrium theory. Docan-Morgan et al. (2013) write that nonverbal cues strengthen relationships and help couples feel connected. These nonverbal cues that David and Kathleen are communicating to each other are creating feelings of closeness and support. MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 12 When David finished talking, Dr. McGoldrick affirmatively shook her head. She was using her skills of receptive nonverbal accuracy throughout the session to communicate with the family in a nonverbal way. Nowicki and Duke (2013) explain that an individual must possess discriminative, semantic, utilitarian, and relational accuracy to accurately use nonverbal communication. Dr. McGoldrick constantly displayed her ability to accurately employ receptive nonverbal communication and understand the cues that are being communicated. Father-Child Communication Levin and Currie (2010) write that open communication between children and their parents lead to enhanced parent-child relationship. In their study, Levin and Currie (2010) found that “boys and girls who reported easy communication with their father had highest life satisfaction (8.0), significantly higher than all other young people” (p. 158). Campbell and Winn (2018) write that when daughters feel connected to their father and have an affirming relationship, it positively impacts their future. Higher self-esteem, life satisfaction, and fewer mental health issues are a few benefits of a strong father-daughter relationship. When communication is limited, it negatively affects the relationship. When father-daughter are able to communicate effectively there is increased satisfaction with the relationship (Campbell & Winn, 2018). Michelle does not feel that she is able to effectively communicate with David. Michelle feels that if she discusses her peers with her father, she will only be put down and criticized. This blockage to effectively communicate with her father can affect their relationship and decrease their life satisfaction. Therapeutic Process MFT627/SIGNATURE ASSIGNMENT 13 Coughlin (2003) posits that family communication standards are integral for strong family systems. When these standards are met, studies have shown that the family experiences greater satisfaction. The therapist must help the family members understand how to effectively communicate, listen, and attempt to understand the message that is being communicated. When the family reaches communication standards, such as openness and showing affection for one another, it will allow the family to feel connected and supported. Grief affects the entire family system. When a loss happens in the family, every aspect of the system is affected even many years later (McGoldrick, 1996). Every family member may experience grief in a different way. This may lead to conflict within the family system. “Communication among grieving family members becomes a key to maintaining functional relationships and enhancing growth” (Liew & Servaty-Seib, 2018, p. 228). Helping the family communicate will help them grieve the loss of Diane and enable them to move forward in life. 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