SPEAKING What is Speaking? To talk, to utterwords or particular sounds with ordinary speech modulations. To convey thoughts,opinions or emotions orally To express oneself To deliver and address To convey a message Speaking Skill Speaking is the productive skill in the oral mode. It, like the other skills, is more complicated than it seems at first and involves more than just pronouncing words. Speaking Situations There are three kinds of speaking situations in which we find ourselves: Interactive Partially interactive Non-interactive Speaking Situations Interactive speaking situations include face-to-face conversations and telephone calls, in which we are alternately listening and speaking, and in which we have a chance to ask for clarification, repetition, or slower speech from our conversation partner. Some speaking situations are partially interactive, such as when giving a speech to a live audience, where the convention is that the audience does not interrupt the speech. The speaker nevertheless can see the audience and judge from the expressions on their faces and body language whether he has understood or not. Some few speaking situations may be totally noninteractive, such as when recording a speech for a radio broadcast Various aspects before speaking When you are going to speak on a particular issue, it is necessary; To know about the interests and attitudes of the audience and the occasion at which the speech is to be made. To consider about the existing level of knowledge and comprehension of the participants to decide about the depth of knowledge to be discussed. Use of polite language KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY By listening, thinking and formulating your thoughts before you speak, you will increase your effectiveness as a powerful communicator. Think before you talk . Know your message. Get to the point quickly. Then, it is easier for the listener to remember what you said. Know the outcome you want from your conversation. Practice the power of persuasion. Almost everything you say is an attempt to persuade the other person to accept your point of view. For successful networking, plan in advance what you want to say and what you want to accomplish. Know something about the people you’ll be talking to. Micro-skills of Speaking Here are some of the micro-skills involved in speaking. The speaker has to: Pronounce the distinctive sounds of a language clearly enough so that people can distinguish them. This includes making tonal distinctions. Use stress and rhythmic patterns, and intonation patterns of the language clearly enough so that people can understand what is said. Use the correct forms of words. This may mean, for example, changes in the tense, case, or gender. Use vocabulary appropriately. Use the register or language variety that is appropriate to the situation and the relationship to the conversation partner. Make clear to the listener the main sentence constituents, such as subject, verb, object, by whatever means the language uses. Make the main ideas stand out from supporting ideas or information. Delivery Styles Impromptu: No planning Extemporaneous: Planning and Practice Manuscript: Read from script PUBLIC SPEAKING “Public speaking is the art of diluting a twominute idea with a two-hour vocabulary.” John Fitzgerald Kennedy PUBLIC SPEAKING Public speaking is the process of speaking to a group of people in a structured, deliberate manner intended to inform, influence, or entertain the listeners. In public speaking, as in any form of communication, there are five basic elements, often expressed as "who is saying ,what ,to whom, using what medium, with what effects?" The purpose of public speaking can range from simply transmitting information, to motivating people to act, to simply telling a story. Good orators should be able to change the emotions of their listeners, not just inform them The Importance of Public Speaking "To listen closely and reply well is the highest perfection we are able to attain in the art of conversation.“ Francois de La Rochefoucauld Success in public speaking can open a whole world of opportunities for you. It can help you conquer new frontiers. It can broaden your horizons through personal development, influence, and advances in your profession. The Importance of Public Speaking Public Speaking Improves Your Personal Development Giving speeches helps the speaker realize selfworth through the personal satisfaction he experiences whenever a good speech is given. The speaker becomes more confident especially when the audience responds positively. It also reduces anxiety when asked by an authority to speak in front of some people The Importance of Public Speaking Public Speaking Influences Your Society It is not only you who can benefit from the art of communication but society as well. Most governments heed the voice of their citizens; with proper communication skills, you can represent the public in voicing out your rights and opinions. People from all walks of life need to speak in public, whether formally or otherwise. From kids reciting in school, to folks in a town meeting, to citizens voicing out national issues; from a plain market vendor, to a president of a company. There is really no way you can avoid public speaking. Public Speaking Advances Your Profession Public speaking can help in your career, and eventually, your finances. Usually, success is gauged by answers to questions like, "How long have you been in your job?" or "Do you hold an MBA degree or something similar?" However, researchers have proven that the best indicator of success in any profession is whether the person is often asked to give speeches. Those who give more speeches tend to have higher salaries than those who give less or no speeches. The longer you work for an organization and the higher you climb the organizational ladder, the more your boss will ask you to preside over meetings and to give talks to the staff and subordinates or the clients. The higher your position, the more your responsibilities in leading people under you; and the more you must speak effectively. PUBLIC SPEAKING TIPS Encourage Yourself Listen To Good Public Speakers Incorporate Handouts In Your Public Speaking To Read or Not To Read Start Your Speech With Poise Observe Your Listeners Carefully How to Use Your Notes Emphasize Key Words Develop Your Self-Confidence Capture and Maintain Interest Encourage Yourself Practice your speech every day and tell yourself each day, I am getting better and better at my speech and I will deliver it with total confidence. You may think that listening to your inner voice seems a little crazy; however, if you pay close attention to your thoughts you will realize just how often your inner voice tells you negative things. It is proven that people who do not acknowledge or believe in the power of their inner voice are less likely to be successful. Listen to your inner voice, repeat positive affirmations to yourself, practice your speech and you will be successful at public speaking. Listen To Good Public Speakers Take time out to listen to as many speeches as possible. A good listener is a successful communicator. Don’t forget to take down notes when you listen to these speeches. Recognize speeches that you like and those you can’t stand. Examine the speeches you like, and there you will learn useful and helpful tips to develop your speech. Examine the speeches you dislike, and there you will learn what you should prevent. Incorporate Handouts In Your Public Speaking Give out fun and colorful handouts to get your audience involved. Make your handouts on colorful paper and easy to read. Depending on your audience, it is probably not wise to get too technical or make them too long so people will not get bored.Make handing them out an enjoyable part of your speech. To Read or Not To Read Do not read your speech verbatim. That technique is highly likely to bore your listeners. The only instance you read a speech is when you do it on behalf of someone else. Even when you do that, make it brief or summarize it. At the end of the summary, give out the entire speech in the form of a handout. The written language and the spoken language are different forms of expression. What is beautifully written may not sound beautiful when it is spoken. Start Your Speech With Poise Do not appear to be hurried and hassled when you are about to begin your speech. You will look like you’re out of control Also, never apologize. Just begin with your subject. Take a deep breath, relax, and begin in a quiet conversational tone as though you were speaking to a friend. It may be like plunging into cold water. It’s really not that bad - after you are in, the water is fine. In fact, having spoken a few times you will even look forward to the plunge. To stand before an audience and make them think your thoughts after you is one of the greatest pleasures you can ever know. Don’t be afraid. Instead, look forward to it. Observe Your Listeners Carefully If you observe these 5 behaviours in your listeners, it is very likely there are bored with your speech and you need to change your approach. - A lot of listeners sit with their arms folded. - Vacant looks – no smiles or nodding of the head. - Most of the people are yawning. - Polite coughs which are more than usual. - Nonverbal gestures like audience frequently looking at their watches, biting their nails, shuffling their feet, looking at each other, and worse, starting to exit the venue. How to Use Your Notes You can use your notes when you are making your presentation but be sure that they don’t appear bulky. The worst thing a speaker can do is to pull out pages and pages of notes before a speech. Preparing 3″ x 5″ index cards is all right. Be sure your entire speech does not go beyond seven cards. A single sheet of paper with an outline of your speech is still the best. Be sure the letters on that single sheet are big enough to read. Emphasize Key Words To emphasize a word, speak it in a different way from the others words that surround it. In other words, if you were speaking at a normal volume, raise your voice when you speak an important word. Or, if you have been talking loudly, utter the emphatic word in a deliberate whisper–and you have intense emphasis. If you have been going fast, go very slow on the emphatic word. If you have been talking on a low pitch, jump to a high one on the word you are emphasizing. If you have been talking on a high pitch, take a low one instead. Sometimes, for big emphasis, you can stress every single syllable in a word. Develop Your Self-Confidence Develop your self-confidence with practice, practice and more practice. Look for every chance to give a speech. The more you face the audience, the more you will develop self-confidence. Begin with very short speeches that last three to four minutes. Always bear in mind that a short speech can barely go wrong. Impromptu speeches make good practice. Concentrate and be natural. Do not try to pretend to be someone else. Master your topic. Believe in yourself. If you don’t, no one else will. Capture and Maintain Interest Here are 6 ways to capture and maintain the listener’s attention and interest - Establish eye contact with the audience. - Do not talk if someone is walking down the aisle or if there is audience movement. - Make appropriate pauses for the audience to catch their breath. - Use interesting and powerful visual aids. - Talk from personal experience and tell stories. - Make your speech concise. CONTROL FEAR Fear is a defense mechanism to protect ourselves. We fear destruction of our self-esteem. Who we are is precious to us. Other’s words about us, can seem like building blocks either supporting us or crashing in on us. Fear focuses on the worst thing that can happen. “I’ll Fail. I'll Forget what am I going to say. I'll Be humiliated .I’ll panic.” .Instead, shift your focus with the following tips: Focus on the-Listener, (not yourself.) -Message, (not the words.) -Success, (not the alternatives.) Visualize a positive outcome. Take a deep breath, relax, and be yourself. Do your homework what do you want to say. Control your negative self talk. Speak from the heart rather than the ego. STOP TALKING AND LISTEN Conversation should be like a tennis match, each person having a turn to give and receive. The true art of conversation is talking and listening. Allow your conversation partner to speak. Respect the other person’s point of view. Concentrate on the conversation. Only hearing (while thinking about what you will say) rather that actively listening will cause you to miss vital information. Help individual's resolve their own problems with patient listening . Individuals have their ability to solve their own problems. THINK BEFORE YOU TALK If you give attention to what you will say, you increase your chances of persuading the other person to your point of view. You will also decrease the chances of making mistake or social blunder. Pause, think and consider what you want to say. Choose appropriate words that clearly express your message. Decide on the tone you want in your conversation. Determine the outcome you want from your interchange. Know your audience, and if possible, their viewpoint and level of understanding about the subject matter. Shape your message to be easily understood. BELIEVE IN YOUR MESSAGE Believe in your message because this is the crux of any successful communication .When you passionately believe in your message, your verbal and non verbal communications will flow freely. Speak with passion and conviction. Allow your feelings, delivery, body language and voice to flow naturally. Show your enthusiasm. Avoid faking it or you risk loosing your credibility. REPEAT MAJOR POINTS Repetition reinforces the speakers main points and aids in listener’s retention. Know your major points. Paraphrase, as needed, in different ways throughout your conversation to re-emphasize. Tactfully ask your listener for feedback. Ask questions that will indicate the listener understands your main points. Hidden Causes of Public Speaking Stress Thinking that public speaking is inherently stressful (it's not). Thinking you need to be brilliant or perfect to succeed (you don't). Trying to impart too much information or cover too many points in a short presentation. Having the wrong purpose in mind (to get rather than to give/contribute). Trying to please everyone (this is unrealistic). Trying to emulate other speakers (very difficult) rather than simply being yourself (very easy). Failing to be personally revealing and humble. Hidden Causes of Public Speaking Stress Being fearful of potential negative outcomes (they almost never occur and even when they do, you can use them to your advantage). Trying to control the wrong things (e.g., the behavior of your audience). Spending too much time over preparing (instead of developing confidence and trust in your natural ability to succeed). Thinking your audience will be as critical of your performance as you might be.