Proactive Interventions 1. Crisis Prevention 2. Verbal Intervention Prevention •In Part 1, we will cover: • Decisions in Crisis • Deliberate Aggression • Emotional Crisis Part 1: Making Decisions in Crisis CRISIS! Immediately Dangerous? Not Immediately Dangerous? Deliberate? Emotional? CORRECTIVE RESPONSE COUNSELING RESPONSE 1. Remind, warn or confront 1. Give space 2. Remove verbally 2. Listen actively 3. Restrain physically 3. Therapeutic Problem Solving Part 2: Deliberate Problems Deliberate Misbehavior “Purposeful attempt to meet one’s own needs at the expense of others.” Cues to Deliberate Problems • • • • Usual behavior Peer reinforcement Calm body language No outside stress Glasser’s Social Needs According to Dr. William Glasser, Psychiatrist (developer of Reality Therapy and Choice Theory), we have four basic social needs. We each learn to meet these needs in different ways through our experiences with individuals, social groups, and society. Glasser’s Social Needs Belonging Importance Fun Freedom Social Needs How do YOU meet YOUR social needs? Socially Appropriately Or Inappropriately Aggression Can aggression fill social needs? Inappropriate Ways to Fill Needs? Belonging Importance Class clown, neediness & whining, giving in to peer pressure… Defying authority, breaking rules, intimidating others… Fun Freedom Off-task chatter, running in halls, teasing others… Refusal to work, roaming hallways, running away, using drugs or alcohol… Meeting Needs Prosocially What opportunities do (or could) patients have to meet these needs prosocially? Give examples of positive activities that meet these needs. Fun = Playing video games, TV, Board Games… Prosocial ways to allow BELONGING 1. Build strong caring relationships 2. Allow healthy contact with parents/family 3. Create and facilitate social activities Prosocial ways to allow IMPORTANCE 1. Provide genuine leadership/decision Making opportunities 2. Give praise and encouragement 3. Recognize actual accomplishments Prosocial ways to allow FUN 1. Allow free time to play and socialize normally 2. Integrate music, art, sports, and activities 3. Be fun with Patients! Prosocial ways to allow CHOICE 1. Allow choices when possible 2. Encourage responsible freedom of expression 3. ASK, don’t TELL, whenever possible Part 3: Emotional Crisis Emotional Crisis “Impulsive over-reaction to overwhelming stress or misperceptions.” Cues to Emotional Crisis • • • • Unusual behavior Intense body language Irrational statements Outside stress Adult Reactions in Crisis ADULT ANGER TRAP #1 STRESS Leftover stress from other home or work problems… makes it easy to overreact angrily to a minor situation. ADULT ANGER TRAP #2 INADEQUACY We feel helpless trying to manage a challenging situation… then turn embarrassment to anger. ADULT ANGER TRAP #3 FEAR We feel a natural shock or fear in response to a threatening situation… then turn anxiety into anger. ADULT ANGER TRAP #4 VALUES VIOLATION A core value is violated by a patient’s behavior, sparking feelings of righteous anger. ADULT ANGER TRAP #5 AUTHORITY CHALLENGE We engage in an angry power struggle to establish dominance over a defiant patient. Understanding Ourselves 3. At my worst… 2. My warning signs… 1. Stresses in my life…. 4. To calm down… Breaking the the 1.1. Breaking Conflict Cycle Remember that the patient’s past experiences give him/her a different way of perceiving events than you have. However unreasonable this perception seems to you, it is very REAL to him/her. By knowing his/her past and his/her patterns, you can predict potential stress. 2. Breaking Breaking the the 2. Conflict Cycle Remember that during conflict, the patient’s irrational beliefs trigger strong feelings and explosive behaviors, which cause problems with adults, peers, rules and learning. Look for unusual behaviors under “normal circumstances” for early clues of crisis. 3. Breaking Breaking the the 3. Conflict Cycle Remember that during conflict, a patient is his own worst enemy: he will defend, deny, blame, rationalize, and regress from owning his feelings or having responsibility for his behaviors. Don’t try to reason with him when you can see he is highly agitated. Back off, and give him time to cool off if you can. 1. Breaking the Conflict Cycle Remember that outside stress makes it harder for you to tolerate the situational stress of a conflict. Be aware of the stressors acting on you, and be able to tell what you are reacting to in a crisis. Reduce your stress when you can before entering “hot” situations. 2. Breaking the Conflict Cycle Remember that everyone has sensitive issues that set them off. Know your emotional “hot spots” -- you can bet the patients know them! 3. Breaking the Conflict Cycle Remember that anger is a natural response to hostility and threats. Admit to yourself when you are mad or overwhelmed in a crisis. Take a deep breath and slow down. 4. Breaking the Conflict Cycle Remember to catch yourself using sarcasm, belittling comments, or accusations. Try to see the problem through the patient’s eyes. Apologize if necessary, without expecting an apology in return. 5. Breaking the Conflict Cycle Remember that it is okay to ask for and offer help to colleagues in crisis. Talk about problems after they happen, and plan for them before they occur. Staff support relieves stress! KEY POINT #1 Understanding aggressive behavior: There are two distinct sources of aggressive behavior: A. Deliberate needs-fulfilling behavior B. Emotionally-driven impulse behavior KEY POINT #2 Understanding crisis: Crises do not “just happen.” They follow an escalation pattern and can often be deescalated if we use the appropriate skills during each phase of crisis. KEY POINT #3 Understanding prevention: Prevention requires an awareness of the patient and ourselves. Be aware of: A. Patient's verbal and non-verbal cues. B. Our own personal issues and emotions. KEY POINT #4 Our goal in crisis: Our goal is always to de-escalate behavior as safely as possible. This requires a cool head, an awareness of the choices, and the skills to implement them. End