Marriage is considered as a social institution and every individual wants a perfect match. There are
number of individuals who fight with their families to marry someone they love but on the same ground
others accept the decisions of their families in this regard.
Arrange marriage is the one in which the partners rely on the decision of their families and accept it
because they have firm believe that this will prove best for them in their future. In contrast, individuals
who prefer love marriages mostly follow the path against their families when families are not willing to
accept their children’s choice.
Arrange marriage V. Love marriage:
In this universe there is nothing useless and every single thing does not matter small or big, has its own
worth. It is same in the case of marriages. Both arrange and love marriages have their own pros and
cons. Some of them are discussed below:
Arrange Marriage:
upport from both families, relatives, friends, society etc...
3. Possible support from all of the above in case of conflicts, crisis etc...
4. More interactions through family, relatives, functions, festivals etc...
5. Kids will get more friends and summer camps... More entertainment...
6. Kids will get more knowledge from elders, grandparents, in-laws etc...
7. Most of the interactions are formal, which improve our acting/survival skills.
8. More background verification(if people are not greedy and mediators are
genuine). So less vulnerable to cheating.
Cons: 1. Possibility of forced marriages for pride irrespective of horoscopes.
2. More relatives, more interactions, more conflicts... Less personal time...
3. Moe interactions, more expenses...
4. Most interactions are formal, which kills our natural expression.