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Cocktail Attire For Men - Dress
Code Guide For Weddings &
Events — Gentleman's Gazette
Sven Raphael Schneider
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When you receive an invitation nowadays, it may
add a dress code such as Cocktail Attire, Black
Tie Optional, Semi-Formal Attire or Formal Attire,
but what exactly does that mean?
Back in the day, things were simpler: the dress
code was either Black Tie for less formal evening
occasions or White Tie for more formal ones.
Women’s dresses were chosen accordingly. Today,
for many men the tuxedo is the most formal
garment they will ever wear, and it is often rented.
In the following, I want to explain what Cocktail
Attire For Men is all about and what options you
have for weddings, parties or events when you
receive an invitation that asks for it.
Video – Cocktail Attire For Men
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Get our cocktail attire pocket guide for men here.
The Basics of the Cocktail Attire Dress
Code
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How Formal is Cocktail Attire and When Should
You Wear It?
On the scale of dress codes, cocktail attire is the
middle, a step up from business casual but less
formal than black tie. It is considered on par with
business attire, so it is easy to use an outfit you
would wear to your office or an interview to
create a great cocktail attire ensemble. This
dress code is most commonly found on invitations
for parties, weddings, and professional events,
which are formal events.
A Dark Flannel Suit with Silk Tie & TV Fold Pocket
Square is perfect for Cocktail Attire
Even though times have changed and style is
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becoming ever more casual, if a dress code is
called for, you should do your best to stick with it
because dressing appropriately is a sign of
respect for the host and the event. Cocktail attire
is likely to be one of the more frequent dress
codes most men encounter because it falls in the
middle of casual and formal, but it is also one of
the most convenient because it is made up of
garments and accessories that most men likely
already own.
Cocktail attire is also versatile in that when in a
pinch, you can wear a cocktail attire with a dark
suit instead of a tuxedo when black tie is called
for as the dress code. It’s also appropriate for
funerals and other solemn occasions when
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formality is required. In this case, a solid dark
navy or charcoal suit can be worn if you don’t own
a black one, and your accessories should be
muted, such as a black grenadine tie, black
leather oxford dress shoes, and a solid white
shirt. Even if you wear smart casual or jeans on a
day to day basis, it pays to have at least one
cocktail attire outfit ready in your closet for short
notice events.
What is Semi Formal and Formal Attire for Men?
Colin Firth in Kingsman wearing a classic British
suit with padded shoulders that works for cocktail
attire
If your invitation states a semi-formal or formal
attire, these are vague and challenging dress
codes to deal with today because they
mean different things to different people. In the
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past, formal attire was a tuxedo, while semiformal would be like cocktail attire. These days
the ambiguity of these dress codes can make
them frustrating for guests.
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If the Invitation Asks for Cocktail Attire, Men
Should Wear:
1. A dark to mid-gray suit
2. A button-down dress shirt in white or another
muted color
3. A necktie or bow tie in subtle patterns or plains
4. A simple pocket square
5. Black dress shoes with a leather sole, such as
oxfords
6. Over the calf socks that either match your
trousers or pick up something in your outfit such
as a color in your tie or bow tie
7. Of course, make sure you are clean shaven and
you have a recent haircut
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Cocktail Attire Outfit Variation #1
Cocktail Attire Don’ts:
DON’T wear your tuxedo or white tie, as that
would be too formal for this dress code
DON’T wear a black suit – these should be
reserved only for funerals
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DON’T wear your pinstripe suit, bright
colored ties, a bold paisley shirt, or flashy
accessories at home to a wedding – the couple
should be the center of attention, not you
DON’T wear casual clothes such as khakis,
chinos, jeans, polo shirts, or a sports jacket; if it
would work well for business casual, don’t wear
it!
DON’T wear casual shoes such as loafers (or any
shoes without laces)
DON’T go sockless – this may be a trend now but
it is inappropriate for cocktail attire
DON’T forget to wear a tie or a bow tie- it’s too
casual without one
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Cocktail attire outfit variation #2
Cocktail Attire For Men at a Wedding
Even though the above guidelines for cocktail
attire may seem a bit subdued, they will be
appropriate for the majority of weddings. The
result of the cocktail attire dress code is that you
will be elegantly and respectfully attired for the
occasion without being flashy or otherwise
drawing attention away from the focus of the day
– the bride and groom. Unless you have
information suggesting otherwise, such as a
beach or barn location, you can’t go wrong with
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traditional cocktail attire at a wedding.
Navy suit with burgundy grenadine tie
If the bridegroom is a flamboyant artist or
someone who wears shorts and t-shirt, no matter
what, try to adjust your outfit so you will not be
completely out of place: For an artist wedding, go
with more colorful accessories and for a
completely informal wedding, skip the tie and just
wear a combination with a dark jacket and lighter
colored slacks – again, it is their day so you
should try not to catch much attention with your
outfit.
What Should Men Wear to a Cocktail
Party?
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Single-breasted suit with a bold shirt is a good
choice for a cocktail party
Interestingly, most women understand the attire
required for such an event due to the aptly named
cocktail dress (often black), whereas it is not as
clear for men what attire they should wear to a
cocktail party. Unfortuntanely, the cocktail party
and cocktail attire do not go hand in hand, and
you will need to make a judgement about the
nature of the event before you decide what to
wear.
If the event suggests a dress code, then go with
it. If not, consider that cocktail parties are
supposed to be relaxed occasions, and although
not wrong per se, a classic dark suit such as navy
or charcoal is probably a tad too formal. During
the winter, you can wear flannel, with patterns,
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and maybe a bow tie. Be more daring than with
your business wardrobe and pay attention to
accessories such as cuff links, tie bars, pocket
squares, boutonnieres… but don’t overdo it and
only use two accents at the most.
During the warmer months of the year, you can go
with lighter colors, such as the light blue linen
sport coat below.
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Traditional Cocktail Attire in the 1930s
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Cocktail Party Suits
Fashion illustrations are a window into a bygone
era when every man seemed to be dressed to the
nines. The following fashion illustration is from
1936, the golden age of men’s classic style, and
shows us a nice mix of cocktail attire for men that
would still work today. This illustration clearly
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shows the evolution of women’s dress since the
30’s, since these women are wearing hats and
suits that were then considered everyday attire
rather than business wear. If the party is during
the day or in the afternoon, you can add more
color and patterns to your outfit, although the
basics mentioned in the list above apply here as
well. In the evening, you can wear darker suits,
fewer patterns, and more muted colors.
The Stroller With Striped Trousers for Formal Day
Event
Let’s start on the very left with the gentleman in
the stroller. He leans by the fireplace, talking to
the lady in red. Of course, this is an illustration,
but note how neatly his coat fits around the collar,
shoulders and cuffs. There are neither gaps nor
excess shirt cuff fabric to be seen. His stroller
jacket is the typical single-breasted, peaked lapel
style with two buttons and jetted pockets in a
charcoal gray (this jacket is also found in black).
Instead of a pocket square, he opted for a red
carnation that goes well with his buff waistcoat,
white shirt, and light blue tie. His trousers are
striped but instead of the more common cashmere
stripe, a special stripe for morning wear that does
not really have anything to do with cashmere, he
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chose a wide stripe in black and white. Even
though his shoes aren’t visible, they are probably
black oxfords to match the colors in his outfit and
the formality of this look. This cocktail outfit used
to be particularly popular for wear on Sunday
afternoons and was often seen at the smartest
cocktail bars. Today, the stroller is definitely the
most formal of all the cocktail suits yet different
than another flannel blazer combination or a navy
suit.
Windowpane Overplaid Sharkskin Suit – Great For
Most Cocktail Parties
One of the highlights in this illustration is
certainly the suit in the middle, featuring a large
rust brown subdued windowpane overplaid on a
grey sharkskin suit. Worn as a 3-piece suit with an
ivory colored shirt and navy-red club tie, the
proportions of this suit are very moderate. It has a
normal lapel width and gorge, round quarters and
a fairly long jacket. In my opinion, windowpane
suits are one of the most underrated outfits in
menswear and hence, they are an ideal chance for
you to differentiate yourself without being overly
loud. As a general rule, you should keep in mind
that the more patterns and colors (other than
navy and grey) you have in your outfit, the less
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formal it will be. All of the suits shown here would
be appropriate attire for 95% of cocktail parties.
Wide Stripe Worsted Flannel Suit – An Option for
Evening Events
On the very right, we have a gentleman in a suit
with yet another large pattern: the wide-spaced
colored stripe. The red stripes inspired the rest of
his dress, choosing a red boutonniere and
Bordeaux tie. This three-piece flannel suit with
stripes benefits from the peaked lapels, which
provide a little more formality. If the lady in blue
were to step aside, you would see that the
trousers of this suit are without cuffs, which
raises the formality bar by another notch.
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Striped Worsted Flannel
In combination with a white crisp shirt collar, this
outfit would be almost bank appropriate, expect
for the wide colored stripes.
Nevertheless, I think it is a fantastic stripe and
hence I wanted to provide you with a picture of an
authentic cloth sample. As you can see, the stripe
is more subdued than in the illustration, which
makes it even more appropriate for a cocktail suit
that is different yet elegant.
Conclusion
When cocktail attire is called for as the dress
code at your next event, now you know what you
need to wear to look and feel great. At a wedding,
try to be properly dressed without being too flashy
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and always keep the bride and groom in mind. For
cocktail parties and receptions, leave your
business navies and grays in the closet and add a
splash of color. If you have a vest – even a
contrasting one – wear it if it pairs well with the
suit. I hope I provided you with some food for
thought for cocktail attire for your next reception
– have fun and enjoy company and drinks!
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