Flemington Jewish Community Center 5 Sergeantsville Road Flemington, New Jersey 08822 (908) 782-6410 Fax: (908) 806-7736 office@flemingtonjcc.org www.flemingtonjcc.org June 2016/24 Iyar – 24 Sivan 5776 FJCC BOARD OF DIRECTORS Spiritual Leader PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE Rabbi Evan Jaffe ז''ל rabbi@flemingtonjcc.org Fellow congregants, I want to thank everyone who voted for our congregational budget, and overwhelmingly approved it. I also want to thank those congregants who have Executive Board: President Jeff Doshna contacted our Treasurer, Jonathan Weitz, myself, or other members of the Board, 1st Vice President Neal Wolff with questions. I hope that we have been able address everyone’s concerns, as nd 2 Vice President Mitch Clarin rd transparency is at the core of our new pledge-based model. 3 Vice President Mindy Engle-Friedman For those who have not yet returned their pledge cards, I urge you to do so Secretary Laurence Shatkin Treasurer Jonathan Weitz as soon as possible. Please remember that the need for a Yizkor appeal and Immediate Past President Michael Wolf additional fundraisers to sustain the synagogue depends on all of our members. Elected Trustees: Lifetime Trustees: For example, if everyone contributes at the Sustaining Level, additional requests Jerry Atlas Jack Forman for support will not be necessary. And for those families with the capacity to Scott Byne Dan Gross give at the Pillar and Guardian level, your support is critical to ensure that we can Jim Fox Zel Gerstein continue to keep our synagogue strong. Richard Frank Ed Mehrlust Judy Gold Howard Nifoussi Part of our pledge-based model is the recognition of our donors. A formal Marsha Goldstein Phil Stern invitation will follow, but I want everyone to save the date of June 24 th for us to Steven Greenstein Larry Wissner say thank you. We will acknowledge donors who have fulfilled 2015-2016 Alan Hylton Michael Wolf pledges at the Supporting, Pillar, and Guardian level. Siddurim and Chumashim Marvin Jacobson Ruth Wolf Marta Klepner dedications will also be made at that service. We hope that all of our FJCC Nathan Lefkow Sisterhood President: families will be able to join us. Bruce Moskovitz Reena Gold Kamins Saying thank you is something that we need to improve upon at the FJCC. Jonathan Nemeth I’ve heard from too many congregants that they do not feel appreciated for their Sharon Rednor Bulletin Editor: family’s contribution to our synagogue community. We need to do a better job Sandy Siegel Flo Newrock in recognizing our donors, acknowledging our volunteers for their time, and appreciating our staff when they do a good job. I know that it has been a challenging year for everyone, but the last thing I want us to do is forget to say thank you. This is something we are going to work hard to fix in the months to come. Jeffrey Doshna Each year at this time, Rabbi Jaffe would dedicate his column to publishing the essay submissions from our Sisterhood College Scholarship recipients. To qualify for the scholarship, students must have completed a Bar/Bat Mitzvah project, regularly attend Shabbat or holiday services, volunteer to serve on the High Holydays as a tutor and/or work as a teacher’s aide if possible, and attend a minimum number of Hebrew High classes. Those seniors who have met the requirements are invited to apply for the scholarship by writing a 1000 word essay. As is has been for many years, the topic is “I am a Jew because…” This year, we have two recipients, Melanie Wolff and Ariel Hylton. Here are their words: Melanie Wolff I am a Jew because I was born into a family where my mother was Jewish. But does this automatically make me a Jew? In my mind, this does not necessarily make me a Jew. I believe there is much more to being Jewish than just claiming you are a certain religion or being born into a certain religion. The memories and experiences over the last eighteen years of my life contribute to my definition of why I am a Jew. I remember when I was in the Gimel Hebrew School class about to lead my very first Friday night service alongside my peers. At the end of the service, Rabbi Evan Jaffe, gave each one of us our very first siddur to take home. This was so important to me and being able to practice the prayers within my own home was exciting to me. For eleven years I studied at Hebrew School at the Flemington Jewish Community Center and learned the alef-bet, the brucha over challah and wine, and the history of our Jewish ancestors. I loved going to Hebrew School because it gave me the opportunity to not only learn new things, but to learn about things I could personally relate to as a Jew. Sitting through public school I followed the same curriculum as every other student, but at Hebrew School I got to learn something new that not everyone got the chance to learn--- including learning a new language. Going to 2 Hebrew School for so long gave me the opportunity to meet so many new people and create friendships that will last a lifetime. A great thing about Hebrew School is that you would always have at least one thing in common with everyone else, you are all Jewish. Hebrew school also helped me find my passion for teaching. Once I became a Bat Mitzvah, I started teaching Hebrew School and tutoring students for their Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, and I loved it. I love being able to teach the kids their alef-bet and work with them on Friday night service parts because I remember sitting right where they are learning Hebrew. Teaching Hebrew has given me skills I will use the rest of my life. In addition, getting to know families and our Jewish community always make me feel welcome at the FJCC since I consider these individuals as my friends. The FJCC is a huge part of my life, and the memories I have made here will stay with me forever. I believe a big part of being a Jew is giving. Giving tzedakah and giving back to our community, just like Rabbi Evan Jaffe did throughout his life, is part of my life as well. Rabbi Jaffe taught me that everyone has the opportunity to make a difference in this world, big or small, but it is the people who actually take that opportunity to do this who really stand out. Every year the Hebrew School does two major tzedakah projects, which include collecting money, clothes or cans to donate to organizations to help the people in need. I love giving tzedakah because I know whatever I am giving away is going to someone who needs it much more than I do, and this taught me from a very young age that there are always going to be people who we need our help. I would say tzedakah is a big tradition for Jewish people just like lighting the menorah for eight nights every year, participating in a Passover Seder, and fasting on Yom Kippur. These Jewish traditions are an important part of me as well because they bring my family together and reinforce the values Jewish people possess. My Bat Mitzvah was one of the most important and special days of my life because according to Jewish law, it was when I officially became a Jewish adult. Going through years of Hebrew School and tutoring was all in preparation for this big day in my life. I think it was so special to me because it was a huge milestone for not only me, but for my whole family. It was the first time I read from the Torah, and I enjoyed being able to be a part of such a special tradition. My Bat Mitzvah was a day filled with pride as a Jew as I stood up on the Bimah and read my first aliyah. It reinforced my Jewish identity and expressed my uniqueness as a person because not everyone has a Bar or Bat Mitzvah. I was lucky to have everyone there to celebrate with me and support me as I went through this transformation and achieved this milestone. As I look towards the future, I look forward to carrying out our Jewish traditions with my children. For example, my family has been using the same Haggadahs for our traditional Passover Seder for my entire life. I hope I can read from these same Haggadahs with my children in order to keep our traditions alive for many generations to come. Also, I cannot wait for the day when I get to watch my own children up on the Bimah reciting their first aliyah and knowing how special it really is welcoming them into our community as a Jewish adult. In conclusion, I think being a big part of the Flemington Jewish Community Center, teaching, and participating in Hebrew School, attending services, and giving tzedakah is a big part of why I am a Jew. Being surrounded by such caring people from within the Jewish community at a young age has made me who I am. I feel like I have a second home and a second family when I go to the FJCC. And, I know in my heart I am a Jew because of who has influenced my life the most throughout the Jewish community. I am very proud to be Jewish because it is who I am, and I can't wait to see what my future as a Jew has in store for me! Ariel Hylton I am a Jew because… I am a Jew, just because. I am not saying this because of what I believe in with respect to Judaism; or what I do with respect to Jewish customs. My mother is Jewish, so that means I am Jewish. That’s plain and simple. It sounds plain and simple, yet there is so much more. My life long experiences will forever tell my story and with great pride, why I am a Jew. Tradition is such a wonderful piece of who I am. There are so many Jewish traditions I care for and cherish. I was given my Hebrew name: Zeporah Chanah which means ‘kind bird’. I am named after my great grandmother Fannie Finkle Hayfer and Grandfather Kurt Emil Hylton. They believed in their faith, continuously performed Mitzvot, were very active in their communities, and held various leadership positions in their synagogues. I was proud and honored to be a part of such an engaged family and wanted to see how I could be just like them. Their names and practices are a part of me. I have carried on their lives in my synagogue and home. Even though I was not with them at their Passover Seders or family gatherings, I am able to envision their ways of Judaism in my life. I have been a member of the FJCC since my birth with my mom and dad; I have strong ties to our synagogue and maintain my involvement as a leader in our youth group, Hebrew School, and congregation. As I develop my own Jewish beliefs, I am able to learn more about myself and who I have become. This is why I am a Jew. At the Flemington Jewish Community Center, I began as a young girl in Ka-ton-ton. I learned how to say the blessings for the wine, challah, and Shabbat candles. I remember I would come home from Sunday school and immediately tell my parents what I learned. I was excited. Although at the time, I was very shy—Rabbi Jaffe was very encouraging. “Alan…Debbie… Not to worry. Ms. Ariel will be on the bimah someday. It might take time.” I wanted to go on the bimah, but it wasn’t necessarily my time to 3 move away from pews. After the numerous nudges and taps on the shoulder, I stepped onto the bimah. I could not take it one more time and knew it was time to move on. I am so incredibly happy once I did. I am a Jew. As I made my way to 3rd grade, I learned how to read Hebrew. I was prepared to go up to the bimah to lead the congregation at Shabbat Services and receive my very own Sim Shalom Siddur. At that time, I lead my first service with my Hebrew School class. When I think about it, not everyone can say they know how to read Hebrew. It has taken me years to perfect reading Hebrew after working with my Hebrew School teachers and my parents. It is a different language with a unique and artful alphabet. I can say that as a Jew, I feel unique. I am able to share my faith and religious beliefs with others who are unaware of what Judaism truly is. I like that. It makes me feel good to share my Jewish upbringing with them. I am a Jew and I am proud. There was a lot to study leading to the day of my Bat Mitzvah. By now, I have gained more confidence in myself and embraced my Jewish identity more than ever. Rabbi Jaffe was certainly right when he told my parents that in time I would gain the confidence to approach the bimah and lead services. That day I did it all. I felt the best I’ve ever felt. My Jewish heritage, Jewish traditions, and various celebrations all stem from the birth of my Jewish mother. I am a Jew because. It amazes me to see how I have grown as a person. There have been so many opportunities for me, yet one in particular stands out the most. It stands out the most because I was able to travel with Rabbi Jaffe. Let’s face it, how many can say that they’ve traveled with their rabbi—let alone even wanting to travel with their Rabbi. I completed the extensive application and was on my way. This experience changed my life and made me feel even more connected to my Jewish faith. I traveled to Washington D.C. and participated in a program called Panim el Panim: Face to Face. Panim el Panim is a three-day seminar that explores the Connection between public policy, advocacy, and Jewish values. This program gave me the opportunity along with other 10th through 12th graders from across the country with strong ideals, enthusiasm, and commitment to make change. I was able to speak with Congressman Leonard Lance and truly told him what my group and I would like to see in Hunterdon County. Rabbi A.Y Kook once stated, “I don’t speak because I have the power to speak; I speak because I don’t have the power to remain silent.” My words can change the community for the better. One cannot do this every day. But I was given this opportunity to do mitzvoth and to gain a better understanding of the world outside my local community. I not only spoke with Congressman Leonard Lance, but also spoke with those less fortunate. I provided them with items necessary to live a life full of spirit and connection to their own communities. My background on Judaism and doing mitzvoth allowed me to put my knowledge into our world. With this thought in mind, I am proud of my participation at the Flemington Jewish Community Center. I am an active member and part of that is doing mitzvoth. I do make that very effort a priority. I have grown to learn how to do more than opening a door; I now have the confidence to open those doors for others in my neighboring communities. Rabbi Jaffe was able to do that for me. He gave me the opportunity to practice my religion, stand up for myself in difficult situations, and do mitzvoth. Rabbi Jaffe is the core of my Jewish identity. Without him in my life, I would not be the Jewish adult I am today. Reading Torah, teaching students how to embark on their journeys to becoming their own Jewish adults, and the list continues. He made such a huge impact on my own life and I want to be able to do the same for others. No matter what the case was, Rabbi treated everyone with respect and care. I am honored and extremely grateful to say that I was able to know Rabbi Jaffe. His warm heart and telling smile gave me hope for all the good I can do for humanity. I want to thank the Flemington Jewish Community Center Sisterhood for this generous scholarship. Also, thank you to all my Hebrew School teachers—Mrs. Kleiman, Mrs. Kesselhaut, Mrs. Nussbaum, Mrs. Berkman, Mrs. Shapiro, Mrs. Gross, Mr. Silberman, Mrs. Walsh, and Mrs. Kamins. You have given me the foundation of my commitment to Judaism. As I begin the next chapter of my life at Syracuse University, I will bring my Jewish faith and traditions. I want to be able to show my own life and story to others who care as much about Judaism as I do. I will continue to read Torah and perhaps I can inspire those who have not engaged themselves in Jewish life to connect them as I have. I will continue to light the Shabbat candles. I will continue to be a Jew because that is a part of my identity. I am a Jew because. 4 SISTERHOOD PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE Mazel Tov to Robin Alexander, Sisterhood’s Woman of the Year 2016. A great many people made the event possible, and I think it’s important to recognize them. Our events would not happen without the thought, funds, effort, and time our community commits. Volunteering and/or joining committees is not about being part of a clique; it’s about sustaining the FJCC. Our support comes from a varied group, and I hope you will consider joining it. My sincerest thanks to: Barbara Clarin and Debbie Hylton, amazing co-chairs who consistently made me laugh out loud and put the needs of others before their own. Sophie Shor for sponsoring a stunning gift for every attendee; for reciting the motzi; for leading by example; and for teaching us about grace and generosity. Alissa Fox for sponsoring our centerpieces and enabling us to provide an abundance of produce to the Flemington Food pantry, for having a big heart, and for continually supporting the community. Andrea Byne (and Hunterdon Gastroenterology Associates) for her continued support of Sisterhood, her beautiful voice, and her overall coolness. Cara London, Gil Rosen, Mary Clare Lewy, and Rose Merhlust for their design visions, aesthetic sensibilities, and tremendously generous spirits. Kelley Ellenberg, Jodi Weitz, Robin Alexander, Marsha Gerstein, Gil Rosen, Cara London, Julia Sirota, and Leah Greenstein for setting up and transforming the room. Elana Korn for a meal that was thoughtfully planned and artfully prepared, for her sincerity, and for baklava that was truly heavenly. Rachel Liebman, Jonathan Weitz, Mike Kawas, Brad Cohen, Mitch Clarin, and Monica Jakubowski for pitching in on Sunday morning to cover the last minute things that always pop up. Rich Frank, Matt Schutz, David Goldman, Zel Gerstein, Alan Hylton, and Nate Lefkow for having singles and small bills in their wallets. Monica Jakubowski, Nomi Forman, Jane Wasserman, and Debbie Hylton for securing fabulous items for the WOTY and our raffle tables. Elise Cohen and Andrea Byne for their superior sales and basket carrying skills, and for their consistent willingness to help. Kim Muller and Kimi Mittler for greeting everyone with a smile, always. We could not have executed a memorable event without everyone above. I am truly grateful for your contributions. I would also like to recognize, and I think it’s important for our community to recognize, the local merchants who have supported Sisterhood and therefore the FJCC. A Cut Above Salon Attachments Be Here Now Yoga Capuano Restaurant Coco’s Café & Gelato Crystal & Co. Salon Debbie Hylton and Silpada Flemington Department Store GameU HealthQuest Jody Reich and Camp Experts Joe’s Pizza Occasions Retro Fitness Roman Jewelers Sherman & Sons Jewelers ShopRite of Flemington Starbucks of Flemington Stephanie’s Village Salon The Market Roost The Nail Experts Top Line Nails It was wonderful to see the social hall filled with laughter and levity. I hope to see all of you at next year’s WOTY event. Reena Kamins Sisterhood President 5 Our Focus Group Meetings with consultant, Judy Beck, will begin next Wednesday, June 1. We hope these meetings will offer an opportunity for members of the shul with particular experience and interests to share their unique perspectives. We expect that the future of the FJCC, the qualities needed in our future permanent rabbinical leadership and initiatives we might undertake to enhance our synagogue community will be discussed. The group composition and group meeting times have been changed to accommodate your suggestions. Please see the updated schedule of focus groups below. Focus Group Schedule – Updated Wednesday June 1 3:00 – Those who are AARP eligible 4:30 - Teens 6:00 – FJCC Board of Directors Monday, June 6 4:15 – Parents of teens, college age, and adult children 5:30 - Past FJCC Presidents 7:00 - Past Sisterhood Presidents Wednesday, June 8 4:30 - Parents of young children (changed from 1:00) 5:45 - Hebrew School Teachers 7:00 - Parents of Bar/Bat Mitzvah age children Wednesday, June 15 5:00 – Intermarried couples 6:30 – Singles 7:45 - Working people As always, the RSC welcomes your questions and thoughts on the candidates and process. 6 AROUND THE SYNAGOGUE MAZEL TOV TO: Ilyssa & Steve Fox on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter, Emily Robin Alexander for being named Sisterhood Woman of the Year Ariel Hylton for being chosen Youth of the Year by the Flemington Exchange Club Liz & Ray Slavin on their 50th wedding anniversary Anneliese & Howard Nifoussi on the engagements of their daughter, Jenna, and their son, Jake OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO: Sharon & Ken Brooks and family on the loss of Sharon’s beloved father, Milton Frant RABBI EVAN JAFFE UNVEILING The unveiling for my husband, Rabbi Evan Jaffe, will be held on Sunday, July 17 th, at 11:30, at the Flemington Jewish Community Center Cemetery on Capner Street, opposite the Middle School field. Following the unveiling, I would like to invite you for refreshments, at The Pavilion at Mine Brook Park. I have decided to open it up to all congregants, as he was so much a part of your lives, as you were a part of his. Warmly, Phyllis 2016 WOMAN OF THE YEAR Thank you to the FJCC Sisterhood for honoring me as the 2016 Woman of the Year. I would like thank all the previous Women of the Year for this lovely honor. I will wear my new title with pride, and I love and appreciate all the fantastic gifts I was given. So many more thanks go to our Sisterhood president Reena Kamins, co-chairs Barbara Clarin and Debbie Hylton, Sophie Shor for the lovely necklace, and Elana Korn who spent countless hours cooking our lunch. Thank you also to all the volunteers who helped make this event so wonderful. I want to say a special thank you to Debbie for her beautiful words and getting my kids to write amazing things. Thank you to my daughters, Casey and Jamie, who came back to New Jersey and hid all weekend in order to surprise me. Thank you to my husband Jeff and my son Jordan for keeping this amazing secret. Thank you to my sister Linda and brother-in-law Rob, and my dearest friend Peony for coming to celebrate. I was truly surprised and am very honored to be a part of the FJCC Sisterhood. Robin Alexander _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ HEBREW SCHOOL HAPPENINGS With just two more classes it is hard to believe that this year is coming to a close. It has been a challenging year for teachers, assistants, parents and students. We all miss Rabbi Jaffe but did not let his absence stop us from working together in Hebrew School this year. It may appear that it was seamless, but truth be told, there were many behind the scenes meetings and many emails in an effort to balance continuity with change. I want to thank Adah Radzin, Barbara Clarin, Deborah Kesselhaut, Kimi Mittler, Laurie Rapkin, Lois Gross, and Saul Katz for their dedication and hard work. The teaching assistants went above and beyond filling in the gaps. They took over services in the sanctuary at the end of Hebrew School, created new and enhanced established programs, and put in extra time tutoring this year. I want to thank them for all their contributions: Ariel Hylton, Ben Doshna, Ben Kestenbaum, Bradley Fox, Brandon Wolff, Cydney Cohn, Hannah Rosenberg, Jake Clarin, Jenna Clarin, Josh Ellenberg, Julia Sirota, Marjorie Rednor, Melanie Wolff, Noah Doshna, Olivia Kleiman, Rebecca Pearlman, and Sam Szych. We are counting up the tzedakah for Family Promise, and between students' contributions and a donation from a parent we will have about $500 for this summer. To the Hebrew School parents: you will be billed the Registration and Program (RP) Fee in June. All RP Fees are due by July 22nd. Please make this payment in a timely fashion (there is a $25.00 per student late fee) to allow the teachers and me to get our book and supply orders in place. If you need to make special financial arrangements, please contact Jonathan Weitz, jonathanwweitz@gmail.com. I have switched to my summer hours, and will work from home often. The best way to reach me is by email. Have a happy, healthy, wonderful summer. Karen Walsh 7 MAZEL TOV TO OUR 2016 GRADUATES Nursery School Samantha Farber Sarah Farber Fourth Grade Jason Cohen Samuel Freed Leah Rudolph Zachary Rudolph Middle School Jason Gertzman Seth Leibowitz Ben Melanson Kylie Mittler Ethan Rosen Rachel Rosenberg Eighth Grade Joshua Ellenberg Zachary Kesselhaut Jacqueline Kestenbaum Amira Kleiman Nathaniel Nemeth Ethan Rednor Elyse Szych Hanna Szych Samantha Wilk High School Hayley Fico from Hunterdon Central Regional High School. She will be attending The University of Delaware. Ethan Gertzman Ariel Hylton from Hunterdon Central Regional High School. She will be attending Syracuse University’s College of Arts and Sciences where she will study Communication Sciences and Disorders (Speech pathology and Audiology) Marjorie Rednor from Rutgers Preparatory School. She will begin studying engineering at Trinity College in Hartford CT Blake Schipper from Hunterdon Central Regional High School as an NJ STARS scholarship recipient. He will be attending Raritan Valley Community College in the fall majoring in Business. Phoebe Stein Alex Wasserman Melanie Wolff from Hunterdon Central Regional High School. She will be attending Millersville University of Pennsylvania with a dual major in Early Elementary Education and Special Education College Jordan Alexander from Quinnipiac University in December with an MBA. He is now working at Merrill Lynch. Emily Clarin from Goucher College with a Bachelor’s in Spanish. She is graduating with high honors and has been inducted into Phi Beta Kappa honor Society. Danielle Rubin from the University of Pennsylvania Matthew Winnick from SUNY Buffalo Post Graduate Alissa McInerney from George Washington Medical School Chloe Stein with an MS in Nonprofit Management from The Milano School of International Affairs, management and Urban Policy at the New School 8 CONTRIBUTIONS Tzedakah is always “in season.” If you have an event coming up such as an anniversary, a birthday, a yahrzeit, etc., it’s a mitzvah to contribute to your favorite fund. You can send your check to the FJCC office with a note telling us where you would like the money used. Some of the funds that you can donate to are: Building Fund, General Fund, Kiddush Fund, Prayer Book Fund, Hebrew School, Shmuel F Frand Memorial Holocaust Education Fund, and Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund. Do a mitzvah – send a donation. Todah rabah to all those who made donations to: GENERAL FUND th Sam Cohen in honor of the 50 wedding anniversary of Liz and Ray Slavin Vivian & Fred Daniel in memory of Milton Frant, beloved father of Sharon Brooks Lori Findley for the yahrzeit of her beloved nephew, Edward Mahony Iris & Bernie Goldband in honor of the 50th wedding anniversary or Liz and Ray Slavin Reginald Greene in honor of the 50th anniversary of Liz and Ray Slavin Jami Miller for the yahrzeit of her beloved father, Louis Rosenbrock Marla & Matthew Potter in honor of the 50 th wedding anniversary of Liz and Ray Slavin Amy & Seth Rubin: For a mazel tov to Alissa and Jim Fox on the engagement of their son, Jonathan, to Michelle For a mazel tov to Anneliese and Howard Nifoussi on the engagement of their daughter, Jenna, and the engagement of their son, Jake In memory of Celia Lerner, beloved mother of Phyllis Lerner In memory of Dr. Gerald Barad In memory of Katherine Formica, beloved mother of Rose Mehrlust Ruth & Robert Sandak in honor of the 50 th wedding anniversary of Liz and Ray Slavin Cathie & Art Wetstein in honor of the 50th wedding anniversary of Liz and Ray Slavin BUILDING FUND Marsha & Zel Gerstein: In memory of Milton Frant, beloved father of Sharon Brooks In memory of Stuart Kamich, beloved brother of Bruce HOLOCAUST EDUCATION FUND Sue & Rick Rothstein in memory of Milton Frant, beloved father of Sharon Brooks Mona & Eric Yorke in honor of the adult education program sponsored by Sharon Brooks KIDDUSH FUND Sarah & Richard Frank: For a happy 70th birthday to Sam Einstein In memory of Milton Frant, beloved father of Sharon Brooks Malka Goodman for the yahrzeit of her beloved father, Samuel Linsenbaum In memory of Milton Frank, beloved father of Sharon Brooks Cathie & Art Wetstein in memory of Milton Frant, beloved father of Sharon Brooks _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ JEWISH LIFE (Learning Is For Everyone) Jewish LIFE thanks everyone for their support of the Show your support of Israel and your blue and white 2015-2016 season. Planning is underway for the new season spirit…the annual Celebrate Israel Day Parade in NYC is of our community-wide Jewish Adult Education program, Sunday, June 5. which will begin in the fall. The 2016-2017 Jewish LIFE brochure will be published in the early Fall. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ JOB SEEKERS SUPPORT GROUP Jewish Family Service is offering a special Job Seekers Support Group in Hunterdon County. This group will be held on Thursday, June 16, from 10:00 AM.-12:00 noon, at The Family Success Center, 87 Park Avenue, Flemington, N.J. The topic for this group is “Creating your Target List” presented by Elise Prezant, Career Counselor, JFS. This group is offered free of charge and is open to the entire community. Funding for this program is provided by a grant from The United Way of Hunterdon County. Space is limited and registration is required. To register, please contact Elise Prezant at 908-725-7799 X108 or eprezant@JewishFamilySvc.org. 9 10 June 2016 24 Iyar 5776 - 24 Sivan 5776 Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday 1 Thursday 2 Friday 3 Focus Group Meetings: 3:00 - AARP eligible 4:30 Teens 6:00 FJCC Board of Directors 24 Iyar/39 L'Omer 5 §9:11PM 6 YOM YERUSHALAYIM Services 9:00 8 Focus Group Meetings: 4:15 - Parents of teens, college age, & adult children 5:30 - Past FJCC Presidents 7:00 - Past Sisterhood Presidents ROSH HODESH 29 Iyar/44 L'Omer 1 Sivan/45 L'Omer 28 Iyar/43 L'Omer 12 7 §9:15PM/¡¡9:15PM 13 SHAVUOT §9:16PM 14 6 Sivan 19 7 Sivan 20 2 Sivan/46 L'Omer 8 Sivan 21 3 Sivan/47 L'Omer 16 §9:15PM/¡¡9:15PM EREV SHAVUOT Bemidbar 4 Sivan/48 L'Omer 17 5 Sivan/49 L'Omer ¡¡8:14PM 18 Services 7:30 §9:17PM Naso Services 9:15 Kiddush: Kleiman Family 9 Sivan 22 27 Iyar/42 L'Omer ¡¡8:11PM 11 Services 7:30 Services 9:15 Focus Group Meetings: 5:00 - Intermarried couples 6:30 - Singles 7:45 - Working people Services 9:00 §9:10PM Behukotai Services 9:15 26 Iyar/41 L'Omer 10 Focus Group Meetings: 4:30 - Parents of young children 5:45 - Hebrew School Teachers 7:00 - Parents of B/B Mitzvah age children 15 SHAVUOT II (YIZKOR) 25 Iyar/40 L'Omer 9 Saturday ¡¡8:07PM 4 Services 7:30 Sisterhood Scholarship Recipients Speeches 10 Sivan 23 11 Sivan 24 Services 9:00 ¡¡8:16PM 25 Services 7:30 12 Sivan §9:19PM Behaalotekha Services 9:15 13 Sivan 26 14 Sivan 27 15 Sivan 28 16 Sivan 29 17 Sivan 18 Sivan 19 Sivan 30 Services 9:00 20 Sivan 21 Sivan 22 Sivan 23 Sivan 24 Sivan [¡¡Candle Lighting, §Observance End for Flemington, NJ] We need congregational participation for Oneg and Kiddush sponsorship! Do you have a Yahrzeit coming up or a Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversary, birthday, or any occasion to sponsor an ONEG/KIDDUSH? It doesn’t have to be a fancy feast or expensive. Be creative, prepare the food in the FJCC kitchen, pick up kosher food at ShopRite, or simply send in a check and the shopping will be done for you. Please call Lori in our office 782-6410 or email office@flemingtonjcc.org and let her know what date you will sponsor. Gift Shop June is busting out all over with good times. Graduations, weddings, Bar and Bat Mitzvah, Father’s Day, and birthdays are all occasions the shop can help you get presents. We’ve got beautiful jewelry for men and women, t-shirts, books and toys, all religious items including candlesticks, Kiddush cups, challah plates, mezuzot, and anything else you desire. We are open during Hebrew School and regular office hours. Please fill out a receipt and leave it, along with your check made out to FJCC Gift Shop, and in the office. Thanks to Kim Muller for volunteering in May. Your Gift Case Committee: Lois Gross Gayle Neibart 11 12 13 14 JUNE BIRTHDAYS 1 - William Rosen 2 - Joshua Butt - Nathan Lefkow 3 - David Levine 4 - Dina Klepner 5 - Lisa Martin 6 - Marjorie Rednor - Joan Rogow 7 - Jeffrey Alexander - Sarah Sornstein 10 - Josy Kestenbaum 11 - Emily Clarin 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 - Rachel Farber Scott Gerstein Scott Liebman Lenore Levine Craig Sirota John N. Fellin Ilene Weinstein Mark Weinstein Antje Doyle Brian Kamins Andrea Wissner Neila Green 18 - Ronit Zilberboim 19 - Dan Gross 22 - Barry Mittler - Aaron Frank - Scott Schipper - Ruth Wolf 24 - Jonathan Griffith 25 - Ira Arden 26 - Marjorie Rednor 29 - Jack Forman - Charlotte Griffith - Brandon Hubert JUNE ANNIVERSARIES 1 4 5 8 11 12 13 15 17 - Joan & Milton Rosen Mona & Dein Shapiro Joyce & Scott Schindler Nancy & Laurence Shatkin Shellie & Marvin Jacobson Rhonda Krupen & Howard Goldin Stacey Gould & Richard Goodman Suzanne & Steve Kalafer Donna & Ricky Braff Andrea & Scott Byne 18 19 20 25 26 - Sharon & Austin Rednor Staci & Scott Schipper Sharon & Ken Skowronek Leah & Steven Greenstein Sue & Steve Rubin Nancy & Frank Rumore Cathie & Art Wetstein Mindy & Eliot Friedman Elise & Phillip Franklin JUNE YAHRZEITS 1 2 3 4 5 6 8 9 10 11 12 - Anne Lubowsky Sophie Rappaport Sylvia Stolpen Temie Nussbaum Renay Salamon Isaiah Shapiro Walter Likuski David Alan Daniels Shelley Goldstein-Groussis Felix Huber Victory Lonsk Ruth Radzin Goldie Goldstein Leonard Hurwitz Saul Weisser Bill Blaher Morton Engle Emil Neibart Kurt Goldman Rabbi Jeffrey Weisblatt Hyman Chantz Eva Klepner Emanuel Salzberg Nancy Taub Mamie Kaminowitz Irving Kay Julia Affrime Harry Arcus 12 13 14 15 16 17 19 20 21 - Abram Kaplan Charles Levinston Natale Formica Irving Kaplan Dan Richman Barnet Taylor Joseph Arden Helen Jampel Sylvia Spiegel Martin Reich Anna Chantz Nicholas Goldman Jennie Silver Goldstein Jacob Resnick Lillian Weinstein Moses Auerbach Millie Orlin Gus Goodman Rita Kuchinsky Austin Kutscher Rebecca Landau Stanley Strober Flora Jacobson Isadore Kanter Abe Norinsky Victoria Wakefield Harold Levin Bessie Triber 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 29 30 - Harriet Wolfson Yetta Fersht Pauline Sage Ira Stolpen Tekla Daniel Max Lubowsky Lena Rachel Seligman Bernard Weschler Ida Brody Harry Camerman Norbert Hubert Arthur Pressman Mary Levine Sacks Samuel Stein Kenneth Ellentuch David Zucker Newton Brooks Edith Hylton Abraham Lieberman Shirley Shiffman Mildred Stempler Edith Weinstein Rivia Hurwith Shirley Richman Ian Arcus Milton Asher Yahrzeit candles are lit the night before the yahrzeit is observed. PLEASE NOTE: If your birthday, anniversary, or yahrzeit information is missing or incorrect, please bring or mail your information to the FJCC office, or email it to Flo Newrock so it can be included in future bulletins. 15 16 Flemington Jewish Community Center 5 Sergeantsville Road Flemington NJ 08822