Page 1 The Monthly Publication of Congregation Beth El of Bucks County May/June 2016 Nisan/Iyar 5776 Hello, We just celebrated the holiday of Passover or Pesach. This is one of my favorite holidays for several reasons. First, it has a strong home based element in the Seder. I have great memories of walking home from school the days immediately prior to the first Seder and smelling my mother’s homemade gefilte fish cooking on the stove. For many reading this, making gefilte fish by grinding the pike and whitefish, rolling into balls and cooking for hours seems from a bygone era and I guess it is today. But walking into a home with that aroma engulfing you for me was wonderful. SCHEDULE OF SERVICES Morning Minyan Sunday ......................................... 8:00am Monday - Friday .......................... 7:00am Evening Minyan Monday - Thursday .................... 7:30pm Shabbat Services Friday ...........................................6:00pm Saturday .................................... 9:30am Secondly, the ritual. All holidays have it, and part of our ritual started several SYNAGOGUE OFFICE HOURS days before the first Seder when it was my job to bring the Passover dishes down from the attic. We were not a very observant family, nor did we keep Monday - Thursday ..... 8:30am - 4:30pm kosher throughout the year. But for this holiday, we followed strict halachic Friday .......................... 8:30am - 2:00pm laws; only kosher meats, no mixing of meat or dairy and we used glass dishes throughout the week. Another tradition was to have guests at our Seder table. With a family of seven, we already started with a sizeable crowd, but rarely do I BUBBES’ JUDAICA recall a Seder with just us. There were always extended family members and SHOP HOURS we were encouraged to bring friends, Jewish or not. My father held court over the Seder and we followed the Haggadah page by page. My favorite part of the Sundays .......................... 9:00 am - noon Wednesdays .................10:00 am - noon Seder was the singing. Now if you have heard me sing in shul, you know it is not one of my greatest talents, nor was it my father’s. But during the Seder, our Fridays ...........................10:00 am - noon family left it all on the table each night. There are certain melodies that I have To schedule an appointment, please imparted to my children that are traditional Weissman family tunes. contact Michelle Flash at Like many holidays, Passover to me is about family. Being the youngest of five, I was the last to leave the house, but for many years it was the only time all seven of us would be together. No matter where we were living, we made a special effort to be home for Seder. That lesson has not been lost as we do whatever possible to be sure our children are with us during Passover. Sitting around the table, singing, laughing and enjoying the moment is as important to me as telling the story of the Exodus from Egypt. Being around a Seder table is our way of ensuring the story is told every year and will continue to the next generation. May we go from strength to strength. B’shalom, Leon michelleflash@me.com UPCOMING EVENT INFORMATION Check out Our Event Calendar http://www.bethelyardley.org/ info/calendar.html Page 2 Class of 2016 On behalf of Congregation Beth El and the Eric J. Marinoff Memorial College Outreach Fund, we congratulate all of our Graduates! The College Outreach program attempts to maintain a connection between Beth El’s college age students and their heritage and traditions and to foster their Jewish identity. We will present our high school graduates with a special gift to take with them to college. We hope to bring a little of the holidays to our college students by sending them packages throughout the year. We ask all of our members with children in college to contact the office with their children’s addresses while in college so that their children can partake in the program. It is our hope that Eric’s legacy encourages others to proudly continue to participate in Jewish customs while in college and beyond. High School Graduates Aaron Albuck, son of Mindy & Rick Albuck Eric Bardfeld, son of Penny & Lenny Bardfeld Sophie Freedman, daughter of Melissa & Jeff Freedman Carly Fried, daughter of Alexis & Mark Fried Georgia Gobora, daughter of Jill & Ed Gobora Sam Gritz, son of Janice & Stewart Gritz Michael Kanner, son of Carrie Matez & Mark Strauss and Amy & Larry Kanner Noah Sadoff, son of Beth & Ari Sadoff Jeremy Schachter, son of Phyllis & Larry Schachter Lindsay Waksman, daughter of Lisa & Jason Waksman Jeanette Weinberg, daughter of Michelle & Michael Weinberg Eli Weinberger, son of Meredith Sherman & Michael Weinberger Our Beth El High School Graduates will be attending a variety of colleges in the Fall including American University, Barnard College, George Washington University, Shippensburg University, Stevens Institute of Technology, Syracuse University, Tulane University, and University of Maryland College Graudates Rebecca Caplan, granddaughter of Herb Schwarz graduating from Ithaca College Dan Knopfmacher, son of Susan & Lewis Knopfmacher graduating from University of Pittsburgh Swanson School of Engineering Natan Weinberger, son of Meredith Sherman & Michael Weinberger graduating from McGill University Page 3 Education & Youth The Force was with Beth El for Purim. Star Wars Purim was a great success. It was an evening of community and celebration. To kick it off the FJLC students made costumes and enjoyed a parade to show off their creativity. We had an evening of Ruach with over 150 members and guests enjoying dinner. The 10th Grade Ha’Moadon students performed a Purim play for the Children’s Service. The kids had a great time sounding the groggers! The Children’s Service wrapped up with the always popular Ice Cream Sundae Party. The night’s festivities continued with the Adult Service and a Megillah Reading by our own Rabbi Obi Wan Kenobi. Thank you to all of the parent volunteers and FJLC teachers who made the night a success!! Wendy Winokur Education VP B’nai Mitzvah at Beth El Hi, my name is Maya Young . My parents are Lauren and Steven Young. I’m becoming a Bat Mitzvah on May 14, 2016. For my Bat Mitzvah project I have been helping out at Pennsbury Falcons Firefly’s Cheer Program. It’s a cheer program for people with special needs. I work with the girls, set up mats, and teach cheers. I have tons of fun there and have met some very nice girls. I enjoy dancing (everywhere), cheerleading, and hanging with my friends. My favorite subject in school is science because I love doing experiments. I take dance at Contempro Dance Theater. I also love baking cookies, cakes, and brownies. I also love decorating cakes. I love Beth El because I get to come two or three times a week to see my friends and family and to learn Hebrew. The teachers have taught me so much over the years and I couldn’t thank them enough. Leading services isn’t scary when you know all the people around you. I consider Beth El my second home. I can’t wait to have my Bat Mitzvah! Hi. My name is Jason Schachter. My parents are Bonnie and Ian Schachter. I am 13 years old and in 7th grade at Murray Avenue Middle School. I will become a Bar Mitzvah at Beth El on June 4, 2016. I like video games, reading, soccer and baseball. I live in Huntingdon Valley with my parents and my brother Aaron. I enjoy getting together with my friends and family. For my Bar Mitzvah project, I have been volunteering for JRA, the Jewish Relief Agency, packaging and delivering boxes of food. I really like delivering the food and I plan to continue volunteering there. Page 4 Join Us for Two Great Friday Evenings! Join Congregation Beth El on Friday, May 6 at 6pm for an awesome Shabbat Following services we will have a Pot Luck Dinner. Please bring a dairy or vegetarian main course, side dish or salad to serve at least 8-10 people to enjoy! RSVP by May 2, 2016. Let us know # of people and what you are bringing. Register at BethElYardley.org or call 215-493-1707 Join us at Beth El on Friday, May 20th at 6pm for Shabbat Services and Confirmation, followed by a celebratory Shabbat dinner. We will have the opportunity to hear from and honor these wonderful teenagers. Tyler Bardfeld, son of Penny & Lenny Bardfeld Raphael Berlin, son of Dalit & Michael Berlin Maya Eley, daughter of Michelle & Tim Eley Benjamin Galing, son of Debbie & Jeff Galing David Galing, son of Debbie & Jeff Galing Rachel Galing, daughter of Debbie & Jeff Galing Noah Kaplan, son of Michael Kaplan Joshua Lubin, son of Deborah & Steven Lubin Andrew Schachter, son of Michelle & Lee Schachter Benjamin Weinberg, son of Liz and Auren Weinberg Sara Weinberg, son of Liz and Auren Weinberg Interested in joining us for Shabbat dinner? $15/Adult, $10/Child $50 maximum/family Contact Karen Lewin, Karen@BethElYardley.org or 215-493-1707 x3 to make a reservation. Page 5 Sisterhood TORAH FUND The Best Ever Spring Sale Nat'ah Karem and she plants a vineyard by her own labors 40% off This year's Torah Fund theme, from the poem Eishet Chayil (Woman of Valor), in chapter 31 of the Book of Proverbs, paints an idealized portrait of a woman of piety, determination, creativity and industry. The phrase, "nat'ah karem" (Proverbs 31:16b) describes an industrious woman as one who organizes and carries out a plan, in this case, planting a vineyard. Her productive activity will benefit future generations. The symbolic power of the planting metaphor is not lost on supporters of Torah Fund. This campaign invites each of us to plant for the future with great foresight. We help to provide Conservative/Masorti communities with well-educated Rabbis and Cantors; Educators and Administrators for Day Schools, Synagogue Schools, Summer Camps, and Synagogues; Social Workers; Professional and Lay Leaders; and Scholars. They bring the religious, spiritual, and educational sustenance that our children and grandchildren will need for the future. Our hope is that each woman in our congregation will consider supporting this important campaign. If you would like to make a gift to this year’s Torah Fund campaign please call Bonnie Abrams at 215.321.0766 or email, babrams157@gmail.com. All payments on pledges must be made by May 31, 2016. Tuesday, May 3rd @ 7:30pm WHO DO YOU LOVE by Jennifer Weiner Tuesday, June 21st @ 7:30pm Saving Sophie by Ronald H. Balson Come & Enjoy! Bring a Friend! Camaraderie, Refreshments & Fun! All are Welcome! All Gift Shop Merchandise Includes all Jewelry and Talitot Don't miss out on this great sale Sale runs the entire month of May Great gifts for Mother's Day and weddings If you are interested in working in the Gift Shop please call or email Michelle Flash at 215-284-5624 or michelleflash@me.com. It's a great way to help the synagogue raise money and meet people at the same time! Page 6 May 12th Come enjoy a musical hour with Katie Eagleson, and listen to a sophisticated set of standards and surprises from the Great American Songbook and Beyond. You’ll hear a little jazz, a Little French, a medley by the Gershwins, and more. It’s sure to please anyone with an appreciation of well-crafted music and lyrics. RSVP to: Sara Pollock 21 Tupelo Lane Langhorne, PA 19047 Cost: Members: $15.00 Non-members: $20.00 Check payable to HAZAK of BETH EL Page 7 Page 8 Please join us on Saturday, June 11, 2016 7:00pm - Study Session #1 with Rabbi Gruenberg Plus Cheesecake & Nosh 8:00pm - Erev Shavuot Service 8:45pm - Study Session #2 with Rabbi Gruenberg 10:00pm Plus More Cheesecake & Nosh DOES THE TORAH TEACH US HOW TO VOTE? In an election year, we look to a lot of places to inform us as we prepare to vote. Perhaps we should be looking in the one place that’s been close to us all along. Additional Shavuot Services: Sunday, June 12th at 9:30am Monday, June 13th at 9:30am with Yizkor Congregation Beth El • 375 Stony Hill Road • Yardley, PA 19067 • (215) 493-1707 • www.BetheElYardley.org Page 9 Men's Club winners of the annual Super Bowl pool This year all prizes were distributed. But men's club still raised some funds. The winners were 1st Quarter Oring 2nd Quarter Fruithandler 3rd Quarter Wachspress Final grand prize Weber Shop at AmazonSmile and Amazon will make a donation to: Congregation Beth El Simply Go to: https://smile.amazon.com/ch/ 23-1538398 Page 10 Keep In Touch! We welcome your ideas and submissions to:The Shofar. Email feedback, articles and pictures to: shofar@bethelyardley.org We make every effort to ensure our information is accurate and up-to-date. If you find that we have made an error or if you have any new contact information, please contact the synagogue office, 215-493-1707 x4 or email shofar@bethelyardley.org If you would like to receive a hard copy of The Shofar via regular U.S. mail, do not hesitate to request an issue to be delivered to your door. Simply call the synagogue office, 215-493-1707 x4 or email shofar@bethelyardley.org MANY THANKS GOES TO… Irma Horowitz for obtaining new, permanent silk flower arrangements for the Koretsky Sanctuary and for ordering flowers for all the holidays Harriet and Phil Freidenreich for their generous donation of the new Lev Shalem prayer books for Congregation Beth El to adopt as our new siddur. Sherry Brooks and family in honor of the birth of her granddaughter, Brooke Morgan Barbara and Steve Saltzmann in honor of the birth of their grandson, Miles Rayden Saltzmann Marsha and Al Zbik in honor of the birth of their grandson, Rowan Lauren & Steven Young and family in honor of their daughter Maya Young who will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, May 14th All of our Confirmands and their families (see page 5) who will be confirmed on Friday, May 20th Bonnie & Ian Schachter and family in honor of their son Jason Schachter who will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, June 4th Ellen & Jerry Schachter and family in honor of their grandson Jason Schachter who will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, June 4th Sid Goldberg, beloved husband of Sylvia Goldberg , father to David Goldberg, father-in-law to Lynne and grandfather to Josh and Alyssa Page 11 The Jewish Federation's food pantry at KleinLife in Northeast Philadelphia is currently seeking volunteers on select Fridays from 10am-1pm as it expands its hours to serve more clients. The Choice Food Pantry at KleinLife features an innovative model where the clients get to choose what food they receive (rather than a pre-packaged box) and use a touchscreen to make their selection. Anyone interested in volunteering can email Jeremy Heller directly at mail@jeremyheller.com. No one really expects the need of having to buy cemetery plots. It is a wonderful benefit of belonging to Congregation Beth El of Yardley. There is no better time to buy than the present time, before you have the need. We want to help you make the choice before the emotional time after a death. Many Funeral directors encourage the pre-need arrangements of all of the aspects of the funeral, burial, and monuments. The Cemetery Committee can offer you the time to select a plot at the cemetery or just by reviewing our plot maps and photographs. King David Memorial Park is located in Bensalem, PA. Beth El has over 400 plots in section R. Many are already owned and reserved. In 2013 the Board of Directors approved the price of $1500 per plot. This is far below the price for the general public making a request at King David. A Family Gravesite includes four plots and costs $6000. These charges are transacted with the synagogue only and you may not deal with King David or other congregants directly for the purchase or sale of any plots in Section R. When a plot is paid in full the owner is granted the rights of sepulcher and these rights are shared with their heirs even if they are not members. Beth El does not sell plots to non-members of the congregation. In the event of an owner moving or not needing their plots, they may return their papers for a refund less 10 % of the purchase price. The price of the plot does not include any services, openings,burial, vault, or monument charges. For more information please call Michael Weinberg, Cemetery Committee Chairman @215-321-1312 We are looking for a Few Good Minyaneers Congregation Beth El holds both morning and evening minyan services open to our members and friends in the community. We invite you to join us and become a regular volunteer. It’s a mitzvah! It’s good for you! It’s good for our community. Morning services: Monday to Friday at 7 AM Evening Services: Monday—Thursday at 7:30 PM Please contact Brian Levey, our Minyan committee leader, to sign up and answer any questions you may have at 267-250-7526 or Email: blevey@datacolor.com or minyan@bethelyardley.org Page 12 Page 13 Thank You For These Generous Donations BUILDING FUND COOK FOR A FRIEND IN MEMORY OF: DONOR: IN MEMORY OF: DONOR: Dorothy Dickstein, mother of Cara Weissman & Aunt of Lee Dickstein, Joy Finkel & Carole Garini Larry & Phyllis Schachter Sally Warner Gloria Rubin Brian & Lois Levey and Family Elaine Schanzer Vivian Berman Irma Horowitz Dorothy Dickstein, mother of Cara Weissman & Aunt Lee Dickstein, Joy Finkel and Carole Garini Maxine “Peggy” Sadoff, mother of Ari Sadoff The Festival of the Arts Committee Philip Kramer Aunt EE & David Steve Garfield’s niece, Linda Shelly & Phyllis Forman Bill Weiss Iris & Buzzy Fenster Shirley Silver Larry & Phyllis Schachter Sid Goldberg, husband of Sylvia Joy & Marc Finkel Goldberg and father to David Goldberg, Cousins Ann Smith & Lois Weinberg father-in-law to Lynne & grandfather to Josh and Alyssa THE ORING FAMILY HESED FUND IN MEMORY OF: DONOR: Irma Horowitz Frank & Barbara Shandelman Joshua Lomas, son of Ben Lomas & grandson of Joy Lomas Gloria & Ed Mittleman Millie Goldberg Selma Spivack & Family Caroline Schlam Sherry Brooks & Randy Flager Dorothy Dickstein, mother of Cara Weissman & aunt of Lee Dickstein, Joy Finkel and Carole Garini Lenora Perlmutter Festival of the Arts Committee Michael Freeman Sid Goldberg, husband of Sylvia Goldberg and father to David Goldberg, father-in-law to Lynne & grandfather to Josh and Alyssa Trudie Solarz May & Art Berger Irma Horowitz Mickey & Marv Dickler Karen, Marc & Matt Shoemaker Sid Goldberg Michelle, Michael & Jeanette Weinberg Peter Hirsch’s mother Irma Horowitz Ruth & Jack Laks IN HONOR OF: DONOR: IN HONOR OF: DONOR: Carol Benderson-Lighter’s “Special” Birthday Jack & Ruth Laks The marriage of Randy Flager’s son Adam to Mallory Schlossberg Larry & Phyllis Schachter The Bat Mitzvah of Lynsie Lightman, daughter of Rob & Bari Lightman Joy & Marc Finkel The marriage of Randy Flager’s daughter Melissa to Conrad Hough Larry & Phyllis Schachter The marriage of Rose & Michael Koretsky’s daughter Jamie’s Larry & Phyllis Schachter The engagement of Randy Flager & Sherry Brooks David, Aaron, Lois & Brian Levey Gloria & Ed Mittleman Marsha Wishnov SPEEDY RECOVERY OF: Gloria Rosenberg The birth of Marsha & Al Zbik’s grandson Rowan Marsha Wishnov The birth of Sherry Brooks’ granddaughter, Brooke Morgan Eleanor Gutbezahl The 65th wedding anniversary of Ruth and Jerry Weiss Michael & Judith Weiner and David & Judy Weiss The Bat Mitzvah of Lynsie Lightman, daughter of Rob & Bari Lightman Sherry Brooks and Randy Flager SPEEDY RECOVERY TO: DONOR: Gary Reiss Sherry Brooks & Randy Flager Rhoda Levine Eleanor Gutbezahl Leon & Cara Weissman RHODA & MORRIS VOLK MEMORIAL FUND IN HONOR OF: DONOR: The birth of Corey David Goldstein, son of Seth & Dara Goldstein Nat & Caren Bosk IN MEMORY OF: Sid Goldberg DONOR: Nat & Caren Bosk & family Page 14 Thank You For These Generous Donations ERIC J. MARINOFF COLLEGE OUTREACH IN MEMORY OF: Dorothy Dickstein, mother of Cara Weissman Aunt of Lee Dickstein, Joy Finkel and Carole Garini DONOR: The Wachspress Family Denise, mother of Traci Brennan Norman & Janet Marinoff Sid Goldberg, husband of Sylvia and Michelle, Alan & Cara Flash father of David Goldberg, father-in-law of Carol Sohmer Lynne & grandfather of Josh and Alyssa Cary & Gary Rosenthal Joan Garber Beverly Rothstein Janet & Norman Marinoff Sara Pollock Michael and Tina RettingCarol Hirsch Hazak Marilyn Stein FIERVERKER EDUCATION FUND IN MEMORY OF: DONOR: Dorothy Dickstein, mother of Cara Weissman & aunt of Lee Dickstein, Joy Finkel & Carole Garini Sid Goldberg, husband of Sylvia Goldberg & father of David Goldberg, father-in-law to Lynne & grandfather to Josh and Alyssa Michelle, Seth & Nina Rosenwald IN HONOR OF: DONOR: The birth of Seth & Dara Goldstein’s son, Corey David Larry & Phyllis, Sam & Jeremy Schachter The engagement of Rabbi Bruce & Shirley Dickstein’s daughter Tamar Roz Kleiman SPEEDY RECOVERY OF: DONOR: Gloria Rosenberg Roz Kleiman Faye Laveson IN APPRECIATION OF: YAHRZEIT OF: Eric Marinoff Janet & Norman Marinoff Reading the Maftir & Haftarah on the Shabbat Ian Senior of my Bar Mitzvah date PEREZ YOUTH SCHOLARSHIP FUND IN HONOR OF: DONOR: The Bat Mitzvah of Dari Goldstein, granddaughter of Margie and Jack Wellerstein Alan Weisgold & Arlene Spevak The Bat Mitzvah of Dari Goldstein, daughter of Sheri & Rob Goldstein and granddaughter of Margie and Jack Wellerstein Norman & Janet Marinoff Arlene’s honor at Dari Goldstein’s bat mitzvah Arlene Spevak & Alan Weisgold The birth of Brooke Morgan Stahl, granddaughter of Sherry Brooks Norman & Janet Marinoff DONOR: Rabbi Gruenberg Tara Weber & Family PRAYER BOOK FUND IN MEMORY OF: DONOR: Sid Goldberg Melissa & Jeffrey Freedman & Family Marian & Milt Berger IN HONOR OF: DONOR: The birth of Brooke Morgan Stahl, granddaughter of Sherry Brooks Andy & Renee Flager RABBI GRUENBERG’S DISCRETIONARY FUND The birth of our grandson, Eli Gabriel Charatan Janet & Norman Marinoff The birth of Eli Gabriel Charatan, son of Jim & Jessica Charatan & grandson of Norman & Janet Marinoff Gloria & Ed Mittleman Brian & Lois Levey and Family Debbie, Dan, Jacob, Anna & Ben Wachspress The upcoming marriage of Randy Flager & Sherry Brooks Norman & Janet Marinoff The engagement of Randy Flager & Sherry Brooks Debbie, Dan, Jacob, Anna & Ben Wachspress The Bat Mitzvah of Lynsie Lightman, daughter of Bari & Rob Lightman Renee & Andy Flager SPEEDY RECOVERY TO: Lori Herz Bill Blaustein IN APPRECIATION OF: IN HONOR OF: DONOR: The Bat Mitzvah of Dari Goldstein, daughter of Sheri & Rob Goldstein Steven & Jill Katz IN MEMORY OF: DONOR: Dorothy Dickstein, mother of Cara Weissman, Aunt of Lee Dickstein, Joy Finkel and Carole Garini Gloria Rosenberg & Irvin Rosenberg Pete & Anita Lockhart Marvin & Adrianne Love IN APPRECIATION OF: DONOR: Barbara Fineman Sara Pollock Barbara Fineman Diane Axelrod & Bob Lindenbaum Beverly Rothstein Rabbi Gruenberg’s kindness & caring TREE OF LIFE IN HONOR OF: DONOR: Dorothy Dickstein, our beloved “Boobela” & friend Dorothy & David Dickstein for all they taught us their children, grandchildren, and their great grandchildren Roz Kleiman & Janet Rudolph Cara & Leon Weissman and family Page 15 Page 16 Congregation Beth El 375 Stony Hill Road Yardley, PA 19067 Shofar Editorial Committee Charlotte Denenberg ........Shofar@BethElYardley.org Barbara Fineman ...............Shofar@BethElYardley.org Sara Pollock .......................Shofar@BethElYardley.org Main Office .......................................... 215-493-1707 Fax ........................................................ 215-493-7717 E-mail .................................. Office@BethElYardley.org FJLC ............................................................................ x2 Gift Shop .................................................................... x6 Professional Staff Joshua Z. Gruenberg, Rabbi ..................................... x5 Karen Lewin, Education & Youth Director ............... x3 Barbara Schwartz, Office Administrator………………x4 Marian Berger, Bookkeeper ..................................... x4 Congregation Beth El Officers Leon Weissman............................................. President Larry Schacter …………………………...1st Vice President Rob Lightman …………………………….2nd Vice President Sheryl Fruithandler……………………...3rd Vice President Wendy Winokur ............. Co-Education Vice President Rachel Oring ................... Co-Education Vice President Beth Sadoff .................................................. Secretary Steve Lubin ................................................... Treasurer