April, 2015 Vol. CVIII No. 3 “Growing Together in Peace” Youth Benefit Day at Buona Beef April 5—Easter 8:00 a.m. Worship 8:30 a.m. Potluck Breakfast 9:30 a.m. Worship On Sunday April 19th, head on over to Buona Beef to support the youth of Peace Memorial Church! From 10:30 am until 10:30 pm that day, 15% of all sales from our group will be donated directly to the youth of PMC. All you need to do is go eat at Buona Beef and make sure you give them the flyer for our event! The event is only happening at the Buona Beef located at 9525 W. 131st Street which is right down the road from the church! Ask for extra copies of the flyer and hand them out to your friends and family as well! The more people that eat, the more money we make! And everyone needs to eat! You can also sign up on our giant “Reservation Card” in the narthex. Just an additional way to show the youth you are supporting them. There will also be a menu for you to look at, which you can also find at www.buona.com. On April 19th, come to church hungry and head on over to Buona Beef for a bite to eat! And don’t forget your flyer! 1 10:45 a.m. Easter Egg Hunt May Messenger Deadline Articles and news for the May issue of The Messenger is due into the office by Monday, April 13th. The issue will be available for pickup on Sunday, April 26th. If They Forget….Tell Them The Stories And Help Them Remember By Pastor Shana Johnson A week doesn’t go by when my mailbox at the church is not filled with glossy brochures and eyecatching postcards promoting a new strategy to “grow” the church. A week doesn’t go by when my email box is not filled with the latest e-mail blast about a seminar I cannot afford to miss as a parish pastor that will give me the tools and secret strategies for filling the pews. A week doesn’t go by when the ministry journals and magazines that I subscribe to are not filled with articles about the impending doom of the Church of Jesus Christ in America. And honestly, a week doesn’t go by when at least one person does not seek me out wanting to talk to me about their fears that the Church (both the universal and local church) is no longer relevant in the world. Sometimes I get caught up in it all and I wonder if there will be a time when the message of Jesus Christ is no longer received and the Church becomes obsolete. Sometimes I get caught up in it all and I become fearful my children and children’s children will no longer remember the story and stories of our faith. And sometimes I get so caught up in it all that I almost believe there will come a day when the message of Jesus will be completely forgotten and left behind by generations to come. But then…I remember some thing important. I remember how easy it is to share our faith. I remember that there will also be those who are seeking, hungering, and thirsting for the truth and grace of Jesus Christ. Before his death, my father-in-law helped me remember. In the past year, Bill had been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and the disease seemed to be progressing quite rapidly. During the month of December, Bill stayed with us for the Christmas season. It was heart breaking to see and experience how this disease was so quickly robbing him of his memories, his knowledge and in many ways his identity. But it was also a gift. Bill taught me unknowingly the simple aspect of faith that I think that I had forgotten somewhere along the way. One Sunday afternoon, he and I were sitting in the living room singing Christmas carols. (Proof that the brain is a beautiful and complex thing. Although there was so much that he could not remember, when we sang together he could remember all the words to most of the familiar hymns.) Now to fully understand what I am going to describe next, you need to know that Bill had been a pastor for years in the American Baptist church and had more recently retired from the Centre for the Study of Biblical Research, an organization that he founded that promoted the study of the biblical texts in their original forms. As we sat together, he looked at the piano across the room and pointed to the crèche that was on top of it. He simply asked me, “Who are those?” At first, it took me a second to understand what he meant. “Oh, you mean the figurines in the nativity scene that is on the piano.” “Yes,” he nodded. I thought about it for a minute and I brought all of the figurines over to him setting them on the table beside his chair. I began to tell him who each figurine represented and told him the Christmas story through the whole birth narratives found in the Gospels. When I finished we sat in silence for awhile, both of us with tears in our eyes. Then he meekly looked at me and very lucidly said, “And what if I forget the story again. What if I forget what you just told me?” To which I responded, “Then I will tell it to you again and again. If you forget, I will tell you the story and help you remember.” He smiled and said, “Tell me again,” and I did. Not too long after his visit with us, his conditioned worsened and on February 16th, God took him home. I will never forget that last gift of truth that he gave to me. And the truth is this…people might stray away from the church, they might not even remember the stories of Jesus, but we always have the opportunity to help them remember. Blessings, Pastor Shana 2 SAVE THE DATE ! Peace Village Family Fest Saturday, May 30th, 2015 11:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Invite your children, your grandchildren, great-grandchildren, your friends and their families for a fun-filled day of Spring celebration! There will be pony rides, games for one and all, a dunk tank, a magician, adult and children’s Bingo, a mime, music, a bouncy house, face painting, food, ice cream and much more! The Peace Village Family Fest will take place in Village Commons and outside along the walking path in the back of the community. Greater Chicago Food Depository SWIFT Southwest Interfaith Team Speakers Forum Sunday, April 19th Peace Memorial Church 10300 W. 131st Street, Palos Park, IL Registration: 2:30—3 p.m. Program: 3:00 p.m.—5:00 p.m. “End of Life Traditions (and After Life Beliefs) In our Faiths A Donation of Disposable Diapers for RESPOND NOW would be appreciated. 3 The next volunteer trip will be on Saturday, April 25th. Please sign up in Zion Hall or call Ruth Van Hecke at 708-923-0387. Food donations are being collected as well. You may drop off all donations in Zion Hall and they will be delivered to the Greater Chicago Food Depository. The following items are always in need (no glass jars): canned fruit and vegetables, cereal, peanut butter and jelly, mac & cheese, pasta and sauce, rice, soup, stew and tuna. Live and Learn and Pass It On. More on Mental Illness (Submitted by Gary Kwiatkowski) I came across a fascinating book that someone gave me several years ago. It is called Live and learn and Pass it On. Here are some of the things in that book that fit just about any of us. I’ve learned that if someone says something unkind about me, I must live so that no one will believe it. I’ve learned that every great achievement was once considered impossible. I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something. I’ve learned that the great challenge of life is to decide what’s important and to disregard everything else. If learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do, but to do the best you can do. I’ve learned that you should never be too busy to say “please’ and “thank you.” I’ve learned that life challenges us with the fact that everything can be done better. I’ve learned that trust is the single most important factor in both personal and professional relationships. I’ve learned that anticipation is often better than the real thing. I’ve learned that generous people seldom have emotional and mental problems. I’ve learned that it’s not what happens to people that’s important. It’s what they do about it. I’ve learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life. I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be a pain. I’ve learned that silent company is often more healing than words of advice. I’ve learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But if you focus on your family, the needs of others, your work, meeting new people and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you. By Vera Bayer The following is an excerpt from a letter dated 3/5/15, and sent by Mary Malley, President of NAMI Southwest, and its many friends: “Did you know that 1 in 5 people in America experience mental illness each year and that it affects 26 percent of homeless people staying in shelters? Or that 20 percent of adult prisoners and 70 percent in the juvenile justice system have a recent history of a mental condition?” These are overwhelming statistics. It is hard to imagine making a difference in the lives of people living with mental illnesses, but every day we try by: Listening when families call to share their heartbreak and explaining how the mental health system works. Sharing our experiences and resources at our monthly family support group meetings Socializing at our Sunshine Club meetings for people with mental illnesses and their families. Sending out bimonthly newsletters and holding annual educational meetings about the latest brain research Providing hope when there aren’t any easy answers. If you are in need of help, remember the following places: 1. NAMI Southwest (708) 425-0925 for support, education and advocacy for persons with mental illness and their families. 2. Metropolitan Family Services Southwest (708) 9742300 for counseling and mental health services. 3. Emergency Mental Healthcare Center (708) 3310500 for 24/7 emergency mental health care. Summer Camp Programs At Tower Hill and Pilgrim Park Registration forms for Summer Camp at Tower Hill or Pilgrim Park for Youth and Adults can be found at the Information Center and in the Church Office. Godstock Camp, ($355.00) directed by Dennis Kirscher and Kelly Kirscher, is July 19-25 at Tower Hill and Tenderfoot (cost $155.00), ages K-2nd Grade with Cindy White is July 23-25. Grandparent Camp at Tower Hill is either June 15-17 or 18-20. Pastor Sarah’s camp, Worship & Wonder, at Pilgrim Park is the week of July 5-10 and is $318.00. Peace Memorial Church helps to underwrite part of the cost of camp each year for church members. There are many other camps available throughout the summer. Registration forms are also available at the Information Desk and in the Church Office. 4 Birthday Greetings April 2 Sarah Freund Debra Skowron April 3 Brian Kukla Adelle Lampos April 4 Donald Hummel Mark Rimkus Stacey Swieringa April 5 Christopher Schneider Lillian Zikmund April 7 Ed Bledsoe Leah Delejewski April 12 Barbara Cox Sharon Kloos Elizabeth Oremovich Lori Rudnicki April, 2015 April 13 Thomas Bockmann Carol Baumler John Robbins Sydney Wasyliw April 16 Joseph Graben Kaci Johnson Cassidy Medyk James Murray April 17 Gail Jefchak Deborah Jerry Darlene Trent April 18 Phyllis Karner Bradley Nolan William Smolik April 19 Allie Johnson April 20 Emily Hoefler April 21 Halle Swieringa 5 April 24 Mark Mueller April 24 Maria Nestor Brett Nolan April 25 Paul Gross April 26 Henry Freund Elliot Hevel April 27 Marsha Bockmann Ruth Drobitch Margaret Unger April 28 Paul Launius Beverly Wehofer April 29 Edward Baker April 30 Daniel Powers Our Members And Friends PEACE MEMORIAL UCC 10300 West 131st Street Palos Park, IL 60464 Funerals Lynn Hill, passed away March 6, 2015 Harold Krug, passed away March 12, 2015 Baptism March 22, 2015—Jane Molly Fulek, daughter of Jonathan and Tasha “Pause and Ponder” Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief. Marcus Tullius Cicero “On the Lighter Side” Here are some words of widom: “Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them” “Drive carefully—-It’s not only cars that can be recalled by their Maker.” “It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others.” “Nobody cares if you can’t dance well. Just get up and dance.” Peace Memorial Church 10300 West 131st Street, Palos Park, IL 60464 Phone (708) 448-7833 FAX (708) 448-0824 www.pmcucc.org Sunday Worship 9:30 a.m. Church School 9:45 a.m. Stay Connected to All Things Youth at PMC! Attention all youth and parents! In order to stay informed about all youth group activities and happenings, subscribe to the group by following the instructions to the left and you will get texts about upcoming events and reminders about important dates and things involving the youth group here at Peace Church. 6 Rev. Shana Johnson . . . . . . . . . Senior Pastor Sarah Lohrbach . . . . . .Director of Youth and Children’s Ministries Robert Mohr. . . . Director of Music Ministry Tom Osborne. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Organist Amanda Christofanelli. . . .Children’s Music Director Pamela Kueltzo. . . . . . . . . . Office Manager/ Editor Linda Carlson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Financial & Record Keeping Secretary ___________________________ Peace Memorial Residences 3200 W. 101st Street Evergreen Park, IL 60805 Peace Village 10300 Village Circle Drive Palos Park, IL 60464-2666 (708) 361-6091 Linda Beushausen . . . . . . Executive Director Peace Village Circle Inn (708) 671-2470 Diane Oremovich . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Administrator Circle Inn April 2015 Sun Mon Tue Wed 1 Thu 2 Maundy 7 am Volunteers Thursday 9 am Art, Crafts 1 pm Worship & and Quilters Communion 12:30 pm Bible At Residences Study Peace 7:30 pm Lounge Worship and 7 pm Dress Communion Rehearsal Maundy Sanctuary Thursday 5 Easter 6 7 8 8:00 am Worship 8:30 am Easter Breakfast 9:30 am Worship 10:45 am Easter Egg Hunt 6:30 pm Bunco Election Day 7 am Volunteers 9 am Art, Crafts and Quilters 12:30 pm Bible Study Peace Lounge 3 pm Cook for PADS 128:30 am 13 14 15 Adult SS 9:30 am Worship 9:45 am Sunday School 10:45 am Praise Team 11 am Children’s Choir 11 am Adult SS 11:30 am Bunco 11:30 am Card Ministry May Messenger Deadline 11 am Worship Committee 7 pm Residence Board 10:30 am Bible Study at Peace Village 7 am Volunteers 9 am Art, Crafts and Quilters 12:30 pm Bible Study Peace Lounge 7 pm Trustees 19 20 21 8:30 am Adult SS 9:30 am Worship 9:45 am Sunday School 10:45 am Praise Team 11 am Children’s Choir 11 am Adult SS 11:30 am Bunco 11:30 am Card Ministry 2:30 pm Swift Forum at Peace Memorial 7 pm Men’s Basketball 10:30 am Bible Study at Peace Village 7 pm Men’s Basketball 7 pm Men’s Basketball April 19th — Buona Beef Fundraiser 26 Pickup May 27 Messenger 8:30 am Adult SS 9:30 am Worship 9:45 am Sunday School 10:45 am Praise Team 11 am Children’s Choir 11 am Adult SS 10:30 am Bible Study at Peace Village Set up for Rummage Sale 22 4 Good Friday 7:30 pm Tennebrae Worship Sanctuary 10 7:00 pm Choir 8 am—5 pm Lifeline Screening Zion Hall 16 17 18 11 24 25 7:00 pm Choir 7 am Volunteers 9 am Art, Crafts and Quilters; Messenger 7 p.m. Helpers Alzheimer’s 12:30 pm Bible Support Group Study Peace Lounge 7:00 pm Choir 28 29 30 10:30 am Bible Study at Peace Village 7 am Volunteers Set up for Rummage Sale 9 am—3 pm Rummage Sale 7:00 pm Choir 7 3 Sat 9 23 Set up for Rummage Sale Fri 8