Chabad at La Costa Times
Kislev/Teves 5776 – December ‘15
A Heart-Felt Request from the Rabbi
Dear Friends,
As we approach the end of the year it is time to take
stock. Just as we are meant to examine ourselves on
the Jewish New Year, particularly regarding our
spiritual situation, so too we should use the end of
the secular year to examine our material situation.
Thank G-d, we live in a place and time of
unprecedented wealth and plenty. In all of human
history there has never been a time of such riches
finding their way into the hands of so many. Yet
unfortunately, many do not feel rich. Somehow
many people choose to focus on that which they do
not have instead of that which they do have. For
instance, I would wager ‘dimes to doughnuts’ that
nobody reading this article is worried about where
his next meal is coming from or if he will have a
roof over his head next week. These are precisely
the types of worries that all previous generations
had.
Every one of us should feel rich! While it may be
true that we would like more (money, clothes,
vacations etc.) it would probably be hard to argue
that we need more. In the Ethics of Our Fathers
(some of the most poignant ethical teachings in
Judaism) we are taught; “Who is rich? He who is
satisfied with what he has.” He who trains himself
to be happy with his lot will be as happy as the
richest person on the planet, in fact it can be argued
that he is the richest person on the planet.
It is with this in mind that I am asking for your help
at this time. Many are thinking ahead to April 15th,
Tax Day. Many are now making their decision
about how much they want to contribute to a
worthy cause and to therefore be able to maximize
their tax deductions.
I am asking that you include Chabad at La Costa /
North County Jewish Center in your plans.
Your tax-deductible contribution does so much! It
enables us to do something as simple as keep the
lights on or bring chicken soup to someone who is
not well, and it also helps us do something as
sublime as teach a child the beauty of his/her
heritage or hold inspirational services every
Shabbat. Your generous contributions help us do
all that we do, which makes you our partner in
everything we accomplish.
Indeed you are being offered the opportunity of
‘getting in on the ground level’ of the best
investment possible; an investment with
guaranteed results!
Please take a moment to share your gratitude for all
that you have been blessed with by sharing with
others. Please take a moment to log onto our secure
website www.chabadatlacosta.com/donate, and
make a profound difference in the life of all those
whom we touch. You can also make your donation
via check if that is more convenient.
G-d has given you the ultimate privilege, and that
is to be His partner in perfecting this physical and
mundane physical world and transforming it into
something G-dly and beautiful!
G-d bless you for your generosity and support!
Sincerely,
Rabbi Eilfort
Chanukah Fun!
Our Annual Chanukah Festival at the Forum Shops
in Carlsbad is scheduled for Sunday, December 6th
from 4-6pm. Not only will we be lighting a giant
Menorah, we will have all sorts of arts-n-crafts
projects available. There will be lots of delicious
Chanukah treats like jelly doughnuts, homemade
latkes with apple sauce, and lots more. Prizes for all
the children will be given out and there will be
raffles as well. Make your plans now to join us for
this wonderful event perfect for the whole family!
Happy Birthday Club
We would like to wish Happy Birthday to all of
those celebrating their birthday this month and
each subsequent month. For the Month of
December we honor Sam Alter, Jean Rack, Max
Chiswick, Muka Eilfort, Julia Horowitz, Howard
Zinman, Seth Golub, Adam Baram, Neal Rabin,
Michal Shapiro, Tammi Belfer, Frank Gibson,
Noah Coplan, Mike Reid, Jeremiah Fogel, Sylvia
Rabin, Anna Mintz, and Danielle Ahlzadeh. May
G-d bless each and every one of you with a happy,
healthy, and successful year!
Chinese Friday Night Dinner &
Community Board Games
Everyone knows of the ancient Jewish Tradition of
having Chinese Food on December 25th. Well, this
year December 25th happens to fall on a Friday –
so we will have a beautiful Friday Night Dinner
together featuring the most scrumptious Chinese
Food. Candle lighting is at 4:30pm, followed by a
word of Torah by the Rabbi and a family-friendly
Friday night service. Dinner will be served at
5:30pm. Following dinner we will have board
games available to play together. The cost to attend
is $18 per adult and $10 per child – not to exceed
$50 per family. Reservations are necessary to attend
by
sending
an
email
to
us
at
info@ChabadatLaCosta.com or by calling 760943-8891.
Caffeine for the Soul
Mondays from 12 - 1:30pm
Every Monday our Rebbetzin gives a class for
women at the Target in Encinitas discussing
various issues. Her current topic is addressing
“What is a Mitzvah?” The next topic will be “What
is the Torah?” The class is formatted to encourage
questions and discussion. There is no cost to attend
and all women are encouraged to come.
Doris Markus Rosh Chodesh Gatherings
When the terrible sin of the Golden Calf occurred
the women realized the gravity of the error and
stayed away from being involved. Because of this
wisdom it has become a custom for women to join
together for a special event each month – on Rosh
Chodesh (the Jewish new month). Each month
different events are scheduled that are both
educational and entertaining. This month’s event
will take place on Thursday, November 12th at
7:30pm. Contact Rebbetzin Nechama for further
information at nmome@sbcglobal.net. Ladies, be
sure to come and bring your friends!
Prizes Needed for Building Dedication
The dedication of our new building has been a long
time coming! There are still several minor projects
that need to be completed around our building. We
need to do our landscaping and the hard-scaping,
as well as some additional kitchen upgrades. For
these reasons we need to raise about $50,000 at our
Dinner Gala coming up on December 13th. We will
be hosting a festive silent auction, live auction, and
raffles throughout the evening.
We are currently seeking prizes that may be used
for this purpose. We are not looking for used
furniture/clothing or other items that may found at
a yard sale. Instead, we are looking for collectibles,
jewelry, fine art, time-shares, ‘experiences,’ and
other such items. If you can help by donating some
prizes, or know someone who can, please contact
Rabbi Eilfort to discuss your gift or ideas. Email
RabbiE@ChabadatLaCosta.com.
Thanks
to
dedicated individuals we have already received a
diamond ring appraised at $8,000, his/hers
mountain bikes, 500,000 airline miles, a time share,
fine art and lots more! Thanks for your help!
Services with Joy & Meaning
Something magical happens to those who attend
our Shabbat services; they leave feeling better than
when they arrived. Why does this happen? Well,
that depends on the individual. Some feel better
because they enjoy the beautiful melodies we sing
together, while others feel better because of
feelings of closeness with their Creator that they
experience while sitting in our beautiful sanctuary,
while still others enjoy the Rabbi’s weekly thoughts.
The delicious Kiddush served at the end is a perfect
way to bring the entire experience to a successful
conclusion as we enjoy each other’s company and
wonderful food. Whatever it is you may be seeking
in your spiritual life there is a good chance you will
find it here every Saturday from 10am – 12:30pm.
You don’t have to be an expert in Jewish practice
to benefit – you just have to be willing to give it a
try. There is nothing to lose and everything to gain.
We look forward to seeing you here!
December ’15 / Kislev - Teves 5776
SUNDAY
MONDAY
TUESDAY
1
Morning
Services
8:30am
Hebrew School
9:30am-12pm
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6
Morning
Services
8:30am
Hebrew School
9:30am-12pm
Chanukah
@ Forum
4-6pm
13
Chanukah
Rosh Chodesh
Kislev
Dedication
Dinner
Gala!
4:30pm
20
Morning
Services
8:30am
Hebrew School
9:30am-12pm
WEDNESDAY THURSDAY
2
Caffeine for
the Soul @
Target 12pm
JLI
Journey of
the Soul
7pm
Torah Portion
Class 7:30pm
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
7
Chanukah
DEADLINE
to RSVP for
Dedication
Dinner!
8
Chanukah
9
Chanukah
Chassidic
Philosophy
7:30pm
Torah Portion
Class
7:30pm
3
15
16
Chassidic
Philosophy
7:30pm
Torah Portion
Class
7:30pm
Light
Candles
4:24pm
10
Chanukah
17
27

11
Chanukah
SATURDAY
5
Shabbat Ends
5:31pm
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12
Chanukah
Rosh Chodesh
Teves
Light
Candles
4:25pm
Services 10am
Parshat Mikeitz
18
19
Services 10am
Parshat
Vayigash
Light
Candles
4:27pm
Shabbat Ends
5:26pm
Shabbat Ends
5:24pm
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DEADLINE TO
RSVP FOR
FRIDAY
NIGHT
DINNER
22
23
Chassidic
Philosophy
7:30pm
Torah Portion
Class
7:30pm
29
30
Chassidic
Philosophy
7:30pm
Torah Portion
Class
7:30pm
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Caffeine for
the Soul @
Target 12pm
Morning
Services
8:30am
Hebrew School
9:30am-12pm
4
Services 10am
Parshat Vayeishev
Caffeine for the
Soul @ Target
12pm
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Caffeine for
the Soul @
Target 12pm
FRIDAY
28
Caffeine for
the Soul @
Target 12pm
25
Family
Friday
Night
Services &
Dinner
Light
Candles
4:30pm
26
Services 10am
Parshat Vayechi
Shabbat Ends
5:22pm
31
Prizes
needed for
the silent
auction,
live
auction,
and raffle.
Please
contribute!
ACTION
ITEM!
RSVP for the
Dedication
Dinner Gala!
Chabad at La Costa  1980 La Costa Ave.  Carlsbad, CA 92009  760-943-8891  Fax: 760-943-8892  E-Mail:
Info@ChabadatLaCosta.com
Rabbi & Rebbetzin Yeruchem & Nechama Eilfort  President
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Dedication Dinner Scheduled
Our long-awaited gala officially dedicating our beautiful new home has been scheduled for Sunday, December
13th at 4:30pm. This date was chosen because it is the last light of Chanukah. Be sure to mark your calendar
now, and please HOLD THE DATE! An official invitation has already been mailed. If you did not receive
one and would like one please email us immediately at info@chabadatlacosta.com, or call us at 760-943-8891.
Alternatively you can reserve your seat by logging onto www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/gala.
The cost to attend is $180 per person. Tables of 10 are available and we are seeking Table Captains to help
make sure we fill the room. The evening will feature a live jazz band, a sumptuous banquet, Chanukah
Menorah Lighting Ceremony, Acknowledgement Wall Dedication, and much more.
Thanks to the efforts of our Building Committee we have a wide variety of valuable prizes that will be
auctioned (live and silent) and raffled. These include fine jewelry, vacations, art, electronics, and much more.
We are asking all of our supporters to help us make this fun-filled evening an overwhelming success
by responding positively to this invitation. G-d bless and thank you!