Ending Homelessness One Family at a Time Formerly Interfaith Council for Homeless Families of Morris County April 2012 Meet the Board Dominique A. Tornabe President David Bess Vice President Ally Cannon Secretary Ginny Donnellon Treasurer Michael S. Daigle Trustee Karen DeChristopher Trustee Mirna Del Valle Trustee Robert DiConstanzo Trustee James A. Kassis, Esq. Trustee Wendi Mazzucco Trustee Meet the Staff Joann Bjornson, LSW Executive Director Allison Wise Dir. of Programs & Svcs. Jon K. Thomsen Director of Operations Nina Rifkind, LCSW Director of Development Lou Bodian Bookkeeper Katie Meier Family Support Specialist Social Work Interns Michelle Duff Brian McCullough Nancy Molinari-Luque Message from the Board President & the Executive Director We are so honored to be part of an agency that has the incredible ability to truly affect the lives of those facing the trauma of homelessness. Our work is more than a band aid during difficult times, but a true resource and long term solution to help people become once again self-sufficient and independent. Joann & Dominique at Unique in our approach, we utilize existing community resources, and bring Volunteer Recognition the mission of volunteerism right to the doorstep of those who wish to Dinner serve. Our families feel welcome and that they belong, every day. With our new name, Family Promise of Morris County, we are underscoring this sentiment – our promise to those we serve is to make them feel like family. Great thanks to our staff, board, community partners and to our families who fight to overcome challenges every day! Dominique Tornabe, Board President and Joann Bjornson, Executive Director New Leadership Councils In order to be an effective advocate for our families, Family Promise of Morris County looks for support and guidance from the community. With this in mind, last year a Corporate Leadership Council was formed and early this year, the newly created Student Leadership Council came together to help us to achieve this endeavor. The Corporate Leadership Council (CLC) allows professionals to share their knowledge and expertise; allows these leaders to learn about Family Promise; provides opportunities for corporate leaders to serve as Family Promise ambassadors through networking opportunities; and benefits both the business and non-profit communities. Members of the Corporate Leadership Council are drawn from major business sectors: banking; energy; manufacturing; media; professional services such as legal, accounting or insurance; real estate; retail; telecommunications; and small business. A member is asked to commit to four meetings annually, and attend 1 to 2 Family Promise events. The Student Leadership Council (SLC) presents an opportunity for interested student leaders to engage in community service through Family Promise. The mission of the SLC is to ensure the safety and acknowledge the dignity of the community’s most vulnerable families through public service, the development of leadership skills, and a growing consciousness of the needs of our families. The goals of the SLC: directly serving the community’s disadvantaged families; bringing the mission of Family Promise to the high school level; leading the community to a stronger, more unified effort to end homelessness; educating peers about the urgent needs faced by our neighbors and beginning discussions that lead to greater participation leading to solutions; and uniting diverse community groups under a common cause. SLC functions: fundraising; education; service projects; assisting in event planning and preparation; and making recommendations to the staff and board of Family Promise. For additional information, or to inquire about joining, contact Executive Director Joann Bjornson at 973-998-0820 or j.bjornson@familypromisemorris.org. Page 2 Ending Homelessness One Family at a Time Our Families “We had no place to live.” That’s a hard truth to accept, especially for a parent. l-r: Frankie, Elila, Crystal and Jesse For Crystal, a single mother with two infants and pregnant with a third, the move into the Family Promise of Morris County Emergency Shelter Program was not only a place for her family to live but also a place for them to thrive. Crystal became homeless after her grandparents were no longer able to continue to help her and her growing family. After coming to Family Promise, staff and volunteers provided her with financial literacy education, support in completing her high school equivalency diploma, and help sorting out all those issues that come with motherhood. “I didn’t know they’d do that,” she said. “I thought it was just a place to sleep.” Crystal began working full time while living in the shelter. In addition, she completed her GED program and received her high school equivalency diploma. Equipped with some new life skills, enjoying the sense of accomplishment that comes from achieving one’s goals and dreams, and benefiting from the on-going support of Family Promise, Crystal is now looking to further her education. Just recently, she let us know that she has begun the process of enrolling in nursing school. Crystal is so thankful for the guidance and support of the volunteers at both Family Promise and the Adopt-a-Family Program, especially Lance & Nancy Kraai. Lance & Nancy, along with a group of other volunteers that included a teacher and some young mothers with small children, worked with Crystal for 18 months to help her develop new skill sets which would allow her to thrive independently. The group focused on the following key areas: general life, financial, and, just as importantly, parenting skills. “Crystal has been on her own since she was 14,” explained Lance. “She never had the chance to learn parenting within a family. It’s hard to learn discipline with children when you never had any. What is proper discipline for a 1-year-old, a 5-year-old?” Kraai said that as a child Crystal saw her sister removed from their home by state authorities, and in her young mind, concluded that her sister was taken because she cried too much. As a mother, he said, Crystal was determined that it would not happen to her children and she did whatever she could to stop them from crying. Working with the Adopt-a-Family volunteers, “Crystal learned how to discipline in love as a parent,” said Kraai. “She is an awesome mom — she just needed some help.” Lance & Nancy Kraai Since leaving the Emergency Shelter Program, Crystal’s days are filled with her new job caring for an elderly person and getting her children to school and day care. “It was a boost for my confidence,” she said of her time at Family Promise. confidence. It is still hard for me.” “That was hard for me, I didn’t have But Crystal didn’t leave the shelter alone. Family Promise’s Permanent Supportive Program staff still supports her efforts to move forward. “I tell people that my time in the emergency shelter was good for me and my children,” she said. “My children had clothes, toys and had new people to meet. The shelter for a woman my age with children is a safe place to live.” Now 25, Crystal said there was one very important lesson she learned while at Family Promise: “I have big plans for my family,” she said. “I realized that when I am 30 or 40, I would not be able to live the way I was living.” Family Promise is so much more than a place to sleep: it is a home base, a safe place for children, a place where parents can stop a moment and breathe, assess life’s challenges and opportunities, and make a plan for the future; it is a community of supporters, teachers and friends. Page 3 Wish List & Most Needed Items Placing a family in housing addresses one of their most important needs. But it does not solve all needs. Many of our families also have basic living needs that relate to attending school and working and caring for a family. Wish List Baby wipes Diapers and Pull-Ups—Sizes 5/6 Liquid laundry detergent (Regular and HE) Paper Products – toilet paper, paper towels, and tissues Cleaning Supplies Shampoo and Conditioner Small and large garbage bags Large contractor garbage bags When our families move into their own homes they are provided with a computer. The wish list items below assist family members as they look for work, do homework, or just play a game. Most welcome items These items are of special importance to our families, as they allow them the luxury of going to a local store and choosing their own purchases, being it an outfit in a favorite color, a particular pattern on their dishes, or the makings for their favorite meal. These are unexpected treats for our clients and thus are especially appreciated. Gas cards (any gas station) Wal-Mart or Target gift cards Food Store gift cards Copy paper Stamps No. 10 white envelopes Avery Labels No. 5160 Did You Know? The fair market rent for a two-bedroom apartment in Morris County is $1,289 a month. In order to afford this apartment, a household would need to earn over $51,000 per year. At the New Jersey minimum wage of $7.25 an hour- that's 135 hours per week, 52 weeks a year! Robert Wood Johnson Foundation Grant We are thrilled to announce that we recently received a $25,000 one-year grant from the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation President’s Grant Fund of the Princeton Area Community Foundation. This wonderful grant will allow Family Promise of Morris County to provide case management services and connections to resources for a minimum of 50 new families, through our Permanent Supportive Housing Program (PSH). Families will partner with Family Promise’s PSH staff to develop personal goals, the attainment of which will lead to better job prospects, financial literacy, less stressful parenting, or any number of positive outcomes that will result in meaningful change in their families and foster self sufficiency. Parents are taught how to advocate for their children and themselves when needed and to find the resources needed and available to help maintain a safe and stable family environment. We are incredibly excited about this ability to provide services for even more families in Morris County who find themselves precariously housed. We know how much this will help the community and want to find a way to keep this position funded beyond the first year. To that end, we have created a match program to leverage grant funds. If you are interested in supporting this effort, please contact Joann Bjornson, Executive Director for more information. NON-PROFIT ORG U.S. POSTAGE PAID WEST CALDWELL, NJ PERMIT # 1395 Formerly Interfaith Council for Homeless Families of Morris County PO Box 1494 Morristown, New Jersey 07962 ADDRESS SERVICE REQUESTED Contact Information: Phone: 973.998.0820 Fax: 973.998.0819 Web: www.familypromisemorris.org Email: info@familypromisemorris.org 2012 Partner Congregations Participating congregations partner with us to ensure our families most basic needs are met. Host congregations use their facilities to shelter families. Support congregations provide meals and offer fellowship to families. Host Congregations Bethel AME Church, Morristown Bethlehem Church, Randolph Chatham United Methodist Church, Chatham Corpus Christi Roman Catholic Church, Chatham First Baptist Community Church, Parsippany Hillside Lutheran Brethren, Succasunna Mendham Hills Community Church, Mendham Morristown United Methodist Church, Morristown Our Lady Star of the Sea, Lake Hopatcong Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township Presbyterian Church of New Providence Redeemer Lutheran Church, Succasunna St. Vincent the Martyr Church, Madison Shrine of St. Joseph, Stirling Stanley Congregational Church, Chatham Temple Shalom Reform, Succasunna Support Congregations All Saints Episcopal Church, Millington Assumption Church, Morristown Budd Lake Union Chapel Butler United Methodist Church Calvary Baptist Church, Morristown Calvary Presbyterian Church, Florham Park Chatham Summit Quaker Meeting, Chatham Church of Christ the King, New Vernon Church of God in Christ, Morristown Church of the Redeemer, Morristown Church of the Saviour Episcopal, Denville Denville Community Church First Memorial Presbyterian Church, Dover First Presbyterian Church of East Hanover First Presbyterian Church of Rockaway First Presbyterian Church of Stirling First Presbyterian Church of Succasunna First Presbyterian Church of Whippany First Reformed Church of Lincoln Park First Reformed Church of Pompton Plains Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, Florham Park Grace Episcopal Church, Madison Holy Spirit Roman Catholic Church, Pequannock Jewish Congregation of Kinnelon Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Morristown Lake Hopatcong United Methodist Church Long Hill Chapel, Chatham Meyersville Presbyterian Church, Gillette Morristown Jewish Center-Beit Yisrael Morristown Unitarian Fellowship Ogden Memorial Presbyterian Church, Chatham Our Lady of the Magnificat Roman Catholic Church, Kinnelon Our Lady of the Holy Angels Parish, Little Falls Our Lady of the Lake, Mount Arlington Our Lady of the Valley, Wayne www.familypromisemorris.org Our Savior Lutheran Church, Stanhope Port Morris United Methodist Church, Landing St. Andrew’s Lutheran Church, Parsippany St. David's Episcopal Church, Kinnelon St. Gregory’s Episcopal Church, Parsippany St. Joseph’s of Lincoln Park Church, Lincoln Park St. Jude Roman Catholic Church, Hopatcong St. Lawrence Roman Catholic Church, Chester St. Mark Lutheran Church, Morristown St. Mary’s Roman Catholic Church, Pompton Lakes St. Matthew the Apostle Parish, Randolph St. Michael’s Parish, Netcong St. Patrick Parish, Chatham St. Peter the Apostle Church, Parsippany St. Peter’s Episcopal Church, Morristown St. Peter’s Episcopal Church, Mountain Lakes St. Peter’s Episcopal Church, Mount Arlington St. Thomas More Church, Convent Station St. Vincent de Paul Church, Stirling St. Virgil Roman Catholic Parish, Morris Plains Second Reformed Church, Little Falls Temple Beth Hatikvah, Roxbury Temple B’Nai Or, Morristown The Episcopal Church of St. Paul, Chatham Trinity Lutheran Church, Dover Union Baptist Church, Morristown United Methodist Church of Madison