Thank you for giving girls in El Salvador a reason to smile! Your Contributions at Work Final Report on the Because I am a Girl Project in El Salvador “Girls Against Violence” (April 2012 - January 2015) Unaccompanied minors from El Salvador immigrating to the US over the past 4 years 9,850 5,990 3,314 1,394 Oct 2011-Sep 2012 Oct 2012-Sept 2012 Oct 2012-Sep 2013 Oct 2013-May2014 In 2014, with the collapse of the truce between rival gangs, El Salvador witnessed more than 10 murders every day, an increase of 57% from the previous year in deadly violence. This number is staggeringly high for such a small country of just 6 million people. The widespread violence has forced many people to flee for their lives, as seen in the number of children—increasingly girls—crossing the border alone into the US in the past 4 years. This threatening world is the reality for the girls growing up in El Salvador. But amidst the fear and threats around them, you have provided a refuge for these girls across 5 regions in El Salvador. You have provided a safe space where they can meet with friends and feel like normal teenagers, a mentor who helps them learn how to counteract the culture of violence around them, and local authorities who know how to provide care and support when violence takes place. Because of you, even during dark times for the country, these girls have a reason to smile. Here’s what you’ve made possible: Over the past three years, 1,396 girls from 36 communities have completed the School for the Prevention of Gender Violence, where they learned that violence should not be considered normal, and that they can speak up if they face abuse. Through the School, 212 girls affected by violence were identified and provided with individual psychological care. After completing the School, 187 girls completed a Peer Listeners Training where they Girl Ambassadors learn how to be “peer listeners” for their friends. learned about how to actively listen to their peers and to take action or file complaints in the case of violence. The girls also learned how to strengthen their leadership abilities and about the importance of forming sisterly relationships among girls and women in order to address and reduce gender-based violence. In addition, as part of the Adolescent Boys’ program, over 130 boys were educated on gender, masculinity, power relations, and how to prevent violence against girls. Strengthening institutions to sensitively respond to violence Throughout the project, state and local institutions and social organizations were strengthened to provide girls and their families with a timely response to complaints in cases of gender-based violence at the municipal level. The project offered a diploma-earning course entitled “Comprehensive Care for Girls Affected by GBV” and a total of 50 civil servants from the areas of health, education, law, and the municipal government completed the training. Civil servants, now trained to provide sensitive care for girls affected by violence, show off their diplomas. These civil servants now possess important skills to be able to better understand the situation of girls and women in their communities. This, in turn, led to community and municipal mapping, in order to learn what institutions are present and what types of services they provide to inform girls and youth. Shortly after, 8 municipalities made a commitment to create safe spaces for girls and women affected by gender-based violence to receive care. Training Boys to Prevent Violence Against Girls The Adolescent Boys program trained 139 boys aged 12-18 on the issues of masculinities to prevent violence against girls. The program encouraged boys to become promoters of gender equality in their communities by sensitizing toward a culture of peace, affection, self-care, and caring for others. “I am now committed to eliminating forms of violence,” shares a young male participant. School for the Prevention of Gender Violence The School for the Prevention of Gender Violence trained over 1300 girls aged 12-18 on the topics of gender, power and violence, risk identification, and how to report abuse. Girls shared their personal opinions and experiences and took ownership of the process of violence prevention. Core lessons included identifying the types of violence they are exposed to—on the street, in the home, and even on social media. They were also provided with information and strategies on how and where to seek help from violence. The School is also a place where girls can simply come together, feel safe, make friends and laugh! Girls’ voices are heard far and wide across the country! Kenia (on the right) with a famous Salvadoran journalist “Since the Prevention School, I have participated in 2 forums on teen pregnancy and violence prevention, where I have spoken to authorities. Never in my life did I ever imagine I would do this. This opportunity made me feel that I was the same as TV journalists from famous channels across the country. We, girls, are talking about real situations we have experienced as girls, and we want to give the message of girls’ rights: a violence-free life, walking down the street without fear of being hurt; being respected because of the way we dress; being provided security because we are girls.” - Kenia, Girl Ambassador, age 14 One step further: Spreading the word to the whole community In order to build their community’s sensitivity to gender-based violence, the girls who participated in the Prevention School prepared 34 community action plans identifying who to reach with their messages, how to share the messages in a meaningful way, and when to carry out their activities. To make this possible, 470 girls were trained in drama and another 88 girls in drumming. They put on 102 community events using drama or music to catch people’s attention and spread the word. Over 3,800 people attended the events the girls hosted. The girls creatively engaged the community with arts and music, and infused serious issues such as harassment and abuse, discrimination, as well as violence at school and in their homes. The girls practice drumming for a community music event, where they share key messages about changing the culture of violence. How has your support impacted young lives in El Salvador? “I have learned to say no to mistreatment and abuse, which many girls and boys keep to themselves. Mistreatment and abuse has to stop, and we have to report it, because if we don’t, this country will never change, and we will continue –all women– putting up with “macho” men, who often mistreat or humiliate us. This is not fair for women, girls, adolescents, and it is up to us to continue this here in El Salvador.” Antonia, age 17 “You don’t have to be “macho” to be a man.” - Boy participant Thank you for giving girls and boys in El Salvador a refuge from violence! www.becauseiamagirl.us “I used to get angry with my daughter a lot. I shouted and scolded her for everything. Now I do it less, and I am aware of it, because of the workshops by daughter received.” - Mother of a participant