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You are the Prize!
Exchange of Energy
“What do you see?”
Child’s Behavior
(Positive or Negative)
Adults
Attention
Emotion
Body Language
Verbal Feedback
Exchanging Energy
The Paradigm Shift
Got Greatness?
Exists in every child’s DNA…..waiting for
someone to see it
Writing Their Story
What you say and what you energize becomes the content
of their story……….and also teaches them how to write the
next chapters of their story.
NO PRESSURE
The NHA® Core Methodologies:
The 3
™
Stands
Absolutely No!
Absolutely Yes!
Absolutely Clear!
Stand 1:
Absolutely No!
I Refuse to
energize negativity.
I will not accidentally reward
negativity with my energy, connection
or relationship.
Stand 2:
Absolutely Yes!
I relentlessly create and
energize positivity and success.
I energize and nurture
first-hand experiences of
success.
New Ways of
Being Positive
It’s more than
“Catch Them Being Good”
Use stronger, more specific positives…
 That navigate around defenses
 That give evidence of greatness
 That ensure that the positive is felt and digested as success
 That helps them see themselves as a kid who is great!
Video Game
Theory
Kid who cannot focus on
homework can play a
video game with mastery
and accomplishment.
In the video game, life truly makes sense & follows
logic that is very different than at home and school.
Video games compel kids to
successfulness.
Stand 3:
Absolutely Clear!
I set and enforce clear limits
and clear consequences
in an un-energized way.
I will always provide a true
consequence.
Remember: Video Game Logic
The Rules of the Game
Rules are clear
Both the players and the officials
know them – not negotiable
No warnings; immediate, quick
consequences for every broken rule
A toe over the line is a toe over the line
Building Inner Wealth™
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To use intensity well,
kids need to be . . .
stronger on
the inside
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