Kathy Metzenbauer Family Living Agent Juneau Co. UW-Extension kathleen.metzenbauer@ces.uwex.edu UW-Extension provides equal opportunities in employment and programming including Title IX and ADA Characteristics common to people in crisis Guidelines for working with people under stress Resources http://Playspent.org How do you feel about your resources? What did you think to do? Did you ask anyone to share? Did anyone offer to share? Negative physical & mental health Not responsive to traditional delivery methods Live crisis to crisis resulting in high stress Limited choices Limited positive role models Low self-esteem Pervasive hopelessness 1. Acknowledge personal identity. 2. Invite people to share their crisis experience. 3. Draw out and affirm strengths & resources. 4. Shift focus from what happened to what they can do. 5. Identify sources of resilience they can tap into. 6. Identify personal resources. 7. Help people overcome cycle of repeating. 8. Forge a trusting relationship. 9. Encourage prioritizing needs. 10. Encourage family potential. 11. Increase family’s ability to solve problems. 12. Encourage families to not isolate themselves. Resilience-Oriented Approach How do we help? The way we communicate Confidentiality Listen How do we help? Follow up: Next steps Clear instructions Resources 1. Focus on success 2. Keep a journal 3. Maintain perspective 4. Offer resources 5. Suggest organization – declutter Conclusion Dealing with a Drop in Income. Wisconsin: University of WisconsinExtension (2009). (www.uwex.edu/ces/flp/economics/resources_flp.cfm) Getting Through Tough Times: Identifying Sources of Support and Friendship. Minnesota: University of Minnesota Extension ( 2007). Managing Your Personal Finances in Tough Times. Wisconsin: University of Wisconsin-Extension (2011). (fyi.uwex.edu/toughtimes/) Organize Your Important Papers. Iowa: Iowa State University Extension (2007). (http://www.extension.org/pages/12474/organize-yourimportant-papers/print/) Parrott, Kathleen, Krishnaswamy, Arun, & Burkett, Sarah. (1996) Securing Your Future: Housing Education for Low-Income Audiences. Journal of Extension, 34, (5) Recovery After Disaster: The Family Financial Toolkit. Minnesota: University of Minnesota Extension (2011). (http://www.extension.umn.edu/family/tough-times) Rupered, M. (1993). Understanding limited resource audience: Content or process? In V.S. Fitzsimmons (Ed). Proceedings of the Association for Financial Counseling and Planning Education: Economic change: Challenges for financial counseling and planning professionals (pp. 253-261). San Antonio, TX: Association for Financial Counseling and Planning Education. Walsh, F. (2004) Strengthening Family Resilience. New York: Guiliford Valladares, Sherylis, & Moore, Kristen. (2009) The Strengths of Poor Families. Washington, D.C.: Child Trends Research Brief