Understanding Personalities Keys to Better Relationships Definition of Personality “the totality of an individual’s behavioral and emotional characteristics” -Merriam Webster’s Online Dictionary History of Personality Research • Hippocrates – 400 B.C. • Carl Jung – 1920 • Katharine Cook Briggs and Isabel Briggs Myers – 1958 • David Keirsey-Marilyn Bates - 1978 Personality Assessments “Colors” • Real Colors® • True Colors® Copyrighted assessment programs that use “colors” to define the personality types (easy to remember) Personality Colors • • • • Blue Gold Green Orange Objectives For This training • Understand your personality type (color) • Understand others’ personality type • Recognize each “color” has a unique blend of strengths • Use “colors” to better communicate with others Everyone is a mix of all four “colors” • One primary color usually dominates • The second most dominant color can be a major influence on one’s total personality Characteristics of BLUE People • • • • • • • • Authentic Sincere Seek harmony Peaceful Hugs Handshakes Flexible Cultivate potential in others • • • • • • • “People” people Talks Enthusiastic Idealistic Inspirational Good listeners Sensitive Characteristics of GREEN People • • • • • • • • Cool • Deep feelings Calm • Search for knowledge Curious • Abstract thinkers Competent • Asks many questions Perfectionists • Thrives on work Problem solver Hide emotions Want recognition for success Characteristics of ORANGE People • • • • • • • Charming • Fun Impulsive • Like to party Optimistic • Master negotiators Competitive • Creative and quick Love change • Good under pressure Like tools and gadgets Skilled in many areas Characteristics of GOLD People • • • • • • • Responsible • Prepared Traditional • Generous Organized • Patriotic Value being useful • Stable Care for others • Serve Others Obligation and duty Need reasons for change BLUE Occupations • • • • • Psychologist Teacher Minister Reporter Public Relations • • • • Travel agent Actor Social worker Career counselor GREEN Occupations • • • • Engineer Attorney Computers Architect • • • • Mathematics Photographer Designer Journalist ORANGE Occupations • • • • Pilot Firefighter Public Speaker Paramedic • • • • Dancer Musician Law enforcement Athletic coach GOLD Occupations • • • • • Educator Doctor Secretary Judge Banker • Manager • Public Administrator • Librarian • Government Worker How to communicate with BLUE • Be personal and show you care • Tell how they will help people and make a difference • Provide opportunities to use their communication abilities • Provide opportunities to motivate and add enthusiasm to group situations • Offer a harmonious working environment How to communicate with GOLD • • • • Be to the point, factual, and professional Provide stability and order Clearly state benefits and rewards Set definitive rules, regulations, and constraints • Offer opportunities to serve others, demonstrate leadership qualities, and organize people and/or things. How to communicate with GREEN • Be theory based, use models, and provide facts • Provide a challenge, and offer options (they dislike small talk) • Offer problems to solve ;allow innovative solutions • Provide opportunities to increase their knowledge and build their competence • Recognize their successes How to communicate with ORANGE • Offer action that provides benefits quickly • Offer fun experiences; new ways to do things • Give them frequent change. No routine tasks • Provide opportunities to develop a variety of skills. • Offer them the chance to experience new, novel, and exciting things • Provide opportunities to use initiative and take risks