A Guide for Faculty and Staff When Students are Stressed Most students will successfully handle the demands and stress of college, college life and their personal life. For some, the pressures can become unmanageable. Faculty and staff members may be the ones to recognize students who are very distressed. If a student cannot turn to their family or friends for support, they may turn to a professor or staff member who they see as caring and approachable. Although faculty and/or staff do not need to be the solution for a student, an expression of interest and concern may be a crucial factor in saving a student's academic career or even their life. Clues a Student may be Distressed: Threatening self-harm or harm to others Chronic inability to concentrate or remain focused Behavioral problems that are extreme or disruptive Sudden aggressive or confrontational behavior Noticeable disorientation, confusion, or bizarre behaviors Chronic fatigue or low energy, frequently falling asleep in class Persistent sadness, low self-esteem or fearfulness Heightened anxiety, nervousness, or irritability Alcohol/Drug abuse Sudden decline in attendance and academic performance Dramatic weight loss or gain Isolation from others Racial/Cultural Adjustment Relationship or Lesbian/Gay concerns Sexual Assault Extreme test anxiety What Can You Do? Talk to the student in private when both of you are not rushed or preoccupied Listen to thoughts and feelings in a sensitive, non-threatening way Avoid judging, evaluating, and criticizing even if the student asks your opinion Maintain clear and consistent boundaries and expectations Stress the importance of getting help before a situation exacerbates Give hope by assuring the student that things can get better Suggest Counseling Services as a resource, offer a Counseling Services' brochure, and discuss services with the student Explain that Counseling Services is free and confidential Allow the student to use your phone to make a counseling appointment or to leave a message You may even consider walking the student to the Counseling Services' office in Henderson 111. Call to consult a professional in Counseling Services if you have questions. A student whose behavior has become threatening, violent, or significantly disruptive may need the resources of the University Police - ext. 1153 Counseling Services for Urgent Situations Counselors can be available for urgent situations if given short notice When calling (670-3100), please advise the receptionist that the situation is urgent A student may walk to our office (Henderson 111) for assistance or be accompanied by staff or professor Appointments can be arranged by calling 785-670-3100 or stopping by the office. Hours are 8 to 5, Monday through Friday. Other times may be scheduled if arranged by a counselor. In case of emergencies after hours, contact University Police at 785-670-1153.