Runaway Technology Peak Oil Climate Change Economy Downturn Children Left Behind Racial Conflict/ War The Alarm Phase Fight or Flight The Resistance Phase Body Responds and Repairs The Exhaustion Phase Stress is too Great – Body Cannot Respond Stress Related Illness or Death can occur You can do one of the following Change Way You Perceive/See The Stressful Event Change the Stress Event - with the help of a little magic?? Adopt Strategies and Techniques to Control Stress Activate the Event by identifying the stressor(s) Belief System can be adjusted Avoid black and white thinking (i.e., They are absolutely right, and I am absolutely wrong). Avoid personalizing (i.e., No one supports our program because they think I’m incompetent). Avoid catastrophizing (i.e., I’ll never be able to get tenure because I had this article rejected). Consequences – Identify Relationship between Beliefs and Consequences Dispute Irrational Beliefs (i.e., the first three listed above) Effect – Changing Beliefs, Changes Consequences Where is the evidence that what you are experiencing is true? Who says that things must be the way you think they are? Does your response seem logical and reasonable given the situation? Do You Exaggerate? (i.e., I have to get this grant or I’ll never have a chance at tenure). Make Invalid Assumptions (i.e., My colleagues will think I’ stupid if I don’t publish in the top tiered journals. Overgeneralize (i.e., One person doesn’t like me. No one likes me). Personalize (i.e., She is rude because she doesn’t like me). Accept that some stress cannot be avoided. Realize that the primary changeable element in your life is you. Separate insoluble problems from soluble ones. Examine your expectations – expect too much? Avoid should/should not thinking – either do it or don’t ! Analyze your needs – do you really need it? Emphasize your strengths – physical, emotional and spiritual Accept – Your submission may be rejected Focus on YOU – What can you do to alleviate stress? Insoluable – You can’t quit your job. Examine Expectations – Do you have to be the best faculty member in USU extension? No Should/n’t – Either write the journal article or don’t. Examine Needs – Do you really need to get tenure next year? Strengths – Maybe you are better at funding and implementing programs than publishing. Frequent Urgent Deadlines Too much work – Too little time Deterrents to Completing Work Problematic Interpersonal Relationships Role Ambiguity – Can you teach and research as well? Try to Identify WHY You Don’t Have Enough Time Preoccupation with Other Things? Procrastination and/or Poor Task Spacing? Stimulus Overload? Stimulus Underload - Bored ? Anxiety? First, figure out where your time goes (i.e., tv, work, family, church, exercise, recreation etc.) Then, establish goals. Finally prioritize goals Strive to be productive – not just busy. Understand your job. Bunch similar activities together. Always use a Calendar Handle Each Sheet of Paper Only Once Delegate Don’t do other people’s jobs Bring order to your desk Develop a system – organize your tasks. For instance, when you write a paper, determine that you will (1) do literature, (2) outline your paper, (3) start writing – write anything, (4) write rough draft, and finally (5) polish. Leave time for contemplation – less is more. Designate leisure time. Don’t mix work and play. Manage meetings effectively. Organize your correspondence Including e-mail, face book Use phone efficiently Review weekly progress 1. Quest for Flawlessness 2. Feel Overwhelmed 3. Can’t say no! 4. Idle away time with useless busyness 5. Fear of Break up tasks into smaller, more manageable tasks Save the Worst for First Complete whatever you start. Do it RIGHT! Do it NOW! Do it RIGHT NOW! Learn to Relax Deep Breathing Imagery Relaxation Progressive Muscle Relaxation Meditation Use Biofeedback Equipment Get Plenty of Rest Exercise and Eat Healthy Diet Use Reinforcing Activities Shop, hug, tell jokes, laugh, watch movies, take Bubble baths. Foster Friendships & Social Support Do random acts of kindness Invite people over Dr. Carol Albrecht Assessment Specialist USU Ext carol.albrecht@usu.edu (979) 777-2421