Sean Moore Colfax County Extension 4-H Agent Why Youth – Fun, Exciting, Love of Horses, Friends, Competition, Family “Kids participate because of fun….and stop participating when it stops being fun. (Weiss, 2004)” Parents/Leaders – Fun, Exciting, Love of Horses, Friends, Competition, Family, Have Success, Learn to Learn, Have a Passion, Life Long Sport Ultimately Why Learn Life Skills – • • • • • • • • Responsibility Discipline Teamwork Hardwork Goal Setting Self-Motivation Self-Esteem Healthy Living • • • • • • • • Managing Feelings Self-Discipline Decision Making Problem Solving Managing Stress Planning/Organizing Keeping records Communication • • • • • • • • Cooperation Character Integrity Social Skills Critical Thinking Resiliency Marketable Skills Nurturing Unique Challenge Horse Project is Continuous or Year Round As a result we have the challenge of trying to prevent burn-out with child and animal First Step Evaluate where Horse & Rider are at as a Team Goal Setting SMART = Specific, Measureable, Attainable, Realistic and Relevant to child, Time Sensitive Set goals that focus on something other than winning and losing Communication (Rider & Trainer) Organizing/Planning Decision Making Caring – Giving Nurturing Concern for something besides themselves Respect for their partner Are they in shape for what they are asking? Are they suited for the event they are choosing? Care, feed, exercise, grooming Nurturing through injury/illness IN GROUPS Sharing, mentoring, leadership, conflict resolution Relating - Belonging A positive relationship with a caring adult An inclusive environment Communication (Horse, Trainer, Family, Riding Partners) A safe environment Adult role model Social Skills Cooperation Character - Integrity “Teach youth to be internally rather than externally motivated (Waite, 2008)” Self-responsibility Help young people learn to accept success & FAILURE “Encourage riders to seek out and be energized by Challenges (Waite, 2008)” Courage Sportsmanship Work Ethic – Hard work Opportunity for Mastery With Hard Work can attain goals Teamwork with Trainer, Horse, Riding Group Hopefully kids learn not to quit (resiliency) Self Motivation Marketable Skills Self Discipline Pride Learning to Learn Problem Solving Critical Thinking Decision Making “Recognize and appreciate that everyone learns differently…horses too! (Waite, 2008)” Audio Visual Kenisthetic Confidence – Self-Esteem Success by reaching attainable goals Opportunity for Mastery-even if small or baby steps Independence Working on skills at home Opportunity for self determination “Deliver positive, specific, contingent feedback to youth and horses (Waite, 2008)” Find or make more opportunities Confidence – Self-Esteem Continued If Parent & Coach (not always ideal) be Parent first Children need unconditional support from at least one adult Recognize and talk up efforts of youth rather than wins and losses, placings, or ribbons Having Fun The backbone of why kids choose horse project Make sure time to play and socialize Stress Management Do something different for horse & rider Managing Feelings Keep a perspective References/Resources www.myhorseuniversity.com Click on Resources, then webcasts, then archived webcasts Edgette, Janet S., “Heads Up!”, 1996 Breed Associations NMSU “Brand News” contact jlturner@nmsu.edu Other Universities