Saying “Sorry”?
A forced apology gives the aggressor attention and it is usually not
sincere. The words may only be repeated to avoid disapproval. Children
may get the idea that is OK to hurt if you are willing to offer “sorry” as a
quick fix.
If a child is truly showing regret and remorse, suggest that “sorry” can
be the first step to make amends. Realize the offended or hurt child
might not be ready to accept the apology which then can leave the
apologizing child confused. “Sorry” does not necessarily make things
right. Children can learn to offer comfort and to correct mistakes with
dignity. Allow for a “do over” without all the attention on what went
wrong.
Family Life Education Department – Edmonds Community College
Created by AUTHOR . Gail Davenport