L.O To decide how to resolve conflicts peacefully
We have discussed being angry. We are now going to focus on being calm and how we can solve our problems in
a positive way and create a win-win solution.
For each question give three solutions:
A solution where only one person is feeling ok (win-lose)
A solution which leaves both people feeling sad and fed up (lose-lose)
One that makes both people feel ok (a win-win solution)
Q.1 You have bought the same shoes as your friend and your friend says that you have
copied them. What will you do?
Win lose solution : ..................................................................................................
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Lose lose solution: ...................................................................................................
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Win win solution .....................................................................................................
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Q.2 You and your brother want to watch different programmes on TV. You start to argue. What will you do?
Win lose solution : ..................................................................................................
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Lose lose solution: ...................................................................................................
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Win win solution .....................................................................................................
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Q.3 You want to get an x box because lots of your other friends have one but your parent won’t allow you to.
What will you do?
Win lose solution : ..................................................................................................
Lose lose solution: ...................................................................................................
Win win solution .....................................................................................................
If you Finish Make up your own situations and solutions in your PSHE book