To speak effectively: Be calm and honest. Speak for yourself. Be brief and to the point. Be positive. Use appropriate language. Avoid extremes. Address behaviors, not your theories about the behaviors. Stay aware of your body language. Be responsible for making sure the listener hears and understands you. Copyright © Notice: The materials are copyrighted © and trademarked ™ as the property of The Curriculum Center for Family and Consumer Sciences, Texas Tech University. To listen effectively: Be attentive. Focus entirely on the speaker and forget about yourself. Show your interest. Indicate that you hear, understand, and care. Ask questions. Clarify content and meaning. Reflect back what you hear. Repeat the speaker’s own words. Copyright © Notice: The materials are copyrighted © and trademarked ™ as the property of The Curriculum Center for Family and Consumer Sciences, Texas Tech University. To write effectively: Plan ahead. Be logical; each sentence should be meaningful. Be organized. Use appropriate words and terms for the situation. Use simple words. Use action verbs. Proofread. Copyright © Notice: The materials are copyrighted © and trademarked ™ as the property of The Curriculum Center for Family and Consumer Sciences, Texas Tech University. To read effectively: Skim the article or item first. Take notes. Ask yourself about the information as you read. Summarize the main points. Copyright © Notice: The materials are copyrighted © and trademarked ™ as the property of The Curriculum Center for Family and Consumer Sciences, Texas Tech University.