Relational Dynamics
Attraction
Similarity
Complementary
Reciprocal
Attraction
Competence
Disclosure
Proximity
Intimacy
Dimensions:
Physical
Intellectual
Emotional
Shared Activities
Developmental Models
Integrating/Bonding
Intensifying
Initiating
Experimenting
Differentiating
Circumscribing
Stagnating
Avoiding
Terminating
Self Disclosure
Occurs in Dyads
Occurs in Increments
Few involve high levels
Relatively scarce
Occurs in positive
relationships
Reasons for
Self Disclosure
Catharsis
Reciprocity
Self Clarification
Self Validation
Reasons for
Self Disclosure
Identity Management
Relationship maintenance
Social Control
Manipulation
I. Friends
A. Three Types
1. reciprocity = based
on equality
2. receptivity =
imbalance of giving
and receiving
3. association = cordial,
but not intense
B. Needs of Friendships
C. Stages of Development
1. initial contact &
acquaintanceship
2. causal friendship
3. close & intimate
4. cultural differences
5. gender differences
6. love & communication
II. Lovers
A. Types of Love
1. Eros = beauty &
sexuality, sudden &
dramtic
2. Ludus = a fun game,
playful
3. Storge = companionship
that lacks passion &
intensity, friendly
4. Pragma = practical &
traditional (rarely
deteriorate)
5. Mania =Extreme,
Obsessive, Passionate
6. Agape = compassionate &
selfless
Communication
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Show Respect
Don’t sweat the small
stuff
It is a package deal
Make daily choices to
enhance intimacy