Family Matters ___________________( ) ________ 1 ______DD____MM____YY Family Matters Family Matters ___________________( ) ________ Part 1 Family 2 ______DD____MM____YY Family Matters ___________________( ) ________ 3 ______DD____MM____YY Introduction Why do we study “family”? In “Integrated Humanities”, we study ‘people’ as groups. Family is the social group with the longest history in the world. Family is important because it is the basic unit of society. It is where we learn to become members of a society. develop and grow. In the family, we Family Matters ___________________( ) ________ 4 ______DD____MM____YY What is a family? a. Match the words with the statements. A family (家庭) a person or a number of persons sharing a living space A household (住戶) a building that houses one or a number of families A home (家居) a group of people who are especially related to each other as parents and children A house (房屋) b. a place where the family lives An advertisement for Country Garden (碧桂園) claimed that it could give you a five-star family (給您一個五星級的家). Look at the word “family”. Do you think it is the right word here? If not, can you find a better word to replace it? (no definitive answers) - Students should be able to mention that a family means a group of people but not a place. - Suggested better word: home Family Matters ___________________( ) ________ 5 ______DD____MM____YY Family Size 1. Take a hand count to find out the family sizes of your classmates. Please fill in the following table. Family size Number of families Family with 1 child Family with 2 children Family with 3 children Family with 4 children Family with 5-6 children Family with more than 6 children 2. What family size do most of your classmates have? (Depending on answers to Q.1) 3. Is your father or mother the only child in his or her family? 4. (Depending on individual cases) Take a hand count to find out the family sizes of your classmates’ parents. Please fill in the following table. Family size Family with 1 child Family with 2 children Family with 3 children Family with 4 children Family with 5 children Family with 6 children Family with 7 children Family with 8 children Family with 9 children Family with 10 or more than 10 children Number of families Family Matters ___________________( 5. ) ________ 6 ______DD____MM____YY What family size do most of your classmates’ parents have? (Depending on answers to Q.4) 6. Compare your answer to Q.5 with that to Q.2. Do you find a big difference? Can you suggest some reasons for the difference? Yes - young couples prefer the freedom of a small family size - high costs in raising children in Hong Kong - women with better education tend to have late marriages in order to develop their career - the prevalence of family planning - low infant mortality rate due to improved medical services and hygiene - low infant mortality rate reduces the risk in having fewer children Family Matters ___________________( ) ________ 7 ______DD____MM____YY Group discussion Fill in the following table during your group discussion. Family size Family with 1 child Good things about living in a family of this size - Bad things about living in a family of this size more parental attention less financial burden well planned upbringing for the child - Family with 2 - children - Families with 3 – 4 children - Families with more children learn to share with others children learn how to communicate emotional support from siblings children have greater social capital sharing of family responsibilities - than 4 children Family with children and grandparents - grandparents take care of the children valuable experience of the elderly passing on of family culture and tradition Put a for the one you want to live in parental over-care (no standard parental high expectation of answers) the child strict discipline imposed on the child difficult for child to develop interpersonal skill lack of peer support for the child quarrels between children (no standard competition for parental answers) attention parents pitch one child against (no standard another answers) diluton of parental care less financial support for each child age gap between elder and younger siblings (no standard heavy financial burden on the answers) family different values among (no standard generations create conflict answers) about children’s education over-care strict discipline Family Matters ___________________( ) ________ 8 ______DD____MM____YY Answer the following questions. 1. As a child, what family size do you prefer? Why? (no standard answers) - Students should be able to state the advantages their choice can bring to the family 2. If you were a parent, what family size would you prefer? Why? (no standard answers) - Students should be able to state the advantages their choice can bring to the family What have you learned? You are able to 1. 2. understand the meaning of the word "family"; explain why the size of family changes over the years. Family Matters ___________________( ) ________ Part 2 Family Types 9 ______DD____MM____YY MK_Our home and family_Family issues 10 ___________________( ) ________ 10 ______DD____MM____YY Introduction Family is the social group with the longest history. The size of family changes over time, and so do its composition. In recent years, new types of family have emerged. Some common family types in Hong Kong 1. A nuclear family usually consists of a married couple (i.e. husband and wife) and their children, including adopted children, if any. 2. A single-parent family is another form of nuclear family. It consists of one parent and his or her children. MK_Our home and family_Family issues 11 ___________________( 3. ) ________ 11 ______DD____MM____YY An extended family is an expansion of the nuclear family. There are several generations and they all live together in one household. In China, an extended family usually consists of the male head of the household, his unmarried daughters, his sons and their families, his grandsons’ families, and so forth. MK_Our home and family_Family issues 12 ___________________( ) ________ 12 ______DD____MM____YY Head of household son daughter -in-law son son granddaughter grandson daughter -in-law granddaughter -in-law daughter -in-law daughter (unmarried) daughter (unmarried) MK_Our home and family_Family issues 13 ___________________( ) ________ 13 ______DD____MM____YY Hong Kong in 1985 Distribution of different family types: Family Types Percentage Nuclear family 77.6 Extended family 14.3 Single-parent family 7.0 Others 1.1 Total 100.0 (* From a study conducted by the Tsuen Wan District Board in 1985.) 1. Which family type enjoys the highest percentage, the nuclear family or the extended family? - Nuclear family 2. Can you explain why? Economical reasons: - Hong Kong flats are too small and expensive for multi-generation households. - High cost of living in Hong Kong makes small family size economically necessary. Social reasons: - Young couples want to enjoy the freedom of living away from their parents - People like to live close to their jobs and schools even if they have to live far away from the older generation - Late marriages of better-educated women, who want to develop their career, result in fewer children in a family MK_Our home and family_Family issues 14 ___________________( ) ________ 14 ______DD____MM____YY New Types of family organizations Test-tube babies The development of science and technology makes “test-tube babies” possible. A surrogate mother (代母) is a woman who carries and gives birth to a child for another woman. The latter is responsible for bringing up the child, so she is the social mother. The genes (遺傳基 因) of the child may be provided by the father and the social mother or another female. Families of people with the same sex In some countries, two persons of the same sex can form a family and enjoy the same legal rights as other types of families. They could even have their own children. a. Do you think the following can be called a family? Father Man Man No Man Man (with surrogate father) Man Woman Mother Woman No Woman Woman (with surrogate mother) Woman Son/daughter No Son/daughter Son/daughter Son/daughter Yes/No Son/daughter (no standard answers) Man Woman No No (no standard answers) (no standard answers) (no standard answers) (no standard answers) (no standard answers) (no standard answers) MK_Our home and family_Family issues 15 ___________________( b. ) ________ 15 ______DD____MM____YY Some people think that people of the same sex cannot form a family. Do you agree? Why? Factors to be considered: - freedom of people to make his/her personal choices - degree of acceptance of homosexual marriage in our society - traditional moral views towards such behavior in Chinese dominant society - legal status of homosexual marriages - how children of such family will fare in the future * Teachers should ask students to discuss the issue with an open mind. c. Is a child a must for a family? No d. What type of family can bring the most happiness to family members? Give reasons. (no standard answers) - Students should realize that there is no direct relationship between family types and family happiness. - Relationship is an essential element for happiness. e. In your view, what are the most important element(s) making up a family? (no standard answers) - Students should note that families vary with time. There is no definitive element in the make-up of a family. MK_Our home and family_Family issues 16 ___________________( ) ________ What have you learnt? You are able to 1. distinguish between different family types; 2. realize that new family types may emerge. 16 ______DD____MM____YY