Helping Children Get Where They Need to Be Dr. Connie Jo Smith, CCR&R Director “If you don’t know where you are going, any road will get you there.” - Lewis Carroll The first step for helping a child grow and develop to the best of his/her ability is for the adults supporting her to understand child development milestones. Knowing what children typically are able to do at what ages, lets you know what to watch for and how to plan the environment and activities to meet their needs. Understanding typical development helps adults have reasonable expectations for children so that activities are not too easy, nor too hard. Most of us know that a one-month-old baby should not be expected to walk! But do you know when children typically begin to walk? Do you know at what age a baby generally makes sounds like “mama?” Do you know how many words a two-year-old usually speaks or how fast they learn words? Do you know at what age a child typically can walk up and down steps with alternating feet, or hop, or skip or say all of the speech sounds correctly? Knowing these developmental milestones can help you know how to observe to see if a child seems to be on target or not. Of course, some children develop slower than others even when they have no disabilities or delays. But if development does not seem to be typical, the sooner a child can be tested for a potential disability or delay, the faster special help can be provided. Child care providers and teachers can work with parents or guardians to utilize First Steps or Public Schools to obtain needed assessments when a disability or delay is suspected. Watching children and comparing their actions to developmental milestones in all domains (language, social-emotional, physical, and cognitive or intellectual) can help you plan daily activities. For example, once you know that at three years a typically developing child should be able to walk up and down steps using alternating feet, you can look to see if they are able to do this. Then be sure to provide the opportunity for them to go up and down steps so they can get the hang of it. Sometimes classrooms do not have steps so you may have to go for short walks in the building or outside. Gross motor or playground equipment may also be used for this purpose. Working with parents and guardians to provide practice beyond the classroom is also important. 117 Jones Jaggers Hall 1906 College Heights Blvd #11098 Bowling Green, KY 42101-1098 270-745-2216 or 800-621-5908 Fax: 270-745-7089 Email: ccrr.expert@wku.edu Web: http://www.wku.edu/ccrr-wku/ Another example is helping a two-year-old build their vocabulary. Keep count of a child’s words and see if they use 100. Try using new words with them every day. Say the words over and over – maybe rhyme them with other words, sing the new words, show pictures of the new words, and have fun with them. Count the words again in a few weeks and see if the vocabulary of the child has increased. There are dozens of ways to help children learn those things that they are ready to learn, without pressuring them to learn things for which they are not quite ready. Observation of children, with developmental milestone handouts and checklists, will lead to planning meaningful (and fun) activities that are appropriate for each child. Try your hand at a free online assessment, Ready to Read for 4 Year Olds. It includes 20 questions that the child answers while you work through computer screens with an easy click. http://school.familyeducation.com/reading/early-learning/46528.html. Taken from “The Child Care Professional” The Newsletter of the Child Care Resource and Referral at Western Kentucky University (October, 2008) Volume XV, Number 10 Copyright © 2009 WKU Child Care Resource and Referral Funded in part by the Kentucky Cabinet for Health and Family Services through the University of Kentucky Research Foundation. Equal Education and Employment Opportunities. 117 Jones Jaggers Hall 1906 College Heights Blvd #11098 Bowling Green, KY 42101-1098 270-745-2216 or 800-621-5908 Fax: 270-745-7089 Email: ccrr.expert@wku.edu Web: http://www.wku.edu/ccrr-wku/