On Campus Resources... University Sexual Misconduct Advocate, 570-336-4994, 24/7 Women’s Resource Center 570-389-5283 Student Health Center, 570-389-3417 If someone you know has Get Involved: been assaulted: Listen. Be there. Don’t be judgmental. Be patient. Remember, it will take your friend some time to deal with the crime. Dean of Students Office, 570-389-4734 Center for Counseling & Human Development, Confidential Resource, 570-389-4255 takes away an individual’s power, it is important not to compound this experience by putting pressure on your University Police, 570-389-4168 friend or family member to do things that Off Campus Resources... IT STARTS WITH YOU! Become knowledgeable about the issue and share your knowledge with others. Volunteer at the Campus Women’s Resource Center or the town Women’s Center Inc. Encourage your friend to report the campus police 570-389-4168). If your friend has questions about the criminal For Further details about Sexual Misconduct matters at Bloomsburg University please refer to the website at: justice process, talking with someone on the National Sexual Assault Hotline, 1-800 Geisinger Medical Center, Danville 570-271-6211 -656-HOPE can help. Columbia Montour Family Health 570-387-0236 If your friend is willing to seek medical attention or report the assault, offer to Planned Parenthood, Wilkes Barre 570-824-8921 accompany him or her wherever they need to go (hospital, police station, campus se- Victims Compensation Assistance Program 800-233-2339 or 717-783-5153 curity, etc.) Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape Hotline: 888-772-7227 defined assaults. assault to law enforcement (call 911 or Geisinger-Bloomsburg Hospital 570-387-2111, Hours: 24/7 For details and locations please see the website: www.bloomu.edu/sexual-assault- decrease the number of sexual he or she is not ready to do yet. Town of Bloomsburg Police Department 570-784-4155, Emergency Phone: 911 Rape Abuse and Incest National Network (RAINN) 800-656-4673 selves and others, we can help to member. Sexual assault is a crime that Office of Social Equity, Waller, 570-389-4553 The Women's Center, Inc. 570-784-6631, 24 Hour Hotline 800-544-8293 or 570-784-6631 Help to empower your friend or family By speaking out and educating our- Encourage him or her to contact the campus advocate, but realize that only your Bloomsburg University Sexual Misconduct Prevention Guide friend can make the decision to get help. www.bloomu.edu/sexual-assault-defined What is sexual assault? Reporting Sexual Assault Support Resources Preventing Sexual Assault Anonymous Report Form Title IX Student Sexual Misconduct Policy On Campus Resources While you can never completely protect yourself from sexual assault, there are some things you can do to help reduce your risk of being assaulted. Avoiding Dangerous Situations: If Someone Is Pressuring You: Remember that being in this situation is where you are and who is around you may help wrong, it is the person who is making you un- you to find a way to get out of a bad situation. talking, dancing, using the restroom, or making While individuals of both genders are perpetrators a phone call. If you’ve left your drink alone, just of sexual assault, the majority of those who commit get a new one. sexual assaults are men. Even so, it is important to Don't accept drinks from people you don't remember that the vast majority of men are not know or trust. If you choose to accept a drink, rapists. go with the person to the bar to order it, watch it There are many things men (and women) can do to being poured, and carry it yourself. At parties, help prevent sexual violence. don’t drink from the punch bowls or other large, If you see someone in danger of being common open containers (for example Jungle assaulted: Have a code word with your friends or tion feels unsafe or uncomfortable, it probably Juice). family so that if you don’t feel comfortable you isn’t the best place to be. Step in and offer assistance. Ask if the per- Watch out for your friends, and vice son needs help. NOTE: Before stepping in, Make sure your cell phone is with you versa. If a friend seems out of it, is way too and charged. make sure to evaluate the risk. If it means intoxicated for the amount of alcohol they’ve Don't allow yourself to be isolated with had, or is acting out of character, get him or her make up an excuse for you to leave. someone you don’t trust or someone you don’t to a safe place immediately. Lie. If you don’t want to hurt the person’s feel- know. can call them and communicate your discomfort without the person you are with knowing. Your friends or family can then come to get you or putting yourself in danger, call 911 instead. Don’t leave. If you remain at the scene and are a witness, the perpetrator is less likely If you suspect you or a friend has been to do anything. Avoid putting music headphones in both drugged, contact law enforcement leave than to stay and be uncomfortable, scared, ears so that you can be more aware of your immediately (local authorities can be or worse. Some excuses you could use are: need- surroundings, especially if you are walking reached by calling 911 in most areas of the that you do not approve of what s/he is ing to take care of a friend or family member, alone. U.S.). Be explicit with doctors so they can give doing. Ask him or her to leave the potential you the correct tests (you will need a urine test victim alone. ings it is better to lie and make up a reason to not feeling well, having somewhere else that you need to be, etc. drinking, you can say that you would rather wait until you both have your full judgment before doing anything you may regret later. and possibly others). The majority of the tips and content in this pamphlet were provided by: friends. Arrive together, check in with each find a way out of a bad situation. Have a buddy system. Don’t be afraid to let a friend know if you are worried about her Trust your instincts. If you feel unsafe in or his safety. any situation, go with your gut. If you see something suspicious, contact law enforcement immediately (911). When you go to a party, go with a group of other frequently and leave together. you are and who is around you may help you to If you know the perpetrator, tell him or her Be an ally: evening, and leave together. Knowing where might be able to help you? Is there an emergen- If you and/or the other person have been When you go to a social gathering, go check in with each other throughout the doors? Windows? Are there people around who cy phone nearby? In A Social Situation: with a group of friends. Arrive together, Try to think of an escape route. How would you try to get out of the room? Where are the Walk with purpose. Even if you don’t know What Can Men Do? Don't leave your drink unattended while Trust your instincts. If a situation or loca- right to you and what you are comfortable with. where you are going, act like you do. is always a good enough reason. Do what feels Try to avoid isolated areas. It is more difficult to get help if no one is around. Be true to yourself. Don't feel obligated to do anything you don't want to do. "I don't want to" Be aware of your surroundings. Knowing not your fault. You did not do anything comfortable that is to blame. The nation’s largest sexual-assault organization. If you see someone who is intoxicated, offer to call him or her a ride home.