November Issue Campus Wellness at Pacific University Sex, Drugs and Alcohol WHAT IS HAPPENING THIS MONTH Nov. 4: 8:00 Stress Relief Workshop Nov. 13: WELLY VIDEO SUBMISSIONS DUE TO CAMPUS WELLNESS (e-mail to wellness@pacificu.edu) Nov. 24: Campus Wellness Thanksgiving Potluck SOCIAL HEALTH AND WELLNESS 255 Registration for Spring 2016 is here and you can register for this course being held on MWF 10:30-11:35. This course introduces students to a variety of wellness topics related to health education, including: alcohol and other drugs, healthy relationship promotion, sexual and relationship violence prevention, stress management, and other relevant health issues. Further, this course prepares the student for an active role as a peer health educator through developing knowledge and skills requisite to providing individual and community-based peer health education, fostering a healthy campus culture, and empowering positive change. INSIDE THIS ISSUE Safe Drinking Tips .. 2 Safe Drinking Tips .. 3 Dangerous Drinking Signs & How to Respond ................. 4 Know the Law ......... 5 Party Tips ................ 6 Party Tips ................ 7 Alcohol and Sex ...... 8 Break the Stress ...... 9 Look Back…………..10 SAFE DRINKING TIPS: 1) Eat First. If you eat a big m eal of fr ied chicken or pizza before you drink, the alcohol will be absorbed slowly, your BAC (blood alcohol content) will remain low, and you will not become intoxicated quickly. Drinking on an empty stomach will make BAC rise very quickly and you may well pass out or suffer a blackout. And what is the fun of a party which you cannot even remember? Note: eating after you have drunk has little or no effect. 2) Be well hydrated. M ake cer tain th at you dr in k plen ty of water before you start drinking any alcohol. Alcohol is a diuretic and it will cause you to become dehydrated. The more alcohol you drink, the thirstier you feel. Having plenty of water in your system will keep you from feeling thirsty and you will drink more slowly. Drinking slowly is the best way to enjoy alcohol and avoid blacking out or passing out. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), which conducts the annual National Survey on Drug Use and Health (NSDUH), defines binge drinking as drinking 5 or more alcoholic drinks on the same occasion on at least 1 day in the past 30 days. 2 3) Plan your transportation. Never dr ive to a dr in kin g event. The most sensible thing is to leave your car keys at home. Walking or using public transportation is the most sensible thing. If you drink at a friend's house you may even arrange to sleep over and leave when you are sober in the morning. Do not drink on impulse when your only means of getting home is driving. If you plan to ride use public transportation it is a good idea to travel with a friend for added safety. 4) Travel in pairs. It is alw ays a good idea to have a good friend at your side when you participate in a drinking event. 5) Schedule your drinking. P lan to abstain fr om alco hol when you have important things to do the next day. The party is not worth blowing your final exam. Too many drinking days in the semester can take away valuable time needed for school works--so planning and scheduling your drinking days is an important priority. 6) Choose Your Drink. If you ten d to get in toxicated easily then you might want to be very careful about what you choose to drink. Stay away from the shots--stick with beer or wine. Jello shots have a danger of going down too quickly and can lead to blackouts and nasty bouts of vomiting. Beer bongs are another good thing to avoid as they make people drink too fast. Drinks made with diet soda are absorbed more quickly than those made with regular soda. The whole idea is to slow down the pace of the drinking and enjoy it--not to black out, pass out, or vomit. Some people even add ice to their white wine to slow them down. Which leads us to the next point: SAFE DRINKING TIPS CONTINUED 7) Alternate Drinks. Alter n atin g alco holic dr in ks w ith n on -alcoholic drinks can do a lot to help slow down the rate of your alcohol consumption. Follow a real beer with an NA beer then a real one then an NA and so on. Or order a glass of water with your glass of wine and sip from both. In between each rum and coke drink a plain coke. Slow down and enjoy more. 8) Don't Drink Your Age. A n ew fad has em er ged at bir thday par ties--drinking one shot for each year of your life. This can be fatal. Drinking a large number of shots in rapid succession can lead to alcohol poisoning. Don't try drinking your age--slow down and enjoy the alcohol. Don't ask your friends to drink their age either. Giving someone a case of alcohol poisoning is definitely bad form even if they survive. It can be criminal if they don't. 9) Coffee won't sober you up. The id ea that co ffee w ill sober you up is pure myth. The body metabolizes approximately one standard drink per hour until the alcohol is out of your system. Drinking coffee may make you more wakeful--but it will not make you fit to drive. The only thing that will sober you up is time. 10) Drinking At Home. Dr in kin g at hom e w ith your r oom m ates o r friends you have invited over avoids the pitfalls of going out. Just be careful that it does not become a habit which interferes with schoolwork. If you drink at home be extra careful to schedule it in well. 11) Take Your Vitamins. Alcohol depletes vitam in s fr o m your system--particularly B1. If you drink then it is a good idea to take your vitamins every day. A lack of B1 can lead to all sorts of unpleasant things including beriberi and neural degeneration. 12) Get Support. P eer pr essur e to par ty hear ty all the tim e can be a lot to deal with, but if you can find a like-minded friend to support you in safe and sane drinking by all means do so. If you need more support than you can find immediately around you, Campus Wellness, who can provide such support. http://www.hamsnetwork.org/students/ If you are unsure if you have a problem and are not ready to talk to someone about your concerns take these surveys: AlcoholScreening.org DrugScreening.org If you have questions email wellness@pacificu.edu or call: 503-352-CARE 3 WHAT DANGEROUS DRINKING LOOKS LIKE: Cold, clammy, pale or bluish skin: hypothermia Vomiting while “sleeping” and not waking Unconscious or semiconscious and cannot be awakened Irregular breathing If you need help after noticing dangerous drinking contact your RA or CPS: Campus Public Safety: (503) 352-2230 RA South Side: (971) 275-2027 RA North Side: (971) 275-2058 If you don’t want to drink alcohol but still want a drink try some fun mocktail recipes: Sparkling Pineapple: Ingredients: 1 cup Sprite 1/2 cup pineapple juice 2 tbsp. Grenadine syrup Ice cubes Methods: Put ice cubes in glass then pour in this order: pineapple juice, Sprite, then Grenadine syrup. And Enjoy! 4 WHAT TO DO IF YOU NOTICE DANGEROUS DRINKING: If someone passes out, roll him/her onto their side with their knees bent to prevent choking in case they vomit, and monitor their breathing to be sure it is normal. Do not leave the person alone! If a person’s breathing is irregular (more than 8 seconds between breaths or 13 or fewer breaths per minute), or they are unresponsive or unable to be awakened, roll him/her onto their side with knees bent and call 9-1-1. If the person is not breathing, immediately after dialing 9-1-1, roll the person on their back and begin C.P.R. http://www.health.msstate.edu/bully_choices/resources/files/ safe_party_tips.pdf KNOW THE LAWS Oregon Laws on providing alcohol to persons under 21… 1. ORS 471.410(2) Furnishing alcohol to a minor No person shall sell, give or make alcohol available to a minor. A parent or legal guardian may provide alcohol to their minor child in a private residence as long as the parent is with the minor child. If you illegally provide alcohol to a minor, or provide alcohol to an adult that you know will make it available to a minor, you will receive a criminal citation. (Class A Misdemeanor) 2. ORS 471.410(3) Controlling an area where minors are permitted to consume alcohol It is illegal for someone exercising control over private real property to allow any person under 21 to consume alcohol on the property in your presence. It is also illegal to allow any person under age 21 to remain on the property if they have consumed alcohol. Private real property may include a hotel room, camp site, or any rented/leased location. The only exception is for your own minor child(ren). If you control an area where minors consume alcohol, you will receive a criminal citation. (Criminal Violation) Don’t mix medication and alcohol! Many prescription and overthe-counter (like antihistamines) medications are not compatible with alcohol. Use extreme caution if you are on any medication and wish to drink. For more information see: http://www.oregon.gov/ olcc/docs/publications/ oregons_alcohol_laws_and_minors.pdf http://www.oregonlaws.org/ors/471.410 5 PARTY PLANNING TIPS Parties can be fun ways to get together with friends. They can also get out of hand really quickly. Here are some tips to hosting a fun, safe, and successful party. 6 Who is invited? Know who you want to come to your party and who is not invited. Also know how many people you invited and expect to attend. Be aware of the fact that your friends might bring other friends. It will be helpful to know how many people can fit in your intended party space safely. An overcrowded space can present a danger to guests. It could also bother your neighbors if the party is spilling out into the yard. If more people come than you expected, know how many are there, who they are, and even how old they are. If guests are making anyone in the party uncomfortable you may need to ask them to leave. Remember that you are responsible for your guests and everything that happens at the party. Themes Do you have a theme in mind? Themes can be a fun way to get people to dress up and be more involved. They can also make it easier to plan the party. All the decorations and music can follow this theme. Know that the kind of music you have at your party sets the mood and atmosphere. If you have loud, thumping music your guests are more likely to be rowdy and loud. Will There Be Alcohol? This is why knowing how old your guests are is important. If you plan on having any friends over who are under 21 years old, there should not be alcohol at the party. If guests bring alcohol to a party with people under 21 and they are caught; everyone at the party is at fault. Encourage people to be responsible! Keep an eye out for anyone who might have had too much to drink. Be the one that hands them a glass of water instead of another alcoholic beverage. If anyone is showing signs of alcohol poisoning get help immediately. Everyone’s health and safety is more important than getting in trouble. Where Will You Have the Party? No matter where you have your party, it is important to think about the people who might be affected by it. Notifying neighbors in advance that you have plans and giving them your number is a good way to let them be prepared, and to contact you if they need to. This way, they can call you instead of the police about a complaint. Notifying any roommates you have is also just as important. Make sure all of your roommates are okay with you throwing a party in your shared space. If they are interested, involve them in the planning so they feel informed on what is going on. If you have the party on campus it is very important to contain your party to the space. Be aware of how many people are allowed to be in the room, and do not invite more than that. Also be aware of the quiet hours (SundayThursday 10:00pm-7:00am, Friday-Saturday 12:00am-8:00am) and make sure your guests understand that at these times the noise levels need to be lowered. Always have Alternative Food and Drinks If you are going to have alcohol, make sure there are alternative drinks and snacks. Not everyone who attends may want to drink and having other beverages gives them options. Fun drinks could include sodas with flavored syrups like a Roy Rogers (Coca Cola and Cherry Syrup) or a Shirley Temple (Sprite and Cherry Syrup). Giving people other options also makes them feel less pressured to drink if they do not want to. Always have water available: especially if there is alcohol at the party. Plan Your Party Know exactly how long you want it to last and stick with it. Inform your guests of this timeline so it isn’t hard to finish the party at the end of the night. It is also beneficial to have a general plan for what you want to happen at our party. Some time may be set aside for socializing, some for playing a few games, and some for watching a movie. Have an idea of what you want to happen. Parties without plans often fall apart. Depending on your intended mood and activities, it would be good to move breakable items away from where guests will be. If the party is crowded it is easy for thinks to fall and break. Keep your party contained. Do not let people hang out outside and in front of your intended location. If you are hosting a party out of your house you can attract a lot of negative attention. Neighbors will be more likely to call the police, even when nothing is wrong. If a complaint is made about your party the police can come and disperse it; even if no one was drinking. Safety Tips Have emergency numbers readily available in case anything happens. Look out for alcohol poisoning if there is alcohol. Don’t let guests who have been drinking drive after your party. Help them arrange for a ride home. If you feel comfortable, let them sleep at your house until morning. After the Party It is good to clean up soon after the party. Make sure not to leave remnants in your yard. It is also nice to follow up with your guests, make sure they got home safely, and thank them for coming. Go to your neighbors and thank them. If anything about your party bothered them openly listen to their concerns and/or advice. This could help you to have better parties in the future that do not negatively affect your surrounding neighbors. 7 “Drug-facilitated sexual assault occurs when alcohol or drugs are used to compromise an individual’s ability to consent to sexual activity” (RAINN) “Alcohol is the most commonly used substance in drugfacilitated sexual assault.” (RAINN) “Nearly 500,000 incidents between intimates involve offenders who have been drinking” (NCAAD) “75% of all acquaintance rapes involve alcohol and/or drugs” (FRIS) “2/3 of victims who were attacked by an intimate partner (including a current or former spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend) reported that alcohol had been involved.” (NCAAD) 8 ALCOHOL AND SEX Assault: Mor e than 690,000 students between the ages of 18 and 24 are assaulted by another student who has been drinking. Sexual Abuse: More than 97,000 students between the ages of 18 and 24 are victims of alcoholrelated sexual assault or date rape. ALCOHOL IMPAIRS YOUR ABILITY TO GET CONSENT “Some victims blame themselves for drinking too much at a party or putting themselves in a potentially dangerous situation. It’s important to remember that if a sexual assault occurs under these circumstances, IT IS STILL NOT YOUR FAULT. The blame falls on the perpetrator who took advantage of you.” (RAINN) If you drink and are planning on having sex remember consent is: VERBAL, CONTINUOUS, NON-COERCED, MUTUAL, and VOLUNTARY Being drunk or “blacked out” is not an excuse to commit a sexual assault. Under Pacific’s consent policy if a person is intoxicated they cannot give consent: http://www.pacificu.edu/ about-us/offices/student-conduct/student-handbook/sexualmisconduct-policy BOXER BREATHERS The Student Counseling Center wants to welcome you to join us at Boxer Breather a weekly drop-in group to help students learn new skills, strategies, and ideas to increase your ability to cope with stress and to improve your overall wellness. We will be at UC Boxer Pause every Wednesday from 2-3 to teach new skills, and you can attend as often or as little as you want. Look forward to seeing you there! BODY IMAGE About 91% of women feel unhappy with their bodies and resort to dieting to reach their ideal body and 58% of college-aged girls feel pressure to be a certain weight. For that reason, female students are invited to join the Body Project; a group aimed at helping young women feel better about their bodies. Attend four one-hour classes designed to improve body image. You will also have the opportunity to participate in a research study about the Body Project. The Meetings are Tuesday evenings between October 27th-November 17th For more information, email Campus Wellness at: wellness@pacificu.edu, or Kathleen Converse at kathleenconverse@pacificu.edu 9 WHAT HAPPENED IN OCTOBER? Tabling: Cam pus W ellness tabled to give infor m ation about healthy relationships and warning signs of unhealthy relationships. We also planted red flags along the quad to highlight the warning signs of unhealthy relationships. One Love Workshop: Founded in 2010 to h onor the m em or y of Yeardley Love, One Love works with students to educate, empower, and activate campus communities in a movement to end relationship violence. Check out our red flags of relationship violence in the quad Halloween Booth: Students fish ed for tr eats th at included condoms, tips on safe drinking, definitions of consent and the need for it, and candy Bystander Intervention Workshops: Dance and Ch eer , Softball, Soccer, Swimming, and Volleyball all participated in these workshops this past month. If you want Campus Wellness to come give a presentation to your club/group/team/friends e-mail us at wellness@pacificu.edu to schedule a workshop! Campus Wellness at Pacific University Location: Clark 124 E-mail: wellness@pacificu.edu Phone: 503-352-2273 Student Counseling Center Located next to Bates House Phone: (503)-352-2191.